Daf Yomi Gittin Daf 63 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning rap boys I am going to tell the guests anybody flying special for today what's your first name Steve Steve if Steve said shell all the way from Baltimore wow so I just need to announce this real quickly tomorrow is my son's above Bayonne so we're doing a very small barometer a little pizza party up at first house it's not really for even my family's not coming in it's just friends but I have to be there and therefore share tomorrow probably like five o'clock we should call for five o'clock if you can make it great not not but 7 30 is smack Miller Bar Mitzvah I did leave my son's wedding to give share but that's a wedding Bar Mitzvah is something else he would be insulted if I left so that's that now thank you very much the other thing is that my son loves you just set up old equipment is going to camp on I think it's Sunday so my wife decided to surprise me and we're going to New York for Shabbos so here we go so we have to I don't know exactly the Thursday we're going to do a share again maybe I don't know what time and then Friday is going to be from we're going to Hunter Mountain we're taking a place called roses mount in I think it's called it's a nice very cool place it's like for 50 people but it's just me and my brother for Chavez um I saw it's advertising Buck every week and in the Army he says why not it looks like a great place was out there in Hunter Tannersville you know area the welcome to come to this year Friday what's the Shabbos sun again I don't even have tickets yet so I don't know we'll figure it out as we go along okay this for a boy say um do you guys see it cow pots what do you see on the thing so I have to do this how about now now it's better Okay so yesterday we're learning about Cleveland somebody sent in that they actually have a company called calpats they take the gallullum of the cows and they make different pots out of them so have a great day from Ezra uh Dara Valley firstly thank you so much I'm not going to read the entire thing no substitute no excuses by the way Mazel Tov anybody that's here for sugar how do I know because somebody's sponsoring for himself because he said it's his second year uh doing voice I set up the whole thing here thank you yeah thanks for for everything that you do behind the scenes so is the Townsend sukkah you really you really transformed my life and my kids lives we've also been doing the dive with me as someone who didn't learn regularly before me why I've not missed a single day of the dot since I started this over two years ago you hear this from somebody who hasn't been learning uh consistently he hasn't missed a day in two years the reason for my email is concern over that samach relation to the reading of the third from a formation you're implying that quite a reason I started from homage is someone who fairly regularly gets author in my minion and lands from the back of a homage this was very concerning looking into in more detail I like to share the foul the kids are he found a Taz and uh I don't know I went through the whole thing he has some sort of cooler here that even uh printed have the same Aloha as as written file look I say this again and again I'll say it again I am not a rough I don't pass him I can only tell you what I saw what I read I read in the mission Brewer and we usually go by the mission he says it's not a good idea not that it's not a good idea that the the person leaning from not a cloth cannot be might see other people that's what I got out of the mission Brew you want to ask your local Rabbi like he did he asked his local Rabbi and his rabbit said he's probably it's good it's good it's a good cooler okay you go with the cooler I'm just trying to make people's lives hard and and tell them the different allahs that I found and so Israel doesn't work with you it doesn't work it's a whole mouth we spoke about that also doesn't add anything it's a whole homage or a whole Novi not enough that's a mistake that people make that but even so it's still a printed thing and you can't be Mighty from a printed safer I can't read from this homishulaney I have to I got a a timer let's see if that works that helps probably not don't stop being though you though don't stop being you though as we all love your insights into Aloha and love being challenged to be better I'll be in this room for the first two weeks of August but it looks like I'm gonna miss you let's be in Chicago I guess I know there is the next visit your loyal talmud Italian this kid is an amazing kid this kid is trouble setting and he is the famous story he got punished by his father because I remember what happened exactly I don't know I don't even know if he told us but his father took away his phone smartphone and since he was so bored he decided you know you might as well check out this stuff he was hearing about that's this kid so he uh he started learning the daf and he got so into the death that when his father returned his phone he told his father to keep it and here he is he came to say hello to me in New York and he showed me the phone that he got instead it's just a regular flip phone he gave up a smartphone and he still does the death the Rebellion mentioned that your favorite daughter somehow because your initials still the rebel only has his death once every few seconds because not all of them have samachal but my initials are shin Sama spelling out shots so every death is my favorite it's not just the initials that make learning the death so great the real greatness comes from the Actos Tyler schmann and jokes your talmud scholes and finally for multi Health God sad email he says the story of the mother and her seven sons was hard her ending message to her son ending off with um reminds me of the three law where we say