Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 51 by R’ Eli Stefansky

subject family impact dear belly thank you for my daily inspiration physically enjoyable learning side there i joined youtube during your vamas and then re-energized my daft my 14 year old son yosef has been wanting to do that for ages now and he joined thank you to the sponsors of the arts world gamora as well as ensuring your regular learning program during the holidays bor hashem has really enjoyed yeshua and learned beautifully throughout the holidays by the way in england vacation is a holiday in america holiday is yantef and only shkotsum say holiday so don't think he's a shakins he's a he's a fruitful guy but to me this says a lot typically children this age are watching stuff are just bored out of the mind or you know one of the craziest events thinking is that game that they have on the plane on the back of the seat and people go like this and the guy's his head goes like that the entire flight thinking who thought of that but this kid 14 year old kid is learning play around a plane it's unbelievable hashem has really enjoyed his room and learned beautifully throughout the holidays please see him learning in route and video of your good morning physic for the whole family wishing you continued brought that slug with your learning and impact oh yeah i forgot to put the jonathan's defense give it okay gordon cooper london uk here it is no this is this is yours so what happened no they also have one okay let's see if i can find that one but here this is yossi berman's kid [Music] lakewood he has the whole routine lakewood get over here i don't know what happened to that video we have to find it it's not here okay that was a good one on the boat yesterday yeah evan hashem says just listen to this year today awesome as always as soon as i was done with today's sheer discussion of the patch that what went wrong in last generation i see this attached in the news so basically it's a serious article here that i read the entire thing that came out in a real newspaper i forgot which one the one of the famous ones in america it says not one of those it says like this they're bringing back corporal punishment to missouri the parents are saying that they in this school they do positive reinforcement and they do detention and all that but for some kids it just doesn't work and parents that opt in you have to sign your name they bring back the paddle you can't hit the face no face no this but the paddle two wax for kids that are under 12-3 wacks for kids i'm not kidding you a whole article here and it says parents are really excited about this because finally they some of their kids will be put into their place don't forget about here the positive reinforcement we love it that works with a lot of kids he said however some kids play the game and their behaviors aren't changing the district hopes the possibility of corporal punishment is a deterrent we understand mama's yesterday it's a bit of a shock factor just to have that as a tool again i'm not going into it by the way whoever's hating on me just remember there's a positive choice you take away that rod that stick you hate your son it's impossible go explain it i know every psychologist is going to say different things what hear them fear the rod spoil the childhoods okay sign of the night it's a very strong lotion you hate your son when you take away you spear the rad i know that every row of and this i never even hear people talking like that i but i like to shock toilets i started it up yeah i started it at the beginning of subis inspired by my friend jack stepner the fat and father-in-law with josh brody irf josh brody's inspiring other people to do that with us that's a kiddush you're scared of josh oh yeah no no joshua that's not a fiddler no he does the dog with us from boca yeah yeah i'm kind of sorry mix them up i currently on honeymoon with my wife while i didn't get to learn the dive until later in the day i thought it was a great opportunity to bring some mdy kedusha on our hike in the italian alps have a great day jack manus check out these us hashem good morning [Music] all right here he is this is uh shimmy leifman he's looking he's since he's looking for a place to do the seam in manchester when i come there for xubus he's uh he's checking out potential sites he says here okay the coilover see i remember your name because of the picture salim how do you pronounce it very nice oh and here he is here okay with its filling and everything the coil is sponsored this month by anonymous for all the new people that joined the necessities and sponsored by abby rachel kamianski men are rachel rachel's mother raised a guitar reader should have been melissa oyster on behalf of us and our children sponsored by molandi for my children the second sponsor jeff second sponsor dr abram epstein a member of my pressure southern belle wife mother and grandmother rita gay epstein third sponsor michael bemela malty pearl and aaron hirsch was supposed to be here i know because he's sleeping in my house how he missed his alarm to resort to make it to uma this year he actually came from mumma straight to my house i felt the fourth paradis and along zach because rebellion is the greatest soft salesman okay shmuley cats in honor of haim wordsman as a karsa toy for convincing me to join the daf shkaya my family and all of clay's role anonymous leo anonymous brock lesnar my family in all classroom and ooh ezzy i wanna you're here i wanna say for doing the internet the high speed internet we we can't get internet into the building