Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 81 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] oops good morning his the ransy he found one of my signs in Chicago you hear what's going on yeah okay that's what I thought hi reell first of all I have to thank you for M managing to engage me another ader in learning gar like never before I'm hopeful that I might actually for the first time ever complete Donnie this is your boy Johnny marks guy you love that guy I hope I love him too I don't know who he is he looks pretty G show sec um I'm hopeing that I might actually for the first time ever complete a one of my biggest Inspirations is seeing Donnie fine by name and by Nature my future neighbor the summer in his usual seat and I hope to be able to enjoy the year in real life is there a 1.5 speed option ADHD I told you I'm glad to hear that listening that's the problem a lot of people that watch on one and a half speed then they come to the live like you're so slow what's wrong with you I'm glad to hear that listening while it's walking exercising driving is all good I hope this picture below oh I forgot somebody sent um a email I should have read it okay about uh he wasn't so excited that you're learning while exercising I hope this picture below in my ice Barrel is on the it's okay list here's the picture I wasn't sure but why not push some buttons over there all right at least they got a nice uh curse hug and looking forward to meeting you soon good chabas Johnny Marx London Johnny marks therapy [Music] counseling I just had the pleasure of being at your father North Miami Beach although it did not come close to the size of SE had in attend in Connecticut the room was totally packed including your son iron and everyone there felt the very very privilege to be such a wonderful Sim given by Reb's father although he a relative newcomer to Miami already has a very large FY who waited in line for a very long time to get a br from him face lit up and I can see him smiling from here when I told him that I was talet of yours you can't imagine how much he has from you and even said so in his speech may all of us continue to have n's good health and happiness from RAB stefansky senior and Junior uh David Gray wow check this out for Speed return of all the hostages that's it that's because Y is in Miami somewhere oh did I show I didn't show the video it was in the other sh okay we show so before huh you have it you want to show it real quick show real quick why not in lie of the sponsors today tomorrow the everes tonight it's ever with the bilc family give Al okay they're enjoying themselves there while we don't have sponsors over here W what a okay two people walking down the street and uh one of them with the kosher phone looks at his friend that has an onos phone says can I borrow your phone for a second borrow the phone and it's difficult for him to you know like type on the phone so he he says he tells the friend here take my phone hold it for a second he does his thing and as he's doing stuff on the phone A guy walks by grabs the phone and runs so the guy that borrowed the phone what is he he's a sh he borrowed a sh everything right so that's the sh is is the guy that lent him the phone is he considered B is he there with him helping him working for him and the answer probably yes he's working for him why because he held his phone for him he's doing him a favor he's holding him the phone once he holds the phone then the other guys ped from everything even negligence we'll see so we'll see a little bit about that in today's we're holding six lines from the bottom let's say he give you suit in to the tailor and he calls you up and he says listen I'm done come pick it up pick it up don't forget the money the tailor is as long as he's working on the Garment is but once he calls the person up he lets him know that he should pick up the Garment and bring money in that order pick up the Garment and bring money then he becomes a why because he's saying in essence what he's saying is I don't want to watch your clothing anymore I'm done I'm done as I'm not watching it come pick it up so let me ask you a question what if he says the word I'm done huh he says come pick up your clothing bring money then he's done what if he says I'm done huh same you guys say it's the same awesome says the you call up your friend you say can I borrow your bikee he says yeah she says okay could you send it with your kid sure as soon as the guy sends it it's on the way it didn't even hit the borrower's housea and the bike went five the car died the borrowers from the time that it leaves the lender's house [Music] zero pay attention over here when you say that you want you want the item it didn't didn't come to you yet the guy says okay I'm sending it he sends it you're so the same thing in Reverse when the guy says can I have my item back and you say yes okay you can have it back and you s that's it then it's not it's not in your anymore then it becomes [Music] his now this is critical all this give it back to me okay I'll give it back to you and here it is is when it's in middle of the period of the of the sh in other words I lend you the bike for a week three days into it I said can I have my bike back sure let me send it back with my son boom it becomes yours it's yours because it's [Music] within listen to this very important once there is no more