Daf Yomi Bava Kama Daf 89 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good [Music] morning from Yo ven I'm a sixth grade reving Chicago Ires and I also use a lot of visuals to teach my like you do in your sh although I go slower and more detail being that I'm a teaching I'm teaching the sixth grade class I this every Nar with a PowerPoint to explain it I saw some of your Powerpoints and images and they are really very beautiful and eye-catching would I be able to get a copy of your Powerpoints and wow they learn in sixth grade sure so I can integrate them with M to help out my slideshows look even better listen uh the slides are available to everybody I think I don't even know how to get them I think you just go on no the Powerpoints [Music] not ahuh so what they take the actual PDFs and they put it use it as a PowerPoint we'll have to figure something out fory I working with a man who was convinced to come to me because he regularly hits his little children when they get to run and aren't cooperating this father listens regularly to you and shared with me what you said recently including the quotation from I think it needs to be emphasized that there are effective methods other than hitting in almost all situations and there a certainly wouldn't condone hitting out of frustration annoyance or anger interesting this issue has been very relevant in my own parenting for example my wife and I have been raising a foster child since he was very young the child could be quite a handful of at times but because the fostering authorities might take him away if we were to hit him or even regularly yell at him when his behaves talks back or doesn't cooperate we been forced to resort to other methods in doing so we've had to cultivate and exercise patience and creativity it's surprising how much one can accomplish without smacking even with difficult children made an excellent point that we aren't stamat to anyone you could add that we actually have an obligation to treat every Drew with respect I added that including children I added that it's also good because you are modeling how they should speak and behave towards others in conclusion you took pains to emphasize that hitting should be used sparingly like an option that's in the background but rarely exercised listen I didn't even say that I just brought something up because I I like to push buttons and um I was just I'm a I'm I just the whole world says it's AER AER a I said what if it's not AER maybe we got it from the American I don't know what I let's rethink this maybe if it's not something you do but it's an option or I don't know what I'm just I'm just throwing this out there in conclusion what so they say that doesn't apply today and that was for them that for now the right it's a good thing gave it to us and that's that's your and there's many other I said okay is the world no cuz everyone's scared to their PR everyone's scared of the wrong thinging over backwards I I bend over backwards for PR you see that that's all I'm I'm very PR no I'm saying I'm saying first of all first of all hey I'm not a rabbi I'm not a expert I bring it up to push buttons I said them stay straight I'm saying it the way exactly the way I say it you could say it the way you want I'm saying the way I want I'm saying I don't know I'm saying I'm just opening something up the thing about if you speak to the big they say c can it's can't even be a tool it can't be anything that's your that's your okay we just lost the other half in N okay fine in conclusion you took pains to emphasize that hitting should be used sparingly like an option in back but it cannot be overstated because the quotation from RBI can and will be Mis misconstrued by people like my client who would be better served by work on their meos and their parenting skills one thing's for sure I know many people that are traumatized for the a lifelong Trauma from either a rebi or a parent that didn't know what they were doing so to to hit Stam without this that's for sure also I was I'll tell you I was iner I was 10 years old you figure out if you want because I was only one then I went to walking down the hallway all of a sudden I saw Stars I I I couldn't see straight A rebi not my rebi hit me in the back of the neck because I walk I wasn't walking fast enough to his liking nothing just for no reason bang whatever one of those so these guys should be put in jail and whatever and definitely shouldn't be buttons now also yes thank you for to you and your crew for all that you do for cl Jess Bo I just wanted to share with so I was doing what I was I was preparing the da yesterday and there was a lot of um alerts red alerts rackets were coming in and then we heard booms whoever heard it here in bees you're able to hear a lot of booms and this is what it's like here in during the war this projectile giant missile lands in middle between cars B Miss people but that's what's going on Alex brener oh so my uh brother was in Florida in a very secret place next to Miami not in Miami and he walks in there and they're doing the da couldn't believe it the guy's name is Alex brener and he says that his 10-year-old finish all right let's start I have one more I saw that book over there what do you think I was doing be clear just because the D hasn't changed my life yet says RAB Mattis you like that was a nice move just to be just because you have to put it in in the right I saw it coming I knew what I was doing just because the D hasn't changed my life yet let me see this what is that who not you it is mine he asked to give a I heard about this