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[Music] good taking coffees uh ended late a little bit so we're going to start as long as you respect the emails you know talk check this out yesterday here in the Bas medish Reb Nissan black he um they videoed Jakob sitron here right over here you can sit over here I don't know don't worry about the jacket they they're doing a music video with the MD theme it's not about the da so here is a message from RE black here we go hey good morning RAB boy side this re and I am here at mdy and I'm telling you we so if you want to be able to learn with your son and not be taught by your son you should come here and tune into the D this is it so alas is starting in two days it's a great time and opportunity to start those who those who did not start can start those who had a rough you get a new start byus huh he does a different type of do he told me yeah that's right I don't want so these are the names of the people that took upon themselves to try to raise this money again it's not a you take a page you become a team you have a team all it means is that you make a what could I raise for wife if I just put out my status without any major phone of course you can make some phone calls without a lot of pressure and it says a number here doesn't mean that they're to pay this amount they're going to try to take upon themselves this amount men pil 5,000 Yol 2500 y Ze 10,061 and I realized afterward somebody explained to me I was speaking to sim man I called him up because he took upon himself $20,000 I said I got to speak to this guy Sim are both from Chicago they run basically the Chicago shear and uh explain to me Simi that y likes 61 because 61 is s which is my [Music] initials it depends how you look at it very good it's it's it's it's me Mandy $2,500 du hman 360 you see R Bo take 360 you don't have to be embarrassed it's gak take 360 then you'll up it a little bit you see he'll come one grandmother will send you 360 so you continue invite you'll do it you'll do a little more 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$10,000 we got another 10,000 by the way if you actually raise $110,000 you get a free room for a couple at the cruise not the cruise the it's not going to be Cru yet the shabbaton and that's about a $2,000 value I mean the true value is $20,000 but all you have to pay in cash is 2,000 to get there you're coming this year to the shabbaton maybe $10,000 you go for free seriously you know what let let me say this meny check this [Music] out I want to tell you something I want with youzer came to me I didn't come to he says how could I help you how can I make phone calls I'm good at this give me some numbers I want to do this s the guy Ming with right now same thing called me up yesterday maybe I'll fly in with you we'll go somewhere we'll go knocking on doors you want to come with me good let's go I'll go with you to South Africa but we might get arrested over there Joe Sharp $5,000 you heard about you heard what I just saidia Weinberger $2,000 AKA Boaz 2000 y oh this guy I'm pretty sure it's him he sent in an email aab I think it was him he sent an email he says I have one or two hours a day that I wanted could I make phone calls could I do something let me know what I can do ysep 1500 bucks he's not here my brother from another mother Barry asmin $5,000 n 3600 andon Aid 1,000 when the M no no no that we are the People Want it All right we have a great picture here mdy reunion at Morty gan's engagement long time mdy daffer the one in the middle here with gersi rose and Yehuda shook Yuda shook is all the way to the right ghi Rose the famous ghi Rose from the status is on the left and the is in the Middle Jackson lwood representative you the show do we have some time no you mention I want to share with you an amazing letter by someone once wrote a letter Tobi complaining that his house was too small that he didn't have enough room for as many children the problem was that he couldn't afford to buy a larger home the about back I received your letter and I'm delighted to hear the good news that you found your bash the wife that was fitting for you and that you got married I'm Overjoyed to hear that you have a each thing's nice slow and a whole line firstborn son and hasem gave you a daughter and another son another daughter you're all healthy found the ways of the T you should know that many people don't share all the good that you are enjoying I also understand from your letter you're living in your own home while so many other couples are still living in rented Apartments as you know on the other side of the letter the rebbi added and in regard to your problem that your home is too small and you can't afford to buy a larger one if you'll praise hem for all the kindness he gives you and if you dance from Joy for from all for all the above Hashem will give you a larger house when we recognize the good when we recognize the good who creates a vessel and a us to receive in more kind from Story by Respec tal subis 65 you hear this mha Pearl from K all right so here's um help mdy change lives through toyra one year at a Time One D at a time raes inviting all mdy members even those who already pledged you hear Ley you can come Sushi and gaka food strategy and plans for our 2024 campaign meet with rebell all MD Israel members all mdy Israel members Sushi and refreshments will be served tun in live Zoom Tuesday March 19th that is tomorrow night at 8:00 p.m. right here in the B me it's not about the D it's about the Yi and finally R Bo checked this out in I think this was Carlin I went to Carlin so they had a game uh game show yeah and here it [Music] is 1 2 3 4 and go [Music] morning one more time a little louder the the most important thing is check out the game from the right next to the what on the angle on the angle no no no touching corner to corner with the top left do you need to see let me let me zoom in let me zoom in here's the