Daf Yomi Gittin Daf 88 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning rap boys uh good afternoon boys High unbelievable news first of all over 900 gamers we're giving out already 900 now some of them are for people already in this year but that's only like 150 I think but we got to keep on going I'm not going to be happy until you give out 2 000 we got to get everybody back everybody everybody's saying we have a very very special guest yasi Watson right yeah who drove in to see this year all the way from New York I also want to see David dress who bought a ticket today to fly in on Sunday for the fight on share final share on Sundays 12 at 12 o'clock followed by CM right here across the street the don't mind the background this is where I sit every day just they moved that uh wall it's a temporary role partition so you see the actual smudgers but we don't have to worry there's probably no one that's going to come to learn Toyota today until Chavez and it'll be very very well of course as I speak the probably people just start walking in and start learning because but I don't think we have to worry just don't mind the cars going by it's all part of the the beautiful props so just a couple of emails here maybe more hi I have an idea to get people in back I think you should send also Clips on the whatsapps make it about clip group send our daily Clips interesting things you say how he explains piece of gamara you can become attached with watching some of these clips [Music] we actually do have groups like that you just have to find them I don't know how to find I can't help you out but there is there's at least one group that sends out a short clips Etc good idea though Jeff Rosenberg from Harrisburg Pennsylvania doing the Daft together with his nephew whose videos visiting from America's role who's fully current on the daf this is Jeff and I'll just point out that since he's a kid from Arizona it's amazing when you learn with a kid from emergency stroll you you're surprised in the beginning like what is going on there then a whole different level but eventually the Americans catch up you know it takes them 15-20 years and they catch up this is another ad from Dove Harris make the impossible possible basically it's about he writes over there in the bottom I wasn't able to copy it but um I forgot what he calls it the um the double decker bus is a um something in England and so is the ship or something like that whatever you get ideas like uh an icon iconic I think that's exactly the lotion to use iconic double dug your souls this year okay evolved this is from Anonymous from Lakewood now I don't know if he's copying the name or he really is I don't know but it is from cat Vermont here is a picture of Dr Peltz learning dot in Camp Snow Lake and also on the side they did a thing there if you do the dive you get a five dollar coupon for the canteen which is very nice if anybody that did a Duff Elko bettelman hi Ellie I don't know if you'll remember me or not but a few months ago I asked you to wish my husband Ellie badelman a happy 40th birthday what vital man sorry Battlement happy coming from representative because this is uh yeah and you did few days late but you did and that brought him so much joy a relative who participates in the insurance sent us the clip and it made him so happy he also met you in person in the league link Colorado Los Angeles my husband was so inspired by your love of learning and also by his story he was a general contractor by profession but a passionate eat it yet at heart my husband passed vavir at the age of 40. just a couple months later when I read this Imam has cried literally cried I heard the story before and I remember even speaking about it but it just Mama hit me ready that one is writing I want you to I want to thank you for your for inspiring him I continue to inspire many and bring to the Gula spiritually alcohol Idleman and then it says in the battle when she wrote to me the first time Wednesday November 2nd 2022 1 59 pm here he is her voice that here he is young young guy oh here you go and I did I'm sure it brings back more than X-Men oh so much as sugar now I will show this also because I'm gonna forget David come on in so somebody said who you want to donate a diamond ring somebody says and idea I'm sure has been thought of as anybody who brings back more than x amount of people through phone calls qualifies and if they qualify as a person or child that gets engaged is awarded the ring this is Dr shamroth not missing a daf era boys are here we go the corresponsible announced from Lakewood shalamus Bala the most expensive emotions thank you for everything that I have the first one out of six years foreign [Music] in honor of my parents 50th wedding anniversary an anniversary and my 25th Bar Mitzvah anniversary oh I want to go back for a second what was his name Ellie Mann unbelievable I'm remembering now that what no the 40 year old here let's go back for a second what what part 25th anniversary why so it's 25. this person it's possible no okay this static right over here was nifter just to make the story even crazier two days before it sounds bar mitzvah two days and his father was lifter one week after his bar mitzel Sadiq um Mr Abby Berg that's the famous Ivy bird who gives out steaks and massive amounts of meat anybody enjoying this year foreign we put out a video it's a very bam it's a very personal story I I was