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Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 49 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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my life is truly different since i joined a year ago it's thanks to you that i did that for every day of vacation i think with my family i have an attached video of me greeting the goats as well affectionately with the llama thank you i had a problem with the with the videos some of the shabbat also the shabbat videos i couldn't get okay whatever hashem different time simon stern i don't think my neighbors those sheep's attached in video i've heard so much torah there in two weeks you can hear under sound that they are waiting already for the today's share see attached enjoy kind regards simon wales uk we have a guest from the uk also what's your names again with the sunshine all the way from gold is green here's the video revoice eye unbelievable maybe i should fast forward this a little bit [Music] not exactly it's okay people are on vacation the learning torah that's the point of this video that's that you'll have to wait all the way to the end [Music] some some somebody i think it's a goat hold on hold on it's coming it's coming right now [Music] no they answered you spoke while they answered they all went ah it's real bubba billiard on vacation with the eight-minute duff cap caught a murder fish is that how you spell your name by the way let's say you spell okay the um oh you did that's funny okay he said he fixed that he went in there and reached you could see my slides what else i did on purpose dr zachary burak says flying something about flying through subas flying through this if one takes a flight without sending your value a picture does it even count if the entire lead up in the entire lead up to the flight all my son kept us in saying was he wants to learn to dive on the plane unbelievable it's much like mike's kids they also wanna okay six movies seven movies okay the kid wants to learn daf on the plane oh look at this ellie victor check this out he is the staff member of the year and this is what he has to say got the staff of the year award of course he has something to say [Music] oh i think he gets the good morning or voice of the year at least of the month okay what's your name again jesse's i'm from brooklyn new york is in the house who else oh i see people turning their heads away i'm not gonna embarrass what's your guys oh the famous simon jacob tell them to point this out is this shabbos my son pulled out one of those 2004 battles that he gave me so he'll hear it simon unbelievable wine i saved it for like i don't know two years who else is behind you what's your name's having why did jews have such interesting names i mean stefanski satorsky yeah from where are you from brooklyn kevaldig and behind you zamor brooklyn brooklyn brooklyn everybody's from brooklyn today anybody from lakewood who's from lakewood oh we're from lakewood we're losing it okay i'm sure there's some other people you're from laker right i'm not gonna ask you your name where are you from forsake new jersey sir regards to your mayor myself okay oh i have to do the uh the sponsors that's how it works here the sponsor of the month anonymous from lakewood you know he's from like it okay so we have in house of all the new people that joined second sponsor of the month aberration member of rachel's mother resigito bas esta rito should be a melissa on behalf of us and our children benjamin has he asked the israel family member of ours three cousins sarah klein ricky raheman around the 12 year old side then all having a liar iii dr abraham epstein you're sitting right next to him two two cheers down remember my precious southern belle wife mother and grandmother rita gay epstein piratist number four michael bemela multi pearl and iron hurst will be zoyka to make it to my rosh hashanah this year pirates of hajj number five keep on forgetting inspired by rebellious memory loss my memory loss is what hooked me he writes okay gevaldik remember it's true i have i don't know if it's called memory loss it just doesn't even go in danny kellotti in memory of levy kaladi levy ben moyesha on his 35th yard side and by sally fort gang villagemaster my father abram yours is today the toshiba yardstick today as a host that my wife should get only good news and be healthy for 120 years oh man both claddings oh sorry wow wow okay you're hiding over there behind the computer sorry if i said we're on the well sort of yesterday we were discussing these different words in the past and we had the word lis noise beso via vesavia says that she's in the father's house once she leaves the father's house we learn even he just gives her over to shliya the father loses his control over her and therefore we're saying that she's no longer a naira murasa she's not in the she doesn't get skila she gets hannah she's already she's already in a different domain ask the gemara the ema hey lebanon okay she left the father's house and she went to the shliyah but what if she comes back when she goes backwards she decides she doesn't want to marry that guy the guy that decides doesn't want to marry her and she goes back to the father's house now you do have an looseness be salvia she's in the father's house it doesn't typically work but the kumara asked the question that she go back to the original status omarova a hookfar what's the puzzle possibility to tell us she already left if she makes a nether who could another nether it's either her her father or her husband valerie moses mccloud ave she's already out of the father's domain and here it says an apostle compared glam and positive heinie of via you saw if he restrained haney is he restrained her her ned there so it says that in the position he has the ability to be made for her nether but she's not in her father's domain anymore valerie moses mccloud we also have the