Daf Yomi Gittin Daf 6 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning rap boys like wood [Music] iroquoitish I also have to see the city that I was born in so thank you so much for having me thank you for coming out unfortunately because of our flight that Tomer and I are trying to catch we had to make this year a little bit earlier than we wanted to we understand that there's a lot of English that uh can't really come at this time so we apologize basically next time will be a little bit more is the word with them if you notice today is Steven and the possible says about today is and then the famous Royal negative now without this the famous vids that any time when does clay saw get together when there's a stick of my clock is but let's be serious today is the day the class Israel came together by Actos foreign [Music] but their best friends because they came together for Torah and here we have in the room we have all sorts of healing all types of nobody's judging anyone because we're all here for one thing and there's the cervical through learning Torah and every single day I guarantee you and today especially when we hear hundreds of people coming together passions sitting together next to each other there's a person here tonight his name is Israel Gordon if you throw Gordon changed a lot about mdy a few years ago during covid every single day there was somebody on Zoom by the name of chop and he refused to show his face you could shut your screen he wouldn't show his face for months and we would shepher him who are you what are you say something who garnished and eventually we figured out that chop stands for Children's Hospital of Philadelphia and his ingerman from Lakewood whose son was battling a brain tumor they started sending things to the family and setting him up with computers so he could communicate with the situation if you remember they told him you're in or you're out if you decide to stay in the hospital you can't ever come back you can't leave and if you leave you can't come back in you decide what you want to do and you decided to stay with his son and the rest of that went on one of his kids at home wanted a kayak so somebody sent them a kayak in the mail a 15-foot lime kayak and the the the gifts were coming and unfortunately his son was nifter and he said Shiva and mdy started coming one after another official came in from Baltimore but one of the things that stuck out the most was that Allah said Slammy Klein drove over two hours from Crown Heights level a person he's never met in person in real life he heard about him saw his face a couple times maybe I don't think I don't even think he showed his face knowing that he's a laborator and here's more of a younger man from Lakewood he went there and he told me slimy that he his intent was to drive the two two and a half hours saying for two minutes and leave and he said to be thrilled he said you don't know me I am and he's about to say his name and it's really told him I know exactly who you are you should let me climb I see you every day on Zoom what do you mean I don't know shocked he sat down and they started choosing for two hours and it ended up being you know a six seven hour affair and hearing that story I was very emotional that they to see the Actos the camaraderie between our brothers doesn't matter what faction and what this in real life I say you and your Apostles this way and he's about but when it came down to it and at the end of the day it created a tremendous actors in our sheer and from that day on the stories continue day after day like that when we just had Abby mandelbaum who's more of a tyrionid he had a ring on his finger and he became sick with the makawa and the Islam took upon themselves to learn sorry 5 000 that's how many that's how many that he learned and so many hasida participated in it in real life probably wouldn't look at him [Music] he used to talk a lot on Zoom and people they related to him and they they learned for him and they accept upon themselves Mitzvahs and just darkness was unbelievable so I think in that they were here with such actors I think we should all sing together with the hearts and if you don't like to sing barab and sing today we covered this tremendous moment of Hashem [Music] inside [Music] the eyes [Music] [Applause] [Music] foreign [Music] thank you foreign [Music] that's this sponsors let's see if I can find them today let's see if I can find what's going on there oh first of all I have to thank muradnikash we're at the cash is here somewhere he sponsored a major part of the Mississippi which is a tremendous expense yes I spoke about how he worked tirelessly for to arrange the different nights getting Halls everything else Tomer Levy also flew in from Arizona special for tonight you'll see billyack the editor stays up all night to edit it because it comes in at different hours now this is what's on the phone answering all the questions about the the different things and I have to mention bracha shulum fry right that's how you pronounce your name Broach from Design Lab who did all the graphic art for tonight from all the different things beautiful stuff MO landi for doing everything he does behind the scenes destroying room and everything else of course we have to thank Sean Moran for being Sean Rand and whoever knows on Rand yes all right