Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 47 by R’ Eli Stefansky

today we're starting from the bottom of the base a couple more pictures still in venezuela mode so here we go all pictures that i took myself i thought this was a cool one the uh elephants saying show my life with each other [Music] this is raphilo kamianski in the dentist's chair learning the daf and this rabbi sai if you live in the flatbush bar park area the euler in flatbush gets together every matchup is from the varcham i believe so here they are a nice volume not for me adults africans it's kids by heimholter mark craig finding time was while running a special needs camp to do the duff he always finds time to do the death while running a special needs camp and i see the counselors we have a picture of the counselors here they are they're all wearing mdy shirts these counselors have spent the last two weeks looking at the special needs children in camp horizon uk just like your belly they also went on a safari park they work extremely hard day and night but this year they've got the extra boost of energy due to their beautiful t-shirts advertising mdy malcolm it's beautiful unbelievable give me physical talk of this picture this is from jose finkelberg since superstar base i hope you are well enjoying the dive every day thanks so much occasions used to be no learning that's how it is a lot of times vacation used to be no learning and now it's amazing it's all about the young me sharing a picture i want to share with you this gula we use when traveling to get safe everybody has this gula in every bag you put his name harav levi yitzhak vinsara sasha it has always worked better no it does he says you don't need those uh we had issues with by the way it's a good thing i'll tell you what happened i don't know if i said so we bought those iphone tags whatever the air tags the apple ear tags we put it in every single suitcase and back before we got off the plane in africa we already knew that my bag was still in urgent role so it was good we didn't have to wait around i saw a bunch of from yiddin one guy was missing seven bags i went over and i said listen your bags are in there to stroll how do you know it's next to mine trust me two three days later they but when we got there to stroll it said that our bags are still in africa but then it updated so i was like okay so maybe you shouldn't trust those ear tags hundred percent what's your name from manchester united wow what's going on these matches are covered johnny goodman that's a good one from all the way in the in the corner that's where the hasidim usually sit that here we have what's your life what's your names from bar park brother friends what's your name chief vinegar from most of our park what are you doing here in our show stop it i don't we're going to miss abby's leaving for a week replacement switzerland is going to miss him um i don't endorse this but it reminded me of one of the receivers that i remember was of shock somebody said to me ganedan is sitting with a stender or a stender and a gemara and a cigarette so over here you have the new the island was very into this i don't understand it 100 and he has his radio and his cufflinks and his monogrammed uh whatever okay story of an 11 year old follower it's been a year since my last email back when i started emails read loud were easier to come by i've had my share recently my 11 year old didier nathanson his son udidya was asked by his camp rebbe does anyone here know what that violin is he quickly shot up his hand in excitement that is when you follow a rebbe on youtube and then celebrate by making you see him in person when you finish him i guess he's kind of right hashem since the vermeer [ __ ] and beyond schwarzkopf mdy has changed my life trajectory entire learning and years hashem keep up the holy work sincerely j nathan's in woodmere new york rabbi this month sponsor of the koilo 10 dollars anonymously and source of all the new people that joined excluding that guy that said soup is not based who is that one of the emails we go back over there let's go back we're going back we can read the whole thing for you john all done ah jose finkelberg in his house okay now we can do it the second coil sponsor also somebody that's not going to be here for like two weeks avi and rachel coming on this game memory of rachel's mother raised a guitar says the reader should have been linked to shara or melitsa yoshi on behalf of us and our children last night mando adios left now i don't want to be this tough guy kilo doesn't bother me it does bother me a little bit we got a little connected but that same time he was gone my neighbor underneath me dr epstein got the dog hashem this is a clock went on the trip and they dumped the dog on him okay these guys from border park have no idea what i'm talking about because it's one of these creatures that when it walks in the street and the front person sees it they jump to the other side but it's this small talk about this for my children is in romania with his family not consulted who knows he'll show up in a few days what mandy just came back from south africa he's it's over here yeah thailand's on a break getting ready forever he's not here today what happened to benny he usually screams number three epstein in memory of my precious southern belt wife mother and