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[Music] go morning take a look at this all you guys from England hours later good morning Rob both sides how do you pronounce it that's not how you pronounce it no how do you pronounce it if you be right one time during this year then I would argue this how do youon thank you I asked him not you I'm not even arguing with you ask anyone you want re amam landal learning the da on a coach tonight on a trip to Poland with his T of hmon high school look at you getting it right like that [Music] so for the daily update first of all we have a date April 2nd and 3rd that is our official date it's basically like two weeks from now week after PM is a big big date right as of now we're doing not bad at all we have 195 people that took upon themselves uh page these are 1059 195 people that are raising the flag and they saying oh toyra is changing my life and I want to involve my family and friends you hear that we're GNA do a we're gonna have to get a get together here we got to get this number up a little bit sh what's your name Zack Z gold gold glance from T tck and that is goldwood flid Hollywood Florida nice Donnie's not doing shig or what's your name oh your brothers your brothers okay we got it very nice okay anybody else why you sing so far away cuz your brothers You're moved is this such thing in this sh here you know what you sit over here y get over here get over here have a special seat you move him he gets the best seat in the house what happened to you he's back G is back her boy G is back so I want to make a few announcements this all goes with uh just yesterday somebody sent me um one of these it was from charity actually there's a a young guy in MAV here three children he's like in his 20s he got he got the the m in his head and in one day they raised a million dollars for charity and usually I I take these things and I throw in the garbage you know so it's another charity another one like 20 them a week but this time I stopped and I you know now I have much more feeling for it I'm sh how you doing thanks for being here what Sons where's the son don't tell me he's sleeping he didn't want to get he's not a first of all we have a big Mas for rabber this rabie shomberg the reason why he was sleeping two days ago is because his grandchild became [Music] a that's not the reason he's not even a yet oh I'm saying two days ago no that's why you were you you up the whole night you're you're you're ding the night that's why that's what I'm saying is shimy shly Angel engaged to re angle re BR angel I said Angel he said Angel how do you I would have told you could from gold is green all right ma ma let's check this out real quick so that we're going to start announcing these events I don't know when's the event here in that's what I want to know but in Brooklyn which includes barach Flatbush Crown Heights in Williamsburg 1301 East 27th Street Run by is Goldin and AKA Ziggler probably right says AKA m is in Rabbi s in Wesley Hills this Wednesday Yona 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what are what's wrong with You Ah that's why you're so against it because you bought it over here and ah okay okay somebody sent in this picture it's it's one of the best pictures ever oh there's a kid in the picture also hold on a second I didn't one second one second I don't know Jonathan I'm trying to get you for next year you know what seriously as insulting as it was and I'm walking like this with my tail between it was one of the best ones ever yeah it one of the best ones I got to say you put a lot of into it you went out bought you actually spent money you stole my artist for a few days it was good it was good stuff regrettably I fell behind he fell da a lot of people that's the da that people fell off the bandwagon bakama da I'm assuming somewhere around there some was bakama gimel right around bakama somewhere a lot of people fell off so he says like this this p penny we all know Penny there's uh did a whole interview about um what's the okay we're not going to get into it kids he said that he's the one that said that mdy saved his life he had a a very very bad experience when he was a k kid so he says he fell off the bandwagon and after watching the video on 103 days later with n Spiro I was inspired by him to start again from fresh inspired by nussi so his daughter Shand Works in a place where NY wears an MD White Cap with pride put me on a video call with NY where gave me much needed he had one request he must get an MD t-shirt before pet him he says put it so I post on what group of kids anyone wants to partner with me get some merch a few of the who don't know each other got together and got him some merch that will NE that he will wear and use with pride mdy AK is something we should all be proud of attaches a picture in a video where I delivered the merch for penai here you go and there's a message from n afterwards it seems like n is not only MD wire he a big Trump guy too that's what I don't know [Music] hold on there's a message listen good then listen this [Music] all right the sponsored by Anonymous for the safe and Speedy return of all the hostages FR should be to of Stanley fireman who's attending the Sher in person today is he where's [Music] oops oops supposed to be in honor of Stanley fireman who is supposed to be attending this Shear in person today by Anonymous maybe he'll walk in the middle of she we'll know who he is anous fireman you know sty fireman anous of the for easy child birth his daughter and healthy baby I think he lives in Florida no unless I'm mixing people up again Bo were're holding like 12 lines from the bottom 2 4 6 8 10 what oh sh's