Daf Yomi Gittin Daf 21 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning Rob boys we have a geological guest with us here all the way from one to New York to Malaysia yeah tell us a little bit about yourself you're always on Zoom the Island season what are you doing Muncie you started really with us since everyone that I didn't know that's okay yeah [Music] and it was supposed to send a small video yeah so you're another victim of a bistro Goldstein yeah that could be so bad and since then I just I I just couldn't go away I tried a few times he's trying to leave us so late I go to sleep every night like after right yeah and you stay you stay every day after zoom and this okay you brought me a gift now this this was tomer's favorite picture from the entire trip in New York and look this let me re I didn't even see this yet Omar sir Ellie oh I took this no I didn't know that now I have yeah yeah I thought that's why it's so blurry a boy's eye it shows the actors of mdy his review talk and this is what's his name no no um can't every Shear huh Square Tony palette way to remember a guy sorry Tani and him this is not Taki is it no but anyways this is he calls himself what do you call himself I forgot already he was hacking his chining with okay whatever but he equal a stick of more modernist beautiful picture I have to build another house for all these pictures and things let's see if we can get uh to an email or two higher belly this is from Robbie potash he's a coil younger man as a listen to your by the way if you're in coiling send me an email because it's so rare I put it all in the beginning I go right to it as he doesn't even have email use somebody else's email as a listener to your share and also share from eraser your shears to me the mamish never to miss when I saw the clip from leblinsky or belski about your mother's kevarum being so close I also realized that the name is Russ and naami his mother's in the Army are also connected because thanks to the kahoot tests and Gifts in other words he won a gift from doing 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reform base seven eight lines from Nevada I have another job for I could actually open this up I was putting it away in my office I it doesn't have the greatest smell I'm so I don't know I think it's like dangerous to smell because it actually came through the plastic today maybe tomorrow you could like coat it in something otherwise I'm gonna have to get rid of it I don't want to get rid of it it's too nice to get rid of it does not only remember which one of these is kosher one of them is puzzle one is kosher this one yeah this is good because it's engraved this is what is this called and this is Hawk okay good kazara so a woman has A Tavola song she owns this everybody knows she owns this for years it's hers says because of the Savior crisis today alone we're gonna have at least six maybe seven eight I don't know I didn't count them all at least six remove them from this possible loan the word because of the word safer the word Christos the word vinasan the word every word is another Joshua today that's not the main song it comes there but here's the first one vinasan doesn't even say it but no San the husband has to give the wife something over here it's the wives so what do we do we have a big problem he wrote again this is not a git obviously this is a kid's room again but he wrote a get on her belonging she owns this she came into the marriage with this whatever it is it serves what do you do now he gives this Tableau this board that she owns he gives it to her what is he doing well she wants to get divorced very desperately so do we say she made a Kenyan with all her heart and she said take the board it's yours a hundred percent perhaps and this is the idea of the Sugi a little bit perhaps she's not aware that she has to give it to him with a complete Matana it's her husband never through her marriage did she give has anybody's wife ever given them a Matana no you give well once in a while on a birthday you give a gift maybe but if he wants to use the board take the board because hey she's lending it to him so for her to give the board as a gift that you need you have to learn in Yeshiva you have to know that the husband has to be Makai and Vanessa and it has to be 100 his so I have to give it to him 100 no maybe she just gave it to him she lent it to him that's the child what does it mean she doesn't know how to make a king a woman could make a Kenyan but she's not aware of the halachas in this in the in this in this is a true story that happened where a Hassan couldn't come up with a ring during the hopa he lost the ring illusion he looked around the he says is there any woman here that could just lend us give us a ring give it give it to him give it to him as a Matana and he'll he'll give it to his coward remote was there he called afterwards he says listen you know we learned that it's possible the woman doesn't know how to give a Kenyan as a Matana and give it away maybe she didn't understand what was going on because you thought you just want to borrow it we have to do this over again and I recommend you use my wife he said because my wife is just hover she knows the halachas I'm going to take her away we're going to take her ring my zacharya they say everybody Asha was there he greet to it the whole thing okay maybe a woman doesn't know how to do the Kenyan properly um so Rashi says going back to edius review was made some say it's not everybody but aquapon it's testified on a small village older person who used to lend money to everybody he would write the star from his own paper with his own inkerem heismann and then you'll get people to to sign the kids here he would give the star after it was done he would give it to the to the liver foreign so real quickly it's a good it's a crazy story just this could die to know a little bit Novi the little Navi that we know from gemara so let's at least the story is that here we go was very good friends with the