Daf Yomi Eruvin Daf 13 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good voch everybody how's everybody doing tonight's sponsors is by michael stern mirroring by solomon i told you i don't know how to read it who understands sponsored by david dimbert as in urgent schools for slammer for nephesh for or force a gulf for my daughter hannah gabriella that's esther and eloy in science and in torah kayelet mathematics an outstanding wonderful daughter sibling wife some when i get these texts all the words are backwards so you guys could understand it you don't even need a college borough this is a self explanatory but it's in different order i guess so david dimbert's daughter should have a reforest lama sponsored by mark steinberg from chicago first yards out of my father avraham bemisha aaron who was born in wausau poland wars of poland in 1930 and with the help of his uncles was able to leave in 1938. somebody should have an aliyah the hylum should have a reform here's an email from philip sandser this is what philip looks like and he writes hello rebelli i'd like to thank you for your wonderful sheer i came across the share during covenant and i needed to catch up because of my stint with covet i really enjoy your candor during your chair you give a gift schmack to the enemy you make us laugh and cry each and every day besides an aravind there's nothing to cry about i mean maybe you guys are crying when i talk about lucky over and over that's also something to cry about but not a lot of jokes not a lot of humor but today promises to be one of the most amazing daptum of all time it's amazing to have thanks for joining us you're going to love it uh but most importantly you make the dive accessible to all walks of classroom i was very impressed when somebody who didn't belong on zoom did some inappropriate things on the chat some of the responses were to let ellie connect with him to turn him around recently my family went on vacation to colorado and south dakota i was able to keep up with the yoyomi because of yushir you share may have been the only time i learned in some remote places at the time it actually enhanced my vacation beautiful i felt fulfilled that i was able to give convey a time to learn on my vacation i used to feel like a hypocrite when i would tell my children to learn you know those fathers my boys i sit down and learn and then you turn on the tv to watch the local news game like this it actually yeah so it used to feel like a hypocrite when i tell my children to learn before we go on a trip for the day now i can proudly say that i didn't just tell my children to learn rather i showed them my wife certainly developed a new found respect for my dedication i will miss the 10 15 mountain time share thank you efraim sanser don't be fooled by that hat a lot of terror going on underneath that cup all right rabbi sai here we go daf we're a little bit behind but we're going to catch up azer hashem today is daf lee lu nishmasi no need to remind me anymore um josef please send um gary the lilu nishmas of dr list house not yossi klein omar rav yehuda marab we are holding i remember like 14 lines from the bottom of you based on the base says ravi huda in the name of rav now when a mother is a square a lucky doesn't work on it so we're going to discuss now the difference between a mother and a cutter a mother is like a street it's narrow and long akhatar is square square um different thing in other words they both say in the name of rav that a lucky doesn't work and a car doesn't work two different people from the same rebbe rav when it comes to a square a luck and a cure don't work it needs to look like a mother act like a look like a duck it has to be long narrow and narrow and long says the gimbal oh my god i love says i love what they're saying even the argentine if they're identical the width and the length they're square heavily hotter then a hatter has more of a homer than a novel a hunter again you have a house you have in front of your house you have a hunter a courtyard and in front of the courtyard like one or two dump into this typically rash she says two we're going to see if funny rasheed actually says one and then how many houses dump into the courtyard typically two and from the courtyard it goes into the mavoy you have basically four houses usually going into one movie two katseros each cutter has two houses that's typical so the hutter has more you do your private stuff over there that's what you do you barbecue that's where you take care of your stuff you you put your calum over there so hakamim said it has to be a little tighter a little bit more privacy so how much you need for him we were learning until now is a macho a broom a string a mashup one thing i don't understand is he passed mashup in history i don't understand why i need fort falcon says the gemara does anybody remember i hope i mean like the guy was saying i forgot oh yeah i was just watching one of the uh sumim of one of our friends from barbara park his first team ever he sent me maybe i'll read his email tomorrow and he says in his scene he says listen i only retain one or two percent but that's okay i love it does anybody remember what we said yesterday about rebirth how much lucky you need rebecca said fort fuchem what else did he say he also said i'll give you a little hint you all said a broom in certain situations what's the situation if you put the two lefties on both sides then you could do a match