Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 82 by R’ Eli Stefansky

foreign right now we have a video we have a whole thing going on here we're trying to do daf tough Shin pay Base today so I yawned of itself there's no emails there's no sponsors nothing but because a little little treat we have here a video of the three guys that sponsored for a whole month to make it to man and here they are they are born Hashem inuman it worked you see the noise okay yep you ready here we go okay there ain't no man Michael McDonald Pearl and iron Hersch voice Hashem I've been with you since mcgilla this is my first time doing that consistently ever I have a lot of occurs to play with you I fell into it with my seven year old refused to go to school for weeks and I sat him down to just watch something positive with me um oh no wonder seven year olds want to go to school it was captured what happened to that guy that had two sons there from Los Angeles remember used to come all the time about the Shabbos we'll have to look into him did he go don't tell me he went back to Los Angeles met alley I just had someone from Miami to Medina was captured by this year my good friend Moshe Fleischmann told me about it I want to thank you listen to this I'm reading this because of this I want to thank you for being vulnerable today and sharing your story before asking Michaela that really underscores why I find your torso sweet because you're a man of the people okay I was worried that's basically why I said the story I was going back and forth it makes me look like a shaita but another thing okay people could relate to it you know talking about that story I said when I threw the water the the the the water truck you didn't hear that myself okay everybody iron jump yeah yeah if you didn't hear the story also I want to tell you that my humble opinion or let me think a good morning my boy said ah silly I think it makes such a difference to frame the sheer as something enjoyable it makes such a difference in how it's positioned and I really enjoy it tremendously want to wish you all the brothers health wealth happiness and success and everything you do and I should be able to continue learning with you on May well the best show The Playbook sweet wise and that's it for everybody's side so here we go the coil sponsor for the success of our family that we married to all these crash sector sponsor lineage is for my children Jeff Rosner in schools of myself [Music] if you're not watching you're only watching this he just wrote me right before I came here he wrote me that he pushed cried like crazy during the sanitary gift and his beard is starting to fall out he says if I want to see a picture of it Paul gladly send me one I don't want to see a picture of it not to be sick you don't need to wear those red bracelets you know when it says the lock family is the best Gula better than going to kavarim better going through abundant better than everything I'm telling you is 100 right day Moshe zaret was he here yesterday oh that's embarrassing because I said I don't want to do any sponsors on Rosh Hashanah oh as much as there because okay so we're doing it tonight instead of a Roshan itself before shlema for all them we're first level for all the Indian women first day of Rosh Hashanah here we go so we're in middle of a miser that happened here oh hey where is it can I not have that story okay then we'll do it without the chart on rosh hashan itself I had like pieces of paper I can open these the good olden days so right before you promised that's how we used to do it there's a story here that no I must have this hold on let's see oh here we go yeah this is the story it's a little bit backwards fine what happened was you have Reuben who's married to Rahul and then unfortunately Ruben goes bye-bye and he drops a bunch of cash to the two brothers schimming and Levy well they both have potential with this cash if they perform one of them performs to Rojo or if one of them sends a get to Rocco then they both split the cash but if one of them is all of the cash who typically is the older brother in this case was the lady we found out that Levy is a few years older than shiman obvious factors a few years older than Avi kamianski okay so what happened is a true story in pompadisa shimin decided that he wants half the cash because we're dealing here with a hundred million dollars he's not a friar like they say in Hebrew he wants 50 million he's not going to let his brother hop all the money so what does he do he shows up with a get he's about to toss it to Rahul and by doing so nobody can marry her but they get to split the cash says the brother Levy he's a big cover man from pompadiso and we know we're going to learn that people are big Liars says what are you doing you want cash I'll give you cash don't ruin it for me I want to marry her of course he's lying he says listen don't give her a get I promise you you can trust me I'm your brother I'm giving you 50 million no problem so the guy fell for it Sherman Falls worth and then lady marries her and Simon comes to collect the money he tells women go jump in the lake that was the story says review that he's right you can tell him jump in the lake because Levy has no right to give anything to shiman you gotta hold cup over here we're going through a whole studio that we did right before Roshan Olivia has no right why it's not his yet he didn't marry her how could he give his brother or something that's not his and then rev Yosef proves this from a Bryson what's the Bryson certainly Rises as follows okay here's the prize you have a brother