Daf Yomi Gittin Daf 47 by R’ Eli Stefansky

thank you very much for coming out it's a very late hour after 11 30. so I just want to show you real quickly here's a kid that gives me a lot of kid is in Camp and you know everybody else is from Sports Etc no Santa doing the duff with Rebellion Camp a good dog I know there's other kids in camera doesn't want to be today thank you rebellious his father Ellie sent it in for this little boy say this clip this brought tears to my eyes and I shared it with a few people on Earth Shabbos and it brought tears to their Isaac as well I had the opportunity under Chavez to speak to the person speaking let me just give you a little bit of a background and I'm showing this the it perhaps there's one even one person if it helps one person out there but I'm sure it's gonna help many people this was at a cashier now she you could see this whole there's a talk that this individual is husted from Williamsburg we gave a talk for over an hour about abuse he was a victim of abuse when he was a child and he discussed how he was able to get out of it what are the symptoms how do you how do you fall into it how does a kid get trapped into it what it does to an adult later on in the life and how he climbed out of it and during his speak his speech he speaks about how he fell into another post-trauma basically a person that goes through trauma even a death of a loved one certain things trigger like you you could get over it eventually after a few years but then all of a sudden somebody mentions that that loved one and then you relive it so he had a similar situation when the famous author I don't want to mention his name he was accused of all the stuff and he felt that the good island or whatever were protecting him whatever the the case may be he fell into a very very strong depression but the point is that there are people many people get out of it and here's another way I get out of it so here it is let me share this with you for not noticing all these years I was suffering and this is the end that I only met my son has this show of support from my aunt Saucy this virtual Hawk literally stopped me from falling very quickly again into the abyss it was her show of support that gave me the courage to stop surviving and start thriving a few hours later one sister after another called me and reached out to me I'm sorry I apologize we never know they all encouraged me to speak out this support that I did not see coming made all the difference to my true survival truth be told I still get triggered from time to time and that's okay sometimes this lasts a few days sometimes it lasts a few hours but I learned how to get over it a little over a year ago you may remember there was a very populous it was a story that broke of a very popular uh one of the most popular authors and therapist manebrook who abused many many victims after that story broke I I crashed I was very strong at that at that time but I literally crashed I fell into a very very very deep depression that lasted very very long lasted for weeks on end I couldn't get out of it all the methods I learned and everything I tried I just I could not get out of it I feel like oh of course the top that's why I'm mentioning it publicly I came across a promo video of a very dear friend of Kesha nafshi rebelli stefanskis the fiamisir I can't explain why because I haven't learned 30 years or more than attend this year but for some reason I gave it a try and one year after another after a couple of shirim after a couple of days I just turned back to myself and it literally saved me and not only made my family I'm looking into the camera rib Ellie I hope this is gonna go to you but I have to show my accuracy type publicly and I need to thank you thank you for changing my life oh yeah and saving my family ah the kids are there's ways out of it there's another good reason to encourage people to join Tire up to learn player because it is changing lives and uh for Pennington for sharing a story uh I'm sure there are other people out there that can reach out to him or view his whole speech it's this 10th question convention here in this exact room that we're sitting in this went viral a few days ago Sparks of a Nation it says with a special guest in attendance that's myself and so of course the sheer began with rebellious trademark here it is yeah so I do want to I spoke to him afterwards he he doesn't give it a few years he's an eon chair is one of the biggest bucket here in the city so Chicago for having me um oh we're going straight into the sponsors the coilover s I'm not gonna you know I'm not gonna turn the cameras to show but the people in here might know but finally Mr Anonymous from Lakewood Rabbi and Adams from Lakewood who's donating the Swiss the report my mother-in-law shalamus Esser bass happens to be in the room here tonight don't turn around and look for him you're not gonna know who he is Mr and Adam's from Lakewood but nobody else will know the coil I don't care that you know that you don't want me to say it's fine the coilover sponsored lilismasia that I'm able to thank him for everything that I have Paris Hashem should open up all its owners of brotha let me bring this closer to me it's hard for me to read without glasses you know what it is it's late at night for me it's really like the morning so then the eyes get weaker and weaker 17 year old son is New Jersey because that's one of the things I spoke to Penny Tau for 39 minutes on Friday and he was telling me that he thinks that the actors of the sheer is what got him out of it he loves the actors there's