he lives next door and he did this whole thing we have like these special it's high-tech stuff also i want to wish because today punk'd is the la yesterday i think was two days ago the last day for the loch family they're the sponsor it happens to be it's their 40th wedding anniversary so mazel tov to deluxe and here we go the boys at the top of noon al from ralph two lines down that means we are 50 daf in texubas 50 death 50 definitely supers bellworks was 50 days ago it's unbelievable it's my mission we're going to go through a bunch of different sugiyas from brahmacia to gitan and everything in between see have a yasumin a orphan a girl a boy they're with her nappy tropos they have a representative they come to rava omolu she wants to eat so she said hi lulu awesome take some of the methylene when you're giving the boy take out extra cash and you'll have food for the girl oh malay rabban on the rava so they said what do you mean omar and we're going to finish off the tsugi like that it's rav himself who passed from alaikum welcome back to all the guests by the way all the and all the new guys all the guys that i i haven't met yet okay you don't understand how much i controlled saying i wish i didn't vomit oh my god you rob himself said that you could only give the girls missionaries from carcass from real estate and not removable objects not from the thousands so why are you telling daby trump is to go take out double from the bank account or for whatever and give the girl bail in limits what does robert say whether it's for food for sustenance just uh regular food bread and water bailifuba whether it's for the main part of the tsuba ubenglapanosa and whether it is the added stuff the the dunya that we spoke about okay so everything comes from real estate no real estate you don't take orman what if this boy he says listen i need cleaning help i need i need a mate service in my house who's gonna do the laundry who's gonna cook so without a shot we're going to go get him a maid milo avinale that's part of it certainly we should be refined as the sister because she does house chores it's just normal she'll throw in a load of laundry she'll do the dishes once in a while so let's support her plus she's a sister we have two good things going for her okay i've just remembered ruby soccer mayor from uh he always used to say he has a tremendous amount of life to his sister who went out to work she worked in a pardess and an orchard somewhere so that he could learn entirely always used to mention he has a lot of cars to talk to his sister so i was just saying like it's not you she's not a maid she's enabling her brother to to learn tara says sometimes people hear these words they start thinking about becoming a bastard they start getting nervous it's nothing we're almost at a mission we're going on to the next suggest but across another christ is very simple real estate not real estate a price means a guarantee no guarantee real estate is guaranteed you can't hide real estate you can't move it anywhere you can if you sell something or if let's say this woman has a suba and it's attached to the real estate it's not going anywhere and even if the husband sells it it's guaranteed it's it's hers she's going to go to whoever purchased it and take it away from them so that's a harass it has a guarantee says the gemara whether or not you have real estate it's not real estate it's metabolic rather said a second ago that we only use real estate where it says we give even from mithaltalin for the mother issue of divi and we are young rabbi so let's go a little slow here so if you have it it's if you read it quickly it could get confusing buttermilk bunnies bunny's been a bunny bunny man bunny bunnies but it's it's very very simple if you have real estate my team la bonus menu bottom you take food for the girls from the real estate mate la bano is for the girls and you take it from the boys the boys get the inheritance but you have to deduct for the girls support villa bono is what if you have an older generation right the the older kids are used to taking the father's credit card and his car they they put him in the nursing home they took care of him they have the younger kids the younger generation 10 year olds the older ones think that they're it they take over the business they start so the younger girls they say you know if there are no boys what happens urushi goes to the girls all the girls not just the older girls that took care of the parent doesn't work like that everybody gets equal so the bonus the younger girls could take away whatever the older girls grab there's no grabbing when it comes to urushiol now once they get their share of the inheritance there's no more zionists there's no you gotta eat you just got a building you got one of the father's real estate buildings that's yours no more mazanas villa bonimena bonham there's no girls only boys again the older boys think that they're they have the best relationship with the father he probably wanted to give over all his assets to him because he was so close to him and he took care of him for the last 22 years no all the assets are divided equally targets two parts the rest whatever the halakhas are villabanim abanos and you remove properties from the girls to give to the boys when there are a lot of assets in other words there are enough assets to support the girls until they become 12 and a half big rice then you remove everything you give to the boys and the boys support them if there are very few assets then the girls get everything to sustain them they must be sustained what about