Shimon who borrows money from a brother Reuben you see the two brothers shiman is alive and then unfortunately the malva the lender dies goes bye-bye so that Allah is shimen could say like this if I marry his my sister-in-law Rahul who's married to Reuben then I get all of Reuben's money anyway so why should I take my money that I owe my brother and give it put on the side or whatever it's like putting in one packet taking out of the other pocket all of Ruben's money is going to be mine anyway so I don't have to do anything with it it's no this is the Bryson no you have to buy a field with it and put it on the side so that it could be a guarantee to Rahul that her late husband Ruben ozer so what do you see from here unbelievable thing you see from here that even money that's in Sherman's pocket where's the money that he borrowed from his brother in his pocket that money that's in his pocket he has to think out of his pocket and buy real estate with it to guarantee her Cuba says the gemara certainly if it's not in his pocket shipment can't do anything with it and he can't give it to his brother you're happier if it's in his pocket we take it out of his pocket and make him buy real estate to guarantee the kusuba that the late brother owes her so certainly if it's not in his pocket it's still in it's the state of the dead man of Reuben Sherman has no right to it we'll take it away from him if he tries to touch it on that thing tomorrow says it's a it's a faulty Bryson don't trust that Bryson that's what we're holding so tomorrow says like um five lines from the bottom of pay ale from the base five lines from the bottom pay Alabama base you got it it's a faulty bracer my timer nothing once it goes through why Elaine my mission what happened there check this out here in this in this chart there's a live in a malva what's a lava he borrowed what cash what's cash metalin movable objects How could a movable object be guaranteed subah is Real Estate so you see it's faulty I'll tell you now do more every majority so I'm going to be deutschack here okay track number one remember because this is this is one track so we're gonna add another track and the commercial doesn't like that two tracks are no good what's the track I'm pushing this Bryce to say it holds like your mayor only with mayor holds that movable objects like cash could be a guaranteed taksuba okay so then why is the price of faulty development who in the world are you why are you coming shinen I owe money to my late brother who are you miss rajo go go to my brother's estate what do you want from me because I owe money to my brother that's why I should give it to you and I should buy real estate for you who are you I don't know you the paper on top Shin pay base unbelievable the first day of hersana is the year that it's going out pay base no she has a very good timer she comes to him for a very strong reason this is check out this chart if the Russia Shiva owes Potato Head money and Potato Head O's the plumber money so why should the receiver pay the Potato Head and the Potato Head then goes and pays the plumber let's go directly from their sushiva to the plumber we did we had the case before that's right but then I had a good um I had a good chart I don't know there's a joke over there but uh I didn't I don't know if I should say the joke because supposedly I'm not joking I'm not joking now three people from Gates had left this year because of that joke yeah but you know what I think we have to weed out the guys here so the joke was like this the guy guy his wife made chomped it's to remember you see you also remembers so remember this case now you're remember this good the guy's wife made him jump so he took the charm and threw it in the toilet she said what are you doing he says why should I eat it and I'm gonna go to the bathroom put it straight into the batter that's what you believe in Austin is why take the two steps go first chunk The Potato Head and potato head to the toilet go straight to the toilet and then may law says the gamara the same thing happens by us check this out shiman owes money to his brother Reuben the brother Reuben owes money to ruffle ah you know what this is wrong I shouldn't have done it like this too bad uh we'll have to fix it later that if I want to be similar to the other chart this red arrow should go from shiman to Rahul so again shame and Osborne Ruben owes money to ruffle so you say why go through the steps Reuben room let's just go straight from shiman to Rojo you see what I'm saying you'll say the red arrow has to go from Avi to ruffle okay fine so don't say again we we said you know why the price is no good because what business does Russell have with shiman well there is a business going on because shiman owes money to ruin it was the money to raffle so it all goes directly the shipment they do have something income why what's up it says somebody who steals he swears that he didn't steal and then he admits that he stole the lockers he has to add another fifth so we learn from here that you can go directly and take the money directly from the guy you don't have to go two steps away Ella Sigmar says since now we're pushing this Bryce at the whole like two farshitas first we said hello Mary we said that goes like a mayor that says even in cash you give him a shot in cash is just said or maybe goes like nothing that she booted the ribness and the famous cancer she believes now it makes a lot of sense when I heard from him he said about this Bryce is no good I had no idea why now I know why it's a very very interesting reason why the reason why is because