Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 117 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good [Music] morning thank [Music] you we can do it again you know what for you we'll do it again good morning I got live from the Italian Alps like sh said it's gonna be a what you see did you see we saw his why do we see his we're in the River today I want to say a tremendous uh welcome again to a man who gave not only me everybody in the room everybody in the hotel and I'm sure hundreds and hundreds of people around the world y grew up here in the Alps 40 minutes away from here wasn't and he's been doing this sheer with us for four years four years and uh he learned the laugh from the shear and they gave us our wives wearing your jewelry seriously wearing the jewelry so thank you y thank you for coming again um we are fighting with my my is coming up soon so again we're going probably do like a quicker CR this year go on a little bit of a pace the schedules as follows this is the last cheer that we'll have here in the Alps tomorrow morning B bright and early right after shakas 8 o00 we are going we're flying to Manchester Manchester will have isem a she and uh there a program for women as well 170 people 170 people already registered to come bem there'll be even more um Ai and Noam and Gary and Mark ashkanazi I believe is going to be there and kids a lot of are coming from different places around the world um the following day on Tuesday I'm going to be in Stanford Hill for an hour from 5:30 to 6:30 to by RAB gives just left me a message a few days ago they gave over 700 from the time that he saw my interview on meaningful people G him a to slow down on work and give so he started then he says so to repay him show for what he did so I'm going to go out of my way even though it's it's difficult you're traveling traveling Trav we going to go there for an hour and from there straight to London for another and it's actually the final final day over there holding the final words so to remind read my if you if you hear me my small screen is like uh in middle of I don't know what oh let me just say the sponsors we have a bunch of sponsors we have four monthly sponsors and three daily ones the sponsored by Anonymous for the safe and Speedy return of all the hostages including I heard a terrible rumor I hope it's just a rumor that 40 people were taken in Russia just now there's a h situation in R so this should go for Speedy return of all the it's the famous say name and I'll say the one person could give to a lot of people like y gave to a lot of people one person by the name of Mandi learned the entire M from New York to finished the whole on the plane somebody took a picture of him I mentioned a few times in sh and since then I want to say over a 100 people see that I know or learn 20 18 utilizing your time on the plane all that downtime instead of watching a lot of movies do a lot of one person by and every person you have so we are starting the in two days bring your friend to bring somebody to it's a tremendous and you won't regret it the fellow MD the one who brought me to the hear was yesterday Inon my dear husband Merin on her 25th anniversary ma the Merin beautiful a wife gives her gift uh her husband a gift 25th year anniversary I'm thinking about doing that for my wife also on anniversary just write a thing but somebody went spent time money Don beautiful thing you just gave anniversary yeah I gave her 10 anniversaries MK MK myel is worth at least two anniversary gifts who was just his Ely passing wow Schwartz we attended the same she for many years a big learner of transl many wow unbelievable now that we are six minutes in it leaves us with 25 to do the we're going to do it nice and slow it's to remind the this was yesterday do you see this on your screen over there yeah okay a guy's living on the second floor he's renting from the guy in the bottom he falls through the hole in the floor and he comes to live with the guy on the bottom the shil the question is does the guy on the bottom have to move out what's the question the guy on top rented a nice quiet place he doesn't want to live with somebody that snores eats up loud Pi I want to place I didn't I didn't ask many roommates those days are over with the Yesa so move out give me a place that's or no so let's see the when he moves in does he have the same as before the same they live there the guy in the bottom the owner he says I didn't read it to you that you're gonna throw me out I'll give you a place fine this is beautiful we have to remember this any time says that's how we pass it like like the if you'll say and you look right over here there's Al over here that's the Simon of the they yes he doesn't have to move out when he climbs up does he go through the main entrance or let me just get out of here for a second okay does he go through the main floor or does he have to climb up to the second floor and come down the second floor into the house so they ask everybody asks what do you mean doesn't that me if a person asks for favor or you could it's easy for you to do it it doesn't cost you anything what right do you have to deny him you know so we learn it once in a while and I personally forget it sometimes it's who cares the guy what's so they explain beautifully when the guy will go up to the second floor he'll remember oh I left my thing here this let me take a little rest over on the couch he'll sit down he'll he'll disappear for an hour or two so it's good for the guy downstairs it's not it's a way to to take a break from the guy says the gor I wanted I want you to do what you did before which is to go up the second floor have to go to the second floor and come back down I except I said I'm gonna live on the second floor let's get upstairs what to go up the flight of stairs and come down