Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 113 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good [Music] morning say you're not going believe this we have a special special Italian guest he's been doing the D with us since Milla his name is y what's your last name robach robacho I have to turn the camera around even though I don't think it's a good idea bad idea bad idea good idea good idea hold on hold on you turn turn turn turn turn turn turn show the whole here say say hello to everybody oh I see you oh perfect turn her back thank you now uh it's almost my so we have to like hurry up but he got us all Stones right out of the mountain that he works here beautiful stuff it's called Mali and for our wives crystals out of the mountains thank you it's unbelievable like you come to and he lives right here in the alpes it's unbelievable that there's Aid learning to with us for four years almost in the Alves do you it's considered the Alves where you live yes yes you live in the dolmes and you learn Torah with us every single day how do you hear about us unbelievable and you heard about us from Modern Orthodox Jew Jews from New York he said yeah unbelievable okay I just want to show you real quickly because we're in a big rush here this is rellie zelot from London zelinger from London and uh it's a whole story with Co and he almost lost his life in a battle he's in the hospital for many months and he's been with us going to get to see him in London hopefully he didn't say but I'm assuming we see him in London here he is with his grandchildren are you are you able to show the things so y can see the the pictures no or you just going to do work now first thing in the morning the new music this morning enjoyed by all ages you're making a MD right here on the spot if you know what I mean how much do nice he's the one that did the Heat's grandson and he did the article for us in the magaz and he said that MD Chang his life and I said thank you for the what do he means he said I he learned in kylo and he was very good in kylo but he never brought a gamar with him on vacations and would learn on a plane for an hour the way he did so in that way he changed his life what else do we have here oh we have the sponsors return of all hostages thank you this is I just want to show you real quickly um a little piece of Shear that I did for the Israelis it was very very windy and I was standing in the [Music] snow but we had a different share for the americos good morning live from the Italian Alps some of the said you know you're in the Alps why don't you share a little bit with us so here it goes of you have to pay an employee on time said yesterday that the employer he has aaka that he's not going to stiff the employee he's going to give him the money is that a word I could use even yeah okay gal but what about the employee himself doesn't he have that he's not GNA steal so says like this how could you say that an employee is gonna steal it's two against one there two that the employer has first of all like we said that is not going to be over on not paying on time and second of all he won't leave it by him he's going to pay immediately and he won't be over he won't be over on that he won't steal next let's go to the you see the T over here it's unbelievable it could be when asked did you see my Alps yeah here I saw the Alps on MD she it is if you come up with aam that you asked to be paid and you weren't paid then you could go ahead and make a even after the a lot of times usually have about 12 hours to why does he have to be the a him that he didn't that he didn't pay but maybe paid afterwards I don't know from that point on let's see good point ask the gar if he's demanding the money right now asks the didn't you just ask that beautiful why do he need he's asking right now it's talking about that the Adam came and said that he demanded to be paid when he was supposed to but right now they're not here but perhaps the employer did pay so how afterwards how does his that they're going to testify that they were there they watched him not being paid the entire time in other words at the end of Thea just before he demanded to be paid and he wasn't paid they don't have to literally be there every minute but all the way at the end says so that means that he could get paid any time forever you're right he gets one day after that point where this Aiden that testified he didn't get paid so from there on there's another full day rabai will continue in the next part all right so that is Us in the Alps learning T and the three and half minutes worth of and we are going to continue with when you go and you take you lend a money to someone and that person didn't pay you back so you want to take collateral you want to take a Mas make sure you do that with B you cannot go over to this house and take the Mas now it's very important to differentiate you are permitted to take a mashka deposit uh collateral when you give the loan but what we're talking about over here is when the loan is over and done with and he didn't pay back so you sue him and B it so it says like this maybe me do not go into this house a double is going to explain it might be talking about two different people says in the do not enter the person's house stand outside so somebody said once that when he was growing up he grew up extremely poor and uh they would come and turn off the electric and the phone and the water also the worst thing that ever happened and he's traumatized till this very day is when they came in it's called repo they came in and repo his parents' possessions that caused Everlasting trauma we don't want people coming into the house and grabbing stuff go to B let's say the had two different items that he wanted to use as a mas and these particular items one is good to use during the day one is good to use during the night so let's