Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 37 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning the I don't know [Music] what Friday morning B today I'm giving this year and another T hopefully can make it in the afternoon 2 o'clock Hebrew 3 o' Hebrew what a trip what a trip it was not a pate trip for me I might have paid with blood but it was very very inspiring it was unbelievable first of all the stories that I heard in the trip story after Story one of the the stories that I like to tell a lot of people a guy came I took a picture of him I don't think I should show his picture see Guy beard up to here he said he hasn't worn filling in 8 years eight years somebody introduced him to this she and he said the exact same thing I'll show you a video of another guy that said it another he said I started doing the D then I realize wait minut I'm goingon to do the D and I'm not going to wearin so he started wearing then he said I'm gonna I wear I'm not GNA say kids are one thing L now he's ding B minion and he is learning every day and he said then he came over to me the second I say and by the way I'm also not watching as many movies as I used to watch gal what we went to raise a million dollars and we we reached our goal we're at the the campaign is still going out we're trying to go get to 1.2 Bas will get there just the amount of people that were M that went out of their comfort zone so many people I'll show you I think it's close to 6,000 people donated money 59 something 100 people donated money and if you look right now they're still still coming in every minute another person another 100 another a guy you just gave $1,000 it just it just keeps coming in it's unbelievable um at the same time I was thinking to myself 6,000 people donated what happened to the 14,000 other people that watched the year that's interesting and if what And if every single person just gave a 100 bucks we wouldn't have to go to America like you don't have to give a 100 if you can't afford it a guy a guy gave listen to this a guy wrote a guy wrote to me thank you for changing your my life and thank you for changing my family's life and he gave $5 and I met him the month he said look I lost my job I said okay doesn't matter everybody give a little bit something interesting I want to share with you a a few stories very interesting stories that happened there this individual told me over his story there's another individual that was standing behind him that has given us that evening $25,000 when this story was over I'm going to tell you what happened listen to this interesting story hi my name is Ze ker I've been with she and the story behind it is my shed in Israel we didis and I poured my heart and soul into that M had all my notes and my sweat and tears and I would always go back to thata when I would have be having a hard time with learning because it was familiar and uh a year after college I lost my gar and it really hurt my learning moving forward I left it on a I lost it on a plane and I and it it really killed my learning um because I didn't have that familiarity and then 15 years later uh friend of mine said listen thei is about to start a new they're doing do you want to do it so I said you know what it's sure I'll do it and what ended up happening is that the shear really replaced that comfort that I got from that GAR 15 years earlier my sweat tears were in because I got that familiarity and that comfort from the that's really what the she provides it's not just Torah it's the Comfort it's that familiarity it's that warmth it's that love and uh keeps me going every day I didn't it story what a story okay so anyway he didn't learn for 15 years because he lost his gar that's I never heard that I heard a revi beating you up you know trauma this that his trauma was he lost his gar lost his gar he had comfort with that GAR with all the notes and when we started that was the that he so he took it on there's a man standing behind it he already gave 20 $5,000 and he heard this story and he said okay I'm giving another 10,000 so I told him afterwards I said aess and he heard this story did I say this story with this young 15-year-old also check out this story I said the story this story blew me this is one of the craziest stories I've ever heard the first time he said it was better than what he did on video he came over to me he said it with his heart and everything that guy that gave the another 10,000 heard the story also I said you have a nice that you didn't hear the story that would have cost you 40,000 check out the story introduce okay listen I have right after we made the Milli in many many months mom is one of the best stories and I want to introduce to you what's your name how old are you I'm now 17 say over the story what did you just tell me when I when I was 15 and a half years old I left um my I said she and I fell into a depression for about a half year I was in bed not doing anything I didn't get out of bed not to not put on film was a very deep depression once my father introduced me to the death with her belly I came out of the Depression