the boys in this case the boys go knocking on doors the boys like we said it's something a boy does and not a girl so over here is a case where the boys get less than the girls okay it's rare but it happens so here's the problem not the problem it is the end if you have movable objects then no boy could take more than the other we split it we divide it equally bonus mana is one of the most for me like hard concepts to understand is in yerusha it's just if you think about it a person there's nothing to do with the sugar but we're talking about bananas and it always bothered me there's some there's the swara to it but a great grandchild girl if somebody has a great grandchild girl she gets the arusha before the daughter of the nifter that's how it works if if the guy a guy dies and he has a son who has a son who has a daughter that little girl that two-year-old takes all the chasm but the guy that died has a daughter she doesn't get anything it's it's annoying it's like annoying but that's not she's so far removed she never met her grandfather she's a little tiny kid she was a month old when the the guy died she gets everything because the way usual works goes through the suns and that daughter turns into a sun well okay fine well a different time when we learned that so you but it's not nice if there's only girls then they divide it equally and when it comes here when it comes to movable objects the girls have nothing why because you're saying but they should be supported you're not supportive for movable objects you only support it from real estate and we're talking about movable movable objects methodolon so that the bottom take everything from the bonus avaloi la bonne es manabanim and the girls don't take anything from the boys because they're not supported from a totally so what are we saying here that you don't give support from a total so we have one rebbe rebbe the author of the mission says that you do give the girl support from the pianos and the cars the guy has a ferrari you sell it off yeah that's ready come say no you don't you don't give any support to your even though he has 200 million dollars worth of movable assets you don't give them anything typically in shaas rebbe is always right when it's a one-on-one with anybody in charge rebbe wins her in this case how long is the gift how do i know because that's what we just started off the soyuz support comes from real estate and not removable objects being like subo whether it's for the the main part of the tsuba the 100th the 200th bain limousine whether it's in index that says they have to support the daughters and the wife all the messianis banela faranasa okay this says over here that even though the gemara that's the lesson of the says that you only support girls from real estate but they go in and pascal today that we we support girls from methyltylin as well besides subas bad indica and i'm throwing it out there so we remember that that concept where all of the shots bottom different is you only pay up if it's if there's added stuff in the xuba and the boys of that woman inherit her their mother's suba it's only from karta not from the top one okay says the official mission of sponsored by oh i have to go back here where is it maisha who was it who mochikon at sloka and leaving atara and okay whatever he's happy now because you knew about penn he knew okay says the mishnah like kosovo what if a person doesn't write exuber doesn't write exuber it's automatic it doesn't matter if he writes exuber 200 100 says the mishna even without writing anything absolutely messiah she gets the full amount valmana mona da mana gets her full amount why my nation with knight besden you can't go around a condition that doesn't put in oh it's right here at my yamara it was just covered by this the official mission sponsored by michigan what if he decides let me be very specific i have a small little maksana ramapachamesh you know people here they take their parking lot in the parking spot and they build walls and they rent it out to people so i don't know if it's worth as much as a whole cuba maybe based on what they said 1500 it definitely is but okay let's say i'm going to give that piece of property towards aksuba which is less than two hundred the cost of allah right here's another big thing it doesn't say in the tsuba acharyas there's no guarantee he's not guaranteeing or against his property there's no collateral of his highest to give her the entire 200 from other properties shoot nybezen again he can't break the condition of the vesden now these two allahs that we just learned we're going to see the gemara says this one is remar one is rebuda we learned two allah even though he didn't write the amount at all he didn't read the tsuba at all there is aksuba and even though he wrote it super but he wrote a different amount in the xuba you get the full amount lost if you get captured after i'm gonna pay the ransom i'm gonna redeem you into and you're going to remain my wife he thought he didn't write that or he didn't write by okay now it's very sad but a kahenes a woman who's married to kayan is violated she must get divorced from her husband her husband just can't say okay you're here has to take her in a car put her on a plane bring her all the way back to where she came from he must do it with nybezen again he can to get out of it even though it's not written he has to take care of it nishbes if she was captured khail of daisa he must redeem her vim omar but if he said haregito here subbasa very nice i'm very sorry for you you just came out of captivity you're there for 10 years