here's the whatever I'm just saying um okay we'll have to skip this I love it that I actually likeed Z okay oh I have to do the sponsors spe return of all the [Music] hostages she should have a successful surgery procedure today successful procedure today not it didn't say surgery procedure today ell sh Greenberg in honor of my rebi ab oh Rabbi rard wow telling me this was here today for the marriage tonight of Elia and esthero Blinder that's how you pronounce it the hostages the of the month child his daughter and healthy baby oh The Coffee corner the Learners of his child I want to just add one thing very interesting thing Isel Goldstein left me a text message today that he called 47 people in B Park he says unfortunately didn't he come out he got maybe one or two people to take upon themselves a page but what he did get out of the 47 people is that seven people said oh I'm so okay I want to rejoin the D I'm rejoining the D so it it goes back to that thing that we have to make more phone calls we have to get these people more engaged in the da but also barar and Flatbush could step up a little bit take more D take more of these Pages St him all right we're holding like uh seven lines from the top of so here's an interesting question think about this question for a second before you answer I know what you're G to answer initially think about it what happened if a couple's a big fight and the husband the wife even maybe decide they need to get divorced yeah divorced unfortunately big big they go to therapy that's not working out but the the husband never went to cyer they didn't they didn't write a get and suddenly the wife dies does the husband sit Shiva on his wife yeah they're they're married right yeah they're married anybody argue with that I mean I wouldn't be asking it was so obvious right I know people that in that situation wow they needed they wanted to get divorced and then they died he killed [Music] her but they said okay so we're going to see something very very interesting here IM in a few minutes goofa so the way this is going to work we actually are very very familiar with this case with the case of lending money uh writing AAR uh beforehand and giving it later on and doing something in between yeah you know what the case I'm talking about I'll show it to you on the screen you'll see again you write a document today you only give it six months later that document could be a get it could be a loan and it could be get sh for a slave three things and that's Al it's going to go through the same case three times basically more or less the same idea so it's very very easy Kar he wrote the document today gave it 6 months later what happened in the middle he either sold a field sold off some stuff so he used the the person that gets the the document at the end Kai and say he actually got the document six months earlier and what whatever happened in between happened after the document was given but in fact it was only given 6 months later it was written now but given 6 months later before I forget what's your name light from wood you were at that should that I gave the thing the B house multi is on that list I just mentioned his name okay I love it was very nice it's a great place to move to okay so here we go it's a great not as good as ches saying if you're in America you're stuck yeah I don't want to like talk him in his face he's right here a guy finds a get in the marketplace if he admits that he wrote his get so you give it to the woman and if the husband doesn't admit you don't give it back why not you don't want to give it to the woman that's for sure she'll go get married with this get it's not it's not a good get you don't want to give it to the husband cuz if it is a good get and she comes to demand theba he say look I have a receipt that I paid off the this get you don't give it back to [Music] anyone you admit that if he he admits you admit that if he admits you do give it back as the why this is the problem anytime there's a difference between the time that you wrote the document and you gave the document some funny business could happen in between what could happen perhaps the get was written in and 6 months later is when he delivered the G and the husband is going to sell the fruit the income he's going to take the income or sell the fruit between those six months now take a look at this we know throughout there's something called This is versus which we're not going to go into means this is a property or something that the woman brings in before she had it before she got married her father lets he gave it to her she had an inheritance and she comes into the marriage why is it called mug very interesting because it's like a chicken without feathers like you pluck its feathers mil to pluck to take off the feathers we have a picture oh basically means that you're leaving this chicken without without anything you you're using the chicken you're taking its feathers off and you're leaving him like that so how does it work let's say this woman and I know people in Chicago like this I had by me my we had the privilege of having these girls by us for shabas and they tell us yeah I have a nursing home I have three nursing homes basically the father gives them when they're 18 16 18 gives them put nursing homes in their in their name I knows what I'm talking about they get married they have these nursing homes so but it's what does that mean she owns a nursing home the nursing home is valued at a million dollar one room few rooms in there okay $10 million $100 million the husband on the right they get married this is L of course from uh she's it's based on a real character real person in in the gar she has duck feet elfan ears ET ET she's married to LIT from Nadar alsoo and he keeps he gets a lot of cash out of the nursing he keeps on taking the cash and eventually he just milks it until it's worth only 600,000 and then he dies what is she entitled to she's entitled to oops what