positive vin bass isha isha is her husband nadara and then it goes on to say that he has the ability to be made for another but she's already not in his domain so of course she yourself is the only one ella is going to talk about our case that the father ready gave her over to the what i call yesterday the representative of the husband thank you yesterday how do you know okay or the representative of the father gave over to the representative the husband the bottom line is she's in the husband's control now vanessa armalla and she became an almona badare underway or she was divorced on the way hey honey what's her status does she go back to the father she go back to the husband she's in the husband once she goes out of the father for one moment shove and yah that's what the puzzle is coming to say so therefore your question if she gets divorced and goes backwards goes back to the father she doesn't go back to the father's control omar of papa mittanino somebody had relations with a naira girl who's like between 12 and 12 and a half who's engaged in arab sula soviet the word naira means the dialogue supply skela applies to a naira and not a baguette when she's 12 and a half doesn't apply besula of course we're going to punish him but not the punishment of narimuras she cannot be abullah and now finally like the first we had that all in the beginning this year listening is based off it's another lima that we didn't discuss until yesterday okay repeating what we just said comes to say that she's no longer in the father's domain he ready give her over to the representatives and that's it even though there's no relations but she's already in his domain no she's already married she's already had it so it's talking about that there's no hop up what's bauma mean it's even in a case where she was delivered so to speak to the representative and even in that case she already leaves the father's domain well i have to go all the way back here now here it is let's just take it out okay the official mishna sponsored by moishe cohen with lemonade so that's today now we're moving on another topic in myself child support what's that luck of you of child support so heads up a child that's younger than six years old the father has appealed to be fairness and the story that is no argument but the mission says according to this man he's not obligated to support his own daughter above six years old now the kumar is going to say what about a son only a daughter he doesn't have this what about a son it means also assad so why did he use the word beta that we have to see for the gemara but just keep in mind son daughter the same thing midrash i know there's some mars here that's just hard to to to fathom you got even though so things are crazy but my societies listen there's a lot of fathers out there that don't support the kids get divorced and they don't want to support and they have to go to bed then what is best possible today i believe in energy stroll you have to support your children the age of 18. even though from the kumar's mash mod you don't have to really it depends a person has money doesn't have money but we'll see it could be they took it from the game i don't know exactly but it's not i don't think it's based on gemara the famous story rashi tells us that this is the very very first day there are blossoming he became a nazi and they said okay we got to get rid of gum lil too many times made him stand for long the whole thing and then he became the nasty that day that day that i became the nazi he gave this exact russia right there in karen b avenue karen biavna was the first stop that clay israel took after the corporate mess amigos it was corbin and they moved the entire sanhedrin to caribbean not the ishiba don't worry the the place called karimbi now why is it called karim because they used to sit like in rows like like uh like it is the same place same place okay same place same place you're those of me is very very good okay leela's buried there in canada it's a great name karen okay so they got the camera avenue the first day that he's not serious [Music] that the bottom the sons will get the inheritance and the daughters are going to get support now what does it mean that the sons are going to get inheritance that's in the torah that's not in aksuba so for this we're learning a new concept today we might have mentioned it before but just to reiterate it's called subas oh somebody left not sure why but okay gary's not upstairs okay gary next time you leave someone told me you want to go up there and flip it out and i was like oh here he is hi gary we need the chart chart for shikoya meanwhile i'll take a sip of water not to be advised i don't want to be invasion he's a nice guy thank you anyway so supa is bottom different different means zarim boys all it says is in the tsuba is that if the wife dies and we're talking about the guy has two eyes because if he only has one wife then there's no question who's going to get the urushiol there's there's only one wife one one the children are from that one wife but you have like a mixed marriage you have sons from wifey and sons from wife b wife a comes into the marriage with different properties we spoke about nursing homes pianos all sorts of stuff now the concern was that the father of the girl is not going to want to give anything to her daughter in the marriage because the guy gets married to three other women he has other sons and those sons are going to inherit the nursing home as well it's going to leave his mishpacha so you're right in the xu but don't worry about it this woman all her possessions she comes into the wedding into the marriage with they're going to go down to her sons only and after her possessions go to the sun then they're going to divide all the other nakasa so don't worry subas bought them different okay so we write that in the tsuba subas don't forget the seaside new thing you can ask people don't learn what is super