other things but after this was the big thing he kept on talking about sweet Coral in a memory of Faygo hangovers passed away Croatian of the 11th yard a Miami Community who passed away at the young age of 42 and it was very instrumental of Michael finishing shots for the first time and now when Michael is learning shots he's doing it again the art the Spanish I was starting a brand new base is immoral all the way until the next mission and then we started but in true githan fashion mind opening suggests very very erotic stuff says the hill you mentioned the sponsor by Lily Freeman Lionel Rich was his dear father hi everyone song so we're continuing with the theme of chicken Island now certain things that haham instituted in order to preserve the world that everything should run smoothly in this world so here's another one a person deliberately sells himself vespanov and his children he did this for three times or it is a third time and what's going on here every single time you're gonna you're gonna make money and then you're gonna depend on and your community to redeem you it's a pillow that we do it one time two times three times after three times we don't do it anymore enough is enough but we do redeem the children after their father dies as Rashi explained that when the father is alive then he could watch them that they shouldn't be metabolism but once he dies who's watching them who's guarding them so then we redeem them some server asks we're talking about a bad guy we're talking about a guy who doesn't care he you puts himself in a situation by the guy in so he's going to watch and guard his children he says serving God says the mission says if I'm not reading only tell me is like we explained we're talking about a person who's done this twice three times the people from midseus they borrowed money this voice is going to come as a big Critters they borrowed money from the god well they have a little before you know and they couldn't come up with a payment uh so that the non-jews took them as slaves because they didn't pay their hype also the camera so now they tell the the going don't worry about it we're gonna go to the rabbi bring us to the rabbi here drop us over the rabbi the rabbit's gonna redeem us so they bring you know the limousine pulls up to the rub's house how they come I can't help you out this is if you sell yourself to the guy you in essence sold yourself to the Good by borrowing money not paying back you sold yourself what's the difference if you took money yesterday or you took money today it's all the same you took money from a guy and you have no way out of it and he took you as a slave I can't I can't redeem you no these people it's not the first time that they're borrowing money like this the son of a Sheila this is literally son of a sheepish listen to this crazy story this person was so desperate he sold himself to cannibals cannibals people that eat other human beings can you see oh reboise I have to I have to stop it completely that we do everyone's in Shabbos we do a quick review of of the issue so let's do it real quickly let's see how long it takes or 13 over here let's try to do it quick a lot of these scientists are very very famous and it's just some of them are not so famous a tree a plant anything that's attached to the ground there's Aloha whatever dialogue is most children know this concept that if you admit a partial admission we could invoke archives this idea of the mixers doesn't apply let's say if I admit that I owe you half a character you know there's a heck ish between an avid and a character evidence like karaka king impairs the king of that's a sugier that we're gonna delve into a lot today and that is that if a person let's say nursing homes people here in Chicago and even in Lakewood very to the nursing homes but a lot of times you lease a nursing home the person that makes the profit off the nursing home but doesn't own the actual real estate does he own the nursing home or does he not own the nursing home to review pay rise the profits that come off the real estate as the person that owns the real estate in snegera to trumas and misers and things like that my grandma we all know the special myth as well do what the person is about to die asks for if there's a sentence that that a person says we don't split the sentence within so we don't say well half will listen to have a room is something that we spoke about a lot this week is things can you sell something that doesn't exist yet like fruit on a tree Etc we also spoke about partner if a person admits to a fine to a knas then he is parted from it since he admitted to it the word means star that's not so famous [Music] that we spoke about are uh possessions that a woman brings into a marriage that the husband guarantees locks in the price of the marriage at the time of the marriage a gold 30 years go by and the nursing home goes down in value open value he gives her the price of the of the time of marriage it's strong it's it's like metal sheep it's metal is the Kenyan when you purchase a field and there's movable items on the field so when you buy the field you also purchase all the movable metatalin with the King and agave is a double Suffolk and here finally we're up to it's valve this cartoon just says have you recently eaten anything containing lactose gluten and peanuts as they're boiling up this guy about to eat them these cannibals the the truth is that even today that there are cannibals out there somewhere in Africa in different places and there's a I once read I don't know if it's true that there's a very unique