Daf Yomi Gittin Daf 13 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning boys Five Towns grew up in the same show that I went to the white show are good across the street let me just see if this was the guy that said anonymous no I don't think so well maybe okay next email revelli I love you share and I'm so happy I've learned so many seconds with you your story about his mother was anak rasnick Rosner you know you know a-n-a-c-h-r-o-n-i-s-t-i-c over 100 years ago in Vienna they didn't have women's only concerts that's only in this generation his mother was a trained opera singer but cancer I I just wanted to to smooth out the story I said that she was trying to sing for for women only okay we know we know the story her father wasn't happy with her becoming fresh lapper singer because the Kalisha Hill Shabbos he brought it to the capitious we moved to Vienna at the start of World War one who gave her the Bravo so we have no idea what the commissions held about concerts for women for women correct also you're giving Gary and Phil a hard time for 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base on the base pelvis sogio whether or not is selling or acquiring a getchiker for a slave is that an advantage or a disadvantage for the slave does the slave want to be free or he doesn't want to be free here's another email that has to do with the sugio you can put this part into the into the sugya by Marsha Goodman he says regarding what you mentioned about how slave should be treated here's the Rama versus I'll read it real quickly it's very long you're allowed to to treat you a lot of work a slave before like really hard but even though that Allah is like that says the rambam meet us like a person should use give the slave before themselves even though they don't have to remember don't embarrass him right to work him but not to embarrass him what could you do but what that's not how we did the acts and then he says all the way at the end says the rambam that the to act like that is we have compassion on everything and we have to use compassion on all his beings the bottom line is a Jew is not supposed to act that way but technically speaking if you want to go by the letter of the law you're not supposed to act like that you want to go by the letter of the law could you could you refrain from giving him food that's the child we're not saying you should and and real you didn't don't act like that but if you want to go by the letter of law thank you in the mayor we told mayor in other words out he was my friend so I called him mayor why are you saying it's a disadvantage for a third party to acquire the Starship for the slave it's an advantage not a disadvantage he's going out to Freedom doesn't every slave want to be free no it's a disadvantage or at least there is a part of this Advantage there what if he was a slave of a Kind only in that case he won't be able to eat room anymore and what happens if a slave can't eat and you don't give him food he has to go begging okay just once uh came to me he said stefansky give me a thousand dollars so I told him excuse me it's not that's not how you ask you know it's safe please he says excuse me I've been doing this for 35 years don't you tell me how to do my business [Music] at the end of the day the master could say I don't want to give you any food so the gemara now understands what's this truma business we kind of skipped ahead but what's truma just means he eats a lot of food the master gives him a lot of food so we told him we need the master he he's a Korean he's a he's the the slave of a clinic he eat a lot of food but other than they it's up to the master the message just stop it all turn off the faucet and he doesn't have any food you just say I don't want to give you any food oh my Lord no and then he answers us um but what if he's a slave of a cayenne and he runs away or similarly because we're talking about the get issue also if she runs away from her husband as a woman they eat rumors but now you cause him not to eat by receiving the get on his behalf he can't eat room anymore but for a woman you can't receive the get because it's a disadvantage for her she can't pass because by you receiving the get for her she no longer has support answer what they were asking them are very simple okay and this is what we said the other day you told me that the master has the right to stop feeding him and therefore it's not a disadvantage if somebody else receives the get for him because anyway there's no support for the slave but what are you going to answer me about truma he still has the ability to eat truma he can find Truman anywhere it's either for free or very very inexpensive there's no market for it anybody could grab it anybody that needs Truman could just have it for for peanuts maybe the the master could just throw the get within thaladamus of him and automatically make him not eligible for truma for that I'll answer some run away you won't be able to chase him and give him uh get Checker so by you receiving the gift for him and claiming that it's a sauce for him you're not doing the right thing what's the baby's name again yeah you had a problem you were naming her I remember but now you remember the name I saw it like what do you call her meaning okay what's her name again I would also have a problem with that okay I'm not good with names you know what I'm saying yeah okay good this number great number three wow okay elia's married to the daughter