the only way to make the price work is if I like her mayor and like remnants that's pushing it in the robot on to say that the price was like too far out cheetahs that's pushing it says the gamara's story that we're very familiar with is how we started this year today but it happened in a different city a person unfortunately his brother died at a young age let's say without children his wife his own sister-in-law Falls to him leave him going back to that case here where's that case no it's actually here okay so you have a brother Reuben on top and then this mom is what happened the brother dies and now there's a fight over the money the older brother wants to be the album her and take all the money shiman wants to get half the money so what does he do he tries to ruin it for everybody by giving her a get right because Works Khalid there's no get direct button if you give the Obama get now nobody can marry her dialogue so Levy tells Shimon what what are you doing here say what you want money you know what I'll make a deal with you right now we'll split it up you think I didn't hear about the story that happened but this last year I know exactly what you're trying to do you're trying to lie to me trying to fool me you're trying to calm me down and say are you going to give me money and then as soon as you marry her you're gonna say if I jump in the leg I already know the trick Mama's like to eat Sahara the Italian does the same thing we fall for it once then it comes again a few weeks later and pulls off the same stick again but we fall for it boys no no I'm not gonna do like implementation I'm going to be mizake to you right now you're hell you're gonna get right now um that doesn't work well I think obviously also wrapped him even though Robertson says similar case but not similar at all a guy says you see this cow they'll be yours all you need to do is pull it right now and the 30 days from now will be yours is even if the cows in some Hefner Place nobody owns it's not in somebody's private domain you get to keep the cow why because you made a deal with the guy 30 days earlier no so over here the other made a deal with his brother he's going to give him 50 of the cash why does the work why is it different than a cow it's more very simple it's very different awesome over here I own the cow I can do whatever I want with the cow I can give you the cow right now so if I make a deal with you and I say the cow will be yours in 30 days it works but over here who owns the cash look at the pile of cashier who owns it nobody nobody has this close on the cash until you meet yadimir it's not yours all we have here is zika we have a bond but it's not it doesn't make the cash yours now we have a side problem nothing to do with our Sugi really but another thing it says Robin says in the neighborhood because this was also like honey if I let you pull the cow today and I tell you it'll be yours in 30 days from now it's not your cow so why are you telling me it is your cow location there's two separate stories when I tell you it's your cow starting from now retroactively for now then it works if I don't stick in the word then you're right it doesn't work but regardless it has nothing to do with our sugar of ibom where the of them is looking at a pile of cash but it's not his cash yet until he marries her so he has no right to give it his brother me akshaven not my action it's not his right today so they asked the question for Moolah again let's go back to that story to me even though it's not so good schmuck it's not so appropriate but we started with it and we're gonna go with it you have Bill Gates okay pretend he's Jewish pretend he's a Java he has a hundred and three billion dollars it's just funny to me this is the story he has 103 billion dollars his brother can't wait to find out that he died and therefore hubim Melinda and by doing so what happens he gets 103 billion dollars is one small problem that before Melinda getzerksuba and it's a typical Supa that you know when they got married they were you know in high school they made a typical super how much is a subo nothing three thousand dollars five thousand dollars until she gets herksuba Mr Gates the brother cannot touch 103 billion dollars why because the whole entire 103 bill is Miss Schubert is guaranteed to the 3000 Alex Uber that's how it works ah he should take the he should take five thousand dollars and say you know what let me give you 20. let me give you 50 000 here take it right now doesn't work like that no she's married to him she said no I'll put it on the table says the mishna I'll put in a special closet that only you have access to it no you can't do that because it's gonna create friction between the two of them she's gonna think he wants to divorce her and may look the 103 billion sits there in the bank and he can't touch it now what happens if he goes and he doesn't care about that and he sells off some of the assets Bill Gates's asses he sells his 150 million dollar house over there in Seattle without asking any shyless what's that love buddy he is so now Melinda Gates becomes his wife when she becomes his wife the 103 billion becomes his Mal zero you go back she goes back and takes the house back it's a guarantee to my three thousand dollar super it's not much funny three legs no this is the worst case this case he he wasn't me I've been here yet she's not his wife yet so he really doesn't even have the 103 bill and he went and he sold the house no of course it's nothing right yeah it's nothing I don't understand once I said the first Allah that even if he's married to Melinda