father-in-law and shami put in but Shi couldn't get it off today I got it it is yeah yeah we're going to go through some over here not everybody together when and in m in how do we passing like you do a lot of you should have known that did you scream out the wrong answer okay so just just to have fun here the guy owns a field the god of comes and kicks him out of the field okay I said it twice I said it twice for those who need three times three times but not for me will say for the third we're in C okay it's the middle tracted of the you're in the wrong M I got it you should show up more often so oh I forgot to wake you up come come sit in your seat your seat is available just started oh okay when it [Music] comes so let's go back to the to the chart for a second Guy steals a field and he sells the field the guy that buys the field from the ghav invests in the field 30 it cost him 100 he invest 30 does he get back when eventually they kick him out of the field does he get back to 30 the 100 for sure he gets back does he get back to 30 says you don't get back to 30 do you remember why it looks like ribus me it looks like ribus is the like this is a time that ra says we don't go like sh typically we go like sh when it comes to not today today is not such a good day for we're going to go against him in three different things is he has the improvements we pay him the improvements even if he didn't specify that I will pay you the the improvements he gets the improvements another case that we had yesterday a guy was doing business with a bad guy a field from a ghav knowing that it's not the gav's field says he doesn't get anything you shouldn't have been been doing business with aov and the fact you did business with a G you probably giving him a gift you're probably giving him a deposit R says no he gets his money back that's how we pass him another that when you don't see the The Mention Of a lean in a document it's because theer made a mistake a question that you see that holds that you have to ask you see you ask the guy hey you want me to put a sh in here you want me to put the this in here so obviously doesn't hold say differ between you see no in all cases not like in all cases we have to assume that there's a guarantee there's a lean that has to do with real estate even though it's not mentioned in the okay so those are the three all three like Rob not like this is a super interesting Shiloh you're dealing with a he's a con man he sold a property to somebody when he never owned a property hold cup here it's G he goes and he decides to be nice to the guy that he sold that he stole the property from and he goes and he pays him for the property does the owner of the property have the right to sell it to whoever he wants yes it's his property if the owner of the property sold it to a random guy St ruing is the sale a good sale yes if he sells it to the ghav is it a good sale to the point that the ghav goes this Russ marusha and kicks out the guy he duped into buying the the property before he pretends it's his property sells it to a guy and then when it's really his property says hey by the way it's mine you bought it from a con artist last month but guess what there was no no M here Believe It or Not theor says so let's see inside actually there's a a little bit of a a chart let's see let's get to the Chart here so Step One is a guy steals the field step two is he sells the field to Mr Le step three is the ghav goes and he pays the one that he stole from for the field so now becomes his field and now the question is in step four can the ghav kick out the guy he sold it to what is say but what if he did sell him when he when he duped him into buying it he actually sold him the rights that if he ever has the right to it like kind of thing something that didn't come to the world yet I I heard about the story and I didn't believe it but I started looking into it more and just Google it it's there the guy's name a guy I forgot how long ago a long time ago maybe 100 years ago a guy sold the Eiffel Tower to to a bunch of investors he told them that they're knocking it down and uh you could buy the the scrap metal when they when they caught onto it and they put him away a little bit he went ahead and he sold it again he sold Eiffel Tower twice it's true story he's known as like the greatest con artist that ever lived in in in France he said they use it to he sold it to want to know did he sell it to Americans okay so so here we have this guy he first he sells something that's not his he sold the the Eiffel Tower to somebody then he actually went and he bought the Eiffel Tower off the government and then he kicks the the guy he sold it the Eiffel Tower to he kicks him out of there so R tells again was the and he tells him when the ghav sells something when he sells him the eiel tower that he doesn't own he sells him all his future rights in that Tower so if he ever acquires that Tower he sell him those rights what's the logic behind it so we have what the logic is they're very very similar but they're there are differences one is even a ghav doesn't want to be known in the street as a ghav so he tries to tries to make things right eventually and he tells the guy listen I I did rip you off remember but I was having a a rough day this that but now I want to make it good I went ahead and I I I purchased I I did a true purchase from the real owner and now you could have it I'm trying to clean my name okay that's one have a stickle picture the guy the guy wants to keep his word he wants to he he keeps his word okay he said something he's gonna he's going to stick to his word so what's the difference he's going to stick to his word or