Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 17 by R’ Eli Stefansky

it's going to be one of those famous ones cases attach please my find my eight-year-old daughter rahul raquel with her best rebellion impression i joined this year when we started sukkah and i've been on train since i was at the scene my belt works but i didn't get the chance to say hello in person i simply want to say thank you thanks so much for all the effort that you and your entire family put in the helping client shoulder entirely thank you for keeping it light funky schmack and enjoyable you and your wife are truly has the lives of thousands my 11 year old son joined me at the cm simply because i want him to experience an event we could feel how special even that toyota is as much as going to yankees game is fun to experience energy and do show that we experienced at the scene was really an incredible experience they developed created the atmosphere that atmosphere man shouldn't continue to bless you and your family with much brokenness love looking forward to hopefully meeting you in person sooner than later sincerely mickey cooper edison new jersey here we go [Music] so rosenfeld very belly i really enjoy watching amazing share please see your touch video my kids doing good morning round boys two [Laughter] foreign that's what i was looking for okay ariel elito and here three generations doing the dive in antwerp belgium good shabbos family [Applause] new jersey because toyota hashem loves them tremendous success in my new business because torah is the best and part of number two is the highest steinberg hotslack in i don't know who's talking to but whoever it is you should reserve the rookies and cash me this okay everybody says one of those dapping one of those famous famous daphnafian zain we are all the way on the bottom tess zion on the base ketad miractin now it's the three weeks so typically we would burst out in singing here but because we're at seaboard i sang it to myself today on chavez and now you're just going to have to play it in your head keita miraculous how do you dance around the cow says rashi what words do you say it's not so much to dance as much as the words that you say to her bishop every color based on her beauty oh i did not who do we have we have doctor shamrocks what's your name sean rojos from new york so and you're also there no no kemat you are so what are you guys doing here confusing me wow okay and you are dobby friedman from queens somalia who else oh what's your name dan rosenberg from [Music] wow boca is huge it's a lot of poker guys we got to go to boca mby has to fly us in boca okay give albic it's a big you're part of khabur there there's a whole yeah who's just here a week ago this who oh just brody that's right oh shameless what's your name oh ronnie sterling where do you live ronnie so we're springing that's right silver spring we just i just saw you in new york what it was yeah yeah it's mama's confused okay can we go who else a victor falls ah it's a regular show i like my victor okay all the way what's the name of the place you live at carnegie roan hello no but you're here for shabbos yeah it doesn't count all right let's learn toyota casinos you describe her beauty it's very interesting whatever milo she has obviously so the kalo she has a special hain what's very interesting is that we're talking about certain things that you're supposed to do to show whether kala is absolutely and you do this and she goes out with the hinuma and then you say kalanova kasuda if you look at it kala is 55 right ku of lemonade 55 no is 56 kasudo total 200. so remembers a gematria she's absolutely she gets 200 you say in front of the scene make this dance calendar i'll pee um yeah thank you go to sleep up there overall what do you mean if she is a lame person or blind or like what if she doesn't have a special hane so what's the problem you always have to be careful from saying a lie even if it makes the husband feel good so guys sent me an email here let's see if i have it oh from dhovi according to vishamai and you come to wedding the cow isn't really no what do you sing he says that's that's what you're saying for a color that's not that's very tight okay the right to that one so if somebody buys something that he can't return so what do you what do you say to him uh you tell him the truth what a beat up car it's gonna have to be in the shop all the time you say wow you got a good deal it's not it's gonna be cheap on gas you know you should they should always tell people what they want to hear what's good for them to hear so mela it's a very good idea to always make sure that every day you find at least one person and you tell them something give them a compliment to give them a good word because you don't know what that good word might mean to them yeah what no no no do not say do not be nice to your spouse i was the hospital i never said that now because of you they're gonna take me off of youtube i'm saying be nice to your friends what's wrong with you wow don't put words in my mouth no you spat listen your spouse you have to be nice to every day i'm saying in addition to in addition people you don't want to be nice to call those people you don't want to be nice to move on okay we'll move on i told you that time i uh this is way back there's a kid in that came to the chair and he said a good vart in cheers i called up his mother and i left she didn't pick up she was a divorcee so i left her message i said you saw mom and she is and uh like weeks later somebody told me you know she's walking around with the back in the day it was like you played it on a tape