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we just finished daphne
we just finished daf members which is
today's dive
and now for all those who haven't heard
this year
or haven't learned to daff we are gonna
do daf mem alef which is the first day
of rosh hashanah
and it promises to be a fascinating
fascinating daff
more so on amid base it actually talks
about the
it's amazing that this
daf was learned on rosh hashanah and has
everything to do with rosh hashanah
and gives us ideas and concepts in
yiddishkai
that are unbelievable to me
at least i don't know how to rate that
it's not good to rate
things like that but let's call top
three
you soid in yiddish kite so here we go
we're holding the
moment base four lines from the bottom
says rabbo what i asked
who's fasting on shabbos he fastens
i'm sorry arab shabbos so
there's a shiloh today that the
shahnarak says we don't really
fast anymore hasidim used to fast based
on this gemara
sadiq would fast on arab shabbos
now we know that it's an israeli
fast on shabbos and
this also has a little bit to do with
rosh hashanah because you know a lot of
places they have a
kiddush before kias
because this idea of not fasting and
we'll see a little bit about that what's
the idea
what's the problem now what comes out is
very interesting
it's ulcer to fast on shabbos even for a
minute
but i go to shoal i'm in trouble for
three hours on a typical chavez wherever
long it takes
if there's hazardous or no hazardous
isn't that fasting
i'm not allowed to fast for a minute but
i'm in show for three hours
i'm forced there i can't i can't do
anything until i come home
so what's the answer the answer is i i
also fast when i sleep
the answer is that if i say that i'm in
a fast
i'm fasting right now that's a problem
but if i'm just in shul and i'm not
eating i could eat at any given moment
so here's the shiloh i'm fasting on
friday
when is my fast over i taste i could
have
him yeah i have to wait after my rev
usually after nightfall
but those few minutes of nightfall i'm
fasting and it's shabbos
how could i fast on shabbos even for one
minute
i can't eat at that minute because if i
eat it that minute i break my fast
so i'm forced this fast and i'm not a
lot of fast
yeah i go to show and i dive in and i'm
fasting but i'm not
fasting i'm not forced to but when i'm
forced that's a problem
guy sitting in a tightness herb shabbos
so let's just be familiar with this word
lashlumi means
finish it up into shabbos go into
shabbos fasting finish the day
let's have it be all day he didn't know
also the camera we have to remember this
name
ravi who the who's ravi huda rav's
talmud
schmuel's talmud he didn't know
oh my raven let's figure it out
ourselves the sanyo
tishibov what about tisha with the falls
so eric tish above we know we do sudama
suckers
and it's a very schwaka meal you can't
eat meat can drink wine you can't have
too tough shilin you have a little egg
with it
but it's shabbos the the the sudama of
seconds falls
i don't care about this above now this
is our
case right over here khalil is tisha
barbara
what if tishaba falls out on friday
listen to this that's our shiloh could
he finish the fast
all the way into shabbos mma he fasted
one minute on chavez
whatever a few minutes on shabbos or
perhaps yes the break is fast
on friday wouldn't that be incredible
you have to break your fast on friday
tish above you're going to break it
before shikiya
says the moro
he's not allowed to be starving he
you have to you have to make sure you
eat you have to not be
fat uh starving well that's not good
coming into chavez
so he eats an egg on tish above believe
it or not
that's what says right now in fact the
mother says
we're once in front of rebecca
same story tishoba was on a friday
and it's getting really close to shabbos
and he's fasting and he a lot now let's
go into shabbos fasting
the villa beit samuel gallus they
brought him
uh an egg that you could spin so if you
remember in southern shabbos i brought
two eggs to sheer
i spun one who it flew around because it
was it was cooked
the other one was it goes around one
time and dies
so mugu gallus means that i can spin
around nicely
it says rashi luyaraco it's like
a runny what do they call a runny
something
no soft boiled egg a runny boiled egg
soft boiled egg okay
basically i the way i understand it is
because it's kind of gross
most people don't like to eat that ugh
and in fact he didn't even add salt to