and also I was supposed to say yesterday that I've run shown going back the yard side of two of his grandfathers has gone back and mayor Ben is [Music] okay I I'm not exaggerating that there's hundreds of emails in the queue that I didn't read I brought one and I'm thinking just to skip it because the item is kind of tired and they want to keep on moving so we'll skip this beautiful email what was the gist of it um they met me there okay fine we'll have to do it a different time the Pirates of hydration is in honor of my husband Goldberg who's High School Goldberg here anybody custom Goldberg don't be shy where are you that's you stand up for a second come here come here let's go get over here you gotta get over here you know why because your wife without you knowing she's fine I was very emotional when I saw this you know that she sponsored today you get a killer when you get home that's cool so I don't wanna I don't want you to have to pay for this you should know that you have anxious Kyle she called up in the sun again made him Miss Sugar she's gonna send them she doesn't have a this she doesn't have a credit card she doesn't have online she's gonna send them a check but who uses checks anymore so tell her she doesn't have to pay us we gave you a shout out you're on the stage say something like him she's a great wife she's a keeper don't don't get mad at her okay tell her not to send any checks okay Mark Ashkenazi is look at the bush of the designers in honor of my dear father here tonight [Applause] for 40 years to get up for him where is he I don't know wherever he is where she's glad for coming I'm not going to say get over here to you okay wow 40 Years of my guitar MS something like that that's why you have such Sons [Music] uh we wish them first time attend these unbelievable I got to tell you guys the story again I say it over and over I said it in Borough Park we had 1500 people our boys at 1500 people a guy came over a hosted he said he's a closet cost and he hasn't shown his face he didn't want to tell anybody they watch his death for three years finally decided okay we're doing a big massive Bar Park he's coming to Bar Park he came to the bar Park he says you know I bumped into my own brother is also a closet this is the first time I knew about it I didn't know about it until tonight my sister stop being so shy about it come out join us Jeff Rosner lilithmas is and fifth sponsor Ilya I can't read this wow yes Starbucks something like that a complete and speedy recovery that's the main part and finally in honor of the boots on the ground alphabetically rip Mark rib mole for more than the remnassanal ribiosi rib shlomi and their millions of millions of helpers who made this road trip possible from the official turning of the daf and the official official here he is sponsor for complete reforms here we go okay so the mission begins we're still holding in the first part of the mishnah it's very easy stuff as a matter of fact we have a little bit of a gather today yes why is it that when brings a get from a messenger brings a get from yesterday I saw that they wrote the get I saw that they signed the get rabba says the issue is vishma I'm concerned that it wasn't written properly with the right intent for this woman and Robert says we couldn't come up with something better than rabba and the Shema both have a hay at them but alums seem to remember it so I want to introduce you I love to Layton Lakewood if you haven't seen this yet you're going to love this besides if you're that one guy that just wrote me an email we had to introduce new characters for the recepta and here's our big character he's a schliach here goes if you don't recognize him it looked something like that in his previous life and here he is now this guy we need somebody on a second but okay he became Australia because the husband who's the husband here we go there's the husband and here's where the husband lives in Florida someplace all right here goes I'll take you on a little trip here oh no okay we missed the audio but we'll just shut it off okay we're having used to do the audio we'll do without it yo here we go so don when Trump tells to go give a get and there's a stroll he looks for the airport he finds the airport oh valdig now here he comes your boy so here goes uh goes up the plane okay doesn't know what's flying here they don't have statuses and stuff okay this is a stick of clumsych so because he makes it on the plane and he makes it there to throw this part I haven't seen yet so I'm gonna enjoy it with you oh hey vase mirror I don't know what's flying here we mom is messed up okay it didn't work no no okay it didn't work we're gonna have to show some something got messed up here 's the T over here let's see what happens okay boys I let's let's see what happens over here so how much does this Aid need to see yesterday we finished off saying maybe even one line the first line that's enough everything so the gemara says over here explains Rashi they can't be guilta because we don't have good audio maybe should I try it Gary you want to try it put down the food for a second maybe we'll work better you have two hands I think it could help these days okay appreciate it basically over here we had a little bit of a of a guy riding a get and it made certain sounds that sound like that's what Raji