Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 22 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning today is Tinus Esther so the shear will be a little slower than usual drier than usual at least so this is a a male email in Hebrew from FR he says uh I was thinking to myself what should I bring you as and I found it when shapo spoke about the famous thing he spoke about thei brings a person travels from Poland to America and takes him 15 days and people will walk into B medish and be learning the same D it happens to be it's interesting because this morning I saw a speech by Rabbi C from M he gave a speech to the they pledged over there $15,000 I'll show the name soon and he gave a beautiful speech and he spoke about this this is he spoke about this uh he brought it in his speech so he says that he was sitting in a business meeting and there was a Jew there from the Lish side and Aid in a MRA two weeks ago we were in three different groups parties three different parties but it turns out he says that we're all learning the same da not only that we're all learning the same D we're all learning the same D from the same mag so and in your we love the da so here's a picture of us learning the D together for that so in mon I still need if Mark ashkanazi is listening which he probably is I still need the the list from Bar Park and P all the other places that did it I said I want to talk about the Brooklyn one ,800 corn 500 360 yler 500 this is something else oh this might be from Brooklyn taka Ben Landy 10,000 Isaac really Trier 1,000 Yari a th000 and Y Bak he's still on where's y he's still doing 40,000 I know if he's going to still do it and is making phone calls again 101 shim a00 Elizabeth zipper mayel David Michael y00 sh sh 2000 here's the list from M Superstars over there you see clim $26,000 why not I mean he's also running the whole thing and every day spending seven hours or more on the phone and he forgot about his business but $26,000 Daniel Vogal $118,000 schamy Rosenberg $10,200 noan fix $115,000 AR marovic $10,000 beny Center not the rabbi $10,000 Mark ashkanazi $5,000 Yona Rothman $5,000 you see it's a lot of fives and tens shmar zeling gold also one of the Yona Rothman is one of the um guys in M that put this whole thing together together with shmar zeling good $5,000 together with Mand $5,000 there was like six or seven people that were working on this m wi rib by the way mty wi rib is the one that came out with the mcgilla a couple years ago the mdy mcgilla that had to do with mcgilla very very nice job wine Reb $4,000 eel cats $3600 kman iron tabak $3,600 David Bal he was first $18 $0000 and then he doubled it after the speeches $3,600 Oshi Jacobs 2500 bucks Michael Z I spoke about I'll tell you what I said real quickly here in the Min basically 99% of 95% of the people when uh a guy coming to collect money in SCH you give him a shekele like in America you give a dollar the the currency here is a shekele and I realized that sheel at least for me is like it's like 30 cents it's like you know giving a guy quarter it's I wanted it to hurt a little bit so I not it's not a lot of money but maybe for I give five shekele cuz this idea of like come out a little bit of your comfort zone if there was a shekele on the floor would you like look twice would you keep on walking would you stop five she or something you know you stop so that was one of my point I don't know if I expressed it completely because maybe people think in America what what's big deal five everybody gives a dollar no but here and there just troll it's more like a she so I'm saying get out of your comfort zone that's was telling him come out of your if you if if meni orach took upon himself 10,000 you should jump to 20 that's all I'm trying to say pick on the big guys so 40 so 40 come at so I'm saying uh David B did that he went from, 1800 to 36 Oshi Jacobs $2,500 Michael Zimmerman $2500 he's also one of the guys that put the whole thing together so Michael $1,000 so for a total of $15,000 pledged and B a lot more here's of he's a rebi in Mon and he took upon himself $1,000 so what happened was Mark ashkanazi bumped into him like a few days ago and he said that he told him he says oh you're part of mdy so he looks him up on the register whatever and he finds his name there and he looks and he sees there's another person with the same name it's a very rare name turns out that he never knew that his own father does the D here Ro his father is part of MD that's mark on the left so this I got R from dannie dannie sent this to me dannie fine that here's just a a person who had a for putting and pushing the status the da and he says because of you I'm doing the da every day and here's a and he gave him a beautiful bottle of wine expensive bottle of wine for saying thank you um never heard of exchange he says on the on the right I'm so not a d a day person or so I thought definitely still wouldn't be if not for this we'll tell you more over a call for your whiskey sometime but your photos and enthusiasm gave me such a longing to give it a go and here I am hooked anyway was meaning to message you what's your address and rebell is tremendous amount of thank you to both beautiful reell I had a goal of $10,000 and we be getting to it tonight I truly feel a part of something big here thanks for giving me another way to connect to hasem as in the past I wasn't able to through said just as a quick thing we have something called which rabbie Schomberg who's sitting right