with a mashup if you only use one legend you need fort fahren so rip zaira paschal forgot what the bitcoin said he's uh he's asking why don't why can i use a broom because your girlfriend said you can't use a broom it's a it's a it's a hotzer in a hot seat you don't use brooms in a movie number one it needs to be long and narrow like a typical mother uh is you have houses and cateries that open into the mobile again you have your houses we don't need to show the picture again right because everybody knows okay fine we have it here might as well show it here your houses they go into concert behind this brick wall and if you notice closely there's two doors here one two on this side one two on the other side and they go into the alleyway into the mob what's very interesting is that rashid mask says and how many houses go into the hot services wow this contradicts all other rashes that i'm familiar with and they obviously discuss it rasheed says there's only one house that goes into okata okay now it happens to be that just real quickly there's a little tyson's here levi can pass mastered illustrate rip zero himself says tysons knew about this fort falcon business so obviously he forgot about it he didn't know about it he learned about it later great vases what you're coming to exclude a circle what because it's it's a funny shape you can't have a lucky obviously if it's longer than it's with heavily mobile then it's a normal mother it's an alley then it's okay to do villain and it's not longer than it's with it's a square have a hatter then now once you have a cutter so this is the point in the gemara once you have a cutter how can you make a cutter into a mother how do you extend i want to get away i don't want to do it for a fourth fuck i'm lucky what do i do sober smalling thought for a second that if you have a cutter you have a cutter and now you want to make the cutter into like a mavi so what you have to do is you have to double it up that's what he thought why because it's already a concept so to undo the bad you have to do like a lot of good you can't just uh add add another inch to it and say oh now we're dealing with the mother you're talking about a hudson hutzer is a terrible thing a khatsu requires fort falcon so you can just say oh and from today on by the way i'm calling it a mother why because i added i brought the contractor and i added three inches seshmull so you have to add you have to double it up going from a square you have to make a rectangle you have to make a serious rectangle this is what my uncle said a filo mashup what's interesting rashi brings here and there's a rashi in i forgot where it was it was in sight i think it actually says and of dalit i think it was the rashi says and explains more that what am i looking now this camera is working okay says rashi very interesting he points it out that rav the father and mother of rav rath's father and mother were both the brother and sister of rafa a brother and sister married each other to have rav well not be isser they were step brother and sister they shared a brother they both shared it's unbelievable rav the galadar his parents shared a brother who's also got ladar's name and said that if you want to take your cutter to go and make a cutter into a mavory all you need to do is add a tiny bit so that now it's not a perfect square now it's longer than it is narrow and therefore it's like a mavoy and a mashu a broomstick or we'll see when i don't know tomorrow maybe yeah tomorrow that a little string is also enough for lucky you don't need ford for him review there's a is only up till four hours anything less like this yeah and rebecca says yosef is saying no good oh youtube is is not good yeah but i'm i i'm hooked up to that thing okay says comes along and tells his talmud no there's no sound everybody's saying no good youtube youtube or zoom zoom no good every time gary comes it's a problem here we're trying to get a better system up and it's ruining it just go my mic yeah is this better all right robots uh here we go no not still not good oh that hurts the zoom hear me not hear me how about now better but your pastor says no good yes you said no good what's going on why not why can't we learn straight it's zoomed they don't hear me okay hold on maybe you move this thing push that's not can we just do this straight normal let's go back i don't want to i don't want to do anything now i want to do a regular chair shut this new camera off and let's go to the regular camera and show them okay okay hold on why not i want to show everybody what oh this is the the new camera that's why it's not good okay he's playing games with me can i pull this out please i'm not going to help you to pull it out old town please thank you we don't know how to use the system we don't have uses we'll try it out during the day all right you get here shut that off sorry everybody sign it's work it's on okay he tried he tried to fool me this guy this guy told me that it's fine and we're going back to the old one he's playing games with me what do we do that's the guy no what do you want okay how does it sound now revoice i sound good okay not good nobody's answering me okay fine brand new sheer i'm starting all over that vidal forget everybody everything that happened beforehand says is only up to four amas that's what says one talmud i'll tell you the secret it's ramayana ramirez says it's up to four hours says rabbi kiva al zev what's so exciting why