it it was really gross
the point is he wanted to break his fast
river kiva
by eating a cabeza that's how you break
a fast he ate a cabeza
on friday right before shabbos with a
gross food called
a soft boiled egg without salt
over here says and i have it over here i
think most of you should have the
rabbino canal on the side
he brings urbeno and i'll read it inside
it says
rebecca that year was very sick very
very
very from the maya the riven
that every tish above that falls out on
a friday you're supposed to eat an egg
very dick
didn't pay attention he didn't realize
that rebecca was very sick
and he didn't he passed into based on
not accurate information
now because of this piece of information
that revenue
tells us so we have a better
understanding
in the next line verb is
not true i don't care what happened with
ribbit kibo says would be oic
because based on urban canaano what
happened with the riverkeeper was a
one-time thing that he was sick and
that's why he broke his fast
on friday on tisha buff can you imagine
eating an
egg on tisha buff who believes such a
thing now
yeah today it doesn't happen anymore
there's no tissue above on friday
the only fast that could happen in our
days because of our calendar is that
sarah betavis
this year very good
all right so rebecca says you um
again the word of martial means i finish
my fast on friday i don't care that i'm
going in the shop is starving
i don't care that i'm fasting on chops
for a few minutes
it's more important says we're going to
see to finish your tish above
in a fast um
don't you agree to me when tisha falls
out on sunday
maybe right think about it
if it happens right tisha but falls out
on a sunday when does the fast start
rabbi say
does it start when this when the when
you see three stars outside
you'd be a fool if you waited for that
if you're eating shallow sugars until
three stars
you're gonna break you're gonna break
bishop off so what do you do
you got to take it back a few minutes
let's say you go uh
five minutes let's call it you want to
be mama five minutes
but your middle of shallow shoulders so
think about it you just
ate mamma's like you fresh like a hazard
because you lateral because it's shabbos
you have all the foods in the world
you push it you can't put another if you
put one
grain of salt into your throat you're
going to throw up that's how full you
are
it says reverse it doesn't matter if i
am
telling myself that i cannot eat anymore
why
because right now is tish above right
now i must start my fast with tissue
above a few minutes early
meaning part of shabbos and fasting
you agree with me that you have to stop
a few minutes earlier um
and we had this last one a few times
already of all means yeah you're 100
right
you have to stop a few minutes before
shabbos goes out
oh my god
what is the difference if you must stop
five minutes before
shabbos is over middle shadow we close
shop we say no more eating
isn't that fasting on shabbos
and what you're saying and fasting all
the way going into shabbos on friday
so psoriasis would be i see you finish
your fast on friday
and we don't care you're allowed to fast
on friday just like a lot of fast and
shabbos
if you're allowed to fast on shabbos
that means five minutes the end of
shallow shoulders you'll have fast
so you let it fast five minutes on
friday night i'm not worried about
fasting
into shabbos for five minutes so what's
the obvious answer to what rabbi you
said
um what's the connection
he's mama satiated he just ate like we
all
eat at a pseudonym of seconds and you
keep her we eat and we eat and we eat
and more water more water we're going to
the bathroom for a half hour straight
afterwards right
we manage it we can't eat anymore so of
course he could
stop for five minutes before and it's
not considered fasting
tomorrow but the guy just fasted the
whole friday he's in a 24-hour fast
he's gonna arrive in shabbos
completely what's the word meditated
yeah he's completely
what's the word somebody no
dehydrated no i said he emaciated okay
whatever the word is
he comes in mom is starving he's 24
hours in a fast
that that's awesome to come into shabbos
like that
isn't that a very good title what they
told him
and a second later it says no it's a
great taino
he's right but still rubios is right why
because of what we said before the point
is not how full you are the point is
when i
don't allow you to eat because i