here very he writes in every single week and we have a column from who's part of the huge literally takes test on all of sh he writes every week and many other people there kids etc etc so check it out Anonymous for the safe and Speedy return of all the hostages what [Music] London school jewi song fan for the [Music] full because I haven't sponsored in a while Keith re White Plains New York from B Anonymous sponsor for the sorry anous with for easy child birth his daughter and healthy baby The Coffee corner is sponsored by men the Learner in honor of my daughter's and I do want to tell the I am going out of my comfort zone in this whole raise uh and I'm doing something I really despise doing but I'm doing it anyway I am flying to America right after porm for about a week it's going to be a lot of fun knocking on people's dooing with people about raising money Etc ET stuff I love and B continue to give T day and prepare this year so it's going to be a lot of fun a lot of sleep and a lot of gaka cheese danishes and pizza it's going to be wonderful so when I go to America I don't know what it is I don't eat anything I gain 10 pounds just by breathing the air you just look at those the the the sushi you go to you go to any event you go to a guy's face bris there's like $10,000 worth of sushi I don't know what theot is it m contagious we're holding the from B all in the bottom the last last line check this out I want you to think about this I think it's very very important to oh I just got this before sheer this is from Toronto these are mdy steak knives with the engraved I don't know if you can see what do you got Gary talking about staks on a Tinus is not a great idea okay fine here's the question you you need to go to the hospital an emergency whatever it is not a you need to get somewhere very quick not to the hospital you need to get to sh so you see your friend's car the keys you're good friends with him you'll ask him permission after my is over what's the big deal do you see a problem with that he's going to say yes probably let's say you get stuck in a bathroom without toilet paper I don't know what and there's a there's a box of tissues that says somebody's name on it yeah you're going to who cares only five tissues you'll ask permission afterwards what's the is a m or AER that's M what about the car a so we're going to see even if the person and you know he's going to say yes that's called you that's trying to get permission retroactively we're going to see that's probably a big problem probably XA even if it's a good friend of yours and you know sometimes you go into your friend's house you open up the cabinet you take some something to drink so it depends on the situation if you're you're if you're a guest you're supposed to be there most likely he gives you retro act but some like you you take and then you ask that's Gus you're not allowed to steal forover who say you allow to steal forus you allow to do he for sure okay I don't know but that's but that's retroactive but that's retroactive at the time he didn't have at the time you didn't have a POS thing the give of course I I said everybody will give to blow your nose also to blow your nose also but you didn't have at the time that's the that you didn't have he's going to give you one you're you're you're 100% right that he's going to give your I agree but it's stilla 100% G maybe it's not 100% I can't say anything 100% anyway we're middle of you look on the top of the welcome back to came back from America just for the da he want to stay but he said I need to come back for the da right the top words top words is giddy here if a person doesn't know that he lost an object do we say that when he finds out retroactive we have to get to this vard it's a retroactive vard over here he would have been M today he doesn't know fell out of his pocket but once he finds out that he lost his money he immediately says I abandon it I give a pope and does it work retroactive says no and Asi spoiled it yesterday the like it's not you have to know about it says no it is last last line on he takes from the poor gives to the takes from the rich gives to the poor he's a ghav aov is somebody who comes through the window at night when nobody's watching he steals he comes in the daylight he's not scared of people what is the difference between a g and Ain a golin does not pay yeah all the in he doesn't pay double he doesn't pay the four five a river who takes from this property and deposits on another property you get to keep it says I understand when it happened in daylight it happened from a river everybody knows about it you saw it happening so you give up immediately happened midle the night how did he know about it so that he could have us you see from here like ra that you don't need to know about it it happens automatically when you find out about it retroactively you had saysa we're talking about this case right over here on the screen he was held up he used a weapon he yes it happened during the daytime look it's light outside but he used a weapon so the ghav when it says G anov and gaslin we're not talking about a ghav that comes through the window at night we're talking about a a type of a gaslin that uses a gun so he knows about it he he he gave up immediately so two cases that are the same they're both happening during the day says the as we had in bakama it's two different cases because one he's actually scared of the human being of the other person and one he's not scared one he comes