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it's not about the dove it's about the yoyo it's not about the thought it's about the yoyo it's not about the thought it's about the yoyo it's [Music] it's all about the yoyo [Music] it's all about [Music] [Applause] it's all about you [Music] beautiful okay so we're not going to show it what's the consensus well we have a lot of guests miami dover gold would love to live in manchester but unfortunately he lives in miami what a shame what a shame wow i feel so bad for you but we have a guy from he's your brother you're one of the how many 12. how many are you guys 18 18 18 18 i know it's a large number you got to marry this guy off you also have a good voice like him josh and you're still on he just got his name unbelievable see so if i didn't get anybody from behind the beam at least they got you two here it's a pyramid scheme who else you got a bunch of people someone like him all right you know it's once the shop is late i was in your slime today where's moscowitz you're the mascots oh no you're the father of the girl that wants to take a selfie with me outside i i apologize so she said no she said she's second best would be with you she watches the deaf what's going on here tell me the story let me hear let me hear something oh she doesn't she likes the real estate part the emails all right either ways either is the guy that spoke beautifully at the ceo and he has a very interesting thing here i don't know that we're it's a very long one he's honored speaking at the scene of bellworks i've been giving this quite some thought wanted to share with you your share has been incredibly successful perhaps beyond the wireless imagination as a businessman i'm sure you appreciate the success and combination of skill master bracha et cetera i've been thinking how it is that you above all made it so successful you leave a key your ability to fill a void i didn't mean to read all this stuff but his point is a very long email you average from from birth who grew up with a formal achievement education is the core follower what seems to be the theme is that once that formal setting of obligatory learning ends while traditional observance of often continues the desire of bitter ability and or obligation for consistent learning this dissipates systemic problem the jewish world kids are what he's trying to say here is that maybe we at mdy could put more emphasis in ongoing training and different stuff my oh my suggestions don't make mdy and n make it a beginning anyway we may consider partnering with an enriched organization or starting its own surround yourself not with just great marketers organized facilitators but with the next level mentors there isn't one organization in mind okay the kids are what i have to say about this is first of all through torah and through gemara there's a ton of i don't want to call it but and different things that people get so i'm not sure that we need an outside thing but maybe it'll grow on its own it will happen things will happen what organically that's the word okay i know you have plant in your plate but it's good that people are thinking out of the box and trying to come up with new ideas and how to improve yiddish guide for everybody schmack thank you eitan and for the last one for today sean rivelli i've been with you since beginning broadcast another three in the photo joined when the first freemasons were given out from kadima shul in sydney they're in sydney australia we've got a scene together from left to right rabbi niezoff our cousin mark falkenstein mervyn stein mervinstein is the one that wrote this dale carr huh no picture you were in school with rabbi nia soft his younger brother all right the koilos this month sponsored linda is hired by maisha very much does that embarrass you no okay good i just thought it was cool the first the appearance of the the spanish loving families living in new jersey because taurus vs gula para khaidesh has discussed our children because they're safe healthy happy and ocean loves them paranoia michael mentioned through the commemoration of the week of the 10 years of the miami community who passed away on the third day of tamils at the young age of 42 shirley washington field in honor of his wife first yard side night of tamils for my wife to have an easy pregnancy and healthy baby mr shem not me that's something else lazy berkowitz the first marco bass elka top word first word just try to remember this rav nachman it's not a big one but here he is top line says the name is someone who was never married before gets 200 with almana mana this is a whole neither there's actually somebody that comes a lot on what's the shabbos he's not here today he had to give a super unfortunately at a very young age and he told me that it was i forgot already i keep on forgetting three four thousand dollars but i saw today with my show you have something about it it's a whole article let's see all right because i did i was on the road today i didn't see your americas sorry wow well it's one of these things in this chart right over here okay you have your moisture feisty who says 200 pounds of silver 100 pounds of silver so is that 20 dollars or so a hundred three thousand dollars thirty three thousand dollars that's a lot of money