Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 5 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] i want to say thank you aj get over here for a second you should have a j store i asked him right when i walked in i said aj are you crazy letting 150 people walk into your house like this he said that's why he built the house famous that's what he said if not for that why else did i build this said you know the a city that's matsuya with toyoro and the shir is a city that has somebody pushing it and toronto is very lucky that they have two someones they have are you blau and mayor planco that are behind the scenes they push and push there's a huge [Applause] a huge huge difference between a city that has people like that behind them like the dove harrises of the world and different cities and cities that are not so stark yesterday we were lakewood we we had lehigh it was unbelievable we were expecting about 170 to 200 people oh this is siri series like talking or something 170 people signed up and 450 people showed up to the chair last night it was incredible aaron hirsch was pushing so imagine if aaron hirsch had you guys behind them there'll be like 3 000 people there so if anybody wants to help out iron hirsch lakewood we're in other cities like baltimore and chicago you need himself they need a mayor plan you know what i mean would make all the difference so you should i mean it's about being part of a habura a local habura being on the chats being on even a whatsapp group coming together for cu men from multi-show boston just the whole that's what makes it people people feel like they're partisan that's just watching something on the screen but be part of kahura it makes all the difference [Music] but i want to tell you about something very very important new york city has a huge huge loss today huge and that loss is toronto's game the most talented people that i know of is moving to toronto and he's here with us today he just got in on a flight the amount of work that this human being put together for mdy for the cm in general i called them up and i said listen i have this idea i think it's going to take off if we are able to get a kosher device a tablet and we put the shear on the tablet and we make sure that nobody could break into it and yeshiva background to use it the reshivers will allow it we could send it to camps there's so many backgrounds that went off the camps they're doing the daf every day but the camps don't have devices this will be a very very cautious device you think you could help me out no problem no charge no problem within two weeks you have a working prototype and a very very good device that's very very difficult to break in yes one of our big cameraman was able to break it at the end and therefore we stopped it until we were able to overcome that i said i want to show you the device well this is the case to the device but i would like to here the devices over here i have one my own it's a beautiful piece here it is it's mamash pasha viosha coldover i want to present to you our very own his wife becoming the principal of i heard the top school here in toronto that's why they are moving so everybody give a big welcome to morning reuben i don't know if you can sneak into the stream so everybody sees your unbelievable hush of a face morning this mdy would like to present to you i mean you probably made it yourself so you're giving it back from here with the actual tablet and also mdy would like to give one to mayor blanco and i mean you started to barriers this is your box i'm using one of your boxes okay great here thank you box i'm going to use this mac hana whatever it is we'll find out what it is later i do want to before we start this year it's a parental guidance here at the end of this year towards the end the kids are probably better off if they go outside and eat ices um yesterday a father came over to me and thanked me a little guy because but there are those who are marketed as well so that's why i find it necessary to warn the parents before this year towards on base towards the middle of the almond is where it starts the [Music] suggyo we were talking about mayor plank i just want to say something because some people find that it's better to be on of but when i said over a story about mo landy it's a guy who's getting into learning getting more serious about his yiddish guy when he found the daf he decided to do hazara on his flight from america to straw and a guy that i'm friendly with would happen to be in the airport snapped a picture of him learning and then went over them screws with him he said oh mdy the whole thing and that gave his up to hundreds of people i heard from many many people afterwards if mo landy does khazar on the plane i want to do things on the plane and i was talking to mayor plank and he told me that the entire flight from meredith disro to toronto he was learning non-stop and i believe it it became a thing it used to be you know how many movies do you watch how much sleep do you copyright it's different now people realize it's doable now we have another thing because the guy in the club said that when he flew to america he learned baba kama the entire public comments marashi from cover to cover and on the way back the entire bass recovery cover came out about five minutes of death these are people that know shouts about pet and so that's a whole different level