Isha Israel these are the Coronas the parents lost their children he lost a child that is all from Hashem that will be we'll see them in the service for those that can't that can use it as a reminder of the the bigger Corbin of the base I make those whole parents went through the suffering of losing a child all of Clyde Israel has him in mind three times a day and to use your mother the basketball is for all of you as well aim abundance I the coil is sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood thank you for everything that I have this families Kobe Moses in honor that this never happened the two misadam of the Shia are here together one time and you know she was also here you don't have to leave you don't have to leave Hobie Moses in honor of my second diversary base wow two years ago a voice act two years ago yeah that's right in honor of Ben Reuben no so they we started every and we finished like right around that's what it was happy Birthday Dad loved the kids brain intact Unleash Your full potentials from reserve and oxygen tremendous success in all my endeavors this is a stefansky that was lifter she wasn't buried yet she's being buried the nerves as well Ruthie stevenski same name as my mother Elijah yummy the art for complete refuel here we go we are holding um pretty much all the way on the bottom of that summer days on days and let me remind you what we're talking about yesterday so the case is where a woman says one thing and the lies and he says something else so the woman I thought about this you know what a great name we can name this woman think about it her name could be gitty uh no it's a little a little corny okay uh so anyways gitty says she bring my get she's saying means not being macabo but bring it rather one brings the get and one receives the get a can receive the get Kabbalah as soon as the get hits his hand she is divorced he's an extension of her hand but that's not what she said she didn't say I want you to be an extension of my hand she said jave bring it to me when it gets to me I'm divorced okay yeah we'll see that that's I think tomorrow is that we'll see a little bit about that um depends who if who's holding the gift who's not holding the get if you have the like Amigo sort of thing he lies and he says that she said is so what does the husband say does it says whatever she said what's the halacha not muguration okay now there could be two reasons why she's not magurish either because the husband think about this what would you say why is she not divorced either because the husband wants it to be as the wife said and there's a confusion here he's lying the snake is lying he's like I wanted to be like this really so therefore it doesn't work another reason can be that he never wanted the the never wanted to be okay by the lying what he's saying is I'm not interested in English she said I should bring it here I'm not interested why should I be why should I take responsibility I all I care about is I'll take the get right now I'll divorce her right now more than that to slap it from America to Israel that's too much for me I have to take it's a lot of responsible I'm not interested that's another reason why it understands the first reason now where it says oh you see that the husband is relying on the shliach and and he's saying whatever this is doesn't work the last words on oh and one thing more wants to say here you see from here the idea that we there's actually green whether or not the husband or the person that talks is he does he go with what says or not over here you can see that we go based on what the shliff says not so much what he himself says what the wife says if the case was reversed you'd have a very good right in this case she's not with Gorgeous okay so what's the K oh and for some reason Yoshi showed this to me and he didn't put it in I see it in the back of this of this um it's in the background basically he's a liar so Yoshi wants to show that he's a liar but he forgot to put it in I guess didn't come in it's in there it's in the Sheep but in the background like it didn't make it into the animation if it's this case this is the exact same case but a reverse in the first case she said go over there go to America receive the gift from you as soon as you get it I'm divorced walks over to the husband completely lies he says the woman told me what does he say same thing that he said in the first case whatever she said okay so it says the Gamora um if the case was reversed and in this case dialogue would be again wants to get hits the schlaf's hand she's magurus why because she said you should be a Kabbalah so that's what it is the air conditioner I don't think he's done is it yeah I know okay raise your son eventually we'll get it but that time I'll be already in New York oh sorry this is a good Riya that we we go by what she says or maybe he would possible we don't know what you're passing this is all theoretically what if he passed in that in this case she said you should be in this would be that she gets divorced when the get goes back to her now like what she said but what the line about and that would be a right award the husband is always thinks about he's doing it based on what has told him to do foreign if the case was reversed but over here in our case the zero right the the accuration in our case that what the Sheikh is doing is he's making a statement he's very upset the wife said hey you go through this road bring me a bowling ball you know package can try it you want me to bring you a small thing great you want me to to be a schlier I can bring you a get and take care of it and hold it like a safe attire on a flight you know be I'm not interested in being so you know what I'm gonna do I'm gonna ignore what you told me you told me to bring a get and then no I'm going to do basically what