Daf Yomi Bava Kama Daf 92 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning [Music] R welcome welcome to all the guest what's your name Yehuda from Chicago wow he di my I I should say what's your name you look so familiar I know only a few times I've run um yeah every day what's your names y see gitler you son from Bor Park I met you at least a few times yeah yeah that's your brother-in-law have unbelievable da today and don't get used to it it's we're not going to have something like this for for a few months all the way so eat it up it's I bought my kids the new bestseller book from Seltzer angels in Orange after they saw you advertising it so they asked me if it's stories like your belly tells or it's real m #say listen to this this is a kiss from hasem hasht so I don't know if he knows that that line is in today's I guess maybe I don't know you said yesterday beautiful story about Yi Klein they the of the week every shabas this reminds me of a story seven years ago by my son-in-law's who has a problem with the rabi Moi who is that nobody nobody everyone's RAB no I I hear somebody grumbling over there with the rabie who that the New Yorker it's [Music] you this reminds me of a story seven years ago my son-in-law's came in to speak he started off by saying and this's a guy that learned with him for seven years or so comes in speak say I don't know anything about the family oh I'm learning with him for six years so I'm only going to say I found out later why every Friday night after the sud both in the winter and the summer they the entire week's da which takes them four to five hours so they don't waste time they start off by wishing each other good chabas and finish off with wishing each other good chabas for almost 13 years and he knows nothing about the other personer this is for your next book 13 years he comes to the Sher he says I don't know anything about the let me just say we learn every Friday night for four and a half years yeah this this uh this actually I I got emotional when I read this it says over here on uh on some sort of message oh if you go to join for y.com that's about y join the D him so it says over here somebody wrote s s forking y got me to join right before he got sick and I didn't even get to tell him thank you thank you for the 45 minutes a day that changed my life in so many different ways Daddy it's good give me more I've given up sending in you emails the only way I know you have read it is when you read it out by this year now that we got the famous shimmy leafman you can't ignore and his Merit I'll be remembered your tal fromus look how he writes kusus have a wonderful and meaningful day here he's right if you have shimy lein in the video it goes on that's how it is no good morning need to redo it again good morning gold is green ah okay I don't know how that got in there um I have we have to do the um we'll jump right into the sponsors the K of the month no one yet the sponsor for the unity on zo whoever wants to say hello of our fathers [Music] come more often am David happy birthday to my father Ste sets the example of all may have a full because be able to attend the live share again very soon remember him he was in the Manchester share I believe yeah the child birth for his daughter and healthy baby it's unbelievable death let's go we are holding six lines from the bottom 90 3 months ago we were in the hotel in the sh all of us the ones that were meant to be there if you have a palm tree that has just one C which is a which is the big she two and a half liters worth of dates imagine this this guy that uh trains dogs to detect the bug that destroys the palm trees lives here in B I called him off yesterday his name is Gil he said tell me a little about your dogs so said listen some of these trees produce 200 kilo of dates approximately 400 lbs of dates I bought yesterday I just happened to buy this uh mle whatever it's called it's m mul mostly most of the produce comes from Mar by the way 60 shek a kilo so let's say $78 a pound that's like $3,000 a tree of produce $3,000 says even if yeah 12 60 shek which translates to like $7 a pound 2.2 pounds per kilo do the math ker it's like three 1,200 she $3,000 a tree so whatever whatever do the matter who cares it's thousands of dollars a tree the point is much more says much much more okay you do the fine much more the point is that if the tree only produces two and a half liters whatever this amount you you can't cut it down it's already B to cut it down what about a tree only a quarter of that amount a half a liter let's say whatever it is why so little says because in those days olives were more expensive than dates so therefore the shear is less my son has died why he cut down a a palm tree before before he's allowed to cut it down fig tree thank you what if there's more value in the wood I want to knock down the tree because I want to build a house M so here you have the first hether to cut down a tree it's not about the fruit it's about the Bas and when you have more benefit from the wood then the fruit then it's m to cut it down oh so we're going to get there we're going to get there I just want say we'll get to the m here are the the first tells you right afterwards it says so those four words are really extra could start off if you have a tree that's not it's just a non fruit producing tree so what what what are these words so you have a tree that produces fruit and one that doesn't if the t is telling us that you're permitted to