Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 105 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning Rob boys versus Mordechai yeah yeah it was in a great mood welcome to all the guests ah you brought your brother over there so some very interesting stuff yesterday we were discussing with the other day we're discussing about keyboard ah there's a few a real feel to honor your older brother so here's a video I thought I said during cheer I told Hillel for instance your brother Avi you should give him water once in a while if he has to go to the airport like tomorrow you should take him to the airport so he gets up in Middle shear and he runs and gets him a cup of water and he brings him water and then I get this video you can play this look who took me to the airport it's the first time it's gonna make it okay save some money but [Music] there's another video from Avi and this was a major major shocker oh I like that little uh look at the screen right by side nice nice touch this by the way I found the picture from sukis from I don't know how many years ago three four years ago the whole Shear fit into Avi Soca this is wow Mendy you look a little different I look a little different my hair was darker that's Gary in the pink shirt only in the front there's no cameras to operate back then there's one a phone on a stand and that's it that's Joseph biliac all the way in the back pillow kamianski standing this is an avisoka all right boys say check out this video I was shocked I think you're going to be shocked as well and I'll explain everything all you need to know it's okay whatever to be explained there you go boys are you ready [Music] foreign [Music] that started this year all the way in the beginning they decided it would be a good idea even I just came back from Africa a month ago they're all expense pay trip for my 50th birthday to Africa when this Sunday happy birthday yeah [Applause] so that's what I said you just finally came back you're all invited all invited yeah I'm still I'm still trying to uh digest it yeah it's going to be a year full of trips [Music] I went from not going anywhere for a full year so like I'll be going every three weeks now huh anybody else no um you missed the video yeah he was part of it I think he knows what's going on here all right boys side what else do we have here no no no it's uh coming back just in time for London don't worry about it London our boys I signed up for the London CEO nidarim the Dharma starting in what eight days nine days get ready it's unbelievable very easy the shortest dap him in shots and the I think I'm gonna be in Africa during that yeah we're finishing with sector in Africa okay it's going to be very interesting I don't want to be I don't want to be that uh to give me gifts every time you give me a gift I have a stickle uh guys come on in give them a seat somebody new oh that's why gershon's coming Gershon is coming with us it's givaldik Gershon Noam Avi a guy from South Africa a big in safaris the kids are it's all good huh [ __ ] you do it do we have we have a seat we have one seat available over here Sadiq come here it's the exact opposite of that corner so it works out well Kev where you guys from Cameron what's your name what's your first name what's your friend's name that's your brother another sinner okay here we are brand new peric and before we have to say the the sponsors the coil sponsors AKA Safari trip to Africa for the anonymous sponsor no just kidding that was Abby's joke my children the receptor sponsored by Jeff Rosner school so my song is the rest of themselves sponsored beneficial mental motivators The Refuge cyber management [Music] and the parts that I finished my research by February the person or something like that today is the remnant cerebus yard site and I had the scores as a kid to go to station and sit on his lap and say to hell with him and I have mices about him I'm not gonna go into the mices but uh it's his yard side today so is the show me should have an Alia and finally uh I would like to introduce something that came up this morning it's a combination of three ideas basically they've been talking about um schneid micro steinmaker there is and you know we have Al Khan Pressman who presses I should give it vartira every week so because of this video I just showed about South Africa or Africa and schneid mikra I figured okay I want to push night micro Hunter wants me to do this and it's a little bit hard to go I want to go on a second Safari but it's just on a safari so to offset that Safari so okay Pressman and I'll give it that every week on a WhatsApp group and we'll call the schneid mikra what's a group will be a what's a group to encourage people to to do schneid micro what do you guys say It's a combination of everything together thank you [Applause] Don is going to run the group y'all said billiard y'all said Billy act together in the Sano are working on on arranging the group and getting people together we have to start right now today's Wednesday it's gonna be today this week's the hardest part of the year we only have two three days to start and go and it's a very long Parish 140 something took him there's already a link to the group give valdik real quickly we only have three names today huh 36 and finally Joseph capalevich Joseph 18 where boy said brand new peric sponsored Chicago very