Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 12 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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so just a real quick hazara on yesterday's ammo i think it's important we had two makhleighs and two very important have somewhat to do with today's sugiyo what if a person marries a woman thinking he's marrying absula and it turns out that she's either a mukas eight or a boolean so we have two bachelorettes in the two separate cases if she was found to be a mukha said we had ramen bar format that says she doesn't get anything in the mukka states in other words she lost her suleim from some something else and rava says she gets a mana now if she was found to be a baoula then rover says she doesn't get anything that's how we pass can she doesn't get anything and ravshaysha as the others say that she gets amana says the gemara similar case not really tara button can also recently soon she got married she had a hassan of the whole thing the yeshlo nistro gary the uh [Music] she got married vietnamese tragedy happened i told you i was at hasanah and the husson passed out we nobody knew what happened ambulance came whole thing myself that'd take him away maybe they didn't take him away at the end i don't remember it was a this this ended up with a tragedy the hassan was nifter so but there's a hopper there's 18 that says there's no there's no no chance for them to be together so we have a woman here that has adam that's saying that she's still absula now she gets married again second time says the gemara aina shayne tennis there's a he should know that she was abula azzazakarashi last words on the um he should assume this i don't care about the aiden they didn't say we we saw but no they can't be there every second they don't know exactly and then mela twice is over here says maybe i'll stick it in here so i i don't i don't forget twice the third tyson first and the last line says this this is it later but they zaden now maybe the adam are just trying to make him uh trying to to up the shidduchim she's in the shidduch market so the the the the adam are saying oh she she's she's absolutely don't worry about that's not true fine you have to assume if she got married she's she's a bulla mma law you can't say oh i thought she's a pussula and therefore i don't want to be married to her and therefore there's no tsuba there's no tinus sulu i'm a rabbo this is for schlemmy nobody else omorav zoycimeris it says i used to dunk on this maybe i'll flip it over so i don't have to remind myself it's like overabbas absolutely yes comes out from here first and thought that he's marrying absolutely and he finds abulo she gets him she gets a suba she gets a she gets a half of super she gets a mana rash let's look clown no writer from here says rabashi it's very powerful what he's saying so much so that we need to understand what rabbis is thinking so texas talks about it if a person assumes that his khala is a absula and he finds that she's abula maybe she gets zero aye this case vishani officer a conservation over here it's different she got married come on in we have even a seat right up here this case is very different a person got married and she got married she loses her hazako of absurd that's the gemara [Music] why do we say that he has no tinus sulim let's tell the guy let's advise him to have a tinus basulum go to besden and if i didn't say this in the mishnah i'm saying it now because i should have said in the first first mission of the musa as i was reading rashford's like i don't remember me saying it but it could be i did didn't doesn't matter we'll make up for it now i'll doing trouba the reason why you go to bed when a person has kindness absurdum is rashi says in the mishnah she says it over here it's because it's going to create a rash and people that know about something they'll come forward so we're also why do we tell the guy hey look how tight don't even think about it don't go maybe you should go to bed and if there's something going on people come forward maybe she was masano after the aerosol honor of sravya okay out there we're talking about typically you should go we're talking about like in today's day and age when the aerosol condition happen all in one shot the woman doesn't have a chance even mizana and that's the case andy and he says he didn't find suleim too bad on him because she was already married once before i the hussein died during the hasanah doesn't matter she was already married before viking massive law and some say he goes on the mission that what bisulo we learned in the mishnah that if a woman is an al bana guru shakaluta who never lost her pursuit she's a grusha we never lost absolutely there was problems from the first minute it happens guy gets married realizes she's not a hundred and then right away goes a month later they get divorced but she's still absolutely the you you can't assume that she's absula if she was married even for a minute there was little bit of a freebie we're just repeating what we said before but this goes on the mishnah not on the case of huh yeah what about you ah your head is still involved in this leave it alone