Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 52 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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have to use every single yid that's the like the the trick of of the shiva of waterberry rabbit kayla's you know the bottom feel it you know okay fine pretty good this is uh somebody sent this in make america again in eight minutes follow me now i uh i just came just gotta just came back from your slime i was at my daughter's house you're madish call of course i'm gonna say the wrong name because that's how i am as i get out of my car i'm with my suitcase a guy screams out of the window and here it is you ready but put it loud because it's hard to hear i thought it was cool also i'll tell you real quickly irremada skull this is what an original xiaomi building looks like and then they did something called tommy tommy what is it 38th whatever and they took all these bulls and they added two floors and and redid the exterior the government gives them all these incentives so you'll see both buildings fine here it is you ready this is my welcome to ramach lomo i didn't know it was but it's 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leaving your family for shashana now it's like a week and a half and just because soon it's gonna be like a year what i'm not going to say i'm into that i don't know i'm sorry leaving bespoke like that not but you could do it everyone as long as we make a sponsorship on it we're good this fourth part sponsored the fighters ben moyesha what happened people are gonna stay here my son-in-law shimmy white standing around at 41 who joined supers and he should have a mazda talk because he had a baby girl hats and into the new year all main avoids i here we go so we're holding like six lines from the bottom of noon isle of almond bays only 70 days left to this amazing 70 days left if a woman is abducted by the king so she's muted to her husband like a regular captive genovese if she was kidnapped by a listen by the robbers they are also we have to be hoises that perhaps she had some rotten in there says the mother of a son but we learned the opposite says there's a difference between a huge king like akashverosh that she understands she has practically zero chance of being the queen she knows she's being used she's gonna be tossed away so for that she's not going to be beretta but if it's a smaller king like benetser who the the kumar tells us he destroyed narada she won't let her run away and go to pompadiso he was a small small time king so she thinks to herself maybe i'll be queen with that thought in the back of her mind maybe there's a rutson over there maybe she was she had some willingness and that makes her else with her husband lystia is alistair isley cash and you're asking me about robbers hobby bennettser now the first question that jumps to mind is we just called benetzer a king and now we're calling him a list them okay he says gimbal there's a difference between different list them oh but listen to alma now you have a big time robber like ben netzer she'll be with him she'll do berton but a small guy on the road there's no way in the world she'll want to be his wife as the kimora benezer hasn't caught a melancholy listen what's going on here is he listed more king in gabe when you compare him to achashviraj listen he's like a small time operator listen to alma but you want to compare him to to a highway robber he's big time he has massive is this your last day here i didn't i didn't read your email when's your last day another week okay fine you'll have to read it then remind me maybe send it to me again so don't forget okay so robbie rosner comes in it's a big big thing comes in every day we we take it for granted he comes in every single day from your slime drives and two buses to get here and uh he has a new job he should be matsuya but we'll talk about it every time because he still has a week with us okay now we have a little bit of a soggy here for most of the almonds so take a look over here for just for a second because these are this is the lotion that we have in our mishnah the the mission tells us that if you stroll gets married he writes in this suba that if she's captured into i'll return you as a wife because he's israel even if something happened to her shall i brought and he's allowed to return as a wife quiet on the other hand if his wife was abducted and she's nana's he can't you can't return her so what does he write in the tsuba hadrina i will drive you take you put you in a taxi i'll pay for your ride home if i have to put you on a flight i'll fly back to your father's house so we very interesting is this literal adrenaline gaza i'm going to drive you back in other words not so much the driving part but is the super saying the same thing and it's just a different lesson for a cayenne what's the nafkimino so we're going to see that abbay takes it literally that what says the gemara is same thing this is a very interesting shiloh what would you say i'm sure you'd probably be looking on him why what if uh israel gets married to manzares he's married to manchester united he can't say what israel writes in the tsuba voice is not applicable so he's never misshabbed himself you can't you can't obligate okay who said that how about you okay you can't obligate yourself to something that's usher so so to acquiring godot getting married to mana or a kind headache you're getting married to guru she can't have a game they can't say