grandmother rita g epstein do you watch those uh shirum that i gave in south africa sure and you saw me choking up i uh i do a little bit but i it's not noticeable anymore michael bemela multi pearl and iron hers to be so to make it yesterday he says okay we got through a hard dive hey i think it was is simple i'm taking his word for it it's a brand new peric over there it's only five that long yeah mama's simple you said okay i'm taking i'm taking your word for it today you were right yesterday also okay a few we move them things but nothing nothing serious says two lines down from the bottom star bio the mission says that a father zakai he's entitled to the kesev kidushin the star the bear deciding who she marries me alone adam and all this on my crow she becomes a wife to somebody else to another man but it is one bahisa this it's one parachute all the ways of becoming a wife so just like we know kesem kidus in the father again so to the star next and if she finds something it goes to the father why meshum eva because of animosity he's going to say the father it's not right i support support support she gets she finally makes something i don't get i'm not entitled to it he'll stop supporting her it'll be a whole thing so haha second that he gets her message the massey odell manolo how do you know that he gets her salary as well and we had this yesterday how do we know him a father could sell his daughter as in um just like her handiwork go to her master of past massive love maybe okay it's contingent on the fact that he could sell her but he cannot sell his older daughter a naira she's already 12 with simone we can't tell her how do you know you can't tell him stop thinking out loud how do you know you can't sell she even if she was sold she goes out [Music] perhaps since he can't sell her so she gets to keep reminding you die he says i'll tell you it makes sense that it goes to the father these okay so you see that the father is entitled to give his daughter over for we're talking about here because the umar says a beautiful safari himachi masala she is a top attorney she's in the middle of a trial he could pull her out of the trial and marry her off he has the right to marry up so if he has the right to stop her mice you dying joking of myself you see that he's entitled to the mice he died if he wasn't entitled to the mighty day him then how in the world could he bring her to hope you don't need her you know she could continue doing her trial but to tell her you get up and come to a wedding i made a whole wedding thing you have to waste now five hours of your time while she's charging five hundred dollars an hour maybe at he could do that from the fact that he could pull her out and bring it to her wedding is a riot that he's entitled to reminds you that this question aimed me who said that it was the middle of a trial maybe it's 11 o'clock at night she's not working anyways and that's when he's entitled or maybe it's the middle of the day shitake has to pay her the few thousand dollars she's gonna make during the trial but he still gets the the ring the diamond inami the muslims he he married her off on shabbos says tysons the muslims this is a diracer this is a director problem not not like oh some sort of vert i saw in a safer immigrant no dire it's us sir to mix the two symphonies together you have to focus completely irontif so there's a concept of toysephe's shabbos not a lot of people know it but when we learned to suggest there right because again i was back in america and i saw people flying to show you know 20 seconds before skiing their cars yeah but forget about shikiya there's an indian of 37 you have to add minutes or minutes you can't just wait until the last millisecond okay but and that's what they rise up so during that extra hour where she can't work anyway that's where he married her off so there's a few things going on here so first of all you see that this concept of tysefas yantev and chavez is also for women it's not just for men it's here for women otherwise she would be working in the law firm should still be working okay it's clear for her also um [Music] rashi says over here that she's asked her to do malacha the day of rahasana throwing it out that whole day because we spoke about this ism when we're learning about avelos and this is for the husband for her as well however you see from here that there's no din of simraciantev [Music] let's that hour okay the hour before yantev let's say let's say it's an hour you have to stop working then you added it to your yantha you added an extra hour you want to be a closet instead of doing two minutes you did a full hour okay and during that full hour she got married but how are you allowed to get married during that hour amir from sim club of simclaus oh it's only an hour of israel malacha but not an hour of simchasyanta there's no simplest yantev in there and that's why you could get married there there's a lot of interesting things going on in this one line here so we have to go back a little bit the kumar said that how do you know that the possum that tells us that the father gets the kedus the mice adele how do you know it's talking about a naira maybe someone talking about aktara says the gemara it cannot be talking about and therefore it must be talking about a neighbor if a father could sell off his daughter literally