because the dialogue said that it's it's not fair anymore like the the value of silver is much less so that you don't have to kind of come to not want to divorce your wife if you have to pay 25 it's not going to do anything so let's make it something so school kim it's the whole thing whether it's school can you go into the whole thing over there ah okay beautiful okay next time i learn even on the road taking the lamb but this is not the real so you'll get there someone was married already before whether she's a divorcee a widow it's only hundred so therefore what the heimi nuo they're the ones that established the tsuba therefore they can believe this guy shim omar pesopo matasi naman i just saw this email i was coming in but i didn't the guy was in oh yeah i forgot the shiva vasarat or something and that's where maybe you guys know the guy that killed rabbin learned in the that yeshiva a year before kby kvy so the police came in there and they interviewed the rabbi and they said what are you learning and they said and they said what and he said that the shiva said that if you learn it properly like eventually so that so therefore because that's the question how could the individual decide oh i have a problem with what happened i don't have aiden i decided on my own and therefore i don't want to give my wife of one day i don't want to give her aksuba the answer is we don't it was a direction we don't believe him but since it's the movement in this whole thing said we could believe him but it was the right so we didn't believe it if the guy wants to get at his brand new wife he could just say and then the whole idea of nobody's going to want to divorce their wife if they have to pay 33 000 it goes out the window because this guy can just come up with an excuse only on that day it's only that it's not for every guy getting divorced it's you only have a one-time shot at it that that next day that's it even that next day we have a hazako ain't nothing to really we understand it today i don't know how it worked yes in those days but in our days when you're spending crazy amounts of money on that one night on the casa and the band and the photographer well you're just gonna try to get out of a suba the 33 dollars is not even what the hassan cost nobody's gonna spend all that time and effort and then just divorce their wife and get out of the tuba like that so organization lotion since the xuba is a class it's a penalty it's a fine so therefore a fine she only gets if he has better karka she gets from the worst the worst the zeburus character says first of all let's understand the lash on kanasa what do you mean it's a fine when the husband pays aksuba he's paying a fine mike if he has property manhattan he has a property in i don't know where in iowa so she gets the iowa property you don't get the top of the top says the gemara now how does everybody understand is aksuba there right to their abortion how do we understand until tonight says well we have shimongam leo says that it's their isa in fact he's in a mishna but we have a problem with this bryce what do we do with the braiser so here's the tsukim the tapasok is talking about me fata the bottom positive is talking about anus okay i just put it in a black box my father if the father refuses to give this seducer guy the mephata his daughter as a wife how much money it doesn't say how much money plus it says kessif okay it has to be silver gishko okay not nis but checkout my absolutely so that word kimoya is like a matana maya matano that's where we're going to learn the idea of suba we really want that those words everything else is gravy sugar says but it says in a completely different homage that's in smokes then we go all the way to the end of our room and it says now we're talking about somebody who violated the girl commission so now we know that's 50. but we don't know kesef we don't know it's two different parishes one is the mafata one is inus says that mark but don't lose the main point the main point is the green word kimoya absolutely that's what we're looking for okay so now if we mix up the sukim rashi says the heck is so if we mix them up now we have all the necessary information we need the amount is commission the type of money it is is kesef but it could be silver there's different silver coins there's a half a dollar silver coin there's a full dollar there's a quarter what's what's checkup it's a type of a coin it's 50 silver scholar okay now we know what it is and it says so the tanaka holds that's in the possum kim my absolutes 50 shackle 200 zuz and the he says no this pasta is not it it's a big problem so therefore this bryson that we just quoted is rip shimmering i'm leo in the beginning of it that says it's there isa and someone else says it's the rabbanam it's not ripped this is anytime you can flip somebody something why flip this bryce or flip that ribbon little hole that is the red button forget the whole this brush is great the first thing that we quoted is off [Music] um in the mishnah so once we have recently on the mission so any other source that says that says that there are button will flip it and make that source the raza because the the mission is a lot stronger this is not it says the missionary mayor what's going on here think about it guy writes in his