he's saying is I'm faithing you on I have nothing to do with you I'm not I'm not accepting yours acrylic he was oikurin he threw it out the window and that's why it doesn't work so don't bring me a ride that doesn't work because the husband is thinking in terms of the shlia no the reason why it doesn't work is because the slave doesn't want to be your that's why it doesn't work it's a completely different reason very simple reason s I'm not interested in being great in other words just to rephrase you are saying if we reverse the case and it is a good get so I can bring it right why is it to go get either we go base the husband is basing it on the wife or we can bring it right that the husband's basically because it is a good guy but when the get is not a good get in our case the get is not a good get then we don't have a riot because maybe all it means is that it's not a good case that the the Sleep doesn't want to be and he threw out the whole and there's no right to be brought here tomorrow um if a person says in our mission we learned you should become a man says and a man doesn't have a right to say that or he says that he doesn't have a ride the man the husband could take it back he could retract up until he gets to the wife says that's only because he wanted to take it back but if he didn't want to take it back then it's a good get asking more about my Obama what's going on here again what's the case the husband says please be my slave like a bubble could he make it absolutely not only the wife can make it seems like that if he didn't retract it would work why would it work you know why it would work hello guys so basically this is Akasha and the first way that we're learning of nothing that what over here you see the idea that even though the husband said he said but and you can't make it but what he's trying to say is you know what I know that we can't you can't be talking about just bring it there get it let's get divorced I want to get divorced that's the gamar if that's the case if you just throw words into what he's saying he said you should be but what he meant to say is let's get this done over here also what's going on your wife told me how can I say he lied and what did the husband say here go give it to her the way she said it the bottom line is she he wants to get divorced just like in this case where he said a mama a random thing he said you should be Kabbalah and we know a husband cannot make us yet it still works why because we're saying he wants to get divorced so in our case also when the lies to him and he says do whatever the wife said let's say the same thing he wants to get divorced let him get divorced ures in the case where he said a silly thing he said you should be yourself like a ball a person knows you can't make it because so why did he say it because he wanted him to be because the person knows but over here lied to him and he's basing off a lie he's saying whatever you're saying is good like I trust you shlia that's why it doesn't work we know that a cotton a young kid cannot make it cannot appoint an agent so if it Tana says to somebody go ahead and go accept my get for me and I get it's not again oh this is a problem she cannot appoint but if she does appoint it is a get when it gets to her how does that work she's a divorce audio she said yes all of a sudden he flips into how could that work hello same as far as we said before and we're gonna say the same Terrace as we said before the reason is because he wanted to she wants to get divorced he's the husband wants to divorce her so she's going to get divorced any way she can get divorced okay so in our case also once the husband tells even though he said go give it to my wife so he wants to get divorced anyway he could get divorced there's no comparison there's no such though over there her person knows that there's no sleep still come the government yet he gave it to the shlia because he's doing it so when a person knows what he's dealing with you could say that he changed in his mind he said okay I cannot make there's no sleep for a cotton but I'm making him but in this case he doesn't know what he's doing he doesn't realize this guy is a Pinocchio he's a liar how should he know he's a liar the guy said your wife told me to be so I'm giving you but that's not what happened it was really so therefore it doesn't work foreign the wife says and then let's see if we have it over here yeah this case right the wife says lies and he says she said uh um or the reverse case the wife said the wife told me just give it to her [Music] um so it was a it was a miser ones with I think it was mayor Heyman or something like that he he was trying to make a train and somebody came to ask him what's your name my kid what should I this you know the person's marriage coming up he says listen the train is coming right he says but just tell me what I should name my kid so he screams then he says yeah I give barrels whatever I don't know like 30 years later he gets invitation it says Barrel you know all seven names the point is sometimes you say something you don't mean all those things one of them I was giving you a few options we're also no just remembered it says over here go give it to her below he didn't say all these things he said one of these three things okay the point is one rats Alaska if doesn't want to take it back you can take it back again so again the husband let's start from the beginning the wife said the the lies and said that's case number one case number two we're familiar with these cases we had both of these cases case number two is the exact reverse the wife says okay Sigmar says based on the cabala case that the wife said yes said and he lied oh the wife told me to be definitely and what did the husband say do whatever the wife said the wife said to Kabbalah I don't know