interesting peric INE you're gonna see perhaps there were more but there were three there were many many diameters hundreds of Diana but the mission says there's only two maybe three why are there people there's four people standing in the back oh because the cheers are still in the sukkah that's why we're missing cheers all right if I wasn't giving cheer I'll give up my cheer right now content all right there were many sponsors in I heard that Marty yeah you wanted to my lab I'm in the river life there are two days on him though that created the xeros you know we have xeras you can't touch mukta you can't do this he can't do that two of them their names two admin and Holland Ben says toys is on the spot over here that would go toisi says his name is Avi Shalom not avshalom and he goes in the whole arigos how Shameless that a person's name has a lot of meaning and uh okay personal thing has a lot of meaning and when you name somebody after somebody else you have to make sure he's not in Russia so you can't call somebody I've shown when I've shown was in Russia reminds me of the story we have heard a lot of stories about names but this one is a very interesting story a guy comes to reply kanevsky and he said I'm asking what's his name he says my name is eres he says eres it's not in Tanakh he says it isn't Tana he says yeah but it's not a name antenna so we went to the Bell to Rob and he was very depressed about it the mother of said you'd go tell him is not in Tanakh has a name either whether it's a true story or not there's some so now we're gonna go through all the things that Holland said seven continued some of them are connected Towers to the program that we just learned some are not really connected so now we're going into Hannah he disappears he goes on a trip and his wife needs to eat [Music] only when she comes to take tsuba why would she take Suba because they found out that the guy never made it he's dead foreign not alive not alive anymore he's like tsuba so that's the show episode but anytime she comes from his owners you have to swear you come from what are you swearing in the super you're swearing that give me the 200 I have nothing that belongs to my husband I don't I don't have anything on me that could deduct from the super um foreign of what that they made xera is very meaning there were three not two and they did things that had to do with Gaza with stealing with moments however is like foreign and the prices is three the mission only brings down two the ionic zeros in other words they're very high level there's a dionum there's a diode but there's a dying that makes xerus Iverson says there's only two which uh also cash xarius which one what do we call them other than the Autumn of xera or the lion of Ghazal which is the three versus the two the lake Tony so the womb shots whoever's of entices seems like Rashi also agrees with that somewhere else in other words called in a mystery wasn't as important for the mishna to mention his name that's why our mission doesn't mean his name Alexandra is azalez cashio what is our mission to call it xera and the president calls it exalia um Alexander they used to be Geiser xera on gazela so that's it's really the same what's so caution about exalia and the guys are a lot of things there were geyser I don't know what you can't walk here you can't do this you can't do that why do we call them based on the xillah thing the chat is as the Lamar explains now if your animal goes into somebody's garden and uproots a sapling a new tree how much do you pay there is it's too cursive two cursive just a chart to have a chart why not 2K7 is too Ma every dinner every cell has for dinner dinner has six months so two of those two years old you double it now the value of the sapling could be a hundred mile it could be a olive tree it could be one mall so what's this too Ma that's a real xera so perhaps they call them they only Zelo they were so powerful they were able to take money out of people's pockets also not just say oh and Chavez do this on shops do that but also to remove money that's a very powerful thing Remini now another question so we have somebody that's not mentioned our mission why is not mentioned in our mission that's another man that holds that nothing was one of the three is where do we say it if you're little fish Friday night Lincoln foreign here are we talking about Wow you went to my house for that ah yeah so thank you very much that's very nice so like how you do are they still admitting that this three just knock them is not one of the three or they hold that there's only two dionic zeros okay A little bit of a child or my flight s um 394 but they didn't lose life Robbie summer you'd appreciate this because when I was learning this I thought to myself you know throughout shots we always say 400 400 400. and 400 we say is a Guzman to show that it's not an exaggeration you have to be exact you say 394 nobody exaggerates 394. 