Daf Yomi Bava Kama Daf 43 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] are [Music] Happ [Applause] [Music] good morning Ry this is real you got the blunt of it [Music] wow got to show [Music] this it's a new [Music] level all right two celebrations at once it's a tremendous and it's a tremendous I see in it nigla every single time 1500 straight no breaks it could have been Co it could have been other things it could have been traveling it's a tremendous tremendous with yipper with Tish we had P very very 1500 days but I think even a bigger bigger celebration is the fact that hasn't set a Shear in 1500 days that's that's even the bigger he was the last one to give the shear here in my not instead of me I gave my Shear he gave his thing not a Ste not a Ste I'm sure also gave she uh Gary I just want to point out that the camera is not focused do you see that it's not it's not focused okay Bo we got to get moving here I want to announce this the last last day um actually I'll announce tomorrow last day I'm going to be speaking about the push to give monthly barem from all the people that gave over kanuka the numberers I think close to $60,000 for the year that's very very nice and uh every penny counts I'll show you something another program that that I didn't wow it's inside the filling it's gal got everywhere so a dollar a day Robert lonstein Philip Goldstein $10 a day MOA $2.75 a day shy and MTI bsky the famous bskis with the cheers Che market.com Asher $1 a day dollar day Craig hmel $52 a month Barry seagull 36 K Kurds 36 David AB brani 50 Avi hersel 36 Allan liit Dr Alan liit $180 AO 101 Stanley sber 36 I took a screenshot shot of my emails I get many emails here it's four almost in a row the same exact thing and what is it let me read it to you I've suffered from fog fear of gamar for many years now this is an old email I'm just reading this now because it has to do I was speaking to a longtime friend re and my rabi snow he asked me I was L apped not enough have you heard of it he laughed and said you have to start with rebell Stans after some arguing I said okay I'll give try sever weeks and many rewinds later I find myself writing this email for one simple reason I just want to express my and the entire mdy organization countless hours okay that's not what four people wrote what four people wrote is bull loose in Newark a strong kiss from Hashem and here's the video I hope it goes here we [Music] go o this is with music okay we can take this is in new YK yesterday a real bull running down the train tracks and I got it for many many people for the video huh please stop sending you could stop sending these are just a few examples I got it from all different sources and places re stansky after 69 years of rarely opening up a gamar I started the cycle of from day one and found your share towards the end of I was thrilled by the clarity of the charge illustrations and I've been with you ever since you have taken a Quantum Leap recently what's worse this or the fish you don't know this is a dangerous year for the whole wow 23 minutes into today's Shar shortly after IM memorable fish Mana you expanded upon the fisherman analogy with your own which spoke directly to me I teach math public high school and find time during my day to learn da with you in other words he takes a few minutes here and a few minutes there sometimes I have a whole period available but most of the time I find small spaces which can fill with your toy knowledge because of your sheare being available 246 I've been able to keep up daily C ruen Al wow beautiful Bo I wanted I haven't mentioned this in a very long time we have a program called mdy kids the kids come here to be how many kids do you have gar around 70 kids on a nightly basis they learn a da a day young children 10 12 finishing after is in charge of the program together with David gold and I want to show you what they put together as a on a small for these kids you're not going to believe it here it is in addition to the prizes you'll see at the end of the video I took this video myself take a lot of Pride here we [Music] go that's G so giving away an electric scooter um there's a lot of pizza this program Dove you can take it Dove Harris is with us from London beautiful with the raffle you know we we do a lot of Raffles we get the money and then we don't really do the raffle you actually we give away no some people Jonathan want a a sweet no tell okay huh yeah listen so how much did you charge no you didn't charge just was whoever joins what was it wants anybody who's part of MD in the UK anybody's part of the MD another ra for anybody joined inition ah so two different Raffles anybody joined anybody's part of M just to get it to get the information to be on the WhatsApp the whole thing very very nice okay so beautiful what else do we have here [Music] nothing I was just saying maybe you can bring it to to London MD kids it it gives the parents a break at night it gives the theic a break at night it's just and and they they fill themselves with ti udas just more y more they come to they have they know what they they know all these huh no no no no no par I'm just saying it's another people ask why does mdy need a million and a half do or whatever it is there's another example different programming different things balloons all those tonight you could do for real yeah yeah tens of thousands of shekele he won in honor of my grandfather family benstein lern killed in Gaza the family should have an A that's the person you showed me with seven kids I think yeah six kids a young guy from Chicago no some what do you say the wife is from Chicago young guy thei was he was buried in in here a lot of people a lot of Americans the okay the art of the month we don't have a sponsor yet for the art of the month huh who's from P ah okay very good we holding yesterday we're discussing about insurance policy a woman has insurance policy and doesn't really say let's say it doesn't say who's the beneficiary does the husband automatically get it do children get it you say the husband right so we're talking about [Music] a I put before for reason see in a second it says in the regarding talking about