leave it alone we'll talk about it later revascular loyalty no same words that we said before at the end of the day there's she doesn't get anything in a typical case when she was assumed to be absula and she was found to be ebola she doesn't get a tube at all what's would you bring me away from this case in a case that she's an almana from she's a absolute almana she's a grusha and therefore you can't assume anything ah mom is the same kimura word for word as we had a second ago although it's talking about a case where there's no hashes to choose when she after harrison because harrison and this soon happened like we do today says the one who says that the much like is over here or this is on the price so that what that if there's a then what does it say in the riso hour bryce we started off today tony robbon conservationist if there was a marriage and this aiden that testify that she had no relations with her hussein nevertheless we say what there's no there's no titus sullivan he can't say oh i thought she's absolutely sneezing certainly when there's no aiden he can't assume that she's absula in a case where this aid i'm saying she's 100 absula we don't trust a them you have to trust your own instinct and you have to know that she's married and a married woman even though it's only for a moment she's not absolute so certainly if there's no either um but if you say it only in the case of the mishnah where there is no aid him allah brides the light but why should this guy suffer if he hears testimony from maiden that say she's a hundred percent absurd i'm gonna i'm gonna trust aiden okay so at the end of the day we have a raya that if a person was coined as the shemsula you get a mono all right zakhter mishnah mission is sponsored by mashiko in france again we had this yesterday we had a number of times already i noticed like a theme like the gemara preempts like gives us a mission we're gonna have it the next day we had that yesterday we're gonna have it today we're gonna talk about a mission we're gonna have tomorrow again is a place where typically the hus and kyle get together and we said a beautiful shot from the ushami is because yehuda the game thought that youth is the one that killed asov so they try to punish them by tybala hegeman trilla that there's this crazy xera that the ruler goes with the khala first so in order that she shouldn't do a barat sign so they the miyako the khasan she loves her hustle she's never going to want to be with this guy and she does it she'll everyone else and it's forced so if he of course he can't have a taino afterwards oh i didn't find sulu and for especially that there if he's a type of guy that ate by ishvar without aden meaning there are people in you that don't eat by the shiver so which one is it there's all sorts of types of videos some people don't do it i mean what trying to say so this place is not oh so if there's places that don't do it in my family the meaning is not then my family has the right to tainan islam can a person in you that come to bed and say i didn't find sulim yes if that's his minute and he says i was named over here it doesn't say islam hef girvelt they did it specifically right before the khupa kiday shia liber gaspa and if you're going to talk about this hegemon guy the hegemon doesn't want abula he only wants absolutely so maybe it would be parish canada the meaning was not like that so let's remember these words it's very important for later on because rav is going to use these words so this is you know reading it so just on the here's the chart there's three things that went on to you though first they put two representatives there one came from the hussein side one came from the kala side beautiful way to start off the marriage the husson says i don't trust you maybe you have a fake sheet that has some dom on it and you don't have dam you know you're a boolea so you're going to slip in a sheet to pretend that you you have damp sulu i don't trust you i need a representative standing there the whole time shake her down see if she's coming in with any sheets not joking this is rashi the khala and the khan's father they don't want this hussan to lie tomorrow now why the lied what's going on here if they want to get married with each other why they why don't they trust each other the best i could come up with is we're not used to it we have here in the robin garrison we cannot divorce balkarch so exuber is meaningless almost nobody ever could anybody care what it says in xuba how much money you owe you don't know at the end of the day if somebody gets divorced they have to go to bed and it's a whole trouble anyway the the three thousand dollars the ten thousand dollars according to a moisture thirty three thousand dollars is not even uh nobody even cares about it it's what they decided then and uh who gets custody and it costs more than thirty three thousand dollars probably it's a whole mess catch you oh when it came to you pay up forty two thousand dollars really and they have less divorces that's fired him and deal until they write ten times the aliyah the misha bear that's like five hundred thousand dollars okay great but but when it's very it's