is everybody laughing what what's going on here it's not true the mccoy's is on everybody is yeshua's baby wow who are you there's nothing to do with enough very very disappointed very disappointed all right that baby should also have a a great life no no i was hoping it was going to be a deaf baby says the gemara rebecca nutanakama it's a very hard question to understand i don't understand it a hundred percent but i saw that they asked what i don't understand in other words rebecca is just saying over what the tanaka says that's the basic question but really he's he's trying to tell the mayor that what he's saying is not true so what what's the big deal the gemara understands it's a problem rebbe wouldn't have repeated it twice what he should have said is that what you're saying is not true why does he repeat over the same words that the kanakama says what we had yesterday one of the others say that below fort fakim you don't have to do anything you don't have to put a large so it's coming to say that one of them either ribakhiva or the tanaka say below fort falcon we don't have to do anything says the gemara villain and we don't know and we actually as rashi points out we mentioned yesterday we don't know if is the one that says below four you don't have to do anything comment that says it and finally it's been days every day another kaira another two lucky's two and a half luckies three fucking one thefa there's no room to send any jokes finally we could say i'm gonna have to say jokes so we said like last week two weeks but just just to say them says kivo the island love this joke and when this is a joke they have to repeat every half a year so we're going to repeat it today once asked him akasha in cheer and he told them what you're saying is not even and then another bachelor asks you he says the first guy didn't even ask susan and now he's on the madrid so rebecca told him this talmud what you're saying doesn't it it doesn't even start it's impossible what you're saying is true and then the gemara says but what the talmud said is true says never said it it's impossible that like rishma would say such a thing how's that that the rebbe said something to fool his tummy them to see if they're paying attention and then they they scream uh oh and then he knows that they're they're on the ball over here it's different over here says the gemara there will be kieva told ruby mayor he said what you're saying is beautiful not the halal is like you were mayor it's impossible that rabbi shmuel said what you said but you mushad is such a beautiful vart i'm telling you what you said is murder and when you see her a boy's eye i see an unbelievable thing you're talking about ribby mayer rebbe mayor as we're going to the gamora is going to discuss who remained is tonight we're mayor that the greatest of the great he was the rebbie of rabbino akaddish the one who wrote the mishnais rebeca had a given compliments says rashi that when others told me them see how rebecca acted with ramayana they're going to be jealous they're also going to want to say good shot them since he saw it for life i'm talking to myself you're telling me then you have to give compliments to your children you give compliments to ellie what are you doing you got to give goblins to your children and it's unbelievable if i'm saying if tan name tanayim had to say give compliments to her be mayor and to the other talmudim so certainly us in our generation we have to do so this is the gemara he said oh i hear what you're saying you're saying very good you're saying very good but of course rebecca understood that shmall never said it you want to see rashi rash she says i know that is very smart it's um that he would say such a thing yet he gave him a compliment what you're saying is a beautiful thing oh it's beautiful uh below four almost yeah okay great unbelievable mama is unbelievable when i was at rubish mall learning this is this is rabbi schoenberg's suggested you see him you guys see him right behind me this is just getting out of hand i'm gonna have to lock my door from now on i used to put this cancanton chemical into my ink and it causes the ink not to be able to be erased very easily and the only dover survey small never said anything to me and when i started learning toyota by ribbit kibosh or ally what does it say here rabbi said what does it say here first he learned by ruby small and then only afterwards he learned by ruby kiva rebbe shmall said it's okay rebecca said kankantam is not okay frank the gemara amy i would put the special ingredient concat them into the ink and nobody said anything to me give it and say a word to me and when i went through small he asked me what's your job marti i'm a cipher that's what i do for a living you could learn a lot of things from here but i guess a lot of people or old people had jobs done he said he asked him he said he knew right away he's not just rabbi may or tom said but what do you do for a living so oh i'm a cypher okay great well you have a very difficult job if you're a cipher why what you do is clay coitus what do they call today this is a big job so he says you got to be careful if you miss one letter or add one letter and rashford gives examples for instance if you say instead of hashem you say instead of ms you take off the aleph so could be mace hashem i don't want to say it but instead of ms also you have the word mace you destroy the world or instead of dabber every single time says