happened it just jumped she's entitled to 600 that's it let's see if it works no okay something happened to the button here oh oh now it worked okay so she gets the nursing home where it's 600 the Y don't have to make the difference between the 600 and the million that's means it's metal that that he has to pay whatever was worth when she got married that's not what we're talking so now here's the here's our case right here check this is pretty cool look at the Yi's hat right he has a nice Yi hat he writes a get in N he WR get okay that's step one step two he sells the fruit that he has from her field he sells the fruit to this guy Mr now take a look at the woman first of all look she's she doesn't have a crack on her on her right foot she has um here let's look she sucks so what does she do take a look it's not working H I ruined it because I made it to let's go back here we go we're ready at C of get these things are not oh here we go she tosses a thing at him so he gives her a get yeah he she knocked off his hat now he has divorced when he sold the fruit was he allowed to sell the fruit why married still married is there any sad that he wouldn't be able to sell the fruit he wrote a get he wrote a get but he didn't give it to her okay he didn't give it to her and then she goes and she says wait a minute give me back my fruit why because I got to get she lies and she says I got to get six months earlier my husband had no right to sell you the fruit look it says and therefore I deserve all the fruit and she takes the fruit out that's AER for to do yeah understood so let's see inside let's be concerned maybe he wrote to get six months earlier and he gave it to her six months later in between those six months he goes ahead and he sells fruit in those six months she she pulls out the get says in the get that she's divorced actually 6 months earlier she's going to take the fruit back against so listen to this this is going to shock the especially all those who said that she that he could sell the fruit no problem especially all those who said that if a husband thinks about divorcing his wife he doesn't sit Shiva or he does sit Shiva they said and over here we might see a she that says you don't sit why who holds once a husband decides in his mind that he wants to divorce his wife even if he doesn't write her get in his mind he hates her he doesn't want her anymore a he no longer could take the fruit sh that makes a lot of sense that's why you could give the get back you can give the get back to the wife why because what's the worst that's going to happen you're worried that he's going to sell fruit If he if he does sell fruit she deserves it I'll say it by the Turning of maybe okay so but according to the that says like you all thought that he's able to take the fruit all the way until he gives her the get is still married until that moment why do you give to get back it could cause a lot of trouble she'll pretend that she was divorced 6 months earlier so the says that according toim if somebody writes a get to his wife writes a get puts it away he's waiting for the right time to give it to her and she dies he doesn't inherit her he does not inherit her why because he wrote again still married she's still asish but that thought makes some sort of Separation she doesn't get he doesn't get her y so and other like and other say based on that a person just thinks to give his wife a get he shouldn't sit Shiva CU Shiva is a sign of being missel I'm I'm sad that the person died in this case he might be happy that she died so a lot of people they ask but wait a minute the ram is talking about when he wrote a get and over here he's thinking about a get slightly different okay but even writing is not giving writing is an act of I want to get divorced so he he made up his mind I want to get divorced so listen to this that in a case where both the husband and the wife decide they want to get divorced in that case they don't sit sh on each other even though there's no get given I think it's a major and remember it should should whatever should shouldn't anyway the next 16 lines over here it says on the side of my gamar not every has it if have he brings the who says that this next 16 lines is not part of the G it's part of one of the wrote it and theor asks [Music] ah no you're right you're right you're right we skipped I skipped says we're not concerned he no we're not concerned if she comes to grab fruit out of out of this in like in the last steps over here where she grabs the fruit out of the guy the skinny guy in the blue the guy the skinny guy is going to say hey what are you doing she says I have a get so prove to me when you when you wrote this get what do you mean you have a get did did you write the get yesterday was did the husband write it six months ago because I bought the fruit five months ago what do you mean you come now with a get so thear says huh yeah when did you get the get to be divorced did you get it recently or you have to prove it Mrs woman who is trying to take my fruit says but we don't say the same thing and this this case we saw many [Music] times we had the M our Mna not our Mna the one before where is so if a person finds aone document and it has real estate attached in it you don't give it back we said it's when the admits that it was alone and what was the reason here's the case a little bit just to remind the slightly he wrote the get the the the Lo document the Nissan he sold a property somewhere afterwards and then only later a half a year later in Nissa in Tish should say over here oh no no in Tish sorry it does say TI but the loan document was from Nissan in Tish he takes out a loan in the loan document it says that there's property there's real estate attached to this loan document so the Mal is going to go and grab that piece of real estate that's in the center and he has no right to grab it why because it was sold before the loan happened the loan happened 6 months