what she said but it's okay mom wants to bring it right from there the world Michigan the two cases match up foreign [Music] so you see from here that the guy is relying on the schliech it's completely wrong so back to the back to the right does the husband rely on we're bringing a right to this question that we had and what we can see I think it was does the husband rely on understand when he when he says he should be according to what you're saying in this case if you notice he never said it's not like you should be like my wife said that's that case he didn't say anything he didn't say he's like my wife said he just said hi look or his Cabo he didn't say like my wife said now the husband knows that he can't make it so what do we say Cabo in this case why did the husband say yes everybody knows that a husband cannot be my Mana obviously he meant to make him he could take it back that's why he could retractable foreign [Music] the wife says I want you to be Ashley Kabbalah receive the gift as it hits your hand i'm divorce Bishop he lies sorry he doesn't lie foreign ers so I think we have a we should have a thingy here let's see let's get to find it let me see if I have let me just go over here for a second oh no let's just discovered okay fine what happened there the wife said you should be actually didn't lie he said I'm supposedly says the husband I don't care I don't want him I want you to bring the get all the way to the Terrace's row why oh the voice is now going into another little so good that you're gonna love history but it's only for a few minutes don't get too nervous when the husband says you take this we take this to her like he said it over here so basically he's telling him you should be you could be Zoloft in it right now if you want to acquire it for the wife you could right now even though I told you bring it to her go all the way there to 12. the word bring it to her really means you should acquire it for okay [Music] why because take it doesn't mean acquire it I think it means to take it yet if he says you should be Psycho right now you should receive it for right now then he cannot retract because he was like it right now okay [Music] when a person says take it he means you should acquire right now so rev is saying exactly like the tanakama like the version because you can't take it back why because he already quieted on the spot but if he specifies and says but I don't want you to be metabolic yeah I don't want you to accept it right now and acquired affair right now I want you to bring it all the way there's wrong in that case because he's very specific in that case he could retract says aren't they saying the same exact thing the the first sheet and the third cheetah so one answer is very simple yes the kind of comma is ready okay here's another chat uh says [Music] doesn't talk about the second uh thing that he's ready said if I say specifically I spell it out I do not want you to acquire it today I wanted to bring it all the way there as well so then you have to I can retract until you get there as well so that was one of them what I'm trying to tell you is the name of the first Tana is ready ibaido Hey listen now remember we had this yesterday the word is very similar it's very different means bring it to where is means this is yours right now does halach according to remnants says right now what about the word means this is for you so maybe this is for your means you should be looking right now [Music] these are very funny kind of rice I would say funny because I don't understand the soil might not be funny at all for me they they seem like heart however if the person says please acquire this guy wrote To Laugh to the answer if he wants to uh take it back he could but if a wife says it wrote to lots of lawyers you can't right because a woman makes it and she's divorced on the spot this is even though it says the word maybe it's talking about halach and it goes according that even according if you say hey look is nice try no we're talking about he didn't change the word and it goes according to revi and same thing again sponsored by morganik in my honor and by the healing group dylan.com foreign [Music] you have good reasons why why because she only comes divorced once it hits her hand because it's here we have the two words together now there's no confusion one is one is you can't say that over here because it says hi look at the beginning and then it says Hey lock okay so now we're getting somewhere answer he says which means different than means bring it means this is for you right now [Music] he can't take that but that's according to ready according to revi but according so we must say that the race is going according to him why because it says that you could take it back hey love you can't take it back again the humorous question was according to rib Nelson only Corner what if he says the word what would he what would he hold here's a before Sharia what he holds because the racism you cannot take it back when the person says hey love this is for you he means to say you should acquire right now for the woman I mean uh [Music] everybody wake up here we go it's Mark this guy this guy I want you to accept this get for me getting up with Taylor the wife says I want you to make sure that that's what she said he's not lying this name is being a good boy today he says the truth but the wife said I should be but the husband says husband says I don't want you to to acquire right now I want you to bring it all the way through all right says we have a problem this this is the kids who have a big big software what happens by Suffolk if the husband happens to die before the woman gets the divorce she gets it in her hand so what happened it's possible that she's divorced why because maybe he was a Schleich who she's divorced it's possible