buccaneza told him you know one day I'm going to go into your slide I'm going to destroy everybody and everything I'm gonna destroy the the basement I said no maybe maybe you could do me a favor you know we're good friends maybe Spirit the base I mean there's no maybe Spirit of people no but he told them listen because we're good friends I'll give you a half a day to grab whatever you can people belongings and disappear I'm not gonna do anything okay but Yumi yo went and bought a field from hanamal this is the Posse care safer Mickey he used a star he was the buyer he used the star he made he was the ma he's the coiner he made the king in with his own star it's a very sad story he's busy buying a field meanwhile is coming in and destroyed everything and it's half a day that he had to save everything and disappear he was busy buying a field but that's how what Hashem wanted they shouldn't get anything foreign so they asked him it says it has to be a safer mikna the document has to belong to the person creating the the Kenyan the the the kaina the liver in our case it's the liver so how did you write the star for somebody else hello love so we have to say that this elderly personally he he gave it to them he wrote The Star he gave it to them now okay I didn't tell you what yeah he's not going to believe solemn it's yours now you give it to me great he's the choir the one acquiring the one like the one buying not not the seller there's a buyer and a seller who has to provide the star hello the right says here yeah I'm selling my pills to use that's what she said right so the most hair is giving the star you're saying that the Louisville magnets or everything you're saying the Marvel should be I hear I don't know you have to ask good question and the level I don't know he's making the he's being kind of obligated yeah but the mother is obligating his field to give the field he's saying right here yeah is this a joke [Music] the point wasn't that it was really going to be ahead yeah to the husband and he no no the board is the board he wrote the guest on the board no no you'd have to divorce immediately anyways if a woman is carrying along a guest from another marriage you get rid of a woman like that no no you use their board she had a piece of wood a nice board and he wrote on it to get she has it ready you know anytime the guy wants to divorce her and she pulls it out no I don't think that still would happen um let me just see here but why is it uh the life is always other that's what is not you that's what you're saying Tyson's really explains you hear that elava is his belongings to the malva so it's like selling your stuff to the malva you have a field you're giving he's the one like giving it over okay fine we came with a shot so we have to say this old man was Machina okay that's a bum question that by again that has to be the husbands it says you don't really see that in uh by uh you don't even need it's just a Raya it's not done through the the actual document the documents are right okay fine you guys you bring me a riot from somebody who's a a professional lender everybody's to borrow from him so he knows he knows what to do but a woman this is the first time doing it yet she knows how to give it over and be marking it 100 hello here's a story you have a loiva and amalva the liver he gives he's borrowing money from the malva he gives the star here's a star and then there's another guy so everything is done the star is signed it's given the mouth has the star comes along another person yasi Klein and he says you know what I want to be an RF I want to guarantee this loan if that life of my friend can't pay you back come to me I'll take so what happens is the malva gives the star over to the arav and the r of signs says from here you see that the mauva just the regular guy is Magna the star to the Arab how was the art of sign on it it had to beat the Arabs it has to be the RF star he came after the fact so he needs so from the fact that the malava could be mocking of the star to the Rave you see that any Joe could it could be magnet Stars you don't have to be uh a zuckin he came along after the star was already given by the liver to the malva and it's already in the malva's hands it works up to a point you can't go after yassi Klein and take his real estate that he already sold to somebody else but you could take real estate that he he has in his position right now but it works Omar of Ashi Mike maybe men are different they they're very into the business they went to Yeshiva for whatever reason maybe they know how to do King on them better than this woman is that a woman could write her own get similar to what Lauren thought that she has this board it's already written she gives it to her husband and she's marking it and says hey take it and give it back to me in other words she can make a king she knows how to make a king she knows how to be back and a man provide his own receipt on the Suba fight but the the rise from that a woman could write her own get and give it to her husband a woman knows how to do a king in when it comes to these things of because at the end of the day according to your mayor at least the get happens through the the signees on the get okay so at the end of the day it goes like this if a news if a woman has a a piece of real estate and her husband takes the get and puts it in the real estate puts it in her backyard she's kind of the get she becomes divorced right away she doesn't have to hold again in Rand it goes into her if her husband puts a get in his friend's backyard and then the friend goes and gives the whole backyard to the woman not a guest why because nobody gave her a guess the guy was already in the backyard and by the time the backyard became hers there's no no Cena but what happens if it happens together the husband puts a gun in a slave's hand or in a field in a backyard and he gives the wife the slave he gives the wife the backyard simultaneously by the way we're 20. not a joke just yesterday we were in bar