i am going to well he certainly can't say i can't return it as a wife so what's going on here says abayano even though it's awesome to marry this woman she's an almana nevertheless kyle of daiso now what's interesting is that if he does marry this almana so so too if he stroll marries him they write exuber there is a subaru but it's awesome radical that's a sookie that we had already radix super you don't get misonas you don't get reform you don't get but you get the super 200 or 100 whatever it is look what says says i'm going to take these words literally it says i'm going to return you in a car to your father's house could he do that yes he's a client he has a driver's license he could drive his wife back could he do what he israel says but his vienna clearly into absolutely not he can't return her as a wife but if you want to nitpick so to speak if you want to be literal in the super doesn't say anything about being a wife it says i'm going to drive you back to your father's house i'm going to return you to your father's house and he could do that he'd accommodate her by taking her home so then if that's the case so he's to redeem her he's behaved to pay ransom because it says i am going to pay ransom and drive you home not drive whatever i drink so he could be making that let me kind of what does rava argue he says no it's not literal i'll take you back yeah of course anybody could drive anybody home but it's awesome just like israel cannot take his wife back so a quiet can't take her back but it says it a different lotion don't don't take these words literally if you could drive her home if you can return it to the father to redeem her not true she's a us or wife or us or wife is no different than a man serious just like if somebody marries him i'm serious he doesn't have to redeem her so if a coy marries no money doesn't have to redeemer what's the difference so what if he could he could fulfill those words very interesting he must redeem her why since he could fulfill those two words i will return you to your country you have to you have to redeem her mom series whoever anybody marrying him serious which the toyota tells us this is the rights to marry her but if you do there's a subaru you don't have to redeem her why because i can't fulfill the words that it says in aksuba israel but phenomenally into and after i redeem you i'm going to return you to my house and you're going to be my wife she's not allowed to be your wife she's a mob serious so since i can't fulfill those words everybody agrees that i'm serious you don't have to you don't have to redeem me like it says if it's because of her captivity and that she became officer kyle of daiso then in other words if he's a regular cayenne and that because his wife got captured and they violated her so it's because of the captivity so then he has to redeem her but if he was either an issue when he got married to her because she's an al monitor calling gado and khan of daiso it's the same exact alarms as rava as mam zarya's what is the difference is rava if you marry a mam zerus and you don't have to redeem her or if a cayenne marries uh a grusha you should also not have to redeem her suzy marilyn did a quick uh chart here and not that it's again so the charge is like this according to everybody if you throw marries in manzares you don't have to redeem her because he was never misshabbed himself he didn't obligate himself to such a thing um you have to redeem according to ravi you don't have to redeem she's like a mom serious so now i'm gonna have another like somebody this is also a very interesting case it's a guy gets married legally he has a normal wife he's israel whatever he is he marries a woman but then all of a sudden he makes a nether against her he says i'll never benefit from you so the answer for him to be with her occurred in the middle of their marriage not before they get married so that's similar to this case or not says we have similar muslims that what first he said i'm never going to have anything to do with you he got mad at her he made a shiva he made another and then she got captured mama's this lucky day you're so happy this woman that he hates and he made a shoe against another against her she was captive keeper he tells them but i don't want her revelation to give her subah and redeemer of course that's the giving super vein he doesn't have to redeem her why because he's already asked her and he's also to her he cannot fulfill but we'll see in a second says the gemara now it depends oh sorry i asked the question in this case did he say i have nothing to do with you and then she became captive or she became captive and the guy maybe we'll see in a second maybe he made another he's never going to have anything to do with her because he wanted he didn't want to pay the ransom that's heavy it's heavy money you know how much people paid for ransom now i just looked it up al-qaeda they got a million dollars per canadian and they got i think seven million dollars for a french guy and 17 million dollars from forgot what country it was for one person so anyways the minimum was a million dollars the guy says look why should i pay a million dollars to everything my wife whatever it is a hundred thousand dollars i'm muthering from you i have nothing to do with you now i can have nothing with you i can't fulfill my obligation of taking you back to my house so i'm done says gomorrah says very positive i never heard from a rabbi however if you want to use logic so what's