Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 55 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] hey here we go okay i guess we don't go what again you got this gary or nothing huh okay this was on mky i got it from 10 people from mky mekong police troll status i believe it's healed besser status but i got the original from the guy that took it i just sent in a sponsorship for the deaf i wanted to share with you this video so they can get an extra shout out i was in allentown pennsylvania with my family for a night and darwin at congregation sons of israel being that they're in between rabbanim right now they don't have anyone to give the daf share this doesn't stop them after 6 30 a.m chakras a few people sit down together to learn the doubt for the rip stuff they pause in the middle to discuss the questions they have as well as enjoy your jokes i thought this deserves a tremendous shout out the whole ethan holding up the world from allentown pennsylvania rubenfeld here we go okay fine uh has to do with the names of the members now today we're holding the third living life he's living life with his radio his gemara this i was dealing with this the entire morning i hope i am all cried out here's a picture of two children from three days ago the child on the top the younger one they were on a trip a family trip venezuelan trip and the the child he got sick he got a virus they took him to the hospital and he was lifter here's a picture his father sent me this morning the father's had a 30th birthday uh just a month ago and here he is on the left and the father wrote me this text if you don't mind turning it down thank you i can't believe i missed your call rebellion i'm in bed about to go to sleep but just hearing your voicemail has already given me so much i can't thank you enough for your time that you're teaching clarity that you give over you just buried yesterday i started with the vamas as i knew it would be impossible to anyone else have continued each and every day with you you've instilled in me even after this unforeseen tragedy for my family i just want to keep the feeling of being close to kaljabaruhu unfortunately tragedy sometimes brings us closer we have no one else to give us answers so we turn to i know it can can and probably probably will take years if not decades to get an answer i dive in not for why but for the strength to move on thank you for the call and teaching so much clarity to clay israel tani palak so rabbi say if anybody wants to be menachem thani had a back and forth with him a whole i saw his his husband the final thing in necessity said everybody should go grab their child give him an extra hug very emotional stuff mark ashkenazi has his phone number if you mark he's in on all the groups because he learned here in levator and uh remember he's flying into him it's unbelievable unbelievable stuff he lives in new jersey so yeah though all i could say is i can't say anything but to him and his wife i know that all the fellows i know they dive in a lot the last hours all those fields don't go in vain it might not go to what you wanted it to go but it goes somewhere somewhere special and will do what it needs to do on on a different note it says over here akiba wrote to me he sent me this this morning calling out bayakov vader seeking a minion for a mace mitzvah the request was posted on local chats the mdy chats one of the responses that really stood out was that one of the cover was golfing around the corner and if needed he would come in the middle of his golf game and bring two people he's golfing with see attached screenshots of the exchange requested of mdy at its best okay we got a we're learning toyota we gotta get in a better mood so here's the time yourself so it'll take us out of our mood you got some volume for this good morning [Music] nobody wants to laugh i know you speak a lot about actors on a recent hike with my kids i saw real actos that's really boring since cap but you put it on the girl rebelli here's a picture of my son shaya even when spending the day at the beach he takes time out to do the daf you're a real inspiration he hasn't missed the dove since tightness his proud father from london england yeah okay the part of this video on behalf of us and our children it's unbelievable like nobody knows one day it's like this the kid looked mama shelf you know looks 100 percent the regularly said he's a healthy kid he got this pneumonia whatever boom it's unbelievable partners hakoylov for the week laura esther bass protona baton [Music] southern belle wife mother and grandmother rita gapsting fine supplies number two michael bamelo multi pearl and iron hirsch he's probably gonna walk in five minutes right now oh here he is last day here how are you doing wow to make it tomorrow this year [Applause] oh he's back get another breath of your friend valdick you you're not doing the week and a half thing you know yeah you're you're faker number three rob arnold rufus and then it says again esther bass patron beton and then it says that it has to be harry shalom oh happy birthday harry shalom my friend how old is he all right here we go we're holding by branu parrot perk flp