you know there's you had a answering machine she's showing people the message like people could take your words it was back in the day when i only had five guys in the shirt don't wasn't like ah rebellious said something no it's like this shaita from lincolnwood say good word huh [Music] she doesn't need any makeup and she's beautiful without the makeup like how not the make eye lois surak not the blush the loy pico she doesn't even have to do her hair the alaskan is beautiful very interesting when they gave smikha to her zero they said the exact same words he doesn't need makeup and he's a great imam and she's beautiful chorule that's what that was the song [Music] zero even though he didn't wear such beautiful clothing you still his anemia so they gave like some sort of rhyme don't don't give us the people that distort the torah and don't give us the people that are rags a rag is like full of holes he's holy he has a whole a baguette the shallow these kind of people who want this in rashi says is somebody that only gives one-fifth of the reason if you look in ice tests and i'm sorry some people have it i say he brings the arah and this is the shiva bhagavan are not going to like this at all it says they they learn one-fifth of them you see guys one-fifth of myself okay whatever five daffodil but they called hamisin don't give us any hamisin guys we want people that know a lot of torah so what's turmesin so termicin is is a type of a bean here it is on the screen if you want the guy went to sleep with it to me sin but rashi says i don't know what what shy is what does it have to do with over here don't give us a bean okay so remember when we come from yeshiva to the house of the caesar that's more of a leader rabba is more of a nasty as he lights up the the world like this is not for now but what who yeah there's a this is a dust mama's straight off the tree i said yeah i know i brought her but it doesn't smell real um no it's fine so somebody sent me a video of his kid and maybe you should lower the volume but here it is you ready let's see if we can get to it oh lower the volume but it's interesting that they say these words when they this this there's a song maybe play it in a second just for the to the words not now i'll tell you what this is the hadas dance somewhere they could dance [Music] there's no house in there either you see yourself okay now now put it on let's see if we can hear the words [Music] miraculous would take three of these now it's impossible for for me i i could juggle three balls i cannot juggle three hadasm i don't think it's possible i i will try because maybe that atim summon ah i it's not even gonna go once but i'll do it just to make a fool out of myself and that's basically what they called them they called them uh a little bit they said he's the shytails we'll see the gemara in a second but i have to stand up for this it's embarrassing it's gonna fly everywhere not even once huh you're gonna do the one with the what y'all say why do you have to make me look bad let's talk about it right now here it's always the worst ones like that i don't know what to do okay it's gonna be a whole three of them okay it's never me smiling it's always like [Applause] okay fine do not please [Music] and he's like he's like if if it looks weird more clicks no it's not it doesn't it doesn't work it doesn't work trust me it doesn't work but listen to this amazing camaro i love this gemara gary without recording rav schmoeber with listen to this says rip zero commaxiflonsabo the the this elderly is embarrassing us look what he's doing he takes that that's it makes a fool out of him so out of us says unbelievable there was a fire there was a a pillar of fire that separated his body from everybody else and we know from tradition this only happens to one or two people per generation in other words there are schmobera vietcog was a great man now i might have said this recently but rip shalom told rebar bear that the hobbit [Music] used to go into the show on khatsas the gaba used to check the whole show to make sure nobody's there locked the doors and nakamura would go there and do whatever he had to do during tikkun khan as a child or something like that hid in a place where the gaba couldn't find him and he came out and he watched and he saw her i'm not going to go to the beam and there's a little light there and he looked inside there's a sack full of sheamus and he went into the sack and he pulled something out and he started reading out loud and he saw a fire the huskan got really scared he saw a fire come out and bear said that there no i had a fire that i know but that kind was able to see it at such a young age that was a pellet and i was just thinking about it here also this doesn't mean that the whole world saw a fire come out those who were the ramak said that whoever sees something interesting at his leviah he's the one that's maamshire so there was a kid that arisa was speaking to this kid and the kid said there is a lesson did you see something and he said yeah i saw a fire over his over his mita she said i want to learn with you tomorrow so the kid came and arizona told the kid say russia those words say russia get out of here you're a bad kid you're a bad person you saw us like you saw it from rouhatum or something but they say that that's the reason i was looking to see the the fire and here's the mam of the maraq but anyway this amudha nura but but but but look at this look what it says here um helped the elder the elder it was the hadassim that gave him that godless that there's a mud in the nurse says tyson's how did zero know maybe it was something else