vulnerable I put myself out there just to get more people to learn Tyra it's a cool story I think it's a very nice story and it's one of the best works that uh Paris time snow did and and this the these people in New York uh Knock Out video I think it's called unbelievable video it's long it's three and a half minutes but it's a great story so I guess Paradigm Levine saw this and in there is Diet I guess that I'm going to be finishing shots this cycle in three days so this coming Monday today's dive is my favorite just like Ruby's favorite is also there was a um I don't know if it was an ancients but the Arabi once asked how many candles do you light on Hanukkah total so he said well whoever this kid was he said it says in the Apostle Robbie asked the question and let them out Theresa so he said 88 nishbar is in half he's 44. we went on recess that's that was his thing okay fine come visit listen to this come visit our recruitment boots and the cats goes this Sunday I don't know he's talking to exactly not to the guy I mean if they're recruited already so they're recruit if they're not they're not watching this but maybe he's asking people to come help oh that's a good one this Sunday the wood burned shoulder Sunday Mountain food in Monticello the Sunday gold shine Homestead and Liberty and also in Staten Island it has boots everywhere to get more people to learn the month is sponsor for complete reforms uh here we go so yesterday we learned the mishnah that if a person writes again on the right side of the column and the second column he finishes It Off and there's Adam on the bottom you see that everything's good yeah okay so question before we go invited just wanted to see what the weather will say if everybody is in agreement what's more common today divorce or personal injury somebody getting hurt from somebody else or divorce see personally who's a personal personal injury anybody else have what to say do you think divorce definition of personal injury well people bringing each other to chords for a personal injury that sort of thing I guess that's severe that you have to come to court personal injuries okay in this case where the get starts on the right side and goes to the left perhaps these are two complete difference here let me show you he did a great job Yoshi and this when you see this the whole city becomes very clear watch this here's the get asking tomorrow perhaps it started out with two separate Gita you see one on the right one on the left and one is higher than the other says Rashid it's perfect how he did it get one get two and then he took a scissor and chopped off certain parts and he made get one and two one get beautiful how he did it huh no it's all good you dropped it now now you could to repeat it is a little difficult but then so I saw it it made sense so who told you this won't get maybe this guy went ahead and he did he took two git and made it one that's certainly not good it's not the Shema it wasn't me it wasn't written for that one woman in the bathroom because when he chopped off the time of the second one waiting the camel and he chopped off the Adam again look they ate them of get one are gone the the Ravi bashamus of get two is gone and now you have a perfect get Morrow you guys this is another great job there's space on the bottom so you see that it didn't cut anything there's no cutting going on all right the deal about two lines from the bottoms around the bathroom I guess guys say maybe he cut off the time from the bottom one oh this is gamara I'm sorry maybe the one on the left is chopped off the time says just like you just answered it's the same answer we just answered that there's a space on the bottom so now if you take a look at the thing here goes this is I guess maybe chopped off the top but he left the bottom ARA at the top also has space so there's no chopping going on nobody cut anything it's we know for a fact it's one get uh you can't have space between the Adam and the end of the get over here there's no space between the Adam and the get foreign ASMR what makes sense here is what happened is that he wrote the whole right column and then he said you know I don't want to divorce my wife he put it aside he told The Cypher stop stop he pays by the by the by the letter it's very expensive to have a slavery right might get cost me how much I remember at least like 500 a minimum which is my God I got good use out of it this could die every penny was gonna die right it's a real story for a real thing this costs money so says gimoro maybe he decided to go to therapy marriage counseling and then he you know after a year it didn't work out she's okay let's continue on everything goes on you just so let's continue on column two and we continue right there says Rashi that's a puzzle get according to rational argues well right she says when you stop something like that that means that you told the cipher enough I don't I don't want this gift and by you doing that all the get oh and that's a problem that's why it should be possible we're not concerned about somebody doing something like that now look inside just for a second I want to point something out here foreign if you could go back and use it again afterwards why can't you use it here um which is a very very unique name I think it's only twice entices in the entire shots he was and the reason why he's Navi maybe he was about my first Etc I want to point out that in this