he cannot sell anything certainly if he didn't marry Melinda of course he can't sell off the assets it's not his yet you're right if I said the first case I don't need to say the second case Butch named maisemahavu he wasn't saying he didn't say a tremendous Swedish and then Allah it was two questions that came to the best thing was actually two stories that happened there's two gates there's Warren Buffett's wife that came and this Bill Gates wife that came and they both came with different questions one asked the question the other one was me and the other one asked the question so we're just saying over through stories that happened doesn't matter when the brother went and sold in the Hassan nothing happened okay getting used to tomorrow tomorrow's gonna be fast after train if you don't yeah yeah whatever doesn't matter give me a look [Music] that fruit that's attached to a tree it's his the oven gets to keep the fruit this a voice I need a lot of help with although tries to help me out here says why are the fruits that are attached to the tree in the ovens we just said everything all the houses all of Bill Gates's asses everything is sitting there as a guarantee as what's the word not a guarantee there's a better word as a lean it's a lean to the tsuba and believe Creole oh he was asking prenups whatever okay so something more says how could it be his she said over here makes a 180. it's a rear yeah what's in there um tomorrow I'm not going to have this it's so good schmuck okay now Razia just points out that it's very different that we learned the other day that when you have Nixon below a woman who comes in to the marriage with property the husband gets to use the payrolls he gets Paris over here the oven doesn't get pears over here everything is leaned to the ksuba when there's a lean there's a lean it's the opposite says Rashi over here he owns everything he owns the the principal and he owns the produce yet he can't touch it you hear what's going on there the of them cannot touch the produce can't touch the property it's all locked but it's all his whereas what we learned the other day she owns a principal he gets the produce and he could use the produce that's enough Community because there's no lien and over here there's a lien okay uh the mission says that any time we learned extensively anytime a yoga marries the Obama he does ibom she becomes a full-fledged wife what does that means zero that he doesn't do once he marries he gives her a get not only does he give her get but just like a regular wife he could take her back so to point out and here's a Shiloh I I'm Rosh Hashanah I slipped but since I slipped with slip again it's it's a repeat of this year I said I highly recommend that everybody should be mad as if it's in the Torah try it out it works beautiful divorce your wife and the next day ask her if she wants to remarry you fine nobody thought it was funny uh actually people said that if you do that then try to dive in here in the minion because then you're a Hassan and they won't be tackling for like a month straight everybody so well just every day somebody else will get divorced and tell us how it went some wives you'll be surprised won't go back with you so okay so be careful so however just to point out an interesting Allah if you do get divorced from your wife and you remarry her there is no genre of China on that marriage okay how do you know I don't know who's that uh sorry let's go right there we gotta I know I know that you think it's only us five here but there will be base or some thousands of people listening to this year so zero says of course you have to use it get Mao the same uh it shouldn't be enough to give her get a little bit so let's see the puzzle here so it's very interesting possible we're gonna use this pasta because it says that you take her as a wife but then a second later it says and you perform amazing so it's almost like to say that she's not a real wife she's still a yovama and what do you do for your mama so I would think that a get doesn't work for her that it does work that I get is enough says of course he could take the yavama back she's she's not even anymore she's a regular wife so why shouldn't you be able to marry her we just turned to that based on base sponsored in honor of my uncle Rebel Hunter Pressman and as a sauce for your filled with masterbroken you also you gotta be careful with these little shiners video Starker as its host to continue being able to support something else here we're just music as well as to continue being able to support Tyra and to finish ass with rip Ellie okay so now the question is why would I think for a second that you can't take her back sigmas is very simple and it makes a lot of sense the tire said you have the ability even though she's a sister-in-law even though she's an erva like guys on Zoom wow it's amazing how many guys are on zuno not too many 6 30. how many 32 for the second series somebody was upset that Emil Shir zoom in on the screen I don't know why they've said to me gives kazuk that his people his life people it was other people's part they're part of the share I always ask that they should we used to have a screen just for the zoom people okay back in the day when I used to give sheer at home during covet when we couldn't do the Shimmer meal it was just zoom it was just the whole giant scream of Zoom gave a lot of they still give me his Zoom guys okay foreign what's the difference if it's your daughter your mother it's a history the rice it's a rice like all our rice a sister-in-law the tire says in this special case because your brother