going on here is that first he made the nether then she became captive why the armistice lost if it happened in the reverse the first she became captive and then in order to get out of the ransom he made a nether hustle a roommate everybody who doesn't want to redeem his wife he's just going to make a net there and they say oh your partner oh you can't take her back because he made a nether so you don't have to okay says the morrow my love the mother is now the one who says that you could that you of the redeemer what is he thinking says rashi obviously it's not a israel because if it's israel you can't take her back to your house so nobody could hold they behave to redeemer so must be a client and you don't have to take her back to your house all you have to do is hire a taxi and send their home that you could do with a kite you could and that's goofa maybe the machines we just had between a bay and rubble is it literal put it in a taxi you could do that and mma you have to redeem her or no it's not literal since just if if you flip this case it's not a client it's a israel that case would be oscillating throughout the redeemer or to to take her back home and maybe spot it for redeeming so use that same case and say by a client also just because he's able to put her in a taxi doesn't make him hype to redeemer says the other man the armor my love is calling him you see abaya in this chart you have to redeem her and you get you give her super redeemer and rather holds you don't have to redeem her no what happened was we're talking about even a woman married to israel and she made the nether not the husband she made the nether but if she's married the husband has to say i'm okay with another so another gishmaka lambda shiloh when a woman who's married makes another and her husband hears he says okay great you don't have anything to do with me mask him great now whose fault is it who started you know two kids fighting she made the nether is it her or is it him who said i'm okay with another whose fault is it he took her finger and put it in her mouth so he's the one doing it because if he would have said no i'm not macabre nether there wouldn't be any problem here but because he said i'm okay with another then everything's on him he took her finger made her bite her own finger he knows now and i just i thought whatever i saw a guy a cartoonist i didn't want to put a woman in this fight no shacks to anything he took his finger and bit his own finger because it's all on him he he's responsible here when it comes to the darwin between him with his wife he's the one that's responsible so if he gave her rashos then it's his nether his nether he should redeem some of his throats his problem let her redeem her if she makes another and says her problem then she doesn't have to redeem her says gemara you know if it's all her fault super mario then why did she get it now going back to this question that we had a second ago this question that we just had what happened when did he make a nether against her after she was captive or before but he said i don't know and he said what did he say he said it must be if it must be that he made the nether before him because if he made another afterwards every husband in the world that doesn't want to redeem his wife but make another afterwards ha-rama but that's only when he makes the nether but when she makes another there's no aroma when she makes it she what does she want to do she doesn't want to rush him to redeem her she's going to make another afterwards it doesn't make sense there's no before and after by a woman the before and after is only by a man once he hears that his wife is captured and he doesn't want to redeem her for a million dollars he says i'm done with you he makes a nether against her but if you tell me the shout out in the game is that she made the net there so what is talking about doesn't make any sense so obviously it can't be the answer in the morning okay let's go back says he made the nether by me and again once again it's a gift shmack is so good but just in case you start spacing out in five lines starting something else is going to argue on this but he says everybody holds and when it comes to i'm going to coin godo everybody holds you have to redeem her why because it could be mikhail what it says in the tsuba and that is i will return you to your father's house you could do that even though she is he's a kangaroo she's an amateur mom when it comes to some of the married moms that we said you don't have to redeem her why he's never shabbat himself it never was how so no redemption now madera is just calling he tells his wife the coin tells his wife i'll have nothing to do with you happen why not god because he could still be making the tsuba i will return you to your father's house even though he's mother i love him the home like he says in israel because over there he cannot complete the tsuba which says i will return you as a wife he can never return as a wife why because he's mudra no from her he said he'll never have anything to do with her so beautiful do we go the beginning of the marriage they were together when they wrote the tsuba he could return her as a wife so mamela he's obligated to always redeem her even though later on in life he made a nether that he's not he's not going to have anything to do with her or no we go at the time of when he has to redeem her and at the time that when he has to redeem it it's too late he can never bring her as a wife so may allah he