Lending I'm only allowed to borrow borrowing for a week the week is over we're eight nine days in I'm not a anymore you hear what's going on here I'm supposed to return it but I didn't return it now I'm a I don't know what I am you say okay hold on a second maybe you're I lent you my car you had the but to not return it to me it's over but you should return it to me you didn't return to me so at least take responsibility like what I get okay I hear okay these are all gal stuff all discussed by the G both okay good that's I just want to point out that you know think about it yourself what would you say but it says over here that one it's once it's done you hear what's going on here it's done I only Le it to for a week week's over now I'm not anymore I don't know what I am the is going to discuss soon what you are but the worst of the worst the the highest level of responsibility is over that we just read in the mishna that if the tailor calls up and says pick up your suit the shoe maker says pick up your shoes I'm done I'm finished and don't forget to bring the money he becomes he he DRS a level he drops from he drops to a what if he says I'm done just the words I'm done and you guys all said done is the same thing wants to it's not the same thing here it is right over here so we have on top is what the mishna says I just put in parentheses the guy is saying I don't want to be a sh anymore being a sh oh it's only because I said these four words what if I said one word done and the owner knows that it's done it's like in our case where the owner knows that the The Lending period is over he knows it we said once you know that it's over the owner knows that it's over the guy's no longer a sh over here he knows that it's over he got a phone call the guy says hello Mr Freeman yeah done so he knows it's done he knows it's over but we that only in a case he says come pick it up and bring money then he's not he's not a but if he says the word done so it comes out that even if the owner knows that the the tailor is done he's still Sher so then if so then the the lender even though he knows it's done knowing that it's done says the gamar doesn't doesn't uh absolve you of any of being a Sher okay he knows he's done still so what if no knows it's done you still remain I said I told you I'm done but you still have my you still remain a that's a you're right you could be why is there four words it should be one word done so obviously and are two different means that I don't want to be a anymore I'm nothing I'm would mean it's a great but not to the word rather to the purple means I don't want to be a at all but if you flip it around you say that means I'm still a that's the you hear it's it's the nice thing that you're making a de it's four words and whatever yeah the de should be that if it's in this order the four words are in this order pick it up in other words pick it up means I don't want to be a take it out of here get it out of here I'm done being but when you say it doesn't mean I don't want to be it means get me money right now I need money it's nothing to do with that's the deal it's a very nice deal nothing to do with done what you owe me money I'm still willing to be a yeah exactly exactly now Don would be like you guys said you just the word done is the same as you still I don't want to be I don't want to be a shimer I'm done you're not comparing this we no we tried to compare it and now we're saying that there's no there's no deal we started off comparing that's your yeah I saw when you you made a face that it's a little different that whatow here the whole owe I know okay so we're gonna see far we seear here we get we're going to get there the is going to touch all your points oh so what comes out he said don't the word I'm done you cannot from so would have the same it doesn't matter how he say I'm done I'm done come pick it up bring me money it all means the same thing I'm done I don't want to be a so three lines down it's the same thing as saying I don't want to be I want to so then the question is why it say four words just say one word done why why does the Mna say such a long sentence the guy picked up the just say or just said what's say beautiful you need just say one word I'm done certainly if you give a whole that means I don't want to be I want to when a person makes such a long Dr he's saying get the S air quickly and bring me the money I'm not even I'm not watching yeah of course if you write if you call up and you say I'm finished it doesn't mean I don't want to be anything but I would think that if you say these four words five words didn't fit into the things I took out the S maybe I'm saying something really strong powerful I don't want to even be nothing zero I think what do you mean what if if I time out if I if I put my computer in your house without what are you Mandy I come to your house you're not home I open up the door and put my computer in the front in your front in your Liv what what are nothing so over here also nothing your suit is in my store I want it out of here get it out of here I'm nothing so says we have something similar like in our that if a guy calls up and says these five words he flips from like you guys everybody said over that should be the same thing you just call up and say I'm done why cuz now the owner knows it's over it's finished he he did his job now it's your turn to pick it up he