of the Masjid of gated Yeshiva very nice okay so now we're holding a few moment out well hello now what if a slave runs away from his client Master he gets the truma so by you receiving the get in his on his behalf you're ruining it for him alone How could somebody receive or get sugar for a slave without his permission he's he's giving him a disadvantage there's a downside it's a negative it's not good says he's his property the slave is property just like an animal so what does that means if the master wants to stop him from eating truma if he so desires he could receive payment of a minimal payment whatever that means call whatever you want it's just the way the gemara talks I could take forces from you I say listen I have a runaway slave he's not very loyal he runs away he has a tendency but I'll sell them to you for 25 cents you might take that uh that risk for 25 cents what if I find them what are they okay or you're my friend and like this he can't eat room anymore because you're Israel I'm a client and by you purchasing it for me he can't eat truma so therefore but by somebody else receiving the gets you her on his behalf it's not such a disadvantage because you can do that disadvantage even if he runs away you could stop it from meeting truma will the ribbon mayor now let's just understand his old title was on a very if you dive in here the second minion I say this a lot you'll see many times you don't have a cutting you have 50 adult men and not a single coin in other words a very very small percentage of the population I don't know what it is it's less than 10 percent I would say what not the 6 30 man I know the the eight o'clock million unfortunately but they're not they don't they're not that many of them so why is my mayor saying oh if there's a slave of a claim and what if he's a slavery Israel you don't have this title that it's a disadvantage because you can't eat truma well what about a regular evidence by you making him go free he no longer could go with a kananas a shift now he gets to marry Jewish women famous line I ever had wants to be Healthcare fritolay these women these shifters are sheep crust that's what he wants Rashi says something very interesting when a person is not married and he just goes with whoever he wants foreign okay sponsored by Joel Freeman leadership is my dear father Ben Israel David again these are all things we're basically hazarding we learn and Hazard learn we spoke about all this we're familiar with it but don't worry we'll have hidushim that you never heard of today on our death as usual Rashi takes out the word zen the general statement give a get to my wife in other words the schlier never received it he just said listen give a get not Z that would mean that received it maybe uh there's no he doesn't have anything to give her give this star of redemption to my slave but then the master or husband died so you can't give a get to a woman after her husband died death is between a husband and wife and if there's no husband he's dead she's already coined herself right you should call this asthma but this is about so it doesn't work there's no there's no get after death a good would help that's also yeah for Evo I'll show you the slides if you're new to the share you'll see a slightly even soon so if the guy that dies you'll just show it now instead why not we won't show later here if someone's married to a woman and he has a brother the Baldwin brothers and the guy married he goes bye-bye so his wife who typically is also to the brother-in-law to shiman now Falls liebum he has two options either he gives her khalitza she removes the shoe or he's me having remarries her so if a husband is concerned this guy on top is concerned that his brother who's a no good Nick is going to marry his wife his wife hates him so he gives her a get so but it's too late he died quickly so that's it you can't give her a get after me so I'll just explain why you would want to get if if he's already dead and they're not married very interesting because the squirrel came over to me afterwards and he said oh taka rash in death test on the base says like you said over here Rashi takes it back and toys is on that Testament base brings this Rashi and he says Rashi takes it back the what Rashi said a tremendous that if a third party receives a get and tries to acquire the get Shikhar and free the slave he could acquire it but the slave doesn't become free until the slave receives the get in his own hands all he accomplished is is that the master can't take it back I received a gift for the slave now the master can't take it back no but I have to give it to this life as is on the base the other reason that say like this as well so he says he has to be cash and he says look at this rash over here check out this uh first rash in the mishna The Last Words says that from the first moment that the schliak receives the get shikhur he becomes free seems to be saying he doesn't have to give it to the slave as soon as it hits the third party he becomes on the spot to free the slave what about new model ish planning guy says give a hundred to so and so the Maze and then he diesel that case is different than a guest you could listen to the guy that's dying and give him give his friend money even though he died before the money was received all right here's Allah in the name of Raph I'm gonna have a few unlockers in the name of Rob Shins that if I say or not me if a person says give that money to so