says it's like when you describe a chicken a rooster making a salad you say kukuruku there's a there's a rooster say no but that's that's how you write it so the human rights can it means the the sound of a quill writing Isis on a piece of parchment in other words the schlier doesn't have to see the writing as much as he has to hear it hears he knows what's going on even not this let me just go straight there oh so this is what that Leah looks like even if they're on different floors those days used to have a little Attic So if he's in the house and the Cyber is upstairs who by leave us everybody so reversed even if he's going in and out of the house kosher but they're different floors he didn't see it [Music] as long as you don't even have to see the first line all you need to do is hear it um even he goes in and out the entire day it's called Sharma who is exactly is going in and out he literally uh if it's this we said if he's in different floors they don't even he doesn't even see what's going on he said it's culture so if he saw a little bit and he goes in and out why is that not good he doesn't even have to see it at all to get his cautious of he saw a little bit of the writing just because he left for a minute why should I ruin anything hello we have to come to the conclusion Cipher the cipher middle of writing again he leaves he takes a little little break um take a break he's not gonna leave the house go buy something in Middle foreign it's not going to be for the right intent for the right people commercial on That's a far-fetched concern the thing that maybe bumped into somebody with the same name bubble what's the status of bubble is it like Eric's Israel or is it like hotz Lawrence now the Gomorrah over here is talking about from one city to another city within bubble we're not talking about coming from Bubble touches so that's a sugiana base from one city within to another city let's say from Surah to Narada the two Yeshiva says we're going to see soon grab all my characters rap says a psychiatives the best thing I could think about is like Lakewood Lakewood or not is foreign foreign [Music] now what about the fact that we just learned yesterday that it's not good enough that in one place they know about the Shema because we're concerned the Hashem what about next generation oh sudama says that the bubble is different bubble never was a place where there wasn't a Shema and then they became London they know about the Shema and then they lost it they might lose it Bothell from day one always knew what the Shema is a new thing we're not doing something else it's just we continue what they knew they knew the Schwan they always knewan were not concerned that may be a different generation is not going to know um the problem is the problems like rabba hey and the problem is to authenticate the star okay we already established that even rabbit that holds us the problem of the Shema he's masking that there's a problem of authentication is a problem of adem if there's a problem they didn't so above all shouldn't be any different than anywhere in the world you just have to say why because if somebody brings a gift from Bubble there is how you can authenticate it it's so far away you know there's a problem made them and even rabba agrees that it's a problem available so check this out for a second are you able to put it on oh so here's Bothell just to give you a little bit of an idea what's going on here 's above all the two rivers that you see the Tigris and the Euphrates the pratham hideko the vigorous Tigers thickness is on the right side the one on the left is the Euphrates so Bothell is sandwiched in between these two rivers and as you see over there you have compadisa you have Baghdad all the way on the right top corner you have palagi that we're familiar with so RAV is all the way in the bottom where it says surro also known as she's saying listen we have ishidas and people travel from yeshivity and from all over Baba they come into yeshivas is always people so if you're concerned that we're not going to be able to authenticate to get don't worry about it we have people coming and going all the time 3D foreign they don't have they're not busy with hasimus they don't know what's flying my hair there's a Texas over here it's like the honey so it says skipping but okay it says they're so involved in the learning veil of night Laughton Club they don't have they never sign they have nothing to do with it they're not into business they're not borrowing money they're not lending money they have nothing to do with the signatures famous but what's the Mason is a guy that met somebody after the war and he says where where do you learn I learned the legend I also learned in London turns out that the two of them sat literally on the same bench in the legend and they had no idea who each other were after they described it and they figured out what you said where did you sit I sound the right side fifth bench from the front meet taller than Limon which reminds me of a story I tell you this so one of my favorite stories but I'm in Lakewood I don't know if the Island's gonna enjoy it so much but whatever I'll take a chance came to Chicago a bunch of years ago when Richard and pinkos was killed in the car accident his wife one of his daughters was in the car with them and she suffered