week's passion we talk about a novice checker and there's many stories of Nivea shakers Etc but there was an interesting story I think the the person's name is something like that he's entire Village and he he had a lot of Charisma and he went to Schultz and he said oh we got to be Mama the whole and people said there's a new this is a new star you know star in Yiddish kite this guy is no good I forgot exactly what he was doing doing all these interesting things the guy went from the barrier picked him up and threw him at a show he said you can't speak boom it turned out that he was a faker like uh he was an actor basically he wanted to marry now Mana I don't remember all the details he wanted to marry somebody and so he made this whole stick as if he's in a COBOL under this and that fun the the idea is that every generation we have something that in this week's passion we discussed and just the I remember because his name is from he was he's brought entices his ballot Isis but basically says him but one third says that when you finish what you're doing then you can reuse it but if you stop in middle that is canceling the get that shows that you don't want it anymore once that happens you can't use you can't continue writing it a few months later Omar foreign let's see oh did I skip something oh yeah I did based on this I skipped something very good because what's going on in Chicago Chicago wake up this is oh boy it didn't convert to the font the whole thing is not on the front that's so interesting okay it's a beautiful font and does this issue did the other one have it oh all of them are in the front I'm just realizing now it was all done in a safety Tire fund and for some reason this computer my computer it's on the regular phone okay not only that I inserted these words here hurry at you see hariat and it was the last words of the line and we'll tell us okay it worked out well but I ran out I had it at the left side of the First Column and so basically Kimura says that it's impossible that he continued a year later because he's the middle of a sentence you right and then stop you want to write Harry at and continue a word three months later muteris so we did that it's a good thing I had a slide otherwise I would skip the liner it doesn't really matter huh no no it's not about adding the way it's written it's obvious that he didn't stop and go it's a continuous thing he started he started on column B because he felt like it but not because he decided not to divorce his wife he says family maybe this is this is just what happened happened we're not concerned here you know like a lot of times we're used to it like a old piece of parchment has like a dark Edge so rash explains because they used to use like stones around it and the way they did it it caused the edges to be dark so they were not concerned that somebody snipped away and did things if if the um the edges are darker the edges are good you see that they weren't they weren't uh touched cost so just to remind darling this we said in the mission is no good if you sign on top or on the side it's not good the signatures of the being on the back anyway what I'm gonna do perhaps Rob used to assign on the side of the get more awesome Chicago clapping XF take a look at the screen when the signatures the top of the signature is facing the get then it's good before the bottom of the signature was facing again it doesn't look like they were signing on again it says take a look at this case you have two git and what is on top of the other but one is upside down and they signed in the center's name both in Gideon my Apostle says what's the difference let's just see which one the head over here would be the one on top get one should be kosher y because they them the roof of their letters are next to get one if the letters don't have to be directly under they could be on the side as long as the head of the letters next to the sub so then the head could be uh upside down also what's the difference as long as the head is next to the cap says so here's here it just shows you what should be culture there's a green arrow here good quiero means like a bolt I just threw in a bolt there I don't know if Yoshi would uh agree with that one but it looks like a bolt in other words it's going vertically it's not horizontal it's vertical like a bolt okay [Music] so we go to the next case what about over here if it's like a boat you're saying like a bolt is is possible right this is possible goes like a ball it's it's standing vertical you have to have Adam that are foreign neither of them is upside down and then you activate them in the center Australia Pacific culture when they ate them the Eden that are closest to whatever get it's kosher now asking Mario but you're telling me it looks like a bald either I'll make you ever look right over here it doesn't belong to either of the Gita not to get one Attica two if it's horizontal then it belongs to get one but if it's vertical it doesn't belong to either get it hello something Mars as you're right then you take back all that we said would sign his name on the side not of a get started to get his Apostle like the mission says you asking me rather use this no rap sign something else when he's the summon someone to to best and say hey you got to come to best then you turn his name on the side not on again foreign at least twice before I think twice that if you have the yeah we had it twice