different 95 people don't know different habaneros it says in exuber the suns just like the suns of course they can't inherit until after the death of the father of habanos in his own is so too the daughters cannot they don't take messianas until after their father dies so in other words the the first light of the mishnah it doesn't have to support his daughter until after he dies okay says gemara i just had a little question here i didn't find it anywhere so i know it's but if somebody finds it somewhere let me know i just didn't understand so much to sustain because the urusha the only opportunity to have inheritance is after death if you had two two opportunities so you could say okay just like over here you have opportunity a but we go only to opportunity b so two by the daughter you have opportunity a and b let's go to b but by the usual there's only one okay fine it's not such a great question but fine bibasiones what's this word people why does the mishna say his daughter it seems like finish says a daughter when a father is alive he doesn't have to support his daughter but he has to support his son another allah nami there is a mitzvah to support a daughter now another little child that i have but i think i have the answer is what is this mitzvah it's a mitzvah to support anybody anytime there's a little kid in the street that's starving you have a mitzvah so what it seems like no it seems like everybody has a hero of zidak or whatever but let's say you already gave your dhaka you already gave your yohaimesh you don't have no mitzvah you still have a mitzvah not an obligation not a hero but a mix with the support your own child sounds funny but that's what it is okay i want to point out here because again we're talking about when the parish of ascerta asserts so not serious not to push mdy in the snap but i heard in the last just a few months of sitting in miranda cash's house and he said you should know ellie the reason why i give to mdy is because every time i gave a large amount the next day in the next few hours i shouldn't pay me back 100 times says the aussie client he was there he goes me too this is exactly why and official who gave a hundred thousand i'm not let's say the amount but he gave a hundred whatever to the subus i didn't say the amount erase it don't erase it i said 20 times he also said every single time he calls it the golden dub every time he gets so assertable you give him he gives duck at any place pays back remember we're talking about lock it's his last day lock said he wrote that email maybe i i wasn't supposed to say it also he said uh like uh he gave once a nice amount to mdy and then all of a sudden it fell on his lap a crazy amount of money he doesn't know how where when you remember that myself great mo land the same thing okay zuckerman no i'm not pushing mdy mccloud manny masleesen says the gemara what that's your thing i'm a soft salesman i don't marry masterson lawyer rebbe mayer lawyer our bishop if we just came up with that you don't have to support your own daughter but you have to support your son it's not a gift to support your daughter when you're alive but it's still a mitzvah two things it's appeal to support your son a mission to support your daughter it doesn't go like anybody larry mayer larry who delivered here i did a little thing here what's your key of to be my fireness your children when you're alive according to the mayor it's a mitzvah to be fair as a son according to it it's a mitzvah that even fires your daughter according to there's no mitzvah at all so how does it fit into our mishnah none of these cheaters fit in because we just said look for instance that's to be fairness your son over here it's quantum mayor it's a mitzvah so that doesn't doesn't go according to our mission so let's see inside this how you mitsubish so over here you see this idea somebody that learns torah you have a greater myth about being a feminism so let's say you have two anem i don't know i'm just throwing this out you have two anim one is a learner one is not it might be a bigger midsole to even find us the one that learns over it says the reason why you may find us your sons they have one up on the girls the gemara says there's one up on the girls over the boys we'll see in a second but according to your mayor the boys are more it's it's a greater mitzvah to support the boys because they learn tairo at least some of them okay they're not the opposite you don't want girls knocking on doors you never see that you see sometimes boys you never see girls it's too much of a degrading thing to do for a girl not a myth it's an obligation it's not a mitzvot mitzvah and according to abi huda he says girls are mitzvah certainly boys boys are also mitsub not certainly you're telling me the mission says that there's a for the for the for the boys a mitzvah for the girls there's nothing not a mitzvah nothing says pick any one of these three she does and i could answer the mission according to them if i say mayor you buy the same review though go according to everybody bye say mary mayer what happened is in other words don't be medic what's the whole problem the problem is why does it say the word bas it should just say a boy kids why are you grabbing a daughter says i have a reason for it they're equal but i have a good reason why it says in other words boys and girls are equal there's no hero there's no obligation to be in first name but there's a myth of demon fighters though i don't know if anybody here but i was like when i was a kid i don't have to be a fan of your pia locker get out of here like who are you mccloud the man chocolate cake i don't even have to give you them if i used to tell me i used to quote mars like this all the time if you if there's a mistake to be in fire as a daughter have a humor for a boy why because he learns torah the high degree beta he knew so then the the big question so then why the mission to grab the word beethoven