a tremendous injury and they brought it to Chicago I lived in Chicagoland I come to show and I see reception because his son so I walk over to him and I said sure he says who are you I said at least the fans I don't know remember what do you mean you don't remember we learned no back forth trying to something I said then I stopped him I said you know you always told me how does it look like you forget yeah I said you don't remember I once jumped over the Bima in Middle side there and I did this garnish nothing doesn't happen Okay so I said you know what after the davening I'll remind him I walk away also he says wait a minute how are you related to ruthies the fancy the one that was just left there I said that's my mother he says wait a minute wait a minute I said yeah says said it in Hebrew tell me when did you go after Derek huh so I have big payers in panovich and also he didn't recognize him we're sitting on the same staff so he pushed it recognize him hey there's a Hampshire later on the coilover for remembering the Leftwich came to Chicago and they're looking for me he said oh we heard you know Tom of the vermically the left coach we want you to donate so they came to my office and we sat down and holds off you know and I say come this mice I said you're not going to believe this mice are you talking about part of it because you love yours here's the subscription he said when we go after death and the guy who looks at me goes when did you go after that it's okay okay here's his two and a half dollars fine anyway the boy said don't judge don't judge but he told us [Music] I have no idea where I'm holding with this bro Robin [Music] we learned that we in Bothell are like Heritage roll when it comes to get like he also wrap the bubble oh because they were baking way before Ralph so the reason why you don't have to say and they showed you in the picture here the reason why you don't have to say if only enough of now because not an issue what's the issue that's not an issue because going up and down Maybe they're trying to discuss it between the previous generation the rush that's the rush but now there's not it went away and then when Ralph came he put it back in there he reopened Yeshiva now the sheriff's into his keep and go great muscle relaxers so now I need to show you this not this one oh here we go so I already said somebody came over to me he said oh I finally understood someone actually somebody I still also wrote to me he says now I know why I don't know where North is with South is I don't know yeah because anybody that grew up in New York has no clue what North and South is it's out of town thing I don't know how it is in Lakewood but in New York it was since we it's so easy you go from 45th Street to 46th to 47th and then you go 13th to 14 to 15th nobody has to know where North and South is but in all other places in the world they work with North and South so here's North and we just did it like the American map North is on top North is Safa top South is on the bottom East is to the right West is to the left West mirav is the is the ocean so we're not going to discuss that so tomorrow says like this if you look at the bottom over here let me just show you real quickly here's there it's Rolling Green everything within the green you don't have to save everything outside of the green well the red you have to say that's called Medina now where does everything start so all the way in the bottom tip is recommended so from there to the right we'll call that East that's where Earth's role ends and welcome haggar themselves are considered hotstars now take ashkeline it's the blue that's touching the ocean all the way west southwest let's call it so that's where Earth is roll ends in itself is not even considered as Israel that's all the way in the top in yellow what's up that's the northern northernmost point in erits Israel the aqua gets off and Agra itself is not Heritage Road all right so there's different parts of Africa we're talking about the part that's not part of our destruction bubble is on top of akko if you go to akoi and you go straight up you're gonna hit bubble how do I know interesting so I'm not going to get into it I need a possum to know that bubble is North America so I didn't take a plane and you fly over there it's north okay so the posit creates I have a different question I didn't really see people talk about it but usually when the Gamora talks about Bubble what is the gamara call Bob anybody who said that what my brother it's Miss okay fine it's possible I have no idea maybe they used to travel a little bit my roof to get there it really is north of Arizona but my Rover okay fine the bottom line is that bubble seems to be outside of our green map yeah we know it's outside the agreement but it is it's past Akai so therefore it should be hudlards and you should have to say that is [Music] so close look it's Mom is touching there's this road um I don't know how long how far away it is hundreds of miles away [Music] all the way over there so of course it should be considered food slots because he has the question he answers the question we pardon the bottle every place in the world besides bottle because bubble has all the the Milos that I just roll the bucket list so you don't have to say anything again we're talking about from City to City within