stairs that's again this [Music] is it's unacceptable I come from the front door what if it's a thre story building if the top floor was broken you go down one a floor what if the middle floor broke could I ship him me the owner could I ship him up to the third floor you accepted upon yourself to live on the Upper Floor I didn't say Upper Floor upper flooor can mean two three so go to the third floor no he only thought it's one FL of steps take so on that we have a take we don't have a we don't have a resolution to that child doesn't say here the of saying zoo or not Zo if he said Zoo he wouldn't be able to and say zoo no even in zoo even in Zoom he said Al zo Al Zoo but he didn't point to the thing it is more it is like a zoo it's sort of like a zoo but not a huh it's like it's like Ali here Ali but I didn't say a double alah I said Ali that's see get there oh beautiful so I found a picture of this is more like an American ceiling I just flipped it over Che a little bit there's two beams here there's beams the beams are the thick things now you cannot put cement between the beams this holes will fall right through so what they do is they put they put later they put either pieces of wood or they put like an anet made out of thorns con whatever the point is they put a substructure and on top of that they put they put a layer of of of cement so that when it says that the the the has to provide ceiling what does it mean he gives the reads Thorns there's a person name I I was only able to find him what did I say the first I said when I read it to the yeah ACC it's talking about the wood and it's just for us Americans English speaking people it says inash read it anybody plish planks planks planks planks of wood just like we have we're familiar with the houses in America built with wood built with this kind of system versus the houses in built with cement so each place is different some places they build with it's the same says with the says there two people own two apartments like an one on the top one on the bottom I love this story and look what did unfortunately for the Israelis I feel bad for them oh here there's the picture the guy washes his hands his Neer and it goes directly onto the guy's head on on the first floor no say who owes who who has to fix it that's for Hill to say who do you think should fix it what's the SP both is a no both own I own top you own Bottom I want to watch on the floor here put another comes out a shower on the guy on the B that's what you think the should pay for it he should avoid the thing what for says the layer of cement which they used to put there to to prevent this kind of problem broke when he would wash his hands the water would fall in his head this is not a canic building no this is not when he when he washed his hands the water went downstairs the son of because we have two here one is the son of and one is the son of so number one says the [Music] the son of he went down to down is the lower one so we have to always point this out the famous he says when y went down to so we know the famous Med the the the the uh the the people that were selling took him down I 99% of the time when they went these Merchants were they sold NE they sold foul smelling things no says it's more than that it's the kiss of hem in a time of that even when people in the worst sorus they have the worst situation than a hospital whatever it is but they if you look you'll see the the the this doctor walked in and heard it and then they got this thing and P they met a person that also had and they're able to help them there's always that one in the terrible terrible Sor you see that one uh ray of light and that's looking down you're giving you a kiss the terrible he sold he's CED away from his family for many many years was with a good smell what does it mean a good smell so who cares about a good smell he's being kidnapped imagine the guy in Gaza in the in the in the bar down there he had a good smell no no no no no something was different than usual andem saying I have your back I know you're suffering now but let something with you let's see if I can find it so perh who says that the he has to take deal with it he also says has to he has to be the one they're not not like that exactly the opposite somebody has a well with water and you have a tree your tree roots are going to go into guy's well and Destroy his well so you have to distance it more than 25 you have a strong tree with larger root system has to be even 50o it's like 100 feet in America or around the world depends if you go meters WEA the B is above or equal that means oh you say oh but the roots are not no The Roots will go to the bottom of the pit and destroy the bottom you Rod the bottom if the pit was before the tree take down the tree and pay for it but if the tree was there first he doesn't have to take it down it sounds very familiar know then we have something exactly the same thing or similar if we don't know which one came first ah we had it with the with the outside of the city the if there's a tree said over there you have to be whether you like it or not and the question is if he gets paid or not I planted a tree what happens in 3 years from now it's going to grow the it's your problem not my problem then it does add up like here you see over here this is at the end of the day who has who makes the who lives in the bottom the so line up on the right side you see says up makes what's thece what's the or what is the strength of the when you have let's show this if I could get to it you see these beams over here when you have beams that are not connected with something on the top so there's a lot of swaying going on all you need to do I'm I'm thinking about something like I remember doing this just recently like putting something on top maybe even my sua like a a Pergola you