and not just how come along so you have to be prepared but the daughter not so i grabbed the word daughter to tell you even a daughter but everybody understands that of course a boy also we turn to memphis bays sponsored by moisture horn in honor of zach the rock rocklin and learning learner cpa and luscious being able to support limitation to finish learning shots with rebelli heiser hashemis bara those who started shots with us at least shabbos we're going to basically do a cruise right you guys don't know about this but okay i don't even know if it's yasu but whatever we have to limit it to those who's the chavis the no but those who started chops that's why i said chavez otherwise you need a few of them and i can't do a few homies right so the question is and now our mission seems like review and finance in our mission it seems like there's a mitzvah what do we say again but a mitzvah is the sun bonus again the same exact thing but from an opposite way because reviews of the opinion that it makes more sense for the girl to get supported because it's more degrading for her to go collecting so bottom line is according to her mayor and according to buda there's no real to be my so again the question same question we haven't remembered so why does it say contribute to the word you need a daughter that's very degrading for her to go out and collect and collect money it's still not a hero for you but there is a midsole we buy breakout and finally we could even say that it goes according to your from breaking regular says there's no miss at all to be my pharmacy kids there's certainly no clue but because it's a big fish you are been obligated to support your daughters after death so that's what it says in the daughter but when he's still alive there is no okay so he can be mafires the mission according to everybody but from here comes out there's no difference between a boy and a girl so calm down there is no difference there was there's a having me to say that boys are more important than having to say girls are more important but bottom line is they're equal omari bella um and the gamer is going to keep on asking is that what's that like rabbi allah so this is the rebella allah says in the name of again we're not talking about katana we're not talking about someone under the age of six we're talking about high zoom guys you guys also see the part of the chair is gabaldo how many people 80. very nice not like in the olden days but it's still it's been as mana venezuelan what yeah how many people were before over a hundred before venezuelan okay we lost 20. they'll come back is that is that ellie deichmann in the top left corner second down ah you see i recognize it from my that face that familiar face all the way from circus bronchus okay when they're young in other words until they become until a girl 12 13 for a boy but lesson six everybody agrees you don't need a takonas that you have to be in fantasy kids until they turn 12 13 tashma so he said a yard now what is the yard well just say the line the line is this animal whatever the animal is either uh a jackal or a crocodile alligator crocodile and hebrew tanin is is is a crocodile but they seem to translate the word jackal now jackal whatever this animal is it's not very nice its own children so they they call them out they say you gave birth to a child you're just going to throw them in the street what's wrong with you are you going to let the the people of the city take care of him so just in case you don't know what a crocodile looks like here a picture yeah i did not if i took it it'll be a lot nicer it's a little blurry actually whatever fine i'm not crazy about it but over here this is not a picture of an alligator eating its kid although that's what i wanted to show kilo they actually do take care of their in some way whatever but i figured so i was all excited tanan okay i'll show this picture i don't want to show a picture of you then i realized that if i'm do jackal i could show you a video that i took last week of a jackal here we go it's a real video and here you see the line you can see it moving and you see the dead zero you see the ear of the zebra all the way in the left corner you see the head of the zebra on the left here we go [Music] i was only about ten feet away from him that's a jackal right there so they show up to eat okay but seder so we have now over here in betcham's we have a lot of jackals and you hear them all night long every few like they take like a 10-15 minute break and also they start screaming and it's pretty cool actually i like the sound but i i'm not aware of the fact that they don't take care of their mishpacha dogs are more of like mishpakha kind of animals especially the wild dogs in africa and and hyenas and wolves they're known to be more family oriented so okay they're going packs right it makes more sense that it's a alligator crocodile kind of creature i think most of the animals that give birth usually are nice to their or you know they bring them up but i don't know okay you're so here somebody gave this to me and i forgot who it was whoever it is because the gemara always uses this a mortar and pestle yeah that's how you say it in the time of the gemara they used to take you know stuff over here and they still use it and they crush it so yamara says oh somebody here let me just show you it's an official mdy one i saw one in africa and it's like oh i gotta get it for this year and they're like oh no somebody gave me i forgot who it was michael whatever tomorrow tell me it is you know what it is so he came over to me gave me a box i liked it a lot huh i had to see him yeah this is at the scene there's so much going on is that i'm shaking everybody's hand i'm like here take this like okay comes through anyway so they say like this take this flip this over but at the time of the gemara even today i have pictures of massive ones you can take a lot of wheat and so we'll do it to the scale