Daf Yomi Gittin Daf 37 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning wrap boys [Music] welcome to the guest Robbie Fletcher is your name what's your first name so I'm from Manchester United you're uh oh I'll be back with uh a boy from Manchester's apparently Manchester now small idler the lessons you know Magilla with rebelli spanking new just slapped him I hope this is not like making fun of anybody in particular we're selling Greenspan all right jorabinowitz is also known as Yehuda he erased the J in the email there was a lie through the j keep on laughing he's watching the daffa he's driving very gross a kiss from Hashem today I was involved in a bike ride with work and had an accidental serious injuries but what a kiss from Hashem when the middle of this year you started talking about zarden the other half has from an accident on a bike turned around by learning Toyo you made anything that perhaps we're not for my learning to laugh and that's a serious injuries could have been a different story suddenly I was even more thankful to Hashem but give me the dot Lean Forward I'm coming back to MD white and RBS again in the future and also seeing you in London again bad girls Michael can you repeat the email please okay thanks so give me the cover thank you [Music] That was supposed to shabbos's email but you weren't here yes my son Michael will Amir and be having is by Mr Chavez bridge in London he's been learning the doctor I I get three of those a day I only read one one or two a week since again would be the best oh he's been learning the daffodily since you're best by Mr President ever if you happen to be in London then it would come by very gross is believe it or not we're going to jump right into the sugar because we have a pretty long daf a lot of words not that hard but a lot of words sponsored by now is from Lakewood foreign still here bye sir two and remain the lillianism and the fourth Anew Spencer lock in Lubbock families Lincoln New Jersey because [Music] but there's a new one the parents are weakness who was 20 year old a girl in our community passed away and her father and brother missing their player learning because they are in Shiva in all my endeavors in loving memory of the Bible who upon his 29th yard side we want mashiach now is the Zach family and the Art of the month for complete reforms foreign those who hear their insults and don't they're quiet they don't say anything so actually we have uh stickle art here yeah yeah okay fine we have uh yossi Klein driving up it seems like he is in a stopping mode because his wheels aren't really moving he's trying to stop short okay the sound here American Idiot you don't know how to drive fastest the Israelis are the best drivers you guys think you're on the road and you call yourself he keeps on driving no road rage so anytime we say this we have to say I don't know isn't here I was going to ask him he always has always suffered that I forget nevsky always used to tell people that if someone has a certain sorrowful so if you're the place and you see somebody getting yelled at and he doesn't answer so you go over them you ask him for this and uh I don't remember what the Furious is and nine months later but nothing had a story that they heard and they saw it and they also did it okay but we understand the idea and I love even of him the hair their disgrace people make fun of them and they don't answer is the famous myself I mean there's so many stories but the famous one is that there was a woman in yerushalayim who worked really hard to do her laundry in those days without the washing machine takes hours to and one of the neighbors was upset or jealous I don't remember the exact idea and she snip the the the cable of the uh of the laundry and the what clothesline thank you the clothesline and all the clothes fell on the floor got muddy and she saw it she whisked she witnessed it and she picked up the clothes and she went back to washing them by hand took her hours her husband came home she didn't say a word and nine months later they had she had bibliasis huh where was it yeah it wasn't your slime so where was it I don't remember okay the details [Music] so famous Mason they serve Hashem out of love not out of fear of the the oines and not because of wanting just out of love this is a hard one people get you surim everybody goes through some sort of issue and if you're happy with it and you understand that you there's a reason for it and those that Hashem loves who Hashem loves like the sun when it goes out so the types of Rush and they bring others Russians says the famous story with the sun complaining the moon complaint who has a Passover that you have sarim together and the sun was quiet the song was quiet it's because of someone's quiet to be the light of the world where the moon we know is not that very powerful um I think I think it's it's from Hashem it's actually a triple kiss of Hashem I don't think I ever had a triple kiss of Hashem here's a triple kiss of Hashem Islam it says that this was not this possible the positive of the sun standing because a similar type of person in Yeshua was today gimotamus so that's one very interesting thing the other interesting thing is that I didn't want to say it until like I like fish but I'm holding in Yeshua exactly by these sukins I thought it was for me it was cool but that it happened today on gimmel Thomas and then I'm learning those tsuki and then we have it in the gamara it's a triple kiss of a shot something tomorrow my principal where's the slush and Crucible where does it come from it benefits the rich and the poor price is benefit so we have Yoshi did this so All Ships uh it's a little haughty but it it helps that shirim to get their money back these are the wealthy people helps if the wealthy won't lend money to that name that's terrible so it enables the the wealthy to lend money and enables the the wealthy to get their money back the sieve I was going to see the positive later on this is talking about the deposit of the Ani