400 okay 400 300 and 400 is always the number of gusma it's like uh also a front band of rum the famous development of Roman time and the gun the guy named Kim mcgarrett victi the guy who said he could save him he said no he wants to die I'll kill this Hashem his father is extremely wealthy huh right no his first name was something else and his father was extremely wealthy right he had he had 999 um properties there's a better word for it but okay at 9.99 Estates that's the word you had 999 States and refused to take the Thousand because he said it doesn't sound so good when you say 9.99 it's it's much better it sounds 9.94 but they didn't see they had a lot a lot of Diana Mariachi says in each one each one at 23 they got it other places Russia says three die on them aquaponics it's three these are three close to three thousand or I don't know do the math twenty thousand says tomorrow but there's a lot of day on them so why tell me there's only two if there's twenty thousand or three thousand says tomorrow [Music] um we connectedness there's 994 shows it's a 994 places to learn where am I oh 394 sorry 394 take 394. 394 so scratch all that math I said before Canada can you see us we'll connect them about three directions who connect them about this site from there was schools 394 schools have many many but we're talking about a good Exodus camera we're only talking about the the special ones those who had the ability to create new Zeus foreign so we're going to get into all discussion through salisco it reminds me of Scotland and I go a little uh you know little bonkers when I hear the word sculling but we're gonna do it and basically fly Israel would come and give a half a shekel put in the pushka that three boxes and from that half shekel there would be a big pile as you see in the the chart we don't see in the chart they would take from the whole pile and they would buy the carbon torment and different carbonas that they needed and whatever's left over and there's different times to go through a different two of us there's quite this uh Nissan and Purim and whatever left was left after this they would buy other stuff or they would repair the base I mean those were that we're gonna see but from this pile of khati shekel that was given to bicarbanas they would support the Diana exactly how much each dying got was it 99 Mana for each one or the whole business whatever but they got supported in other words they were supported from communal funds there's no sheikha there nobody gave the money it's from the whole Community okay lerato merciful lamb if they're not happy they're gonna understood they're not happy with their salary so you give them a little bit more lyrics on are they reciting sir actually explains what makes them Her Shine if they're making more money then they need to live then they were shy taking money for for being a diet as we're going to see so ello the shot is the opposite they don't make enough living though they don't want to take money for characters they don't want to take from the communal funds myself to take money says the game have a struggle istero mizakai he would take how much is the history a half a Zeus how much is the history so take a half of those from the trevea half a Zeus from the netbah mizaka is do then the famous famous VAR joke that the there's a judge that used to leave his shoes by the entrance of the Court and the Raichu was for the defendant the left shoe was for though what's that as a defendant the who the plaintiff and then he would put on his shoes and whichever one had more cash in it that's how he would that's how he decided then do you know no the right is always for the for the defendant the left is always for the plaintiff and and his foot was hard to get in it was a little harder he knew there's more cash he got one day he comes to court and he can't even put his foot in he's like limping he's like man he's like so you passkins he passes for the for the guy of course and you gotta tell him he says wow I can't believe people are so dishonest okay he filled it up with toilet paper no so he takes he takes a little bit from him kind of takes a little bit from him and a little bit from him and he does it then is that okay I could do something like this don't you can't take a break maybe the shot is you can't take from one but if you take something from both okay value because he's going to tip the the den towards the guy that gave you the money kind of keeping the truck with the value he took equal from both look at us foreign is 100 guilty you can't take money from shimin and say oh Reuben is guilty but you know he's guilty so you didn't nothing changed no authorization so you have another positive that tells you so one person says you can tip it another positive says even if you're not tipping you're gonna do what you need to do you can't take a bribe this is if you take it as a bribe kind of tell us I grab a chuckle he took it as a salary as the memorial how you like to take a salaries if you take money to do the entire then cancel everything he did cancel this then says that he says if you don't pay me I'm not going to do them that's agradino agar bet Taylor took the Lost income he had a good job so all he's doing is taking the loss that's okay a no loss he could but I could tell me sorry we're gonna see in a second if I could tell Mishary to take an uh a loss of income is it all is a is that allowed he's discussing despicable it's a good deal says wait a minute we just said a second ago that dinov in London it's not a DIN and I was saying it is it then oh so before and now it must be a completely different story if he took money to poskin that we already learned that if you take straight out money say I'm not gonna pass him for you unless you pay me in other words he's taking money