this book came out this book came out in 90 seconds pretty much you think about it this came out this is about October 7th and all everything what's the best story you have here you'll read but it's about no I have a p like this of bestsellers that I'm still working on you show the picture now AET this is what they were doing as they went down thousands thank you Angel Angel's in Orange last time he came here where is he I guess it wasn't so good the promotion great love galdi he's learning every day I got to read this email this is galdi go on this has to do with meni it has to do with a lot of things just because the da hasn't changed my life says RAB mati KAS from Manchester it do yet it does not mean that I have any ESS I don't go up every day at 5:00 a.m. because I enjoy sleep deprivation and thenly do the D I love my life y I love this she and I did recruit recruit undisclosed number of people to the year somewhere between what menach and Paris have recruited so what number is that let's see I know Paris brought in 1300 people how much did you undisclosed undisclosed but it's somewhere in between there says MTI like it because I think it's amazing and by far the best thing far better than slice bread looking forward to finishing shots together PS Mrs CA available for limited liability so want to show here's a guy a learning on the bus while other people over there may not be learning I don't know what they're doing but he's learning the D because he's learning Bubba over there oh I see him no he's hiding over there he's came all prepared gal second one of course yeah yeah welcome back his name who this guy Cohen Rabbi Cohen that's ay's father I don't know the car sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood oh I'm supposed to switch it in of semi mandle bals new ma s Mand I forgot his name ra something and then a girl reaa from Miami see me the will come up with the names tomorrow I I left it at allons for the unity of memory of from from Anonymous Manch join the sh at the beginning of fathers all bad decrees and be removed and changed to good sh bki for successful surgery today and speedy recovery and the Art of the M Anonymous for the for an easy child birth for his daughter and a healthy baby said that this we you used to say is sponsored for is doing well and I believe the bris is today question if a wife beats up her husband and causes monetary damage can in honor of the engagement of mandin that's the onein what I say Reina it was close I got one name it's unbelievable for me so so if a wife beats up her husband and owes him money she's a [Laughter] keeper talking from experience I I'll have a little smoo with you afterwards I'm a known therapist as the therapist so question she owes him money she owes him money she's married but she owes him money she doesn't have any money we said that she doesn't do have any money so does she have to give her husband the kuuba yes or no anybody does she take the kuuba that she has and tells you know what just take off whatever I owe you take off from theba I owe 100 bucks take it off theba yes you say no why not you have a reason or you stop I'm guessing oh she's not allowed to be without auba good ta very good that's also a very good question all these things are in today's Gar so we're holding by the we're holding by this right over here huh what if she doesn't have yeah that's all all good stuff what you saying is touching everybody holding we're holding the Su where who who is in charge of this property who could sell this property the guy on the right the guy with the white beard he is in charge of all the income the produce he gets the fruit the guy on the left the son he owns he he's on the title of the property who's considered the Bal according to the one with the fruit according toes the Bal is the one that's on the title even though he doesn't do anything he's he can't he can't do anything he can't doesn't make a off this property just because you have control of the fruit the father he doesn't control the property and therefore we said according to Rish the person that's on the title is entitled to sell the property so we had a mother who wanted to give her property to her son a true story and she was married to her Baba she didn't want it to go to her husband so she gave it over to her son while she was alive is that okay the said yes it goes to the son why was we passing like Rish that she's in charge you're right the husband has all the fruit it's means property that comes in before the marriage the husband takes control of it he takes all profits any loss to the value of the property any gain to the value of the property goes to the wife afterwards he's not he's not responsible for any value changes and therefore according toes she's in charge why because she's on the title of the property she's entitled to give it to her son what about we had a mishna that a father wanted to give in his lifetime want to give a property to his son is that the same thing as our so says the four lines from the bottom says no it's very different when a wife gives over property or tries to sell property is different than when a father gives it to a son says the what's the difference perhaps indeed the the one who's in charge is like Rish we passing like Rish that the one that has the title to the property he's in charge and therefore theoretically the wife should be able to give the property to her son but there's something called when they were on the Move they're going from place to place one of the places they stopped was there they instituted Tak that they were