when he gets money gives a deposit he gives his uh PJs his his clothing he's supposed to give it back so it's it's a lotion of a poor person having um so Robert told the person that doesn't speak Russian language it basically um it gives like an adjustment that Connor says Rashi it fixes fixes the problem so we have a we have an issue people are not getting paid back people don't want to lend money fixes the the the the the the thing the Milsa um so how does the principle work that Basden is the one demanding the money the loan isn't loan you lend you loaned you money and the best goes after you they could they have the right to go after you you don't have the right because the third says you can't you sign him don't need Basden you saw him have been basically they don't need a principle they don't need okay some don't need a principle you need a prose Bowl you some have it automatically foreign they act as the fathers the the caregivers of the assignment a nine year old doesn't know how to write a principal the Nazi the best or writer for him uh uh interesting thing here and I destroyal they might have it in America as well but the the organization the famous organization called that Raven that it's like let's say 40 000 families get together and when there's a sorrow when somebody dies so each person gives a very small amount of money 70 shekels I think whatever it is and they built like a certain foundation for each awesome they take care of the family I think they have an America also anyway it's not awesome ankle is improvisible Cargo interesting Allah here let's see your certain chance goes on something that's that's very that happens often something that doesn't happen people lend money or at least they used to when somebody had a collateral somebody had real estate they wouldn't lend typically if you didn't have something to to give as collateral so I made the whole idea of prussbor only applies when the Leiva the borrower has property in Christ's impossible the main lie and what if he doesn't have karka this borrower and he wants to borrow money and you're not going to let any money because you can't write a principal but you want to write a principal you want to help him out mizakeo called so this once again another famous side is the lender could have his friend acquire a small piece of property for the borrower now the bar is not going to do it for himself maybe but this is a very interesting Allah because the whole idea of Israel I could be mizaki you something is because you want it you want real estate whether you know about it or don't know about it I don't care I'm gonna acquire for you a nice building in Manhattan obviously you're gonna want it but in this case I'm going to be something for you a piece of property the size of a pencil and it's worthless it's the middle of the desert and because you have the piece of property I could write a prucible and then I could go over collect the money so it turns out that it's actually a feel for you so at the end of the day huh so oh so this is an absolute skill not because of what you're saying but because of what he's saying was saying that right now he wants a loan but we look at his absolute sea because right now you got a piece of property the fact that if you have a piece of property a guy told me hey why'd you pay me now that you paid me I just went over a certain amount in my taxes and now I owe tax whatever it is but paying you is a source it has a side effect that now you have to pay taxes and at the end of the day it wasn't a disclosed you lost more but the actual payment the check receiving cash is always this close the side effects is another thing to receive what it could be it could also be it could be correct even the size we learned Russia brings it down even size of a needle a size of an axi and the gemara says what's the size of a wrath I feel okay in other words a very small amount a little piece of cabbage um here's a toner of those days a Kiran would be the same thing just with two holes on the top personal approval if you're wondering what are all those letters there it's back in the day you didn't have Yoshi so I took this out of the Massif I think and you just see the the words from the other side of the page it's uh rudimentary style okay you don't even have to give him a piece of property you can lend them the space to put up his his stove Heist and all the principles well that's enough to be considered why because at the end of the day we're gonna see here is the idea that if you own property you have access to property then you write approval I the property is not worth the amount of money that you you borrowed but then we go back to the idea that you read a principle on the the kindness is something that's here now exactly the value is not important to us exactly who owns it and what and how much system you have it's not important the end of the day you have a piece of property I'm not going to go into the value of it ain't me that's not Hillary about Tony Hillel unless he just wants to point that immediately this is not Hello that we spoke about yesterday this is Hilda Moyer that lived maybe a thousand years later I don't know how many hundreds of years later and kaising fruits says we learned Allah so that you only write approval on a path that has a hole so here let's just see for a second so this is property if you have property the lawyer has property the bar has property you write a principle if you have a pot that has a hole in it then it's nourishing from the ground so that's enough for you to be considered that path that you have over there even though it's metabolism and you can pick it up and run it's still considered because in hilchas maybe in hilka's loans you don't really have a lien on a path because it's movable but the milk has Spruce bowl like we said the idea is that it has to be you have to have some sort of character we're not going to go into the details of that character and therefore this is enough character to be considered for a principal system it