logically you can eat
so you could be as full as you want but
right now i put you in a fast i put you
in a logic fast
and i said halachically you cannot put
one more piece of food in your mouth you
can't take another drink
that's a fast and that's us sir and if
it's
mutter and if you're telling me that's
okay and everybody said aval it's okay
it's okay to be in a halachic fast so
that it's okay to be in a logic fast
heir of shabbos as well then i'm allowed
to go into shabbos starving there's no
difference if i'm starving or completely
full
the point is not inui the word moon is
not so good here
the word is fasting and not fasting
bottom line is
if i'm a lot of fast five minutes at the
end of shabbos even though i'm very very
full
it's still cold fasting so my mail i'm
allowed to go five minutes
from friday into shabbos fasting
halogenically
and yes you're right you're very hungry
it doesn't matter
fasting is fasting is fasting it doesn't
matter before shabbos it doesn't mean
you add
on choppers if i'm allowed to do it on
chops then i'll let it do it arab
shabbos
and that's why that lock is like ruby i
see
says
this is a very very long mishna
i don't remember such a long mission in
a long time it is
and all the way at the end of the
mission it says you don't make a
tightness
you don't decree a tinus on
what's the common denominator of these
three things
there are special days
it's not a mayad
but it's not a regal it's not a it's
a lighter kind of day in terms of
yamthev
so don't make a tightness on those days
and again if you just came to shirt to
hear this simple rashi
because if you were reading it just from
the art school maybe
i don't know i didn't look in the art
school to see this one but i'm assuming
that if it says
why is he on the screen i guess if i see
him a lot of people see him
he's losing this okay very good that guy
should be on the screen yeah
so if if you
start you think that it means if you
started the fast no it means if you
start
a set of fast in other words
a person decides i want to have a fast
every monday and thursday
whatever whatever his thing is and he's
starting two months before
not realizing that one of the mondays is
purim
he forgot that's been mishrila
he started a month ago as fast not today
this
he started a certain set going in
then you got to go with your set you
have something going go with it
div ripping him leo
excuse me over a mayor availability of
little imam seeking
comes with mayor and explains him leo
even though he says
you fast
until now we were saying means you go
all the way into shabbos fasting
you don't finish the day very
interesting you fast
let's call it uh just pretend it's 24
hours
but we start from the morning 24 so you
do 23 hours and then 52 minutes whatever
it is you
you do most of it but you have to break
it all the way at the end hey mesh limit
you don't finish it off why it's
important
it's kind of cool you don't do it
listen to this
falls out on a friday ain't much limit
you don't go into shabbos hungry you
break the fast you eat
eat an egg without salt
versus the
after his nifter eddie told everybody
this is what you do
comes with yeshua and he says no you
must finish the fast
you must finish the fast
so yeah
before we pass can like rip you see will
the passes like your reality
that you break the fast before jabba's
yeah what are you asking me for um no
that you're a lot of fast on chavez
you're a lot of fast
okay fine no so you're passing good
nicholas
the body goes after the head
and this is on rosh hashanah we're
learning this the
the entire year goes after the beginning
on rosh hashanah
right it's murdoch the whole body goes
after the head
the whole year goes after the head of
the year in other words
after rosh hashanah whatever you're
doing that's why they say you shouldn't
take a nap on roshana
too late this year next year don't nap
don't they have havana don't fight
then you have to ask uh robin person you
can't look at no mission but it's fine
that's fine no no for people don't know
how to read you're right 100 percent you
should ask every person
okay yeah no i'm saying i'm just saying
you're right you
you you could ask for a person it's fine
okay don't think twice about it but
i i i recommend you should read because
you know you actually learn
somewhere every day so i don't know what
you're asking
i don't know bishop every day like you
you learn mr brown you're going to ask
for a person what's with you