doesn't have to redeem her then or no we go by the day of the hasanah he could bring her as a wife so even though 20 years later she got captured and at that point he cannot bring her back as a wife it's too light when he wrote zuba it was okay raw of him entirely and rob argues he puts a man on coin god all in the same category as a mom serious just like miseries is also getting married to almighty doesn't matter if it's the wife of a kind or wifey rebellious abose sure the same as far as we said before nishbas hive lived a new song wake up if she was captured when her husband was alive before he had a chance to redeem her the husband died at the time of redemption he wasn't alive at the time that she got captured he was alive at that point when he she got captured he was hive to redeemer hicker babalo i have a problem with this i didn't see anybody talking about it if anybody has a shot in it let me know these words hickory by law if her husband recognized knew about the fact that she was captured i just want to know what does have to do with him knowing about it doesn't have to do with the time that she got captured was it who cares about his idea it's not like uh a hat or something okay maybe that's what it means i don't know hickor bob bailor when the husband fig what why it's a fact the fact is it says if she gets captured you have to redeem her who cares about you knowing about it it's a you have to you have a gift to feed your wife ms zionist you have to know that she's hungry if she's hungry she have to feed her now you don't have to know i don't know okay fine what why does it start then i'm asking why does it start when he knows about it who cares what he knows who cares about him what do you know why is it when he knows about i wanna know that's all i want to know why it's a fact you hive if if i break your window when am i high when you find out i broke your window or when i broke the window no you don't know you don't know you're in a different country i'm not hiv for the window because you don't know about it what do you mean when you need to know about something i don't know never heard of such a thing i i hope that's not the shot it must be a better job okay it's a clutch cache i know it's a classic because nobody talks about it looked everywhere i couldn't find anything what i know and i want to know why hey so levy said let's do it just like we just learned that if she was captured when the husband was alive and then the husband died the yoshima have to redeemer what this is what my uncle i is to call it my beloved in hebrew they say khabib is it a nice thing to call khabib i'm not joking there's anything about it okay there's uh i was once a kid and hey there the rabbit gave him a smack talking about patch smack i'll say i i need a before nobody even asked me nobody wrote any emails i don't know why the guys are sugar not bothered to write any hate mails but i just want to say even though that school in missouri said that they want to hit the kids and every parent signs up i would not personally sign up i don't want somebody else touching my kid i'm just saying i need a and i don't know that i'm pro i just said we have to open up our minds a little bit expand maybe whatever if every single psychologist says and every single rough says it maybe they're all wrong i don't know okay fine i want to be right i don't know what the right thing is if these guys saw something in it they said maybe huh especially the troublemakers they're not excited but okay that's how it is the parents want good kids it's not exciting when they're excited to hit their kid everybody wants kids that are nice well-behaved kids they do the right thing and sometimes i don't whatever fine so anymore anyway so oh so this rabbit this rev this this ribbon smack the kid the kid comes home i really beat me up why so i said the rebels i said no i wrote he says i call him sugano he says of course you don't say sugar to the rabbit he says the rabbit is a meshogna you have to know how to say it okay fine so he said khabibi on the first part he said that he saw him archived to be poiter if he knew about it you don't have to be paid though even though she was captured when her husband was alive and then her husband died before he had a chance to redeem her now he's finally into very interesting because of this lesson that we learned in the in the in the in the tsuba it says after i redeem you you're going to be my wife but he's dead already she can't be his wife anymore so melo your partner is interesting russian up until 10 times her value she's worth a million they asked for 10 million dollars pameric so remember this for a second just for amid base as we flip the page it says over here that you have to redeem your wife 10 times the amount that she's worth even because but if she was captured for a second time they saw his guns fine they made a lot of money on her 10 million dollars now they come to capture again we're talking about if you want if you want a redeemer yes you don't want to let her be there keeper same thing maybe ello it's a horror if you fall once okay new but the fall for the same aveda you already know you already have experience that you're going to fall second time already i don't know because right so you know that kind of thing it says you don't redeem the swim more than their value because of tikkana you have to be concerned about other people so there's a lot of stuff going on here first of all this is the middle class is over here vahayum