died without children you marry her okay so it's a one-time thing but once you divorce her she she becomes your sister-in-law again it's a one-time thing they're not there you could marry her and you could be with her many many times thousand times but once you divorce her maybe then you you go back to the original status of being a sister-in on a brother-in-law and you shouldn't be able to marry her come Ash willon that's the because that once you get married to her she's like a regular wife and you take her back but who said who said that you can take her back on that you see the chart over here you don't need to see the chart because yes it's the Obama yes she becomes a regular wife says tomorrow we learned in the mission of region the Suba of this wife of the sivama is from the the state of her late husband it's not from the second guy it's not from the yavam that takes over my timer what's the reason is Hashem said here's your wife he had no choice he didn't go on a it wasn't red it was nothing he was forced to marry her so he's forced to marry why should he have to pay from his pocket five thousand dollars the less law mauritian but if the first guy didn't leave a dime Islam machine then the second guy comes in and he takes over why could they should like take calabrina so that the whole reason of aksuba is that the wife should feel comfortable in the marriage that not any second she's going to burn the food like the mishnah where's that mission I think you burn the food you just divorce your wife without a Suba she doesn't deserve a suit in those days I explained on Rosh Hashanah if you weren't here what's this whole you see from the camera what they're crazy they had such fear that the the husband is going to divorce and and if it's three thousand dollars I know he's not gonna divorce well today we don't have that why not you ever thought about why why don't we have why doesn't my wife have a fear I'm gonna divorce every second you know why things have changed today we have clearing the Arabian government you can't just divorce your wife if you're mad at her you can't just say okay you're divorced and she says I don't want to get divorced she has a say in it just like you do in those days it wasn't like that if he didn't want to be married boom you're gone you burnt my food out of here shalom that's how it works so the she had some security the five thousand dollars and those is five thousand dollars you know a whole salary they're so important so that gave her the security but let me ask you a question what exactly does he gain by saying we said oh the Suba comes from his late brother but at the end of the day he inherits all his late brother's assets so he's going to take from the assets that inherit and giveth her and if he doesn't inherit anything from him because he's uh he had no money when he died she has to take it out of his own pocket so then what did the second brother gain by the fact that it comes from the first brother it always bothered me this question what exactly happens here if he has no money the first guy that you think in the second guy so anyways you even get it and if he has money he's going to inherit all the money he thinks it's one packet to the other pocket at the end of the day the second guy pays like super show me is wrong so Tyson is on that pay out of says the turrets and he says what if the first brother sold off assets before he died then the wife could go after those first assets and not the golden second brother brings this and he says I don't like that turret and he says talking about where the the qasim got lost this is different and say different heroism but there's a good shot in here just so you should know that they talk about it no we said that so we learned in the nishna again we have the case of Bill Gates dies 103 billion dollars so the brother who inherits all the money Bill Gates's money when he's cannot take her super five thousand dollars put on the table and say okay here this money on the side is yours the same thing says the gemara and why that creates Ava remember the loss in arashi it creates hatred forever says Raji if she knows that you want a divorce her she'll never talk to you same things as the mission that don't do it to your own wife forget about it don't do it to a regular wife don't put money on the side and say this is Greek soup what's the big traditional wife that I have a lien on all the properties that I bought beforehand and all the problems I'm going to buy so therefore I can understand that there's a problem here there's some Ava by a regular wife the cost of law he writes you know I am to you I have a lien on everything I own and everything I will own in the future so there's no hatred there she doesn't care she put money on the side over here okay fine she but she's secure hamash Malone even a regular wife will be obsessed Garrison that if you divorce her she can't come after you for anything only herksuba and I'm gonna die from that gearsha in like in other words you can't going back to Bill Gates you cannot touch the 103 billion dollars as long as you're married to her when could you touch it when does the lock become unlocked when you divorce her o commas commercial you know what you know you want if you want to access the 103 billion dollars there's only one way to do it well if you're a Cayenne you make a nice meal try to convince her but if convincing doesn't work you divorce her and then you remarry her back once you're a billionaire she might want to marry you but that's the only answer divorce and take her back so you see rebab in the mission if you