seems like because the nurses in the ground I might even became a coin but at the end of the day you just told me you don't need anything you just need a very very small amount doesn't they have doesn't he own the the karka this is what no so much who said it's Marshall where do you say Marshall over here over here where do you see what's going on with this who owns the land there yeah you own it right well what no no where do you see that yeah you have a path that has a hole in it and it's connected to the ground because you're going to see in a second hold on so let's let's finish and let's see says we're talking about this kind of path that it's it's sitting on pegs and uh the pegs are not his before he had at least the the ground under it but over here he doesn't even have that some guy allowed him to put his pegs on but the pegs themselves the area that the pegs were sitting on him if there are his or not um the rashford says it's impossible that they're his because even rash himself brings out before that we're talking about even the size of a needle okay so that's why it has to be Knuckles it has to have a hole in it and the nourishment itself create the path becomes karka because the nurse is on the ground even though the ground is not his she says this is a give me the dick Lord just if a guy chopped down a palm tree and there's a stop there what is it called stump yes thumb that's also enough character for approval everybody this is a big hitter you'd have to write the principle you could say the lotion to your friends and that's also enough for a prism regarding the sun masamiliarism did that he only said it all right do I need anything else do I need to start or will I light three because that's enough words if the lawyer doesn't have real estate below and the orev has real estate quite similar approval the RF is a third party he's the guarantor if the life it doesn't pay then the the Arab steps in like uh I know the game so they work you borrow money from they take at least two a raven two guarantors as soon as the guys you know starts ignoring telephones and whatever it is quote they immediately go to the RF and the RF becomes 100 liable so in terms of a principle yet you have to have property here daughter has property you're gonna go after that property there's no difference if I can go after your property or that property this property involved there I can write approval the Belzer told me I might saw he said that in in Bells Roshana and he was Mafia all his property if he had any connection that if his father bought him anything all right well everything is Mafia then he went he borrowed a lot of money from a lot of bachar each bucket in 100 check later on check there accumulated and after Roshana he made an announcement he said all you guys that lend me money I'm plotted to pay you back go fly a kite and they went to that's the roshi vendor she said mice is right there's no principle there's no no nothing he didn't own character you have to own character and then after the receiver passing that he said no I just wanted to make sure that the Islam understands that Allah and uh that it should hit home that I wouldn't be Hive to you if I don't have a piece of property and there's no principle you could only write a prism if you have property and I wanted I wanted the island to know that Allah okay you know a very very nice song I'll tell you real quickly because we're doing well on timer Maybe but it's a beautiful story there's a person urinary stroke who lend somebody a lot of money and uh he wanted a anarov so he got in our reuven is the Arif okay where is the art the borrower picked himself up got on a flight to America and disappeared and of course never paid the loan so the lender went to the RF Reuben hey up it's moving payoff so he's a from yet he started paying pain pain and uh uh his wife was asking him what's going on like where's all our money what do you what do you pay is that whatever he wouldn't tell her he wouldn't tell her that the Los Angeles that so and so that it was a bad guy and and ran away to America you wouldn't tell fight time goes on the wife has a wedding in America the wife of Rubin the wedding and she sees the the couple over there that ran away at the wedding and she goes Mazel Tov how are you we missed you what happened you left it and the couple realized that she doesn't know and the the husband was so taken aback by it that he went that day and he borrowed money and he paid he paid the guy back because of the um foreign that's why it's a story listen he says how come his the stories don't happen to him yeah the lie you like lions the lion tells the the the the uh the son he says you know you're the the king of the jungle you have nothing to fear so okay a few days go by and the baby lion goes into town and he sees this big giant statue of of uh uh Buffalo killing a lion so he comes back on he says what happened the Buffalo you said with it he says if it happened every day they wouldn't make a statue out of it it happened one time it made a thing out of him one time there's a story that's why it's a story if it happened every day why would it be a story Mandy what if the RF doesn't have a character and of course the the liver you know he's a poor guy he doesn't have any real estate there's nothing yes my favorite well I have a lot of favorites and no I'm not going to show the picture that I showed in super stuff you test you could all look it up if you want to see yourself with the chaunt and whatever reason is a famous Concept in chess and that is very very simple you have a Louis Vuitton the liver borrowed money the guy on the right that says live on his head he borrowed money from the guy on the left the malva what happens to be the Once Upon a Time the lawyer LED money to the verse of Shiva Abby Factor's brother owes money to the liver the liver when the environment from the Melba the malva halah could go directly to the roshashiva he could take out the middle mandelaiva and say I want you Shiva to pay me I