this is my phone he's just reading from
the screen he's just quoting what
himself says i'm telling you look
yourself in the machine what do you need
him to to read it for you
nevertheless he's not arguing with his
time is he
okay so so you could look by yourself
what the first time said i know what you
want
you're
the whole year goes based on rosh
hashanah and if you answer every person
you're going to be asking your person
the whole year
we break the fast and you're telling me
that you should be muslim you shouldn't
break the fast
we don't listen to you
that you break the fast but derish
that you don't break the faster of
shabbos you go tish above into the
shabbos
hungary what
is that a fact that when he was alive
everybody agreed to him i'm leo
i gotta use this sparingly it's not a
joke little sips
it's a joke a joke says good morning
so very interesting there's a family
snob and bin yaman
who they donated wood to the base amigos
to the
okay not bad
they donated wood and then there was
zaika to have
their word brought on asura above
what days are above
so they made it a yanthaf they made it a
yanta for the rest of their lives
forever for generations
asaraba became
now every time every year it worked well
tish above
they had a fast and then they had yantef
now that's a problem right there why is
that a problem you hear a lievy
why is that a problem tish above is a
fast
a sore above is a yantef
that's our suggyo could you go into a
fast you fast into a yanthiv
you're not going to fast even for a
minute in yanteff
says the gemara so one time
with we pushed off
that year that tisha fellaini was in
itra
to sunday and what did they do
so tisha fell out on their yantaf
asar
we fasted and we did not
and we broke the fast why do we break
the fast
because it's our yantef we can't fast
the full tissue above on our yanthiv
we broke the fast says
but on a regular year every single year
how did they have tish above go into
their yantef
it doesn't say that they broke every
single year of the tish above
only that particular year they broke the
tishava because it happened to be
that the whole day of tisha b'av was
anasar above
and it ruined their yanthiv but
on a regular year it was okay with them
that this above
went into their yantev for a few minutes
ah if tishabhav goes into the yanta for
a few minutes they should break it
according to everybody
leo you break you break tish above you
don't fast the whole tish above
and when did they live snuff in the in
the generation of
so you see that even when leo was alive
not everybody agreed with him
um
i shouldn't say it's obvious but we're
talking about
a made-up yantuv it's only their family
snub
and you know what is on a made-up yantha
like that
if somebody feels like fasting for two
three hours on a yantha making mama she
fast
he's permitted he's permitted to make it
fast
oh so if he's permitted to fast for
three hours why shouldn't be able to
fast for five minutes
as as jantef comes in the macabre their
special yantaba sorry above
they're fasting for five minutes nish
kefarla if they can fast for three hours
they can fast for five minutes sometimes
then if you could fast for a few hours
you could finish off this above
and not break it shabbas butter
our sugar we started off asking what if
is fasting area of shabbos he's fasting
going into a regular shabbos
since you're not permitted to fast even
for one minute on jabba's
name by obvious and therefore you can't
fast that one minute
where friday connects the shabbos you
can't fast you can't
call it a fast omar of joseph
how many times do we have this in chas i
can't count i can't do a search because
it's always different than shyness but
it's many many times maybe next time
around oh we should start over here
start counting
how many times review was very sick
and as he got older he forgot all his
learning or a lot of his learning
and many many times it's a bio
especially a buyer who reminds him and
says no you did teach us this
and he taught it to us here and there he
brings it back to him
um i never heard of this that what
what said that allah is
that you finish off the fast not like
bringing him
ill you finish you don't break the fast
let me remind you rebbi you did tell it
to us
a new fast honor on a rich dish and a
purim
and you explain to us on that omar have
you done and reviewed
those said in the name of here review
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argue and say that you should finish off