Park we're 20 dolphin already he writes again he puts it in the hand of the slave because and at the same time he gives her or afterwards he gives her the the slave as a gift can also she acquires the slave foreign you want to remember it look at the charts she quite well over here she acquires the slave and at the same moment she acquired had she acquired the get a moment later it wouldn't be good because there's not a sinner but because it happened simultaneously she got the the slave and they get together she's divorced How could a slave work it's a moving piece of Real Estate but in New York somebody protested the fact that somebody made a sukkah on the sidewalk so you can't make a silkyo nanju what are you making these Huts here for a week taking up so the guy that eats up he rented a flatbed truck and made a sick on a truck and he parked it right over there so now he couldn't do anything it's on the truck you let it Park your truck showing his throat works but what about if you put a get in a cart the woman owns a car and he put the get in her car is that a hotel is that considered a moving backyard a moving piece of property so I'll say it is actually a big I think because they say the car a stationary just the wheels move oh my anyway fine it's a moving thing you say it's moving moving but here check this out above a plane a train but here's arvinat arvina why I don't know you tell me why it's a house it's the house yeah so there's you know RV in a car as an RV you could sleep in well it's more like a uh the RV has no RV has these uh things that go down you know I don't know if you know you push a button goes yeah my kid did it once while we were driving the no I'm just kidding they have to have like some sort of yeah because otherwise yeah foreign how do you call those things like you see the the um stabilizers they come out and they go down yeah oh says so this will see a little bit about a car too but Iron Shop what about if the slave is standing still he's just standing he's not moving like a car at a stop sign vomarova calls if when he's moving it's no good or maybe I should like Carter so just because he's standing for a moment in a second he'll start moving again she's gonna start moving so it's considered a movable property movable property is not a hotzer that could be kind of get says [Music] here we go it's talking about a slave who's tied down but in this case if you notice oh hey what's going on there the slave is also sleeping foreign that the slave has to be sleeping otherwise it doesn't work it's a combination of being tied up and sloofing those two things together because otherwise the slave could be a shimmer on the get you don't want that there's another Shimmer here akatsu doesn't do any shmira you are the swimmer on the hotter but you don't want so if he's if he's sleeping he's not a shimer he's also tied so he can't be he can't have there's no problem that he might walk in a second and therefore that's what we're talking about now there's a little bit of a freebie only two lines if he wrote her again and he put it in her backyard because of the star matano I love in his backyard he put it in his own backyard and then he gave her the backyard as a gift boy she's kinda the the backyard and she's calling it again all at the same time we need both cases of the slave in the backyard we know that if she acquires the backyard afterwards in other words the husband put it in somebody else's field and that person gave her the feel it's no good so maybe I should be geyser that case or I'm saying our case because of this case our case where the husband gave him gave her his own backyard ought to where the husband put it in his friend's backyard and the friend sold it or gave it to the to the woman as a gift this makes a lot of sense maybe a slave is never good because who ties out a slave forever it's a five minute thing so maybe somebody will give the get a slave that's untied commercial all right bye that's a value How could a slave work how could you put the get you see in this actually in this picture you could Yoshi put a besides the teddy bear there's a there's a nice little gift he's holding over there so how does that work I'm serious this uh in a picture like this for me it's the teddy bear that does it like without the teddy bears okay the teddy bear puts it over the top it's funny foreign yeah each person so now we're dashing in another word because of the Savior it's the same possible over and over because of the safe increases he has to put it in her hand now how do I know that a hotter works because I learned it from this word her property is her hand it's an extension of her hand so says so it has to be something like her hand her hand the husband could force the get with without asking her today it's different okay that's whatever Harem but how long ago you could give a woman a get without asking her she can acquire the gathers through acquiring the slave but acquiring the slave you need her Das she can't accept the gift against her will you neither will so it's not a good get again has to be something you give her against her will who the wife sent out the wife sent Reuben go get my get from my husband well you're telling me every situation and again has to be in a situation that you could do it against your will here's a case that it can't be against her will the slave was only because she sent him if she didn't send him there's all such things you can't make it for the wife against your will so once again another word from this Apostle here we go in purple how do you know that works because it says the extra hey instead of a Sheila you learn from the hey Mela it has no connection connection to to foreign the father of a minor who received the gift of his daughter without her will he's the and it's against the world so in that parisha you see the idea the concept of of bakara so it does fit into the other if you want to go that route next song it says you could write again on a leaf of an olive olive has to be