but it gives us something to strive for but to learn 30 40 60 100 not the greatest feat anymore it's doable for bella button as well for sharing now class because i know you're i don't know you don't want to you're born but if it gives one more person one more person learns target because of you you don't want to look these matters turning colors over here but it's kadai mayor it's kadai and therefore if you have a story like that share it i don't like being the only guy on the show oh you know what we'll do a couple of emails here oh ellie's truck lake would you happy birthday do you feel mordechai turning 11 tonight with mdy since he set his tightness here he is with the entire gear with the magnet on the car with the gansasa excellent mazel tov what else no that didn't work oh you know what you have to go over here okay let's see yes um sitting in this chestnut show last night that's lakewood the shiva begins burial you shared your personal story with your mother and then he wants to share his story he was about 16 years old 50 years ago his grandmother was lifter he started pouring the dirt onto the coffin and all of a sudden his mother started screaming what are you doing to my mother i was in tears and traumatized yes avails truly starts when burying the body saturated swell grows like universe a drove from silver spring says ronnie sterling i want to see him put myself in lakewood oh my wife welcomed her wife okay the bottom line is that welcoming the wife family to the party is just part of what you have created entirely team family is a reflection of your welcome personality okay what else i made three vomits because of you as you see below i was very apprehensive about your vomits but you made it possible to understand what's going on and stay with the program i was worried that i would drop out not by your encouragement with the bureau and every step of the way made a difference to me it started in the beginning of the cycle i'm more committed to the doubt with each passing down thanks again ronnie sterling all right we'll do the sponsors we'll jump into the sugiya the parents of high school is hybrid we have two paragraph two sponsors again i hope that the names are written correctly because it flips the hebrew backwards there is i a losing my voice more and more um jeff rosner this was my son joseph simcha and sarah connor and by the lack and republic families like new jersey because toyota michael benjatree the commemoration of the week of the 10th year side of rabbi yosef brazil and miami community who passed away on the 13th thomas the young age of 42. wow our brazil is a tremendous amount of him he had a global following he's my inspiration started to finish the last cycle shortly after his passing in 2012 and i continued to learn the feeling in his memory michael mentioned twitter is another guy who is the driving force behind the miami kabura justin ivory la slova leo ben bruce i guess that's me thank you for the wonderful trigger thank you justin erie like david you get the name right just and everything justin livery david schlesinger unfortunately for norfolk meets vlog ben norman in honor of stefanski's 40th birthday son of dot games founder the real stefanski they're not liking that line paul stefanski's love the line that jonathan stefanski said that now the fantasies are known for tire not for tuna and the tuna stevenskies are not happy with that they would rather be known for tuna than tyra so the real stevansky's the dog okay here we go tomorrow is at 12 o'clock where yeah right here or maybe in a larger venue we'll see now i'm just kidding expect about a minion [Music] so we are discussing why can't you just have beer show you know about the shocks what's wrong with that so by said us right but the famous joke what does kadak is saying because we're hearing that it's awesome to say on shabbos i have a car for sale in the shop is guerrette how much do you want for it to shop is guerrette a hundred thousand dollars the shop is red i'm buying it the shop is great it doesn't have these signatures it is the shabbos giraffe you're not going to see it in the chapel and just because you're saying gary bemoshera voice side came all the way from here to stroll seriously for one reason to do the tech stuff [Music] he's the one that does the computer the cameras once in a while it likes to be seen and knowing that he's a part of the cheer all right normally me that's true what i said yesterday about deal new jersey yes i wasn't exaggerating the guy donated anchovies fifty two thousand dollars for zalia while everybody else was the lowest was a thousand per play so it was a thousand of the show a thousand to the sephardic um foundation with the whatever like the museum and a thousand dollars to the yeshiva and some guy gave five five five ten ten ten one guy gave 52 not to each one 52 total and when was my ugly uh i said i got confused i was like what am i going to say 18 dollars but i always say matano because i'm ironic and the girl says you're not supposed to say the amount so i say matara what it says over here is i don't know we have to look into why the gross says ginseng amount you're allowed to decide what where the money goes to what's daca doesn't go here let's go there what comes to mind that story i just said recently that when remedia formula was became known that three children in israel three infants died because