the fast
so again
is you finish off the fast says
said review say it and allah is like
what you meant is on everything on the
whole sentence
that's our case right now lawyer
that's not where reviews have said it on
a hanukkah purim and
not on irv that on earth shabbos they
would agree
that you don't finish the fast you break
the fast
okay and i'll prove it to you
because if argue on
the entire set on area of shabbos as
well
as ravi that's how we started off the
daft today
the question was what happens if atomic
hawking is fasting on area of shabbos
and eric chavis goes into tisha ball
into
he's fasting a fast on earth shabbos and
it goes into shabbos
should he finish his fast under shabbos
or she break at the last minute
and what does the gemara say there rahul
didn't know to answer
and ravi who did they didn't know to
answer but yehuda just ii
said over in the name of rav what allah
is
mashlem you don't break the fast
review there look at the words
who says it oh my rav you who da on my
rav
so you're asking ravi who does shy law
and he says i don't know whatever
i don't know he said i know very well my
rebbe rav
told me that you're muslim you don't
break the fast air of shabbos
so obviously he wasn't talking about her
of chavez that's right
obviously he wasn't talking about our
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is that a good raya they tell me rav
didn't know the answer some stomach
rav never said the halacha on arab
otherwise he would have said the answer
was
in the name of raven is also the first
one that says i don't know
and all of a sudden knows that in the
name of
when they asked ravi says i don't know
if somebody's fasting on friday
going into shabby should he finish the
fast or she break as fast i don't know
and over here says in the name of ravuna
mashlim islam you finish your fast you
don't break it
right now you didn't know the answer
ella we must
because there's two perries in rapuna's
life
the period he didn't know that allah and
a period afterwards that he found out
aloha
so
there was a point when they asked her of
yehuda and he didn't know
but later on he heard from rav mafurush
that muslim you don't break it fast
it's okay he was younger he didn't know
like garcia
he asked ref person and now he knows
that
this is the marsupial that we just
mentioned a second ago
and this is how we pass in miss limin
so a person is fasting on friday ada
sora betavis
which is going to happen this year you
don't
break the fast and sorry potatoes the
last minute
just to not go into shabbos hungary
is you finish the entire fast
make a note of this so get here
yeah oh good point
is that you're not allowed to make a
shabbos
you don't make a suit there of shabbos
there are people that
do they call it tayameha the whole thing
they bring out the kugel and the
hozak it's not so uh
oyster halton but you certainly should
not go into shop is starving
so it's a you don't have a suitor you
don't need a lot
you don't because you want to go in with
a with a with a taiva to eat
but also you don't go in starving
says
lift the guy up unfortunately it's
unfortunate
this is crazy
shed a shed goes in or otherwise known
in english like a mental illness
a guy is like a schizophrenic or
something
he pushes he doesn't he's not
controlling himself
and he brings himself
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he finds himself outside of rome he only
has four amis
hekziru but what if they bring him back
kilo loyalto so this is tremendous
kiddush
if they bring you back into the tomb so
nothing happened you pretend
it never happened they took you out they
bring you back if they take you out they
you you remain there you can only go
four hours
but if they bring you back then
everything is gevaldeg
wow
i just want to say hello to a few people
here i see my swedish friend
are you still in sweden
he doesn't hear me okay fine
and having mandom the baltic how many
mistakes avi
show me with your fingers how many
mistakes did you have
you had one
zero see this zero the nays
anyway fine mama schnitzel
it's uh it's the the rookies luck the
rookies always you know they the
the first time you give somebody uh
somebody put them up to bat they'll hit
a home run that's how it goes
says what if they take this guy and they
bring him to another city
i blew all i don't know how many coils i
blew whatever the scooter says to blow
what oh 100.