Bothell the chairs not so much from Bubble touch Israel as much as within Bothell going from Surat in our daughter foreign very interesting the the second tree by the bridge okay we'd rather have a picture here it's not ours we did a Yoshi did this thing I need it for later but I'll show it to you here here is a little bit of a bridge top of uh you know perspect Baghdad over there Baghdad it's basically Northern Iraq bubble and somewhere next to that bridge in the picture okay there's two trees over there so many strong right there so if you see in this picture over here active is outside of Bothell why because Bothell the border of bubble is the river is on the other side of the river actually is finding this picture has a Marketplace um if you go from into where it's green it says which is in bubble you have to say before like this really magic but if you go the opposite way you don't have to say before now we don't have a problem if this is the problem is not so much everybody agrees the problem is more to be mikhayam the get hello you're right everybody agrees am since to the marketplace [Music] the people that own the marketplace they're very familiar with the the signatures why because the people from Bothell they buy stuff on credit and they sign off their names so everybody like this one has these IOU documents that have the signatures of the people from people don't know about this one my time they're very busy with the shook over here this is where Texas asks but these guys are busy with the show why is it any different than bigger side treated that we said before and then that tells you says that the very the people into learning they're much more tired Okay so thank you oursel Iris looks something like this Raji says it's a row of houses so even if you're going you bring a get from one side of the street from 45th Street on the right side of the street you cross the street on Parkville Avenue go to the other side you have to save a funny enough from three houses to another three houses even on the same side of the street even within the three houses so yeah let's keep on going for a second timer Rob is the one that says that the problem is that you need to be authenticate to get no your next door neighbor gave a guess of course you could authenticate you know where they live says they're constantly moving for the business they're constantly moving so look at places all the way in the bottom very important places the last last slide beautiful places says they came along let me just see here I'm sorry you have to says please listen to this is that every person has to say before 11 even from door to door even if you're next door to each other how's the house you have to say is you don't have to say before I left that returning to evolved Ahmad base sponsored by Greg Haber and he's thinking me forgiving the Sherry and all of you for learning the death we have this says you know what it's not going to hurt if you do it it's okay if you do it is honest what if you say what does it mean it's going to be okay the Aussie bow my area why because they'll save the woman if the husband comes later to say that the get isn't good we have Earth authentication and it's a good guess soil um so listen if you stopped over here we'd have a problem I'm just trying to explain the gamara in a few lines I'm telling you why the reason is because I don't want pay them later on I don't know why you'd have to to run and find is that is to get a good guess let's do it now tremendous myself I don't have the picture I don't think I have the picture we had it for failure oh I do have the picture sorry there we go beautiful sorry such a big chair here's the Border you see the green line is the border between now Pharisees that it sticks in it juts into Earth's role you see that pink the pink is supposed to be out of this troll but it's not there's a border around it that shows that it's pink so it's very close which is a Jewish community that's outside of Arizona [Music] will argue they say that AKO is far away from the issue of Liberty Israel it's far away from the cities Allah they would agree that this Christ he saw even though it's the quizzes this is so close it's actually inside there's Israel almost a place that you don't have to say before enough though um yeah it's a beautiful lotion like shut up my son I love you shut up like be quiet but with with the adenos with the the Small Miracles we made a cooler for the for the woman that foreign so even if it wasn't said it's kadai to say it so that this shouldn't be a year later on me small himself never said you have to say before remember Ruby small could have stopped that before but he didn't he explained himself he said I'm telling you why it's a good idea to save so that there's no issues later on so nobody comes in my eye around the kids if Ruby small would have said he must say before okay you have a good passion well that's not what happened he explained himself he says bad Tim you don't have to save a funny enough I'm asking you to say it I'm telling you it's a thought to say it so that later on there's no issue tomorrow you're right never heard that part he never heard those three words he only heard the first part for the woman now I get it okay why is that here comes you smack a piece of God remember we also center of his role now we're