to sit down and that his dinner is garnished nothing so you must say so why is this a good din but he's despicable because he's he's saying straight out I'm not taking for the din I'm just want my loss I make ten dollars an hour give me ten dollars it's disgusting so how did karma do it says well known and it was 100 he's gonna make that money he has a job every day he used to smell the wine and decide whether or not the wine is about to become vinegar or not for that job you get a Zeus I don't know I mean you have to have a known job I don't think Robbie ever had a job they go straight into it so oh here we know he makes us a day whatever it is this is a day this and everybody has barrels of wine everybody hires him goes there's different jobs today also that you know you have food scientists you have different people that they use their and they make money like that there's a word for it I wrote it down but I don't even sommelier right sommelier who said that sommelier correct that's a wine uh kind of sewer guy sommelier it's not written like that but you have to like knock out the this it's s-o-m-e-m-l-e-o yeah whatever okay whatever I can't even talk English I'm going to talk French now fine now raboysai if we step back let's go back to the beginning of the story karnaugh listen to this if you can't find this like four or five lines from where it becomes wide Kara and I have a circle is he would take what to ISRO what how much is the history why did he take advantages from him and offices from him because he was losing azuz every day now it makes sense he took a istera from this guy and Israel from that guy just simple push-up shot oh it says again tomorrow um I need to water my Fields bring somebody that's gonna draw water because he says Rashi instead of me I don't want to make money off you I just don't want to lose now that's even more of a kedish because instead of him doing physical labor of slapping water all day he's gonna sit in the air conditioned business and he's going to pass in the den but that's also okay because he's not making any money he's not making profit he's just not having the loss it never happened to him you think he ever made a mistake in his life remember vote uh yeah it depends no you have to pay you have to pay from your money if you if a dime makes a mistake if it's a mistake that he no if he made a mistake that we just learned it if he made a mistake that it's in the mishnah and he did another mission then it's bottle but if he made a mistake with his own svara then he has to pay as the baby kids are okay look at these guys that take their eyes become blind a person doesn't his eyes don't feel well he goes to the doctor no he's the mom of the Rufus he goes to the doctor he pays the doctor stopping Miss rappers gives him eye drops instead some sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't is a guarantee it's a guarantee that if a dying takes money he will become blind he will have ailment his eyes there's once a judge a dying that that became deaf so what's going on it says in the tire you become blind if you take not death why are you deaf he said you know it's not like in the olden days Northern days when they give they gave so the guy saw the shortcut so he became blind he says in our days they just promised the show it's very different picture the bribe makes the the smart the the pigment makes them blind terrible attention if it could make smart people blind so certainly it'll make the tippish blind the fool via Salif it perverts I think the the Los Angeles and make his words uh flip then certainly it'll take a Rush's words and flip them as the gamara but how does Russia ever step into the basement how's it possible that Russia is a dying a dying is a hush of a person meaning how does it has a fool become a diet even if he's a very smart person but he takes bribes foreign he won't leave this world without having some block of the heart there's a story I forgot who it is maybe it was Roberta's Nations it's one of those very clever my real disc and one of those the famous for being very sharp that he was innoventira and he was certain that it's going to go with Roofing all of a sudden Milton Tyra he had a flip of heart and he started thinking about shipment he said no but maybe shiman maybe shiman and he he didn't know what was going on he said something's wrong so he stepped outside and he and he found money in his pocket said the the the kayak of of a bribe is so strong that even if you don't know about it it has this Tomah that could that could change I forgot it was you know salon okay yeah the Bruce Grove told that dying you mean inadent was going against hidden I'll show you if it's a sticker to stick some money in his pocket without him knowing okay another corny one they asked a wealthy guy why why are we in jail says right no so how'd you get out so fast bribe the southern Africa even if the person is a complete Sadiq but he has one little problem he takes a little the little bribe on the side and then I just realized something wow where's that tomorrow it's coming yeah this guy it's unbelievable I just I just had this when you give somebody something let's see it's managed the next line I guess that's what that's the connection I'm not I'm making the connection now to continue being able to support Torah and to finish ass with her belly a voiceai in