and so it works even if the person saying it dies is only if the money you see the money it's in a pile so we have to understand that but before I understand it I just want to tell you the quick story I might have said it a week ago but if I did a guy was walking in the desert and he sees a hundred dollar bill so he picks it up and there's a little note underneath it says dig five feet further he takes five feet further and if and he finds a thousand dollars and it says dig five feet further so there's another five feet and he finds ten thousand dollars and then it says dick five feet further see digs another five feet further and he finds a note and says now try to get out thank you and what's the muscle the Nimble the Nimble is that we work and work and we earn more money another thousand dollars another ten thousand dollars and suddenly we find ourselves in a pit in a hole we spend less time with our family less time with our spouses less time with our gemara and now try to get out so this is money Sovereign the money is here you see it it's tangible tell me exactly this the case we're talking about a nice healthy person and suddenly he got killed by a car accident he's born in my hobby who cares that it's in a pot we know that in order to acquire any kind of hafeets in the world you have to make you have to take action you have to do mishika you have to do you have to lift it up a person cannot give a gift to another person just by saying something you can't say oh you see that hundred dollars it's yours it's not yours until that person doesn't do something and lift it up it's not his so just because he said that that hundred dollars in the corner and he pointed to it and it's in the corner he said so that's not enough so you must say the special Allah when it comes to a person that's on his Deathbed he's on his last breath and we don't want him to die actually we don't we don't want him to lose his mind and be concerned about money issues so whatever he says he goes if so if that's the case why do you have to say it's in a pile and this is a very important question because this is what we're going to be dealing with today wasn't a pile Kingsbury Nami even if it's not in a piled okay them okay the words of guy dying on his deathbed when it comes to real estate even real estate you give away a house just by talking when it comes to metatalin he could give away money he give away items metatalin just by saying it it's as if he did so then why I just have to be in a pile so we have two three rules we're talking about a healthy person foreign in front of three people so if you didn't know what that is you're gonna know what it is in a minute it's very very simple but it's a New Concept says here it is oh I think there's another one here I didn't do this this is all Yoshi I was not happy with it but okay why not okay so here goes this is a pickle and we're talking about we call them is collateral yeah the famous Miser with the guy in Manhattan he went into the bank he says give me ten thousand dollars so they lending ten thousand dollars what's your collateral my Rolls-Royce here's my Rolls-Royce comes back three weeks later he says here's the ten thousand dollars takes the Rolls Royce the guy says let me ask you a question you have 150 million dollars in your account why do you have to borrow ten thousand dollars this is ah because nowhere else in Manhattan can I find parking for three weeks for 25 bucks interest so collateral Rolls-Royce is collateral we're not talking about alone we're talking about collateral so here it goes you ready you have three people there you have ruvain chimney Levy ruvane is a noisane he's The Giver Shimon is the Watcher and Levy is the receiver for some reason it's flickering Ruben gives collateral or a picadine to shiman SO shiman watches it it's here it's been he's not supposed to spend it it's not his money to spend it's uh it's an essric box full of cash or just an extra box or just cash imin and all three of these people are all in one room and Reuben tells Schumann I want you to give that box to Levy so there's no opinion here there's no Michigan there's not nothing doing it was words Reuben said I want Jim to give lady the Box so he goes ahead instead of shimming giving the backs back to ruvane he goes ahead and gives the box to Levy that's the whole Mama slush and very very simple but it's a tremendous that because they're all three in a room you don't have to take action in all hilchas kinyan you have to take action you have to do something either you write a document you lift something up nothing was done here it was words over here again orally Roofing says to shipment give it this to Levy and it works talks about what if ruvane didn't wasn't there with jimin he sent him a letter obviously it doesn't work you have to be in the same room so today's posts can say what if you're on Zoom what if you're on a phone call the whole reason why a letter doesn't work is because not all three were together but now they're together and they say some say yes I'm saying no okay fine that's the difference but there's a big hit the share and if we get to the end of I don't know if we will I doubt it which is on death you download it says that doesn't really have a lot of explanation it's one of these three Allah said you don't ask any questions not Alva or picardo says tomorrow and that's what happened in our mission you know why there's a pile of money because we're doing with a