we're changing gears a little bit we're not talking about a city to another city within bubble we're talking about Buffalo Terrace Israel what's that Allah I'll tell you about this says maybe the problem is and the people in Buffalo we even learned babbling the God is fine and learning they know about just as good as theirs Israel it is cash at least twice before today but even rabbit admits that rava's problem is correct that we have to be concerned of Authentication since there's many people Rob kick a little shop you know canceling the camera you have the common goal from such like and therefore Adam is not a problem [Music] he's not reliable hey void s to [Music] unbelievable he writes a letter to ravihudo and he writes him who come and learn tairo and they leave their wives agunas it's a terrible thing how do you leave your wife so long to learn Tyra how are you not Oasis what happened to that says a really crazy thing he says that there was a person that sold his daughter you hear what's going on there he sold his daughter in order to learn Toyota terrible thing sold his daughter Planetarium solder service says the over on this person it's like parcel he sold the daughter for a little bit of wine Tyra but what's the problem because I've laid below let me if I can find this over here oh I want to show you this thing here so I don't know if you know if you heard the share yesterday not yes no assuming that this is the first time ever I've never seen a get and I worked really really hard to get one of these has 12 sugars it even says over here is all thing the other Hudson the mystery Donald and Trump in Brooklyn okay dances up there's a swallow it's illegal to write again if you write again you have to tear it up immediately you're going to give it well I had a given somebody to do it for us as for this year nobody wanted to do it finally he did it so I want to show you he made a small very short video of how the circuit works it's very interesting the way it works is he has like a device with wires on it and he puts this piece of paper this is not clef you don't write it get anymore in cloth I don't know if anybody knew I didn't know I don't think and that's why a lot of these things are conditioned to me it takes the he takes a piece of paper puts it on the wires and he pushes down hard with some sort of schmate or whatever and the wires go through and they make lines here it is this is the actual gut you can see him writing this get the shop is best for me here it is but anyways I wanted to show you the circuit also because that's what the camera is discussing as certain so over here I don't know could you see the camera see this the series of Gary I don't know will you guys see you see the lines there maybe this side no yeah anybody okay says any more like this he wrote The Apostle okay he sent the apostle and if he didn't do it uncertain he didn't he wrote a positive without lines and to have the spirit of this Allah you need to have sir thoughts because of liability could write two words and we can't write three words the price of urban costume foreign [Music] very interesting you heard that it's possible that review is that what's better Sinai some of that notes called third cooler that knows everything or something that's a tremendous Lambda reverse of hold that Cena is better so no Cena is better how could we trust somebody like Yasser who's missing one Allah he's not a Sinai he doesn't know but a bio is a talmud of rabba he's also a time of Joseph you know throughout chassis for the time of rabba and rabbit holds the Lord can Harvest but it's better to be a London than a Bucky so he's a big London so he's missing a few I love this no not the end of the world uh void or with yasar would ask him more day the reporting was masking to him reminds me like the the famous London the whole his whole life is learning learning londis comes up the shamaim and he meets the rebelliousness says I don't have anything you know he says and I'll Slug it up right away here was masking them said something said oh good very tired what happened you see that is not all of pilation the famous mice of the luggage we give up what happened there was a person nobody doesn't really mention his name he had a p luggage hanking by that'd be like and she did something bad with the McMurray is going to discuss she upset him she was very fearful for her life she ran away from him love he says she was away by her father's house four months finally he came to pick her up stay another day another day he stays stays fine he says you know I'm out of here I'm leaving he leaves and as he goes through and he stays at night in a place and people from Champion said bring this guy out they wanted to be over and over here with the man so he decided to save himself he sent his P luggage out the door and these rashem they went with the pillagus and they killed her he was Furious he took her chapter up into 12 pieces and sent her body out to the SWAT team and he said look what these people in Miami did to me and the glycerol demanded Revenge from those Yemen didn't want to give them over so Kai Israel went to war and wiped them out it all started from Pilates we give up says the gemara what did she do exactly what happened that you that that this guy was so upset that she had to run away baptism reviews [Music] he