that if you have the words of the get written by Ruben the famous Cipher and shimming signs on the bottom says the mission is caution um now what it's the signature of the famous server it's not enough that he wrote it just a few days ago all right he's the um check this out excuse me oh immediately you cannot take words that somebody told you too give to somebody else in other words I tell you to write a gift for somebody you can't tell somebody else to write it those are just words you receive words can't think it was worse even somebody else so immediately we're not concerned that the Cypher was writing and the Adam are worried that it's going to be insulted he's gonna be uh what's the word um foreign insulted it's going to be insulted that he wasn't asked to sign so they're gonna often decide but everybody knows that the love is like he says everybody knows that you know how to tell somebody else that wasn't told to sign so we don't have an issue we're not concerned I uh okay fine everybody see in the store says good morning story about so everybody recognized the handwriting so we recognize the handwriting of the cipher Reuben the cipher and shiman signed so we have to do more thought two this is so [Music] wanted to be mastered himself has to sign and we're not concerned that his Apostle Aid that wasn't told by the husband to sign because everybody knows they now tell The Cypher to sign unless he's really thought so foreign he used this name he said this is a descendant of the Samsung you know what I'm sorry for you insist we'll rethink it this is not enough it's not a he's not I lied he's the descendant of Roma Vino and at the end they let him in this is so how far up do you go with with dijos we have so many very famous in the family so you're right but it's up until 10 Generations I would I would write the famous one of my family is Maxwell okay there's only three generations more than that no good come on when you have a casement it says only three generations who is it like okay says three generations and the town of karma says Ted micro what do we see foreign until seven different families of Kingdom of Israel not of Yehuda of Israel they worshiped um seven that's because it says two that's a total of three another two actually with Renee it's two bonim is another two total is burning is two vinay is two bonam is two is six plus solid is seven that's if you want to say now guys it's union says on the side over here [Music] no eponymous II the name is plural ah okay you're saying that I hear no um here good Castle or if it's just uh it's not a it's a it's a smarter it's a yeah I'm a layer of Carnival wrap says Hashem he he's not very good Hashem he wasn't as bad as the rest of the Kings was really bad Allah came and destroyed in his generation but why if he wasn't as bad as the other kings why did Hashem punish his Generation Um put the soldiers and blocked away so christro can't go up to your line okay no more anybody can go through his life opportunity and didn't go up on yantiff America now we are going to punish them they had the opportunity they didn't take it they are punished so this is that somebody who spends a lot of time at work whether it's good not good whether he has the right to not if it's whatever the person uses excuse me he has to okay his boss said he has to be there 17 hours a day nope so he has he has he has a decent a decent excuse but then comes vacation time [Music] and he doesn't open up a safer then come Shabbos and he sleeps seven hours straight they say wait a minute your whole excuse just went flying out the window you're telling me you're so busy you don't have a minute and what about on the drive to work what about in the train and what about all those hours you spend on YouTube so if you don't have it if every second you spend learning then all the 17 hours that you spend at work then it considered as if you learn it it's the same thing and then it brought to mind I want to tell you about my Haley is fair because I'm here in Chicago and you all know him Dr Michael Freeman is a surgeon so he is the biggest worker how that I know of he works and works barely takes a day off but yeah this is also very important this picture when I went to visit my mother-in-law now now on this trip the first time I saw her I went into the room she's on the bed over there I'm not gonna show her but my father-in-law slipped up a folding table and brought up all this farm and he's learning there he's a surgeon but he's learning at every spear moment that he has so on Shabbos morning everybody knows you always find him with the gemara at 5 30 in the morning in the kitchen learning from 5 30 all the way to chakras and when it goes to work in the morning every morning this tire in his car and when he comes back this tire in his car and then he comes and this covers it comes so it's a person who works all day but he's all tired so his entire day he said that's why her son is a Shiva his other son is uh can they eat them his other son-in-law learn seven half a day that's your bad stop working doesn't work he learns all day because it's tremendous says no I think it's a tremendous thing the the but it's a it's also a Titan on some of it doesn't you could have excuses remember tomorrow but what do you do on vacation they just sits or the talking attack time everybody's in time of the vacation you're loud but 24 hours shop results you like to take a nap