very concerned about CH like they should be and we all are with all the jokes and everything we're into said listen we don't want fights here a married woman her husband is benefiting he's doing well he's making all this income from this nursing home all of a sudden she goes behind this back and she starts selling nursing homes and and and who knows what no it's not going to it doesn't work yes she's the owner and yes theoretically it should work they made it Tak it doesn't work why we don't we know the AL we know they show up at the end in court and there's a divorce forget it no no selling anything a special that she shouldn't do two lines from the bottom said if she sells we stop the sale and she dies okay it doesn't go to to the buyer interesting [Music] case this is the case right over here back to goes back to the husband yeah but it means nothing yeah it means nothing because at the end of the day he uses it no no MM the opposite I don't think so no no no no no the the whole point the whole sui yesterday was saying that it only when he when she dies should be right away unless you see otherwise alab we have a story here very interesting story Adam come and say that the guy divorc his wife check it out goes like this divorc his wife not only that he gave her the 200 Z that it says in the and what's his story he paid it off she serves him she just served him breakfast in other words they're completely married who's never divorced what did these Zen want to do they want to make her lose 200 Z in case they ever get divorced and in case the husband dies she Los here's the case boom you on the cruise with us they're Liars now think about it for a second what exactly do they want this woman to lose right now today if what does it say you that means you looked it over before it's against what we learned yesterday so we'll talk about what do they lose right right that's if she dies [Music] right right right right but what happened beforehand that's what I want to know what happened before up until that point until she dies no that's what he said yesterday it sits there what okay I go like the other no because we learned yesterday that's later I'm selling it now for the that you have it when I die when he dies it's a it's a m on on on a condition it's not like right now doesn't go even even the wife the mother time out the mother they gave it to her to her son when sell it right now can she sell it right now she'll take the money now but she has to gets it goes right back nothing happened nothing happened M yeah but no but until she dies he uses it that's what I think like yesterday we said she gave the the to her son Shu but it still rabas until she died the question is when she died what happens we'll have to look it up okay anyway so what think about it yeah no concentrate here for a second you go back to that later when these Liars said that she was PBA and she's happily married right now what exactly do they want her to lose it's not 200 CU she's not divorced if she was divorced then they wanted her to lose 200 she has a very good marriage her husband's very healthy he's going to live for another 50 years what is the problem how much do they want her to lose so that that is called it's a very minimal amount and how do we figure that out says how much is that worth on the market today how much could a person sell auba when they're happily married and everybody's healthy you don't pay the whole thing whatever there's a certain amount how does it work there's people there's a guy that lives right here on this block right next to mendi his business is he buys people's Insurance yeah it's a famous business in America uh there's a 99y old man that has $10 million insurance policy when he dies he'll get 10 million how much will you pay him today first thing and if he's 60 how much will you pay him and if he 75 and if he has if he doesn't walk well and he has a MAA and this everything there's a whole you know that's why you need actuaries but there's a there's a Market there's a market what if she dies before her husband the guy will get a big zero etc etc there's a sh right now in France a guy really wanted his wife uh his neighbor's house beautiful house so he made a deal with her he says I will pay you x amount of money until you die you could live in your house he thought himself you know she she look like uh she's already old old lady she's already 60 or something so 20 something years went by he paid off the house and she's still alive and she's well and everything and he's he's kicking himself it's a bad deal he thought it depends on the deal I know people that used to go to to D on certain people that they should die because there's a lot I'll give a lot of money to youa plenty dies I have his insurance power policy anyways obviously for that people it's like the it's like the the K and the people that went to gas you know they go out of gas if he dies so people die and if we say that a woman is in charge of the proper to do whatever she wants we just said here let's read it again period that if she becomes a widow or divorce she gets the money but if she dies first the guy that bought theba gets a big zero why because the husband gets everything as the why does the husband get everything if she's entitled to sell whatever she wants it's her she should so here goes let's let's do a little to know this there's something called that's what we're talking about up until now what is that as we discussed a woman comes into the marriage with a nursing home this is we'll introduce her a second the nursing home is worth a