has the idea we're talking about knowing this the owner of it's similar to sh why is it similar to sh because the owner of the bike knows that the term is over he should get it back so the guy loses his his s once no you can't prove here anything to because the word is different he asked a contradiction in the mishna this is a name of person standing has the contradiction of one and he answered his own question n it says in the if the guy whoever he is the Craftsman he calls up and he says I'm I finish your shoes come pick them up I fix your bike come pick it up bring money so he goes from being a sh because the Craftsman is always in the shoes bike until he's done and he know you then becomes now this is the this is what's his name again in other words he's making and he's asking a that's what they used to say in Thea you're making you're making an assumption and then you have a Kasha so here here's his assumption not only if he says those five words but even he himself is talking the one asking the question he's asking his even when I say I'm done okay so then he has a question so that's we had before question from the B tells the owner please send that item and he listened to him and he sent it so if the when the time came to or forget the time when the owner asks for his item back so as soon as he asks for your bag and the guy sends it that's it it becomes the owners now what if he didn't ask for it back the borrower is still responsible but the OWN knows that it's over the period of time is over yeah we're talking about what we're saying that if he knows about it then he drafts from over here he knows about it like we said before when when when does he give it back when does he when is it when is it considered as if it goes back to the owner During the period of the sh once the owner you're right once theer knows about it he's not anymore Potter once the owner knows that the time is up then the guy drops from being the most severe sh to Potter now the question is what does he drop to no I'm before he drops [Music] to I think you said now that the period of the I lent you my bike for a week the week's over we're eight days nine days into it and somebody stole it if I'm a I'm if I'm I'm Potter I borrowed your bike but I didn't give it back maybe I drop all the way to am I still so what would be the difference what if the bike dies I borrow a donkey and and it dies so if I'm if you're certainly maybe he's only it makes sense that he remains and here's the saying that's once a person has from you you gave him you lent him the thing so he returns the favor you're not going to be the opposite of say the opposite in grateful INR what what ungrateful yeah ungrateful ungrateful you take once you take you a guy lends you something a guy's nice to you he says for no reason what no no no no no you're GNA no no no only out out dying you go from you you have a so you're going to take upon yourself responsibility of to me it's POS no like what where is thear yeah but where's thear right here you see that you see from the that's not counted as anything there's there's an additional you you you counted me you you looked at me you you trusted me that sort of thing are you here he's asking what what happens if I give it back and then I borrow again and I take it again minutes later no now now your now your no no no I'm just taking what you just taking it you're GH of tell me what you are you're Sher you let me a bike I used it for a week yeah over yeah now now you're tell I'm yeah I give you the bike back yeah thank you very yeah we didn't take it you borrow it tell me until you give it back you should be but again you need here in order to be again in order in order to be means receive no means you receive something to watch it you have to receive something physical according he's saying that not only you're you're buil in because you receive this item you get you okay but the saying in addition to that [Music] what did I say you said need something extra no what's the extra what did I say what was the for the you saying I hear the actual sh same thing okay fine same thing I guess you lend it to me because so it's said no he's saying forget that he he lent you an item to to to rent a bike for to rent the bike for a week cost $10 so he gave you $10 so that $10 made you that $10 made you until you give it back it just makes sense until you give it back you have to give it back okay we keep going say have today let's go let's go let's go let's go [Music] it happens today also you are not sure what your Kal taste is so you you get jewelry you don't pay for it you go to the store you have no idea right I think have no idea what my wife likes doesn't like no matter what I get and no matter what they convince me is is in style it doesn't work now I learned from experience it's really dumb to say take the credit card and go there CU then you avoid the whole the whole point is that you thought about her and you brought her and it's a surprise sort of this that and you did the work to say go take the CR it's not she doesn't want the jewelry she just wants the Thor okay fine so you no it's very important to this it's very important to this Su the thought talks about it missed you a lot if likes the jewelry and she wants it I'll pay for it I'm telling you this is exactly how it works today right myy you could you could I'm saying you could you could get