by the mishnah abba bishop sula gueva mosai we know that the typical what's instituted by ham is 204 a woman was never married before and 104 in almanac and wrath allah is if he wants to add a filmmaker up to ten thousand it's also okay the more tells us why shouldn't i be able to add miss aramillo in his garage show if the woman lost her husson her husband bamana harrison not the two hundred but the three cephas even the extra she gets to keep rebellious yes if she's married for a moment she gets everything in the tuba mine harrison however if she lost her hussein the harrison sullivan massayam she gets the basic suba of two 200. but not extra why cause the console we have to be uh we have to understand his intent yes it doesn't say beforeish but let's understand this intent because zamar explains we'll have it today um sometimes even though it doesn't say specifically it's not spelled out but everybody understands we what do we understand we understand that he's doing it for his intimacy that he's going to have with her but since he never reached that point so he didn't want to give her all the extra nakasa so he gets to keep it his hairs get to keep review the eye mare and we had this we actually had everything basically but review i have a trick says what's up huh by the way we to not give a tuba everybody agrees that's not going to work that's stop living in sin you can't it's boils it's like but there's a trick you could give a suba and then you take a receipt as if you gave part of the tuba back and that works even though you didn't give anything back but on paper it looks good and it works and she writes back she can't just say with her mouth she has to write it in writing here's a receipt i got half the tsuba in other words she has to leave something over something substantial that's still going to be effective that the the point is that she shouldn't he shouldn't just divorce her and it shouldn't cost somebody it has to cost him something so she leaves over something well i'm on a mono and in the case where the hulk super started out as a hundred says if you do anything less than 200 and a hundred even though you started out with 200 and then she wrote you a receipt for 100. you're living it with average it's it's not proper you can't do it there's no tricks says the gemara or chito somebody wants to add a thousand dollars to the super why shouldn't he be able to add it even maya mana so mayo mana who cares what's the what's the issue to add to aksuba you want to give something extra to your wife says the gemara maybe there's a specific amount and everybody goes with that amount we have to be concerned about other people we have to be considerate so you had a casino and under the hoop and they say oh the huss is giving 10 million dollars to the khala so everything will say oh it's not fair look how much money this guy has okay commencement you could it's time advantage anybody if you want to be moist if you crack okay and russell isaf you know i when i was in the safari i got a lot of positive emails i think i mentioned this thank you for keeping on and keeping up with the daft one guy wrote me an email i didn't read it but he writes what kind of chutz was this you go on a safari and now i have to explain to my kids how come i don't take them on a safari do me a favor stop giving shurim over there you're still hashem what you're doing oh long list so now i think we should go again yeah so here's araya shalom advice is michelle come marshmallow that's not a problem just keep on going imrat's elective no matter what you do you're going to get it from somebody bark hashem was one percent of the emails literally imran's elective law so the gemara makes a deal here i mean the best i was able to come up with is i used to give a share the same daffy i miss you at night the guys in america loved it and then at the end it fizzled away after like a year so when you give i give another share that's a whole different sheer it's not the morning and we're doing the the evening it's a new sheer you can take the morning shear and expand break these walls open and go that way instead of 100 people in the room you'll have 200. that's the same shear but you're adding says the gemara from the fact that the mishnah says it doesn't use the lotion he's not writing a new one he's not writing a new subah he's not doing another share it's the same one ella russell he added to the existing subaru so what do you see if you add to the existing suit what's the difference 14 differences says the gemara there's no shiloh it's in addition to the tsuba it's part of the suva it's one in the same as the two hundred zeus of the xuber el rodzaloys of missiles anything that's in the suba as a condition to the tsuba has the halakha of the actual tsuba nafkimina and what's the difference 14 nafcaminas so this is what we call shaskatan here i did this today we should have done this throughout but here you got a shotgun over here take a look hey this is the shas oh and this is caught them what i mean by that is we're going through many sugars and quickly but just different sugars different ideas different concepts and shafts the first two are easy we don't need