maybe he learned torah says tyson's because the amudha denura this fire was in the shape of a hadas so zarya realized right away that he made the mistake he shouldn't have told what was his name again um [Music] he said you're embarrassing us they're talking about embarrassing us no it's those that does him that he embarrassed himself with that's what gave him the godless how did you know that because it looked like a hadasta fire vermillos dusseldorf he made himself a fool by him making himself a fool that's what gave him godless shitself his shita his his minute i could probably see here a tremendous insight that we see this all over people grab a certain mitzvah a certain thing it becomes their mitzvah and they go all the way they go all out with it even if it embarrasses them they become embarrassed through it it's that mitzvah and scales are going to see soon from the greatest mitzvahs misses that you're mavato therefore the person takes that mitzvah his thing there's a guy that uh he's related to some some of the people in the shir tsubeli i forgot his first name he has a thing every class and he goes he bounces brooms on his nose that's his thing he's known cheer broom so i'm not saying and faker you're not supposed to imitate you're not supposed to take now oh i want to be like i'm going to buy it so i'm going to take a dash i'm going to juggle that everybody has to be their own individual mitzvah so happen so make it your mitzvah but from that one little bit so you hear what's going on here that one little mitzvah you think it's a nothing and that's that was that's what separated him from the rest of his generation only one or two people in the entire generation get this how from this mitzvah vadasam everybody [Music] i have to tell you from the entire message this is the only line that i remember as a bucket right here revaccia took the collar and put her on the shoulder i'm not kidding what about us could we also take the column put on our shoulders oh this is the line if you could imagine the collar in your mind like a piece of wood then yes if not don't even think about it you see that there's there's a special indian with a kala as we'll see from the sugya something different than the regular asia fish but it's it's interesting if you're on that high level that this person is like a beam okay then you can do it relay light so with not getting into any controversy of course but just to give the perspective of the litvak what about mitsutans they bring it here on the soggy so there's a pisgah chuva that says and i'm just showing the the lutheran side not the casitas side i being you can't make enough distinction between a color and a regular asian sis the lekka because no one in our generation manda muslim the dummy eliot nobody could say that the color is like a piece of wood today nobody in our generation said how do you dance in front of the lord and not with together with this episode that's what we're learning today the usual is stacked up with nakali you know i'll look at her even just look at asia voice these says he asked based on this how do we do a mitsubitans so he says maybe the pisgah chuva is talking about that they put a like a rag between their hands it doesn't mean that's a long string and maybe that's why it's okay the the retirees says i saw the the rebbe from shinova that he used to do a tremendous avoider and he used to do he used to dance in front of the kawa but he wouldn't use a garter because it says lifting akala not imakala the bear moisha says that in our generation we have to be mahmir not to use any any kind of even agarto but the father of the kala is allowed to dance with the column hold her hands and he says not the grandfather the grandfather should not hold the khala's hands anyways i know that the kasitham are going to send me a lot of emails and i'm looking forward to them all the mercurials no seriously i'm just saying again i don't know the other side very well i'm just explaining i know that they're very upset they get very upset and nervous when you don't do a mitsubtanz they my brother-in-law like my i should say my niece got married to somebody that in his family and he's even they're from switzerland they have like their the haimish you're not going to do a mitzvah it's like the haasen is off it's like a big icker by them so obviously they have uh uh no water can happen so no forced layman to uh avigar gear he fell here on friday while he was working for he almost broke his ankle he's in a he's in a cast of some sort so we're foolish lima um [Music] yeah yeah abby got gear a person who's not so much about it you could be the coffee guy the coffee man he goes to oil haber you know giving coffee to every single guest and this and that you know what i mean unbelievable like what that's what robbie anderson says you'll add a steer at the kalo in order to put that love into the hassan as rashi says kisha roya called miss taclimbo when he sees that everybody's staring at her then he he thinks to himself wow i got a good one the last hika say it's awesome to look at the kawa so they reshine him say if it's awesome to look at the color so how do we have people that testify that she deserves 200 zuz because she went with the inuma she they saw her they looked at her all these people looked at her you know look at her so the reshanam answered that they saw the hat they saw the enuma but they didn't look at her face and then of course the famous turrets of i think it's urban yayana and other the difference between the stackless and ria there's a quick glance and there's steering the gemara was talking about steering and looking that's