talks about a man and a [Music] woman why what we know that a woman is equal to a man the right before referring to the top so why does it have to repeat itself one later to teach us like a man a husband when somebody damages him and the guy has to pay and then he passes away before he even gets the money it goes to his children and not to his wife a tremendous tremendous when a woman is damaged and the maik has to pay it doesn't go to the husband it goes to her children ask the let's understand this what he doesn't hold of of a husband inheriting a wife husband inherits a wife this whole was only said in that what that the Bull killed a woman and the owner of the bull has to pay the value of the woman because it only occurs after the death of the woman the whole only happened once she dies because before she dies there's no the moment she dies so that's something called there's something called ro ro means something that there's earnings that happen after the death this is that we we learned byar is not every inherits two portions of the yusha but not something that that occurs after the death of the father and we're actually we're going to see what that means exactly and what about does it only mean uh prophets or does it mean even let's say Al loone let's say the father lend somebody $100 then he dies does the B get two portions does he get $66 and the other son 33 or because it wasn't there at the time of the death it wasn't in the bank account it only only came after but it's alone okay we'll see later so two by a wife and a husband the husband inherits his wife for everything but not on something called not on something that happened after her death so what about our case with insurance when is the insurance when does it go into effect insurance insurance policy only goes into effect when a person dies so when a person dies that's called so according to this the husband will not be the beneficiary of an insurance policy the children will new many says it's different let me hear why it's different so what I don't know if I should drink this or not I know I know [Music] Li you did this you you went for it I made I made a okay yeah yeah we're going to see especially according to the gar that a person gave a loan and that's also called Ro so certainly I'm just saying it's I'm not passing again exactly I'm not I'm not a r I never claim to be a r i I'm bringing it up myself without discussing with anybody it could be it's different it could be oh talking about ker St ker means the value of a person's body wor so I heard once said that we don't have in our days CU he has so many B that don't value themselves at all they walk around feeling that they're garnish nothing so if you see the ker you see how much a human being this guy is worth $100,000 at least I have I'm worth something not a garnish okay why we just explained that ker only occurs after are you am I right that it's not 100% no okay you're going to hear it later it's to fix now so you don't get those emails the ker only occurs after the death of the person question is why let's say a bull Gores a person and the guy's 98% dead it's just a matter of minutes they call in all the kids you have to say V the whole thing so Raj says it's already how much is this person we have to already go to to the marketplace see how much he's worth the Y already thinking about all this C they're going to get over their father he's already dead he's already he's about to die so why can't that be considered as if she got she got the ker when she was still alive a moment before she died and therefore the husband doesn't inherit it because says when this death complete then the bull is killed the G of so just like when it comes to the the death of the bull it has to be that's to be a Misa so when it comes to that's to be a complete Misa you can't just say oh we evaluated we we realized that he's going to die in five minutes so there's a no there's no until the moment of death as the so telling me that's that's only said doesn't say this when it comes to regular damages that the husband doesn't inher a person hits a woman and strikes a woman and she loses her pregnancy so think about it for a second say If you think stop without looking the a woman who's married somebody damaged her and she lost her pregnancy who should get paid here the wife or the husband H the wife what about the pregnancy what about the baby who owns the baby who's the BM of the baby so to speak wife you don't pay at all so says the the physical damages that she had go to her but the value of the pregnancy of the baby goes to the husband there's a here that she lost her pregnancy she doesn't die the husband of the wife comes and he sues if you look at these three words this is what makes very one of the things that makes very difficult especially for beginners if you don't have the valorization the or whatever how do you read this the husband shouldn't give to his that's how I would read it I have I have commas periods it says if there's no husband which is a very interesting L if the husband is not alive anymore no then it goes to the if the woman is not alive this is a very big problem we're not talking about you said it all this only this applies to since happens occurs after the death over here we're talking about nezek somebody cut the woman broke her arm they say that's worth $2,000 who do he pay if there's no woman it doesn't go to the husband goes to to to her children oh so you see there's another another case where which is not that goes to says interesting if you have a woman a who was freed and she got pregnant afterwards who was she married to a slave that was freed in other words a who is she married to a explains rashy what's going on here just say Rashi says because most of the time people marry the type of people that they're that are similar to them so since she's a she's gonna marry since she's she's gonna find the EV that was fine as a side note I heard from RAB deante here in he's a big gives a lot of advice in marriage he said that once a couple came to him a very interesting looking couple he was from she was from England and they want to get married what what does the r say so he said I don't