to go through them le mancheres if the woman sells her tuba what is she selling everything in it so if he added another two nursing homes in there it's the 200s plus the two nursing homes that's partial if she's michael michael michael she's michael the entire thing lemme read this okay here's chas cotton maria this means a woman who distanced herself from her husband physically she's a miradas no relations we penalize her a dinner a day 17 arm a week a dinner day until she has no more super left that includes also all the extras of the buff the nursing homes we keep on going keep on chopping away dinner day dinner day every day you take off at dinner ulper games pajamas means that if she admits she says you paid me some of the tsuba and he says no i paid you everything so even though she says you paid me part of the tricephalos the extra her hairda was in the extra not in the main part in the tanai part in the extra she still has to make a shiva you think that she only has to make a shivoha if she admits to the main part of the super now even in the this pajamas she how do you say pokemon english she um damage she compares it she impairs the tsuba even in the extra part of the tuba that requires her to get make a schwa this we had yesterday other day if a woman comes forward to bed and says i demand mike tsuba that's it she doesn't get any more misogynist even if she demands the extra of the tuba if she goes off to derek she doesn't get the tsuba and she doesn't get the extra part of the subaru schwarz means that after let's say let's say a guy owns an apartment in pajamas she owned an apartment in the year 2020 in the chemist then it was worth a million shekel and then he uses nifter and then comes 2020 21 and it's worth three million shekel mice and shipping over here it went up double like i don't know at least 50 so she cannot the sherlock has the extra money so she cannot go after that extra profit that that was made on the property you you evaluate the property at the time of the death whatever it's worth and that's all she gets even though it says in suvios are a million dollars well there's only half a million thousand in the inheritance so i later on it was worth more she can't go after that extra and also for the toysephas for the extra in the cuba as well um if she demands the extra she has to make a schwa before we were talking about if she admitted part of the tsuba even she admitted as that she received part of the cephas she still has to make a show over here was saying she demanded in a situation where it requires a schwa every action okay she needs a shoe over here we need a schwa so even if she demands that she's version villa here as you see in meaning if there is a loan yeah mom shot scotland i'm going through all these different sugars if you have a loan you lend somebody money shemitah comes along the end of shemitah so right now we're here in arizo if you lent money to somebody it applies to us also shmita erases the loan so what do you do against that you write something called the cruise bull there are so some people they're right that give money to their friends like 10 shackle and then shemitah comes and it erases the tan shackle and then like this this is has a story where there's a guy who is mahmeer and he gave 50 000 shackles to his friend and schmidt came in and got erased and then his wife found out about it and it comes to brazil stain it's one of these stories that make you think i don't know it did actually whatever okay fine and then and the wife concerns staying and representing said and again maybe it's a mechatros had he known the rage his wife would have maybe he wouldn't have given it and he wanted which is also hard to understand but okay i ain't champ but the bottom line is let's get back to our sugi shmita is meshamet so if there's a heid out there there's a loan it goes away now it's not mishamit oksubo if a husband owes his wife aksuba you can oh but shmita came and i don't owe you anything and it also doesn't apply to the the cephas of liquor schmidt is not mishabites but if you look in rashi here he brings an interesting word just to explain it rashid ramaskar villashvis it's like 10 lines down change reason is subakushar what in the world is rashi saying here there's a concept called and that is that if the wife comes forward to bezel-less and she says the husband paid me a hundred out of two hundred he owes me a hundred when she says those words he owes me a hundred she just flipped the tsuba into a loan she just gave an amount once she gave an amount she's like you fit into a milva into into a alone and alone she meets machamet so she has to be careful not to say anything in the wrong way because once she flips the tsuba into alone it's going to go it's going to fly out with the shemitah okay as long as she didn't do that so shemitah is not meshamit the the sephis billy kaiser called if somebody on his deathbed writes all his belongings to his sons and he sticks in i'll give this little terrible feel that i own in iowa i'm going to give it to my wife and she was quiet she was michael to everything she's my colleague super and she's michael the tracefest soup you you get paid