awesome a quick quick glance you look away that according to something this that itself is a shiloh but maybe that's what the mother is talking about says um it looks like this who's first king is first so if you bump into a king your whole procession of the khasana pumps in the king you have to move to the side second in in line is the kawa if the dead there's a funeral and the procession of the the cow costume the funeral goes to the side so it's king khalid the dead my virus some want to say and it's not so clear that when it comes to giving money let's say to kala kalo also comes before the maze there was a cow that came towards him so he broke the rule and he gave her the the covenant and he went off the path said he did beautiful he says if they praised him so that means he did the right thing even the head of the nation in terms of torah the nasi if he decides to give up his covet we allow it a king is not allowed the double ocean there's a lot of semi says rashi and it comes to tell us that you must protect the honor of kleistroe as a king you yourself have to honor yourself and don't put yourself down don't move to the side your fear should be on the king says you know why he went off the russia's there was a fork in the road so it was very hard to notice there was a turn whatever he went off that way they thought that's where he was going anyway but it was to give cover to the child again here you see the idea that is top however when it comes to allah by so i saw from the azimuth says if you get a bracha under the choppa that you gave him if you're a very kashif person and you go to the khasana unless you come from out of town you this that itself is simcha if you give the hudson and kyle a cup of water in the middle of the dance getting food that's and if you give them a good joke or you go over you say good word you say wow unbelievable i know the mushbach what a great kyle that's also part of simcha's christmas nada talking about only one of the two things that we just mentioned we're not talking about a cal anymore we're talking about only a mace we met with called sarcoid when this funeral doesn't have enough people called circle but if it has enough people then you don't stop learning what does it mean in the name of trace alfighter if it has twelve thousand people at the funeral then you don't go vishi tafi shibairei and six 000 on the trumpets announcing the kids are 18 000 people anything less you have to stop learning toyota primary law place our alpha governor it says on the cider that knockout is 13 he goes straight center 12 like to come over before trace alpha gabriel 12 000 it's not 12 plus 6 000 choice rice it's with from the 12 to 6 so it's a total 12 000. from the gate of the city that's how many people all the way to the cemetery it's a lot of people right now boy the the giving of the tire was 600 000 men so when you take away the tire by adam goddard it's 60 000 uh 600 000 people so you need a funeral so let's say let me ask you shiloh ribavati yosef's funeral they say i had over a million people so you don't have to go to the funeral because it says over six hundred thousand the answer is no of course you have to go why so it says like this this that's the hamstring the six hundred thousand is the person that learns that foyemi a person that learns homage learns mishnais but the one who gives a share like yourself lest this euro you have to go to his funeral even if there's a million people so rashi says it's a very interesting ration here on the top leslie shiuro says rashi um as long as he has you know three four people that are going to bury him you don't go to his leviah it's niela myself sometimes you have a face or somebody that's not affiliated or whatever so you think you're doing a big mistake this is levia instead of doing the daf you shouldn't says rashi right if you're about bottle anyway if you're playing basketball instead of playing basketball you go to zamaya here no he just told me he just played basketball together that's good basketball is not bittol it's for the body it's good you have to keep in shape each person i'm just saying again i'm not a rob i'm not passing who's the value to go to i'm bringing things up so next time think about when it's time go to a level of it or you go we're not going to a leviathan of a goddamn like rafael was nifter and a lot of us didn't go because we couldn't get in there or whatever these kind of things however they say that in our days when this is there's so many different characters that take care of different groups of people the belzers have the usharmis and this so you never have to go to those levels you don't go otherwise you'll be busy all day long going to people's funerals oh spencer oh i forgot again sponsor remind me please put in the thing sponsored by moisha horn in honor robbie two medetsky the only rebbe that was actually gonna basketball and yank alcohol in the official mdy msp and sponsored whatever it's not so important in honor of me that i was not such a great basketball player he also played with me this time yeah and how was i back then you were actually very good i was pretty good but yeah who's the who's the maven who's the maven here you were decent he said that okay turning on that hoodie newman in honor of rebellion the real greatest jewish basketball player who ever live ever lived better than the guy that made it to the nba or whatever okay what is this i have a little bit of a picture here something like this this is uh you take adasim and you you make it in a it's not really this you make it in the shape of a tanner where it's oh that's something else hold on