okay fine
zero experience i know it's killing you
obvi it's killing you this
amateur anyways here
we have this uh this is we had this
before this is called the deer
this is an enclosed area that you take
your animals you put them on the grass
here
so they they uh the manure
whatever okay fine to fertilize the
field
and then this is a temporary one it's
the same idea
and this is the permanent one this is
where they live
here's the house we spoke about it
extensively
in other sugars over here the point is
that there's a
offense so it's like
it's a little bit there a bit sorry
so that's what we had on duffman base
which we learned before
but we're not going to tell people on
youtube that we learned it before
oh i'm supposed to say
very good i appreciate it thank you
but that's uh our number base but it's
it's better later than ever
mahalo is cool what
oh you showed it okay
he has the entire
rush
he's stuck in a little box that every
human being has
no matter where he is even if he's
interested in me as daladavas that's it
why because rebecca holds that
right that he's in a russian
but you have to be in that region
before shabbos they put him there on
chavez he doesn't have the right to
to ship the karuma over there and then
beam around his
mushrooms
they came this famous port
and what happened was let's see if i
have the picture here
for some reason i don't see it maybe
it's here
oh yoni draws it very nicely
and basically their ship came in but it
blew away from the wind
okay so here's the ship it's here's the
port
and they got blown away
means that it went from the shallow to
the deep so it was blown away
remember
they decided it's like this deer that we
just had
they had an entire ship and we learned
already at the end of this
is it the walls that are kind of or is
it because the ship moves fast
and you keep on getting four ammos he'll
just cool up if you sure here are
giveaways
so you see over here in the picture
where we keep the holes you get this
little box that's it
and leo gets he got the whole thing
according to him girl you got everything
according to every game you get this
little box
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is going to discuss what does this mean
either they hold that it's mother or
they hold it it's also
why is it a hormone
they didn't get into the port rashi says
he uses that lotion
so they come in the very busy
they're constantly on these ships a lot
of mice with them on the ships
all these annoying the famous
they show up into the port when it's
dark right it's already shameless
i noticed and look how yoni draws this
and this is accurate based on
what we're going to have in the gemara
he's looking in the telescope
he's looking not a telescope but more
like a tool
it's a device that you look through it's
a scope that could tell you
the distance you are from the shore and
this scope tells me that i'm less than
two thousand almost from the shore
and in mela i'm part of the city so you
can debark whatever the word is from a
ship i have no idea
what disembark whatever is that the word
from a ship
disembark from a ship because yes it was
traveling but was
it was within the tomb of the city
there are three things that will make
you lose your mind
and make you rebel against akash barclay
your master you're kind of the one that
owns you
that's going
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how many of you noticed today today
in tashla we dabbing about these three
things
it says
it says in other words we're asking
and it's very important to notice on
rosh hashanah again
back to rosh hashanah we're asking
that we shouldn't lose our mind because
once we snap
it's too late then we're not we're not
we're not in the parish anymore you
can't do misses if you snapped
and you can't dive in when you snap that
you shouldn't be snapped you don't even
know that you snapped
so you needed daven beforehand arnold
schwarzenegger you need to down for
these things you need to dive in
i should have a normal brain how many
people are islam nervous breakdowns all
these things
you don't want to snap you snap it's all
over it's it's too late at that point
unless you heal but when you're in a
snapped mats of you're snapped
so you got it down before and the rosh
hashanah
that what the could force you
going movies that kind no not over here
it means they force you to do
some bad stuff veruachara is
mental illness a shade rashi calls it a
shade comes into you and drives you
crazy
and struggling with paranosa struggling
with paranasal could cause a person
to be overall unfortunately
they'll cause him to lose it to snap
or to rebel against barco
the main afghan you know what the
majority is telling us information
oh it's not too late as seriously made
true is also
a time that this hashem be mata
it's right here during that shoot
special
rachel our twitter works
says the gemara ain't roy gehennam
unreal there are three people that are
not
going to get him they're not going to
see it even
hey luhay depends if you want you have
all three of these i don't know
maybe all four
neos if a person struggles with pranos
and a person who has intestinal disease