a diamond bracelet a tennis bracelet cost $10,000 from the Jeweler he won't charge your dime if he knows you he'll give it to you you decide if you want it that's part of the tactic actually that's how they get you to buy it look at it okay oh sorry and if she doesn't like it it's still worth money why cuz she sees I'm thinking about her I went through the trouble I sent her jewelry terrible looking jewelry but I get points points are worth money I'll pay you whatever it is and somebody stole the tennis bracelet it's on the way to the but on the way back you're so you see over here this that he had have not get points that makes me from you didn't pay no pay oh but on the way he didn't pay yet on the way back he had a and he's paying for that for what but what did he get what did he get yeah but the calls it here but that's what we're trying to Pro that's the that's the point we're trying to prove okay we go so throughout we said this we had it in the last few [Music] also mean a donkey or wine in this case it means a donkey if somebody could prove it from inside the gamar why a donkey not why gets a thousand points he sold him a donkey and he told him when I'm gonna go to I'm I'm a car dealer I like to sell cars I see you have a nice dog I'm going to try to sell make a profit if I'm able to sell it over there great and if I cannot sell it I'm not successful I want you to take it back great deal didn't work out for him he couldn't sell it and when he's going back something happened to the donkey we just said with the jewelry on the way back your Potter so how come over here with the donkey it's different than the jewelry jewelry on the way back you become a and You by a donkey on the way back because when the whole point of the whole point of the donkey to sell it and to make profit so the guy doesn't care when he sells it he could sell it on the way there he can sell it on the way back so back and forth on the way back it's also for him to sell it's not like I'm done it's not like the jewelry on the way back if he finds a buyer of course of course he'll sell it so the way back is like the way there we said that if we make a deal you watch this item for me and I'll watch this item for you so you do me a favor by watching my item I do you a favor by watching your item so we both become we're both benefiting we have says in the this is a talking about a and it says that if the owner is there it makes no sense logically could I borrow your $300,000 car for two weeks I'm going toas for two weeks I B yeah and by the way I'm very thirsty can I have a cup of water so the owner of the car goes and gets you a cup of water so he he's working for you and he gives you the cup of water and then you start up the car and you go you're Potter from everything if it's stolen you hit a tree you Potter why because he was working for you when he gave you the he gave you a cup of water he worked for you got a cup of water he gave it to you so you become po because it says in the and that applies says over here brings from it's not only also says I'm watching yours and you're watching mine we we're doing things for each other I'm working for you're working for me so I'm not I'm from everything so we must say in order to to get rid of this problem is I'm not working for you now I didn't get you the cup of water now I got you the cup of water the next day the following day it's too late once you took the once you became a or that's it later on you do something for me it's too late it has to be at the time that you accept it upon yourself so the is going to prove Pro from these four words says Rashi that's exactly our case you watch for me I watch for you now the rest is not important to us because that's that's not where the question comes from I lend you you lend me you watch my item therefore I will lend you something or I'll lend you something and I watch yours we all become so what's the's answer it's because it happen at different times if I was walking with you and I asked you to hold my kosher phone and you gave me your non kosher phone and somebody stole it from me I am Potter why because you are holding my my kosher phone for me you're working for me you're my worker right now at the time of you giving me the phone I'm from and maybe even will see in a second question question if I say to you I lend you money on condition that you lend me [Music] money people that they were selling aloe vera or they selling detergent it's not important what they were selling they were selling stuff there was there was a group of guys they used to get together every day they needed to eat so they made uh how do you say Tan in English rotation you bake bread on Sunday I'll do Monday you do Tuesday Etc okay go break so the was his turn go bake bread I don't want my suit my suit to get dirty from the flower watch my suit now he's baking bread because he has to break bake bread it's his turn and they're watching his suit are they getting paid to watch the suit no if he didn't have to bake the bread and he's baking the bread and they're watching his suit so they got paid to watch his suit by him baking the bread the baking the bread is in L of them watching the suit he's doing something for them he's paying them to watch the suit but since it's it's his turn anyway so he's not paying them anything he they are and is parted from everything besides says the got back stolen