super he's going to give his wife a thousand dollars and then he moves to australia and over there the dollar is not as strong he moves to toronto to canada i don't know what it's in i think australia is like 75 value right avi how much is it because we just got a donation somebody gave us a hundred thousand dollars and it turned out to be like 70 something right whatever no it's a huge donation it was 70 something i know vietnam shane that's why i'm messing up he knows how he went through the whole thing i don't bother him what so it's 76 percent so he goes to australia and he divorced his wife and it says a thousand so now he has to give her either 760 australian dollars or a thousand american dollars where does it go is it based on where he wrote the tsuba and that's in america and it makes a lot of sense that he should be hive to give her what he wrote or no right now he lives in australia the dollar there goes a lot further maybe and toronto goes along i know and canada goes a lot further so maybe you should give her a thousand american dollars they're not in america so representing him so it's the opposite also what if he writes exuber a thousand australian dollars he's in australia and he moves to america so the more the american dollars now he's in america he wrote this super in australia gives her the american dollar why because if it's the eraser you see that it holds their iso and therefore has to give you the stronger amount if you hold this direct button you give it the lesser amount fine so at the end of the day bottom line is refrigerant holds the prices that we found that it says that's the rabbana will just flip his name it's not him that said it's somebody else everybody's saying lily now going back to this quest of israel kumar absolutely that whole thing that all thing is receiving leo but at the end it says what's the lotion it says in the price of shrimp they recycle so now we have to do instead of a they're two very difficult things to say nobody likes to say oh flip the names it's not fair but this is also not fair to say that you have to add words well this is more fair why because anytime you have to add words it doesn't mean that you have to add words it just means that we didn't understand it completely the consumer message retirement they were sorry is him that bryce is telling us two things it's starting off that exuber is not higher look it says absolutely first in the tire there's something called my eye or absolutely a gift you give to your wife if you get divorced you have to pay her but then it says there's something that's not the right thing i'm showing them the little emails so all of it is and he doesn't argue with himself holds that a regular normal tsuba of absula is the rhizome this is something that's in the rabbit a woman was married before she gets exuba only a hundred and that's mid-random says the following day after comes you have to beat him up give him malcus how in the world do you know peso what does he have the experience says rashi he has the zionist of me vargas so that's the name of the place laying in front of him just for that experience that he had he gets malcus very interesting rashi says so after shabbos i called up one of my israeli neighbors i said here's 50 shekel get me this picture show him a picture 10 minutes later he got got it from me things beautiful these are thorns in avi volunteered that we should try it out on him so it could be it's thicker you know the the like this thing it hurts but she says you make sure you get the pokey stuff you get these guys also dad bocker that decided that he knows that his wife something's wrong with her we don't trust him beat him up give him give him malcus with this you believe this you want to try take one for the team avi anybody want to take one for the team you'll pass you have enough sewer i need somebody else in yeah it hurts it's not who left get over here laugh again like that you get a zest from the mouth kiss from the thing says agamar okay fine now if we go back to the top of the almond it says himself says that we trust the guy the guy comes and says we believe him all of a sudden now he doesn't trust him he beats him up says gemara oh my heaven yeah we believe him who must be like who free the guy is a bad guy we don't know for sure what he did but the fact that he has such confidence in what he's saying means that he he was up to no good when he's a bucker he deserves a few clep now another turrets we don't trust a guy that just got married for the first time and there's no clue what he's talking about somebody was married before he's that's where he says on top of the page that we believe him i would also like to remember so akhasan a young guy comes to him and leo says there's no pseudonym he's not saying there's no dam nope maybe you went on an angle marshall mahalo i'll tell you right now i don't have clark shadow over here and if somebody does let me know i'm not exactly sure with the the the pretty problem what i understand here is one thing leo was trying to confuse him i was trying to there are ways to do it without with thinking that there's no sun but there are in fact suleim angel marshall i'll give you a martial art of doing a lot of them show you mahalo beach and light love is going in the dark he though