knock down a fruit tree in time of War so certainly a fruit tree that doesn't produce fruit you're allowed to knock down to tell us that if you have a choice you go right you go left to the right is's a fruit tree and to the left is a non-fruit tree so go to the one that doesn't produce fruit either way you're allowed to if there's only one way to go so you're allowed to take down the fruit tree because it's a war top of sadic B I think that even if the fruit tree brings more money from chopping it down for the wood in it you should not you should go and chop down the other tree in other words the Torah is telling us that if it's more beneficial for you in your pocket to knock down the tree so knock it down so he had a sheer CRA in those days you had a field you had somebody else do the work and they split usually a third and twoth thirds so the artist brings some dates here here's a date able to taste wine inside of the date what's going on here funny taste in dates the these palm trees are growing in the vineyard so it's it's it has a little bit of the taste of the wine the you're you're putting you're ruining the vineyard but by by having by having the the flavor of the grapes inside the dates obviously you're taking flavor out of the date no what because it's not it's a certain distance whatever it is that wasn't the issue I want you to uproot the palm tree and bring it to me why because I'm I have more benefit from The Grapes so here's another reason why you're permitted to knock down a tree he saw that the small palm trees are growing in the vineyard take them out you could purchase more palm trees with the profit that you get from grapes but when you have palm trees you're not going to palm trees are not more profitable enough to to buy a Vineyard in those days Vineyard certainly were more profitable than so anyways it goes by the B where your Prophet is speak about what happens in are you permitted to chop down a tree in order to build a building you're not so it could be that according to but it's not advisable so it's doesn't bring good masle and it's it's a bad thing they don't advise to ask your local Rabbi before you do it what Sak Sak not ADV right of Sak not so much Allah above they are very mock that's what I'm saying B the guy had it for many many years just waiting for them to die out and they wouldn't die like all of a sudden when you need the tree to die if you don't usually if you have a tree you don't put water die you know within a month but if you wanted to die then it last for 25 years and K that's what happened over there says even though you pay for the damage that you cause for the that you cause someone you only get full forgiveness from doesn't forgive unless you receive forgiveness from the the person that you damaged we're talking about here let's see theuk for a second the famous par he told that is his sister he took her never touched what you're going to kill me I'm he told me says the tell him give simp is that he knows that you didn't do anything wrong he's AI don't worry about it hold down for you give it back you see that says he's going to D for you he's going to D so you have to ask you have to story a guy was very embarrassed to ask forgiveness from somebody that he did wrong to and I think that's part of the the process part of the that you get is by being embarrassed it's embarrassing to say you know I wronged you please be that goof the guy was very embarrassed asked the rabbi can I ask M over the phone yeah yeah you can ask for forgiveness over the phone so he calls up uh you know the Guy Mr fredman hello yeah is this kovich no it's not kovich I'm sorry and he hangs up the phone that doesn't count oh there's a lot of you saw this in today's da a lot of lot of mus and that are relevant to us if somebody did you wrong and he comes over to you when he asks you for you don't and you're not you're how do you say in English you're cruel it's cruelty cruelty not to be somebody not to forgive I mean it's natural look you know what you did to me you're just going to come over and ask me I want you to come six times all thing it's cruelty not only did after what he did to him he took away wife he ding for him that he should be good and healed because of it says the I want you to Blind me and the guy goes ahead and blinds him and he says what what are you doing I was joking I wasn't serious the guy took him literally he said blind he blinded his eye break my foot chop my hand off the guy that does it is I'm ask LIF even if he says don't worry about it I'm being serious here you'll be PO he still however if he says I want you to rip my clothing break my car then he's still but if the guy says you could destroy my car do whatever you want and you won't be he says specifically you won't be in that case going to discuss what the difference is between saying break my arm and in all cases you're and and um versus a CLE that your Potter I say and ask somebody has a big enemy so he tells like a random person he says you know that guy wants you to burn his house down so the guy goes and burns the house down the guy comes out what are you doing he said so and so told me that you want me to burn the house now say I never said that he's lying he hates me so who's the guy that sent him the guy that lied or the guy that burnt the guy that burnt there's no the guy told him go break his arm he likes broken arms go break somebody random guy's arm all that we said that you're paying for the when somebody's M you yeah