disease that that goes only for cannibals something because they eat the brain and the Brain contains certain bacteria whatever cause them to laugh a lot some sugar okay what's up yeah exactly the trigger exactly oops there's a whole list of things that we have to do how long did that take us three four minutes okay not bad of the week not everything obviously but so you are like this [Music] is just interesting if you think about it what's a bigger issue to eat or human being probably on what strawberry that has has some sort of bug because the bug is five isurium and a human being maybe is there a button it could be it's uh an assay but not everybody agrees that it's an essays but atmosis one is Sir just saying like people oh you're sure you're gonna eat a human being a lot of people eat strawberries without washing them and whatever okay I'm ruining it I'm running this is because I said yesterday if I was if I were to find out that I was a guy what a very would I do right it's everybody it's just for the sticks he said oh I would learn different shots and I realized should have said I would eat tomato once and then I'll go into Shabbos okay so this guy sells himself to the cannibals mommy Sherry give me money you could eat me also got me to remind me on my leg poor gun here come get me out of here so I guess he had in mind he's gonna make all his money give me this family go to the Homer and try to get out of it all right now if you sell yourself we don't really foreign I said before rash explains it over here because the father is guarding the kids when he's alive but he's not alive anymore so we got to get them out of there certainly we have to redeem you because they're gonna eat you over there by me how you spell Memorial wait a minute you can't redeem them you know why because he went off the dirt we saw that he eats the veils he eats McDonald's what was the difference why is this guy off the dirt it's a very big enough Camina toss also as a guy of the Dara because he's about taiva or because he doesn't foreign who were very upset about the whole situation on Yom Kippur and their stroll everybody it's one day that is no cars driving and even the the non-from they ride their bikes on the streets famous down the highways they're very upset about it they want to have a gesundee and Kipper where they could eat and not nobody will make a big deal so they they flew out uh to Greece or something they came a few days early and then when people came they started freshing away like crazy they're eating and they're eating lobster and this and that all the traffic and because they ate some of this Seafood it got really really sick but they said they the next day they were so sick but they had to eat they had to eat they came all the way there to eat so they're not gonna they ate an a and Muslim keeper they called up their children new housing people doing so they said tots I am Kipper it's Irving Kipper they're like whoops wow and then they ended up in the hospital the next day because they had this serious illness and they they had a a true Yom Kippur where they fasted against their will okay fight so this guy makes a big enough Kamina if he's eating the velas lithium you should save it eating the least or you shouldn't save it now it happens to be this is not like this is if you have a mummer will die in the neighborhood that goes off the Derek and eats trafe even if it's Lithia but he says you don't save him you hear this a guy off the dirt is a Shiloh if you're allowed to save him you're not you're not allowed to say you could save we're talking about a guy that does it like I actually wrote uh sorry so they asked him how do you know why this guy ate Maybe no sometimes you have good kosher meat Romanian meat in front of him and yeah foreign but he sold himself to the cannibals he took some he took along a a sack with a metal a lead ball you just have to see if this was plugged in correctly because it doesn't look like it was no it wasn't you hear what he took he took a weapon with himself I don't know what it's called I'm sure like the some Chinese Weapon It's like a lead ball in a in a set so you give a guy a good in the head and can knock him out sesame Omar jamiri they have a minute we have it also today it's called the last the last meal the universal the last day of the life called the boys the last request and those days less requests at me explains Rashi that there should be a mahila now I'm reading this and I can't believe it think about it is there anything worse than accountable he's a rate not only does he kill but he eats the victim I can't think of a worst thing in this world yet this Russia marusha cannibal in his mind in his Twisted mind he's getting a kappara from the guy because he gave him his last meal that's what he does it he does it that he should have a forgiveness they should feel his conscious to feel good I'm saying it's just a it's a Monster High School a lot of times people do a virus and they read the kind oh if I give a little doctor I stole 10 million dollars but you know if I give a little donation to the show it's going to be mahila no it's not a mahila there's no mahila for eating a person killing a person but that's what they thought in their mind another chat is it's even worse they didn't want to be Hilo all they wanted is learned they wanted that the blood should taste good okay say this a few times nine is so funny but why not there's a Russian who they were about to execute him and he they said we'll give you three wishes what do you want he says I would like to to have some watermelon so