seller so of course he could take her might say that that's a savart so therefore the passage is completely not necessary to say that he gets the message you don't need it for digital so if you don't need it at all so you have a whole extra positive so i'm going to use that puzzle for the naira the older girl that he gets the mycea diam right he he cannot sell a naira but he gets the maisie died by farsugio if you just walked in now starting a new miser by far a father is he has the right to break her nether she makes a she she makes another she says she's going to do a certain thing she's going to be in kansas he could break it you may for me yesterday the whole parachute you don't even need these two soaking but in the sukim you see it's talking about bishop avias nidra even the following positive says he could be made for it you know all the way then the parish the whole parish the nurel when she's a naira besovia so you see that a father could be mayfair a nether of a naira even a naira um and he can receive a get what kind of girl we said already she's only uh an arusa not a nassau because once she's in a sewer she leaves his russos completely she's still in a russo he takes to get for her manola so it's a hackish we say that one is similar to the other so just like we learned that a father the vahsa he receives the conducion that's one of the things he could do he actually you have to put the ring in his hand you have to put the star in his hand so mayla by the tio also when she leaves him if they get divorced you put the ghetto in his hand that's how she gets divorced okay i'm stamped thinking here that unfortunately in our society in our day and time it's a very messy thing usually this divorce thing you have to make it hackish just like when you get married everybody's happy and you schmuck so too when you get divorced it shouldn't be this world war three thing with nobody no you can't see the kids you're too your terrible father and this and we're gonna fight over that and if you i want a hundred thousand dollars in order to divorce you though it should be normal no that's the happiness very good okay some people have enough from that you're saying you shouldn't take it down though all right i take it back fight as much if it makes you happy fight okay the father has no right to take from her parents what pay raise for instance if she inherited a nursing home he's not entitled to any of the uh attending the money as long as she's alive once she dies the father inherits the whole thing mother she got a nursing home from her mother told her about her could the father eat the the produce the payrolls of whatever the daughter has but mikey mythically what's the matlakus slim about the quinoa rabona we're we're coming upon a line that needs a tremendous amount of exp it's very hard to even read the slide but we're getting there about a husband and yesterday when i even said this line people were snickering and laughing they the reason why they gave the husband the produce he could get the benefit of the nursing home them kane bim navalee park if you're not going to give it to him and they capture his wife nope let her stay there let the guy in violate her let her who cares ah but if you give him the the giving the pay rise then you make him say listen you're gonna take benefit but if it ever happens you must you have to redeem her now what's going on here is you don't put the money on the side and say okay let's make a pay let's make a pile of her pay rise any income that comes in from the nursing home let's put away in the bank in case one day she gets captured we'll have enough money to pay the ransom no why because if you're not going to give it to the husband then he's also going to be mad and and let's say that they demand a crazy round they demand two million dollars and the bank account is only a million so he said i'm not gonna pay for my money i never benefited from her why should i pay for it let her stay there okay hard thing to swallow but what's harder is it's coming up now a father has his daughter he's always going to redeem his daughter without him getting paris he's going to redeem it it's his daughter i can't even read it this is a situation where a father says let my daughter sit and write there by the [ __ ] that captured her sabar he saw nikita you know she she was an actress whatever she was making the movie she's making millions of dollars she never gave me a dime today she needs my help no let her sit there let her let her be it's hard to understand but then i started thinking about it and i was like people in the in the greatest relationships brothers that loved each other their entire life over a little yerusha they fight like like they don't talk to each other money causes the the worst of the worst you have a father it's pa the gemara says it there's a man that says not everybody holds like this well it says that even a father if something happened in a monetary thing with his daughter he got into some sort of he had bad feelings towards her she never she never helped him out she was she was doing well she's my top of the world and he always said get out of here and now i'm saying you need money no i'm not going to help you out it's such a thing it's unbelievable money what money does soba kiso nikita lava you love her takes a little different option she has a whole