we're getting there this is a special hat that the collar could fall asleep because nobody can see that her eyes are closed this is the best picture i was able to come up with okay let's not manage this if you were huh there's a special hat yes you know take the picture not a maggot person obviously look at this russia he's not even wearing his mask on the plane you ever notice okay whatever if you go to a lot to the airport there's a certain type of person they happen to be jewish and they happen to have beards and they always wear the mask the whole airport is wearing it like this they wear it on their beard you ever notice i don't know if you've ever been to the airport you'll see what i'm talking about okay huh no it's like the the chefs in the restaurants they have to wear something on their beard yes sir this guy wears why are you closing your eyes out you know exactly what i'm talking about right he knows what i'm talking about okay the reaction of a breaker says that if if you throw this dry wheat that gets stuck in people's triangles and it's a raya that the woman he married is absula these are great riots in yudo the bubble i'm telling these things here in these gemaras that really throw us for luke we have no idea what's going on it's just not anybody that did something like this today in our generation they put them in harem they would kick their kids out of school in them second if a woman takes oil and rubs it into the men's hair it is i don't know how they did it i don't understand they they scrub it in like shampoo into the hair oil never put oil in here it's good stuff go home and try it out and tell me how it is because i will never do it sure papa says oh you're talking about this uh shampoo stuff on my yasma your mom is like an orphan i i could tell you never had this your mother didn't do it what's wrong with you i bought in the associated it was the the son of the the talmud god had a shidduch with the daughter of rabbi or was the son of rabbi with the time of holcomb's daughter and wherever the diagnosis and the women they put the oil into the tamil kham's heads myso what like uh no no no to tell me to other people didn't do it not to you at your wedding she didn't do it to the other people i'm saying if your head is somewhere else if your head is in a different place then everything makes sense there but you know we can't relate to this we're firmer than them says and what about an almana what's her simon at her wedding tony reviews again uh almono here means a not to throw any dried wheat because as soon as you see the dry weed it means that she was never married before whatever oh so now we're going back a little bit out of that we had in the mishnah that if a person comes over to another person the idea of a pesha as our appreciator a guy comes over to somebody else and says listen good news and bad news your father owned 17 nursing homes the bad news is he sold them all to me last year for ten dollars since the kid didn't know about his father's ownership of those nursing homes so the person who introduced the idea he has the right to say whatever he wants and one of the things he's saying is you don't own it anymore in other words there is no there's no there's no raya that they owned any nursing homes he's introducing it for the first time so anytime this is ain't shar shackled you could say so much is going to say but why isn't the mishna say a better case i bought a field from you says you don't know about it you don't remember about it i'm sitting in this field i'm plowing and producing from this field for 10 years you didn't say a word so i'm going to come to you and remind you oh by the way you used to own this and i bought it from you says mario okay it's a it's a decent it's actually better not as complicated as the case the mission it brings it's much it's straightforward you and me was one-on-one me and you i bought it from you instead of saying i bought it from your father however yes so there's a the second part of that part of the mission is that if there's a dim in other words there's a short chakra they don't come along and say listen your father owns 17 nursing homes so now the guy doesn't have a right to explain that he bought it from them from the father because the adam are introducing the idea not not that man not the owner says so this is the shah's caught on alert now this is going back to the famous concept of astra of hesca if a person controls real estate for three years it's a riot says because if not if it wasn't his where's the owner how come the owner doesn't come now the owner he has a star but after three years he doesn't have to have a star so the guy's gonna say i own it i bought it from you i had a star got lost variety i'm here in the field for three years i don't have to hold my star for more than three years says what's going on here what's the case if the guy that's telling us for the very first time that the father owned these nursing homes if he had them these nursing homes for three years ahmad muhammad of course he's believed he's holding on to them only for two years she delayed muhammad why is that how could he how could he own something without a star only two years of hazaka says and therefore it doesn't work in the case where he says to the guy i bought it from you you bought it for me how long are you in there for two years so give it back to me three years okay so that's that's in bubba bastard it says if you hold it for three years it's enough so what's the hidden so it doesn't work in that case that i bought from you it only works in the case of when i bought it from a father why says the same same