without a weapon he says give me your money or else so he has no fear of people the other one he has fear of people in fact he's so scared of other people he has to use a weapon what's I think he's so scared of people that maybe he has to pay K he's like a GH of who scared of people so that was the discussion in bab the point is that maybe you could say that all these cases he knows about it again we want to know is a person gives up he doesn't give up yet because he doesn't know about it is that considered use if a river comes and uproots your wood your beams of your wood your trees and your stones and it dumps it off in somebody else's field where boy say we have a video here you go Yellow Stone here's here's aov here's and here's that's garnished wait it gets better oh who told you to build that Mansion over there o takes it all don't build out of wood who told you B of w yeah okay so huh the house the water who told you to build the house in the water I didn't build it some baseball player build I just bought it from so look what it says here it gives you a reason why could you keep that house that fell into the water because the owner gave up it was years so what does that aiot to if we stop right here we can figure it out ourselves you have to have physical abandonment discouragement giving up years you have to give up it says it seems like if you don't know about it that that's your vacation home in Yellowstone you had no clue you're in New York it's the middle of the night no Years yet because he didn't give up you didn't know about it says that the the that is talking about where you could save it the the reason why if you could the reason why it's not used is because you could save it the Bryson may be talking about that he can't save it but the part you could say says if that's the case what's the next part if the owners are chasing the wood then you have to give it back we have a animation here check this out oh this [Music] sound if they could do this I don't know if he did it if he could if he could save it why does he have to chase it it says if they were chasing if it's if it's possible to save that's all you need then he doesn't he's not what's the point I could save it so I don't give up I know about it I'll I'll take care of it not giving up so why do why why do you have to add that he chased it no no no you have to chase it you know why because it's something in between it's if I chase I could save if I don't start running this second I it's too late so I need to start chasing it's one of these in between things I don't have all day to save it I have it's it's going down the river if I start running right now I'll catch up to it and I'll grab [Music] it if you're chasing it there's no but if you don't run after it you look at it it's already down the river two minutes later it's it's it's out of eyesight it's finished the again do we have a right one way or the other in you don't know about it is it considered what's so we're going to show this thing again why not for all the new people and some of the old people that forgot when you have a pile of fruit with 100 fruit the is that you could give one kernel of wheat for a billion kernels that's M you give one of these but people are nice to the they give approximately 2% go ahead they take two out of 100 and they go and they give it to the Cen when you give it to the Cen the pile becomes goes from which is to fixed fruit and the K gets his 2% then what happens afterwards is a different cheer then you give another 10% to Ley not to the and he gives to the once asked the first says what's you're re and your like why are you different than them something like that to that point so he said said it's like truma you pick one from the top he becomes kades and the rest become a they become they become they get elevated through picking one from the top that's what he said okay doesn't like it you're not I guess you love it oh you love it okay aren't you the re no I'm Lish there's different there's no doesn't work by L so some guy decides right now the gor understands he decides on his own to go and fix he's a big tadic he fixes other people's stuff that's what he does he doesn't fix himself he fixes other people so he goes into his his friend's field and he takes truma truma Meer so that his friend oh that guy probably won't even do it himself probably eat teil let me help him he did it without permission says if the owner is upset at him why do you come in here who ask you to come into my place why are you touching my food if he does one of those so the truma didn't work if he doesn't care he's like oh oh thank you thank you you saved me 33 seconds then it works how can you tell if the owner is upset or not if he gets caught red-handed says on the spot here we have atile picture of here says why don't you take the nicer fruit now in this picture it's a little bit here this is one-sided when a person says those words why don't you take the nicer ones it could be two things either he's being serious why do you take such lousy green apples when we have nice juicy red or it could be sarcastic it's ambiguous over here he's yelling okay it's very obvious but in the way say maybe he's being serious maybe he's being sarcastic now if he's being sarcastic then obviously he doesn't want you to touch his stuff get out of here it's not truma if he's being serious you should have taken better so it is truma how do you know if he's being sarcastic depends you can find nicer ones in on in the on