later or 3 months after he bought it whatever but it's still not attached to the loan document because it only becomes attached to the loan document by the loan and the loan only happened in Tish so that's a problem we said over there's a problem so the is asking why is it a problem we just said that the the person that bought the fruit is going to tell the other person hey prove it to me when the loan when the get was written so over here also say he tell the Mala prove to me when you got thear when was it written oh it's written Nissan forget about it what's the difference so the explains the difference but let's see the question first and we're concerned that he wrote it in Nissan and he only borrowed money six months later in is going to go grab the property the buyer should come back to the m and say when it comes to grab the property prove to me when you got when you received thear did you maybe you just got it after I bought the property then you can't take my property maybe before so you could but you need to prove it a get what's the purpose of a get a get has one main purpose what is it that a woman can get married to somebody else she's not a in this case we're using the get for something else we're using the get she's using the get to take back fruit from somebody that's not its main purpose so if you're not using it for the main purpose the guy's going to say wait a minute what are you doing here so what if you have a get you don't have a document you're using some sort of document that says that you are allowed to the rest of the world tell me when exactly did this document happened but in our case over here this lone document the loan document is for the malva to go collect his loan so it's part of the collection to take somebody's property that is part of it so in that case the guy that owns the property that bought the property he won't make a big fuss because bezin gave him the documents so he figures okay bz know what they're doing bz gave him the documents so that they he could take my property I'm not going to make a fuss about it with the get he'll make a fuss says gor arry when it comes to the guy that bought the property he comes to he's going to sue her the reason why gave her GI that she shouldn't be and sit for the rest of her life by herself but she wants to use the get now for a secondary purpose to pull fruit out of my property let her prove it she can't prove it I'm not giving it to her however the person that purchase the he's not going to come and Sue since thez gave back the why give him a it's in order to grab prop so you see that obviously ra gave it to him so that he could pull stuff out great and that's why he doesn't make a big fuss that's why he doesn't claim anything now we're going to do this Su all over again for slaves here's a for probably remembers this is it a good thing for a slave to be free or a bad thing do we say I want to acquire his get for him or not I can't do that because it's really bad for him which one is it hello what's the reason it should be a good thing he's free he can marry a Jewish woman and what's the reason it's not a good thing huh a slave like a slave likes his freedom he likes the the sh that he could not marry yeah says you found it says in our mishna it says he found a document uh emancipation how you say to release the the slave the best way to say you found one of these documents if we're going through the whole thing again just a third time we did a get we did a now we're talking about when the master admits that he wrote this document that he wants to free a slave you could give it back if if the master doesn't admit you don't give it back says if the master admits you do give it back same kind of story let's see it where was it so he wrote a he wrote this son he only gave it to the guy 6 months later in t so he was only released in t what happened was the slave went ahead and the [Music] slave bought property if a slave buys property while he's still a slave who owns the property the master the slave claims later on when he gets the he's going to say wait when I bought the real EST which obviously went up in value and and whatever it is he's like what was my this piece of R is M and a half a year ago look it says in the he's going to go grab the property in fact what do we say it's not his it's the Master's it's a problem look at this he becomes look he becomes puts on a hat long beard it's the same guy right oh no I got to do something this computer okay fine so that's the problem he's going to go purchase some real estate the master comes and sells the property because it says and then the slave comes he goes ahead and he pulls out his and says wait a minute it's my field you had no business buying it from my master and it takes away their property says that's when we hold that it's a good thing for the slave to go free but so why sh so remember we had this when check check this out when the signatures appear on the document at that moment it's a good document according to Aba and there actually an attachment to real estate whatever but in this case the a there's since it's good for the slave to go free so they acquire that get for the slave he goes free immediately so he went free all the way in Nissan when he purchased the property whose property is it the slaves because he already went free so he's right what what if you hold that it's not good for the slave so then the cannot be for him you can't do something bad against somebody without his permission so then why would you give back the the yeah keep on going you say I didn't skip and that's it so the same ter as we said that's the answer why do you give the EV back his his document he's going to do something wrong with it so he's not going to do anything wrong what he's going to go grab fields from people real estate they'll say hey prove to me when you became free I don't trust you that you that you were free to Nissan you were actually free maybe half a