question [Music] if he bought it from the father and after he bought it from the father he lived for three years he had three years of hazako that's enough and if it's only for two years it's not good enough same problem that i have with you i have with your father says says because you're dividing the years of kazakh two by the father then the father died then the kid was a lie the kid is alive obviously but he was a cotton and i did one year with the kid even if this youngster became an adult that's not considered over here he's just repeating what the mission is saying really see by saying he's saying the the dioc that you see from here that we're talking about a situation where it's two years the father one year okay everybody saying and then the second thing he's trying to say or this is the main hidden is that even if this kid who's 12 years old at the time his father passed away but now he's 15. that's not a hazako he says himalaya listen to me today but it's still let's say that the guy introduced an idea says look i bought it this failed from you not from your father from you i sat in this nursing home for two years how come the third year doesn't count because the the original owner ran away he ran away he's not here and that's not a kazakh in order for me to make a kazakh and say prove that the fact that i was in this nursing home for three years straight it's mine is when the original owner was around and he could have made him he could have protested me sitting in the nursing home but since he ran away he couldn't protest so that's not a good kazakh says but what happened exactly let's figure this out why did you run away fascists he's scared for his life in other words he got in trouble with the government and the government is looking to hang him let's say he made fun of the face the priest over there who knows what so he had a run for his life so there's no way for him to make him because if he makes him guess what he ran away he's an australian now he's going to make him the coming to australia and kill him now he's he's giving up his hiding spot so he can't he can't make a he can't protest so therefore you're hazaki you're sitting in his nursing home after he ran away he's not of course he's not he's not going to protest he can't make him a small mind and if he just ran away because you don't want to pay somebody alone or something [Music] if i make i protest and i say that guy's sitting in the nursing home he's stealing from me it's enough why is it enough because eventually he's going to travel all the way back to ramaphichemish and i'm going to hear about it this naan says you could divide it israel into three and that's how we do a kazakh yehuda baby i'm finishing gersh and i'm finishing hold on here yehuda this is a little bit uh not so clear this picture but it's very interesting because here in their destroy we read i wanted to say the stories my sister two weeks ago a woman showed up a week late for her somebody from this neighborhood she showed up a week late to her nephew's bar mitzvah because she asked her sister when's the permission she said so she showed up last week it's like what are you doing here i'm here for the bar mitzvah no no that was last week you know what i'm saying is like you know she was going back she didn't say the date she said the parish she's going a little tired but anyway today's parisha matas and there's a troll did they catch up yet not yet next week oh mata yeah so they'll read it next week they're talking about average and god bene gov going very yard and here it is the gemara talks about every iron this line that goes down the middle with the water up the thing that's the the jordan river so on the other side is evariardi that's one part the other part is the top it says galil and on the bottom says yehuda so these are the three parts of eretz israel let's say the owner was taking vacation in yerushalayim and the guy grabbed his field in the galil in galu the god of or the reverse he was on vacation galil so the guy ran into his hotel in yerushalayim and grabbed onto it he has to be in the same medina now what's a medina medina is not the entire israel medina you have to split it up into three there's three there's three sections here microsoft and we asked over there what is it what is the old ecosystem if he holds that i don't have to be in front of him so separate aries israel into two golden you know what's the difference i could be anywhere in there just roll i'll say the word and it's going to travel them eventually and if you hold that it's not enough i feel you to be the name so what so i'm a bit chat mitch and he's usually i'm it's in the same area but i'm far away from him why is that a good maha what i have to be all in the galil all the way here just in different cities it's enough not to be a good makha is that i don't have to be there i could be far away and i make them and that's enough for the guy to find out about it and if i didn't protest then he gets to eat it and use it and it says um there's a war there's something going on and people couldn't go this the train stopped everything stopped um and why did he use the lush and you the gold is of the train stop so it's anywhere it's from the championship also [Music] it's a it's it's a muscle of two places that you don't have chairs materials you don't have the constant traffic from one to the other you either go even in time of peace they didn't have good traffic and that was just a muscle of a place that the mukha does not work and therefore the guy making the kazakh cannot grab it have a wonderful evening week year ishkoya for coming all the guests you