there's a guy sitting right over here with L sitting last night he said he scream he screamed you're right he screamed why should I be because we were talking you have to be he says I cannot be what he did to me and the whole whole draw so I said here rash explains that I have to pay for your boes today but what about the boes that you have 10 years later when you remember what the M did to you and it gives you trauma when you're in your 40s that's a whole different s that says even if brought all these it's not enough to to ask you have to go to the human being to the person [Music] you ask question because she's the wife of of that's why you have to return you have to return no matter what of course you have to return somebody's wife how could you kill me I'm innocent he told me that she's his sister and she even admitted that said listen he's AI he's a person that goes around not noi like he know has but that DARS in the world everybody already heard about when somebody comes off a long journey what's the first thing you ask him say do you need a cup of water you don't look at him and say oh youus you don't ask him uh by the way this person next to you is your sister she what do you that's not what you talking about you talking about huh they got come ask somebody come somebody knew so you ask him right away do you want something to drink can I make you tongue can I give you some mustard you start asking him about his wife he deserved to die he heard the speech from but he didn't take it to heart says inem made a blockage in the body twice two blockages what are the two openings that block so in fact it says the according to it's always one less by the man it wasn't two blockages by the man just when it comes to the woman it was two that it wouldn't be P the body wouldn't discharge it and she couldn't give birth in fact it was one more now we go to can't go to the bathroom let's add one more explain how the only says two no is one one source so you can't go not can't go to the bathroom both ways all wombs were blocked I not even pregnant beings even animals that have lay eggs they also couldn't lay their eggs I have a very very interesting here we have tells 17 different each one is is a beautiful inion and I just because I was bored so I counted that's six words time 17 96 words are freebies on this daff right here it says it 17 times so don't worry about it looks large 96 take off 96 for it's interesting we're going to say quotes people use these quotes the poor get poor the rich get richer where do you see certain quotes in the tah are they real because the Torah has everything and if it's a real quote if it's it means something meaningful it should be somewhere in the if you ask and you dve in for your friend and you and your friend need the same thing you do it for your friend will answer your first I was looking for a story for this I couldn't find one I asked I said you probably have a good one he says no nothing comes to mind so I I was desperate in desperate times call for desperate measures I found a story unbelievable story unbelievable story there's uh two B that weren't married in Yesa and they decided that they're going to D they're going to save the entire one for the other one of them got a little drunk and he he wakes up 3 in the morning he say o I didn't say the till him for for my friend she goes to B me she opens up till so saying him in comes big into the 3:30 in the morning you seees a guy saying tell him he walks away he says what's going on here he says I'm saying tell him for my friend saying him for my friend he doesn't have a and what about you I want you to marry my daughter a guy that could be up 3:30 in the morning to say for his friend how do I know that this story is mish false cuz I made it up made it up I didn't have a good story it was almost good no was this close to being good made up say completely false you're disappointed no you can't you can't say this [Music] over how do we know this is true no there's a lot of stories that two girls didn't have a and two people didn't have children and Dam one another and Mish this is the gar not to make a joke out of it I was gonna say but I knows my wife the famous who had all those three of out of his four friends told him you know you probably deserve the didn't like the way they spoke them so he gave them the for his friends andem healed him first said that's the source I say from we just had it that there shouldn't be any more blockages of the womb immediately gave child now although already promised the child before the whole story but it only went into Play Once once says what in that moment that that's when she became pregnant again lucky when you pull out the weeds sometimes the cabbages get ruined they say in other not in our country but in other places in this war let's in Ukraine when you when you hit the enemy sometimes you'll get some collateral damage some children whatever I'm not talking about terrorists whatever I'm talking about you know collateral damage sometimes you pull out the weeds you get the get cabbage all of you tells the all of you even the you all sin the it says by the when he tells you why did you stop keeping our to the MIT in the to in fact this AR inel we're all one so when these people sin we all sin yes we have to view ourselves and worry about ourselves in we're all one big when his brothers came to it took five to bring to par he was worried that he didn't want par to see the real strong large ones and he'll