it's it's relevant and in those days if the guy didn't like the wife he just wrote her uh again shawna israel there's no you don't have to ask permission you do then the story so things are a little different the father is nervous he's gonna he he if he doesn't have a strong tuba if his daughter doesn't have a strong super he'll one day the guy will get upset at her he burnt the food like the michelin subs i think it is all the way burn the food boom goodbye so you have to be careful i need a representative you start off listen in business also you have a partner you love your partner but you write a document that's as if we're the biggest enemies every little detail and at the end we can have shaolin but let's start it off right if you don't start off right it's a problem one is for his sake one is for her sake so nobody destroys evidence everything is good today the mashmish is a hustler it's a khalid literally they pat him down make sure that he's not sneaking out the sheet she's not bringing in a new sheet the kits are as hazardous to destroy evidence sleep in the house in the kala rashi doesn't explain it i'm assuming that this has to do with the first thing that these are part of the nobody sneaks things in or it sneaks things out okay they slept there but wait a minute if we go to the first minute the red one in the beginning there used to be miyako hassan and kyle before the hopper what does that mean it's very possible that she's a bullo now they had we don't know enough at trump's law rise we don't know what happened over there so why in the world do we have the second thing and the third thing ah we need to swing we need people to represent a cloth this way a thing that way she's a bulla what difference does it make if this ate them or not what do you see you see that some people need the blue and some people don't need the blue some people do the red and therefore there's no blue some people are messy and therefore ain't hanami there's no there's no aidan is nothing and some people are not for those who don't have then i want to i want to put two representatives in so you see uraya that is mccoy miss mccoymix [Music] so let's remember what it says here if you didn't do this minute which one this three men hugging over here let's call it two three if you didn't do the minute hey now if you didn't do it then you can't you have to do the minute in order to come forward afterwards and say hey i'm not paying you ksubo says what exactly does it mean he didn't do the minute he lay my ratio call shinnogemi barley okay so this is why i did the chart for a second just it's simple but we'll make it even simpler if the black that's what we just said black if he didn't do the minig then he can't have a taina of basulum so if the black goes for the red so again they did they had a minute to do it if he didn't do yikhod then he can't claim the exuberant opposite if he's nayig the minig if nah you have to go at the word light if he did the minogue this is no good why it should say this no hag if he did the minute that there was then he can't claim a tie enough for exuberance there's no super he can't say oh she's not a absula you want to see with her that's why she's a bulla now so it should say no hag not le nog okay so therefore the black can't go under the red where does it go election argument allah i'm going to move it over here that is a minogue to have shishvinum a representative you get one i get one if he didn't do the min hug then he can't have a taino well culturally much mischief [Music] so as we explained before there's two representatives one is from the husband one is from the father who cares about the husbands we care about the fathers in other words there's only one thing going on here whether or not the husband tricked and and removed the dam so that's on the collar to represent so should say culturally mushmash if the husband wasn't shucking down they didn't make sure that he didn't trick them then there's no tsuba it's only a one-sided thing it's not both you don't have to do both you don't have to have two representatives in order not to have a tie-in on aksuba it's only one representative the one that he's tricking so the mella is a little off kosher mushroom is very violet omar abaya loyola my ratio koshinog okay we got to change the lotion this is no good it should say let's take off the light if you take off the light which is very it's a big track it says and and then abba is changing it to nag it's it's a 180. we don't have a choice it's about it well my ratio of me calls if you were missing then you cannot claim oksubo omelee ravo but culturally not tony how could you do such a thing it doesn't work with the words now it's interesting to point out that many times in shots not every time but many times shas rava goes literal he goes with the words and albaya tries to change the words a little bit not always a lot of times and they say and i'm not i'm not i'm not saying this be a brewer but i heard once that that's a lot of times you see in russian places raj is very literal he touches up the sugya exactly like the words that we have in the mirror and tyson brings a lot of rise from shots how it doesn't