year later prove it to me I want to know when your master gave you the document there here that the Mas think it's unbelievable KAS listen to this what are you telling me it's bad for a slave to go out to be according to yeah what is the tire say says that if you punch the slave in the eye you knock out his tooth he goes free well what do you mean you do something bad to him first you knock out his eye and then you punish him again and you set him free obviously to be set free is a good thing I'm awarding him you knocked out his eyes so I'm going to award him and let him go free yeah exactly oh that's what I was thinking talking somebody said that last night also I didn't see that see them answering that there they're saying like this what it's it's it's uh just in this case the guy is violent he knocked out his eye so in in this case he doesn't want to be there so so he goes out we actually say it's good for him to go out into in that case but typically speaking it's bad but the K says like like the rambam that it's really it's really good for him but he doesn't know it he thinks he's an evid so in his mind oh the preach is whatever that's good for me so you can't force somebody to do something against what he thinks is good but his knows that it's good so it's but unfortunately we can't force him to do something that he views a that's why we don't do it for him and if you think about it the CL when we were we were happy being slaves most of didn't want to leave we we we get attached to the silly stuff and million not even you know the there are terrorists that refuse to leave jail because it's even better for them in the jail cells in Israel then to go back to who knows where today they Chang a little but there was there times that literally stories where they had to pull these guys out of the cells and send them back in a bus says says in our that if you find a or a gift what does a mean says the this is what it is it's a document that's written for a person that's about to die has different because even his words mean something you don't have to make a Kenan and basically there's an there's an attached condition that if he doesn't die somehow there's a miracle and he wakes up from this then his stuff doesn't go to that person as a gift and here it is in the [Music] words [Music] okay story just as a uh Public Announcement it's very K to make a will especially that to make sure that the children don't fight everybody knows everybody has their story with Mish members and people that they know that over money siblings fight so there's once a father who said my kids will never fight over the yusha ever so when he died the lawyer gathered all the kids he said okay it says here in the that that you have to take good care of mommy say yeah and fine so they take good care of Mommy I think then he calls him back like a half a year later he says okay let's see did you take care of her what happened it turns out they didn't take such good care of her says okay he turns the page says okay it says in chapter two of the T it says if the kids don't take care of mommy then all the money goes to the nicest nursing home there is we're going to and K it was a test to see if they're going to take care Unfortunately they didn't and then the one of the kids said oh that's what that's what he meant that the kids won't fight over theha they were talking no fights nobody got anything okay I know somebody in this room that that's what the did everything TOA that's no fights there's no fights everything I don't agree with it 100% but okay not the well depends if it's all temp y that's a different story fine that's that is yeah well yeah but what the T doesn't say like you the T says give it to your kids not only that if you try to give it to one kid over the other it doesn't work really the T says you give it to to you this and the says even if your kid is not so from not so on the D give it to him you don't know the future doesn't say any in the to give it to the I know anyway [Music] say means from today and after death so what does that mean you have to write this down in your pencil today means you get the the the the principle but you can't do anything with it today you get the princip I'm giving my child the principle cuz this is a great way because unfortunately we heard stories people thought they'll be nice to the children and they gave them the house or whatever and then the kids kick them out the kids like H put them in a nursing home big deal you need let's downside what do you need such a large house Ki him out of that so the father is smart he says listen I'm giving you the house but only the principal you you can't use it until after death as the what so gift is only if I say from today and after death from today you get the principal and after death you get the Parise who that's the only way and if not I hear you guys upstairs and if not it doesn't work guys I hear you upstairs so if get a get a glass and we won't have a problem but until then do me a favor it's disturbing so the question is it seems from the gar the only way a gift works is if you do it like this you give it after death well I can't give somebody a gift today I can't give a a present what does that mean there is a gift that's similar to of course you could give a gift right now but I could do one also similar to that I give Today part of it and the rest later on in that case it's a regular gift you're right it works right now this this is a type of gift that it's it's a two-step process some today some tomorrow all these things in the mission go back to the mission there's five stars in the m receips find these these documents it says you don't give it back cuz maybe he didn't want to give it because you didn't want to give it but what happens if he does say give it you do give it contradiction says give it back you find the document you give it back you find these documents exactly the same documents that say in even if both of them