with seven hours you need a bagel you need this that's the that's the thing foreign [Music] foreign you hear that someone is able to still teach Tire look at look at the hormone that we had 80 years ago how many years ago was it already I don't even know 80. all the dial numbers wiped out and then you restart and you barely have anything we had some few but imagine a generation of everybody wiped down they have to start and then uh that he left tremendous elephant a Horrors with the comets what does it means when they speak in learning it becomes you come like a deaf mute you can't answer back it's so powerful in learning Mass gear here's this is once they close that's it there's nothing to talk about LF a thousand it keeps on going back in my mind about today our daily where are they who I don't like who are people going to now when they go to strolling like it's like so it's I don't know if there's ever a generation like that you have to at least you know I'm liters and at least you know every generation five I don't know I'm sure they're out there just uh I'm not not familiar so much there are questions but somebody said oh we gotta go we gotta go to Earth is strong and get a brother from so and so when you see them have it they still have the rabbit of this but unbelievable give us yourself they have a thousand a thousand become married so take a look at this for a second just the geometry of any shantam is 852. so says rash if you look at the last less words you don't have to it's easy to find if it would have lasted 852 this whole other desired business then this is added there two years before foreign his name he doesn't want to say I'm slay me you know it he avoids the next person is going to be all over so Hashem saved us two years early what's this my hero is I should have made it red as usual okay and when you shot them in red that's a different time foreign I was thinking about Ellie what's his name again and this the mire together for Bill Gates how much does Bill Gates worth today or the the guy from Amazon or whatever 100 something billion right what's the enough Community Bill Gates between a hundred and twenty dollars and sixty dollars is there enough it's like uh it came out of Zero no it's it's nothing so what's the difference if a person is going to live for a 150 billion years that's how many dollars Bill Gates has 150 billion years which it's more 100 if a person lived for 150 billion years so what's the difference if he lives for 120 years in this world or 60 years it's come out nothing the difference is almost nothing for us it's all the difference oh this kid was never young this person if they're old and we say we cry about the 30 years and I'm not belittling it but if we think about the big picture because the person goes from here to there and he lives over there for a hundred for trillions of years so that that little that small amount there's nothing quick is 852. 852 years okay relative real you know times relative Center essential but it's nothing Rocking In other words in that world 850 is garnished fine I don't know if what I said if not erase oh yeah thank you sponsor Miami foreign dot com this is uh you know the controversial I spoke about it there's a there's a year in New York that's sitting now in in prison unfortunately or you know he did I think he did a lot of good in his life he got a lot of women getting but a lot of them were forced and uh that's what we're talking about it to force again not to I'm not going into what he did exactly in that but the idea in Chicago the famous Misa so there's a concept that sometimes you force somebody to give a get if he's holding his wife as a hostage and she's not divorced and she's in aguna for many years you can force so he has to say I want to give a get you want to see sometimes it's cautious or something it's not sometimes he has to get divorced because she's also thin sometimes she could demand the divorce for different reasons so there's actually people that make a condition when they get married they say listen if I'm ever a jerk and I don't want to give you a divorce so I'll owe you x amount the money there's such a thing and then there's a Shyla is that considered musona now I'm forcing him to give a million dollars or get so am I forcing there's a there's a question I'm not passing one with the other it's just it's just something to think about even though he agreed upon it before he got married if if the guardian no if the guy even go ahead and they force the non-jew comes with a gun the mafia comes and forces again that's not a good get puzzle um so I was present once at one of these all right disgusting and were those guys those guys were not Jewish hmm but they come with uh they come with a they came with the rod it was an expired admission oh yes that's what it was a cipher there and uh this okay I'm not gonna go I don't want to say too many details because then people know who it is but it was a very interesting story it's an interesting outcome in two different ways also the sun learns in the share every day so I can the non-jew could cause harm or or threaten him until and they say do what the Jew told you to do all right if it's because she's awesome to him or because she could demand it should like it then but if it's stop she wants to get divorced let's say Apostle you get is not good but she's also have him if the non-jew forces it even though she deserves a get it's