here's a present here's your get and there's an envelope that has all the money in there and let you take care of the the ransom you deal with them but if there's a small interesting as we said he gets pay rise anybody remember you get pay rise instead of redeeming he gets mice a dime instead of because he gets because he supports her the the thing that's common with the thing that's common support versus salary redeeming which is not calming common versus the parents of the nursing home luxo if she got sick of the rapport or actually says a very interesting lesson you have to pay for the doctors for the medical why shall refu kim is rashi it's in the same category as sustaining a woman and if he says her tells her here take it get i don't like i don't want to be married to a sick woman here's a get a nice guy to rap rashoi here's exuber go pay the doctor bills yourself it's permitted very interesting there's a i don't want to get into it but there's a famous rebecca vasserman who says that messiness is not mumman you can't you don't look at it as as a monetary obligation so let's say a person gets divorced and he didn't give his wife food that day he doesn't owe her that food so mamela you just give her the suba you take care of it whereas to be paid a woman that is a monetary obligation and that you can't just dump it and say you take care of it okay so we can't go buy something like this without saying the famous arya levine who said about his wife to the doctor our foot hurts yeah famous okay kylo reports [Music] who does our mission to go according to oh here's chart number one oh no here let's just do this one here this is actually chart number one in the ratio of the mishnah it says if you didn't write a cube at all you get a full suba who does that go according to ribby mayery that must be a roommate dolmar kuala puerto rico absolutely if you don't give the the regular amount of exuber high resolutions it's as if you're you're married without exuber boy will be lesnos so now the gamer understands even in the even even in the case where she's he tells his wife i want to be married to you i want to get married but i can't afford aksubo could you please be my homie dixuba of course who's thinking about getting divorced who's thinking about death even in such a case it's not good you can't be michael it's a folk suba d review though oh my rotso i i forgot to tell you there's an interesting silver stain here there's a little negate to me what if a woman is very sick and the doctors give up on her whatever and this is alternative medicine so i had experience with it my when my mother is very sick there's nothing they could do there's no more chemo no nothing but in mexico i think i mentioned this a few times mexico there's there's a hospital right over the border because in america it's illegal they could cure stage four cancer no problem and they give you three phone numbers you call up and they say yeah yeah pancreatic cancer yeah 100 stage four you just take a bunch of green they they chop a bunch of leaves and you drink it after a few days you already see differences and hyperbaric chambers you just lay in a hyperbaric chamber cures all cancers tell my father stop with this her last few weeks gonna spend in mexico twenty thousand dollars a week crazy monies but exuberance i don't know if i told you i'm sure i told you this we were there on the first first day a guy comes in with stage four cancer asked my brothers my sister comes in stage four cancer the next morning he jumped off the roof right there anyways and they lied to my mother they told my mother that oh look your numbers are going down and they're going down and then after two weeks because then she got excited so she pays more money to stay for another week and then they say oh they made a mistake they they they uh they forgot to put in two zeros the numbers went up instead of okay anyway some of the so then people say no alternative medicine works i got it okay i'm not going into that pirate show i'm just saying what if a woman wants eternal medicine when most of the doctors of the world say don't do it it doesn't work whatever is there a roy if not if he goes into al-sha'allah and then attend the pascan's i'm not saying absurd this review is existing he says if that what makes the the woman happy and that's that's a rotten then there might be a healed okay says the gemara himself says and we have to remember this rebuttal says you could do whatever you want when it comes to uh suba it's a monetary obligation that a husband has this wife she could lie she could make a star and say i got from you 100 even though she didn't she could be michael will so in other words we understand that this this is what we're talking about this is the case that she's michael and then the mission says you can't be michael review that says you could be michael the mother is going to say maybe that's not what's going on here maybe we're not talking about a case of megillah okay because she'll say listen i'm michael half of it how do you do that you write a receipt that says i received half even though she never received that okay so the ratio in blue is rebbe mayer the problem is sephora hey now let's look at the second case in the mishnah because the case is he said here the only thing i'm giving you is this little tiny uh parking spot it's not worth yuksuba oh and also he didn't write acharyas there's no warranty there's no guarantee to the tsuba shoot naibasden now that can't be re mayor that has to be rebi hudo so what's the question that the ratio is remainer and the safe is rebbi