that we listen to the husband and she's not divorced until she receives the get but guess what the husband died before she received the get and therefore what she's a widow and she's a widow she falls Leebo didn't have children to her brother-in-law and she requires evil well we don't know but maybe she's divorced so what do you do Suffolk you do halitza Khalid is always because of a suffering says [Music] because the husband said in a quiet right now and if that's the case it wouldn't be a question that she's divorced she doesn't need kalito or maybe rabbit is a suffering but that can't be Eva it's about when it comes to money rap says that if a person says bring this money to my friend shanikhailoy bring it to the mouth I owe him a lot of money please bring in the suitcase of money the guy sending it alive he's responsible something happened to the money he was robbed on the train he has to pay again and if he wants to take it back if the the borrower calls the guy up on the train and says listen Shalia please bring back the suitcase you cannot take it back in a closer why what do we say because hoiler once it says bring this suitcase of money to the malwa it's too late he was he acquired for the malva it's like you're dancing on two Casas he acquires it for the malva yet the wife is responsible 100 for that it's very interesting so what do you see the rav knows what Allah this is he has to bring a riot when it comes to get it's different we still have a suffix and we'll say that she requires khalita all right I'm gonna make a hormone say that she requires seriously new case here's the husband right he looks similar to the to the president but he's not casual there's a beard paste though thank you foreign that's a different one now here comes gitty she has a sleep also she has a significa so basically what the gamara says over here is that once give it to another state and take to get directly from him she can't play games here and send somebody to the bus stop to pick them together why not because it's disrespectful to the husband that's one shot the husband sends a cat you pick it up and if he doesn't you're gonna disrespect him you're not even he's not even worth your time to go to the front door and open the door you're sending your kid to take the get I don't want a divorce I don't want a divorce her like that very interesting he could you could send one step to another stuff my time in Iran what's the reasoning two reasons check the Sarah boy side we have a drawing butter that comes afterwards meaning the husband puts a get in somebody else's hotter you see Rabbi Israel check this out it's Mom put to get inside somebody else's then she goes ahead and purchases the hotter be conserved but afterwards so this is not a good get why because you have to put the get into her possession she did not own the Potter at the time of the get being put there she acquired afterwards no good says the gemara check this out he did beautiful when the husband puts a girl into hotter it's similar to putting the get in Australia's hand and when she acquires it it's as similar to the kids says people are going to confuse the two cases and if you say the schlie have to take a get from another they'll say also that in the hotter case she could purchase the hunter later on and get to get like that and this is going to be confusion MMA he said no confusion no my vinyl what's the difference between the two cases between the two reasons whether it's his respect of the husband or similarious what if she's the one that sentenced Leon first and the husband sent it to her so Mela over here there's still a bizai but it's not similar to it's not similar to a hot sir now I have a question what if a husband says I don't understand what the guitar is talking about it's not episode for me I'm not I'm not babush I have no bazoi could could she send to take the get from another South there's a tiny little tices of it says I have another case of spices and if the husband doesn't care he doesn't he's not he's not into the respect so therefore if you say the problem is that it's similar to hotzer that she doesn't own you still have the problem what if the problem is that disrespectful of the husband he's Michael so it's not disrespectful fighter [Music] yeah that's what he's saying Luke Floyd I hear I I don't know people have been marking on these kind of things send again I don't care I don't I don't care for her I want a divorce her let her send 25 people to take it she has to take it I mean you have to be at a certain I don't know most people I know wouldn't care I don't know anyway oh God mice or a voice I wake up it's a story story time I have good news for you you're divorced overlay I have good news for you I'm very very busy now um you see as you can see I'm doing my challah uh please come back a different day there's big things going on in the world divorce is up come back another all right man listen to this if you hold like that a person could make a shlia if a woman can make it to pick up again so what happened over here right by his side the husband Center the wife said you should be please take the get home for a day come back tomorrow so if you say that you could send this to pick up again then it would be a good get this get um not true there's another problem we have a concept that the must go back and report to the guy that sent him if you're an agent Reuben sent you to do something go back report them was it successful not successful over here you're taking that agent and you're flipping him in to be your own agent now he just became responsible to her and now he can't report back to the husband that he did it's like a technical problem and that's a problem understands it's a big problem so they sent this question is about it's a big problem technical problem because he can't