that there are more rights that you should write a get on Clough on parchment said I don't know what you're talking about it's better even to do it on we in our city we do it on on paper look this is the way this is an official well not official get but this is how it would be done besides the name of Donald whatever it's paper a special paper but paper it's not cloth the TA says by us we do it even though there was a meaning in our city says it has to do with claf it's much better to do with paper why because clav is easier to be Messiah to forge it comes off the cloth itself is very thick so you can peel off whatever it is it's better to do with with paper okay so the bottom line is I think dialogue is nothing to do with paper and you're sliding to do with paper in America they do a paper and Europe needs to do a paper that says a sad thing season Ukraine he says they they started we ran out of Clough there's so many get them we had to do get Mitzvah they were all going to war back then and everybody was writing get them to the wives get Mitzvah just in case they don't come back and they don't know what happened to the body aguna naraguna get Mitzvah right there's a famous in England there's a whole there's a whole list I once showed it maybe someone will send it you know what I'm talking about they went out to war and they all wrote giten something like that it was in America no the Civil War Maybe something okay huh in Israel maybe it was in Israel once had a whole list of just all these soldiers that send get them to their wives fine huh about him fighter says again yeah well somebody will send it I'm sure I showed it in the chair once I lost his eyes so what does it say in the Mishra it says that ugly we were talking about what about a cow if you write it on the cow's horn you have to give it the whole cow what about if you write on the hand of a slave give him the whole slave sponsored by the premium family for our sisters you have to give the whole slave if you have no choice what do you do chop off his hand says rash you can't chop off his hand it's awesome it's also to me we know that if you do certain things to never it goes free you can't just chop off his hand it'll be kind of it's like a it's like a bad prank you know you give her a box here take a gift she opens up the box it's a hand with nice nice you can't just tap off the hand and give it to her hello oh so we have here whoa whoa knock them out with this so here this is the the Karen of the shark you give her the shark this is is that Avi in the back says the get on his hand give her the thing now says but what about the show [Music] [Laughter] Lucas Lucifer what's the problem why do you have to give the whole the whole show just cut it and give it there says you know it's interesting stuff myself if the if the um people might not know this do you know that female cows also have horns how do I know this because in Switzerland in 2018 some sugar he wants to make a law that you have to let the cows grow their horns the females the reason they don't have horns I guess they chop them down they do start stuff to it but the female cow should have horns he says it's Mama's uh it's not Kosher for the cow the whole thing he lost he barely lost like there was a whole it went to vote it went to now look it up 2018. my time with everybody says tomorrow because remember this here another limo from the same possum you you write it and you give it and there's nothing between the writing and the giving if there's another action they have to take such as chopping off the hornsino this is missing already an action in between you have to cut it off and therefore you have to give the whole cow to the to the woman basically says no that like a cow you cannot write he argues on the whole thing you can't do a slave you can't do a cow you can't do a olive leaf why can't you do another with anything that's food you can't do energy Reserve I think maybe Zoom for a second go to zoom we we have six minutes it's more than enough time go let's bring him on real quickly no remember what are you doing over there you want to introduce yourself let's hear volume huh go you're not you're just as good as Dave scharfman oh it's his fault so so it wasn't Dave sharpen's fault either Mandy turn on your mic for a second see if we could hear you don't move too much you know oh now we hear you yeah show my life what are you doing home why why are you not here with us your seat is empty ah um so what do you think about this whole zoo thing going live with zoom guys okay I think it's always the private so but what about if we we just have you every day is that a waste of time okay have fun hello so why does it basically say they can't do food and animals I want to show you this real quickly I don't know if this will help you or not help you but basically we have four words because of safer safe increases creases you see the four on the side Rebecca learns from the word because of I'm just showing you the city a little different because the Mario goes back and forth so what happened to do with this one what do they do with this word but if you just it's very very simple from the word of a casav we're basically learns you could write on every object in the world you have to write you can't give her money give her a ring and divorce her with a ring safer not a part of says not on not on food and animals and say safer means it's a story you have to write this is the woman this is the man they lived here what do you do with the two words like really learns not with money like a Hummel learned from because if he learns not with the money and learn from savior Christos they can't make any long conditions you can't say you can never go to your father's house we basically learned the extra word instead of chorus crystals that we learned that tonight it's not something we learn out of because it said it like this and not like that we're not gonna we're not learning anything so that's about let's see inside it's a simple environment who