he doesn't want to be called a GH of my what's the difference if the guy that was duped the the guy that purchased originally iel Tower the the the field if he dies so he's not going to call him a ghav who's calling somebody ghav the guy that was ripped off everybody else doesn't care so what if the guy ripped you off yeah so what that so ACC to says I don't want to be called ainl the guy's Dead He's not going to call you aov so here we have the three different if the the purchaser died at the end of the day you didn't keep your word you didn't keep your word but if you're concerned about people calling you names he's dead so it's it's not a concern now there's a a check there's it's good the guy's not around to call you a name it's not a concern but if you want to be a person that keeps your word you didn't keep your word the guy has children the guy the purchaser the original purchaser that's dead now he has children that say Hey this guy didn't keep his word oh they're also going to call him a name therefore we have to try this thing not that the died but the Gin diedin says that the Gin bought the guy the the Gin bought it off the when he was dying he's on his death bed so he decided to to be you know so he bought the G himself died so doesn't really care when he's in the grave what this guy's going to say about him he might not even say anything he's dead ACC to says he wants to keep his word even though he's dead he wants he wants his word to to to come to come true he said that I'm going to get you the field I'm going to make it good you're going to have your your field so he wants it to happen a person wants to keep his word there I said this a while ago but especially for the new guys especially for Jonathan who wasn't here that day there's a person who took about himself iros he he signed for somebody else that if something happens he'll pay guarantor to to whatever large Lo the guy sorry the guy I need some tissues here thank you thank you thank you damage the wood I'll just say the story while I'm doing this so the guy went bankrupt and he um hold on got to lift this that's guy goes bankrupt and he runs away he leaves the country and the guy that signed the the the guarantor couldn't reach him not for two years didn't get hold of him and it was a very bad situation the the gantor and his wife they take a trip to America where the guy ran away too they had to go to a wedding they come to the wedding and the wife of the guarantor bumps in to the wife of the guy that took the loan and ran away and she she sees her and she say wow how are I haven't heard from you in two years big hug all Where Have You Been why did you disappear okay what happened was that the husband had never told his wife that the guy went bankrupt and didn't pay him back he he hit it from her he didn't want to L whatever the reason was so after the wedding the wife of the the the guy that didn't pay the loan comes home and says you're not going to believe it I BMP we bumped into this the woman and she hugged me as if nothing happened so the guy was very moved and he he went and he got a loan he got a he took out a loan and he called up the guy says listen I didn't realize that you're not absent at me like this I thought that you're you hate me and this and that so I was avoiding you but now that I see that your M you have no no ESS against me I want to pay you back fully and he paid him back what a hello I'm trying hello hello I'm trying to encourage these people and you just ruined it all with one line very it's a very nice story are you going to write in your book listen Okay says what are we gain what do we gain at the end of the day the guy the golin died but they're going to say you're the children of a golin finally says ell and here it is the final [Music] one the ghav never sold it what the ghav did he's a nice guy he he stole and he gave it away to somebody okay Robin Hood yeah he stole he gave it to somebody El a nice guy according to the says the problems that a person wants to keep his word he doesn't want the original owner to come and take it away from the guy he gifted it to he wants to keep his word he'll keep his word but according to that says he doesn't want to be called a golin who's going to call him a golin I gave you a field I didn't take money from you I gave it to you for free I'm not a golin okay so what Shak a Shak not a gazin big difference big difference so we have this idea that if the GH of goes out of his way and he repurchases the field from the original owner he's basically trying to make up with the person he sto he he took money from and he gives him that field now the question is Zab what if here check this out the golin steals a field he sells it to a person and guess what this guy is good he sold it again a guy M sold a property four times yeah we said it all the time but it happens unfortunately you sell the same thing sell the Eiffel Tower twice you could sell a property four times yeah I guess is it not really like registered 100% there really no no no no no if you have a good lawyer that works on your team you could do it five six times nobody dropped the ball this was done deliberately he did do it wasn't in the thing some the original lawyer that did the real deal didn't put it in didn't push send he pretended you're saying it doesn't happen have you heard the story have you ever heard the story did a bad job R AG you're you're in the business has it happened here in inel yes okay that's it so somebody dropped the ball I don't know who somebody dropped the ball by the way Amendment to the other story it said the guy from the Hebrew she said that his parents made Alat to Israel they bought a prop they