from real estate so too the decephas oh min has the buddhists unlike a regular loan you get paid from i'm telling you look at all these allah as we're going through more and more a regular loan get paid from bananas suba minas ziburas from the worst fields you have from the iowa from all the terrible stuff not from manhattan so or bachamesh the championship here is managed the most expensive energy soil right now when high is the the per okay i got it yeah it's right up there with the prices usually okay um okay yeah i know i got i just have to read my little notes here the halls manchester villa so this is a very interesting allah that a woman who's living in her husband's house and she gets missionaries every day she doesn't have to claim roxubo she has 50 70 100 years to claim rexuba but once she moves into her father's house and she doesn't claim her suba for 25 years a new new a new amount 25 years if 25 years passed 25 years in a day passed she didn't collect her subah she loses rexuba there's a guy that found myself he found a receipt from the shoe repair shop and it was from 25 years ago so he takes he wants to see like does the guy have the shoes so he goes he knocks he goes in he says i want my shoes back this guy looks and he goes ah it's not ready yet come back tomorrow but my sis shahaya i was going through some albums in my mother-in-law's house it's also my father-in-law's house i'm going to blame my mother i found a 50 000 check my shahada in one of the albums from 20 years ago sitting there i go i should bring it through he goes oh that's where it was only in my svera's house okay i'm sorry i'm not going to the safari and people don't have those kind of checks laying around in their albums i'm sorry okay don't you don't have to write the email plainly almighty yeah it wasn't mine was the share what is it now i have to explain to my kids how come they don't have a sphere that doesn't have checks like that okay whatever zombie maru sons they get to inherit her ksuba and that husband has another wife and he had sons with that other wife each one the sons they are in their own mother including the three cephas subba okay so we have the 14 things we just went through them there's more says the now we're going to have oh what happened oh sorry jumped it in different now we're going to have four mach like between pumpadisa and mata mahasi that what is bonham different this super that we've just discussed that goes the the the her own sons inheritor the tsuba amri pompades that now if you look over here nick we had this on the base on the base i'm just going to show you what the mission says says the vishnu like lycos have allah communion if he didn't write this is taken out of the mission if a person didn't write the the idea of bottom different inun yarson you should inherit the arson is the lesson of yerusha in in aramaic yerusha yarson now if it's a yerusha what how do we view the extras that are in the sub that go to only to her sons are they a yerusha or are they alone that the husband had from the wife if he took her nursing homes as alone and he's paying you back he's repaying it if it's a loan then he has no right to sell it off if he sells it off they could go and reclaim it but if it's a yerusha then a father could sell whatever he wants up until the moment he dies so he sold it off so they can't go back they can't go to whoever bought it and take it from them why because it says but they say no from they they could go after them why because it says instead of the word yarson it says and yes by means they're gonna they didn't take they're gonna take the money of the tsuba they're gonna take taking means that it's alone the husband it was it was very common that in order to calm the wife down and says look here take this you see the piano here's the whole package this is yours for the super one day you're gonna need it there you'll take from here if they're there everybody knows this is the package and it's in front of us delicious she goes and she takes the piano she takes everything without swearing why because we're not concerned that maybe he gave her a second package nobody gives two packages well here it is that's it les nouvenaires if the piano is gone it was stolen something happened again we're not concerned that maybe he gave a second package so you could go ahead and and claim without ishmael but if he designated her a piece of land and that's the loss you could take payment for the super from this land not today here's the piece of property you're going to go for so barbara mitsurano if it has here here's a picture of a field that has four border lines very very defined if you look in the the back of the picture all the fields are very very uh what's the word you could see exactly clearly defined the market well demarcated okay whatever vibram and surrounding okay now i'm not concerned that maybe gave her a package of metallic on the side no this is the field soma is wrong if it only has one wall with one kind of so you need a schwa that love is like pumbaa no schwa three nothing um let's say for instance rashi says i want to give somebody a gift real estate i want to gift him a building in manhattan