of the lack of b1 vitamin b1 so they ran around the entire israel on shabbos with loudspeakers screaming in the streets if your baby's on this formula take them off immediately kids are dying created a big panic but it was a fear so the fact would be never you can go to the town hall the places that where the township the people get together the faquach aliske rabbi machados to make sure just comes to mind i didn't think about it when i was preparing but i'll throw out the story it's a famous story um i'm embarrassed if you got his name for a second the book is called just love them no drank grab a train thank you one of those beautiful stories in the book is that one of his bathroom went on chavista theater and he found out about it on friday night so he walked miles to get to the theater he walks into the theater tells the woman i'm not here to watch a movie yeah my student is in your heist on malaysia he's on the plane with me he said hello and he was at bill works i'm trying to save enough i say 1600 everybody says it's over 2 000. they sold close to 1600 tickets but all the people that snuck in and the people got for free whatever it's close to two thousand anyway he goes into the theater sits down next to the bar and says you know he's thinking about it you're here i'm shabbos you're probably very cold it's freezing outside i brought you my coat i gave him his coat he walked out of the theater that was where we drank just thought about it because it says the theaters we're not going to sing a song are we shading or whatever and to teach your kid a profession says rashi this we have to see inside this rash says rashid the lambda umnos all the way on top four lines down you should have a life you should see a life with a woman that you love what does that mean don't take it literally you hear ashi she doesn't say you should learn a profession if you learn a profession that enables you to learn for your own again and again a profession that enables you to learn entirely a lot of people forget about it you go drop your at the double d shiva and now it's time to work then forget about learning literally work you got to work with learning immigration who's the woman you love the torah gomez don't forget this rashi the toy that you love hello the reason why you can't get married it doesn't say he might go ahead and i'll forget that at chavis and the guests are coming to shabbos he's in a panic you know if you're making a party you know about this stuff the amount of preparation goes into something like this evening the amount of catering outside and the amount of the chairs and the discs and that and the benchers have to be so the panic and chavis is going to go and grab a young chicken something soft and easy to chef that's not a hole you don't have to lock up an animal and before you get to the street you're going oh it's something easy just take it that's the problem you might forget it's anxiety don't forget what have you [Music] by not renewing the moon by not making this president will pretend they don't know this until the following day why would we have to push off your paper exercise because perhaps he's going to need a chicken for the feast that we're supposed to have on errand keeper aaron give it some mitzvah to eat a lot why is it a minister to eat rabbi's side so we had a number of reasons either because there's no pseudo objective so this is instead of a pseudo or it should be easier to fast or to make a hacker that when we fast it's a mitzvah we had a bunch of reasons humor right [Music] huh mark says it's because you're supposed to pass she's supposed to last two days okay he's saying that because he's supposed to pass two days that's when that's how you know okay that's how you know it's a mitzvah okay fine yeah i hear i'm not sure that's one of the things it could be says the gemara oh but la mesa we should look in places over here these are beautiful places where this place is um yeah twice is there a mask of elements machining smack in the middle of the places and mill the pages build the page there was a taylor simple man who sold the fish what's going on here story is it was a tailor who saved up money the entire year to buy food for irving dipper that was his mitzvah he was making food and irian gibber and he came to the store to buy a fish and the guy says he wants one zuz for the fish this is no problem comes the guy the servant of the ruler and says hey you have a fish he goes hey just i'm about to sell to the jew how much one's those he says i'll give you two zl's i'll give you three he started a bidding war the jew got the ten zoos ten times the amount the guy said i'm done went back home the ruler says where's my fish i need fish he said the jew took it bring the jew you bring the junior what's going on here he says i have a sudo i have to eat aaron kipper is a big mitzvah so why did you pay so much this is hashem said it's a mitzvah i pay whatever hashem says say okay if that's the case i'll let you guys see it's the mind go you see from here there's a big mitsubishi therapy paper and then today speechless so the concern is so asking tomorrow why don't we have the same concern on airbnb [Music] tomorrow under such anxiety you will make sure that you're not my health so we're not concerned by everybody we a lot of guests then you start panicking the panic doesn't allow you to think straight and you might be