bought a house when they got her they found out that the house was sold to somebody else also so they picked up and they left so he wanted to tell me they left but they came back 13 years later so but it happens unfortunately no I like that now question that he likes I have a committee here that knows this way know that way it's very very tough very tough usually okay listen this this is how it works I'll tell you right now Bas this is how it works I come to S and my says they told me that the she was very very good today I said wow that's that that's bad news that means the she was terrible I know it is it was Mendy no no no no no it's they they they told me when he says they told me code meni they they told me that the drawing was very good very kids whatever he says I I know it's the opposite I don't care anymore meny I love you but I'm not gonna base the shear on you guys I love it okay let's go I don't care what you say I'm not going right there what's the point of this what's the point of this just remember that when you tell you something it's going to get right back to me and he says they they yeah they he calls you they you're they all right anyway oh oh there 10 minutes oh you're right anyway the point is like this R this GH of is such a GH of he keeps on selling it does he really care about the first guy if he after step three he goes to the to the guy he stole from in step one and he and he pays him does that mean he wants to give the field to to the the first guy he duped or the second guy do he doesn't care about anybody or he gave it as I said I didn't say it's if he sold to the second person he gave it he gave it an inheritance to somebody gave it as a gift he's busy with other people he couldn't care less about the first guy he do there's already a second guy in the picture what if this is funny the G of got the field that he stole beusa what's the story he has a Old Uncle in a nursing home so he says to himself listen I'm anyways probably going to get it beusa let me do the guy a favor let me take it from him now it's all yeah he doesn't care anyway it's just sitting there what does he know okay so he steals it and then once it's his he already sells it the guy's still alive and then eventually he gets to be now do we have the same the same logic now he has it is he trying to make good with the guy that he duped no the answer is no why cuz he didn't go out of his way to purchase it he just got it so it doesn't mean that he cares about the guy he do he's still a GH of no it happened by itself and he doesn't really care about he didn't do anything this is also super interesting story a guy steals a field look what happened over here he steals he borrows money he I'm sorry he sells the field to somebody this is something else the okay we're still holding there next he borrowed money from somebody then he steals the field you like that karate kick here check this out bam okay he borrows money he steals the guy's field it makes sense listen he borrowed money maybe he won't pay me back then he sells that field that he stole and then he goes and he tells the guy listen you owe me money I want the field if he never lent money says Hey I want your field I want to pay you for the field we said it goes to to the he's trying to be nice to the to the original guy he stole from but in this case he barred money and he's trying to take the field as payment for the loan does it mean that he wants to give it back to the guy that he stole from in step three and step three he sells he dupes somebody into buying the field does he want to make up with that guy or he's just trying to get his loan back so the is like this if the guy that that that he that he lent money to has two fields and he purposely asked for that field that he sold off to somebody without permission is anybody following me there's too many words then that means that he went out of his way to get that Fai because he wants to make up with the guy that he stole from yeah let's say he he steals the Eiffel Tower and sells the Eiffel Tower to to somebody and he also lent money to the owner of the Eiffel Tower so if he goes out of his way he says listen I want the Eiffel Tower that means and the guy also has the Twin Tower somewhere or I don't know the Sears Tower he owns a lot of property he says no I want the Eiffel Tower why is why you say I want the Eiffel Tower for my loan because he wants to make up with the guy that he originally sold it against it wasn't his then but if he only has one piece of property and so there's no right that he's trying to help that guy out he wants to get his loan back it doesn't go to the guy that he lied to I want that one of the two properties one on the right then he's trying to be nice to the to and if he had only has one property he obviously wanted to pay back his own loan after he stole listen to this this is a crazy story he steals a guy's field and the guy that he steals from gives it to him as a gift like yusha right but this time he like you're you're such a nice guy you only stole for you only stole one of my properties let me give it to you or you know I see you're so needy you really need it the only reason you stole because you're a NE and you don't have I'll give it to you as as a gift so is that he doesn't really he he got this Feld for free so that doesn't mean that he cares about the guy he sold it to for faith it happened by itself no no no no no is different I once said in sheer years ago I said that I love certain cakes from New York big big mistake I learned my lesson a guy as a joke and as being nice he sent me a box you know 50 pounds of all sorts of cakes from New York okay yeah three days later I mean