put one long thin kind of piece of thing and you drill it in like then there's no swing between okay whatever it is I don't remember where we just P something like that um so the top cement is to make sure that the upper guy could live normal if I'm living on the second flooor and everything is moving this way that way it's you can't live like that so when you rent me apartment you're giving an apartment that I could I could live I don't have to be worried my wife is not going to scream all day that she thinks she's falling who is it the bottom guy no it's Aesthetics it's just that it should look good the tenant I don't understand if you are causing damage you're pouring water neas on your on your neighbor's head why be that's your arrow just like you can't shoot somebody say oh it's the bullet so you can't pour water on somebody head and say oh it's just the water you did it it's your arrow the he poured it over here and the water went down down down to the to the lowest point in the room and then found the hole sometimes sometimes it has you know it happens when when you have um yeah you have like water so find like a like a lamp or something electric it goes through you have a leak by a by a by a bul why because that's where the hole was says that's not your problem you poured it over here it fell over there it's not your problem as to to make a picture of mha should CH you should change the picture of that in the picture he's pouring water go straight down on that's that's to have a meaning okay so that's it's much more much fun straight [Music] sure um here I found the video that I thought D would enjoy this has to do that see you [Music] this is and this what the workers do Mom just like this I'm not a there such I can't tell you how many times they've done something like this in my apartment oh that's their favorite worda we put a little cck what's the [Music] problem it's not classic draw here it goes no Miss [Music] contractor sends it to me like this is what the guy just did everything you SE like they caught it weird and then then they just throw in a little and they okay so good ah so here's my question here's my question I had look at this oh it didn't it's not finished my question was that if the guy no so no so he hold since it moved a little bit down the floor and then went down it's not the GU on top it's it's not a gear delay I asked him about this bowling ball I think he's still oh he's still it's still it's still falling I don't know what's going on there okay maybe we show at the end the sh my question was if you if somebody pushes a bowling ball off a off off a roof and it goes and it hits somebody in the head and the buries that also it's just a picture of a something think about two people own a house fell down we see from the was very common for things to fall down see B the guy from the second floor he wants to renovate he wants a place to live why not so he says let's go let's build the guy in the bottom says I don't have the money I'm waiting for the insurance to go through the upper guy builds one floor the bottom floor he lives there up until the first guy can come up with the money to pay him and get him out of there if when you live on the bottom one you have to pay why because he holds that even though you're not taking away anything from the guy the guy anyway wasn't building but if the guy comes up with the money why because if he ends up paying you for that apartment and you lived it for a year what is that called we get rid of that okay why is it meib yeah it wasn't it wasn't but he's not he's not no he's Notting he built it he built it himself he built himself he didn't get a loan from the guy the guy paid him at the end he built it for himself his own money yeah says the so what happens is what we say is the guy that lives on the top floor has to build two floors first floor and second floor then he can live in the first floor why now he's not having off from him why I can live in the second floor I don't need I live in the bottom floor puts a roof on sponsored by it's unbelievable boy I know that you're not listening so much to the emails so I'm telling you right now I caught you on it's to go out of your way and bring somebody to learn they will change your life also because the M it's crazy you can learn all day long if you bring somebody else that learns you're getting those also you double up triple up we're not going to have another opportunity like this it's 175 days until it's it's everywhere the D are shorter it's [Music] it's in three places it says that it's also for a person to benefit from his friend's belongings one is what we just said says don't live in that house below when you're you're using the guy's house without permission so we have a guy in the Hebrew Shear his name is yakob Wolf he's here I just met him now I didn't know he does that she like many other people came over says listen I've been doing you she ET Etc so he came over just told me a story because I gave the she HEB says I want to tell you beautiful story his his Mish owns maybe should have like his Mish owns init is a eyeglass um what is it called a uh chain store a chain store like eight stores in all the big cities so they they hired they rash wanted glasses and they used to make glasses for so he says that he um he went they he went himself this he went to rash to deliver the glasses and he walked in there he said okay go they walked in there he sat down next to didn't notice him for 15 minutes and then all of a sudden we yeah he says I came to bring the r the glasses so he said let me ask you something did the did they pay for it he says I want to know if they pay for it so then he calls he calls his grandchild and he he his grandchild did you pay for it he says not yet they didn't give me he says okay I can't wear them I'm not even going