peacock I need a pile of money because it's a picada it's it's not alone it's because and I want to be able to give to new monolith Pliny I want Reuben says I want shipment to give the money to Levy and then he dies you give it even though there's no Kenyan down here so it's a mama before the money was given to Levy Reuben says To Shimmy give the money to Levy and he drops dead and then Chima has to give it even though there's no opinion cestis similarly you'll have the same Allah by get Empire no it doesn't work with words with with a star it only works with an object a star it's the words in the star and they don't have any they're not tangible so it doesn't work on that says great let's keep on going olymp you owe me a hundred or I have a picana by you it's much Larson if it's in front of three people Kana works next next rap Papa on my Loyola we're not talking about a healthy person we're talking about a dying person said give a hundred to so and so if he pointed at this money then we give it but if you just said in general give a hundred we don't give so that answers the question why is the money in a pile because otherwise I wouldn't have to give it when the guys die he has to point a certain amount of money why on Monica so it concerned says the gemara that perhaps his reference was to a hundred that's buried somewhere else it's in another bank not this money right over here we're not concerned about hitting money when uh when I shimra says give a hundred to so and so give him any hundred doesn't matter the famous Maze of the crime cries worth when he was in the concentration camps the guy told him listen I'm probably not going to survive have a lot of money in my safety deposit box in Switzerland here's the code all you need to know is these numbers you walk into this in this Bank that's the code please find some of my relatives and give it to them so crisis with his entire life looking for this person and finally found a guy a son found out the guy has a son many many years later he meets this guy the guy is the poorest guy in the world the old man he says listen your father told me the code so Christ is worth used to ask is tell me them he says what happened there was this guy a multi-millionaire's entire life he just didn't know it or he's a poor guy his entire life and he just became wealthy all the way at the end of his life and then he would say um and we all are multi-millionaires just we don't have the code or we don't want the code we don't take the code we could have it it's right here we have to cop it whatever the Negan is concerned that the money is buried somewhere a papa my time so if you look at the chart here you don't have to look at the chart but we have two three roots in here why is the money in a pile Revit says because we're talking about a healthy guy and we're talking about a situation in Miami Florida they're all three together and he says the money that you already have it's a it's a big call then give it to so-and-so well papa says no we're talking about a sick guy and the money has to be in front of us because since he's sick we don't we we're concerned that maybe the money is buried but isn't around a very good chat says [Music] by the Freeman Family for our sisters even guys oh we're doing Zoom for because we have eight minutes left Michael Siegel Sting from Vegas let's see if we can Pat you in a year then in Vegas he's from borrow Park originally I think are you able to get him on assalamualaikum we don't hear you oh they hear you on Zoom that was doesn't do us any good Gary somebody's driving a car on Zoom all right we have to go back a different time maybe it's for shirt well somebody's gonna have to speak to having factor and then we'll get him back on you're gonna you're gonna have to go into his office after this year foreign so let's just do this for a second rap says in this case as well in other words even if Ruben is not it's not a nice sin and a a MAF kid and a Macabre we're talking about a regular loan you guys notice the smoke coming out of Reuben cigar he gives him alone he could tell Ruben guitar the borrower I want you to pay the loan back to Levy instead of paying it back to me I want you to give it that way so then it doesn't work because we don't go in reverse says repop is saying that the guy is dying but our mission obviously is not talking about a dying guy how do I know so it's a long ride a very very simple one bottom line is that a dying person doesn't have to say give the get all he needs to say is write a get give a get is for normal person so let's see it inside yourself that once he dies you don't give a get to the wife and it gets driven to the slave time of the mace it's only because he died but you would give it if he's still alive time it on with no it's because he said the word give holy so why does the missions use the word is when a guy is dying he doesn't have to say give the snap a guy who's going out in a trailer this is the best I was able to find the real picture from Missouri or something you see that thing around his neck that's a coilover that's usually when a guy is sentenced to death would wear one of those so guys dying any minute they're about to hang him he's not messing around he doesn't typically if a person says so he wants to be matira's wife or whatever he's playing around but over here he means business just he's so confused by the situation he's about to die any minute he forgot to say and give it to her so because