veda bear you put the word the letter vav and that's veda so that's one thing now the so rashi says it's very specific words that you can destroy the morale asks why is that destroying the world it should just say you're a kaifer so the morale learns a different shot i love this shot he says looks in the torah in his tire that he hadn't created the world if you miss any letter within that tarot something similar that the whole torah is is a bunch of shameless hashem all the words it's all hashem's names in different ways so if you take out one letter then then you destroy the world because who created the world with a complete torah if you're missing that one letter somewhere anywhere in the torah you destroy the world that's how the morale learns so i just want to point out here remember says that he was a cipher cypher the gemara mcgill david says that remainer he wrote a mcgill megillas esther valpe mar says how you do you have to write it from something it says remember because it's in front of my eyes i i'm reading it i see it like it's like like it's written they asked the villain or they asked i'm sorry they asked what's the difference between your brother absalom and velojin and the village they both know the terror by heart so the first verse of shiva of all yeshiva said that the villain going he has it written in front of him and that is if you have something written in front of you like if you look at yagamara you can start reading backwards so if i ask you to say anything you say ashrae backwards my backwards you won't be able to do it i actually knew a guy in bar park black i think his name was that used to read backwards you give him a dollar bill everybody in barbacoa knows this guy give him any dollar bill for a second and he he tells you the number backwards forwards from the middle of this that one of these memories he says le mans like and i once saw and it was on right now they interviewed they said there's 10 people in the world they identified that they have total recall one of them is a famous actress that was on the show taxi i'm not going to say her name now because we're in the middle of a sheer but what's amazing is that she was able to give her any date in the world any date in her life and she starts telling you exactly what happened that day she could tell you what she wore what she drank what she ate and anything just the hair any day january 5th 78 tells you but she doesn't even take a breath it just comes out so they asked her i saw this in 60 minutes they asked her what shot how do you do it she said i see it in front of me it's like right in front of me and it reminded me of that of that requirement and of the gemara of romere it's right in front so romero was a cipher but he had everything right in front of him the whole tire was right there he was reading it he doesn't need a piece of paper that says the megillah he it's right there so mara so he told me you have to be very careful because you so you have to be very careful what he said and all of a sudden he says a very strange thing revie not to miss one letter because if you miss one letter you destroy the whole world you add a letter you destroy the whole world a marty lawyer how does this fit in i answered him doing so by the saito right if a husband warns his wife not to be mitsuyaki with another man and she does anyways they write the parish of saita they put it in water with some dirt from the from the basa amigdas she drinks it either she gets a beautiful life and she gets a lot of bronchus or she has a horrible death but it says that you have to be able to erase it everything's right the famous gemara that that was willing to erase his name for shalom now how does he write a safety tarot from beginning to end with cancun time which doesn't allow you to erase the words now obviously we're holding right now that's a terrible picture it's fuzzy and wuzzy so but at the end of the day you're able to use according to this gimbal you're able to use you're able to use that parachute the torah the partial you're writing what we read in the partial saita you can take a scissor snip it out and you bring it to the basement and dunk it in water and use it that's what it says you have to be able to be able to to be michael i'm going to see if that's if not everybody holds like that says the gemara michael i'm earlier might come out today we reach more thousands and be very careful don't miss any letters he says don't worry about it i have a special content what was he saying don't worry about these chasers and this is where i should have said the story the buckiano ramirez says i don't make mistakes i'm a computer i'm not gonna i'm not gonna miss a letter whatever it is i know that's what i write down i'm one of the 10 people has total recall the reason why i brought that that actress is because a lot of people hey the villain guy and he knew and said yeah sure i'm saying there is something like that we know that it exists today there are people that they can they know hundreds of books word for word backwards four is inside out so it's not hard to understand that there's a good dialogue like that there's people that know the whole time like that must so what are you concerned and maybe as i'm writing that i'm going to miss the letter impossible but maybe there's going to be an exterior force called a fly he's going to land on my sab as i'm writing and he's going to push off a dial once i put it down on the cloth even