if he if he tries to open up the door from the side where it's like a little open and there's something behind the door something preventing the door so he could sneak in from the side from the opening but if he goes straight through the main opening push the door open but sorry no he won't be able to get in he could army this i understand a little bit better than the second one hugging on my leg shem up amazing because the first one of the world is saying that there's a way to do it from the side and there you can't be margarita here he's saying maybe you were forceful and that didn't give you the ability to feel that there's absolutely or not should be amazing today so you're deliberate forceful welcome to the dash of overall you uproot it it could be also that the consumer the way the summer attached to the body at the point where they're attached to the body that attachment is very weak so if he detaches from that part he won't feel it heat up amazing he's going at night if he's amazing with soy pursuag then he'll find the door open or even amaze it but so you know the bottom line is there's ways to get around it there's also a certain flexibility a certain um what's the lushen it's elasticy whatever there's different things that people make mistakes they think there's no absolute the arab suleim so melo don't be don't be so nervous i hold those look i made during them little by rabbi so we have this chart over here there is the gamaliel azaken the third one's going we're mentioning a few room alleles here then you have the grandson of gr gamaliel azak and his name is rabingamalil and then you have the son of ribudanosi so it's the great grandson of gamaliel azakin the third from the top gamalasaku kimwill is the grandson of the great grandson of hilo so the great grandson of gambling is the one we're talking about now how does the kamehameha rabbi omar lay rebbi so this is a stronger taina look you don't have to be professional even someone who's never married before look i didn't see them what do you want me to do um he brings his wife with him so the wife says to him leel rabbi sula haisi i was absolute i deny his taina or malama villa you have a sheet bring it to me he soaked it in water with hip soy and he laundered it bidam um other words once he got rid of the zera on the top he was able to find dam on the bottom and they realized the mistake she was absolutely lazy she's a great woman she's a great wife you made a mistake go back home omari who knows any time somebody comes to such a tight time suleiman this should be there's a mice that somebody told me a mystery i'm not in the noise it's a famous story that happened a few years ago that somebody came with a tightness and they used cancel the wedding cancel the wedding and it was not stamina wedding it was a million check a wedding it was like a three hundred thousand dollar wedding canceled the wedding here in arizona whatever that means so but he says but why maybe we should do a little kibos we don't know what we're doing we're very rough with the laundry we don't have the same detergents as rashi or our water anybody ever i asked some pizza guys how come you don't open up a pizza shop ask mendelson i don't know mendel's yes these guys open up a shop a normal pizza store in archer's role what's going on here some guy in brooklyn that has a successful pizza shop open up an artistro and make a couple of branches here you can be a millionaire you can't because the water here is different consistency it's it's it's a harder water not to put down there's trouble i'm coming to visit you guys we have to make it happen i'm coming with avi whether he likes it or not we're going to come with noam gonna come gary of course as long as i have x5s over there gary's in okay bmws we need only bmw fine geochelano now rashi says this there's different types of water energy stroller has one type of water and bubba has another one over he's saying that the water and bubble is not as good right so there's good water fine so the bottom line is that what the iris they have with george if you're going to do this ironing you take these stones and you start rubbing out whatever it is the dirt marble you're going to get rid of the material you're not going to have anything forget about it it's not worth it oh that's not coming a little bit on my leg another story i have to get divorced i married a zodia by mistake here's another story she's saying right now i am absolute i have eight i know how to check this joviali bring me two slaves oh sponsored by mushy horn in honor of robbie trimandeski the only rebbe that was actually going to basketball sponsored by nisano laszlo for introducing me to mdy and avi and i and hilla wherever he is we all like carson toys to miranda cash all the guys in new york well 2 000 people that went to bell's works we all owe him a karsa if he's the one that was inside of the whole thing from a to z well there's a lot of helpers at the end but it was his idea he and barack hashem got seiko and took it out of that guy's backyard and brought it to bell's work we're very very happy about that okay mario there's a way we discuss this in your vanes and i said that one my friend who became a kaifer loves this gemara she says how's it shy of such a gemara it's impossible tomorrow