again he doesn't want her to have to go through the even process so you give you write it and you continue what he probably meant is give it her because even somebody going on a long long distance trip in those days is very dangerous he also you give it even though he didn't say give it is a guy at his Deathbed so according to shizuri a guy who's dying doesn't have to say to new so how come our mission said no obviously we're not talking about a guy that's dying he's gonna have to show it again but this case right over here that a person lent money to somebody else he doesn't have to take it back he could tell him listen instead of paying me back give it to a third party yeah let me play a name if you did it in front of three people the three people that are part of the story The Mao the loyva and the macabo then it works um I think that raps Allah should only be when we're talking about collaterals I have a maneuver lawyer but when it comes to amilva this shouldn't work what's the difference between a milva and collateral because collateral is tangible alone is not tangible it's just I have money in the bank where's my money what there's a pile of cash there's just numbers it's not tangible you owe me a million dollars what is that where's the million dollars it's just something it's just words the problem is cesareva raps it is it works even on the loan I could say give it to so and so and there's no Kenyan done there's no action taken it still works the diamond mine what's up shot oh man says I made me a beautiful thing when you took out the loan you said it's as if you said I obligate myself to pay you back and anyone that you decide that I should pay back the Mela I accepted about you asked me where was the action when did I take action where did when did I lift something up that I should give it to a third party you know when when you buy the money when you borrow the money all the way then you would you agreed that you're gonna pay it to Levy or to or to Yehuda or to you decides who you should give it to who that other party is but when did you take action and accept it by yourself all the way in the beginning these are mamish London says ravashi unbelievable what you're telling me is that you borrowed money in 2020. you said you're gonna pay back to anybody that you decide you want me to pay it back and what about a baby a newborn baby that didn't exist in two in am I allowed to give him back the money slush done you you couldn't accept upon yourself that you're going to give it to somebody that doesn't exist why they weren't there at the loan and you're gonna tell me that doesn't work that doesn't make any sense it should work for anybody in the world why the affiliary mayor and the American answer the question a Feeling remember holds they can transfer you can convey something that doesn't exist like fish that I'm going to fish tomorrow in the lake if I catch a fish I'm giving I'm conveying it to you now and transferring ownership right now to you but it didn't happen remain old I could do it but that's because I'm conveying it to somebody that's alive I'm transferring to you and you're alive but remember admits that I can't give a fish to unborn baby I can't say oh the fish that I'm going to catch next year I'm going to give to the unborn baby that doesn't exist today that remainder agrees that it doesn't happen that it doesn't say the other McDonald's the person has to be in existence hello maravashi top of your dial number now the question again is how in the world in this case of Mama's lotion how does the money that's supposed to go to ruven go to Levy nobody ever took action nobody lifted up you know you have to lift up a Suitor you have to lift something you have to do a miser you can't just say words so in what words what happened what action did the Reuben's money go to lady says that what shimen owes all the money to Ruby the middle guy owes all the money through it says room you don't have to pay me pay lady oh this whole Sheba this this terrible pressure that he had to pay back the loan just evaporated and now he feels like he has he could start all over again now he has to deal with a new guy Levy lady's not going to come to him that day and say hey pay up he's gonna get 30 days he's gonna breathe now so that extra breathing room is and with that I know he's misshabid himself to pay lady the captain louder the very tough people the the the family of el yoshif they don't give you 30 days they come that minute and they asked for the money so you're going to tell me that you're not going up so you're going to say that hold on a second so the what's the problem at all I have to pay immediately instead of Reuben I have to pay lady that minute there's no annoying so how in the world does shimen convey it to Levy without any action if you're gonna say yes so I guess we can stop here but before we stop I just want to say because we said Rebellion barely I just want to tell you a quick story about rebelie Asheville I can't go by the word Elijah and chance I'm not saying maisa a beautiful story I think before you get up tadik and make noise there's a tremendous Gula to be a sandic by a great grandchild's wrist so I believe wrote him back and said there's a bigger's Gula to learn a daf gemara is the best Gula and we should remember that instead of flying to different countries Maybe gemara instead of going to you know you know what I'm talking about have a great day have a wonderful day foreign