million dollars when they start off the marriage and the husband keeps on getting profits then then the nursing home goes down in value at the time of the husband's death so the woman unfortunately she gets $600,000 the husband is not responsible for anything look regular stuff that she has that she brought into the marriage is strong like metal sheep here metal sheep meaning she's guaranteed a certain price she locks in the price so over here you have lit and what I don't know it's a good works like this you put and it's written in theba it says I came into the marriage with this and this thing let's say the husband takes the prophets and it was worth a hundred at the time of the marriage and then it goes down in value they got older down in value and then he divorces her so he has to pay her how much 100 why because it's same it's inba it's the same idea it's the same nursing home the same thing but the difference is that if it goes down in value the woman loses out if it's toar it's metal it's it's something very strong which one does the what to die very good say very back the first our first guest our first gu he started it off says that he takes something that's like a that's that could die gets older and he makes it into he locks it in he makes it metal so which one does the husband own more of or think about it for a second barel why because whatever he's responsible he's responsible on this property if it goes down goes up he's 100% responsible so he has more of ownership so says the why should the husband inherit her let her sell all if you're telling me yes that when it comes to the husband has the right to sell I'm sorry that she has the right to sell because if even if we say even if we say that we're talking about with there's no if there's no she would have the right to sell her what's the connection he has much more power over it so therefore she won't be able to sell the if anything she could sell the because that's not so much the husbands but the forget about it since we mentioned those words again means the small amount no is not in and it's locked into the price he has more connection to it so we spoke about means the small amount of money that this subba the 200 zuk subba is worth today why she could sell it and there's some guy out there that might want to take the risk make an investment it's worth $10 today because maybe in 15 years she'll get a tour we said by the way and this is shocking and we have to look into it there was a guy that got divorced and he came over to me and he said they just paid off exu and I should know that was less than $4,000 people think it's a tremendous amount of money $30,000 it's the amount of money that but I think uh Raa put something into I forgot already what the thing ra instituted something larger maybe 20,000 the him add a tremendous amount we had a guy here yesterday that said that his is more like $52,000 it's as we're going to see it's to scare the husband off that he shouldn't just divorce his wife when he gets upset or whatever so let me just mention something because we mentioned the word if a woman sells herba for $10 then then the that $10 goes to the woman and not to her husband we don't say oh go to the husband I'll prove it to you because if you say that it goes to the husband so when they them come and lie and they say that she already got paid off theba so she takes them to court and she says they lied and they want to cause me damage how much damage something called very minimal but it's not her anyway she's not losing it's going to go straight to the husband and he's for sure not going to take them to court why cuz they lied on his behalf they said he already paid off the 200 Z he's not going to go sue them hey you made me lose money you made me gain Money El she's going to sue them but it's not her money as soon as she get she collects it goes straight to her husband's pocket it doesn't go to her husband's pocket goes to her pocket even if you would have gotten that money the husband would have taken from you or Shon no not a goodar when money comes in to the marriage even it goes to the husband's account so to speak the woman is living large she's going to take her to the restaurant there's food in the house it's good for her so yes they try to cause her damage the Pella is how much damage now all of a sudden it just became the that there's more Raf in the house so why why would you get the we said she gets whatever the value of the of the is on the market how much is a $200 on the market right now knowing that she's healthy and that $10 why should she get $10 maybe she should get $3 and half dollar because that's how much the feeling of feeling like there's a lot of food in the house okay and this is how we pass if a woman sells off forba for whatever amount it is it go directly to the woman and the husband cannot take that money invested and benefit from it what's the reason R said that he gets the profits of an existing nursing home field Etc explains tus on the spot the doesn't mean that if a cow had a baby and that baby had a baby etc etc if money came in from a nursing home and he bought another nursing home that he doesn't get that that's per the pero no of course he's allowed to take the profits and invest and continue per the pero in this in this context means that it didn't it it just it's a side income it came from somewhere unexpected it's not from the nursing home it's from the sale of auba that the woman did that the husband doesn't have R to touch came from they said we learned in our what do we learn in our if you go back all the