withheld shadows inaudible another reason also misleading i would give her you have time the villain guy proves from here that there's no mids with the eve the night before you get ready that means you start in the day of aryan hipper so you could check the night before you have you have time oh here the suit is right afterwards and you might come home now that we have this reason of panic and [Music] so friday night you don't have to come on to the reason of khaburo of causing a wound on chavez we have a problem maybe you will the pseudo will be nimsha in the shabbos you'll start this with the movie on friday afternoon we're going to shabbos suddenly you realize you have more deaths than you anticipated you go ahead and start chatting hot jobs was never married before she get married on a wednesday and be rushing it could be even on one of them [Music] those few hours to shia are not going to make a big difference for the husband if he has a hyena that he can't find sulu he'll go to bed the next morning on thursday or perhaps those extra hours he's going to have karate he's going to cool down we don't want him to cool down why because what if she's misana the reason why i didn't find him during the conducion period dilma no she gets married on wednesday beerus shines that night on wednesday night we call it wednesday night which is in the washington thursday beginning of thursday like died you know what's going on here a question of a matter of minutes people cool down so fast that they'll forget to be making what they have to be making run to best i was just thinking but therefore now this is a man a man that's mad a few minutes later it'll cool down if it was the woman going to bed even if thing was 50 years from now there wouldn't be a problem should mamas remember that you go the best there's no inquiry date over there i'm saying there's no cooling down [Music] is wednesday night like the second time why how you all the number above brooklyn w here let's see over here i don't know it's big small fire it's isabelle fish noodles i might eat this fish they have a special broccoli revolu they multiply they're in water they don't have that hara the water protects them and then it says impossible the next puzzle so the fifth day is a special bro fish cairo that process could apply to humans also it's probably even better when it comes to their approval they multiply a lot more than human beings they they go ahead and they eat their own kids it's a whole nice of them but they have a lot and all the time and they don't have a diarrhea it's just a great brother she should get married on a thursday vinabella special bracha for human beings so which one would you think is a better brother the fish or the human beings seems like from the mario the fish is a little bit better because it's saying most women should get married on a wednesday most suicide okay now hi there's no mention in the bright side that she should get married and be returning should be on wednesday night because maybe those few hours make a difference and the guy will forget to go to bed no this is a good reason because of a bra especially if it's abruptly so important my brother why isn't that a woman who was already married before abrusia and omano why shouldn't they get married with the day on the day of the document it's a great brother silicon valley brought her daughter you might think that the fish one is a better day it's a better brother but in fact was talking directly to humans so profit that's direct humans yes it's less and design harder but it's directed to you and it's better for humans but together with the idea of going to vesden so we get the the the suit here's a new one no zero sugar rums so the next day what does the guy do adios you gotta go to work he's gonna stay home yo marine shine natural shiner your mission there's no such thing goes to work so khan didn't want that one heard at least have his company for three days this is a almond and a 95 year old and a 94 year old getting married so they go you go to the pharmacy you guys have pharmacies in therapy big ones like cvs go in there they say okay you guys have heart medication yet you got kidney yeah diabetes yeah you have walkers yeah cane yeah excellent we'd like to register here okay so so we're talking about almond in our motto they're already married before maybe even more than once so the guy is going to go to work harmon cared about the happiness of the woman they take care of the women she needs three three the guy doesn't care five but at least she should have him for three days that's what he do he said first is the hopa that's on thursday there is the kiba's habito they're together okay so stay home for that michelle now you can't go to work this is chavez so it's one two three says uh we just gave you two reasons one is there's a special property in our motto for dogging for humans sorry and this is also shaktu so which one is it is it that he should be with his wife for three days or is a better brock of humans on friday which one is it well which one what's the difference where does it take enough community it says ferdinand doesn't do anything okay so there's a lot of a lot of jokes about people that don't do anything but i was thinking since i uh maybe misspoke about the woman i said that they'll remember something for 50 years i was reminded about guy comes home and he asks his wife it's