on the tree then he's being serious and if you can't find anything nice is being sarcastic if in addition the owner came and took more truma Trum you see he's being serious he's not a sarcastic kind of individual he wants to make truma he wants to make it even better as but let's think about this for a second this is really a of retroactive but why is it Trum when you went into your friend's field and you took truma off you MAF 2% the Doner had no clue two days later he finds out that he took truma oh he's so happy about it not only that he added two more apples but how did it work two days before you must say that the only way it works is because it's retroactive that's similar to what R says they go retroactive and say oh he was Mi two days ago [Music] so this is a beautiful R to so look what happens over here this is beautiful we'll stop right over here ra explains because in fact you have a great right to to ra so what would you and I do if we're having a nice fight and argument and somebody pulls out a safer that says exactly like you you start dancing H I told you you don't know how to learn you're not you said I'm 100% right and you're now 100% wrong you with him not ra Raa is here for the truth yes I are you and ab but AB got stuck here he has a big problem on his let me explain let me explain it it's galic no I want to explain the other the other I'm looking for the MS so RAB is Salan who brought the the muser movement what a lot of people forget is that he was the in learning also he's the biggest like the huge huge but he's known for his M so he got up to give a big and some guy in the shear asked him a question and he thought about he says you know you're right he slammed his gamar shut and walked off the stage and he said later on he said look I could have easily answered him five answers that would have kept the guy away but I'm here for the Ms and then he continued he said you know even though it would have hurt my mus movement this could have hurt me I'm trying to push mus and then they'll say look he's not such even some random guy in the shear ask him a question and you know what EMS is more important and that's it even in learning says let me explain because we're talking about this whole case you misunderstood it's not a case where somebody walks in somebody else's field and gives the truma this is a case of where I asked you to to take truma but you didn't take the one I wanted maybe maybe you took the wrong truma you could tell if you look around the room you could tell the didn't drink coffee [Laughter] today Raa you're laughing because I saw you a few minutes ago sling like you didn't take a coffee correct are you a coffee guy is that what it is yeah a lot of coffee a lot of coffee okay I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm boring you to sleep I feel like some of the other him out there now fin look at this guy is so a that even through my jokes no sorry sorry sorry okay don't don't focus on there's a big problem there must be a you must appoint somebody to be why take a look at this let's read the together what's wrong with this this what's G also the word also doesn't fit in here also you take out the word g so the word gam is very important for the whole this word teaches us the idea of agency the idea of that I could make you I could hire you to do something for me in terms of a Mitzvah whatever it is you must know about it in order to be had this thing where he gave the bread to the and he didn't just want to give it as AA donation he wanted to be the owner of the bread and the B eating his bread was his bread now inra as you know even if you took Trum five times nobody's going to rely on you and they're going to take again the problem is since it's not their bread it's Ran's bread you have to ask to take truma we just learned you have to be but didn't want to tell them it was him it was Anonymous so they had a a thing up there that with the of the Bal Mr Anonymous whoever it is that's it so he gave he made from here on out forever what happened was he didn't say take from over here typically speaking when somebody sends you to take truma from the the the the medium the middle ones take from the not the best apples not the worst the middle he went and he took from the best and the guy says what are you doing why you taking these nice ones go to the better ones so now I don't know if he's sarcastic or not I sent you and you actually took from the really good ones but I said take from the better better ones so if there's nicer ones who wasn't being sarcastic if they're not any nicer he's upset at you why did you have to take truma from such good quality should have left a good quality for me says story there was a owner of a Orchard called and three very famous one of them actually wrote the the author of The ra three of them are at this Orchard comes the the crapper guy the guy that makes let's say a third of the prophets and he he gives them uh pomegranate gives them dates to eat now what's the problem the problem is a sheer crapper gets a third a sheer crapper doesn't necessarily have permission to give people some of the fruit says the now did Rashi write this line right over here in thear not necessarily cuz his son also later on later generation they put but Rashi is the one that wrote could be he did says Rashi ate from the fruit they weren't concerned they figured he's a partial owner here he'll do some sort of with the balab later on I gave away 20 apples over the year 20 pomegranat and