say one of them was a pillow blanket and the other one was a plow so the plow he needs during the day give it back during the day and the pillows a night so they don't overlap each other should I say the story here with the m and the puddle or Skip Skip and if the dies and he was used to getting his blanket every night you don't give back the pillow blanket to the Y so first of all let's see to go to the guy's house to take his belongs first is it and now there's a positive give back theill this says give it back to him yeah it's the same POS just underlined in this chart meaning this to give back a pillow at night to somebody who's poor and borrowed money from you is only the father but once the father dies the orphans don't get the pillow bag you only give back for 30 days after you s after 30 days you go sell it and take the money and give it back says gon argu is gonna tell us actually says that could go grab items from the borrower in middle of the marketplace he cannot go into the guy's house so that's going to be the discussion how can a agent of the bezin go into the guy's house and grab for the lender hey you didn't pay you didn't pay so let me grab something from your house let me repossession how do you say repo repo repossess that we say biter I don't even know the real word repo the Repo Man the Repo Man [Music] but we learned that you have to use so says you you shouldn't do it yourself you use meaning bz could go into the guy's house all right hold on I got to put this before I forget to put it here okay right over there yeah [Music] um we have to switch the word it's not it means you shouldn't grab the middle of the marketplace the only person that could do that the only people that could do that are I'll bring you right that in our let's read the the first line is when you want to take a collateral you have to do it and then says and do not enter his house to take the collateral so say the second line is that don't go into the guy's house who should go in if it's the Mal himself the lender that we already said says it must be talking about the not the borrow the lender okay that's not the greatest that's not a great because maybe perhaps this is what it meant to say you should only do with a so it seems like with a they do go into the guy house the lender himself cannot grab a middle of the marketplace why what's the if you allow a guy to go into the guy's house and grab he's going sorry if you allow him to grab in the street he'll go to the guy's house and grab you hear the guys not with me a question an answer leave the phones alone these guys already heard the share in Hebrew an hour ago so now they're like spacing out a little bit don't don't mind so it says like this you should not take a oh beautiful picture let me see if I can find this so first all this great pictures here I forgot to show you M's throwing you off here here's a guy giving back the PJs at night here's a guy coming at night stealing the hillo S these pictures oh here we go love it ask y to design this little guy no not this oh yeah this one so is usually a giant um grinder and they used to have small portable ones not this one this is a joke so don't take that away from him because how is he going to make flour to eat so I want to tell you a beautiful thing you know has if you look at this one it has a nice texture in it you have to and there's there's a tool that makes these small little indentations in the so because it was flat it wouldn't grind well and it's a muscle for life you hear this no moster life life needs the little bumps the ups and then Downs if you have a smooth going life uhuh it doesn't do the job the job is done you can produce nice flour when you have the bumps when you have also again didn't really like my chat but I don't know how y has to do with taking means to harm somebody so maybe over here you're taking from the poor and you're harming it you said it's okay I didn't get I didn't get ask says but if it's something else that oh no this guy gonna drive me crazy now but if it's not the actual grinder you could take don't take from Widow if you say that we're talking about the [Music] lender says you can't go cannot go into the GU house maybe I should say this story over here yeah I think you should okay it's great story that uh a guy comes to the re and says Reb what should I do I have an Al that's renting for me and she's not paying rent I want kick her out so the re said no you can't kick her out because she's Al said what I have to take upon myself all the money because she's an so the Reb said yes she says but why let other people in the community pitch in why do I have to take all the money so the reab said because since it came to your hands since you're the one here dealing with it so that's your of saying that's the that's what the re said and many times Things fall into our lap and instead of saying listen let other people deal with it if it falls into your lap you have more oh that's basically the but I want to say it here because we get kicked out for my says dream [Music] no we're holding like four lines from the [Music] B two lines up scared show the little he's not allowed to go into the [Music] house okay you're right comes to say that too the question again are the bezan allowed to go into the borrower's house and take remove Lal from the house it says you should stand outside so then why does the repeat himself and say oh and the will bring it out to you it already says you should wait outside what are you waiting for you're waiting for the collateral so it goes like this let me just see if I can find it go is referring to the LA so since it's extra it's coming to say that the messenger the agent of the and just like goes into his own house so too goes into the's House byov LLC straight from the Alps we're in the Italian Alps myself nonix and Kam and our wives after them they