started putting out phone because I couldn't do the death without putting on fil and then I start I started learning I got a job I do every day the D and even though I start getting right now I'm starting to catch up to where I am after I do the duff every single day right I finished about I 10 my life and unbelievable wait a minute you say the second part now you during construction during construction when I work I catch up to where I am after I've did the first you start from BR start from I sorry and right now unbelievable s years old wow so what's your name again can I get a can I get a selfie that was the last thing you said you heard can I get a selfie he get is is unbelievable no he he's learning the da every day but he's going back to BR and he already finished a lot of people start from BR and they get stuck in BR he did it he's middle of now and and he's in at a construction he does it on the job and he's only 17 years old it blew me away this m all right I think in M I don't know this is he met me in this is a man look in the background you can see the uh it says 1.33 that's like literally right after the hall thing this is a very inspiring story as well and you heard this a thousand times but it got me to think a little bit this is last night by perin's wedding at the wedding he puts up a a signup station for the garas now I don't know what that does to shalomay I know in my if I did that in my it would be all over I I I I gave a DA by my son's I don't think I'm going to give another D about any other Sons kasas ever again it's not easy so people ask all time I thought about it there are three people in mdy that I know of there might be more I know of three people that raised over $50,000 for this campaign Jack Razzy took me around to a bunch of wealthy individuals in the other one is M bski introduced me to some really great guys and over 50 $58,000 this one really got me to think Mark ashkanazi really wanted me to see some doctors my speech my this I was exhausted the whole thing and I went through a whole battery of test I still have to do a bunch of tests everything came out galic is still concerned because of my speech I called upon him I told I told Mark I was being start said listen I don't have time I came here for a purpose he starts telling me this and begging me and is calling me the whole thing I said okay you know what I'll do it on condition that you will raise $220,000 he ended up raising $51,000 and he told me today he said I only raised that because you put me on the spot I was comfortable to raise you know $4 $5,000 whatever whatever his page was when he once he start he started think about it and he said okay I can introduce this guy that guy this guy and that's what happened went to one guy and that guy he's the guy that brought the $36,000 guy because he put his mind to it so the my point is anybody could bring 1400 people to this year the question is if you want to if you want to you could how how could Paris because he wants to he puts up a sign as daughter's could you yeah if you want to put up aside by daughter's you want to hurt youas or if you want to make a fool out of yourself and stand in the middle of street and ask people to come to the D is it worth it for you does it mean something to you would you go over to somebody Middle Street and say hey do you need a mortgage CU they sell mortgages some people do that cuz that's their business his business is to get people to start learning the da so he got, 1400 people if you care enough you do it if you care enough you introduce atast to F to some guy that you know that could give $25,000 and it works if you don't care you don't care if you don't care you'll be from those 14,000 people that watch the shear and didn't even give1 doar to the the campaign galic some people care some people don't but the truth is Mark has a CES but he had to be he had to be pushed he had to be push put into a position of you know I told him that you know I made a deal with him so everybody think about it and maybe starting from today you guys will start pushing people to come to the D and come out of your comfort zone because cly needs it we got to bring more people to T that's why we raised this money let's make this money work for the better to bring more people to cl to Toyo here's one thing I uh didn't read yesterday I'm putting this charity page together because ever since Sunday morning November 14th 2021 when he remembers the exact date when I first typed D into YouTube and rebell stanski popped up with Tinus D B my life and the lives of many of my friends change forever some of my friends who haven't picked up a gar or even opened up the safe for years have now finished 10 or moreas since joining me on my mdy journey with rebelli the fact is mdy changes life spreads TI and creates a rear environment of incredible AK it takes a lot of very well spent money to make it Happ and no one should have any Bush trying to spread more t in the world I'm proud to say I'm directly responsible for at least a milon of most of the most diverse group of starting the maybe even more and