make them in charge of the army you want him to be able to continue doing what they do and he brought the smaller ones what's the ones that had a doubling of their name by the bras right the two sh any one that was called twice those were the weaker why did they why did say their name twice because they were weak they needed a double here's the list if you want to see these are the five that y brought sorry but was very strong and he also had a double there's a reason why and then goes on to explain what's famous all 40 years yehuda's bones were rolling around in the coffin not like a sadic that has his his whole body is whole and it's a problem for whatever reason it is with the whole story with and taking out his father's bed and putting in his mother's oil who caused ruin to to to admit Yehuda the story with yud and when when ruin saw what Yuda did and he said right it's me so ruin also did it and ruin is whole complete is not complete hasem heard yehuda's voice all every all his limbs came together but they wouldn't allow him into sh what do we do in sh do we CH over there or like other they think that they go up there and they get married or whatever no that's not what is so Contin to but he got up there and everybody's learning T that's what you do he learned and he couldn't understand the word that was going on was no back and forth so he daved that his hands should fight for him so to speak he should be able to contend with everybody yeah so he started sming and learning with them but it wasn't good nobody it wasn't good it wasn't the the to that that [Music] went so and then his became how do I know the poor get poor and the rich get richer here Yi did a little thing here for that something like that okay it's kind of loud speak it a little lower the rich get richer the poor get poor is that something that you seen the T yes when brings the first fruit to the the very wealthy bring it in golden vessels not so wealthy in silver but the poor bring it in very simple vessels and straw and what happens to the vessels they give it to the Cen and get stuck by the Cen so they actually lose more the rich guy gets to take his gold home and the poor guy loses his his basket his cheap basket and they have to give the bask I know from a different place interesting when a person is a he has a to go in the street and announce I'm a so not only is he now he has the of announcing it we have a beautiful video here check this out [Music] yeah [Music] out this a another 10 seconds that they run away thing I I couldn't get it on he sent the H you like it [Music] okay no no no this is the new mayor sh what are you talking about you haven't been there in a while Tama 38 literally Tama 38 uh David Steinberg sent me this morning uh email he says today's the yard side of the Manchester Riva today yesterday yesterday some he wrote it yesterday and he says that says why do what's this Tom when a person speaks he loses the ability to DAV so when he screams Tom Tom I'm Tomy I can't D my doesn't go up I spoke please D for me another one sponsored by Greg habber for the success and the safe return of our hostages and for for all you should wake up early in the morning and eat bread in the in the summer before it gets hot know for the hot the heat of the Sun and in the winter you should eat bread early in the morning because of the cold people say people say the 60 Runners try to chase me down and they can't reach the person who eats bread in the [Music] morning you should worship and he blessed your bread and your water should eat bread with you should eat bread with salt and a jug of water and if you do that you won't have any disease it really means the gallbladder why is it called is 70 is 8 plus 5 is 83 eat some bread with salt in the morning and some water you won't have these Maas so let me tell you a story I want to share with you that have never done this before um I'm going to tell you the story yesterday when I was learning with my I said stop I want to tell you what I think the in the G is and he didn't like myat so I'm GNA I want to share with you it's very very interesting I read it like this if you wake up in the morning and you do the da you learn TI in the morning 60 people could chase you they're not going to catch up to you because you learned to in the morning first you have to learn not bread bread what talking about bread learn learn with that's going to save from disease this already is not the real is 83 you know what is 84 is okay and if you do that so I decided I want to share with you the insights scoop of the b in the morning couple of the guys were missing but I want to show you first of all notice was learning of this thing and he tells me he says that's not the realat and if you and if you'll find somebody that says I said what what are you talking about I bet you if you look it up you'll find something he says you're not going to find it any safer but if you do it's going to be safer so I scream out on the spot I said you not scream that on the spot I said a good here and my argu with me if somebody can find this shot I really appreciate it then I say you know what if somebody finds I'll give 100 bucks so you see the Bell get up on the spot and he takes the and he first he upset says and if it's it's not good it's also good fine BS is the I maybe I'll point out who he is I'll try to get the thing here but it's all on video now 20 minutes later the Bell just screams out I found it okay and that's the video you'll hear so let