convince me to come and I enjoy myself tremendously even though we're giving to Preparing but it's it really is it's really beautiful over here I hope you enjoyed the little video of the T over the AL okay so it goes like this the way you read it is that's talking about and he's not related to the referring to the in other words like the just like the Mal can't enter the guy's house so too can't enter his house we're not giving up yet what time is it we have we have some time we have like from a basis more than talking shouldn't go talking about the lender that he can't go in already says that the lender can't go in repeat itself not go in okay and and then that's yeah allow let's do it again that he's allowed to go the of yeah that's how we learned it in the Hebrew but now we're saying okay are you sure okay oh no don't cut let's keep on going because think I'm serious I'm saying don't could go that he's not allowed to go to the GU house went second we're going to say so over here we have t number one that says cannot go into the GU house stand out okay this is the this is this goes like the questions that we had on it's another we're not there yet but the lender himself should not go in stands stand outside go so don't ask him any questions any any any you bring me that says that you could go in goes according to this you can't go in goes according to the first now we continue the says do not take collateral something that Thea needs to live on like and he gives a bed bankruptcy even when you go bankrupt there's certain things you cannot take from the person like his tools of the trade like the actual tools of the trade I know if you you proud they hear you just as well as me because uh it's just on iPhone she's saying that B see they don't take everything away from you they take things that are not but things that are like the tools of you trade they W beautiful and the gives the a bed and then it continues which means a second bed a mattress only if he's wel now if he's poor a regular bed like a mat a picture boys let me find it here here we go check this out beautiful so we have the guy on the mattress and we have the guy on the floor because he's he gets the small okay this applies only to the himself to the bar himself but not his wife and children says oh hold on I have to go back to this you ready is a cool stick here wow that's ATI we going to go back to this here we go you remember what Erin is Erin Erin is when a person says my value I'm going to give to or he points to somebody he says your how old are you am I to ask how old 52 you're 52 let's look at the list here if you're 50 year years old and you are no that's not good this is off yeah yeah between 20 and 60 is 50 between 20 and 6 60 to cut off is 50 you're worth 50 it's the top amount possible from 5 to 20 a teenager 19 years old is only 20 but from 20 to 60 you're you're worth 50 okay we got to hurry up here before they stop making noise so just like the says just like you assess how much the borrower is worth and what he needs the same thing we do when a person says I'm giving to the 50 have to go into his house if he doesn't have money we have to see what could he afford what can what can do so says the clappy LI it's the exact opposite it's not that we learn from it's the opposite this concept that we go into the guy's house and check what he has is by and and we learn from we learn yeah you're right you're right let's flip the way we do it with that's what we do with as well just to point something very fascinating that there's a big difference between and think about it if you're very poor and all you could afford is this bottle to give back to the guy you borrowed a million dollars and they're going to take this and give it to him instead when you become wealthy you win the lottery you still owe the million dollars but when it comes to some people get confused with it but is very when it comes to Erin if you're poor today and they say you know what you promised 50 shekele to the B English but you could only afford one then you become wealthy tomorrow you don't have to pay that's not the case in bankruptcy in bankruptcy if you resolve your debts it's low Lum po you don't go back and get some that's why people is it inside J some people got confused in the other sh that's why they're making fun now why do you have to give two beds two beds the the wealthy guy gets a nice mattress the poor guy gets a small mattress you don't have to give something to the wife and children he needs two mattresses two one he eats on it and one he sleeps on check this out not this picture it's a beautiful picture but it's not so you have the pictures by you why don't you put it on so see so since they're separated like this as thear is going to explain they're four away so of look what you did now because of you he's on the what you're losing him explain says I know to I could heal any type of disease in the world besides three what are the terrible diseases whoever eats a bitter date on an empty stomach I don't know how to heal that and the one that puts a rope that's made out of flax that's wet around his hip and this is the one if eat bread if you eat bread you go to sleep without walking terrible I think the scientist say the same thing you shouldn't eat close to your bedtime the all day people that when they eat they take a little exactly they don't want to see I thought people would have know what that means but okay they take a little walk so why do I give him two beds so he shouldn't get this terrible M he might eaten his bed in those days he would eat on a couch like then he fall asleep you know a lot of people do that today they they watch something whatever they eat like this breakfast meal in bed and then they fall as asleep that we don't want we want you to get out of the bed walk over four hours we said before just like we assess the