of action says that tikkun island doesn't apply to oneself if a guy is a multi-millionaire and they're asking for 10 15 million dollars and he has the money he's he's allowed to redeem himself you don't have to think another one that and his wife is included in that that's why we learned that ten times her values is okay she's ishta kigufai but a daughter is not goofy and it's very hard to hear and understand but if a person has he's a he's bill gates and his daughter's captured and they're asking for 10 million dollars which is equal to one dollar for us he's not allowed because he has to be concerned about other people first thing that came to my mind was in this neighborhood and all a lot of neighborhoods you have these cleaning ladies and they ask for 40 shekels but some people they really did that's perfect cleaning ladies they don't have they have a a shortage so whatever they give them 60 shekel and it ruins it for everybody it's the same kind of idea of tick and oil you have to be concerned i know you want one but by you raising the price you're ruining for everybody but more to get to this what about shalit what was his name a thousand terrorists for one jew that's what he said and that then what happened everybody knows that they came out and they killed people it holds up but that's the idea the miranda rothenberg told people not to give the ransom to the ass for him and he ended up dying in jail after 10 years so this is a big this is a big line it's it's hard to to america's that's that's their power we don't we don't we don't go we negotiate with terrorism with terrorists they don't officially not this okay but because of thinking ireland because of this idea you don't know what the next thing is going to be fight yeah you know okay exactly anyways we just turned to noon basement bay sponsored by martial horn this last day the last day and you should know every single sponsor is for other people every single time he sponsors for other people that are doing the daf so we'll say this because by mushy horn in honor of zach the rock rocklin and lenny lerner cpa second sponsors is being able to support libertaria and defense learning it really is it encourage other people okay yeah i i also think that everybody should sponsor the turning of the deaf is supposed to other people that are learning a hundred percent and that's not a soft sale that's a hard sale suggest but their value they're worth a hundred thousand dollars you paid them even though that a hundred thousand dollars is more than two hundred zuz that he wrote in the tsuba very meaning but we have a question ishmael's volume of action says that if the ass 10 times the the the tsuba how much is ten times two hundred four thousand i'm just okay part of it piracy that'll grow it's a part of them explains here what's his what's uh raphael gamaliel saying that you only have to redeem her for as much as super is worth why because exuberance 200. index uber says that you have to redeem her but that's toefl says rashi that's secondary to the actual super this is the main part xuba if i divorce my wife i have to give it two hundred and that also includes washing us this that and redeeming so can't beast is rashi that the redemption costs more than the national tsuba it's a tough of the diksuba okay oh i'll try cooliously says not more than the tsuba over here you're saying more it says no there's two things going on here you give her the the less of the two either whatever is less the subah or whatever she's worth there are two things going on here you give chavis and you give suba but only the less of whatever it is if if the tsuba is 200 and she's worth 500 you only give her 200. if she's worth 50 and the sub is 200 you give her 50. you you always give her the least amount says the gemara look so high of the replay so if said in the mishnah that if she got sick you have to pay for her medical turnaround you have to pay for the widow the mother she lost her husband she gets the zionists and also medical you have to pay for insurance harry i think that's what they're passing through you have to pay for insurance policy you have to pay for the blue cross whatever it is five ten thousand dollars a year in america how much more uh i'll hook you up after this year no that's okay it's more than ten thousand dollars a person oh no i'm not a family she's an almond she's a widow how much you have to pay for her okay whatever me ppo ipo there's this roll 52 bucks for the whole year whatever it is okay hooray what's the difference get i don't know all of them you get six all of them is like uh one day in america who cares okay let me say that how are you designers but you get exactly last month not a joke you want an mri you wait two months hello need an mri am i exaggerating when they told you come at three o'clock in the morning three months later three you could come in three months but three o'clock in the morning america that day hour later anywhere you want down the block right yeah within a day okay you get what you pay for be kid sir i got two months ago they the doctor said i should uh i should get this thing that reads my heartbeat you have to wear it a whole day a month and a half you have to wait for it i said my heartbeat well it was hard you wait a month and a half you'll you'll live till then so then i got it and then they said takes another three weeks for somebody to read it she this is with all the best of the best okay fine i'm not joking we never read it who cares it