work it's a little similar to the majority of but anyway el amarava rava would prefer not to change the wording that's why i said remember the words where it says in the price who begal it how you oisin king when the when the when the prizes says about all these monogamy that they had they had three monogamy two three monogamous right because you could count the blue and the the green as one fine let's say there's three men hugging in you the goal they didn't have the minute says robert that's what is going on the fact that it says go we mentioned galu the rest of verizon's role culturally nawag mina gulbigalil elominagihuda begawil if you were in galu and you were messiah with the kalo you did the minute of you though you took that minute into galil [Music] then sulim that's what it means if what oh so uh what did i i saw they talked about it hold on oh one minute i'm trying to think what is the time out the kiddos is that if you go into galil and norfolk you're saying that the messiah had in go since yeah i don't know maybe it's on something else no what do they say since most people don't do it no it's something like that since most people that's not the minute over there so maybe he he can't taina i don't know so though what did he say that uh even though it would be self-evident perhaps it would have been up oh most people know yeah [Music] where there's no yik hud he brought a minute of yikhood so since what's the the fear is here so the question is what is the kiddos of course he can't tell him but since most of the people are named i think he could he could have a time interesting okay um so it's just it's the same idea ravashi says we're going back to here ana konami you had a question why says linak you're right [Music] the official mission sponsored by michigan i just want to point out on the way here robby peasant stopped me and the reason why i'm saying this is he wrote a say for our time kanewski he had many thousands hundreds of conversations with him he went to him i went with him a number of times for him kanewski look at the size of the safer this is a man who comes out with one of these every three months i i don't know he has literally 40s farm you can get a physique from this he sits and he writes and he writes he doesn't sleep at night i smoked his wife he sleeps an hour to a day it's meshuga the amount of work that this man puts in ravi passing's unbelievable all right whatever that means he always pushes people to the right spar what's your name by the way it's really rusting i know you know ghetto he's already here the official mishna rips really rosie where do you live tells us no we're talking about the daughter of israel the daughter of a queen because in a second the mission tells us let's read this the end of the mission i want to understand the beginning the best thing the question will have their own president and they instituted an interesting minute our women are worth more than regular women we're kohanim we're best friend mentioned you want to marry one of us you pay 400. so the mission starts off saying but nevertheless even the daughter of a kohanim the daughter of a cayenne only gets amana in her ksuba even though when she when she's absolutely she gets 400 and amman only gets a hundred that's what the mission is starting from here we have a bracelet that says not like the michelle that the daughter of a cayenne when she's our mother she gets 200. [Music] what do you do the first time he said that the absurd gets 400 and alma gets a manner like aaron mishna given the husband when the kohanim saw that it's easy for people to divorce their wives and for cayenne to have divorcees and his family is a terrible thing we have it till today some families no air volume can't get it's better not to get divorced live a terrible life than to ruin the the name of the mishpacha where besser mentioned sepanish for our daughters to get divorced me mela tequila for the same price i can marry israelis who's absolute adrenaline sayyou [Music] they went back to the original takana and that it's only a hundred now stamina i was thinking when i when i when i saw this it has nothing to do with anything but first of all sponsored by moisture horn in honor of 18 that's good only reverend is actually going to basketball and jankel cohen the official mdy i hope i'm not saying something not good msp what is msp i don't know he's the official mdy msp one day we'll find out what it means fine by the way okay we'll talk maybe different times now i just wanted to tie it into real estate the first time i was i i mentioned this i have a partner who's a billionaire yeah okay fine something before him there's always no shyness here but whatever though i was like and we have seven minutes left anyways it's too much time to do something so i come to my partner this billionaire with 40 years experience in real estate i'm all excited and i told him that you know we bought the property with the craze i don't know 80 something percent i now it's close to 100. she started yelling at me what are you crazy 100 percent i can see what's wrong with you it's like isn't that a good thing 100 it's a terrible thing terrible you're