even if you don't give me a dime to this page maybe even just exposure to it will get you thinking about starting the da and even better if you join me my friends and 25,000 plus thousand other Yen that have dedicated decided to change their lives for the better by doing the that with the mdy r belly beautiful I forgot what this is do you know who this is anybody remember who it is all right so this is hour before right now like an hour ago we're at 1 1, 168,000 we're trying to get to 1.2 B it's going to happen before shabas we got to make it happen this is 101y old this is Yakov L's father who still does the da with us and gay sent me this picture of him in the hospital beautiful picture with him filling learning the da and he gave us $100 I told y it's not 101 okay you know if it's expired him do 101 one I don't know his first name he's lock he's Mr Rabbi lock it's unbelievable and here's a very inspiring uh picture yesterday at the M you know the Hub where we were making phone calls this sad of who's immobilized in a one of those wheelchairs the motorized wheelchairs came to make phone calls unbelievable so this is as of an hour ago 5900 donors which is incredibly touching to me 5900 people it's unbelievable if you think about itous for the safe and Speedy return of all theages we have four of them a lot of people guys in zoom and I mean again to all the people took upon themselves Pages was the first time that we did it I this is the first time I'm introduced to this and it was for me it was a lot of fun I know a lot of people said it was like a game it was addicting y was it addicting to watch your page and Y you did a great job I have to say to Benny I walked around with his letter I don't want to cry I showed it to a few individuals that could understand Hebrews unbelievable he gave me a he wrote a three-page letter walked around in my from in my pocket right there just took it out at home the whole trip right here did I skip something for all that come from supporting um did I do framing a guy who was very instrumental in getting the whole n to do MD Prime facilit of the prior Baltimore daily learning check it's about the from his family of golden doves and by the way that family of golden doves as we were nearing the end and we couldn't get the push was like three minutes before the Clock Struck 00 we didn't have the money he stepped in and gave $118,000 everybody knows who he is the family of golden doves from Baltimore for honor of the Brit for intact your full potential tremendous success in all my endeavors also it's hard enough for me to read as I'm going to read now with this in my eyes easy child birth for his daughter like in the olden days it's went half a year without crying his daughter healthy baby all right huh days what two days no no yesterday was crying it's an emotional thing that came together I see I see this I have a 3D Vision of what's going to be p holding on on the bottom if we want we go here to this chart right over here you see this chart not that one so we have a guy that's renting cows he rents a cow for $11,000 the renter takes the cow in return cuz he has permission to do so and he lends it to some guy the guy that borrowed it had a mishap the cow died on him since he's a borrower he's fully responsible so therefore he's the child he has to pay 100% he has to pay $1,000 to who to theer to the renter the so has to swear that died and he doesn't have to pay at all to the cow rental agency says that doesn't make any sense you're making money doing business with somebody else's cow therefore the money goes to the cow rental agency you also told us what about this case oh no you paid for it okay so M first Mish just to remind in case you don't remember he leaves a p by a says please watch my goldfish that what that if this was stolen and the sh the guy that opens the door here here's a here's a here's a better one you ready this's a new one for today you please watch my money for a while he leaves the money it's now get stolen the Sher pays for the theft he doesn't want to swear he doesn't want to do anything so he pays with a smile now they find the ghav find the ghav who does the C go to so the Miss says the ca goes to nman n whatever you want to call him R who's not doesn't even appear in the mishna is going to argue says no the two bags the Cel go to the owner Angel that's his name Angel here we go even the first case now I need to know now I'm not a doctor I'm just going to say this I'm going to say this out there I'm going to try to go through the whole thing this is nothing to do with the so I'm not a doctor I flew from Mar is to Miami I was there for 24 hours uh party this that meeting people after midnight got home one you know how it goes up in the morning flew from there to Baltimore Baltimore I got a ride back to Brooklyn 4 hours the guy was not very familiar how to drive in America so my head I had whatever the entire I'm not going to he's probably not watching now cuz he's busy in America now I had such a headache when I got to Brooklyn boom sh two sh a day the whole thing from there one day one day