guy's possessions when it comes to he doesn't have the money to pay the we set how much he could afford same thing we do according to the Mish we saw one she DOL we said that you should sell his stuff after 30 days we're going to get to it so you're GNA assess how much it's worth how much he needs how much how much he needs means even for the future a year from now two years from now he's not going to have anything by then according to you that we're selling it he doesn't have anything to be first of all first who says you should sell something says give back a pillow at night and the plow during the day days sell it 30 days have to sell it know until 30 days you give it back to the here take it for 30 days don't take it completely from him and sell it rather take it from him let's say it's a beautiful car it's a Lamborghini we saw a bunch of Ferraris today let's take his Ferrari sell it and get him a Corolla he doesn't need anything special but doesn't mean you should sell completely maybe he does need a a car cor is like a lamb yeah cam is like C it used to be depends if how many books you ask you're talking listen to this every Jew is a king is the son of a king where the sons of we should pick up our heads it reminds me there two Styles ofas there's and there's is God you feel good about yourself you're the son ofo n is you're nothing you're garbage guess what I don't think there's any sh like well there was one in friend was that I mean most of them today are based on the experience I'm great yeah that every single thing the guy has let's say the guy has a Lamborghini has a Ferrari even though he's very poor but no he's a son of a king don't take it away from all every Jew is the son of a king you shouldn't touch on food that you can't use l is a vegetable that you can't eat at Raw so what are you going you can't cook it on chavas mustard you can't if you don't if you didn't grind it down you can't use it on CH he says no yes because if you have a raven you can give it to the Raven say you're not gonna believe this this that just today oh first of all let me show you this beautiful picture of you sh he's a sitting in business class he's a Ben let me see where the oh so we happen to be today in the eles and uh no and ABI were feeding the Ravens the local Ravens we think they're Ravens okay you want to be send the email and tell us how they're not Ravens we think at least for this for the she the Ravens and here you see how the Raven is eating spray out of their hand Bo [Laughter] here it's a kiss from that's today that's where I gave this she that's exactly the spot here you can see if you compare one to the other 3,000 me on 3,000 m up wow what is that 10,000 feet up in the year okay next the son of a king runs around with Ravens sitting on a shoulder I don't know whatever they do so you're the son of a king so you can give this food to the Ravens so is not very very interesting so you see you see even though you don't need it right now but you're the son of the king you could need at any minute if you get a raven says and how you see that were King it's not what time is it what are we doing with time 8:25 9:25 so we have 20 minutes beautiful would use they would oil themselves with the oil of roses they would use it on now you shouldn't shmear oil on your body it's like you're not allow to do like um medicine that sort of stuff but the son of a king since he uses it during the week he's allowed to do it on chabas something do during the week says everybody could you and I could also why because we're also the son Sons of King see that they say that are the sons of King he owes a guy a thousand he's wearing a coat a $10,000 coat I always say this because it's it's a way to for us to think for a second to make this jacket this shirt tightly woven in the time of the gamar this must cost $100,000 minimum to take a thread and do it so thi and to sit there thread by thread by thread not kidding $100,000 so there's such a thing called a coat cost 10,000 what do you do if a guy owes money and he has he has a very valuable coat you see it all the time in my properties guys I don't have money but they're driving around all these cars with the Spinners and whole thing 50,000 Square in TV why take it from him sell it and pay off your debt so take off his coat on the spot give something cheaper not true all we very expensive you give him what he could what he deserves and and you take the rest and you pay off the debt I understand if you're talking about pill a pillow so there's different grades even today you have the soft pillow and the hard one and the one that has memory foam different pillows so you give something but a plow there's one type of plow everybody plows the same plow no no oh my check this out it's gorgeous you have a beautiful silver plow maybe we before said so wealthy maybe used a silver plow so sell the silver plow and get a regular plow Mas says going back the Mala has to make sure that the has everything he needs to live on why am I responsible for your livelihood you owe me money I gave you you have my money by you so pay me why do I have to worry about your livelihood the truth is it's his problem why gave you this problem when you lent him money and he doesn't have money now it's your problem don't say like the guy like the story before I wanted to put it there but we had enough time when gives you the opportunity for it's opportunity my you know my sister-in-law Fall's wife used to say to for all time now she's doing great remember so she always says it's opportunity for why do you have this interesting character opportunity for some people get on your nerve opportunity for so you lend somebody money it's opportunity to Do's telling you it's your it's your don't try to put it on somebody else have a wonderful day and thank you so much for coming thank you it's a tremendous unbelievable