if a bug comes and starts making a mess you're going to see that there's a tag over there you're going to see that's a dalid the bottom line is we're holding by the wide lines who did he go who did he learn by first the first bryson says he learned by ruby kiva that he went through small there were which one is it who said it saucer second price it says small set of sausage first price says it's required saucer sorry the first prize is it first learned by richmond they didn't went through bikini room kevin said it's saucer so which one is it but when he couldn't understand the word he was talking about in other words rebecca was so sharp that he was able to say he would explain to you the two sides of the coin he'd explain why it's oscar white's mother that mayor couldn't figure out is it us or mother he explained them so well why it's mother he wasn't sure they say muther he came out confused so he said you know what i can't come up with something solid over here i need to find somebody else. i want to learn but gave him all the very very clear allah was like this i was like that once he knew that while also the community of kiva of his sovereign svara then he went to learn mariki but understand how do you explain all the contradictions and how everything works and this and that as far as behind everything ella sora sorry but the two bryces one says the rebecca is the one that told him do not use cancun to him the other one says small thousand you shouldn't use a ken condom so who is it cassio good cash everywhere besides when you get in the torah when you're up to the parish of saita don't use it why because i can use it later on in the best amigos what's very very interesting is that remember lived in time when there's no saita you don't you don't write it for recital nevertheless when you write in other words in 2020 when you write a safe attire you have to make sure according to your mayor that the powershell of cyto you want to want you might want to use it for for for saitama but there is no saita but it has to be roy first of all no you could write you can count on the entire torah you're not snipping anything out of a severe torah the only thing you can't put concontinum is is the real passionate side that when it comes to the situation of a true saita then don't can i erase can i use the torah could i be michael from the torah in other words can i go over to the safety according to me i could go with this safety snip snip use it for a saita go to the you know the guy is so mad as his wife he goes cuts out of safety he'll worry about it later go to cypher and fix the story a different day right now he has to destroy his wife that's the most important thing so rubyakiv says you can't do that anyways you can't take it out of safety so the mother says beautifully leia so he can't go later and then she admits she says you know what i'm guilty i'm guilty if she says she's guilty this is the site that doesn't work so therefore he has an extra megillah what he's going to do with it he sells it to somebody else he says the more you can't use it it is okay um papa so perhaps the same kasha in a safe entire is that what if i wrote a safe attire i didn't write it for my wife i realized that i didn't she's gonna be a soy tomorrow so here shyle is does does the mcgill say they have to have the shma do i have to have intent for this woman or no the words are the words and the words work maybe something else needs intent maybe putting it into the cup in the basement is intent not this is a specific case where somebody wrote a megillah soyta iv he had a mind specifically for this woman so that's why you can't go to the to the next woman but when i write torah it's pariv it's not for that woman it's not for this woman it's for no one it's to read in the show so to read the show i could go snip it out and use it for my for my wife what's the problem he said something else the exact reverse he says perhaps if i write it for rahul but it's she's a saita so i have all the intents to blow her stomach out of this world and to do terrible things to her okay so it's a great star saito now rahul admitted to it i'm going to use it for leia but this is a good good start this is a star that could kill people but the torah when i when the serpent wrote the torah he was only doing it for the for for reading for laning so it doesn't have the the properties to kill people in it maybe that's the shot exact reverse logic i could give it to leia i can use it for another woman time out why is that any different didn't get a get we know this night because you have anything for me to say now even i wrote a get for a certain woman and then listen to this this is a crazy story a guy says like this is so there's a guy his name is reuben he's married to rocco he finds out that another guy ruvain has a wife rocco and he wrote a gift for his wife she says to himself like this i have a very good marriage but it's a shame that that guy wrote a get and it should go to waste so let me buy it off him let me put it to good use so the get is possible amish apostle today's turning of the daf staff on base sponsored by usher aymar literally has his mother rosa rosa i don't know the whole name we have to find it and by dr list house from allensville pennsylvania also leading us father who's lived to 40 years ago but today or yesterday was his 100th birthday and the whole entire month so by the end of the month we'll get the name straight dr kimar