case you didn't hear the emails I'm not gonna be an artistronics week iron in the emails I'm not going to tell you why but if you want in the emails who's starting the Durham in a week and a few days so bring your friends Thursday next Thursday here it is next yeah Thursday in the Darwin base so bring your friends you know what to do you know how to get them Norma's already working on it he has a few guys in Kenya that is starting to yeah he's doing two but he's doing chuva he also have Demi again we had this yesterday same lotion whenever came from Omar those were nothing a king who judges nicely and and the right the proper way he upholds the world this truma is but a person who takes gifts Yar Cena he'll destroy it in circular Club if a person is like a diet like if a diet is like a king a king doesn't need anything as the whole world is wealthy yamadas he can't be influenced by money and bribes yeah if he's like a Cayenne who is looking for a little weed for a gift from somebody he's going to destroy it um I'm trying to think maybe it's coming up but if it's not I don't want to forget what I was thinking here that the gemara says that when you get a gift from somebody you get a gift then you become the Umar is going to say it here you become one with them that that's okay means we're going to see soon one become one with them okay that's that's exactly what's going on anytime you give somebody a gift you get close to them MMA load that's the shot over here inside the Gomer has a very very powerful power over people what to get a gift depends what if it's Africa it's unbelievable it's in the key of government no it's a terrible thing is from different people in the city now he's already biased the people he he receives favors from people he borrows things from them he cannot do the entire well I am Leslie if he himself is so poor he has nothing to give back but if he gives back less involved we don't have to worry about it Amy debate he would borrow from them even though they didn't borrow back from him and he did it the entire Hassan he wanted to make them feel important he wanted to show look even rubber bars from them he had a different catchment Omar rava my timer why is it awesome to take well we know the tire says you know how to take a bribe but why is it also take a bribe even when you know for sure that you're passing the right Allah you know that love is like a certain person so take a bribe what's the big deal it's like yourself it's the biggest site here another insert in chass you want to become closer somebody give me a gift you hear that yeah I'm not saying that people should give me a gift for my birthday they gave me a beautiful gift and a bunch of people in it and they might see the whole island I'm not my every no one has to give me anything you should go for the gifts huh that you could say I'm not gonna I already did enough pushing for the sponsorships so when a person is it says himself himself he gave a gift to somebody so now he's like himself he feels so close to this person then he can he becomes blind he becomes biased it's a simple possible shot he becomes one he becomes one with that person right like a parent it's unbelievable sometimes you see mothers especially well say about their children child was a terrible thing nah he was tired he was hungry he's this it wasn't his fault he killed three people but he went like that like no you don't understand they have a terrorism when you're biased you can't think straight a person is one with somebody else they can't they can't think they can't do the entire all right Papa later you cannot do the entire somebody that you love and somebody that you hate and this is not love of the typical gamara where where you gave him XYZ and he gave you or somebody did something terrible to you didn't speak to you for three days we're talking about even the smallest of the small and the garage is going to give examples if you love somebody you can't see fault in him the sunny lay and if you hate him you can't see something good in him been a muscle live Mission You know what last night I was in the car with my wife and I said she did something and I said I have to use it in a share one day I'll just use it today because I'm going to forget about it we were we're driving through shalim and she tells me it's it's gonna rain soon it's gonna rain I'm like why she's look at the clouds they're so they're so dark I'm like I don't see what you what are you talking about and then look at her she's wearing sunglasses I said take off your sunglasses she thinks oh so sometimes it's just like it hit me sometimes you you view things with it in a different view you have sunglasses on So You Think It's Gonna Rain yeah so this is okay it's a muscle to this I'm never gonna use it she didn't she didn't say not to I mean it wasn't a knife this is a knife last time we came back last night but there's clouds in this club you guys just don't comp it you look at it it depends everybody has filters in front of them they see things in different ways because that's be either they took or they think differently or they saw something that you have filters get rid of the filters you see things differently there's nothing about it hold on we got it we got to do a whole element here what no no no no no no everybody uh but don't get me a pair of sunrise for my birthday oh my God these