viruses and if he has creditors
those people are constantly knocking on
the door or nowadays they constantly
call you on the phone
credit what's with you what are you
going to pay
running away from debt
it's incredible because a person thinks
themselves oh i wish i was wealthy i
wish
this i wish that but the the duke and
being poor is what saves a person from
gehennam
unbelievable a person who has a bad wife
and it could be i mean the bad wife is
the extreme example because the bad wife
is within the
your dialed almonds your whole life you
go home to her
you're there with her you're always with
the bad person
but it could be a bad child it could be
a bad neighbor
bad employee a bad employer
in other words these people that cause
you pain and aggravation
they save you from ghana now isha raw is
mamish
she'll save you it's interesting to note
it's not really spoken about and maybe
it's a little taboo but
you know that's what i'm all about the
khasanesh is known
he married a woman who wasn't a hundred
let's call her not a hundred and what's
very interesting is that
he was engaged and he knew that she was
not with it
but he held that it's a bigger issue to
break an engagement
than to get divorced and he suffered his
whole life from it
he also suffered from the name he had a
terrible intestinal disease
you still learn a lot laying down but
it's unbelievable
ishara that could cleanse you from
gahanna
i don't know if that was one of his
awareness i wouldn't call her raw but
she was
not a hundred caused him a lot of time
if it's such a powerful thing isha a
woman who drives him crazy every day
so how come it's not in one it says
three things
anios
it's a mister to divorce such a woman so
you're not going to come to the
you know my favor my one one of my
favorite jokes it's a mitzvah to say
this joke over
as many times as possible i actually
i was once honored in chicago
at a dinner and i said this but i turned
it around i said it about my wife
sort of and i said that my wife
i got but i said the bottom line is that
the whole place is on the floor
i said that my wife went to rav and
asked
the rav what should she do
she was overnight vera what kind of
caparas the ruff said
go go marry the biggest mishogan in town
so she went around and she found me
that's the device
so she marries me
and i was such a good husband you know
the first few days mom and she was nice
that's that
and i see that she's not she's like
she's she's not
what's going on there she's not going to
get the capara the rough promises the
guy is normal
the guy's mama i bought her flowers the
whole thing
breakfast in bed so finally she plots us
and she said
i heard i heard things about you why how
are you so normal
he said you think
that because of me you're going to get
canadian no way
not for me but anyways so
this ishara you have to divorce israel
sometimes you can't divorce her
sometimes you're stuck with the issue of
why
too expensive what if you're promising
the sub a lot of money and
you really can't afford it so you stuck
with her
you know me or isla bonami no
person has children with her can't
divorce her with a muslim garrosh law
and a boy's eye here comes the assault
one of the biggest you say this in life
period
the main afghanistan afghan if if you
don't get
gonna get it from it you do three four
says
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to accept the tsar didn't accept
the whatever you sure who gives a person
whether it's struggling for paranosa
whether it's a terrible wife
a terrible child whatever it is to
accept it
behave it's unbelievable
i think if we think about it a little
bit
most of us go through isurum right
everybody has their little peckle
their little thing it would be a shame
to miss the opportunity
the gemara says you should accepted me
ahavo
and if you don't accept the mahava then
you don't get the benefit of these
surim these surim are there to to clean
you and not to see gehenna
as a crazy far-fetched example
again taboo one of my friends
unfortunately lost their child in a
drowning accident
and a relative of his called me up
to tell me that it happened that day and
they were crying on the phone and said
why did hashem do this
why kid is so young
four-year-old how old was she six or
four i don't remember anymore
before you just
why did i shouldn't do it she was nifty
at six it happened when she was four
she lived for for like as a vegetable
why did hashem mama's tennis i'm trying
to and i think
listen everybody if she would have
accepted it
then and there at the same time then you
get
the full benefit of of get if a person
accepts it 10 minutes later
you get benefit maybe not the same
amount 10 years later
it would be a shame and a waste if this
person still has that time
what i'm saying that's an extreme and
that you can't judge a person such a
massive
but it's a it's a sight for life you
have to accept it
the assume right there anyways he might
all might as well benefit from it
there are three people that are nifter
as they're talking in other words
without any
without any warning also poof the nifter
i find this also it's very scary vey