charging too too little for rent what are you doing oh okay so i go back we start so now we raise the we raise the rents and then all of a sudden now we're down to like 70 percent so kids are it's a it's a balance you have to know whoever wants in a real you can't just hike the prices because then nobody's gonna rent you can't lower this two minute see this is a there's in between that's what's going on here sort of they're gonna do 200 no but nobody's married so you do 100. okay fine something you mean we'll figure it out there's a sweet spot and it's hard to figure it out experience you should know that's not just the best now by the way i have to point this very very important should have said in the mishnah but we could say now i could do trouba when craig when the beside had him say that it's 400 what does that mean yeah for you no in general don't don't talk you're not the spokesperson for everybody i actually didn't the one with the pants was much better you just didn't have when i said how people lose a cloth and i said the story with the pants and they got lost and he said that was actually more relevant i didn't hear the story i'm still trying to figure out okay anyways dr kumar so when the kohanim is at two to four hundred we have to understand what does that mean they wrote in the super 400 like like they said if the if the spirit and writing super 500 thousand dollars it's five hundred thousand dollars so if you write 400 what's the terence is when you institute something with a besden then even if you don't write in the sub it becomes 400. so let's say you left that part blank now it's 400. it's important to remember that not so negative but it it's it's it's the nakuda here [Music] eisen that's a basically that that's a twice is what i just said five maison horizon lassies kaderos shackley hannah myself asked the question is it true that two easter eglian that the best thing could get together and say we have a new price for tsuba all right saying google messages royal here we have a basis for marrying a coin or a basque coin list roll oisin by the way could a bass coin could the daughter of a kind of marry israel of course right not so simple like we learned rashi involvement says that it's better that he shouldn't and if it's not going well in shidduchim then he could but then okay fine we spoke about it then but uh oh the passing is that should not marry obasa and then maybe in our generation we're all marathon we don't know what i'm fine not if you go to mdy it's a different story fight zombie mario mace favorites elastic that's kind of what's going to swirl the coin or basketball oyster anybody could up to the super bastard coin nobody's going to stroll who they get says the gemara perhaps it's only when one sad is a kind either he's a car and she's a kahenas alvarez israeli israel how come it doesn't bring our case it doesn't talk about you throughout the straw that you could up it it's only if one of the either the hussain or the caller going on and then you get up it says more let me buy let's say somebody's marrying the the son of a rebbe so he looks at her and says look look what i'm doing i'm marrying you i'm bringing you in one day you're going to be married to a rabbit i eventually i'm going to come a rabbit now you're so crushed if you're in this whole thing so i don't want to get i don't have to give you uh a higher exuber so learn boy about this is really swollen a lot where are you struggling stroll he can't have any tightness i'm i'm i'm doing your favor not a favor how about israel in the moz we're only talking about a bas client a bass somebody coming into kahuna where he's telling this israelis a client marrying israelis he's telling her look i'm making you a better person now you're becoming a better mensch your sons are doing you start eating truma i just upped you i brought you into another category so mella that i have to say that she could demand the 400 tsuba even in such a case but that israelites well of course he could says the official mishnah sponsored by michigan this is a mission that we had yesterday somebody gets married and he finds that she's not absolute however unlike the other cases we had until now he is having a taina nope and what does she say she's quiet she doesn't know yeah over here she comes back at him she has good taino here emery's by the way we're starting now it's like almost 5.56 daf almost a week of the same kind of idea that does the husband have an amanus he says such a taina she says sachitana he has a tying on her turn on him we're gonna shas katherine we're gonna go through a lot of different suggest comes to maminas things like that and this is today listen if you buy a field and after you bought the field two months later there's a big storm and it flooded your field same thing with me i'm your arusa amo i'm asia if amazana i get miso something happened to me something bad happened to me i was violated after i became arusa i admit i'm not absulah but i have a way to explain it prove to me that that's not what happened in the last name he doesn't know he can't say for cern but he's telling you no i'm assuming that you're misano she's believed because