what does it say here now we have a new concept that we didn't speak about achara is told sorry for very very simple this idea that real estate and a star that talks about real estate is a warrant guarantee what if you forgot it in the start what if you wrote a star without it review this says the reason why you didn't write it you push it forgot in other words it exists it's there you still have a guarantee it's just you forgot to do it every time you don't see it in the start it's only because the cipher forgot it in other words every star inherently has a guarantee whether you wrote it or not the mayor holds no if you took it out you took it out on purpose so there's no guarantee so that's exactly what we're talking about over here christopher cypher dear mayor oh my christ loved us so far rip mayor says i took it out of the star i wrote i wrote something i said you only get half of the suba i know what i'm doing i did it on purpose i don't want to give you a full suba and it's so what so the zacharias the mayor oh my christ laughter romero says that if i took it out i know what i'm doing it's not a mistake it's on purpose it's not much a person finds a star in the street if it says that there's a guarantee and that he has to pay no matter what loyalty you don't give the star back you don't know whose it is it could be the livers it could be the malvas if the malva got it in other words the the law was completely paid off and the the the marvin gave the start to the leyva then it's the labors if the loan wasn't paid off then it's the maltese i don't know whose it is don't give back to anybody now why not because since there's a guarantee should beside it for abraham maybe they made a kununu maybe the lava paid back the loan but they made a deal between themselves let's pretend that i didn't and now i'm going to sell property you're going to sell property and we're going to go back and we're going to grab the property out of the purchaser because it's it's a it's uh there's a lien on the property based on the start you can make it you can make it a little trickier the marvel got his money back the marvel lent the life of a million dollars the labor paid it back now the male 1 is clean now the mother wants to make more money what does he do he says he goes to the guy that bought the the property from the leva and he says the life had no permission to sell you this property he never paid me here i have a start so if you're going to give the start back and there's a guarantee in the start now we're going to grab the building manhattan worth a million dollars from the purchaser of the level but it's not true the purchaser was able to buy because it's already paid the loans to pay back but they're pretending it wasn't paid back the kids are it's a lie he doesn't have money he's destitute the life is gone he's broke he he went bankrupt i don't have a dive to my name but i did sell you a building for a million dollars so now the mob is going to take the bill building for a million dollars he's going to give the live a half a million they're going to split they're not he's not an idiot he's he's in on this they're both going to split the building get off him we just turned to the noun from base sponsor zach the rock rocklin and lenny lerner cpa the second sponsor is being able to support limited torah and to finish learning shots with rebellioumate huh i hear yeah but you don't get involved you they want to become fine but you who are you giving it back to amen but if there's no guarantee and you can't grab real estate from this yeah so give it back shane doesn't throw him because bezos is not going to do anything with it anyways upon him we have a problem comes out that the ratio is remain the safer review the award that if you didn't write achara's right that's the second case it doesn't mention anything about a guarantee automatically there's a guarantee that's what rubio says automatically there's a guarantee a chrysler cipher does it guarantee whether you're right or not he may he just made a mistake and not putting it in there says remember typical classic okay so now we're going to try to say the whole mishna israel mayor so what's the problem uh sorry did i say i missed something you're going to say that in our mission talking about aksuba and ksuba there is there is a thorough cipher in other words there's a christ no matter what aksuba has a cries super is different than everything else but no okay nice try but we seem a foolish that ramirez doesn't make a distinction between aksuba and a regular star how do we see it um what's this word means real estate that the the person himself owns versus so you have elohim there's a guy that i know very well who did this in a certain country he sold real estate that wasn't his my he put a big sign with his name on it they said so-and-so properties he brought a big big veer he said this is my property i don't know how he did it in that country i guess you could do it and the guy fell for it at the end they ruined the guy's life the guy got all his money back everything was great but what happens is you buy this property it's not even yours and then you renovate it you start putting money into it the original owner comes what's that original owner comes and he takes it he doesn't have to ask any questions takes everything with all the renovations everything with the field a guy buys a field and he plows it and he seeds it and he works it and then there's the sweet there's the whole thing he comes and takes everything the wheat and everything so that's called pay rise the money you put into the