way in the bottom it says if you see or a woman when they damage you they don't have to pay and when you damage them you do have to pay so what does that have to do with and then we went into this whole story it says oh story that the mother gave her son a property when her husband was alive and went a whole here could she do it not King and what does it have to do with us with our mishna has to do because of Tak then of the Su we said that something called Tak that even though typically a a woman should be in charge of her field of her real estate that she brought into the marriage but Usha said you shouldn't she should sell it so now goes back so what does this have to do with us and this is what was saying and you guys were into all this stuff that if you say that a woman is completely in charge of her nursing home that she brought into the marriage we don't care about there is no Usha and the woman is the owner so now that the woman here a woman had a car accident it never happens it's just a theoretical thing yeah if a woman would have a car accident I'm still in traum I drove with my wife to I made her drive I usually drive but I had to give the shear at night so I said you know let me prepare a little bit big are you able to prepare I was able to prepare but I was I wasn't able to give the shear I had such a headache it wasn't no and I feel now I feel what she feels she every time she gets out of the car she says she's nauseous and it's not I think if you not watching the road or whatever it's like the stop and go and the turning into this she made a short stop so I thought there was it was on the highway she like almost stopped completely I look there was a car but you needed a binoculars to see it like what are you stopping what's going on here it's over there like don't don't you're such a what do they call driver Maxi driver I like okay but you know my head was at the dashboard okay fine M said didn't happen but whatever you know what I'm talking about come out so we learned in the so you have a woman who caused damage who was in an accident it's a theoretical thing women will never get into an accident but over a woman got into an accident yeah so she doesn't have to pay she doesn't have to pay why not she doesn't have money but the question is why not let her take theba she hasba let her take theba and pay with theba so what do you see if you hold that she's the on the property let her take this property and she should give it says what she should sell she should sell theba and pay with it sell right okay what about you you say there is so she cannot so don't sell the just sell the small amount that somebody would pay in case the husband dies first hello so we have to say that even according to you that say that there is a she doesn't have there's nothing to give so even if we don't hold up you that hold of of you have to say that there's no so I'm also going to say the same I'm going to use your answer as well that there's no and therefore there's nothing to give the woman says the okay so there's two stages here there's and there's the itself there's value in the how much is theba word is let let her sell theba without the so that's what you were saying saying this that what does is how could she sell the if she sells theba then she doesn't have a oh I'm going to see that in a second very [Music] good it's exactly what the is gonna [Music] say there's a iser to stay married even for one moment without a I myself right after my the night of my realized we don't have theba it turned out that my mother-in-law put it somewhere and they threw it in the garbage we couldn't find it it's lost so I had to call a ra what he do I don't want to start off the marriage on the left foot so he said something called the and we wrote down a certain language and had people sign it and that's what we have told mea there's uh a person that they just wrote an article about in magazine I think the Hebrew one he's they called him the kki of the he know his name is greenal soel offener father is learning his marage two in the morning and a guy walks in he says I have a big problem Rob I just noticed that myba is eaten by worms what do I do it's shabas Friday night so he says I don't know let's go toan so they go toan his door is up and they say what's this and this he brings outar and this that for two hours so at 4 in the morning Rabbi fencer asked Rabbi greenal so he looks at he says what do a like it's a like like you need aack for now I didn't I thought you came to talk and learning at 2: in the morning came to talk and learning anyway thises long not to be there's many many stories what no they're going to and he says this he says yeah of course of course that's okay go back in that case was okay fine what yeah in the war so you WR so yeah what do you do big problem what's the reason but but this a question that's what he was asking the whole point is that what time the whole point is that you shouldn't write a that that you have to have a to pay 200 it should be harder for him to divorce her but in this case it'll be a deterrent he won't divorce her why what are you telling me that the woman should not sell her when she's in a car accident because then she won't have auba but she will have exba because yes it's in somebody else's hand but if the husband divorces her going to have to pay that at somebody else's hand so you have the same deter says the reason why she can't sell theba is because he's only selling words at the end of the day words you can't you can't sell words doesn't make sense why there are people out there