to try them on I want to make sure that they pay for and finally he he says how much is it he says 500 she he says these are not 500 shek glasses 100 years old these are not 500 these are expensive these are thick lenses and Y say yeah of course they're very expensive not 500 he says okay I'm going to give you 500 he says I don't know my brother he says listen I'll give you 500 now on condition that he tell me the real price later he wrote he took a checkbook he wrote him check 500 check and then actually put them on and Tred them out because you're not Ned from somebody else's money without without the and then he said his brother never cash his check now he has a check that says with a signature and then he went over to him then afterward he says listen can I have the rubs used glasses says what do you need it for he says I want it can I please have it he says sure no problem take it he told me says you know how many thousands of hours of T he learned through these glasses I have these glasses what's the other thing that you see that you're not supposed to have from somebody else [Music] oh um it would have been better if they were in the room at least we would have had a little okay oh he asked him to d red and he died it black of course I have to show this one we saw saw it 20 times but this is new for today can't see it can't see it it's not moving I need my frog died black please okay Frack red instead of black you should pay for the wool if whatever is more whatever is less that's what you give him what does it say by you so what do you see from here it's something to do with the delivery the what yeah so what do you see how do you see from this what do you see what do you what do you we trying to prove that oh so you see from here that if if you just give the owner the the T so it comes out that the client delivered him the wool and he got nothing out of it he he delivered the wool and and the guy paid him for the wool but the delivery is for free so we take we don't want him to have that the the the delivery the guy that owns the store and messed up he shouldn't he shouldn't have an you're not supposed to have an from your friend so pay him you pay him you pay him but that's it you don't you don't do what said that you pay for the says what's the other one what's the third thing how much time we have left what time is it now 20 minutes okay so if a person owes money he decides he's gonna he just gota his paycheck he's going to pay a third of it he owes $100 he's gonna pay 33 bucks but he he doesn't want the Mal to come in soon for $100 it do 100 see says let's deposit this with a third party you give the third party and he says like this if I pay on time great if I don't pay on time give the to the m in other words I'm asking to pay the 33 bucks again what is that called I'm just being now why because he doesn't want to pay again he paid and if he didn't pay on time as you expect he made a deal make a deal give it to him don't give it to him why because he shouldn't have shouldn't have for no reason why should he get1 133,000 that's a good I don't know it's a good why is it not R he paid a little bit he said if I don't come back this I hear according to Mayor you asking why not it's not Rivers we have to know why good like a no no no it's like a deal it's like but every but that's every ribus it's like uh it's a deal if I don't come if I pay if I don't pay so what is it's not for you have all that time to pay and then the it's for the added time no so this is it's like R because I paid you first I'm paying you at the end not the rib it's a pain the whatever it says in I don't know it's good child I have to think about it uh what does it say in the botom maybe they talk about it maybe it's such a simple question that it's so dumb that sorry it's a good Cas for you I don't know I don't have a good answer so now going to go through all three things how do you know that the point is not to have enough from somebody like something similar maybe it's p because if if he the guy lives in the bottom floor he's going to ruin the paint it's not going to be a brand new apartment you have a brand new smelling car and the guy used it for two months now it doesn't smell new anymore when I was by I saw this a lot of people have seen it you seen if you like candles in the dining room well he has a lot of candles the wall becomes black like the famous B um I probably said it 20 times in the last year we say it again a guy moved out of apartment and he left it in perfect condition beautiful walls so says you have to paint the whole apartment he says why it's beautiful he says because it says in the contract you have to paint he says but it's only the kids dirty then you paint it's beautiful mom is like brand new I barely lived here says in the cont you have to paint this is okay who side watch this machine just watch this on the side okay beautiful okay so so you regular fine okay at least it wasn't a good so the guy says okay they go to the r the r says listen I know this say but it says in the contract you know the story you guys know so the RO says you have to paint say okay he goes and he Paints the walls the darkest black color shine the entire apartment black you said you want to be mtic on the okay I painted and he painted the ugly as black now the guy had to pay somebody to paint it three times to get just the dark don't be a rash okay but that's why you can't live there without pain other case the reason why we penalize him give him a is because you're not supposed to change if you make a change not not what the guy said what I just heard oh somebody somebody just told me that he went to the store to engrave a pen he says here here's my pen please engrave I says no you're not going to believe what happened to me last week a guy brought me a pen from a store from in