advise it it's not a good idea she why he says listen you try to go with the same English with English American with American with it it's hard enough is man and woman to put to throw in different personalities different mhog and different things it's very very difficult so they got married they said well they already dating a lot they got married then they came to him they says he said she was complaining that he was eating with his fingers he he wasn't using a for especially on chabas they eat fish with it they have been hug him you know different thing she couldn't stand she's from England and he said she's marri she's she's like the Queen of England everything so K so they he made he made he said work was it's not not recommended so if you read not recommend you have to no b not a guy came to me right now in Chicago when I was in Chicago he said has an organization unbelievable he's trying to to fix the the crisis he says by I didn't know this by crisis is the opposite the men don't have he shows me a book of men this thick and a book of women this he said by by lvx it's that women a book this man thousands of names and Men this so he says he makes this way he already made 2,000 like that it's this people that he has a whole organization who collecting for it he has a lot of maybe 2,000 in a year I don't know forget the numbers a lot a lot of of harder to marry couples not the not these harder take the it says maybe shouldn't happens what married again she became she was a [Music] yeah what are you saying that what why not why can't she can marri anybody no afterwards afterwards the point is what's the point let me just finish the sentence let before what's going on here is that we have parents that don't have relatives they're G don't worry about the time just worry about the Su for a second thank you worry about the time it doesn't know it's flying here it doesn't know where're knows what time it is let's conc on the we have timek Keepers here deving so if you so what do you do so now there's there's there's money to be oh he damaged his bull damaged a person and he owes money to the person but the person dies and he has zero it goes back to himself it goes back to himself so we have a problem here why does it go you're telling me there's another case said you only only one case that does not go to the to the husband Byer here we have another case that it goes to the it's not evener talking about they used to be married but now they're the're divorced so that's why it doesn't go to the husband it goes to Y she's divorced so isn't she 5050 in the pregnancy yes there's a there's a father somewhere why should the father get 100% of her pregnancy it's not fair she they're not even married so isn't she somewhat on her pregnancy listen to there's a special this that a husband is the owner of this baby that's what the that's how the designates it when it comes to aad he's he's in charge doesn't make any sense there not only that even if they weren't married BOS he's also the owner says wait a minute that's only if he's to be a husband she was single but if she's he's not the owner of this VL if it's his sister is not the owner of this VL okay but it's very interesting this might be N I don't know I'm just throwing this out it might be n to artificial examination if all this all this certain stuff because he how do you how do you how do you as a kid based on what I don't know if it has a lot of it could be it has fine my this I saw with IVF this unbelievable you could look into it unbeliev a if a kid was born by IVF also what about if they did IVF after the father died it was his is it considered his child to P for KH a big things like that okay fine it's [Music] to that's what it's toally who's the who's the so a big when a father owes money to some somebody owes the father money guy owes him a million dollar after the during the Shiva the guy that owes the money comes and drops off a million dollar check does the take two portions of that million dollar check it's the father's money it wasn't a prophet it was his beforehand so we have first of all re is gonna say 100% that's not Roy that that was his no problem even what if he returns money cash versus property one says cash yes property not and once says property yes cash not so says the if that's the case we have a case here where there's no or in a case does it to say the exact opposite does it to say money I gave Ru money so he returned money so I never never left my or you could say no money goes money comes it's a different money but a k if he returns K that K was to me or him before he died so it's the same he was there while the guy was alive so it's not considered Ro you can look it different ways upon him there's a way huh what if he owes someone else who's he father owes someone no okay now you're going into fine let's we don't have time now we got to move on says we're talking about here again the con of of a take two portions so Rabbi says if it's K it's as if his father always had it it was always his because there was a there was a lean on it but money I don't know if the guy's ever going to pay me back different money no is the exact opposite far money I gave him money return money so I never lost the money it's a different K I gave him cash and return never had that fine right that would be a great in if you go according to these two Shas we're not going according to those two we're going re holds that there's no such thing as Roy almost even ribus even money that comes profit from a loan that the father gave is also something that the is GNA take two two portions ker not Ker is a brand new money that never existed before the woman died it only occurred after she died there was Zero before she died alone there's not zero he had the guy has money in his bank he lent it out and now the is going to take from that yeah okay says this is the whole if you want to go home now that's fine you could I'll tell you with the and you could go that the sh is if a bull kills a slave and he doesn't intend to kill him they have to pay uh for a slave they have to pay the 30 for a regular human being they have to pay who was a m killed a slave he had zero intent he didn't