people that that these that that the uh the people of the city love them it's not because they did something good hello because they don't give them muscle in the beginning once I did the entires not 50 of the people that got a favorable judgment they loved me the other 50 hate me but you know what I'm here long enough and the same people that come in for the entire today they come in tomorrow and I pass can sometimes the opposite so now they see that I'm not biased to certain people sometimes I say for you good and for you bet so therefore I mean if they they hate me they all hate me if they love me they all love me certainly you can't take cash even themes and the actions that's not so much the words but actions as the guitar is going to say but like don't say don't take money it just says give us an example gives us four cases are very very similar because going over a bridge he's stuck at his hand helped him get over the bridge I'm going to your business in a minute that's it I can't do anything with you so this is it puzzle and careful or it's awesome in the rice or also to do the entire with him a feather flew on his head also a guy was shackling so we're going to bigger and bigger condition first he was physical with him he literally held up his body over the bridge helped him get over the bridge now he didn't lift him up he took a piece of dirt off his hat it wasn't even on his hat it was on the floor in front of him also got overcast so somebody came and made it nice for him so he could walk there um sorry can't be your dine anymore small baby I see have a regular reason I have a nice Lake O'Malley shops account for account of the Perry River had an rsr so something that works in his in rib shmuel's field and they split the brackets so every Friday we'd split the private give him a a box of fruit from his from Mary schmals field he'd give him back to Fruit shop so one one week instead of coming on Friday came on Thursday no why are you coming today I have it entire by you by my boss I said you know what let me stop by a little early isolated he didn't accept the Box not only that I can't beat your diet put two numbers and they made it but they're the cause of Aussie when he was walking back and forth Omari boy he hears his artist and he says I don't the the artist could have said this and he could have said that and he would win anybody that takes isn't what happened I didn't even take the box I told him to keep the box and even if I took it I had all the right in the world to take it why Chalino it's mine I get it anyways on Friday I'm thinking in my mind how do I help this guy and how do I fix it and he could have said this and this a guy who doesn't know the guy and he gets free cash Allah you're small bear Alicia nasty like this [Music] is you can't just let me hang there yeah it's obviously okay this is a respawn by Alicia he's also a very beautiful man who they took off his skin and the whole thing with the the rookie mafos I thought God be racist I guess somebody came he's a coin somebody gave him the first sharing he's supposed to give a little bit to the client of the of the sheep where you're coming from I'm coming from America [Music] um what from the entire way he didn't he couldn't find the single coin just me on my legs I'm coming to you the best tomorrow is let me give you at least now all my latest I can't be your diet I'm not taking your races I guess foreign [Music] the beginning somebody brought him a box of small fish like sardines same story like happy when they didn't take the backs um you know what I don't need you but I need you to take this box why the minimum I want to bring bikurim I'm giving you fish now we know be curm is fruit what's planting the fish the sanghavish surely Kim he brought to Alicia they show like him let him become 20 breads they can't remember she says Alicia was from shaved God he's not even uh he's not a clan it's as if he brought bikurim now talking about a story game after circus the safer hasidim and Simon brings a rush who says that the reason why we didn't have words you hear the storm the reason why we were in the goodest Reagan this year is because the the seabird didn't take the Australian after circus after circus boil it up make something and give it away that's what he says should we stop here on my legs yeah no yeah I've been in the cabin I I don't want to take it I didn't want to take it honestly timer but now that you explained to me that you're trying to be my kind of a Mitzvah becoming we had this this goes back it's beautiful that don't say no to somebody somebody wants to give you a gift don't say no somebody wants another gift someone wants to help you out you'd be more Professor from them if you don't take it he says I can't do anything for you and he sent him the dining bar like Garber you should please take care of this guy I can't do it all my eyes must be that the guys and he was in the middle of the notorious with the assignment Omar here the chart says but there's also a Mitzvah to go in order to go in order it's also we learned from Apostle and by the way okay at a different time as it is and because of ravanan let's do combinator first so he got rid of the saw him he did this the entire given the baldination since he saw the comedy gave the other sad is he didn't know what to say he lost his his whole Suarez have a wonderful