he paid just for the shipping probably $1,000 okay we once sent little thing we know shipping is very expensive for box is Big um so it's very hard let's say I want a piece of cake so I hint and sheer that I like cake from New York and I expect some guy to send me a piece of cake from New York it's it's a it's a hard job I like a lot of cakes from New York I'm not allowed to eat it because if I do I blow up it's not like the Castell yeah but I'm not going to okay fine and then and then my wife says so why you saying sure they like cake why don't you just say you like diamonds okay I thought okay it's just cake well what is somebody gonna do guess some GNA spend three and half dollars on cake no $1,000 for $20 worth of cake okay so but it's not easy for me to get that cake I have to work hard I have to drop hints here there you know it's like a whole m not not hints that any that a hint it's like a roundabout it's okay I like ties this company then and all a they start getting TI and shy out huh you want the C no I don't want cake I want the diamonds again if anybody wants to send me a gift let me repeat for the new guys if anybody wants to send me a gift forget about getting me a new gu this year take a page from mdy that's good oh now we're gonna have Pages oh how they say that this is not to the gar that's what they say but the other [Music] say that that I the guy works really hard to get a gift what do you mean he gave him a property as a gift what people give you gifts he worked hard he dropped a lot of hints he mowed his lawn he took him to the nursing home he lifted him up put him down it's a whole it's not not he worked hard for it that's why he self that he should come out a good guy that he got back the the property you understand now how perfect this a point yeah okay they all do just you have to think about it for a second yeah like ran after a guy okay fine I'm not going to say then so until what point does the G of really k here to make his name good and we're saying oh the reason why he purchased it from the guy he stole from is to give it to the guy he sold it to so we have a three once the guy that was robbed goes to with the GH and tries to get his field back why don't you do anything before and why are you waiting until bz made a pack against you obviously you're not a good guy the same idea what's in ad dra we're going to have to see it soon there's like three different things that we're going to be talking about hemp is on thear itself there's like a a stand from the bz this is a great is that bz say we agree that there's a problem here and that eventually you know after 90 days whatever you could go grab fields and means there was a there was a a decision that after what does it say yeah after he after the Mal already took uh the the the property he he he he he was able to recoup the property after he made a load so B say okay there a so 90 days after the they give you you're able to go and and take property once they give you that you're not a good guy if you purchase the property you don't care about the when they make when they uh do a an auction on your property because you're G of so they ready go to auction once you go to auction now you're doing chuva you're trying to go to auction okay as a side note a very interesting thing is brought many many times in ch anybody want to take a guess not that you heard it from me last night but a guess how old was R when he was n 25 years old say again what happened there I'm a I sell youel Tower and then five years later I am able to purchase eiel Tower from the from the French government and becomes yours but how did it become yours what did you do to acquire it you have to make a Kenyon what Kenyon did you make so there was AAR between them but it's a fakear he was a g he didn't own Tower then just a piece of broken chart of you know how it goes it works because the purchaser that was duped into this whole thing he believes the ghav and and because the ghav got a certain satisfaction was worth a he didn't complain to him hey you selling me the Eiffel Tower you're GH of and he relies on him that he's actually eventually going to take it and buy it with that know he goes and he goes out of his way and he gets him the Eiffel Tower that's how you do it what is that called I'm selling you today EI Tower because in five years from now it's going to be mine I'm selling it to you today that's whatever I will inherit from my father should be sold to you today and whatever my net is going to catch I can't sell you something that that didn't happen yet however there's an exception the is gonna explain why if I get inherit the guy says if his father is going to die this very day then it does work today I go fish then it okay unable but and here's his unbelievable question great guy great question in other words how do you how do you acquire something that never came to this world how did he sell him a field that he didn't own I see a very great man I don't see a great question why over here when you sell Tower we're saying that he relies the the buyer relies on the G of seller but when a person sells an inheritance that his father might leave him he has zero Reliance zero why because his father might sell the property to somebody else his father might not die I don't know what he's not he has motivation to go out of his way and buy the EI Tower doesn't want people to call him but over here he has no no no motivation and he ask this question don't bring this into according to is such a great question we're not going to be able to answer it the is don't bring it Yesa like reminds me I love the story the bris somebody came to talk to him learning so the brisar put his