field and the actual wheat that comes out of the field now that's not the double cuts of sajirashi there's no money there's no value to it so you never you never guarantee that when you're selling something you can't guarantee something that doesn't have a kits but it doesn't have an amount i don't know how much that's worth i don't know what your renovation is one kablan takes a million dollars one takes a hundred dollars it's just so mellow you could only grab from the free the free uh the free fields the free in other words you have a ghana this ghana has a house he lives in a house i got him so that's a free piece of real estate had he sold his house you can't go after the house that the gundam sold why because the person that bought the house he doesn't know how much he invested in the field how much it costs to plow and how much the weed is worth and how much this you can't that's a double shana katsu okay ben is upon himself to support his wife's his stepson his stepdaughter again i don't know how much that's going to cost me every year i don't know what seminary she's going to get into i don't know if she's going to get into the school at all you have no idea how much it costs vegeta now rashid points out on the spot erase the word get in your mind it means a star star so this is the question of the game right here at least you see the raya that ramire holds star heif uh any document that doesn't have a guarantee and subbas is you see he puts the two things together you want to make a distinction between aksuba and a regular star oh maybe subba he says to cypher there is a christ no aksuba doesn't have a cries a star doesn't have a christ it's all in the same category manchester united oh my christ loved who holds that that uh that it's not a mistake from the soy fair he did it on purpose he took it out and there's no guarantee electronic superstition and they put them together ebay say mayor we buy semi-reviewed at the end of the day i could say our mission goes either country mayor either according to reviews and if it's ruby huda so let's look at the chart for a second what's the problem if it's reviewed the ratio because it says in the ratio that if you didn't write exuber she gets 200 but it's not true review the holds you could be michael she's michael the 200. why does our mission say she gets two hundred tere it says uh hassam kosovales kabalti over there where it says that she could be my whole review that says mufour she could be michael xuba because she wrote with her handwriting i got the ksuba in other words that's a merciless but in our mishnah she gets the full 200 because yes let's say she told them yeah let's get married yeah don't worry about the tsuba but she only said it she never wrote it mellow he has to pay the 200. ebay is saying our mission could be going according to men and what's the problem the safer that then the savior says that if you don't write them before using the star the zacharias you have to give her a christ burmese says you don't have to give about christ love though soy for who it's a little okay the concepts are a little interesting it's uh baumancia's stuff great we're almost done with it a what laughter cipher it's not a mistake of the cipher and therefore you don't get a guarantee sal commemoration says you do get a guarantee it's not a real guarantee it's a guarantee from from real estate that he never sold so okay fine in the beginning we thought they could be michael now we say he can't be michael fine says the gemara new song you're brand new if it's too hard for you to say if you're not toasty for this kind of stuff brandon seriously easier stuff like have a law if you didn't write in the tsuba that if you get captured i'm going to rescue you omar buddhism comes the father and shmall drops a big bomb and runs away asia's israel if any woman in the world was violated a surah laballah she has to get divorced on the spot we know this allah to be for a cayenne no even an unkind why we have to be yes she was violated but what if in middle she changed her heart she benefited from it whatever it is and she became a rotten we have to be questioned for that what about esther malcolm places as takasha he says esther was at siddiqu's gamura and she could remain with her husband okay hey rav lavo this more comes rav and that's the bomb kasha on this bomb it says if you'll be inaudib i will redeem you and what's the next word into and you'll be my wife again it says that maybe was brought in he didn't say anything so when i first read it i thought ish because he is a grand slam that's it checkmate he got him good from the mishnah no curry ravalay davod smalls sarim otsuru bemilum they stopped the words these are these ministers the hafiz they put their their hand on their mouth in other words they could answer they don't want to answer he felt i don't i'm not going to answer you my islam so what could have been answered that's so good bishfu kilo we're talking about how to redeem your wife when she was captured we don't know that she was violated there's a good chance she was she's at the game but we don't know for sure okay we're talking about a case that a woman was violated 100 percent violated there would have become maybe there's russia maybe it wasn't rotten in our mishnah we don't know that she was violent in the first place maybe she wasn't maybe she could believe in the dark according to you that every single woman in the world has to get divorced from her husband so we're in the world we have a case that's what the governor is going to bring soon is the case of a woman who gets whose