here this is dr avi factor from the magnet set and you stand on this either he stands in it and announces the announcement or the reishikaal announces about him okay so what does he say kofule asita bitsibura flip over the pot balayco make a little stage valema and say so either if the guy is a bad guy he's jose about himself or the the the the best and whoever it is we'll say about him there is called velema over boy bunny the even the raven is is is good with his children but boy bunny and and this guy doesn't doesn't take care of his own children okay interesting by the way stuff that you should know just thinking about it maybe it's a famous thing but what is the difference between humans and animals a lot of animals take care of their young cats they they take care of the young and sometimes let them go later on but they take care of the young i think and it's humans are the only thing in this world that take care of their grandchildren also there's a special kiba for grandchildren david sutton had a grandson f-20 when did he have a grandson no was his first one ever first of all perfect timing perfect you see that mama's grandson oh he cares about his ground what elephant well maybe elephants i don't know they see they go fine aquaponics varve barber you're not even a raven you're not even a raven happens to be here i i just i was once there's a lot of noise going on on my porch i went out there and there was a raven that was stuck it was like flying into the glass of the porch but then i noticed there's like this indian bird we have these indian birds that talk and they were very aggressive and they're tired they're fighting and i came out and i was trying to shoo him away and he was like screaming and all of a sudden these ravens came out of the sky he's over here they have a lot of ravens and they kind of like were attacking me they're like diving at me they thought i was the one causing the the commotions i ran people told me that people you start up with a raven here and they're just rolling they'll come after you like weeks later months later they remember you walking down the street you know what i'm talking about ms everybody says it's true look they come out of the sky and they like they shoot you away so they are family-oriented we have to know what's going on here a little bit so over here it says that they're family oriented they take care of this they're young they they give them mizpah says [Music] the difference between the white and the black so actually according to rashi they all start out white a different color i skipped what did i say no gabriel we say it every day in the morning most of us those who are not on zoom during uh zimra liveney ayurveda take care of the the offspring of the raven because the parents don't says they're between the the white and the black in other words when uh according to rashiyakapanam when the raven is young it's white so the the the mother doesn't recognize it at all doesn't care about it and then later on when it gets black then it takes care of it so when you see is when there's white plastic says it's two different species okay you see from here the this is where it started from the black and the white the the the black yarmulke the white shirt at the end of the day who cares about everybody the same as long as you're doing the right thing or even if we're not okay somebody told me of art live nayorev livenay is white lovan live naoria because the black ones is uh the the parents take care of or it's normal says mario kevin kamido on marley they came to rava with child support the father doesn't want to support nicola so he used to force him he used to shame him into paying child support what do you want your children to go to zdhaka vlamara all this is talking about somebody doesn't have money you could force a guy to give his children money isis has a whole shyly hair how can you force somebody to give it to dhaka we don't force people to do what mrs has said he says maybe it's a liaison say also okay you're of a catholic dalit force who was the rubber force verb ami renassen to give 400 zuz of zucker used to be a thing just until recently the the the the used to force even like right before the war used to force people to give this dhaka they go over the guys you have to give today ten thousand dollars and the story no shiloh you can't get out of it it was a thing so that's why they say i heard a few times i'm not saying this is right or passing based on this but a lot of times like they give you these oh if you wear this red band it's gula for this and you do this you go to this caver and and then the cooper shields like it keeps on coming up with new schools every monday and thursday so they said you know what you're latter because anyways you're kaifa and alex dhaka so they like shtickle and they make up stories you're allowed to make up stories that people should give the doctor that's what they say the robot and passing like that okay a great string doesn't work the who doesn't work you know it works learning torah and people spend the whole day to go i can't say this because ninety percent of this year does this yeah oh i just spent four days to go into curious theater you know you don't even having to learn in four days that's the biggest goal the tire is the best ghoul says luck i believe in that gula they do learn on the plane but it's not the same learning trust me i i don't know i was like learning non-stop non-stop and before i the plane is landing i did the amount it's like the oxygen just everything is slow motion like uh it's not the same stay here learn i promise you you'll have the same skull says the gemara my thing there was once uh a raven that went into my sushaya khasan khala in the black raven comes in there this kalo is scared out of her mind they run through these exhibitions and say what's the meaning of this like a black raven in the room like what's going to happen to our marriage he says