um so the problem is so by getting it doesn't work if i get it doesn't work why does it work buy a soyta you see by get you have to have kavanaugh you have to have the right thing i get it says you have to write to her for her list you should do it be nasil shema when you erase it and you put the dirt in and the water that has to be the shame that soil but not the writing writing is not important to erase it but not the writing the writing doesn't have to be small and here we go our boy's side beautiful stories from shabbos it's known in front of us or america there's no one alive in the darva mayor like remain named and why is in other words remember was so sharp that he could talk you into believing that this thing is tar and then when you believe that he'll turn around and talk you into and explain to you that it's stomach so they can tell me i'm completely confused now based on what i said before and that was i found it in the art scroll that's how the art school learns and the only reason i'm telling you that is because i thought i thought i had a shot here my cabrusa hated it so i have to tell it to you because he hated it so much i thought that maybe we're talking about like a miraculous kind of thing remainer when he learned barry vekiva he saw what it meant when a rebbe confuses you and goes back and forth and he couldn't figure anything out and he ran through small so later on when he became a galador he should have toned it down a little bit and not be so sharp with his tommy them and because he wasn't maybe that's why wasn't is not like him the lucha should be like your mayor he's the goddard he's the smartest guy in the generation but it's not i'll just say for some reason doesn't like that shock it's not a me that connected me though gary doesn't like it either ah go home i told you go home whenever you want just don't leave me with some video camera it doesn't work it works but it's a very fuzzy picture you need to change the settings his name he wasn't born mayor ella rebner he was born no right and his name was rebel right because he lit up his eyes in allah and then the kamaru continues there's a few gears here but we're going to go with the gear so that we're talking about somebody completely different narrative and there's another person his name wasn't what was his real name i think this is who killed that snake you know shimano so they changed his name to different than vermeer went from nairo to mayor and he went from lazar to tenerife but against the idea that light up light up most people goes rebbe someone goes listen to this this is even if you want to say it's rav also the reason why i'm so sharp he says i used to learn torah i was from the i was a young guy and as being from the youngsters i couldn't get a good seat to see my rebbe right in front of me so i saw rebbe from behind i saw you xiaomi that says here that there's a story once where mayor came to give musser to to rebbe's family he walks into rebbe's house and he says you know how to clap your hands and shabbos what's going on here you guys in champions we learned that himself and i'll clap your hands and they said well we're doing it backwards behind our back and he said you still let out clappy hours even ready saw him heard something going on a commotion he comes out and may ran away this is your xiaomi ran and rebbe looked out after him by the window and he sees his neck his soother came off his neck and that's what he's referring to because i saw his neck i once saw his neck the point is he says i i couldn't see his face when i was learning the push up shot is while we were learning i didn't see his face if i would have seen his front having faith and i would be a lot smarter a lot sharper this is really talking so take this here rabbi rabi hudan nasi the one the author of all mishnai shisha sirimishna says the reason why i'm so smart is because i saw the back of ramirez's neck but if i would see his front that would be much smarter and this is the remainder the rebechiva gave a compliment because human beings need compliments or that the other tell me them they're also on a high level they should get compliments they should feel good about themselves it's a musser it's mama moser everybody needs confidence humans need compliments says i'm trying to talk myself into it i'm trying to convince myself to give compliments to the different people in my life thanks thanks thanks for the calculator thanks thanks everybody sending the emails not enough emails not enough that that night on sunday that what's going on here why do i hear myself that sunday was a night of compliments i think i have enough compliments to last me for until the end of every minute at least until tomorrow i'm writing airmen the whole ceiling area and i'm high i'm writing it all the way through irvin his name was as if nobody ever heard of sumras the famous so i did a search some of those appears 90 something times in like as if nobody ever heard of this name it's a funny lotion it's like saying there was a guy named you you never heard of him he's a famous is famous for every tomah you would say 48 one less than mushroom or 49 he explained it to you in 48 ways tana another thing talmud vasily kayode is the older talmud in the avenue of the hamish there's a supposedly there's a famous saying in hebrew that you want to be with time of the sheriff's even not even a religious saying you want to be time of the shares in 151 ways 150 ways shailene was