that will buy these words whatever you want to say okay it's a but people it has value in the market another this is very interesting that if you sell a you could go back and forgive the so if this woman would sell herba listen what she could do she could sell AA for $100 and then go tell her husband you don't have to give meba and she ruins it for the guy the guy won't get a dime so why would I what's the question If a woman was in a car accident we should force her to sell herba take the money and give it to the guy that she was in the accident well if she if we do that we cannot force her to do that because she might go ahead and damage that guy that bought it the guy that bought it is going to lose everything she'll be t as a question how could she be she'll be without auba so says she'll write another exba or they could do a trick they could pretend that they're getting divorced and get remarried okay fine but let her give it to the guy that she hit in the car accident don't sell it on the market give it directly to the guy that she hit in the car car accident at Le instead of getting zero at least he'll get a document that says that if she ever gets divorce or if her husband dies first he'll get some money one day he'll get paid no that we already discussed sell somebody else we can't do we can't force to sell somebody else because says she could be but at least give it to him and if she is let big deal but there's nothing to lose here at least he got there's a chance that no it's not maybe she be what happened she was in a car accident she has a great marriage we're forcing her to take her and give it to the guy in the car the guy that that she smashed the car so what are the chances she's going to make her husband pay the guy the car she's going to be M right now so it's worthless to to be to to cause such a such a law we're not going to do with our sry sell sell directly to the guy and the over here there's no there's no loss says anyway she's not giving him anything hold on we got to go back because that was a [Music] mistake letter her sell to I think he's right sell sell somewhere else to somebody else and give him to the guy from the car accident and worse comes the worse she'll be I'm call so sell to another party and then she's going to be that's a loss to him as so sell directly give it directly to the guy from the car accient anyway she's not giving him anything so let let her give him a document that says that maybe on a 1% chance he'll get some money out of this no it's not even a 1% she's certainly going to be why go to said that in today's Parish we have told what do you so yourself he's AZ we're not we tried that shouldn't be mat so we have this this galic I don't know if we have down there we have lus from narim and lus is upset at her husband if you don't know how to pay attention I will help look at his head it's flat so if a wife damages her husband damages her husband [Music] she caused him damage she doesn't have to pay for I have a joke but I'm not in the mood to say it right now let her sell theba to her husband she owes a money she damaged him his head is knocked in so where's she be her husband and the husband won't get anything but at the end of the day she she gave him something now that can't go why because says not by her giving the husband she doesn't have so the V says a very interesting thing he says we know when every hear this 16 times and the says the vill but what's the what's the continuation of the and a so the word there's a V and a in it it's aav it's not it's not the word is not what does mean think about it what does the word mean it's comes from so it's a continuation K and if you don't have a so you're taking out's name from the whole inion now it happens to be that and is part of the words ofm like has a and has so a marriage has to have the the combination of and if you take out the the the so you left with GM and that's not a good marriage also you have to have both in the marriage you have so that shouldn't be easy for a man to divorce his wife a guy comes to to get divorced he's fuming so looks at him this that tries to calm down nothing so he wrote a get that had a p in it and they they realized after an hour of writing that it's possible so they okay we got to do it again and fact they did again and then it was also POS say come just come back tomorrow and the guy never came back maybe went to another bz or something point is calm the guy down let it think about it but over here he could divorce her the reason why she doesn't give him theba divorce her so if he wants to he divorces her if he divorces her he'll take the money so what do you gain even if she doesn't give him theba you didn't gain anything at the end of the day if he wants to get paid he'll just divorce her and he'll say I'm not I'm not I'm not giving you theba I'm taking off theba says thear okay that doesn't work in every case why because theba is worth more than the damage that was caused so doesn't make any sense he's going to divorce her and pay her 200 so that he could gain 50 that doesn't make sense if the this right there's 200 that he has to give her or 100 if she's an Al plus everything else like the $52,000 but there's only $3,000 that's so keep the $3,000 and let her pay him the 49,000 whatever it is let her pay him all the extra do that you said the reason why we don't do that the reason why she doesn't pay theba is because she's going to be living without AA what's the big what's the big deal now she has a she's living with auba the minimum the what the T says to give and all the extras