watermelon it's not the winter there's no water so I'm willing to wait what do I say wait for the summer it's only giving him some watermelon now what's your wish is up I want to have a snowball fight snowball fight it's the middle of summer I'm willing to wait okay fine so the way how's the winter the snowball fight no now what he says I want to cry at Putin's funeral because he's alive I'm willing to wait bathroom comes the last day what's your wish I I think these cannibals they lack a little bit in IQ because they were willing to go along with this he says listen I want to tie you up and sit you down I want to hit each one of you one and a half times one and a half now they didn't know it as a lead ball smack in the face so he tied them up and sat them down simple shots not uh I don't know I saw the trotting but just reading it one that they died on this path cartoon is one of them that that like clenched his teeth were you smiling at me I still owe you you have I mean I still owe you a half his ass what are you what are you smiling at me after one's that basically Katrina Kulu he killed them all it seems like your stock is trying to get rid of the cannibal so he just insert himself in there and with his he was able to kill them out says the simple shot is lakish never earned more money that than was necessary for him to buy a little food that's it he only earned enough to eat yes you don't need something to sleep on you don't need a mattress what about a mattress my stomach had a nice stomach my stomach is my pillow it's it's a Shale exactly because you're not allowed to lay on your stomach what exactly do you mean can I have enough shade or sluggage was lifter saw back covered America he left over one carb of saffron which is nothing in the time of the guitar happens to be this is the most expensive food today it's over ten thousand dollars a pound but at the time it was nothing and the gamara is saying he barely left anything over he left not he left a one one little thing of of saffron Colorado was upset why in the world that I leave over ten dollars worth of food that ten dollars that I earned I could have been spending it learning tyro it's something again that we have to not just read and go right there internalize saying what's the point of working so hard and the point and what and what do we do with all that money we leave it over to the next Generation let them work why are we so worried about the Next Generation worry about yourself worry about your oil no I'm gonna have to make more Paradise for what so that the Next Generation should have money don't worry about them they'll have plenty you worry about your oil so there's a few things here in the technology says that richlokis was trying to get a capara and that's why he did this I'm sorry for learned a different shot here he says that a person should not sit the Tinus lakesh what he was doing is he was learning Tyra that's what it says here that Joseph he sat and he ate and he drank meaning he was eating up Tyra and his and his daughter said to him what about what about to sleep he said don't worry about it I don't need anything I have my stomach meaning my entire world that I that I ate my that's what that that's all I need that's what I'm gonna bring Tyler my Ms in fact it's very interesting that Rizal says that a person who knows how to learn Torah shouldn't fast and do see Google see governments for simple people don't they don't know how to learn but if you know how to learn and to see who from take away the the nation take away from your learning it's not then you shouldn't do it the biggest kappara is learning Tire says dear father going into another soya now okay so we had a lot of fun with this again continuing with tikon oil we're trying to to correct the world that the world wow 56 people on the live stream area or good morning there's a Issa here I just you know I forgot to show you the but the possible I want to point that out the good morning in other words the fool leaves his yarusha to others the next pause to go over here I'm very familiar with this possibly spoke about the other day in this context means we always know the possibility you shouldn't give gifts but it means you shouldn't allow them they shouldn't be able to dwell in United's role this is the right cell to sell real estate to an angel s says the mishna that if you sell your field Yoshi did a uh a drawing first I want to show to you it's someone of an animation or because is the first fruit that comes out from your tree you take a red string you tie it you remember this the first fruit later out when it grows you bring it to yerushalaya now let me ask Donald a question if you know the answer raise your hand don't even say the answer I'm curious to know how much bigquery should one bring you know the answer anybody else know the answer It's usually the kids adults don't know the answer oh I said don't answer okay right foreign no the reason why I'm saying because a lot of times we say things we say and we say every single day and it doesn't really we don't connect the words that we say to like reality these are things that don't have a share because doesn't have a shoe you bring 100 fruit if you want okay just subscribe at least one adult knew it development so you sold your field to a guy now every single year from that point on every year not just one time every year you go and you purchase the bigquery off of the guy we're gonna make you crazy so that you don't sell your field to a guy and if you do you're gonna go and purchase it back from him if they think an oil we don't want