packet full of money mma law let her take care of herself okay again it's easy stuff once she gets married now the husband has one up or whatever you want to call it up on the father he eats the payroll he's etcetera tonight cause of love payroll so you have to write if you have a pencil and you have a gemara right over here kosov who wrote the father the father is writing to the fossen yeah we have it today there's a cousin so we have minhagem people buy nice gold watches you give you get you gift the hustle they're not married yet see he wrote i'm going to give you pay rise i'm going to give you a suit caleb okay there's certain things that come in there i i heard i think somebody once mentioned you inspired him where's ours fired him here today who's talking nobody's fighting today not a single one bomb is racist if you're smart you raise your hand anyway so this fight and they write indexuba like like like newtonian what uh executive directors is sorry he's not even there okay fine so you right they they write things in the tsuba i brought a table this like new dunya okay she writes in the tsuba it's a very unfortunate story right before the khasana she dies she's a very good child the father is promising this promising death i'm going to buy adira i'm going to do there and then the collar dies so if she died five minutes after the kasana it's too bad on the father okay he was open everything but it's before the wedding it's before the chupa it's after abrasive don't forget it's after harrison it's a half a customer i saw that they're shy to discuss a crazy story where this guy was engaged and he saw that it's kyle's about to die she's literally she's on her deathbed and he ran and he did a cuppa okay just for one reason to get her money sir there you shouldn't talk about it it's a whole needle if it counts it doesn't count if he's offended he had one thing in mind that's it i mean this is the ultimate guy getting married for money he's like she saw that she's dying she's barely alive semi-conscious and he married her okay again it's going to be tully in das really what's was there a lave shalom did the father give over all these that this hassan who barely knows he never you never met he met him once at the vart he's giving him uh you know millions of dollars worth of stuff if you marry the my daughter okay fine but you're not even married why should you get it now they're only in we have almost the same achis but in the reverse what if the hussan put in money before they got engaged it's not and it's hard to learn this guy's show batman is a call she gets the suba everything in the subaru so let's say the super says 200 zuz because she's absula plus the apartment in miami so she gets everything the whole thing the two hundred and the three seven six super the extra the added losman is ariel minan is suing myself depends if she's completely married does it have to hook up then she gets the apartment harrison but if they're only engaged they will send basil government all she gets out of the whole entire xuba is the 200 the 1500 the 2 million apartment in miami no way valmana from zion says and we're going to see we passing like rebels in manazaria think about it why would this guy who just got engaged to this woman give her all this in the house he was gonna give it to her if they're married okay now you can't say oh but you're only married for one minute one minute it's enough but not to give it to this kalo sponsored by moisture horn in honor of zach the rock rocklin and lenny lerner cpa the schools being able to support limited torah and to finish learning shots of their belly on me okay so let's take the mclarens that we have by a woman that the father put in the qasim into the marriage before they got married before the final nissun just during irisin if you hold that you don't the huss and doesn't get that dunya it's the same thing as the kala like rebels the khala doesn't get the cousin's apartment um perhaps this is the same achis what's the difference if the kala side puts in money or the husband side is put some money it's the same thing you can make enough camino cripples in fact we passing like a rebellious desire so everybody holds the girls them in azaya that what that when it comes to the house and putting in money he only means and intends to give it to the cali if they actually get married they follow through within a sewer he put it in today because that's when they write diksuba but only takes effect after the sun that's great we understand both if the father of the child will put him money the hustle doesn't get it if she dies and if the huss and put some money the child doesn't get it if the cousin dies that goes like rebels maybe you can think about enough community yourself what's the difference between a huss and giving money into the into the marriage and the father of the kaala putting money in saying what is an afghan meaning because when the hassan does it ask the concept he had one thing in mind he was going to get married to her he's having a long life with her great it never happened it never worked out so therefore he never had intended to give it the dollar today you could hear the sorrow a father right your daughter married not married yet we'll be married so you give the hussein gifts now are you making his bonus that i don't know i gave my my son-in-law