says you need it yeah Seaport like what to exclude what I don't know my time in the room is safer safer so safer means the endless set from nine lives cold over time because of on everything oh so once it's on everything so maybe should it also be a cow say from the word safer he learns not a cow that should be in the safer categories it's telling you that again has to have all these things in it who say that you could write a get on every single thing and they don't need the the word because of the talusana and everything they already know it's on everything they don't have any meal because they might have delay because if why would I think that a woman could get divorced with money oh this is if not the number one heckish in the entire Shas it's the number two what is the number one or two heckish in the entire chass is seriously so which one is more I don't know look it up I don't know how to search for it but it's either this or that it's one of the two because sorry not this this is not at sorry wrong one that's right this one sorry this is familiar with it is you get married so just like getting married you get married with money so I would think I would have a half a minute you get married with you you get divorced with money now there's other things you get married with but they are exclusively for marriage not it's the opposite of getting divorced so obviously that's not part of it he learns from the word two words that only through a safer only through a get is there a get and not through money and what does he do what does it has to be a complete divorce you can't hold on with a string if you divorce your wife it has to be 100 not 99. the person says this is your divorce again this you never drink again the whole reason I divorce you because you're an alcoholic and I want to make your life miserable you can never drink wine again I mean actually you can never go back to your father's house it's another reason why I divorce you you're always there now you can't go there loyalam if it's forever ain't decreases it's not crisis actually but if it's for 30 days there's a limit I raise increases she becomes divorced immediately this Shiloh we're showing him exactly that she have to wait and not it seems like she is divorced immediately you can't make a condition that lasts forever mikaris creases the whole point is that it should have said the word cars three letters and instead it said six letters they don't Direction something like this says my dear father coming from him you can write a get that's connected to the ground now it's unbelievable because Rashi says I've arrived from here the Rashi loved Yeshiva bathroom why because Russia says in question because it's not such a great right but it's not for the fun because it says you see from there that you can't have something in between but if you go back to the top of the Ahmad it says two lines down because already that you learn from because so why does rash have to repeat it takes him like a month to get to the mission they already forgot the top so you put it in there fine hey but if he did write it in connected to the ground closer because and he disconnected it and he signed it and he gave it to her caution it seems like a contradiction the mission starts off saying you cannot write a get connected to the tree to the ground and then it says but if you did just cut it off and give it to her what's going on tomorrow will explain review the poisonous maybe this is no the it has everything has to be done when it's not connected to the ground even the writing questions you can't write on on paper that is erased in the gamara it's uh untanned leather that could be uh forged foreign so this is a get it is a leaf toyref is the top part of the get which which has the name of the husband of the wife where they live and where it says but then the the get repeats itself and says the whole world that's the typhus and then under there you have the hassimoys it's a Torres it goes something like this oh you see the Tariff is missing so if he wrote all this that you have here the type is attached to the tree but the top part with the names and the the location and everything else is missing and then he chops it off the tree then it's great because he did the icker I get when it wasn't attached to the ground whoa wait that's later because so this we could go back over here real quickly it's another we discussed this in the beginning of the Messiah but here's another word in that possible because of law what does the cost of La mean you should write write what write the get or the Aiden writing their names it's a big Shyla here says Rebel Lazar I don't care about the writing I don't care about the Adam inside that already signed their name why they're not important to me what's important is two witnesses that witnessed the get the guy signing inside is I don't care about that it could be and then we're going to have the the opposite cheetah this is what the mission says any questions you can't you should not write the bottom part before you write the top part because you might write the icker I get while it's attached to the tree sorry but what if you did it anyways after the fact with the evidence and then that's what the mission says he wrote the main part the names he filled in all the names in the location we're in the Sunderland then he gave it to kosher then it's kosher one last thing we're talking about this case that it's missing the hassimoys this is what you're talking about and this goes according to remember is the one that says so if the items that are signing are the ones that create the get they can't be in the get while it's attached to the tree oh but the top part is not so important put their location put their names in everything's good it's attached to the tree it's great as long as the signing of the get is detached there is then he wrote the top part but he cut it off the tree and then they signed it the sun Allah he gave the caution then it is I have a wonderful day let's go yeah