you selling fields and hold [Music] that when a non-jew purchases land the nurse Israel of Miser remains so since we have somebody new to this year I want to show you because one of my puppies is Truman samisris and tumantahara I believe that they're easier suggests than people uh tend to believe and we did it in an animation now that even small children understand it easy and smavish very easy to to remember and understand when the sugar talks about terms of maisers we don't go all crazy so here goes here's the animation [Music] it's all in one shot so here's from some measures truma is what you give to the Cayenne meisers or what you give to Levy we could speed it up a little bit actually but okay a farmer has 102 fruit 102 because we wanted and we don't want to do a hundred he takes two percent and gives the two percent of the coin that's called truma the Blue truma now he has 100 left so he takes 10 of that which is 10. and he gives that to the lady great now the lady has ten percent the lady has to take ten percent of what he got which is one and give that to the cayenne and that's called trumas Miser that's the hard one okay now I don't know if we have to go through the whole thing mice or Shaney is in the shemitah cycle years one two four five we give myself any years three and six we give my surrounding so now he has nine fruit which is ten percent and he gives it to himself he can redeem it into money and bring the money into your slime and buy with that uh produce food whatever he wants you need some Maserati he takes the ten percent and gives it two anani here's three and six okay no not bad all of shots we're gonna have animated in 3D even better stuff like this one day at a chass near you Okay so if a guy purchases a piece of property and you buy fruit off the guy to take from some Isis the guy doesn't have the right to be mascia to uproot the heel of truma and Miser always [Music] boil is a well Sheaf is a elongated uh not a canal it's like elongated uh depression and Earth was full of water Amara is is uh some sort of cave that that holds whatever it holds so if a guy creates a cave creates a bar a guy cannot do that oh God over here if he purchases the land so that it still has ruin it he could dig he could put beams in the ground whatever he wants pour cement in the ground make a foundation the Earth he gave to humans foreign does not have the right to make Wells and and certain different depressions in the ground they're using the same sukim and they're saying the reverse so where is exactly it says they both argue how do you read the word the glove do you read it simply the way it's written and therefore it means the grain of the Jewish means so here's another uh you saw it in Shahs it's called mirua means when a person has a pile this is old art obviously if Yoshi did it would look a lot nicer if you have a pile of grain you are not high even Miser until you level it out you smear it down you do me ruach you what's the proper word for me you smooth it down thank you smooth it down only at that point are you Hive in Miser so this my daughter holds that it's dependent on who smoothes it out if the juice moves out the grain even though it grew it was purchased from a non-jew it's kind of a miser because it's the gun the guneha or you learn the gunflow literally your grade and not the the noduism of the opinion that a guy is not mafikia a guy cannot uproot urge this role and with a guy purchases your high even trumanizer how do I know it it's not I like it so let's do this real quickly look at is when you when the farmer drops produce on the ground broken bones shikha is when he drops a hole it relieves a whole bundle and payo is there's one part of of the field how much of a boy said do you leave oh how much Alum shoe we're learning things tonight [Music] so that's the corner of the payoff the pay is of the thing okay tomorrow so it says if a guy leaves over the Stars he fits it's a ton of the of the Ani it's high of mice okay I need to scare unless you said it's tougher it says and the guy went and he and he gathered it so it just reminded me it's not exactly the same thing but remember it's every single Wednesday I go through the same emotions watching this over and over truck comes with thousands of pounds worth of fruits and vegetables dumps it in the parking lot that's directly by my porch and the from people come and they they take as many fruit as they want there's a guy standing you give him a shekel or two there you go but what you see is a lot of the cleaning ladies come and they they divide also it's like I guess they're uncomfortable to tell them hey this is for the poor of the neighborhood you don't see uh wealthy people going there and taking free Fruit everybody understands that this is a donation by I think it's uh oh sherad famous social big store every Wednesday beautiful fruit good condition all sorts of things the the knowledge they come they don't cop maybe they don't have so they come they pay it's unbelievable you go for a shekel you buy two bags of whatever so that's what happens over here that this is they see the juice collecting so we will also collect no we told them it's not for you okay and his gear so why does the God you have to make it Healthcare me if the Jew is the one that left his leg at chickpe over there what is that that is Healthcare nobody has to make it into Healthcare in order for somebody to take Elle alive what happened was the non-jew decided to be a nice guy and leave some stuff on the side of the field and things that he forgot for the poor people a Jewish poor person