hands on his child's uh maybe put put it on his on his ears so he shouldn't hear says I don't want you hear the keep on going yeah yeah and then he say you know what go into the house I can't hold your ears like ask a question so says listen I have an answer and this is going to answer a lot of your questions he says listen is not just not learning it's also not thinking if you come and ask me a question because you didn't think for another 5 Seconds had you thought thought that you would have asked me this question so don't do it again so this is such a question don't even bring it to the B it's not even worth coming in B why no no no this is a good question whether I rely on the person or I don't rely on the person if I rely on the person then it's a good k there's a story and they ask this questions this is a terrible question I don't know why it's you said the same same answer why is it if I sell if somebody sells his father's in six months it doesn't work but I sell if it happens today it works there's an idea that you want to you want to use the yusha to pay for burial now if you're going to wait until the father dies how many people are able to sell property after a person dies before the the burial within an hour I'm going to sell a property with lawyers with everything boomm doesn't work like that so at least give him a head start he seees his F's about to die he starts selling the property right away that day for that day the famous story where there was two brothers one was religious one wasn't the nonreligious brother wanted to to cremate the father so the R's brother made a whole fight the guy he said I'm not I'm not listening I'm cremating him so he said you know what we both got $5 million inheritance I'm going to give you my $5 million so that you don't cremate that he said okay Hally he had to give the $5 million that's what they pass him because you don't get any inheritance until a parent is buried you have to use all the inheritance to bury so this was it cost him $5 million to bury him that's what you have to do it's not your money until you bury parent that's what it says there the goes to bury a father and whatever I catch today it's a special the guy's starving he needs food so we allow him to do in this one circumstance but not in general turning the inovations in honor of my uncle and of Baltimore Maryland in honor gross thanks to them 137 people learned 16166 and over 727 minutes of just to remind the 195 people took upon themselves pages and we're going to raise a lot of money B to increase in to increase to and to make to more enjoyable for those who are already part of this year we have a lot of plans and a lot of good things to do with the money says again this is I am going to purchase a field and I'm selling it to you now you know what it happened to me and I'm sure it happened to many of you in this room especially here in you buy something it happened to you m I know for a fact you buy something remember you had a m story he was buying something for a year only to find out that the guy never owned it it back and forth and back and forth what what is the guy thinking as soon as he I I sell it to him I'm going to take the money and buy from the guy that did okay so that's not really what happened but okay I'm going to sell you this field when I buy it and and what does what does r say it works we have to say that it's talking about he didn't say this specific apartment this specific building I'm going to get you an apartment this contracted to do work in my house he took 500,000 she from a woman on condition that he's going to give her a small apartment like a tiny little apartment so he took the money and he said okay here's the apartment she said I don't like it this went on for six years he finally get got now so he had her money for six years he's doing all these jobs and everything so here here's the money for a future deal it works Stam and this is M this case I just told you she she didn't say I want this specific apartment get me an apartment small small 40 M apartment whatever it is here's here's money so the says but if you specify this it doesn't work for the future why how do you know that he will be able to acquire it and then give it over to the person he just did to deal with and and's name it's AEM it's a I don't know if you could say okay you could you probably could anyway even when he specifies this field again what happened I'm going to buy this building and when I buy it I'm going to sell it to you give me the money today I want I want your money now is going like the famous there's a famous concept something that doesn't exist yet can I sell it or nots of the opinion you could the famous cas I I like the the only there's a small problem I'm not a I'm not Jewish when I become Jewish we'll get married when you become that happens a lot when we become free which is totally not up to them when after your husband dies this is really disgusting worse than that might be coming to to to the woman during Shiva and you know proposing or something okay it happens also you got to right away I have for those who have never seen it and the new to the DA we have a real shoe don't try to purchase this this is one of the most expensive shoes you can possibly buy thanks to oh I forgot his name merch [Music] man exactly thank you $1,000 shoe this is bad news also a guy's married to a woman you're not allow to be married to two sisters he tells his sister-in-law listen your sister's about to leave to Let's Get Married it doesn't work why it's it's not in the world yet does work a woman you're pointing to her I want to marry you I know exactly which woman I want to marry it's still why