not a comedy show but you gotta stop with these jokes last one it's not even a joke guy comes home and he tells his wife i understand what did you do the whole day this that fight the next day he comes home he can't believe his eyes this yogurt on the floor his dishes pile up the hair what's going on she said you asked me yesterday what i did i'm showing you what happens when i don't do this is it hit right here so we have to appreciate yeah so the come home the laundry is done the destiny there's a lot going on so that's all the chaining bottle autumn bottle this other bottle so it doesn't go to work anyways he's already in his 90s that don't work so a guy like that so doesn't matter exactly the shock dude we're not we're not concerned that he's going to leave her so he could get married also on a thursday but if it's about braha rock is on friday only so you have to get married on friday okay says gumbaro they accomplished more than when he created the world they live in mexico who with his one hand he created the world the foundation foundational work and seems like his left hand the world the shamanian with his right hand but it's one hand you mean one you're the one either might when you read it it would seem like it's hashem's hands but it says is referring to the base amigdas so who created this amigos humans [Music] see that's what human beings do is and who who created you with his hands so you see it is plural says here where is it maybe not oh yeah the best is your dog so it says it it's it says it without a yoda we read it your dog with you but it's with that of you so we made that's not plural it could be also your diet we read it as if it has another union there so we'll consider it singular not plural okay that's great but yatsaru okay so the plural is referred to the fingers not there basically plural again we're trying to say that humans in a way are better whatever that means they use the two answers and this is one i see dangerous it's referring to the hands of the tsadiki and then it starts raining that's a testimony from the regia i don't know this is a little off but i couldn't control myself the tire says that you should go out to war you should have a little shovel with you to scoop up [Music] is not on your if a person hears something that's not proper that they own a person should take his finger and plug up his ears the family base sponsored by monsieur horn in honor of abby medetsky best basketball player that ever lived better than jordan and in honor of nassana of miranda cash by nissan shikoya reminds voice of children why are human beings fingers what do they look like you say those whatever that means gonna explain my timer what does that mean first let's stop let's explain they could have been webbed together like a duck but each one is individual i don't have you ever play basketball or other sports but sometimes you jam your finger especially if you don't play for a long time get a nice jab remember everyone's gotta jam in my thumb i couldn't move my thumb like for two months you can't do anything you can't tie your shoe you can't put your shirt on can't make it nothing they also become like blame it's unbelievable one finger one out of five your toes each each finger has a very special purpose now what's interesting is you've seen the gemara something very very interesting each finger was created for another purpose zuzerus talking about the pinky what's a pinky the pinky is to do this you go like this you stretch out your pinky to your thumb then you have this that the client wears on his chest should be zero circuit should be from here to here i don't know if everybody's the same something like this so that's why we have a pinky now i think not positive but i don't think hashem created our fingers and then said pinky up i have five fingers and then the pinky should be it's the opposite created a sheer measurement pinky so then he gave us a pinky then it goes wrong and created something else to do with the thumb so we got a thumb that's how the choice is it's not that we have a thumb that hashem said oh let's let's make a shear out of the thumb so this interesting one here's camito yeah the live demonstration of kamitsu what you do is you take your fingers you like this and then you go downwards into a bowl a flower and then you turn and you scoop so the first finger that's part of the process that hits the flower is this guy the second finger this guy so that's kimizo that's the pizza finger the khmer is actually three fingers worth and you go like this with your thumb like this with the finger sometimes it's the hardest job in the bass i make the the crush to make sure that you don't take out too much and not too little it's called the kimizo finger the second one okay next zuma you know the measurement of ammo in american terms maybe in toronto also it's two feet approximately plus two feet from the middle finger to the elbow it's about two feet you wanna measure something sixth from here to here okay [Music] what do you do with that spa the one that some people point at to say the torah et spa you do this see the picture of the coin what do you do with the thumb the person is a matara he stands by the doors so that azara sticks his thumb in he sticks his large toe in and they put some blood on it that's one of the times that we use the thumb so we understand why our fingers are separated and they're