still Apostle to get and it's poison in other words it has some sort of effect again and boy let's see if we have it over here oh so first of all it is called get Musa so don't forget what it means a forced get because literally in two days from now somebody was talking about get Musa would be like what what's that yeah get that's made that's forced and also of course we had the idea of ref again it has the it's a tainted good it has a react it has the smell the scent of again it's not really which way are you going to look at it you know if they have the ability to make it get like that is you look at a guy you say no he's gonna he's already cover him he has no right at all to make it get used to live so it shouldn't do anything it should be zero Oliver is going to slog him up the viratory again no I'll tell you what a non-jew has the right to make a discussion pay them a few bucks and they'll beat him up until he's again she could force her husband to give her again aim boy you're telling me that if the nanju gave it like it then it doesn't even smell like again um what are you talking about Force again so yes he shouldn't though because they don't have to get divorced but if he has the right then then it's a little bit of a get so if it's a little bit of a get it should have the red again it should have a little bit of the smell of the get and therefore she should be positive because we said kohyanim cannot marry women who are not even though they never got divorced but if they had some sort of their husband wrote again and put it away or if a guy in this case wrote together he said it's not a good guy but at least it should be somewhat of again that she shouldn't be able to marry cry never mind it's a little bit of a joke it's false so what's up the time am I foreign this is very interesting that if you tell me that by a guy it doesn't pass so they'll say the same thing that by a Jew it doesn't pass so they said okay you know what let's do across the board wait a minute my academic thing is wait a minute I now I think I messed it up let's see Rashi too Godzilla born and lives of the corner yes they said that it's possible and if not they'll say that by a Jew it wouldn't be possible they said everything across the board is awesome however she like it did but if they made a get against Allah in other words this this woman shouldn't have been divorced because we don't have to make it possible because nobody's gonna confuse it with uh Jewish cat Joseph pounding this guy punching in the face telling him you better give a gap whatever he did them Border Water boarding I don't know whatever the tactic is of those days please you know what I'm talking about okay everybody in Chicago knows the rest of the world wants to know what I'm talking about there's a guy in Chicago that didn't give a get and one of the big rub on them here uh dunked him in the bathtub for a little bit until he decided to give it yet so imagine his mom is forcing you guys to give again he looks at his Revy this is revisive we're just simple people that was shot because we're not in their control we're in bubble and in Buffalo we don't have the right we don't have we don't have um from the other General in Arizona yes but here in bubble knot where'd you eat this he says if you see any like the judge was sitting around I'm going of non-jews average is the name in Israel even though they have the same laws even in America many of the laws resemble the laws of the of the of of talmud they took a lot of it from us so you say oh they're doing a good Mission you're not allowed to go by the rule available we don't have the right so how could you force this guy to give a get Senator destroy something but we can't do it in bubble oh yeah we are just doing the the governor's Israel the robotic energy just like in bubble we have the right the pasculars when it comes to loans and people admitting so too foreign how come when it comes to theft and personal injury that's what I asked to cover before this year we should also have the ability in hutzler as the passing says we only have the right to do something that's common what's common divorce personal injury it's not common says injury and therefore we don't do um initially we'll just do the mishnah and we'll be finished for today if everybody has a there's a rumor in the city that she is engaged Horizon she can't marry anybody she's not a lot of substitution from anybody else or gracious if the rumor is that she's divorced Harry democracious who eventually shama Maslow as long as there's no explanation to why she has that rumor what what does that means if everybody knows that there was a condition attached to the divorce and therefore we could say that she never fulfilled or met the condition and therefore she's not divorced or so Rashi says it goes both ways that people said that the condition is also off night so it goes oh I didn't show this this is a force get in the Jewish Court and a force get in the non-jewish court and then we have this this is a Suffolk illusion that he throws a ring to her to be miscoticed and the lands on the line so we don't know within four hours we don't know if it's closer to him or her Zoo yamaslow therefore you could understand why people have a rumor that she's engaged in fact she's not engaged or she's not divorced have a wonderful day a wonderful week a wonderful Shabbat wonderful Shabbos business right here at 10 45 on Sharp