heard you got a big donation payoff success if so check this out let's just go the same exact case but over here there was Shiva has property so if the receipt has property but the labor doesn't have property so I could write a the mouth of a karate Subaru why because the Russia Shiva actually approval so the there is this will be a Terrace for all the mistakes obviously I didn't mean Super right okay this happens so I so the the Marvel could be soy milk on the character that the receiver has so much it says gamara questions the liver is trying to collect money from the receiver we give it directly okay so we have a puzzle so we're also the same idea we can use the character of the rashiva as collateral for a principle what's the difference if you go direct with him for the loan I can go directly in for the character so here's a very interesting when a person has a lien on the character yep ruvane lends money here even go back to this case the malva lends money to the Leiva and the Leiva has property and he tells the malva this property is going to be your collateral you have nothing to worry about if I don't pay you just take my house take my property how do we view it do we view it that the malva has access to this property it's like his we view it as mamishes or not it's a big Shiloh not awesome [Applause] when shamita comes it erases the loans what does it mean whether it has a star or not rubbish World Avatar value whether even if it is a star that says that there's a collateral there's a lien on a lean let's call it a lien there's a lien on a property you could go after that property it's not the malvas it's delivas he just has the right to go after the property there's a guarantee in other words There's real estate is real estate involved tied to the low so every Star just means I don't care if there's a document or not the the the the major factor here is whether there's real estate there's no real estate culture and it's not then obviously it gets erased coach even if there's no star at all certainly if there's no star at all it gets erased so it goes from these three levels the best star in the world is one that has a lean with real estate there's a star that has no lean and then there's no star at all so of course no star at all gets erased location no that if there's a star that has a length of property you could collect that why because it's as if it's in your possession so but what does star mean star just means that you wrote a star without any any kind of uh lean no property involved and what does schlavish dire mean Mill Valley Pet the worst of the worst I have a star is awesome if you go to the top of the top the most secure loan ever that there's a lien to property because it's as if you're already collected it and therefore shmita doesn't have the power doesn't come and erase it so this would be the best case scenario if somebody says listen this building on Park Avenue 110 Park Avenue is the building I'm gonna give you for the loan so now we have something tangible I know exactly which building I know which real estate's right here that's the best shaman then there's no there's no Ashmont in other words it doesn't get erased but I'll tell you even more yeah all my buildings in Manhattan take anyone you want so it's not specific anyway also shmita doesn't call him any race we gotta stop making uh core females here what careers you mean 50 but any building why no that's even better that's even better what you're saying is even better now you narrowed it down to 50 percent some of the 50. oh I have all this is for sure open or everything or everything right but it's what's one of everything not everything one of everything and now I'm saying one of the 50 yeah what if I said you some of them but you can still pick for some oh you don't even know which one ah okay yeah you're right that's a question of braver I guess there's a star that said this there's a lien on property my name is so he passing like we just said that this real estate is as if you you collected it yourself the malva before you actually collected loan and therefore it's not like you're going after the guy you're not pressing him for anything you already have it he didn't like the soccer so he said that it's Michelle in other words the opposite of rebuilding passkins say that if you have property it's as if you collected all of a sudden they came to ask him it seems like you almost forgot he says no just because you have property doesn't mean anything the loan is erased rebellious on a second ago said the loan is not erased now and they came to ask him he said it's erased [Music] he couldn't believe it did you actually pass him away yes but you when you argue together with you both agreed that if you have property that the loan is not erased myself just because I said so doesn't mean that I'm gonna pass in I love her like that what does that mean so there's a lot of safari moving today that it says in the beginning and it's safer or like I'll say it now and I'll say it every time I'm not a Rob I'm not passing I'm telling you things that I know it seems to me x y z Lamisil and myself I'm going to take money out of so-and-so and give it to so and so I can't do that that my big name I don't know by the way it's very interesting that one of the Swarm today that says this is not don't you don't have to ask your local rep I love myself and today is his yard type so where else do we see this in the gemara that just because we're passing like this so we're going to pass anybody remember yeah yeah but we're in our sector very close very good good test new [Music] what was the thing what was it here it is her voice I this is you see if it's red and you write on the black is it is it is it a good uh writing for for uh forget and then he said but wait a minute you passing the hooks of Shabbos that it's that it's Siva just because I said over there because I didn't say that's a good get and I said it's interesting because I told Yoshi last night I said I told him I want I want him to draw