found a fly in his food he's very upset we understand here and it was dangerous that's what upset him yo and River Yasser who says this shot the one that we're doubting is now to me I'm just thinking now I didn't think about this before is proving that who was masking to be awesome now I'm saying this out loud maybe correct me if I'm wrong it doesn't say the reviews are metallion that makes him a question of a person that that big deal he met early on Navi I know a lot of people admittedly on I'm saying like isn't that big enough wow he speaks to Leona no okay that's not but what's the right that is hustle Mike he asks yeah learning right now but give up he's learning the Suga Pilates here on the spot he shouldn't think that he's like saying over the story this tremendous sadness very very deep inside doesn't like to be given all of Navi they come across as simple stories but they're very deep oh my God no and what is he dealing with himself [Music] my son my beloved says that he found the fly man says like this that is Nema um doesn't know what happened which one is it he knows found a fly and it wasn't macpid when he found it here he was mocked like the coil guy yeah complains he says this month you didn't give me a check so which club says very nothing complaining that you didn't get a check what about last month when I gave you three checks by mistake that you didn't come to tell me he says no no no that was one mistake now he made two mistakes now two mistakes have to come to you and tell you so over here I'm explaining the shot was wrong he said he said it wasn't a problem he was more Market on the Nemo so why why is this is one shot only Nema the answer is no the answer is the day started off really bad first she serves him soup and is a disgusting fly in the soup he said he said you know what I'll hold it and hold it all of a sudden half hour later there's an email and now he exploded that's it but it started with this book but it ended with anema says the gimbara um the fly was in the food of fly is something disgusting but the Nemo we had also with figure out places it actually brings it that there's somebody in the Navy that became a khrushcheva from it with the bathsheva so neviso both situations happen in the bowl in other words it was soup soup had a fly or the soup had a piece of hair in it you can't control every fly that flies in from the side the name of shoes but if you're a chef and you don't wear one of those caps on your head and uh and a piece of hair Falls in that's your problem just to point out places says that's a beautiful thing it says impossible his mizano know that we're talking about a fly maybe she was mizana it says here or fly justices because how would he take her back he went to pick her up issues Mizani he wouldn't be able to pick her up so Xavi is that we're talking about something else beautiful a person should put extra fear in his home charity he gave her a tremendous amount of fear and that's why the pillow camera revolves me as well and by doing so tens of thousands of you then died from that fear person should act calmly at home um so Rashi says what happens is that a person with such a fear in his wife that she's scared to tell him that she wasn't table and memela will be over I need them give up and then Rashi says a incredible thing sometimes she'll run away from him and she might jump off a bridge she falls off a bridge jumps off a bridge which real quickly stop it because I'm a liquid I'll throw this in here we saw cilantro once didn't come to share and it wasn't like him you have to understand him so salanta was known as the biggest coin the biggest Landing of his generation we know him as about muscle and it's London biggest subject oh where is he the bottom come out and they look for him and they can't believe their eyes they see him holding a woman's hand so it turns out that he was on zwaiti Shiva and he saw a lady that was about to commit suicide jump off a bridge and you don't want to be a Hassan says you see somebody drowning you have to grab them even if it's a woman so he went and he spoke to her and he held her hand and he calmed her down and he he brought her back that's what happened tomorrow we're almost done here foreign did you take Miser did you make an arrow did you like your candle did you like your candy nose but he says hadliku you should light your camp sorry who saw you should say it calmly and nicely saw it for everything if you want your children to listen you say banakas just one last thing because was instituted by Roberta shapiros he says over here on isartem he says means did you take Miser when it comes to toirum as if anything says I'm gonna stick it in because it says that when it comes to Torah just like you have to give 10 or homage of all your belonging your money you have to give 10 of your time you hear this of your time to other people to teach the entire room every day ten percent of your time you start them did you give time to teach people Tyra he wrap them and this is where they get us did you take arvos did you care about another yid do you tell another year the Bell mdy about that about joining any doubts doesn't matter what but you encourage him to learn Pyro it's arvos that's what he was asking about sin on the Fire turn on the flame of Torah learn tairo rabbisai have a wonderful day