me share it with you just how the inside and my my son lzy is the first time he ever did a video put together so if there's any issues uh give cut in some slack he put the the words in they're not 100% accurate what he wrote my didn't say it's not good he said okay it's not the fine here we go you ready uh let me get the laser first let me see if I can find the laser here oh here so RAB say this is my right over here this is me over here this is Jacobs ra this by the way Hill Abramson came to learn the B is right over here helping his out he's going to be he's going to be in this corner 20 minutes later right over there and RAB here [Music] goes for going okay so the vill says he says he talking about to but he says he says much better than me of course he says Boer means when you're younger not in the morning it means when you're younger when you learn when you're young it lasts year for your life life oh my did not like that no I said it I said it's not the real not simple said I'm asking but that the underlying okay fine just thought I share with you what no that was that was just extra just to get him mad you know like yeah that wasn't the main that was okay we're continuing if your friend calls you a donkey oh sorry let's get rid of that somehow Gary okay if your friend calls you donkey what do you do go put on a saddle act like a donkey welcome back Tom I didn't notice you I noticed you I didn't that you were word not it's much more than that it goes like this basically here first of all look at this the guy's holding a saddle you donkey you here get here the point is that if somebody calls you a donkey it doesn't mean that oh he's badem sent a he's a bad guy he shouldn't be calling you names he shouldn't be accusing you of things but sometimes hasem is trying to wake you up and he's saying listen you might be a stickle donkey you're act so act like one fix it it's a sign from hasem the Tells you're the slave of where you coming from where you going and she said she doesn't say I'm not a I'm not a anymore I was thrown out I'm already free no you're right you called me a I'm a I I'll I'll take it do we know this saying when you meet somebody for the first time you say hi I'm Ellie I'm an addict what's your Wi-Fi code I mean like you know like instead you say right away I'm SLE off I'm off just you should know and you know I have a little limp my my my knee is not good you know you go right into it how do you know cuz it says d first thing is you should know I'm a slave the rest the rest it doesn't matter we take things literally also yeah there's a lot of interesting RI here but there's also as well a duck looks is looking downwards his head is downwards but his eyes are straight forward he's looking ahead so that's the story with was very upset at no her husband he he needed food for the soldiers and he didn't want to give he said you know what let's go wipe them out so she came with a big speech prepared speech and she convinced not to kill her husband but then she said as she's leaving she says if one day it happens that my husband is not going to be here anymore remember me I'm a good 10 days later novel left this world and married her so what do you see from here says Rashi that when a person wants to ask for something and he's he's too shy because of Anova he doesn't want but when it comes to T and when it comes to even other thinga be strong ask to learn somebody with with somebody ask for par it's okay don't be a n of she said hey I might be a good for you one day that's what it says here all and everything but we could learn a lesson oh I got to tell you this there's a a r had a had a case a couple came to him and he and they wanted to get divorced so the r heard from the story he's like he's been through this many many times this couple should stay married there's no reason for them to get divorced so he tells one of the really people a known person he says listen when they're here you come to me in Middle whisper something in my ear I'm going to scream at you and you run out of the room okay so they come and they start smoing this get and the guy comes into the room he whispers something to the r the r says are you crazy she's not divorced yet I don't know if it's a good for you or not get out of here so the husband is like what this guy wants to married my wife already we're not even the boys okay fine I think it's a good for me stay stay married okay I'm just thinking like she tell by the way I'm not might be good later [Music] on if you have you're gonna have a 60 to eggs for the teeth the the when you hear your friend chewing away over there eating ice cream eating a steak in front of you you don't eat it your teeth going to hurt so made a sud over there invited all the people that were going to be M again you'll say oh but it's not the story I hear he but all the people that were part of the king with DAV he didn't invite to the meal so it bothered him he wasn't invited to the meal I bring it from another place so get married and then it says sort of like obviously that's not what happened but you see that kind of had a like a jealousy of his son that he got married I also want to get married so this is unbelievable many times we give we give our to the wrong person you have to you have to realize who to give that we sometimes thank the waiter who pours the wine without giving the right to the owner to the balab that invited me to this meal he paid for the wine the guy just went like this but the the the1 Thousand