go a report to the husband and therefore it's not a good good thing they want to ask you here and he says listen let me think about this let me think about it says tomorrow two days later they call him up no no no you think about it we need to know the answer she got upset he says what are you sending me what do you what are you so just like you have a problem with this question you have a good child I'm also I also have a big problem with this thing I don't know the answer yet what are you what are you being a nut there's a story a beautiful story with the Brisco Robin asked the briskarov a question and learning and the briskarov didn't have an answer he went home three o'clock in the morning he wakes up the sun he says wash your hands wash until dive you have to run to our shaft and tell him the answer so the son says Tata you know he wanted to sleep more he says probably sleeping he says not sleeping if you have a question like this you can't go to sleep so he said but maybe found the answer and went to sleep he said that's impossible knew the answer he'd know that I'm not sleeping and come running to me to tell me that I have a big question here I don't know the answer wait patiently until I have an answer if I had to answer I'll tell you the answer what do you what are you what are you coming to me again to ask me what the answer is and then they said okay here's here's the picture at the end of the day this is a very very serious case of erva with says because of the suffix we don't know what to do I think we can learn from this a very very important you saw it in life this woman taught me something she was in the middle of needing her though and a very important thing happened in her life she should establish what she's doing take the get one important thing happens don't be lazy do something about it take action she didn't take action she she told the guy oh you know come back later and then now she has a big problem button don't know what to do this that the whole thing now you're working double just if it comes don't be lazy do it right then and there foreign now obviously her father didn't go through because she would not have that name anymore you see when you have a name like that it is a lot of issue issue the the people the they didn't get wrote the word tafasa which is completely what kind of get is this hustle get has the wrong name instead of nafasa staphy basically he said listen it's too late did what he was told to do he messed up that's it he can't write another gift foreign garbage If he if they fit in other words Ella will continue just to understand the question is if they wrote a proper get and it got lost then I could say listen you did what you were supposed to do now it's too late you can't do a second one but if they never did what they were supposed to do they wrote a piece of toilet paper they wrote instead of hafaso they didn't do what they were supposed to do so why can't they do it again let them do it did he tell them to just write in and put in their pocket now this just this one has almost nothing to do with it really nothing to do with the suji but it just reminded me of that famous story with the parts he had a guy working for him he said listen do me a favor I hate to say this but your socks really smells bad and you know it's my son's house tomorrow could you please change your socks dude what's just a personal favorite okay fine the guy walks into the wedding comes over to get he says I asked you I told you to please change your socks he said I knew you weren't going to trust me I changed myself before I changed my socks but I put the socks in my pocket to show you here you see I show you something says tomorrow what did he say because he told you to put it in the pocket he told you to to write a good start to write a to write again and give it deliver it don't put it in your pocket hello in other words when I tell about Aid do something I thought I ate right it's not just I'm not just saying words write hafasa until you give it to her you didn't do anything you could write it again you wrote the first so it's not good right give it hello to write it and give it even 100 times in other words get the job done until the job is done you're not we can't say oh we can't do it again what happens if you tell the the go right again and then it got lost you hear the Shiloh based on oh look at this side I just want to show you four seconds left okay good I I was following a little bit doing it might work I needed to remember my potential so okay so here's the question they told the schlier go right again and give it but then it got lost so is the out of the picture he he's not allowed to if even if he wants to he can't write another game because he did he did he did write it once and that was it he could only write it once so what's the question someone could sound like low he's he removed himself from it completely is sorry where am I wait a minute write again and give it to another so the question is the second guy lost but I told you to write again so write again and give it to another do something they're done they already gave it to the first guys are out of it or no he said give it to the second guy because he didn't want the first guys to have to to to to to work hard but now that it didn't get done maybe maybe they should do it again or related he added to it he says that the second one should bring it to the wife so once he added those words why did he have to add those words maybe it adds a little bit more that he's saying he should the second guy should do something not the first guy okay we don't know One More Alive says if the woman says take my gift you can't take it back it's not about a toilet the different the shyness Tyler take for me this song lifted have a wonderful day tomorrow remember five o'clock yeah