came and grabbed it and it says time of the history he has to be mascara the greatest so what do you see that if the guy is not Matthew you have a miser so that's what rabbit says that the guy doesn't have the right to be Mafia from mice in other words when you purge something from a good when a good person is laughing at your throat it's high even Miser unless the God is a mascular then it's not but otherwise it's high but that's cheapest rabbit that no matter what a guy's fruit is highly Miser foreign [Music] that's a different kind of happened whether or not when a guy purchases land It's Still Remains Jewish land and it's high even Miser is whatever we're not going to go there but the barbershop every day there's no bushes ask these people you're not gonna believe it he asked them we're interceptors and they all answered and they were right and he says I know you're going to say that but there's one more place himself eaten and the the guys came up with this right over here you have to be a genius the to know that one is if a Jew purchases a field from an Andrew actually so the breaking point is a third when fruit grows a third then it's considered fruit but if you purchase it before brought a third it grew to the third while I was in the possession of the Jew and then he sold it back to the nanju so what happened there he bought a field without fruit and then he sold a field with fruit to a guy in other words it went past the third so it's fruit and he saw that guy was that Allah so anybody here in this room could make this simple deal you're high even Meister because you you it grew in the Jews possession and then he saw the third guy but what if it grew completely in the non-jew's possession would be partner for Meister so what do you see has the ability to get rid of The Miser she cries but we're talking about Siri we're not talking about and therefore the guy's produce is not fiber Meister because that the government is the one that conquered Syria but he didn't do it at all of classical part of classical so it's considered uh the the captured city or country of an individual not of all of Israel and therefore there's in Syria and Syria is only the rappana and certainly a guy is not even nicer so that's why we're talking about fruit that's a hive amazing if a wow it's already 12 20. you gotta move you saw everybody if a guy and a Jew bought a field in a partnership type of homework each and every grain Rambo isai has 50 go in it if you can't take something that's higher and do trumanism so you have a major problem here how do you take turns somebody's around this the only eight is to take from this exact type of fruit something that each grain has 50 Highview Meister because owned by you everything is on that same type of fruit s you make a a split this half of the fruit goes to the guy just have the fruit goes to the Jew and this is Hive Miser and this is potomacy at anoidy hello we're not scared of this word anymore we're very familiar with this braver retroactive clarification or that mice and I told you about retroactive trauma clarification either way it this when we split the fruit and we go your 50 is the Jews this 50 is the guys this 50 of the Jews high of Massachusetts there's a retroactive clarification that this is what they own together not that it was it was high 50 50 and then we gave it to the Jew no this 50 was 100 the Jews all along because retroactively we we clarify that's what happened so that's here do we say braver or do we not say braver but the bottom line is that we see from this whole studio that if it was owned by the guy he is meaning that the guy has the ability talk do away with Miser it's only 12 20 in the morning why are you falling asleep oh you gotta sponsor Manzano Bay sponsored by Morrison and also by telling that eight minute stuff.com we're talking about in Syria where the guy is not hypermeister because himself with particle is not considered a real capture it's not a next to it's not part of its show oh my here Robin is so our mission if you sell a field to a guy so it says here's a little tiny uh bow and as it grows he realizes that it's a fruit she goes ahead and he puts a gummy a red string and as it grows more and more and more than he will remove it and he puts it in a basket with all the other fruit the first fruits and then it brings up to your slime okay maybe because it seems like it's only a chicken island with the rice the only reason why we have to bring this big Korean is to save the world so that people don't sell their field to go ahead but it's not a dirt right so so this is a very important actually here I thought it's a beautiful Rashi we're actually never imagining with the rice you see like one third down VA let's see if I can read it oh we have this phone V8 um [Music] that's on the human being on the on the on the Jew so whether you're going to eat the fruit whether you're not going to eat the fruit I don't care what you're gonna do with the fruit you can take all the fruit and destroy it you have a Mitzvah to take the bikworm seriously probably less repairs it's not that if you don't think because it's going to be Tevin the fruits even if you cannot sell or feel to a guy you're not able to go after you sell it and take your own Meister on his fruit it's only if you want to eat the fruit then you have to take my services ration whereas big Korean it doesn't matter if you're eating the fruit you have to take before because why the Meister told also about kilo it's on the fruit this is on the on the hefts on the fruit we'll have mixed with the ramyalay it's not