in Brooklyn maybe one day get up 4 in the morning to catch a early flight to Chicago for chabas shabas starts luring in the middle of she it's still 4: or 5 in the morning for me when I gave the shum so they say I don't know how much I slurred I didn't even look back at it a lot of people said so I'm going to trust them I was tired no no got to go take a check but my brain is exploding no so check that out Chicago back to Brooklyn Brooklyn to Lakewood to mun to this to that you know how it goes no sleep no no no food okay I don't know that's my excuse could be something worse it's I yeah what I'm saying is that right now where am I right now right now I'm coming off a flight that I barely slept in in Middle the night in America get her it's not it's not kmak we'll get some sleep by by Monday we'll be okay so is like him what that's in a week that's after AI Kam's wedding at the dancing the whole night then that morning 4 in the morning we go to the he says yes find fascinating I don't know if anybody speaks about this RI argues on this case that we saw here I don't know maybe can show it again aru in this case and is like him guess what it's not even in the mishna his name is not even mentioned is like him he's not even mentioned here we have another source aru even the first one says no the fact is that he paid the the the guy paid so is not going to argue over there because he paid and therefore he gets to keep the K says just easy stuff what it's because he paid and if he only wants to pay it's not enough forget we're talking about says himself says you don't have to pay all you need is you're right you don't have to pay it's enough that he wants to pay says he talks to two people and he says I stole I'm sorry I don't know who I stole from one of your fathers G gave me a 100 I don't know who to return it to now as we're going to see the he wants to be he wants to do chuva so he gives each and every one the full amount where if he didn't want to be just speaking you wouldn't have to give each one a mon two people gave they said watch this item here we go not this one this two people gave the guy money one gave a 100 one gave 200 he doesn't know who that person was he doesn't remember and each one claims afterwards it was me that gave the 200 I want 200 back how he give each one a 100 and the the third hundred stays in a box until comes the bat says do this with me please I didn't have time this morning to make a chart but he says you ready starts with is L is we have so far Ellie hey this is the when you have a problem like we're going to wait for that's what he says he's all over with this he says the guy could always lie and worse worse he's going to get his 100 back and the 100 that he wants to steal will go in a box boom so here it goes oops let's do it again okay the whole entire 300 that's go in a box I don't know don't I know what you're thinking I got you have a one is worth 100 one is worth thousand they're both arguing they both deposited gave it to somebody to watch but when it comes time to give it back each one wants the better one says Rashi take the larger one you chop it down you break it in half and give the other guy 100 worth yeah you have like a nice silver Becker you take a saw you cut it close to the bottom you say okay here's 100 worth top garbage what's the bad guy going to lose somebody's making trouble let's penalize both of them I know that one of them is getting dinged for no reason but this is going to give the ghav a good reason to do chuva says the first case when a guy says I stole from one of you too Alma and what what's the you should give to each one the full hundred you have a take it away from them you don't say you don't say that way let the guy let the GH of hold on to the 100 and when we have a we have whoever it is we'll figure it out what about the second case two people gave the bank money one gave 100 one gave 200 so what do we say each one gets 100 the third part that we don't know what to do with how come by the we [Music] don't asked me a question from somebody depositing 200 versus [Music] aov the ghav he started he's a bad guy back then he was bad he did something wrong so said pay pay everybody 100 but when it comes to me watching your money I didn't do anything wrong I just forgot we have a contradiction from the we have a contradiction from what's the contradiction that's a case of of me watching in money I don't know who to give the money to you have to take out of your pocket come out of pocket you lose 100 all you receive to watch is 100 either from Ruben or either from shim and now you have to pay 100 to ru's kids and 100 to shim's kids the contradiction is what about when two people deposited this case that we see on the screen 100 200 and we said Each one gets 100 but this the money we don't know what to do with that stays until comes how come in the you have to pay out a pocket and how come in the saer you just say okay we'll wait until because is like it came in two different bags and you should have known you're a bank you're a guy that people trust you should look inside the bag and see