not webb why do they have this shape maybe they could have been like this five like this like that why why why are they nice and tapered it gives us plugs to plug up our ears when somebody has the sahara when somebody here is cursing nibble pad it's an interesting thing you could pause here for a second it doesn't mean necessarily that your friend is saying level path let's say you're watching tv and there's little pat martin says you're not supposed to listen to it it's a problem to hear it it doesn't do good for around the sharma we have a device that plugs it off your rack i once heard a whole thing about the human ear the floyd sapoiro of the human ear so i was learning uh flying only took me five years to become a pilot usually thinks less than a year i'm slow like that depends if you have a business you have children and you're single it could take a year me took five anyway one of the things i learned there it's a famous thing but you have to learn it very sadistic is that you can be flying upside down and you think you're flying straight that's just the way it is i was actually in a simulator and they do a whole thing on you and you're literally upside down and you've met with the joystick you're hanging you think in your brain you're flying straight and everything is good and they want to show you the dangers of flying if you don't fly with instruments you think that you're looking out the window and that's how kennedy died that's how a lot of people don't that don't know how to fly died because they thought they're flying straight and they're flying upside down you look at the clouds and everything looks evolving why because there's fluid in our ears and it gives you equilibrium it gives you if you have an earache you feel dizzy and this hears inside the ear and these the way it works with the liquids i'm not going to go into it so i don't know myself anymore but it's in the flights of wire it keeps us balanced and if you mixed up too much you could be upside down you think you're balanced and the hairs are nice and even and they tell your brain you're flying straight but you're heading towards earth and you're crashing that's just one of the flights the other thing is you could be next to a jet engine and hear it and you can hear the darkest thinking music of a beethoven from the same instrument it's very hard to find in in science and in a device that could if you have a microphone that can hear those kind of differences anyways there's a million different things you are saying why in the world is our ear made out of cartilage the bottom part is soft what's going on why don't you make it like that she made it like that so you can fold it up and we have a built-in plug to the to the air go like this and cool across the valley or aqua i once heard something i'll just make a i'll be kind of shinry it says why if a slave doesn't want to leave his master uh jewish like have it every so you take uh what's the name of that tool oh [Music] you take a nice picture hey take us there you put on the door post and go right through we're the same spot that we're talking about perhaps the shot is we say boys c9 you heard that you're supposed to be there for six years and you want to be longer well maybe what's your shot that always isn't sean you were we all were on an rc night so what happened where did it go wrong you know where we went wrong when we heard other narratives when we heard barbara taylor when we heard nibble pad that nivel pad undoes what we heard in our c the may love that same area that same thing that should have plugged our ear not to hear the new pet but you didn't use it to plug the ear so mela the nipple pet went in it messed up your head now you want to be a slave for longer i'm going to poke that part i'm going to make a cinnamon take that all all poke it through and tell you next time be careful use it in the right way use it and plug up your ear maybe that's the shot good morning i did it for morning subscribe every morning [Music] hear this [Music] this is amazing this is not new you are saying even [Music] unnecessary talk not nibble pad not bad talk not bad words stop varmint sports vermi taylor saying where i don't think anybody in this room could say that they're not over on a daily basis and on a hourly basis that's something mark says boys they get burnt first because the ear is the softest most delicate part of the body so the air gets burned first when it comes to get him so person should be careful that's the guimara and this is very interesting the gemara goes through it's like two parts and it branches off to both sides we have a sophic is it this or it's this if it's on the right side maybe that lock is like this or maybe it's like this and it was like this maybe it's another level and then the mark goes all the way back up maybe's on the left side it's the left side the more higher the other does this like seven times maybe that looks like this is like that okay see i wanted to do a chart ran out of time they kicked me out of this i don't know it's not necessary to do a chart very very simple sugiyo i think i know in yeshiva doi alum this for months but i think it's a sesame mark mao livo with kilometers can be re showing a bee on shanks what's the shiny either damn mifka pocket we're talking about the dam of suleimans is it gathered in one place let's say from the time person is married uh is born it's