admit that it was written in were concerned for someck going on here maybe he wanted he wrote it to one then he gave it to he wrote a second star for somebody else then he took it back as is going to explain in a second and then he used the first star pretending that he gave it to the first guy it's a problem how do we reconcile the difference between the Bry and the don't worry say I'm going to do the sponsors we're talking about two different things when the guy is nice and healthy you don't give it back to him but guy that's on his deathbed then you give it to whoever he says to give it and the is going to explain beautifully why the Turning of that is sponsored don't worry inovations in honor of my uncle whose birthday is today 22 years old n of Baltimore Maryland in honor of fish gross thanks to them 137 people learned 137 people learned 16,000 727 th000 minutes with MD explains that says by us it seems like from our you could be it says the reason why you don't give back the document is because the guy doesn't admit but if he does admit that he wrote the document give it back why because we're talking about a guy that's dying he's the type of person that could take it back put it on he he could he could change his mind 25 times the last thing that he says goes and it only happens when when does it become the person's property when he dies because we say what is the possibility here maybe he wrote the document first to Ru and he and he just got lazy put it on the side put in his drawer have Al didn't he didn't give it to Ru and then he said you know what I like this guy better oh like that I said over the other day the guy is dying he calls up his nephew he says Hey I want to give you all my stuff and before he says all my stuff the guy says I told you don't ever call me during work I'm busy can you call me at night they like I'm dying so he hung up the phone and he had nothing so he called up the Denise and he gave everything to Denise $50 million so decide you know what you nephew you didn't pick up the phone I'm going to somebody else you have an Alle she move from here to what's going on here sorry where is he there is it wasn't funny Ash let me say the joke again I got a minus on that one thank appreciate it was good I thought it was good so he writes a document this you know what the story is perfect there I just thought about it's perfect he likes his nephew more than he likes his niece he calls up his nephew he says the guy's rude to him at that moment his whole life he took care of him but that moment he had a bad moment he thinks he's dying he doesn't want his money to go stom to the government so he calls up his niece you know what you take the $50 million see right to and then all of a sudden he gets more life this he's a able to contact his nephew at night he says you know the document that I wrote early in the morning to give you I'll give it to you forget the niece so is that what you worried about so here's the story let's just see it real quickly there's a oops sorry there's a he's dying he's he has the the mask on the whole thing now this is not exactly accurate okay we got to change it around a little bit because he wrote the over here he wrote let me explain there's two types of documents inite one is a and one is a even if he's a could give him right now is like he wants to use the the leniencies of so over here he wrote one he didn't give it to him he got lost right so we got to change that that he didn't give it to him and then he writes oh I shouldn't have done that so here's the question at this point right over here let's say he even gave theu to his niece to his nephew whatever does he have a right to give it to somebody else now the answer is yes has the right to take back whatever he wants to take back so what is he concern that he wrote shim what a great so goes to shim he could take it back however if he wrote shim so let's do that that no forget this for a second let's say he wrote so what's the concern that you now you found another and the is screaming give it to ruin give it to my my favorite nephew in this case if he gives if we give it to ruin who wins who gets it think about it shim has a and the next day the who's dying and he could take everything back and regret everything he says I want the star to go to ruin who wins in this case ruing because whoever comes last wins whoever receives it last wins why is it wrong no no no no no again what happened was it's hard to see from here he wrote this first it got lost I get it okay she's supposed to be over then he wrote another later on a month later six months later he wrote another and he gave it to shim and then they find the original so what's the concern he might give it to ruin no so what's the problem he's allowed to give it to whoever he wants he could rewrite a new one a brand new one right now today so let's say in ER of he writes a new one to Ru does it work for ru yes you hear am I right okay good if huh the dates are off here it doesn't matter the dates don't matter that's the only C of the gamar we know what he said we know what he said he said last this one so it goes like this let's see inside even mat in this case of mat Bari okay if he gave the second guy the second guy is going to win and he's going to take it why because he's the last one anything last wins that's the whole point over here since since could regret what he's saying and take back whatever he wants until he dies then whatever's last wins so even if you gave the second guy a regular document of mat let's say that the second guy doesn't lose anything why if we produce two R is I just want to point this out huh how could I miss out five lines we're only five lines down we're I'm five lines down from the [Music] top I no I said that for sure now just want to point out that the word b over here in the beginning means that was written last the word the second time that we say it means it was given last big difference huge