showing him what exactly what they want in other words without the terrorists saying that a sheriff tyre says shares his stomach but i could come up with logic i could come up with 150 reasons to tell you why sheriff's is not tommy the market is an example a snake himself causes a lot of death in this world he kills large animals kills human beings so he causes tomo but he himself the sheriff himself is tahar he may summarize a mouse never killed a human being can't kill a human being and certainly he brings a lot of like and he doesn't ashares doesn't bring a lot of time into the world he doesn't kill large animals doesn't kill human beings so certainly the sheriff himself should be tar it's a great alpha climber if a snake that causes death the snake himself is not hame you could touch a snake you're not tommy so a mass that doesn't cause death in the world doesn't cause tumor certainly says the killer is never taught me a gun is not tommy you could kill a lot of people to god doesn't mean that they got a stomach uh a thorn could kill a person doesn't mean that the thorn is stomach it's not a good aura this is a famous gemara you know it's a basketball remember this game giveaways the why is that in all of shafts they are both equal how a big discussion how's it possible tomatar they're saying the exact opposite no it's all a little direct says this is a murderer if they're both equal maybe they were very easy going and they were all over they were downtrodden whatever the word is how you wish the psychologists talk about this every time you go the the best uh the best idea for marriage is to listen you have to listen one of the ideas of listening is you repeat over what the other person says and hear that he says in this gemara that they still when they argue with it they didn't say what you're saying this is the oh what you're saying let me repeat what you're saying you're saying this and this and this and that but let me explain to you that what you're saying is wrong oh gave me shammai the proper covet and then they argue with them but the point is um so we still said and listen to these words when basil is telling me they say this kingdom of isham i went and only afterwards they say basil in other words as they're talking about they're giving the proper covenant to the shaman by mentioning in their story that came before basil because they did tell him most of the time he writes beside my before basila why because rebbe is a descendant of philip and he took on that anova of mentioning beside my before his own grandfather listen to this we got to remember this gemara a person that puts himself down because raises him up if you try to raise yourself up if you try to chase honor will run away from you and we run away from god we have a guy in our shoulder i'll be passing i keep on mentioning him he everybody asks him every day to be the rav he runs away the more they ask him the more they want him to be arrowed this is also great if you try to press the time you try to do business and try to try to do more than you try to push the clock it's going to push you away don't try to push it let it come let business come to you you don't push the business and if you say you know what time will play it out like in real estate if anybody has real estate you know what i'm talking about you have to have patience shane come on sometimes until you see some profit it takes 20 years plugging from experience you have to have patience you can't push it if you push it but if you have patience i'll come back to you it says the game our famous gemara two and a half years there's a big machine between the two hello everyone it's better that a person shouldn't have been created what's better to be created or not created unbelievable big macho is two and a half years hello everyone they decided it's better that a person should not be created actually you fashion myself but once he was created he should do juve we're talking about rosh hashanah or shana there's a beautiful shot here i don't think i have time to say it now but if you want stick around after i'll say it after sheer but i just do want to point out a very small very important thing that from this gemara again the gemara comes out of mascona it's better that a human being should not be created but now that he's created he should do chuva the the brings this gemara to say that that's why in the morning we say shalom shalom why why are we singing in the negative he didn't make me an arab she said shastani israel because the oyster shall i never so we don't want to thank hashem for creating us when it's better that we shouldn't be but at the end of the day create us thank goodness he didn't make us a dog he didn't make us of this but we created it's brought down in the back brought down in this gemara beautiful shot from the mccork if anybody wants to hear after sheer says the mishna real quickly that's it we're done back to ireland but there are a good few daft coming up soon again once again but this is uh this is a classic death we have to remember this gimbal all these unbelievable i got this thing how wide does the car have to be to be able to carry a brick what's a brick varria cathedral so a brick in those days was three by three you cut it in half it's three by one and a half okay here's the cairo here's your brick your brick is laying the the the cairo in this picture is the red and the brick is laying on the carpet so even though it overlaps the cairo