something and we came up with this taxi thing I said you know be cool what if we did uh like knock himself or screaming at me a little share and I'm just quiet so the island I think would enjoy that yeah but he's there he'll sit there you'll be really upset but today he's not there we did not have a sensor huh but I usually answer them okay [Music] today oh yeah yeah exactly I don't think so I don't think that okay exactly tomorrow it's not awesome but what but wait a minute you have braces that say like your Malay do my eBay the price that you have like me the army style me I wasn't sure I was thinking about championships I should even put this in okay it's a thing if I have a star a woman as a super is it if she collected it already and the mighty magaveroy is on the husband's side or she only has a tsuba she still has to collect it and she's the mighty she's a site that we had the suggest she brings it over here do does she have to bring the proof who who Who's the max that go over here just because you have a star so somebody not awesome somebody says okay you give me a watch forget real estate give me a watch I'll give you money that my sister is the best then are hold on I just want to see what I wrote here oh okay it's the best then you give your your loan to bezen to to collect now once they collect the business involved so that's it they're the ones doing it a mishampton right so there's no it's as if if you're holding somebody's watch you collected it already bezen's collecting for you they collected there's no there's no shemitah there's no it doesn't get erased especially my sister is the best absolutely so if you look over here in the past hook we had it yesterday the issue is not to press the guy he also want to talk about it too he owes you money you can't you can't tell him hey pay me back the third says you can't press it but then he's not pressing who's pressing bezen is pressing my time but what's the sweater behind the magic um there's no present because you already have his money what if he lent you money and and he said you know what in return to me of you lending me money I have a nice couch in my front yard you could sleep there oh you smack so is it as if I already have the hotter now obviously is the is the borrowers the lender is sleeping in the hotter he let him sleep there you can tell me in such a case there's no shmita doesn't erase the Lord of course it raises the load so you're smarter doesn't work now what deposit says here's the Apostle very important you have to give back the collateral the deposit you're talking about a poor person who doesn't have anything he gives his pajamas his PJs as collateral so you give it back to my knight say something to sleep with and the tire says you gave him what do you mean you gave him stuff he gave him back what he owns it's his mother you see from here it made it kind of documentary you see that the malva he owns those PJs and he's giving it back to him but if you sleep in the guy's hotter you don't own anything then also um foreign the guy like I'm not consultant said yesterday it's like you take advantage of Allah it's not a loophole but you owe you owe the guy money you promised the payback before shemitah and here it comes are you just gonna get away with not paying twenty thousand dollars third says it's erased be a mensch go back and give him the money back but the guy the lender he must say you're right but there is anything to give it back he decided to give it back to be a mensch the lender has tell him he must say those words the tire says that you don't have to pay me back your Potter the moment and these are very important words he tells him even so the words are what create the shmita is because I speak they use that word if I talk about then I become a moment it helps solidify my Muna there's another very similar passing this is that it says the Gemar learns that a Rita who goes to the ear miklot if they say Hey you get an Ali he has to say amarite he has to say with his mouth so here also you have to say these words you have to say I don't oh you want you insist okay the Turning of the death news two new sponsors the flamen is very sponsored by who do we have Mordechai is of me rebelli okay and that's beautiful I like it it's nice and short and who's the second sponsor of the attorney to death [Music] dot com for all the hoilum from mdy and the guns developed um so it's interesting you know everybody has this like you know you somebody comes over and says you know I borrowed some money here's the ten thousand he said no no no no deep down you really want it but you wanna like it's it's not nice to take it no no it's okay and you're waiting for him to say no no I want it and then they they okay okay fine you take it so says the gamara the guy comes he says here's the load and you say no no you don't have to shmita so the guy turns around he says okay Smith okay you grab him you flip him over hang him on a tree and start whipping him until he says okay I didn't hop I didn't get the hint okay yeah who was it it was amazing once heard skill somebody it was a very good line that uh there's a buffer on a date and the guys the the father of the girl said you want to tea says yeah I'll take a t finish the T the fastest you want a tea another one he says yeah I'll take another one it's like four or five T's later the guy's like what's so the guy goes through Hassman says you know you bought her as a stickle he's off can't you teach him like when you go on a date the guy says T so how's this I could teach him that but then if you offer him coffee he won't hop is he socially obvious socially off you like that one no okay it's murdered what do you teach him if the guy didn't catch on in the first time so you could teach him all you want it's just gonna pop up in another scenario he's supposed to say twice you sure you don't hop okay so I'll put you on the tree totally lay that's what it says here you hang him up and you do it because the Miser you can grab a a borrower and hang him on a