so i take adam i say write down a star sign over here and give it to him says the gemara karu mene if they did something like this it's called kenyan sudar you take at every kasana they do it right or depends especially in america i don't know if every i just saw it yesterday when was it two days ago they did it you take a yamaka you take a sudo you have to lift it up and you kind of that's how you do it so over here they have an official one that says kenyan tsuru on it and okay it says okay so if they did what selling the comments that's what they're doing okay selling the so if there was an actual kenyan lloyd sorry why because most of the most kenyan when you do a king like that says rashi you're going to write it down so they're okay now what's the whole debate here what selling comments not selling comments of course he's jewish [Laughter] the rapper received some comments to the guy they could have bought a little guy in there instead i don't know a guy that doesn't have a beard whatever same thing i told you i was when i learned in the mirror i was in an english heiser that's where my dear was so i came outside so this your guy was schmoozing awesome his mother screams at either she thought that we don't i don't send the other even even if you don't understand this you can understand what you're saying that is with the shy goods she's kidding don't talk to the shy against keep them moving okay she day for sure could have sold comments to me you know shyla everything says the gamer why because it's a kenyan and you don't have to ask permission the rich i didn't talk about why do you have to ask me remission he said go write it go sign it go but there's a breakup there's different parts to it so maybe he didn't really want you to give it yet ask permission but like conominae if there's no kenyan soother put with this army said no no need he wants to go ahead even though most kenyan if there's a kenyan it's perceived there's no there's no siva here there's not so you have to go as permission three to one they win one next says that even though a person wrote a whole bunch of stuff in his super to give his collar his future wife but if he dies he never anticipates he's gonna die like that he's a young healthy guy why would he die if he dies he doesn't have to give it all because we understand what he is thought his thought process was beer says we have a mechanic and we don't know who says what and one says that allah is that we go based on his the um on the intent we used intent over here what was his in his mind when he wrote this i can prove we see in a different case there nothing holds this idea of intent [Music] on and the story okay so this is also the indian of um the what no this is it right here you don't have to go uber trumas the the ray is right over here that the is that if somebody says kisw right and it doesn't say the words to give then you don't give there's one exception or maybe two if a person is about to travel in those days imagine i don't know what the percentage is you can imagine it's 50 they go into the ocean they don't come back i don't know what it is i mean there's you're talking about a little raft a little boat made out of wood in 30 foot waves you can imagine so he's going with this fear he doesn't know if he's going to come back alive so he's not thinking about all the details he said right write a get to my wife he doesn't want her to fully evil right again he forgot to say the word new give him a break but that's um that's we have to understand his intent we know he's not messing around a guy on on the verge of his trip sometimes you have a russia he tells his wife he knows how much his wife wants to get divorced so he says write her a get or if i care okay i'm happy okay he wants to scare his wife he says write her again what do you mean so you don't give a guess until he says no when this guy is about to fly away somewhere and he doesn't know if he's going to live or not so he says but also the same thing applies the guy is on his deathbed he says give a get to my wife because i don't want it to fully evolve he doesn't say that but that's what he means so even though he didn't say no give it give it you just finish the sentence you know what he wants so that's intent who says that ribnessen says the hallach is like this we go with his intent he never said nu but that's his intent an hour also his intent was only to get married her if he gets married she'll get three nursing homes they never get married a stickler engagement for that i'm going to give away to three nursing homes no way intent don't get shocked no hey with days not only is it very short rabbi sai it's repetitive so we have to slow down now sponsors in honor of yankee baum and moisha horn h-o-r-n okay this was being able to support them at toyota and to finish learning chats with their belly next huh avik is watching what time is it now okay hi abby this is a very interesting thing no here so we have to go back we're finally going to be talking about truman smite so we're never talking about trump's meister so if a person has a hundred grapes he gives two grapes two percent he gives to the kind straight off the bat now