like you know a balloon is ready to be punctured and come out or perhaps no that down is kabura it creates a wound you know how to create a wound on jabbas to bloodline to make to cut somebody's finger on jabba's is like shafting an animal it's nitilus inshallah it's not a you have to be careful not to not to cut yourself not to cut off purpose right but maybe you're not making a khaburu maybe it's just a bunch of special blood it's nothing to do with that meat or anything else it's blood in a small pocket it's waiting to come out vincent's away without me and if you're gonna tell me it's not a problem because it's by itself it's not part of the gulf it's not part of it's not a wound the downwards sore does the man want the blood so you could see whether or not she's absolutely not the sorry she has a sort of her a deal with a pesticide sergeant also maybe trying to create an opening and that's awesome now i create and i'll do a construction challenge creating an opening sorry we'll pass up a middle class okay no he wants to check soon and the opening happens by itself in other words he didn't have intent to that there's just something a side benefit that happened well that depends the famous mahogany of shots that we learned in shabbos in this case as you see in the a chart drags a bench through the dirt he might be creating a furrow and a furrow is also in chavez but he doesn't want the farm he wants to get the bench from point a to point b the force happens to happen as a as a side effect well ruptured says that's not a problem that says it's a problem so if you say that alzheimer's should be great but maybe i loved your view the domino games is zero carvana if a person is ruining something andy doesn't have carvana everybody holds is not a problem jobs he didn't want it and he's destroying okay so there's no problem if he didn't want it and he accomplished something he created the front door to his house by mistake but it's great that was my mistake okay that's the other but if he he broke the front door and he didn't want to break the front door then there's no problem so why is this considered maybe this act why is it considered a kill goal it could be both it is both but which one is stronger on the one hand it's creating an opening so it's good for him on the other hand he's creating something that's not as valuable so to speak it takes down in the value absula is worth more than a boolean so my main law it's there's a kilkul here yeah in the of mark you say oh she's not a person that's that is that a good thing it's a bad thing i'm not kidding let's say uh somebody gets divorced so yeah say no no don't worry about it she's absula okay now she's she's never with anybody it's a whole different ballgame there's no kill glare yet for him it's better so it's a tiguan but for her to kill so how do you look at it exactly which one is stronger now just in general twice discusses it we're trying to discuss it on different steps here what happened to the famous secretary secretary means if you chop off an animal's head on shabbos chop off his head you can't say oh i didn't mean for her to die that's sick rachel you cut off his head bella almost and it's not gonna die everybody knows that when you chop somebody's head off he's going to die within a few seconds so here too isn't his observation he's creating an opening whether he likes it or not he's doing it or in the other steps that we might as well we have the same question so in each step you have to know what the question is but in this particular question you can say no as going to see tomorrow there's a concept called atoya on an angle where even in our days there's a little bit more flexibility there it doesn't necessarily mean something's going to rip it doesn't mean that is going to be a kaburo it's not observational it's not a hundred percent so with this idea of a toyota and flexibility or whatever it's not observation it's not 100 going to create an opening that creates a wound ignore me and now we're going to go all the way back up instead instead of taking the right side that that we've got pocket now we're going to take the left side should have been a charter would have been easier to realize so on step number one we said is the dam something in like a bubble in a balloon and just punctures it and pulls the blood out but he's not creating a khaburo he's known a t less than shown here he's not taking blood out of the body he's just taking blood that was gathered in one place from the day she was created but even if you say that it's a wound with that does he want the dam maybe he wants his own pleasure and maybe let's when you say that he wants no pleasure without my melee glasses damn just comes by itself it's a sight thing never go back i love your view though i love you [Music] maybe he's ruining it and therefore no kavanaugh plus kill code equals motor or he's fixing it he's creating a clean out for the future okay even if you say that he's ruining it what's that what a person ruins is that lovely computer that's awesome oh sorry iran said the local beautiful macauco and smother the one review that says dobson's kevin is also is only when he fixes but when he's mechanical he doesn't say that i love him or that law is like your shipment we have the opposite okay a boy side very great to be here this hashem whoever wants 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