lohan
what are they people that have
intestinal disease
i could say maybe my mother who had a
pancreatic cancer it's the testinol
it's like this it's it's unfortunately
very very quick
the o and a woman who gives birth is
very quick
with draycon and this is a little scary
if you look at rashi
hijraycon and the first thing that i
thought about is
our neighbor mrs epstein who had a
highly epic
and she was mom and she was with us and
talking and everything and all of a
sudden boom
this man was just getting married right
over here it happened within a day
she was up and then she's lifted
there's a lot of kids out there they'll
say why do i need to know about this
disease that i should run around as soon
as somebody has a healthy passion run to
the tahrir's door
the iguana is a big sight when a person
has one of these diseases he has to
start
taking care of his business he doesn't
know when it's going to happen
so melee has to write it savvah he has
to pay back his javas
he has to get his stuff in order because
he doesn't know when it's going
to happen
if a person deliberately goes out of the
tomb
he had no right doing it so he only gets
four atmos shito
now if you think about it look what the
mishna says
first words in the mission
okay so the mission tells us a story
go ahead and pick up this guy ma imagine
he's at the sharpest meal go ahead come
in lift him up
bring him out of the room and they start
laughing him you can't move you can't
move now
they do him a favor and they bring him
back to his house
but the mission says two things the guy
brought him there and the guy brings him
back
what if he himself went there and the
guy brought him back
or what if the guy brought him there
and he said what i mean sugar i'm going
to stay outside in the desert
the entire night he runs back home is he
allowed to go wherever he wants
what's the obvious answer
the mission says only when it happened
both ways
there and backed by a guy and if you
yourself if you want to be in the
diagram of michigan if you yourself do
any one of those ways whether you went
there
deliberately and the guy brought you
back or
the guy brought you there and you went
back hira
you can't go anywhere it's only when you
have that condition commissioner
so let's go through it here yo
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okay so that's the first case of the
mishnah so of course if you go by
yourself you don't you can't go anywhere
elo das what happened was the guy
brought you there
and you came all the way back
isn't that also me foreign
what if the guy brought you there and
you decided to run back home
you were over at home i don't care how
you got there so it's a big rachmanist
they brought you there
but you need to stay there and if you
come back you don't get your full
2000 ammos you only get four hours ela
maybe the shot is yattle das you went
there
you were over on the aveira you went out
of the trump
what's the big killers over there the
mission says two things hoytie you
have zero they brought him there and
they took him back and if any one of
those things you did by yourself
okay says the same all is
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and you came back by yourself
i think that that's a different allah
that if you went by yourself and the guy
brought you back maybe it's as if you
never even went anywhere
and you could go as far as you want
because the mission is telling you
two separate outlaws he says come on no
the mission is telling us
the only way that you could do whatever
you want and go wherever you want
is the guy brought you there and brought
you back
but if you went by yourself and the guy
brought you back
no good two more lines
reclining what if a guy
is stuck in the desert in the four ammos
he can't go anywhere
but he needs to go to the bathroom now
he can't go to the bathroom in front of
everybody
that's embarrassing
not embarrassing yourself in public is
pushes off
that mitzvah or the average saucer
now obviously other averages we learned
this a bunch of times if a person's
wearing shatness
and that means he has to take off his
pants and in front of everybody he must
do so
and other allah has that covered up
brioche is not
the erysis but this allah of the sausage
they have to listen to the talmud
togathel that it does push off
says the gemara so may allah if i have
to go to the bathroom i can't embarrass
myself so
i go to the bathroom
so i start walking out of the home
if he's a smart one
he starts walking towards the city
doesn't go in the opposite direction he
starts walking to where there's people
he says i need a bathroom i can't go
here because everybody looks like he
keeps on walking walking walking
and then he finally finds himself in the
city
oh once you're in the city kevin d'allo
now he can go
throughout the whole city as far as he
wants raboissai have a wonderful year
a wonderful day a wonderful week bazer
hashem
i shall see you tomorrow morning
i don't know if i have prepared yet but
something will happen another we're
waiting for ness maybe libby will teach
it to me or something
and so have a wonderful wonderful
evening