gifts i don't think i was thinking so much about that you wanna you wanna you wanna like him you want him to be part of the family you're almost giving it to him now yeah you have this thought this perverted thought what if they break okay fine but now i'm giving gifts i want him to be my friend this it's not like a hussan giving a kala an apartment in miami he doesn't want it to be israel he's thinking about the future we're going to live together so here's stuff this is after the hassan where's the father-in-law not the khala putting into their marriage the father-in-law towards the hustle what's his relationship with the cousin why is he giving him stuff he wants to be his friend now mma he's going that's to give it to him now and therefore he gets to keep it i feel rebels it's this uh relationship that they have fine but it's nothing to do with the urusha that gemara says that a hussan has for scala this is a relationship between a father and a son-in-law i i see you you're scared to say something you might hear about it later or whatever yeah yeah of course i want to give them now okay all right i feel uh why did they institute that a father has to give his daughter a misogynist because he gets her mice and died for also yeah aren't we talking about a husband there husband okay good whoo somebody blurted out father okay keeping me on my toes there also this is interesting that the furo why does he have to bury her because now if you the way i read it the first time is because he gets to keep her ksubo now the question i had right when i read it is he doesn't keep her super he already has irksuba aksuba is like an insurance policy if he dies or divorces her he has to give her ten thousand dollars and if she dies before him he gets ten thousand dollars no he just doesn't have to give it to her so why is that anything so taisus points out he says it's not exuber it's the new dunya which is also problematic because we learned that you don't get the new dunya but he says okay it's not the the look for a fight it's the added part of the tsuba that he's happy that he either he doesn't have obligations to that if if if it's hers he doesn't have obligation to it whatever there's some sort of anna here okay says mario appears man the car is we didn't mention anything about paris and you're saying that's why he eats paris says here's a chart the reason why the husband gets her salary is because he feeds her the reason why he gets her pay rise the produce is because if she's captured if she's kidnapped he has to redeem her those are the two things taken is going to say attacks myself the ransom takas peris he has to redeem her because he gets periods so now you know why where the pair is coming in this pair that's what we just added which we didn't have before the ransom is instead of the paris that he eats during their life together and the third thing is he has the barrier because now he doesn't have to give her a subaru repairs now that we have to understand we just said he gets pay rise because he has the redeemer and then it says he already explained why he gets payroll so why are you repeating yourself maybe you should take these pairs see take the basket of fruit whatever it is the cash that you get from the nursing home and put it in an escrow put on the side the cane and and if there's ever a situation where she needs to be redeemed you'll have cash the mccain mim navally park because if you don't put it on the side he's not going to have the money he's constantly abusing the nursing home he constantly takes the the money and he spends it and he buys fancy cars and stuff and then when the day comes when you need ransom garnish it doesn't have anything i don't have so take the ma the whole point is that you should be able to redeem her so take all the pay raise the cheap she came in with the field she came up with uh something schmack in her hasanah take that money put it aside says we like this this this arrangement is better that you should constantly eat and when you constantly eat the payroll is what happens you don't count you don't know what you're eating you just take and take and take and take and then it could be that you only ate a hundred thousand dollars worth of fruit and they're demanding a million dollar ransom oh per kilometer day that'll come out of pocket why because he benefited from her he has a car so type to his wife she comes in with a nursing home he sat there like a king he took okay later on he had to pay a five million dollar answer he doesn't stop making his bonus i only ate 4.5 million worth of a nursing home and now it's five million it's not fair i'm not going to do it he is that car's dive he does it but if you put it on the side and you say okay here's the four and a half million dollars for the ransom and but the ransom is really five million he's gonna say why should i come out of pocket i never gained anything from this woman says the gemara of april here take a look at the chart here's the book i don't have benny so you guys can go oh maybe the micey or diam is because he has to redeem her and maybe the payer is because he gives her messiness he supports her he sustains her so mella he gets pay rise but the mice died the salary that she makes as a lawyer has nothing to do with missions has everything to do with redeeming her who told you what goes for what what's