and had him engrave it the guy comes back he says no I don't like it you did the wrong way so says what do you want me to do he says you have to pay me for the pen and for the taxi to go by the pen and come back he says that's it so over here also you changed you were supposed to paint this dye this clothing black you did Red now you're going to have to suff the consequence and this guy is willing to pay the whole loan 100 even though you just paid 30 out of the 100 to pay the 100 again that's I'm not gonna go all the way back to the beginning maybe I will maybe if it's not so far away because it's we have to remember where is it okay I missed it okay fine we're gonna so we have a very very super simple it goes like this when the here you see this picture right over here when the house falls down or let's say a wall falls down so you have to get together with other guy and build it when you rebuild it you have to build it as good as it was before or better but not less that's it that's the whole so if the bottom was very thick was six you can't go to five but if the top was six and you want to go to Five that's okay because it's a lot of weight the top always it's better for the top to be lighter it's better for the bottom to be heavier and wider okay that's also you're assuming the insulation doesn't change yeah we don't discuss that talking about let's see see this the the bottom is five so if the bottom was six this is hold on we're talking about the okay soer if you go from which is six Li is the top one it's is six to five I thought you're going from which is six to GES which is five no good that's on the bottom when going from GES which was five Li was five and you go to something bigger and stronger it's on the bottom it's good let's go to the next case here about before was four and you're going to three same I mean simp where you go now let me just explain what is is one and a half and one and a half of stones together two stones each one is one and a half so one half plus one and half is how much three in between they put cement one so three plus one is four so if before was four was Fe was four and you go down to three no go but if you go from three to four on the bottom is you go to three instead of four Weist to make the roof made out of Cedar much better much stronger on the which is not as good just recently they they had a discovery in of old storage place of Cedar from the time of B Shen I think it is but B one of the B that's how long 2,000 years it stayed like this the W it lasts for a long time Cedar but yeah you Jonathan you find stuff that's old like old wood here not really you're not into that that's not your job is it no but we find like Caron yeah for how many years very thousands of years wow wowow so now you have a wall a wall with Windows is weaker than a wall that's made out of solid brick so if he says I want to take out a window we have five windows I want to make it four it's better you want to add and make a weaker on the bottom floor a if the bottom guy wants to make it taller a why because now he has the guy on top has to climb up more steps also it makes the building weaker it's heavier more more bricks to get higher up if he says I want to make it lower certainly top guy on top is gal steps now we do the whole thing all over yeah it's freeb the the upper guy wants to be M that what on top it used to be six now I don't know why I changed it you see is on the bottom you see what's going on here now we change it from six to five is galic why is it good it's lighter on top you want lighter show CH because now if you want to go from five to six remember what is Brick and a brick each one is one and a half with cement in between you want to go from the top guy you want to go from five I'm sorry from let's from three to four is no no no from four to three sorry from 4 to three is good when you go from something smaller is good because we're on the top floor we want it to be lighter did I skip something to make it heav not to make it lighter great to do the roof out of Cedar no good even though it lasts longer but it's much heavier it's lighter it's better the Upper Floor we want it lighter so if you add Windows it makes the wall light so to make less Windows more brick heavy if the guy wants to make his the top guy higher we don't listen to why because it makes it heavy so that's the same thing as the bottom guy by the way what if they both don't have money to build so now they want to sell off the K what should they do so this I wouldn't I wouldn't understand this on my own if me and you have I'm on the first floor I'm on the second floor who owns the both that's what we would think thear doesn't think like you so the first the first [Music] T only for the dam guy so this how we to him that he gets a third not not half a third only get 25 so I heard this what is the number one the number one I heard this from a this is I don't know fights about tenants in buildings people fighting about uh Renovations and this and that that but they [Music] are number one so had unfortunately lot a lot of experience with this kind of thing he was thez he was like the number two in CL he knows the depth of and he olds if I have a one story I have a ranch I have a one story house and if somebody says listen could I build on top of you how much does my house go down in value oneir why this gar time because I'm weakening in those days you weaken the house they didn't last a long time you're talking about you know like there's the big uh mansion used to have the house becomes weaker how much weaker 30 3% a third so when I sell you I give you the option to build I'm basically giving you a third of the car that's what he claims have a wonderful day for having me here in Italy it was a pleasure to see you it was great to have all you in London s Hill back for