he's left with 98. he gives 10 percent of the 98 to the lady it's called the mycen he gives 9.8 grapes to the lady now the lady takes his 9.8 grapes and gives 10 of what he just received to the cayenne unless he gets one grave so now the kind has three and this lady has like eight lady gets much more than the kind okay so this guy as he's taking out this trimus micer everything falls into the into the into the box again and again now he doesn't know which one is what now is that you could be movato the staff with a hundred but how many does he have he only has 98. he just took off he gave to the cayenne and now he's 98 it's not my battle so now you have a whole mixture that's what is what's going on here now he bought this from do i have the picture i should have a picture he bought this from damaritz now if you're new to this year i'm not going to go tell you the whole story but you should just know that it's spelled like that on purpose and people in new york actually have license plates and not only people in new york but also arabs in the have these license plates but okay fine he's in amaritz they give turmoil some stress but because of the the few that don't said if you buy fruit and vegetables fruit from the maret you should take off now the problem is if he can't do anything now the whole mixture has to be sold to a cayenne guess what the market is fruits and fruits to the kind very very little he's gonna have he's gonna incur a tremendous loss it could be a hundred grapes it could be 100 million grapes it's a big loss so what do you do so you go to the amaretts and you ask him hey did you take trooms and measures and you trust him it's a one-time deal we we're we're this has nothing to do with our suggest this is the continuation of the prize we already brought the raya that rivenasana is the one that uses intent okay ask the gemara [Music] by the way you could also do this halacha on shabbos if you get stuck without troublesome maestros and chavez you go to the ammar to ask him did you take turmeric however as she points out that's only good for shabbos once mostly shabbos hits you must take your tumor some stress you only but in this case it's forever you get a you get a a leniency forever okay asking mario you just told me you have a machine's ravi reminiscent we prove to you that is the one who goes by intent says something sorry says something just with his mouth it's as if it's written in the style now what happened over here listen to this we have a skimmer a guy on his deathbed chicas about kenya he made a kenyan he wrote it he said it doesn't matter but the bottom line is he made a kenyan he's contradicting himself on the one hand he doesn't need a king his words are enough and then he went ahead and made a kenyan what happened you can look at it two ways either he's trying to strengthen what he did i have the oral and i have the kenyan i have the mysore or i'm contradicting myself i'm a whole big contradictory thing and everything is off okay so over here we have macholiques but bae rubbish with the rav army here's ralph archibald trey rickshay it's on two horses otherwise known as two horsepower yeah okay you have two horses here you could go with either one any way you want the the the better of the two us i don't know have a suffix you get the best of both worlds the guy that's receiving this gift harry came out this bori if he was healed with a miraculous name she has stage five cancer and the doctor said that city is one day to live and all of a sudden he comes back she says i only gave you everything because i thought i was not gonna make it but i made it take it back but a bari you give a guy a present you can't be an indian giver you can't say oh give it back never this case because he made a king in he acted as a as a healthy man healthy man it's a good gift you can never take it back even if it gets healthy now to give let's say somebody owes the guy that's dying a million dollars you can't give that over with a kenyan suther so what he does is he says i want it he's using words so now when he uses words so he's acting as a bari because he's using a king and now he's saying within the same sentence he's saying also by the way i want to be a shakib mira i'm not a bari i'm a skimmer i want to use my words so ram says we let him use his words even though he didn't he wasn't specific he didn't say exactly you could take money out based on what we assume he means so once again we're going with assumptions we're going with intent so rav also holds intent why are you telling me that it's only verb nothing that holds intent and now our mission is everybody goes with intent intent is a rule in all shots and everybody agrees to it says i understand why because when azari said i'm only giving the action in the tsuba because of hebrews but the one who argues we are going with the tent you know what the intent is he's a hassan he's very close to the khala had a lot of schwooz with her he's looking forward to build the whole thing so he gave her a couple of nursing homes so what if he there's no b of the it's not about physicals about the emotion and um at the end of the day they're close have a wonderful day you