in afghamino sarashi says beautiful if you just you could just read it like this okay maybe it's the [ __ ] she says it's big enough camino what goes for what because there's a concept of of any nazis i'm a child actress i make 20 million dollars a year you think i need your pizza that you give me once a week uh two dollars michael tybus i'm gonna keep my salary and you keep your your stale bread you can make a deal so that's good what so when mela that's if it's my ceo dying if mission is a mighty dime line up you could say such a thing but she can never say don't redeem me and don't take my salary you can't do that somebody's gonna need to redeem you one day so we may love the messy diamond always goes to the husband it's a big enough says what's what's the most uh popular thing people make money they have salaries and they eat those are the two most common things so you put those two things across from each other getting captured in ransom is a very rare thing and so is coming into a marriage with a nursing home how many people do you know came into marriage with a nursing home i don't know anybody zero maybe okay now i know a couple people but back when i got married i didn't know anybody like that no seriously who comes in with with fields and money and producing money producing income things no please it's very if it happens it's very rare mma law you take the rear and the rear and you put them together the the capturing and the nursing homes go together the missions and the mighty dime go together oh my god how many women have a job a lot of women have jobs in the game marriage omarova okay another very simple sugiya this man is just easy stuff here and we're almost done robert says that this tana holds missouri to the right side and it's going to bring three tan on him that the the father the the husband gives his wife messianis is three timeline that says they're right so we don't really have anybody that says that they're abundance yet let's see very simple stuff haiti is in the rise you have to support your wife you have to give her food here it says you have to give her food great these terrible people that were in charge of climate change they were eating up the nation eating them up they're eating up their salaries eating their meat okay so clothing you have to give her clothing relations every person depending on his job different times different periods vegemite don't have my daughter suffering meaning don't withhold relations okay revelation [Music] so here we have another mandarin that says that you're obligated to die right so to give your wife messiness you're going to afflict her and you him and you're going to starve him which was when when do we read it this week okay very good when do we learn read they give this travis was still within two days of the parachute the ruby angela golinski said that imagine if a guy which has a frack he's a hush of a yid long beard he gets up in the morning goes outside and he he finds his mun his mother's right there he's russia next morning he gets up it's not there so he starts walking around he's looking for his mum he keeps on going and going has to go through different neighborhoods he finally gets to this neighborhood of all these you know not the most not the frock people the guys with the short jacket people and the down hats you know those guys the bombs and over there he finds his man and they're saying shiva what are you doing here well he spoke what happened yeah he said he said one word of the hara finished he does it then he comes home and he realizes he can't do anything with the month yesterday it was right he took the money ate it today it's not edible so that's the look for a grinder so he starts going again and people what's going on here why is there shiva looking for a grinder ah he spoke a little shanghairal came to shake it and finally he says he tells his wife i don't want to eat anymore. i have such bushes wherever i go people happen i'm about average the the frack doesn't pass anymore the longer head whatever it is the the faster the gun that they're at bottom where doesn't pass so starve myself it's not gonna die but we can really stop here but why start shocking sometime if you don't have to susa the pumps here thank susa based on how she is if she's an older woman a younger woman would wear like a really heavy you know like a a wedding dress can imagine i don't know how much those things weigh but i once had to schlep my wife's very heavy but an old woman can't wear such a thing it'll knock her out so based on on her age you have to give her the weight of the dress basically okay in our terms it's more like a style yeah there's a bubby style and then the the young girl style it depends who you're marrying you can't give a 60 year old a dress that a 18 year old wears susan thanks susan over here is referring to the season of the year so you have to give her warm clothing in the winter and cooler clothing in the in the summer don't give her brand new clothing in other words in those days when they didn't make it thinner or thicker just it was older and newer that's how it became thinner by the amount of times they wore it so you give her the thin the thick clothes in the in the don't give her the thick clothes in the summer like shaman and not the worn out in the winter wishing he's thick have a wonderful day you