they left his suit hanging outside the hotel and if guy came by took they came to he's making the bread while they are watching the the suit it happened at the same exact time he is working for them they there's no it's it's they're together it's it's um they should be PO says he was embarrassed that he forgot that we even have a picture instead of him baking the bread at the same time that they're watching they as they took his as they accepted upon themselves the sh of his suit the understood he was making bread no he was drinking beer so it wasn't at the same time it's like we said before one thing happened the next day so R was right he didn't know but there was not saved him from a from a bad why in this particular case they are because no he started making the bread like the thought they be they would be because happened the same time that they took upon themselves the says that's good what Wasa thinking if you learn and it's you could do anything you want you could hang the guy's suit out on a public Street and if somebody still your pot why because says that's say no no no don't don't exaggerate meant is if you did what you're supposed to do you're not you're not whatever you're not but that says that there is no concept of when so why was rep embarrassed he shouldn't have been embarrassed he passing right since they were says I'll tell you why there was no over there the story is different the story is that he's not a he's not he's not and what they the the the guys watching his suit we thought that they're because he had to bake the bread the answer is no they were cuz he didn't have to bake the bread he was doing them a favor or that was the payment for watching the suit day wasn't his day do us a favor and bake the bread who iow with that and now that's what he meant to say whatever know you have for me baking the bread that's what you that's why you should watch my suit so they [Music] became until they got there it was stolen so you don't even need to come on they are that's why because there no there's no now of doesn't work it does work there's no there's no here there's no okay no there was no yes in a case of he should be time out one second one second let me just let me just say then you'll tell me anything the understood that if there's a a according to there is no B saying there's no there's no here now what are you saying yeah [Music] correct yeah but what was the was that what that Republic didn't make a mistake but you you're just saying thata didn't know but he made a mistake but say he didn't make a mistake right right what do you mean nothing was there not it okay we don't have to get to it exactly I know there's no but we don't have to get to it and there is so he's embarrassed because correct if he would be don't know right that was the whole point so we switch from okay there's no b anyway there's no there's no yeah there's no B he was drinking then he didn't he didn't start the the the the B what Reas because they he said in exchange for me baking for you you watch my thing so the suffer is that they're that he's baking for them right yeah so what's the bab B be on top of the what it's different the and there's the sh and and he's working for them you saying that the work doesn't count because he's getting paid right that's that's that's suffer getting yeah you you want to take away the the the the sh part because I mean the the B of because he's getting paid for it okay fight I don't know sponsored that's more important bigger cup [Music] consultings the two people going on the way one was tall one was short the tall guy was on the donkey or on the wine whatever you want does anybody have a that that we were talking about a donkey before no the tall guy had a sheet made out of flags it doesn't get it doesn't absorb so much water it doesn't get so heavy the the short guy he was with a nice thick coat made out of wool and he's walking on by foot in other words if he' get wet he could drown like the the terrible M happened there was four on you remember that they they they went in they were swimming with their go and everything they got they they got slept into some pump I don't know crazy on when they got to the to the river here we even have a picture so the short guy takes off his heavy coat and puts it on the back of the donkey in the trunk over there and he and he takes the thinner garment from the tall guy and he wrapped himself with it says you know was much larger on him whatever it is and it got swept away in the current also so they go to and said you are he's working for you he slepping your coat and he's there what you know it doesn't have to be there he's working for you he slept your coat and he he let you his so why should you be got embarrassed at the end they found out the he didn't ask him permission and he didn't tell him you're working for me just put the stuff on the donkey no what are you going to ask n huh oh so I didn't understand I looked around even today I looked again so then why did they go to the guy's a the guy steals his thing and it gets lost so what was the hav me you shouldn't pay you go to what like he didn't want to pay they went to force him to pay okay whatever this is he didn't know okay didn't do okay and it got stolen it's not even it got lost I mean okay fine a guy rented out his car his donkey on condition don't go over there with his water I don't want water