here's where says but wait a minute when will find out that Rashi the gador is here what do you think he's not going to give him a a pomegranate he owns all these pomegranates says tsus the last last line on this page even though the owner later on says of course 100% listen is it different than toilet paper if the godor is sitting by your table he's not you're not going to want to give him some fruit of course you will but when he ate the fruit he didn't know about it and that's a problem of gazel it's unbelievable the god whoever your God is I don't know who any Reba any your who comes into your house don't you want your kid to give him a pomegranate to give him a a piece of cake he says and I'm not pasing and I'm not saying in this case in that case you might be right in this case you might be I'm just trying to bring you awareness that when just because a person says yes afterwards doesn't mean that it's okay to do it that's all I'm saying they want to say this case is different here we're talking about we're talking about a guy that has on a third of the fruit says marra I can't eat I can't eat says and the owner actually came and he says what's wrong with you you didn't give better ones so now they turn to him they say right now you're not eating that if the the makes truma and this better truma so it works retroactively we say oh he he probably would have wanted that because I heard from you only say this idea that oh he would have wanted better and it works that works by everybody spends a lot of money on a nice everybody wants to give we all learned in about he he supposed to the better of the best so it's Trum I'm giving the nicer ones of course that's what I want and this R is a very important line for life also when you know that that person doesn't really want to do it and I saw a story of a rebbi I forgot who it was who somebody offered him Sandos and he said no and he said you know why cuz he doesn't really want it but he said he said it that's it we know no no no no when a person doesn't really want then you're not allow to take from him it's gav to take from him said you know you go to somebody and you offer him to buy your house and you offer again you offer again you let it offer once whatever the the thing is twice when you pressure somebody into selling that's but he said yes in his mind he doesn't want there's a whole class of kids there yesterday and I said you know in school also you go to over kid give me some of your chocolate so the kid gives but he doesn't really want to give well kid wants to give so for kids it's one thing but for adults sometimes you have that you know the ram says that one of the 24 things that is Chua that doesn't help that doesn't allow you to do chuva is when you eat from a meal of somebody but the guy said I want to give you something go somebody's house you see this m nothing in the refrigerator and he gives you uh you're not to take but he said I want to give you says the that's G cuz inside it's hurting him he just feels uncomfortable he's he's embarrassed so he gives you so we have to remember that that even when a person says take but it doesn't really mean it it's a lot of times your friend goes no no Take the Money Take the Money pushes in your pocket he plays that whole game he wants you to take it out of the pocket yeah okay so you have to know each situation I'm looking for my water actually well you mean sometimes insulting when you don't take the money okay that's by you not by me okay so this is a beautiful goes like this oh I don't have water I need I literally need water somebody get me a cup of water quick I can't believe it wow yesterday we had water what drink I'm not drinking quick no just a little bit is like this goes like this thank you thank you wow sad just put it over here thank you this is a dead sheret if this dead sheret touches this fruit is it Tomy or not no it's not t why because in order for this to become T it has to become you have to make it enable it to become T how do you enable the fruit to become T you have to wet it with one of the seven liquids milk h d the whole thing so if you go like this and you're happy you want the water you want the water he Ed that we didn't say it right okay wants the water on it so now even if you dry it off where's the the tissue even if you go like this it now it's now what happens if it rained on it so if you're happy with the rain you say okay it's good it washed off my fruit now I don't have to put it through the machine I could sell like this then the rain is good and the rain made it but if it rained on it and you didn't want it then it's not what if it rained on it and it dried off and you look at your fuit you say wow how they become so shiny some it rained last night but you didn't know about it that's our Su that's what we're talking about could you retroactively want the rain here we got a nice picture of the is still on it and he's happy but here we have a better one it's right over here you see so it goes like this if the fruit is attached to the tree it's green in other words it's locked you cannot make it Tomy if you touch it a person that's T touches it it remains green it remains star once they remove it from the tree and you touch it it remains tar why no water once you put the water on on it it unlocks it becomes purple it's not t yet now if somebody touches it it becomes T says he's happy it's almost P we're talking about happy yall get ready I'm going to ask you chavas I'm GNA ask you tonight what's one