doesn't know okay it goes like this bring two schwalkes two women one who has absolutely one who doesn't some even say that he paid them for this because he was able to detect the smell of the wine from her mouth travel through her body so this girl this this kawa who says i'm still till today i'm absolute in other words her husband didn't know he was just hurrah whatever happened over there still absolutely go home everything is good ask the gemara why they'd have to bring two schwarze he should have taken the column put her on top of a barrel beneath me myself this is sort of an answer to my friend the kaifer and that is he heard a rumor that there's such a thing where did he hear it says rashee what happened over there so it's could i have to say the story in case you're new to the daf you just started tsubas or a lot of people dropped down unfortunately during your vlogmas understandable but now they're bad what happened was and the kumar doesn't really talk about it over there but it's a good matsushaba story it's part of kleistrol's history there's a terrible story of pilagus begiva where a guy had a pilage it was like how do you say it in talking english and they violated her and they they she was in terrible condition and she didn't make it so the husband was so upset that he took her body and he cut her into 12 pieces and he shipped them fedex to the entire classroom and said look what chevy myanmar did to my wife do something about it so kleistroe was very upset and they demanded the people that violated her and beyond and protected those people chrysol said you have a choice either you give us those people we're going to destroy you no we're not going to give them so cliche went and demolished benjamin there's nobody left in beyond 600 people left an entire yemen kaiser also swore that they'll never be able to marry into clay israel so that a big problem because now they left over 600 people and they have no women they have no wives what are they going to do so there's a place called the gillard also travel makers they didn't go with them to war and kaiser maybe maybe i'm confusing it maybe the kaiser swore that they're not going to let the others gilad marion but anyways they took the women from yavers gillard there's 400 left of yavers gillard and they took the sulays and they gave them sulois to binyamin and they said you can marry these women so but how do you know who's absurd who's not and we have this also how do you know that so they did this test this was the one of the tests they did so mela little knew there's such a test you know how it works it doesn't really work so let's first try it out on this focus before we try it on the noisy throttle in heftger says the gemara bessover demolition the mr shopper maybe i'm not good at it maybe it sounds too too you know scientifically it doesn't work out where so maybe i don't know the noise you throw a non-health care mma lawyer you cannot be miss out and obnoxious troll let me move out on the shift khal pair a little bit we'll tell her it's it's it's for science uh project and mma law i'll figure it out and it worked says would also come in the room yeah now we're talking about program lila's talking if you go back to the chart three down from hilo lazakin is gamaliel i'm saying this is like one of the most high families in clyde israel godzilla a great grand uh i'm sorry a grandson of hilla zuckerman before i said he's a great grandson mistake he's a grandson of hell i would just come in i didn't find that um if you remember on friday that's where rasheed brings the taprashi i believe he brings dorothy how's it possible a woman doesn't have them from my dorkity they can't have oh i'm sorry i skipped polygons it's uh they have some sort of problem a genetic issue that they don't have dominion they don't have them it's two separate dummies one has nothing to do with the other but they don't have them and then mellow you didn't find dam sulu neither right i'm not absolutely bollywood now it probably would have been a good idea if she would have told them before they got married by the way i'm dorky t and i don't have them the problem is shitakoff gone they talk about this is this a mechatos so i'll talk about in a second i hope they're targeting my dorkity darkatua they can't have any hamster it's like the the research shows that if parents can't have children their children also can have children you have a dark atua how do you have this lady here if she comes from a dark attua how do you have a dark so the answer is either the men could women can't have a continuation or i think the better answer is she could just it's very very difficult for them to get pregnant i was going to see soon that the more dumb there is the easier it is for them to get pregnant cheek eventually wait you'll wait five ten years you have a kid you're not gonna have a lot of kids you'll have one or two so my mail is not such a mecca toast can't say oh my god she could you should be so proud now that you know this darkiti you did great my darkest darker tua they they don't have a continuation i'm of to come up with another one besides the barracus besides certain things happened to me i'm not going to go into them but sometimes people come over and say you know it could be much worse he could have