to get into the engine which reminds me of okay listen we're on a roll here we'll just say the joke why not men this is for you a lady calls up her husband she says listen there's uh water in the engine did they say this joke already no there's water in the engine she says do me a favor you don't even know where the engine is what do you this water in the engine she say no no there's water in the engine she says come come quickly she says but let me ask you do you know like do you know what oil is washing detergent like what do you know about these things this order in the in the engine so he says okay I'm coming where should I come to he says I'm in the middle of uh the Mississippi ashy ashy come on I'm half asleep oh it's my fault that was a sleep I'm half asleep I only two hours very disappointed in you Ashi when I need you when I need you what okay fine say we we're no it's we're on a roll here we're going with the with with these kind we're we're how many d [Music] 16 put to sleep go the place go in the other place there's no water over there doesn't listen of course and it goes through the donkey you're right I went in the wrong place I'm telling you there's no water what is that called it's like a he could have lied and said I went in the place that you told me to go on that road and it died over there by me being honest to you you have to also believe me said there's no water there the whole world knows there's always water there there's a con stream you're making stuff up that's already that's already um oh by the way my son is here y'all is here I'm asking you if I ever say a joke like that again just poor kid you got it okay good he's a [Music] so the the mission tells us the guy says could I could I put it down could you watch it he says put it down in front of me then that makes him a by him saying put it out in front of me that makes him so let's just show this the M says that makes you can be it's because I said put in front of me what if I say put in front of you so I'm making fun of you you do it yourself nothing more is going to ask what about the word the says but what about that's him telling him basically no way am I going to watch your stuff put it in front of yourself what what if he didn't say in front of you or front of me just said put it down it says you please watch this and he said with the word yeah the top thing if I don't have the word just the word it's no good make the deal from the purple because he said then he's not either not even just the word what yeah that's what that's what's coming up here I had no idea that I had I'm learning now you're GNA explain to me the connection so basically says you can't prove anything why because from the is you you you're nothing and from something which is a you bring a usually we do this in the this classic from the from the is nothing so since I have a Ste between the and we do nothing we saying from the by itself is nothing and from who lived hundreds of years later is the opposite of the Mish between and the Mish that's a little bit of a problem the that so this is the case in the reason why no remembers it is p because of this thing right over herei says you could bring your stuff in into my the guy says okay brings it into the this is like a similar yeah and then comes the animal and eats it that's so over here it says if the guy had permission to bring stuff into your property so the owner of the property has to make sure that an animal doesn't take from it why because when you say one word yeah come in that means I am taking upon myself responsibility of sh I'm being AER so you see a word come in means I'll be a so by also also the wants to say that the word means I'll be a over there he has to say specifically I will come in and I will be a Sher otherwise he po so here also re will hold that the word means nothing says what's the connection it's very easy to watch it it's enclosed when he says come in I will watch it when when you're middle of a street a busy Street then I say I ask you could you watch it and I say put it down I'm telling you watch it yourself what are you crazy I'm going to watch look how many people are going look how hard it is or I could say that the says there's no connection between somebody's private backyard to to what we're talking about the middle of the street because I could say the opposite logic now when a person says could I could I come in he has to ask for permission otherwise he's G for coming into your property so what did he do he only gave him permission to come in but he didn't say I'm going to watch it come in and watch it yourself you can have sit in the shade of my tree I have a bench whatever enjoy yourself I'm not taking responsibility in your stuff but in middle of the street maybe it's the opposite why is the guy asking him could I put it down why am I telling that guy think about it a guy says hey could I put it down over here you're middle of the street in middle of the miras I said yeah yeah you can put it down what do you mean yeah yeah you can put it down you're the boss of the street you give me permission to put it down so when I say yeah put it down what I'm saying is I'm going to watch it what he means to say is I'll watch it telling him you watch yourself has he needs permission to put it down he needs he needs he doesn't need permiss have a wonderful day tomorrow we'll have better jokes great he