battle was bought by the balabas did you say thank you to him so the Arts SC brings here a beautiful story from theas he says that the remash the talet of the she of the of the of the Riff says the Riff was very sick and they said you have to go to a bath house he went to some private bath house and he was healed over there and he stayed by the guy's house later on the guy lost all his money and they wanted to do like this Brank repy thing and they wanted to sell off some of the assets and the Riff excused himself he says I'm not I can't be a dying on this case why because the bath house helped me I'm not going to do anything against the bath house so says his tal if the Riff acted like that for an object something so certainly for a human being that did you good one time did you one good you have to have a c life forever and then certainly gave you life and everything else exactly with the with the stick and the yeah 100% why was the tah is telling us what people said it's not because put his hands on yesu that Yeshua became put it in there so what are you [Music] giving this was a kiss Fromm for me yesterday no sent me this whole thing that oh it looks seems like the the war in Lebanon is imminent and one should put aside a lot of water to flush the toilets and different plastic bags and get bag and you should know that if you if you have electric oven you need a gas oven so so fake news and not fake news whatever it was for me was good cuz I was able to send to my wife and I wanted to see a reaction watching from the window she gets up she comes in and she says what are you going to do I said you got to buy a lot of tuna cans you need tuna cans so she says but the boys don't need anything but Pizza I said they're going to have a problem they're going to have to get used to tuna you know a lot of guys go to the Army and for a whole week they eat tuna just tuna there's a lot of people are sensitive to tuna they have to eat tuna and after 2 three days when they're starving they eat tuna say my kids they'll die before they eat tuna I said watch and see she leaves the office and I continue I continue the next word what do you see that people say a dog when he's hungry in a in he's starving GL M he'll eat stones or the better rash for my story is that he he'll eat tuna says I don't like the of why even though GL usually means but he says a dog always eats what's so because his family is going to eat Stones how do I know if you're full you'll eat honey from honey but if you're hungry even tun become sweet should be but by me again I don't know this woman didn't do a great job today once says go our school so one of my children unfortunately I remember the first he used to tend to have not such good friends so we Mo we we changed schools on the first day he comes home he says oh I got a great friend I said who he says oh this kid is amazing he said what well what he says this kid he's the kid that burnt down the school I'm like that's your friend no he's not like the other losers in the class you know they learn this guy's he I'm serious this is what he said anyways how do you know where do you see this in the T So brings just so uh you know a bad a bad palm tree goes to the to the the bad the bad reads it's all over it's the you see the bad goes to the bad bad people went to all birds there and humans go to the ones that are similar to them birds of feather FL together we have a beautiful thing that Yoshi did here to explain this gamar on the left you have a piece of wood that's plain simple not not nothing so it's is not on the right side you have a table you took a piece of wood you made it you you fashioned it into a CLE so it's now if you look closely there's two hooks a metal hook what is a metal hook is it Ma or not so if it's fashion if it's screwed into the plain simple piece of wood and then a mouse touched it a dead mouse touched it a sherid touched it Sher is aat and he would touch something that's becomes a so since the one on the left is attached to a piece of wood that's not so the metal hook itself is like that piece of wood it's not maum it's star but the one on the right it's the same hook but it's hooked into a piece of wood that's the go with the and go with it's a famous saying in Hebrew here's here's similar looking birds now says that the Starling is actually koser but the other says listen if he's kosher why does he go together with the with the Raven you don't see pigeons with Ravens the is the both I think when when they want to say that you know the guy's bad and look at his friends they say if you try to get wake up your friend for and it doesn't listen to you lift up a giant wall knock him out with the wall I try to become from it's not it's too late I'm just going to bury [Music] you well that you drink from don't throw Stone into it don't throw dirt in air this is where this the article says this thing that a person should have a to a person that does good to him if if somebody gave you to drink never ever throw a stone at him a person does one good thing for you have a for the rest of your life to him if you're gonna lift it with me I'll help you out but if you're gonna make me do my own I'm not going to do it also is saying this from last week this past says if you go with me great if not not so you see this saying in thei have a wonderful day a wonderful shab today I think this two one at 5 to one one at a quarter to two followed by the Hebrew at two Hebrew two 8:15 is the she 9:30 in [Music] Hebrew