a mix on the human being on the Gabriel okay okay foreign just be cooler in business that you have to take becoming the rights but there's two takanas you have to understand the history in the beginning they brought before me the rights given the heart of the company but people saw hey I'm taking bigur meaning there's still douche on the field I didn't do anything by selling to the guy I didn't ruin the field but still College look I'm still taking bikuru so they went ahead and they kept on selling Fields decided which is not to bring bikurim and to show that hey you ruined this field you ruined the street by something to God even the person who can those who can't afford it don't have money they kept on buying they kept on selling their fields because they didn't have money to the guy who says brought back the original what's the original that's the key of the arises to bring not that it's there upon them you ask him oh it's a it's a thicken oil [Music] how much was the day of Paris this is a beautiful Shiloh this is what we're going into and this is what I was telling you before King in Paris Minnie if I own a nursing home and I lease it out to somebody else and that person makes all the profits but I own the real estate who is the real owner the guy that on paper owns the real estate or the guy that's raking it in he has a nursing home he's making a fortune off this nursing home he doesn't own the property he doesn't own real estate but he has the rights to all the profits so it's a person sells his field only for the profits for the fruit Republic so here's the possible yeah evases that a person says when he brings the bekurum of the Irish life and what does it say in the possible Hashem you gave me this land so I could benefit and I'm I'm appreciative of all that you gave me but did Hashem give him the field he didn't give him the feel he gave the feel to Ruben who leased it to shiman is just you using it to make fruit so could he say these okay well it depends if you have all the fruit is it considered that you own the land and if you own the land and you could say if you lease a nursing home you could say you gave me a nursing home because I leased it or no because I don't know but maybe Victoria why King and pero is the person that leases the fruit it's as if he owns the actual property no you don't get to read why because you don't own the land all you own is through Ace reviews she asked the question with a cell phone oh says you should be happy and joyful with all the good that Hashem does your house foreign the tire is teaching us that a person could he brings his wife's fruit and he says now what is he they're shining ask the question how do you have how does a husband have the wife's fruit that a husband should benefit from his wife's fruit why because if she becomes captured you have to take her out so you get the fruit so it doesn't make any sense what the Torah is telling us that if this is that you get the fruit then you should say so places over here in the spot says no because the third knew that that's the typical thing even before the Accord wives used to let their husbands have the fruit she brings a a field into the marriage the husband is going to use the fruit okay so natator says listen the husband should be saying lips what do you say what do you see see that he even know you know own it the wife owns it you still says you see it says and your wife's stuff but typically if you lease it off somebody else you don't see the Supreme oh it's a special password by a wife make it out I mean some say it differently hey Solutions it says for your wife my life awesome and this is saying it's specifically in this particular case when you kind of like release the land off your wife you should say that but just the regular guy Leasing and he only gets payrolls he shouldn't be he shouldn't be saying um that if you if you have rights to the fruit you say the so two everywhere else if you have rights to the fruit and not to the real estate you say the Suki okay saying it only here and nowhere else is no from here I learned the whole time foreign a person is on the way and he has his wife's because you hear the terrible news that his wife died what happens on that spot when he hears it all her he inherits her nobody else so he inherits her so he just became the boss on the field not even China but when the fruit when he left hidden on the field so it says maybe because in this particular case it seems like only in this case he should say he says it's only because he owns the field now that he says to be Quran he says a guy has grapes he he harvest the grapes and he sends the grapes up to your slime and let's say the guy is going from the chemesh all the way to slime and he dies I tell Stone halfway to the to the regime dies he hears that he died he runs he takes his car zooms up the highway meets the dead by tell Stone and he has his fruit maybe even the owner does not saying interesting yeah typically the owner says now he doesn't why she never look after that you have to you have to be the one bringing it and you didn't bring it up to telso you brought it from thousands of your slime and not from you went halfway so mail I would think that people will get confused in this case also with a husband he didn't own the field [Music] he owned just the rice of the fruit and he started going to your life and then he heard news that his wife died so maybe it should be similar it should be geyser and similar to this case in this case the husband does say that have a wonderful day for coming out all the way to 12 35 unbelievable