difference but they throw in a ren chair and that's the only confusing part of the when there's two documents that come out at the same time what does it mean over here the one that was written last wins which is the secondar thear the why the because yeah cuz it happens to be the second document is the second person why because he took it back from the first guy and if we're talking about this case where I'll just leave the on so we remember what the means and if we're talking about the both got the same document it's both who wins the one that received it [Music] last right so over here means the one that received the last in other words the first guy over here means the first guy before the meant the second guy anyways from here it's very very simple you ready here it goes when it says in the we we got to pick up speed here when it says that you don't give it back why why don't you give it back we just explained that by give it back no matter whoever's last wins why because not talking about we talking about that the giver is very healthy the he's not a person that could take back anything so once he decides here we don't really need to see this but okay there's a bar he's very healthy he gave two documents so who wins the F the guy that got that gets the oops the guy that gets the document first okay that maybe he maybe he wrote it to ruin in this in the we see on the board over here Ru didn't give it to him then he he wrote for he gave it to him and now this it's very wordy I'm serious very very simple very wordy so now he took it back and he wants to give it to Ru everybody knows I can't regret it can't be Indian giver right is this I gave a gift I gave a gift so how do I get out of this so I could get out of it by saying I gave it to Ru look I even have a do that proves it look it's written first if they both come with the same document to look if you look at the thing one says n one says Z Ruben is GNA win in fact shim should win because shim actually got the document so tells him no no no go home why we're not going to give this document that says why look how wordy it is we're repeating everything all over again maybe you wrote it them maybe have you didn't give it it inad reged now if you didn't give it to another person if you are right that there's no shim involved so write a new document today ah you're tricking us you already gave a document to shim because if you didn't give a document to just rewrite a new document it's a big deal write a new document there's nothing to worry about write a new document today and and and if it's the first document that you ever wrote he's gonna win mascular doesn't like the if you look at the top of the AL top top words how do you explain the difference between a miss and ABA one says if you find one of these documents you give it back one says you don't give it back so he explains explains one is talking about a healthy person one's talking about how could you explain it like that both in the both in the they both talk about a what's a the guy's dying it's a how you tell me talking about a one's talking about a father one is talking about the son of the father who's the giver here the father or the son after the father died but when the says says that you give it back when you find such a document the day the father himself could give it back he's so he can regret what he said he can give it to whoever he wants even if gave it to somebody else he could constantly take it back why because he's not dead yet when we have two documents the last one always wins because he took back the first one just to wake up one more day we're in the that says you never give ACC documents we're talking about the because we say maybe the father wrote do to Ru and he never gave it to him and then he died and after the father died the son wrote a new Doc he likes the second guy better so he wrote it to to shim he gave it to him all he said why why why what did I do here I wrote I wrote this huge gift to this place like that I went once to somebody begged me to go to see check out his place they learn all night so I took my friend from Chicago who's a big supporter of the place and we we drove there and our mistake big mistake boo boo we forgot to call them up and notify them that we're coming so we come there people sleeping on the floor not maim at least 10 people sleeping they tell their wives they're learning all night and they're schling so this donor from Chicago was so upset he called up the the the guy and he yelled at him so the guy calls me up says why didn't you tell me you're coming what that that's exactly why I didn't tell you you're coming why you anyways he gave a big donation to this place and he realize I made a big boo boo let let me just give it to Sasa why am I giving it over here give it to the real place so says the I can't take it back I already gave it to him sorry so you know what I have a trick I'm sorry I just realized I didn't realize the whole that the father died my father already gave it to sasans I'm sorry I made a mistake here look there's a star that's predated to your star and then we'll take everything out of him that's why say stop stop stop we're not going to give any document to anybody not because in fact yeah yeah why not we're not doing a a charity event uh on April 2nd and 3rd so just take yours here bring it here why not bring it over here what are you doing this way H listen to this do do not make this a thumbnail though anybody that gets to the end of the year can donate the Sans if you can zoom in on him he has a special Stander that mdy bought him because he's such we appreciate it comes here no you're a liar because if your father indeed wrote a document like this then why didn't you write it why didn't you write a new document you wrote somebody else okay so let them fight it out if two people come to us with the document we're going to give it to the first one obviously you're lying have a wonderful [Music] day for