she's a body she's saying i know for certain it happened after i met russo you are just a shaman maybe it happened before and then well let's see the media later in the game what's your migraine we don't know what had happened let's assume it happened before they were engaged and somehow talks vitato and she fooled him until she brings arya to her words now going back to the words i saw a beautiful thing from the tamil they say in us it says this is the son of leo you see in our mission we are not alive and existing based on her lies she's saying lies we're not going to live based on other lies there was a story in the gemara that there was a city that everybody lived forever nobody died because they never said it shecker there was all of a sudden one family somebody started they started dying the kids started dying what's going on here they found out that they set a checker it's very interesting somebody knocked in the door as for the woman the woman was in the shower they thought it's not appropriate to say the mother's in the shower they said she's not here not just that i'm not here boom they started dying unbelievable mr haskell of ms butler we're not existing the world is not existing because of her sheker we don't we don't trust her now [Music] just a quick hop here it says achitoviral varel she has to bring her eye what's a big kiddush of course if she brings a great raya then we can trust her the piracy is says that if she brought a raya let's say she has adam that she was nival after she got engaged what kind of ride is that he says it's a great ha maybe she's nibble also before so that's the kid if she brings her right then she's never after that she's not asked she was violated then i don't have to be choice that that she was before either but it's a good it's a nice car okay someone jumping out to another person says you owe me a hundred and the guy says i don't know i don't remember i'm sorry i don't remember review the rabbi who knows it's bari veshema i know you owe me you don't know so pay me pays potter potter why because barry and shamma barry is not strong enough to take money out of somebody just because you know more than me potter now two very very important things here when he says potter rashi brings on the spat he's still high of a schwa when he says i don't know i don't know does anybody say i don't know swear now to swear is a big deal and maybe sometimes it's better to pay off second of all just because your partner doesn't mean that you're going to gannadan you're still kaibale if you owe that guy five dollars just because you don't remember do you have a problem now i just want to point out kubzheim says a muscle he says the guy was on a big journey he wanted to travel from america to disrobe on a ship 100 years ago before he gets on the ship they said do you own anybody money he says no he says well you better be careful because they're not going to accept you over there he says no i don't know anybody money he goes on the ship and of course there's waves and he's being thrown around and he didn't eat for two months he finally gets there he gets to the border patrol and they say yes they look it up ah yo a guy 15 bucks back in america she said okay so i'll say no get back on the ship and go back he said but yeah i had two months you're not 15 dollars for 50 now go back this is we work and work and work and we get up there and we owe guy a dollar 25 because we asked him to to put money i need to buy a soda in the canteen and again and you didn't pay him back you're going all the way back you have to start over go back what is what's the name of the game go back to go or whatever monopoly or streets and ladders whatever it is they start all over from the beginning says the coffee sky you take that journey that 70-year journey with all the problems you had do it all over again so advice if you owe anybody money even a small amount pay it back it's not gonna die the minute is the minute is to come back in a gilgal you're right that's the minute says the gemara who has the money who's holding on right now if you don't have a good rayo then you can't take it out omelette by the way of joseph wow we're late oh my god by the rabbits but still now he started three minutes late oh the rav okay this that ravuna says that you're hive to pay it goes like shimod is so that's tamar's mishna that a woman who's not married she's pregnant tell me about this vlad who who are you pregnant with me what does kain mean means he has a lot of hijos okay a lot it's interesting how the talmud one time it's called the next town of the china because she reviewed his name with shinano that was his rebbe always used to call him that even in this mishna she is believed to say that i'm absulah in other words i was absolutely when you got engaged i became a boolea later on says gemara my after shine what do you mean even in our mishnah who has the maksuba the husband so he should have the kazakh not her leo barry adev since she comes up with okay unfortunately we're gonna have to stop here since she is the zabari she knows when it happened and she's saying i know when it happened we believe her have a wonderful day [Music] you