been a murderer it could have been a this i don't know what like they tell you something terrible happened oh it could have been you could have lost 20 million dollars it's only 10. [Music] whatever it's he was trying to make the house and feel good even though it was a terrible though he did terrible but why it's too late that's it the guy has to go home and be with this lady for the rest of his life he did amazing it's unbelievable tango it's a bad chill because it's going to be hard for her to get pregnant hey why would he lie why would he say you did great he says gemara also they suffocated this woman who has zero damn need though you never have to go to the rough with any shirtless so that in that way it's great so mario doesn't come with the redmi omelette rebbe he said review okay what's the gears over here ani okay it's because i always think it's a funny lotion but i i didn't think that it may okay basically i was absolute then or i adam i am absolutely now i'm denying the facts not not true i'm absolutely now says we're middle of a famine here raw arabic face their faces were dark from starvation they just got married yesterday they still this they got married starving the starving still i don't know what they served at the casino but they're starving they brought them into a bath house bathed them there i was thinking okay you have to feed her why do you have to feed him maybe he's a little jealous maybe he needs the kayak also maybe stop they did a nice act with them once they fed her they fed him then because there's no dam there's no dam because what do you say in other words it was because they were starving that's why i didn't find out rebbe said apostle this would what's the who's the sponsor taster not related to all the cones okay as we said before and there's a famous concept absolutely gets 200 amana gets a mono basula amano grush if she lost her husband when she's absolute or she's divorcee or everybody i learned ibamus knows kalutsa now it's easy for those who don't if a woman loses her husband and she doesn't have children so she has to be messy abhim to her husband's brother to the brother-in-law if not ibum khalitza but let's say it's been harrison all these were menerusen in other words she didn't lose her sulu she was still we call and engaged there's irisen kidushin so the if they get remarried and now they're remarrying and they're still sullies so they're engaged to somebody with asia's ish but they never lost absulum subasa messiah they get two hundred the islam titus sullivan the husband could say after the khasana wait a minute there's no surum i thought you're absula the same thing that we learned up until now so let me ask you a question raboisa if a husband says the next day i didn't find sulim so how much does she get in her exuber no libby what do you say mayo huh so rashi says it's a mega tall she gets zero he thought that she's absolutely i figured if i just say like that without a question by the way that's that's the the mouth of the guitar if you notice this question answer questions because you just say oh she gets nothing okay nobody think it's cool if i ask you and you think about it and say oh what yes yeah you can't stay with it [Music] if he stays then he pays andre yeah but he could just say the mega toes in chalmers i don't know if he could stay [Music] because he's not absolute she says she's absolutely she's a mazana okay but that's everything that's uh according to his there's javelina before or after what oh if he's not a car and you're right unless unless robert schoenberg well that's the father college or we won't choose three before just three okay you want to play with me gemara's now let's go my albano so now from baghdad says almara shaymana you know why it's called almana because you give her a hundred amana says gemara great i'm on maneuvers but this almana who lost her husband from the harrison and she gets 200. she says okay she's in the category if someone lost her husband saying she gets 200 but a typical i'm going to get started i'm out of civil rights or my inconvenience where in the torah doesn't say the word almana or boise so if you have the art scroll probably pops it up what oh very good that's the one i was looking for that's the tricky one what if that's by tom or where else amano there you go also you should be nice to our mana thinking that it's a hundred in the suva of the the abundance super later on says the gemara because later on in later generations are going to put it in there um said what the tire does such thing in we find such a thing the third out of the four rivers is called it goes to russia now these cities didn't exist when the world was created the person didn't exist the city didn't exist put it in there with the name with everything because it's something that's going to happen eventually motor rain rain is a beautiful thing mascara the waters marvel saturates um fertilizes um and it makes it softer um and it can it makes the thing continue growing um micro what do you see in the past i tell them it's like you know when you have um how do you say it in english tractor goes and makes like this long you have well it's a furrow okay it's more like uh yeah maybe it's rough rave saturates the the trough whatever it's called now haze it settles