take her back as a wife so she's like a regular woman and she only has the original tuba so it works like this Rabbi is that if a person divorces his wife and those are the 200 zoos whatever and whatever action like Suba she takes him to court and he you know he plays the game and he pushes her off and the lawyers and this and it's another year two years three years five years finally and he never paid her dicksula finally you know what after seeing each other so many times and they realized that you should do him they realize you know what she's bad but she's better than all the other he says you know what let's just get married again what super does he have to give her second marriage what does he give her she's a bulla so he gives her 100 zoos what does he give her but he owes her the 200 from the first marriage is he doesn't give her any tsuba she gets the 200 from the first marriage says the gemara Michael Marshall if you divorce your wife and you take her back zero she automatically gets nothing more than the first ksuba maybe that only applies to your own why because you wrote exuber I believe but when it comes to Obama he never wrote aksuba so when who wrote the original husband her late husband so now that he divorced her then he takes her back what soup is there he never wrote her exuba the only super she had was from the original guy so maybe we'll say no maybe he has the writer of nukesuba kamash my lawn no she gets even when he takes her back the second guy takes her back herksuba is from her first husband whatever he wrote her Omar of you though Messiah yeah this is normal in the beginning they used to write topsula 200 without mana mana so there's 200 and 100 that that's that's normal just what what's the conditions that there's no Shiba okay there's no lean well the problem is when there's no lean but how you must kill him women didn't want to marry them you're not gonna you're not gonna guarantee Mike Suba I don't want to marry you so nobody got married so he fixed it he said there is a lien don't worry about it you can marry these men you're gonna have a tsuma okay and we also learned the same exact thing word for word and people women refuse to get married because they didn't have a good guarantee under Superman oh so they came up with a nature here's the money in a in a pile of cash here's your three thousand dollars your five thousand dollars and they gave it and they put it in her father's house it didn't work so well why because once the person spent the money and the money is already out of his pocket he has no loss the whole point is he's gonna have to start scratching for money three thousand he doesn't want to do it but he already took them on Adam's this is five years 20 years ago he lost that money already it's by despair's house so it didn't work so you should know that there are people at the Amazon what do you do with yaksuba interesting thing I was thinking about it I have to I think I have to do a super again why because Mike tsuba is like somewhere in America I think I think you know I never did I never brought it out of my house in Chicago has to be accessible to the wife more than the husband it shouldn't be in the husband's safe and only as the kid she has to have access to not you that's number one these people these xiaomis they supposedly I have to look into it that's what I heard your xiaomi's the the tsuba is by the by the share the wife's parents they take care of the two but I heard a very interesting thing I actually heard I saw it inside that there's those who say there's people have problems with trolling bias uba it's like checking mezuzah maybe the problem maybe this is a problem with the two but maybe it's not written well maybe the woman doesn't have access to it check it because we we learned that you can't live without exuber you need a super okay and then you have this other thing about putting Suba on the wall people like it's a piece of art you hang it it's not it's not appropriate because it's Uber it's saying that if you're divorce you die it's not it's not the right thing to put on the wall that's what they say okay I do I had a nice piece of art tsuba but I I put a false one on my head I signed it and my brother signed it so it's a fake document so we put that on the wall but I don't know put on the walls she has access to it but you also have access right before you exercise then you just hop it off the wall and they run exercising in case of accidentally in case of in case of accident break glass yes okay we said this already so it didn't work so what's this they they changed the tacon instead of it being by her father's house they said Let It Be by his father's house what do you gain by that because now he has a little bit more access to it and he could borrow against it so it's a little bit more favorable to him ashiro is this is very interesting as she rise is up they make baskets made out of gold because they've got such a heavy Cuba they were able to make golden vessels out of it and the eyes I love this one they made a toilet bowl out of it it's hard to understand but that's the Gerson Rashi the maybe recline tysus ignores that he has different gears uh garcina okay fine but still nevertheless he still gets upset at her um so then he says he gets mad at her he says go it's right on the side that's why he came and made the Kana it doesn't help putting by the father's house doesn't help by your own father's house just say that everything you own all real estate and everything is has a lean towards her tsuba and with that we finished the Perez everybody should have a wonderful year