nana since she could go back to her husband if we have testimony that she did not enjoy one second she was screaming the entire time that's from beginning time uplight now the governor says it's an incredible thing here doma rava calls us any time it started out with the inus eve and i feel listen to it i'll say about that even if the woman says i enjoyed it so much that i'm willing to pay money for it that's nothing says rafa why because once it started the witness she was violated and she did it against her will what happens afterwards is completely against her control and her ability to to to to say anything she started it was the witness so we considered a violation through and through it doesn't matter she benefited didn't benefit it's not it's not even her it's not her hero to benefit or not benefit that's just either a natural thing that happened or not says i would have paid him she's still motor my timer yates are albasha that's just a natural thing that happened and it's the yater in fact why is it called gili arayas gila what does ghillie arrives mean iris what's the gila arrives the idea is that the isser is to be megala to reveal that's when it happens that moment from that point on you're already not you don't have queer almost there's no hero so the answer is the given not to put yourself in that situation not the the text message the conversation whatever it is that the first step that's the problem after that a person can say oh i was holiness but that's not a good turret the time is on the first first step and that's what the umar says here once a person passed the first step and that first step was a complete awareness we consider you akash barking sees you a complete highness here tanya you gotta say there are villains she was enforced so maybe she gets miso she wasn't forced asura hunt is possible but if she was forced mu teres she's allowed to go back to her husband this possible terrorist is going to give us a few cases here you have a woman who even though it wasn't uh even though lioness pasta she was enforced she's mother vases in our case she wasn't forced in other words part of the act wasn't forced but the start was forced that's all we care about she was not about about spira at the point when she was not forced and she's about to go back to her husband another thing three things we're going to say here villain esposa she was enforced asura honest and there's a woman she have mission esposa even though she was forced asura do we have a woman we have a case it's a riddle what's a case of a woman who is forced violated and she's also the husband this is the way she's kind his mom is she's 100 screaming she doesn't want to too bad she has to get divorced from her husband honestly another case very very interesting case one spoke about it shall be challenged a woman who was not forced she's muted to her husband beijing zoo she could share unbelievable case if a person makes a deal with his wife it's a tonight you are married to me unconditionally you do 24 somersaults and she goes ahead she marries him and then she's mizano she's mizana ayesha if she doesn't do the 24 somersaults then she was never married to her husband so she was never mazzano she's not a misanna and therefore what she can marry her husband and she can marry the guy she was mizano with she met anybody she wants because it wasn't zlus she was never married to the first one massive she has a child from him she doesn't fulfill the night and that's it and the story i saw a couple of very interesting things i'll say real quick it's mama's late the muslim age lived about 150 years ago it was safe hundreds of years he asked the question what if a woman wanted to be over just she said shane and it turns out that her husband was dead at that point her husband went on a business trip i'll be i'll i'll be over at turns out that her husband got killed in a crash in the on his trip so she also to this guy or not she had intent to be misanna but she wasn't miserable and ramosha asked the same question the opposite a woman might i think it was maybe not a woman came she thought she got to get it was a simple document they told her sign here to get and and she got married based on it but she thought she's not misana but turns out she was missing i wasn't even a guest is she also in that office okay um let's just do two two more lines here over have you though by the way multi-shop is going to be in your slime after rush from your slime here so 10 o'clock y'all say he'll tell everybody what time it really is these women that were kidnapped right in the turret says they signed the signature means what kidnapping doesn't mean don't steal honey kidnappers kidnapper sharing their mother to their husbands but they're making food for them they're only making food because they they're scared for their lives this reminded me of the stockholm syndrome everybody knows about this but in the 70s they had they some of the six people were captured and they when they were trying to release them the captured people were helping the the cat the the people that captured them so it's called stackholm syndrome it reminds me of this like oh they're helping them with the guns getting them the arrows ready this that you don't know for a fact maybe they're scared because don't help them with the guns they'll get killed you'll run away but maybe they won't get killed and then they'll kill you for not helping them but if they go back to the gun of him to the kidnappers on their own asiran then they are also to their husbands have a wonderful shabbos a wonderful day for everybody you