of the most famous things in it's mention many many times you it's en you enable the fruit to become that is where's the first of all it says in the it says there's when it becomes there's water on it then it becomes Tom and then it says in the means was given not you you didn't put it on was given by let's say the rain if you wiped it off even though you happy it's not you don't say oh retroactive because you don't say you don't say that because you found out later that it was wet so now you just found out now so retroactively you were happy when it was wet then and it's you don't say that says don't bring any from to a case of if you look at this if it didn't have how do you guys call that those three dots I don't know what you call it whatever I asked the the 10-year-olds and they didn't know either so I figured if they don't know and they just learned it three years before so I certainly okay shuk if you take that off it says what's so we know traditionally we have a tradition that this is how we read it this it's how it's written how you how you how you pronounce it so we we read it we say you have to put it physically with your hands even when he's happy about it that it rained on it but it rained you didn't put it up with your hands so it shouldn't work if if what you're saying is true they have to do it with your hands then here we actually have there he did a nice job here check this out this and means that it came by itself it rained on it and means he he dumped the water on it so well you need a you need you have to do it yourself says had a little bit of contradiction it say it we read it as if it says it was given somebody else put it on there said how do you reconcile these two things the reason why the T wrote it in such an interesting way instead of with a like it says it over here it says it instead of with a is because the t is telling you something the T says just like when you put it by yourself you know what you're doing so when puts it with the rain he Al you also know that it happened the so two you need Das so the kids the bottom line is I can't learn anything to our for that works retroactive doesn't work retroactive there's a special that it it works it doesn't work retroactive sponsor I think this is the last day Inon my uncle Marland thanks to them 137 people learn over 16,000 and over how many minutes 727 th000 minutes with I have to tell you this over because this was in the that it says that a guy went to the CB and he he said Reb I lost something what should I do so Reb says say three times so guy go say he comes there didn't work he says what do you say he says no no no I meant for you to say say it three times okay who's a who's an idiot that who that person who loses stuff it was it was a vits in the you have to say it say that if you find a watch in a river that you're allowed to take it to yourself This is what you should do to your donkey this what you should do when you find a garment everything you find this word is extra said it should say of course it got lost from him who else did it get lost from and you found it so the t is telling you means that only that person lost it but you found it so if you find somebody's Rolex in the water you got to keep it yes is you're not to keep something that sorry that then you don't have to return something that you have to give back something that's you must give it back to the owner is similar to something you allow to keep to yourself just something that you allow to take to yourself even if it has the guy's name on the watch you allow to keep it for yourself even if it doesn't have a Simon it says even if it doesn't have a Simon you're not allowed to keep it but the question is according to have a so even if it doesn't have a Simon why can't you keep it if it doesn't have a Simon keep it and eventually the guy will give up and then you get to keep it so that's that and therefore we don't pass like so as you'll see in the AR this week shomberg put together a nice piece and he told me afterwards says yes Hally if you find a watch with somebody's name on it and his address and his telephone number you don't have to give it back that's the but huh in the sea in in a situ yeah of course if you found it in the street of course you talking about where the guy gives up but concept called that you have to go above and beyond sometimes and to supplement what saying with somebody came to and said that in the first snow when the snow melted he found a bag and inside the bag was $440,000 went to do I have to go and and announce it so said no how you can keep it it's money however he says however think about the pain that this guy has right now that he lost $40,000 try to give it back so the guy went and he announced in all the streets and somebody came and his t of these people that really need the money so there is an in ask your local Rabbi Etc huh UK oh I didn't I didn't put out what's the UK event let me see so we'll put up the the thing bem oh tonight withman Seltzer who interviews myself London 8:15 p.m. yalik you have questions ready you're going to throw me under the bus who we prepared this before I'm kidding what no no you knew about this that you're interviewing me okay on Zoom it's on Zoom 8:15 tonight so the famous is like a in six things in the first one 10:15 hour time oh the the clock is so different ear 8:15 London time and Manchester time both Manchester and London are around valid looking for it these are the six things that is like the first one is our