the pharaoh brevin reveals the lotion of rain to magi oh 12 o'clock does somebody know how to turn it on you want me to turn it on [Music] foreign all right where are we what you say [Music] when you bring a carbon on this behave mesiac it gets rid of that varys amazing and it it nourishes it brings food to the world from upon aventura himself it makes a person beloved now what's amazing is rashi says mazin what's that amazing that when you bring a carbon hashem you bring food hashem you can bring either an animal you bring a mineral which is flour you can bring wine so whatever food that you bring that goes to baruch you see a bracha in your food you hear a snapshot that you bring uh a carbon that shout out for sun doesn't need your carbon you bring the carbon it's amazing this thing that you give to hashem comes back and gives you a bracha in other words when you give money to zadaka you see brah in your money it's the same thing same idea whatever you give to hashem whatever you give it it gives a broker back in that item you gave an animal now you have broken your animals you gave wine you have broca in your vineyard every guy i'm saying this not as a solicitation but as a fact miranda cash he said you know i gave hundreds of thousand dollars to mdy because every time i gave i saw a broker right away afterwards same thing with official same thing with dlc flying same thing with paul landy each one had a different story that the next day or we had an email from from locke he said that he gave money to mdy and then a million dollar check fell on his lap he doesn't know where and how i don't know what the mice is i have no idea i should have spoken to him i should have asked him no but it's ms people say ah the sasha it's it's a what's up not because then you see brock and what you give in that item that you give you see your bra fine um so these two shiners are the same right it says means you get a caparo means about requirements we'll say other things tamarind dates misshapen i say this all the time when i was in america and i used to eat dates it was a once a year thing is to force myself to eat a date on russian shot at night for the simon like the head of a fish that thing that you could barely put in your mouth also date but now i realize that dates are geshmaq if you get the real juicy good dates it's mama's candy they warm you up mas bun they satiate you michelle shalon they soften the the the stool the asheron they give you energy volume falcon then i'm a fan of you you're not gonna want to eat other stuff i have to eat it it's good it's perfect it's the perfect food you shouldn't talk in a locker once you eat dates because it has like it's meshackers it makes you slightly drunk maisvey tamarim the office if you eat so rashi says the nakuta here is eating dates after a meal is perfect so if you eat after breakfast and after dinner yaffos if you eat it after a nap nap time over here you see like the israelis they take this afternoon nap i'm guilty of that it's schmack but it says people used to do it it's very bad to eat dates after your nap batsarayim incomoison if you eat date after lunch it's the best um they also have the power dates to get rid of three things mashavara so you think mashavira means like raj says no worry it takes away the pressure and worry it's gevaldis it's uh it's great medicine it has yes it could make you drunk it doesn't mean it's bad it says you shouldn't pass can unlock us after you eat a date because it's like wine wine is a great thing just don't pass in our lockers afterwards don't matter is depends when you eat the date if you eat it before bread after bread after bread it's good before bed it's dangerous by the way we had in kindness no we had an tightness where he said you bet liam you have dates are so cheap you should be tremendous in learning and then he said but then i ate the dates and then it gave me terrible stomach cramps i was up all night has it depends what dates and how you eat them i'm only a the famous stepmother of abaya who threw out shas and we saw once in our show that says that there's a lot of kabbalah sprinkled out throughout chas and he brings this as one of the things that normally aim is a way of stinking in um cydus satyara in just sprinkled out throughout every step as one or two of umriliam my mother my stepmother told me oh my gosh that we could use this shopping the kid i gave him my son my electric saw i said take it up by the way whoever you are they gave you he said he knocked on an american door she had no idea what he wanted he just pushed her to the side ran to the tree okay so we have this what you did so say thank you from the to them so eating eating dates before bread is like taking a saw an axe to a palm tree busting a hammer but if you eat it after bread he overladasha it's like the bar of the door dasha what does dasha mean derek it's called the door because you go through it dargah why is a is a ladder called the daragomirova derek because that's how you get to the roof pouria why is a bed here i have one last uh chart here back to your vomites why is a woman who can't have children called the islanders duchrones the leona she's a male ram who can't give birth have a wonderful evening a wonderful week you should hold the many guests wow unbelievable you