doesn't matter sorry about my serious story i got what was i going for oh yeah he said i need a ultrasound so i go i had to wait a month and a half and go to the ultrasound i get there she goes uh-uh you have to pay your your taurus you have to pay like 200 shekel before she said i'll pay now no no you have to do it through with this you just missed your you just missed your appointment so okay so make me another appointment a month and a half i'm now waiting for my next appointment but you didn't tell me i have to pay before oh i thought you know the taurus has to pay before okay 200 the co-pay a little bit of a come back in a month and a half i'm not the lloyd guzman come back in a month after you just missed your appointment i'm on design this minute you saw me with mentioned earlier it's the same thing as same category medical and ma and food is in the same category we're talking about if it's medical you go one time for ultrasound then it costs 200 okay so i know how much it is miss rapis miksubasa if it's if it's has a kid's fault you know exactly it's 200 you take it out of super but if it's something that it's like for the rest of her life she needs medicine and she needs all this whatever it is machines for the rest of life that's beside us because mission is also you don't know there's no there's no end to it but there's a trick guess what the trick is if somebody needs medical attention and there's no end we don't know how much it is it can mean millions what's the trick sizimar tells us a good trick what causes dhamma we'll get to that in a second how cause is that bloodletting very the kids in distraught days they're very busy with their bloodletting all day long it's very good for your health so that's part of medical attention and you have to pay for it but you never know how many you need how much does a person how long is she going to live it could be a year it could be 500 years so you have to give so you have to pay not from the subu says abba they were supporting the wife of of their father not their mother their father died and left a wife now they had to support her and give her medical attention that was through her focus now they're sick and tired of her go get a job also get made their vehicle so they come to their go to a doctor and say okay she's let's say on dialysis yeah you need it all the time you don't know how long she's going to live go to the doctor say how much do you want for this woman unlimited dialysis for the rest of your life two million dollars three what do you want i don't care any amount you want you tell me the the number i will pay so he throws out a number 2.5 million dollars everything anybody would do it doesn't matter oh now it's double shifts like it's a double it's like this it comes out of you super now it's on you it's a great trick oh they don't care how much it is because whatever it is coming right out of her account now to their account it's a great trick to to mess up the salmana what do we just do we just i don't remember this word i didn't even look it up i should have looked it up on him is in hebrew or din is a lawyer i just i was just your lawyer i just taught you to say something and to do something that's going to mess somebody else up and it's awesome it's in the first paragraph of perky obvious you know how to make yourself din if you look in the side over here and it takes a rid he says a lawyer is not a kosher person they teach people to say bad things wrong things there's a la marshall they were asking people how much is two plus two so the achievement backer says le manos camino you know that was his answer yeah they asked the lawyer how's your stupidity says how much you wanted me to make it whenever you get a lawyer his job is to to to to maneuver things so that's awesome um okay i have a lot of lawyer jokes here but the time is late what they provide the outcome like they try but that's that's a little bit of a yes sir i i think i told you this myself i'll tell you again because for the new guys when i learned the passaic so i went through the port authority and a guy he robbed me you remember this maison yeah how long ago would i say it was this year before peso no it was going around yeah i tell the story real quick anyways a guy robbed me i had a big fight with him and i threw him down the escalator and this but he's on drugs and he didn't feel a thing and he took my money and ran so i needed to get revenge i went every single day to port authority until i found him it took me like a month i found the guy had him arrested and they rather the whole thing and then they're going to this uh it was like um a jury i never heard about it never saw it before or after but there was like 23 people they they listened to the story and they passed on him i don't know why where but that's how it was and they paid me like five and a half dollars or something for the train and for a sandwich in those days you could go for a dollar to train there's two ways so it's two dollars plus 350 for sandwich i haven't received fine but the this uh the representative the attorney what is the general attorney what's what's the name district attorney district attorney she takes in the room she goes why were you there you're doing drugs there's no i don't know what drugs okay just listen what was the story you threw down the escalator you can't say that do not say through that escalator okay and then you punch in the face i promise don't say you punch him in the face but you could say that he