that's she should pay why not say you're right so comes out you're right means if a woman hits her husband over the head he could take out money from her just in this Cas is because over here this is exactly the same the minimum right they gave the minimum over here the damage that she caused him is four out of how much out of 100 so the that is left is 96 he doesn't want to lose give 100 to his wife so that he could get four back in return that makes zero sense it's terrible business deal reminds me of the famous story it's to say that said that there was a guy in who's very upset that when they came around with the tabak schme tabak he didn't get so he comes back after a week of traveling he comes back to the SCH and he says ha I got tabak I went all the way to Villa took took me entire week and here it is look I have tabak so the whole show started laughing at him you went all the way to Villa to to get one sniff of so says what are you laughing we also we come thousands of years from sh we travel a trip that takes thousands of years we come all the way down here to bring back tabak to bring back nothing says the the bottom line is T says how could he even take off from the 100 at the end of the day you don't have 100 if your is 100 or 200 let's say it's 200 are you allowed to what if is 200 he took off four according to look at this I just want you to see this terus I think it's very interesting to remember when she causes it by damaging his head and you taking money out of the then you R mayor for some reason doesn't apply I don't know it's her when it's her fault that's why I want you to see it I'm not explaining it I'm just showing it to you yeah and and there she's allowed to live with him no she's a [Music] m he can't live I thought phrased it on [Music] him yeah no and now he took off from theba yeah but he might divorce her easily what's the whole reason he might divorce her easily anyways here's the uh a woman who caused damage to somebody else she doesn't have to sell whatever she has why as we said she's going to be but if she has then she does have to sell on condition that the husband dies first or he'll divorce her first we also have here where's the uh sorry not this one this one now if a woman cause damage to her husband if there's more then she has to give to her husband if there's no but listen to this this is very important if there's extra to theba she has to give the if there's no just for this is worth it if there's Noba and her damage that she caus to the husband by knock him with a FR pan on the head is more than theba she has to give it to her husband because he could divorce her and and take theba anyways there's no deterrent there by having a kba so pay theba but if it's not then she if it's not more than theba then she doesn't have to give says the gar we have 10 more minutes let's just go [Music] it says she doesn't have to sell anything when she's married but it comes out that there is a case we just establish that there's a case that a woman does have to sell her you don't say she doesn't have to sell anything above and beyond the minimum she has to give her husband so what are you telling me that she's not going to lose there is a New Concept that we didn't have in a very long time called a woman dies and her husband is married to another woman she's very concerned that her kids are not going to get her Cuba now you would think that she doesn't deserve theba why because she died before her husband and who inherits her her husband husband will take everything everything that's in theba the barel everything he inherits but there's a New Concept called that when he dies her children get everything back her entire kba let's say there's a million dollars in theba and to the second wife that he married he only put $100 in theba so her children get a million dollars the second wife's children get $100 and whatever's left they split but at least her children get everything that was in her listen to this and this is gonna this is mish unbelievable what if if she sells her somebody else she didn't lose the of other words she was forced we have to understand this far she was forced to sell it so even after the sale she sold it 100% her kids still get it she she did it over of money should we do two more minutes two more minutes so say think about this for a second a woman comes into a marriage with a Slave she's blessed she has slave and is that the master of the slave knocks out a tooth the slave goes free who's the master of the slave now she comes into the marriage she owns the Goof like a Cara she owns the the Goof but who gets all the benefit from the slave the husband so if the husband knocks out the tooth or the wife knocks out the tooth when does the slave go out if you say that kis then the husband has nothing how do we pass so the husband knocking out the tooth nothing so what if the wife knocks out the tooth does does go out says it does go out because she's the owner not the husband that makes a lot of sense this doesn't make sense why not the wife if she knocks out his tooth he should go out she's the owner the woman is 100% in control there's no yet or no at all like yes the woman is 100% control of the slave but Usha came along and said that it doesn't work she can't do it and therefore the slave doesn't go out everybody holds that right now she's not in control the first BR is talking about before they instituted this and she was 100% in control knocks out his tooth he goes free when they said that she's not in control so sh tooth he doesn't go out free ra have a wonderful day she