like that if you what that you don't know about it and later on you found out about it you don't go retroactive and say oh he gave up then second one is when you do we're not going to go into each one but a does it go all the way back to the time that he was or from here on out you have a a beam that allows you to carry in a what happened if it came there by itself that's how it was built you didn't put it there was like is when a person mades one out of two sisters and he doesn't know which one now you not allow to be married to two sisters so you can never get married to any one of them because it might be the sister of of your real wife so whether or not it's K let's say you know that the husband doesn't want a divorce but he wasn't the is it a get or not if a guy eats is he the question that the has 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because I thought it's aiss from I had a box of dates here yesterday that I bought for to show to do this demonstration yesterday in the back of the show so huge bman I speak about him a lot he tells me you know you got to check these well you didn't check I said I did I opened it up said no no no you have to take a flashlight he says look I could show you in every package of dates that I ever opened up I always find worms and then somebody says no not those those are expensive so let me just show you real quickly here it is live look at the time here it's after 1:30 1:31 on top look at that 13 I did check I did check what do you think I check okay I don't think I've ever I don't think I've ever had a package of dates and I did not find at least one so I check them like this I'm going to show you something I don't I gave sh to someone the other day on okay fine I'm not going to go into the thing next video next video 134 134 here I am it's after M it's not during sa time is I usually finished by but we had to finish up so I sit down to learn and one of the first words that come out of my mouth and it was was shocked actually here check this out here we go that's the standing and blocking me now list yesterday you heard about I spoke told me a sing it's m says within 30 seconds when he called to me I said you can't make it up here on video video okay anyway I thought I'd share that with you B did you find worms what's the story the story is the story is that he said that there worms in every single date yeah so I walk away from him I go back and I go and I say this gar right over here these dates that fall off a tree how could you eat it how you allowed to eat it he said to him since this little huh yeah yeah but but it's the same thing don't ruin the story these days have now the other thing is it doesn't mean worms it means giant animals so therefore he says the reason why you're allowed to eat a date that falls of a tree but that's only a question on AB who says that it's not y retroactive but the big question Rashi asks is that yesterday we learned this remember that every every Olive has a certain face every tree has a certain thing so every date has a certain face so even according to ra he holds the question how can you get a date I know exactly from what tree it fell so the question would be on also anyway f says G okay that's great that the guy has Yos why because it has disgusting rats take it or whatever what about young kids that are own a field how could you take from them he once insulted a kid he kicked a kid at a sh and then he felt bad about it but he said I can't ask him he's too too young so he wait until his Mitzvah gave him a beautiful gift and then he asked Hima so don't don't insult these little kids they they're not name here's a valley and to say that within the valley that own trees why why should it's very rare what about what if you know for a fact that there a y that owns something there or beautiful picture I have a palm tree that I enclosed with a wall that cannot enter you're right in that case that you close it like that or that you know for a fact that the is these are you find this in and it even has a pink bow on it so this is my Simon you let it take it why even has a Simon have Aon and look at this video that was made just for MD this is Sim you see that bow over there now you're not going to see it also since people in Destroy it so it's not considered a because it's going to be destroyed it wasn't destroy yet it has the potential says ra ra argues on his rebi rabba very confusing RAB and ra how do you remember who says what throughout all sh they're confused both they some people say oh it's not R it's R every time mention name over here they argue with each other it's because this does not have a bow had a you have to announce it it is considered some say this as what's the when you have aimon that's going to be destroyed we learned in our you're allowed to keep these guys what does it say in our it does but it is our if you find this in a private domain you must announce it what's the case if it doesn't have a it doesn't have a so what exactly you announcing you must say that does have a Simon and the same be even though it has a you let it keep it you see from here have aimon why you allow to keep it ey it has a I could say had a pink bow the answer is because people step on it you have to the if it has no bow on it what do you announcing you say I found something on this in this corner does anybody know what I lo what you found if somebody guesses right he gets to keep it we'll just do one more line have meaningful fast day we'll see you tomorrow e