punched you in the face okay i'll say that she told me exactly what to say what not to say and that's how it was i got there i took out everything she told me how to say and i said my superstition guzman zach okay the outcome they put him in jail and then one day i get a phone call in passaic and the guy says hi uh so-and-so is still in jail do you want your 70 dollars back like yeah okay good and that was that that's the last time i heard from them from the court from the whole thing anyway zogniyamar what if if he watches i don't think he would be able to understand the word okay me cory he's not alive anymore regardless of himself myself what's going on everybody gives him advice that he says what i'm a lawyer it's awesome for me says they're my relatives i have to give them good advice even though it messes her up but she's not my wife in other words it was motive for what he did he was talking about the salam give him good advice the problem is that he's ripping claims to go that dark so other people are going to learn from that and take it to a place where it's not true so you have to you have to be careful who you're saying it to and how you're saying it says the mishnah the official official sponsor by mashikowi the male children you have from me they will inherit the kisuba the money from the suv so this is called subway's bottom different i just hope everybody remembers it for the rest of their life all 15 thousand of you subbas bonham derek subba index uber talks about the male sons the bottom difference that if in case he gets remarried another woman and they have children from the other woman the boys from the other woman don't inherit what the first woman brought into the marriage we're going to see why it makes a lot of sense to us why should they but digimore explains it so if he didn't write this in there he's still it's still uh it's an obligation you don't have to write it shoot tonight beside them and the same thing for everything else in the tsuba bada nook finn if you have daughters [Music] duration the whole duration of your uh widowness vivace whatever the word is widowness it's from ponovich then that's my best so it happens to be an amano gets him zionist until she demands her super she doesn't demand suv until she gets married says it says that was their loss now they imitated the people of your slime and they wrote the same thing the people of you though wrote it differently achieved they have the right to kick you out by giving you suba based on what the yehuda people wrote they could give her aksuba and no more mozarella says it says that in the name of rashbee my name is bottom different what's this idea that the suns first get everything in their mother's suba including the 200. so that a person should go ahead and give his daughter and so people should marry them says so here's the pasuk ishkiyamas if a person doesn't have a son then only then does the daughter get yerusha in other words the daughter doesn't get yorusha typically if there's a boy so the more is asking why and it's interesting shyla why would you encourage a father to give his estate to his daughter when the turret tells you that it should go to the to the son later on okay but he's taking away from what the boys deserve it's like you know i'm sure people say that like they look at the father like why are you buying a lamborghini you're taking away from my urushiol what's wrong with you dad you know i'm saying that's what's going on there he's not dead yet he has the right to do whatever he wants what are you giving her money what are you buying your apartment for are you crazy that's my urushiol don't touch my urushi that's what that's what the kumar says here he's alive he's giving it as a gift no you might have a problem with it for a good childhood it's wrong take girls for your sons take boys for your daughters says interesting in the time of the gemara as we learned in the conducion of the match of a man to go out and find a wife no no he goes out there he looks around and he he hops a wife so a father could go out and look around for a good shot for his son so that makes sense that he's going in and says get ger women for your sons fine el abnesse but how is he going to find the hussain for his daughter that's not the derek you don't look around for a boy and nowadays it isn't there yes no you should not don't look around the street for a hustle give her the jewelry give her the clothing that she should be more desirable for shidduchim and then they'll they'll jump on there and they'll they'll marry her that kama now it didn't work well how much you add to her dunya to her package that people should want to marry if i ever have a different value 10 of them of the person's assets he should up to 10 percent they should give his daughter says mario wait i have layers okay so you just explain to me why we have this bottom different in the tuba that what we are concerned we want the father to be able to give his daughter and if he thinks for a second that some other yucca some kid that was born to that guy's other wife is going to take all his husband he'll never give his daughter anything he doesn't want his his nursing homes to go to some guy who doesn't know he wants to go to his daughter and to her kids she says that you are very good so anything this schwer gave to the daughter it should go to her sons only the ballers but what about the 200 in the tuba the main part of the suva maybe that which is coming from the husband it's not