you know what the meaning is the meaning is that you left the window open that's this gula you're talking about zulas and okay anyway i was just the guy came over you'll see rubenstein came up with him yesterday because i'm just thinking i was laughing at myself because the sheer start i have a bad memory and that's what caused this guy to come he comes over and he goes off like yeah very good then there's a positive version somewhere no no he's what happened was right before i left to africa i asked him if he has dollars and gave me 400 and i said you know i don't remember anything so just do me a favor remind me it's not a bizarre and come remind me and even after he reminded me about made a case of vayner i didn't remember and he's like you don't oh yeah yeah it's good thing i'm remembering this i'm not joking because i will forget to give it to him i put it in my wallet it's here he's going to come it'll come to chakras here we go what yeah well it's not [Laughter] this really is a very upsetting gemara but it happens and i heard my says crazy stories like this people give everything away to the children and you know what their children do they smack their parents in the face and they take it and they throw them into a nursing home terrible terrible stuff you think that no my sister it happens that you you wouldn't believe that people act like this the the fear that a child could have it's unbelievable so the guy he sees he's going he wants to make sure his kids are set you have to you need a locker for this him and his wife nizoni mahem you could get me his eyes for now what what's the best way stamina if anybody wants to do this the best best way to do it is to give your kids the goof the principle but all the payrolls stay with the father that's the best way to do it you give it and then there's no issues we don't have time now it's uh i once heard a whole story from john i might show you that this happened and the son took his father through him in a nursing home and then the father was destitute didn't have any money and then he went to the rub what should i do and the rough game of eight said that there's a lot of stuff coming up do and the father owed a lot of money said stick it to the stun so he stuck into the sun and the government came and took all his properties away but all the money that kids said how mighty goes into but there are mice is like that you believe it or not mice is like that just like we're talking about crazy stuff people not wanting to to support their own daughter people stealing from their father but there's things we have to discuss at all what happens so homo sapien if a father gives all his belongings to his son at least he you have to support him him and his wife says the [Music] after he dies he could go to the side and say hey support me so who is when he's alive so rashi explains here that what's the mini hustle when there's no suns and everything goes to the daughter and the daughter is married so the i'm i'm saying this quickly you can look at rasheed when the daughter is married the husband is like a purchaser he's a laykayak and then he doesn't really have to give his shiver but we turn him into a yarish we turn him into an inheritance for this purpose only and we say you have to support your father-in-law but certainly the son should have to support his own father and and wife the father's wife says he sent in a letter misha makes me if he died and he left uh a widow and a daughter a menace she gets from so the daughter inherited so she gets from the urus of the daughter but not the question she won't go into that and this is about if the daughter gets married nice guy he just got all this free stuff from his share he has to support the shepherd's wife mesa asks if the daughter dies do you have my oh yeah so there's this kind of story should be supported from the l how do you say not ex her son-in-law who's no longer married to the daughter because the daughter died says who is the more goes back to the question of course if a father gives over to her son all it belongs is his nursing homes and everything he should be supported says when there's only a woman a woman that survived she cannot go around making money for herself daily dog crazy you think that the father after gives he works his whole life he gives everything over the sun he's all excited i'm giving you everything you valdic the son says okay and guess what you're not getting a dime from me so you think that the 95 year old father he has the ability to go knocking on doors they make money but the wife not but the father yes commercial no you get supported like that like that once you write you're not hustling to your son he has to support you says comes a guy runs over to the rav kisses his feet rav grossman wrote in the in the book i think i think i saw it in nathan seltzer's latest book by byron grossman he says that he was in a prison and all of a sudden he saw guy he decided he's going to give him a big hug and a kiss and the guy wrote him a a letter later was it not gonna as well wrote him a letter he goes there this is the first time in my life that somebody ever kissed me all these guys need a little love a little we have to do in the younger i guess not when they're 50 years old in jail oh my lyrica what's going on here why is the guy kissing your feet oh my leg this is this story he gave all his nice into the sun and his son said you know what go fly a and i forced the sun to give him a zionist so he kissed my leg my feet if you're saying that he went above the law he's doing the flemish that didn't really he gets supported so there's no need he's just being kind of he just said he said what it says you don't kiss somebody's foot for saying you see from here that's not true it's above and beyond you have to sometimes break it a little bit if it doesn't make sense and if it i mean as far as it makes sense to support the father don't be a russia have a wonderful day you