it's okay it has to be wide enough to be able to hold a brick ubrion has to be strong enough today the kabbalah real strong in other words thick enough to hold a brick oh i just remember the crazy thing when i was uh bamish i didn't think about this before but when i was uh i don't know 16 something i wanted to become a lifeguard and i went upstate and in the winter was a whole story by itself but one of the things they made us do is hold the brick you have to hold the brick as you're in water for i think a minute or two minutes and tread water and there was an african american there who could not do it he's super athletic but for some reason he and floating didn't go together because he's all muscle no matter what he did after the entire thing he couldn't pass the test he just caught it anyways the cavalry you have to be able to hold a brick it's very important all the brick so the mishna cavalry orbiter embryo so it has to be wide alpha b chamber doesn't have to be very strong why is it surcashed with shock and what if it was made out of straw right nice so the mission now introduces a new thing called royin i pretend an imaginary being i have a being made out of straw the most flimsiest material in the world this just turned into ryan i pretend halogen that this is steel this is metal this could hold my brick so once i say the concept of ryan i'm going to say akuma if it's crooked it goes like this now what's amazing is that in my gemara um where is it oh here my gemara has this picture and i have no idea why somebody explain to me please akuma crooked it goes it starts low and goes high i have no idea where they got this shot no clue i'll show you a different picture all the other gemaras have it's literally bent in a circle not it goes like this it starts off at the same height but the middle goes in it dips down that makes a lot of sense so ryan again i use this concept of i pretend that it's nice and straight agulla what if it's round ryan here agulla gotta back it up okay here's a round i'm going to pretend that it is flat i just cut off the top part now i have a flat semi-circle square slightly an idea and we'll see more about it tomorrow i know all you math freaks are not going to lie so much but the point is that if it's if the circumference the the diameter if the diameter is one tava that means that we have three fahrenheit circumference so we need a tefl for our cairo so what you do is you measure the circumference if you have three others for governments even though it's round and it can't hold a brick because the brick will flip over i do right and i cut it i slice it in the middle and everything's good have a good evac if anybody wants to stick around for the shaft from the you're welcome to do so i'll give everybody a chance to to leave in a good way nobody wants to leave what's going on here name besham vasil whether or not a person should have been created in fact who created man then that's the right thing what do you mean is it good or not good cause you broke a creative man that's number one number two what's nimnu of agamru they counted what did they count what were they doing exactly that they counted so he says like this they want to see what's man create more harm than good he has mitzvos but on the other hand he has a varus and if he does have various he could create he has potential to create more harm than good so they said and i saw the same this part of it i saw the martial as well they they counted the misfits assay and the mitzvahs assay so there's 365 lois i say don't and there's only 248 i say so they realize that the potential to do harm is greater than good and then then they said you fashion so he says a very interesting shot i don't know if i agree with it a hundred percent but he says like this we know and at the end of the day he couldn't do a mitzvah the just the thought of doing in mitzvah has the potential you get the sky of the midsole yeah leave it on so so he says if so it comes out he wants to say that if you do the mitzvah so if you thought about a mitzvah you get sahar and what if you do the mitzvah you should get double star so therefore the assays are almost 500 now so 500 is more than the 365. and that's what's going on with government they counted how many assays are there and then you mash mission that's what he says your fat fish means i thought about doing it your mash which means i did it and then he says that's shat in the gemara in brachas says that how does a woman how did she go to the grenadine it makes a lot of sense now a woman has many less misses than a man but because she's able to send her kids to to learn tyra and if she waits for her so she's in her husband's mitzvos and therefore that's why it's better that you that makes sense that your mash machine you fast mesh that's what you're supposed to do you're supposed to have your husband's mitts first you're supposed to have your own mitzvahs your mixes actually add up more than you're average i don't know if i agree with it 100 percent that shot but that's what he says there is a guy by the way as says very different but the idea is like when you talk lash and hara you get to average but you also get a naveira for not learning terror at the same time you should be learning why are you doing average you get a double there so i mean there's some sort of idea like that that when you do a mitzvah you get the mitzvah for thinking about the mitzvah and the midsole interesting anyways agutavo