tree that's what you see guys that tur says you can't press him oh wrong one but you get the point well you guys let you go it's good it's good thing I looked at it but once I said I'm done so now I have the right to grab you after you leave and thank you so but if the guy is a nice guy and he wants to return the loan even though he doesn't have to you shouldn't say hey by the way I'm being overly nice and I'm giving back my loan you should say I'm giving you a gift and also when he when he beats him up and flips them over on the tree he shouldn't tell him I'm flipping you over because you owe me money I'm flipping over because you promised me a gift I want my gift back on my leg Nami oh so tomorrow but it's a castle right now so over here how do you flip them over in the tree I I answered it it's not good the cash is over here it should be I'm a tunnel you can't force a guy to pay a loan on my way he also in our case when he flipped him over it was he told him you should give it to me as a gift knew me we also had him in there myself to have a massive this is an interesting story I don't understand that if somebody has shot let me know rabalented money so he comes and pays him back on says I cannot take it it's shmita clean of Ozil he didn't get the hint he turned around and walked away we know that Abaya grew up in Robert's house it might have been it's his father's name and that's why they called him abayed the holy but he grew up but he saw the rabbits upset on my leg am I out of my way upset oh my leg somebody offered me money that I lent him and he I could have had it I was this close to getting it and he didn't get the hit I was like I bet somebody chases in the matter did you pay back a rabbits and what did he says he said that you don't have to pay me oh my name did you say even so you want to pay him um enough you know had you said those words second time you would have taken the money so you could still do chuva and go back and give him the money they really have a beacon and say even so I want to give it back Ozil until Martha went back and he said you know even though you refused it before I want to give it to you know your rabbit talking for me what is going on I don't know 100 the best product I mean if I told you the story about the Harvest Time you wouldn't believe it you'd think if somebody told you was upset when uh somebody ordered money and he he said no and the guy walked there you believe that got upset over money I don't think so oh so that's the shot I mean that's the best track you get it still doesn't explain it the rabbit was extremely extremely poor and he's very dependent on that money and he was very poor but if that explains it completely for me it doesn't all matter well you haven't been indicted by two remember this this uh he was missing a little bit safer at the time um I'm coming to sue you from for the loan I am believed that I used to have approval now this would never work in any other situation if I don't have a star I don't understand I can't I don't believe that you owe me a hundred dollars if I can't produce a document but I believe that I wrote approval I had the document that you owe me a hundred dollars I just don't have the principle attached to it my time I'll keep the quinoa since it's so easy to do nobody would come in and take back a loan without writing in prison obviously he wrote a principal he also look at me rap would tell people hey was you you probably had a prison who got lost right okay great okay now you can sue him if you're going there so I don't know the perfect example because sometimes it's a little tricky there's a Mitzvah when you see somebody stumbling for words or doesn't know something let's say I don't know this is not a great example but it might in my mind I'm picturing like you're lying at the zoo and if you just say uh I saw you know I have a coupon that the 10 10 and you get 25 off it's happened to me here and I just row okay that's a little different because now you're hurting the zoo but let's say you you have a situation where you just have to tell somebody something open your mouth not don't be like that New Yorker on the subway I was on a subway many many times where I saw people get beat up and everybody just watches like this don't be that guy step in sometimes you have to step up to the plate and say hey don't talk to that person like that that's disrespectful you have to give words to people that don't have the words and last time I learned it we learned it what I actually did I'm not gonna say the story now there was once yes because a Jew the there's a bunch of um who were throwing things at a from yet he was learning and he had a beard and they threw us I stepped up and I got into a fight with them she was anti-Semitism yeah but usually no I mean the crazy things that I've seen yeah ask anybody who was on a subway they'll tell you a thousand mices almost every day there's a story no no there's no there's no violence but it was threatening says so but one thing that I can tell you that I think is very important and this happens to me almost every day when you meet somebody who doesn't learn the deaf and they they sometimes they lie to you and they say yeah but I have a harusa yeah baloney 90 of the time they don't they're just embarrassed but when they tell you this all you need to tell them is do you learn with the harusa every day and 99.9 of the time they'll tell you the truth and that is no and then you tell them but you have to learn Tire every day and say you're right you're right you have to give them the right advice and the right advice to our person is you have to learn Tire every day whether or not the death but that's the best way we know okay not right one of you guys in the back over they're gonna learn that the minion doesn't start on time should go to another Minion putting pressure on me you know what I'm saying are you I haven't made him out leaving no they left some of them are leaving we're waiting for the Dad what's going on here get it get in here foreign