who gave [Music] what it's as if they gave the money together why they both came at the door they both knocked at the door at the same exact time you're you came you're knocking together you don't care about it so why should I care about it I'm going to be careful you're not careful okay that's that in other words theor is telling us there's a difference if the guy watching the money has to take has to pay attention and figure out who gave what sometimes sometimes he does sometimes not if they come together he doesn't have to if they come individually he has to know who gave what if he goes He approaches two people he says look I stole from one of you and I don't know who he gives each one a full hundred very meaning the question is what about the famous case of this case I don't see five people whatever get the idea you steal a bottle of whiskey from five people now you have no idea who you stole from you want to do each one is claiming you stole from him what no no no it's one one from five he's behind he's small you don't see him short he's standing behind the thing so what's you take the B of whiskey put in middle of a circle Let them fight it out a bunch of drunks fighting out over this B whiskey look the ghav doesn't have to come out of pocket it doesn't have to buy five bottles of whiskey one is enough and we say that's it it's enough and how do you know that this is hour M why you asking me contradiction from that Miss to this m maybe this Miss is says that over there in in in in fact hold you have to buy five bottles of whiskey you're not going to get away with one battle whiskey so that fits in why are you asking me contradiction I'll tell you why it says over agree he agre interest the case of our holds they have to give each and every one in the case of the battle of whiskey just put the whiskey down and run away because over there each and everyone look if you look at the picture you see they want it each one wants it they're demanding it h over here nobody demanded anything he's notifying them hey I stole from you possibly oh he's notifying he's doing you want to be that's a different case now you have to buy or pay each and every one a full mon you see that he's Tred to be on his own we just said by the battle whiskey when he stole from five people they're demanding payment okay now the guy holding the Battle of whiskey what is he doing exactly he's denying it he admits to them what says no he's quiet now we know throughout he screaming or he's being quiet the reason why he holds that he's screaming meaning because if he's quiet then five people demand money and you are quiet what is that saying NE you're saying they're right I do owe them money so you would owe them five bottles of whiskey so therefore he's denying he's screaming back no says he's quiet over here that's not considered like he's he's admitting the reason why I'm quiet is because oh I forgot I just finish this my my Ed kicked it hi [Music] I don't know I can't how could I yell back at somebody when I don't know what what what the is I have five people I stole a bottle of whiskey I don't have a clue and they're saying you stole from me so I'm going say no I didn't sver him I did maybe maybe he's right so I'm not quiet because I admit I'm quiet because I don't know just a a small to my my Dr that nobody cares about is that yes yesterday I think it was yesterday I don't know what day it was it was Wednesday night actually so it's not really yesterday it's Wednesday night in Mar so we did this whole thing funkos fun funkos and it was over at 12 something no so I was giving the shear I had to give a Shear afterwards we're exhausted and danced and then excited then I gave a Shear then we went to rib at 2:30 in the morning then we got home at 3 something and then I had a flight an hour and a half later so kids I'm just saying explaining why it's took it allall on my body if it's a good excuse for slurring I don't know I'm not a doctor and here I am now sponsors what spons oh we do sponsors inovations boy say inovations big part of this year this guy gave nicely to the kidnovations right kid what what am I what I say you say kidovations no you don't drop you you you do it kidnovations kidovations you kidovations kidovations I didn't know until I saw it you're from Manchester you don't count kid no vations the LLC part we could drop that we do drop in all countries we dro the LLC part Prime Quest [Music] LLC he drops the bottle of whiskey and he runs what each one is going to grab it you can't grab some something like our case where he puts it down there and it's a suff what you do you're you're from yes somebody stole you think he stole the batttle of Whiskey from you but he stole he might have stoen from other you shouldn't be taking it okay if you took it don't give it back so what's going on here what are they supposed to do these Five Guys you put inz that's what you don't put in middle of the street like this picture you put in bz Letz figure figure out holds they have to buy a battle whiskey for each and every one if you want to so you see that he holds that when you