coming from the father that the other sons should inherit so the father of the of the wife he's gonna say like this i'm gonna give a nursing home and whatever i'm gonna give my daughter a lot of stuff but whatever her husband gives that could go to somebody else it's not fair so you know what i'm not gonna give my daughter anything you hear the psychology and it happens a lot you you could understand it it makes zero sense that's how people are you want to give your kid something you want to give you want to give i'm a ton of to your kid i'm not going to give my kid anything you know why because the husband is not giving it's whatever he gives i'm going to give 50 50. i'll give if you give well he doesn't want to give he's a bad guy so that's why your daughter should suffer completely you shouldn't get anything that's what it says here what no so you're saying that the whole benefit of the question is only for the husband she has zero out of it i hear i thought it's more of a psychological thing no she she gets these are the dunya she comes in with a package he gets the pay raise i guess you're saying you're saying i hear somebody so i don't want to give anything to if you're not going to give but and then so then again why do i care if he gives it doesn't give she's not going to get from it but okay at the end of the day she gets divorced she gets it it is for her all right it's in the head a lot of the stuff is in the head people act interesting for for interesting reasons says let's see let's see what the situation is if the father of the kala gives stuff so then the husband also should should it should go and whatever the husband gives should go to the sons as well but if there's no package coming in from the from the wife side so we don't care about what the husband get says you want to like plug let's look at bono we don't make we don't start looking at every super what happened and who gave says mario bass being about him if this woman had a son that's bottom different what if she had a daughter all she had is a daughter and there's boys from the other marriage nami terus the daughter should inherit in this case also for the same svara the father wouldn't give his daughter any question if he knows it's going to go to the other boys let the daughter his own granddaughter inherit it she says no we made it like inheritance and she doesn't get it bas being habanoise but what if the other wife only has daughters and his daughter has a daughter so now in this case she shouldn't hurt that's already part of your russia terus this type of marriage they had daughters they didn't have daughters all it doesn't matter who who has what the daughter doesn't get anything up say tomorrow if i think of why did we say we mentioned this a few times that exuberance is only from bottom from karka from real estate not from movable objects why not supercharged they said the bottom difference should be the same thing like a regular suva which is only from real estate to drive mimi's chapter so let her go if he sold it let her go take it out or let him let the boys go and and take it he says mario garrison's not not it's like yerusha so if a father sells something before he dies the kids don't have a a right to it they can't say oh it was supposed to be too bad he sold it so too over here so this is the final allah we're learning today in addition to the two subus right there's two wives here the shmer gave money to this to his daughter he wants his grandsons to inherited and there's another tuba and there's sons to the other wife so each family the boys take this super the boys from this wife take this super but there has to be remaining one dinner in the husband's estate in addition to the two supers why says the gemara bimbakum they call me the rice rabonum don't have the right or they didn't want to just do away with the whole urushi completely and say these because really minor iso the son should inherit the the wife's the other wife's tsuba because it goes through the father to them yeah i should i should have a charter here it's two wives [Music] this wife has kids and this wife has kids so they're over here are you all safe where are you going you need this okay you'll see it later but anyways oh i don't know what he's doing [Laughter] you have two waves and they have a little kid this one has a little kid so bottom difference says that this little guy inherits his mother's shuba and and whoever this is this is a it's a boy we need another boy this one inherits this one's super but midair raiso you inherit both women this little guy can inherit both okay that's all i want to say right so this guy inherits both women but we decided that this person's father is not going to give her anything if this person's kids inherit the nursing homes okay but in addition we need a dinner one dinner so that because what we're doing is i'm saying that he gets to inherit her and he gets to inherit her that's against the torah they're doing away with all yerusha so we're saying no we're not going to do away with the rush we're going to take one dinner one coin and split it evenly if there's three boys in this family they get three parts one boy in this one they got one part and then with that will be mikhail the mitzvah will be your design the mitzvah of yerusha and the rest of yurusha will will cheat a little bit and will give each woman to her the urushi of the woman to their kids and that's it have a wonderful day wonderful night a wonderful week a good day [Music] you