is it why is a woman cuz she it's not in her hand to kill her husband she can't kill she certainly can't be free she can't free herself certain things she can't do it's not be I'll tell you real quickly because shabas try try there's a lot of a lot of that think they could kill people they come with knives and they kill it doesn't work out the way they want to work they get a bull before they they unfortunately yesterday it wasn't like that but a lot of times it is so you're you're not really in control the it's rash uses it's not in their hands so in this week's par it says about says pick up the Mish now the Mish weighed hundreds of tons pick up the Mish he's a human being wanted him to try go over it and pick it up I forgot what it says the Y knew the famous um I forgot who it is he says that I forgot again I knew this morning I forgot that in all R it's like that doesn't want you to pick up sh 2,711 D he wants you just to start one da do one da you do one da you come to one cheer I'll do the rest for you it's it's too it's too hard to do a a huge Rus undertaking just start put your hand pretend that you're lifting it and I'm going to lift the rest so two in our case when I point to a building and I say when I purchase the building it's going to become yours give me money today according to it works this is a little bit of you findes remember what what's nobody who said future option I'm buying today I am M to you today my property you could go and take my property even though you never gave me a loan even if you give me a loan in a in a month from now you could have my property today if you find such a what are he concerned that they never took out a loan it doesn't matter he said you could have my prior today whether you not is alone and if you're concerned that the paid a back right we had this before is not concerned that you paid it back why he would have ripped it up into shreds says my father worked as AER for six or seven years old they used to if you find the that says that your property isday you find in the marketplace you give it back to the original owner there's a question if your father's name is Aba that's his name ABA there people that have their name could you call him ABA or you have to switch it to Daddy you to call your father ABA when his name is AB so wants to prove from over here that you could because R's father's name was ABA he says his name is AB that but over here he says Hey ABA said like this and like this he's talking to him as a father so welcome back me if you find the from give it back we're not concerned about is that a good no we already showed what that is it's St that say here just put it on the that says that you could go collect or that you deserve this already that we gave it to you we made it's yours or you could go collect some are not what you can't collect with these the says these are not things that you don't take thear and you collect it's just peasant saying that he deserved this field or we gave him this field listen to this if you owe somebody money you ow a million dollars the guy comes and what does he do you don't have a million dollar so what does he do he kicks you out of your apartment he takes your apartment what if he he take one day he's able to come up with a million dollars could he take back his apartment so the says over here yes for 12 months no he has his entire life we're going to see the far why could he do his life so the question is how do he give back this document to the Mal maybe the paid him back we said he could pay him back he has 12 months to pay back and then he's gonna use this document and kick him out for the second time it's his problem the reason why we give back the document is because it's his problem as soon as he gave it him he should have ripped up you should have written something he doesn't have to once the malva takes it your apartment he doesn't have to give it back and listen to this unbelievable line there's something that's not is one but there's a that says general you should be straight you should be good you should do things that are straight and good and said that in this case this guy is everybody right we're all attached to our houses nobody wants to be thrown out of their apartment and if you are thrown out give him at least the ability to take it back one day you don't care you're not attached to it you just want the money so he took his apartment but he lived there his whole life he brought up a family there give it back them immediately it's like he purchased it when he got it back he should have written something when it comes to alone what's his excuse telling me oh he should have ripped it up no says listen I don't have you know what you owe me5 for the who wrote thear and the has to pay you don't have it when you pay the five I'll rip it up so what does he do he doesn't have the $5 now he lost a million dollars it happened to me and I'm warning the real quickly what's aat why didn't he write it do we trying to mask so write a document that I gave AAR and I'm just waiting to pay the the $10 for the St cuz he's embarrassed he's embarrassed he gave him a loan the guy was nice to him gave him a million dollars now he's going to say hey write up a document so I want to tell the no matter who it is no matter could be your own father could be your own wife if you're doing a deal with somebody your own brother your you're craving always write AAR something is embarrassing say hey just put it in writing it's embarrassing but it saves a lot a lot of issues later on rabai have a wonderful day have a great chabas today the shear in Hebrew is at 2 :00 Accord to T M shabas 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