have a suff I do take money out of somebody this guy this guy is a big suff here we don't he he he certainly doesn't owe five bottles of whiskey those one but because we have a suff we're going to take it out of him why don't we just say according to we have a you can't take money out of a guy that has on his money he has he has on the other battles of wine one battle he has to give not five however we have a problem Story I mean it's not so unfortunately two people died in a house collapse the question is who died first and it's a very big question because depending on who died first somebody else is going to get a big inheritance we're talking about a fraction of minute right first the mother died so the son that was in the house inherited his mother for half a minute when he died he he gives over an inheritance his inheritance plus his mother's inheritance a double inheritance over here perhaps so the of the son say he has some child somewhere he says my father inherited his mother before he died I want it all and those y of the mother say it's not true the son died first he never inherited his mother we inherit the mother now the fact is nobody can know what happened nobody knows there's no video camera in there we don't know we found two bodies now what because there's nothing you can do there's no no nobody's ever going to come out on top of this okay says we have wherever the money of the mother stays in her the money of the son stays in his we just said that according to you don't say the money is in you say each person gets a bottle of whiskey the is the gun of that has one batttle of whiskey he has Thea and no that K doesn't help him he has to pay a battle of whiskey for each and every one what's your name excuse me John John from welcome over there when the house fell down everybody has no clue no one has a clue nobody could claim he knows better who died first right it just I passed by there it's unbelievable that it happened in our generation that a whole building collapsed in the seaside and there was from people in the building Surf Side somebody could claim that he knows that that from guy was lifter before the other from guy on the first floor at the second floor they died finished I mean took days to pull out the bodies and we don't know we P don't know it's a it's a however by the case of the whiskey the ghav has no clue you're right but the owner of the whiskey knows everybody knows when they steal his whiskey says but what about in our case he notifies the other guy stole from you 100 he had no clue the the he doesn't know he's a the guy that was robbed doesn't know either yet he has to come out a packet that means we we disregard the what is it called how do you know that this is that you have a contradiction when it says over there by the when he stole from five people that he gives each and every one he says who to obviously I'm sorry obviously who to who is to his counterpart to and admits they have to pay each and every one says how do you know it's it's a case of two people that don't know what's going on you could say that when I admit to you that I stole from you maybe you know that I stole from you no because it doesn't talk about a case that you that you suit I'm notifying you I'm letting you know it's lost what is it called Lost Property I'm letting you know that 20 years ago I stole from me right and who wrote the bryces he's explaining the mishna as they both don't know no one the GH doesn't know and the the one that was stolen from doesn't know says don't forget because we're talking about a case where he wants to go above and beyond let's continue I want to remind the some sometimes the forgets I got to remind the whole this building was built for one purpose for it happens to be that they before and after it's not like there's a minion and they're doing us a favor and we're doing the da this is to help the people that learn the da we have a minion after so Da comes first from beginning to end and if da finishes at 9:35 it finishes at 9:35 then the minion is going to have to go somewhere else d always comes first and kki told me that he said the D comes first you finish I asked him in fish should we stop he said no you finish the D and then you in I have it on video every wants to say I don't I don't need that's why we built it we built it for that just happens to have Rob said that if he receives money in two different bundles he should know how much is in each one why is this any different than me giving over sheep to a Shepherd I give a sheep I give one you give two how come over there he doesn't have to know who gave what he takes the third one he doesn't know who gave the third he puts it in between the two and he runs that's because it's talking about that he had no idea they just dropped it off like you drop off your kid in a gun you just run so they also they drop off the kid the the the Sheep but over here by the money you should have taken good notice who what have a wonderful day a good shabas what time is shabas two hours after shabas something when is it to 8 isab 9:30 and then Hebrews at 10:30 wow for