know he's killing him he's pot why very simple it says that you have to kill the bull but you don't kill the bull in this case if you kill the bull you have to pay money but if you don't kill the bull they're they're intertwin if there's no no I'm going to add to that says a bull forget a slave a who kills a regular but he had no intent doesn't have to pay the value of the human being same okay by the way just yesterday I think was that they announced on I don't even want to say his name in she there show him over there in Gaza $400,000 on his head head has money head is worth something 00,000 on him da is only 100,000 I don't know okay fine a [Music] question if you have a bull who's a and he the owner admits my Bull killed Ru now could you kill the do you kill the bull Bo say hear this the owner comes along and says my bull I admit my Bull killed someone you kill the bull you don't kill the bull he's a he's a killer Bull and and an animal that kills a human being you kill him do you kill the bull no why because you need aen the way you kill a person that's the way you kill a bull and you can't kill a person guy comes to oh I killed some people when I was younger you don't kill him you need Aiden or killed another bull so he pays Myer the question is why does he pay based on what you just told me he shouldn't pay ker says him so now the gar introduces a Brand New Concept unbelievable there's a case where there's no ker you just told me that they're intertwined they're connected if you don't kill the bull you don't pay ker over here it says you don't kill the bull why because it came you only know that the bull is a killer based on the testimony of the owner so you don't kill the bull but it says M he pays what does he pay ker so you see that they're not connected no no no he doesn't pay K so what does he pay he pays damages he pays damages how much is the person worth $100,000 pay $100,000 ask Rashi the bomb question that everybody's thinking to themselves what is Kyer is let's say how much is the person worth $100,000 he pay $100,000 says no you don't pay ker you don't pay $100,000 what do you pay $100,000 it's the same thing what's mean if you call it ker you call it dum it's the same beautiful it gives us a little bit of understanding what if the person has zero money in his bank account zero money if it's ker you better find $100,000 now you know why CU a is going to strike him dead if you want to live you want to live you better you better find money go collecting I don't know what but if it's a loone if it's D I don't have money sorry I don't have money what am I'm going to do I'm going to collect money to to pay off a loan that I owe you is nobody even even real loans they don't pay col yeah wait a minute you telling me this new called do they as to pay it says in the hey is PL I admit that my my Bull killed you it's a it's even if it's even if he has no money so and then what yeah yeah yeah I'm saying what do you want him to do I don't have money you're not going to make him go collect by doors but if it's if it's a Pon you tell is upset at you could kill you until you pay your soul so what what does a person like that do he finds somehow he's able to find money he goes to the whatever it is okay says okay if you tell me there such a concept whaty don't worry is very short this didn't work according to I didn't know about this at all I thought it's in three months from now and I don't know what happened we I thought it's a short it's going to fly the second part of the the Bri over there is that my Bull killed a slave did I say it right is it a Bry no it's a m right when the same case that he killed a slave you say he doesn't even pay but why not okay so so the whole thing but what about damages I damage so and so slave we we just learned that even though there's no there's something called you have to pay for damages if I wanted to I could just answer you a very oh yeah you're right the talks about one case and the talks about another case and that will be extremely big because how you making a difference between a slave and a human being you're not even making a difference between them you're saying one case is talking about d one case is talking about that's not fair I don't want to go that route what I'm going to tell you is like this the between the both talking about he says in the r she's going to pay D in the sa he's not going to pay D again in the r she's going to pay for damages and when it comes to slave he's not going to pay for damages why what's thee because the witnesses came and they Testify the C out that this bull killed what's the of two witnesses come and say the Bull killed you kill the sh they weren't sure so the owner comes along and he admits the but the bull is GNA die anyway what he just did is he himself because if the bull is a the bull then now he's paying could you pay it's not a it's m when the is not killed there's no there's no a so you don't kill the sh so so the says like this beautiful when you don't kill the sh there's no ker if there's no ker there's something called D but when it comes to slave um by by slave you don't pay why because he what happened the same case two came and he said he killed the slave and and the master says he a he doesn't pay since there's no there's no D says the G we're talking about there's no there's no d turning the sponsored by from Florida mayor Ben David my holy nephew the son of Jen and Robert ear and mayor by the way said is this Sunday so if you took upon yourselves you want to finish before the now is a good time to do it and one last reminder was very successful in a way he raised over $60,000 from people that gave monthly so it's the last day says is the time to give and not everybody gives I'm not going to get into it certainly not so give to to bring another person to the have plus everything options there's many options you could give a dollar you give $100 what was the guy that gave $1,000 a month beautiful unbelievable yeah we take all denominations so brings a says it's one to one if you by a by a bull that kills a free man you the same thing by by a slave both and it says what do you mean there's no such thing called wait a minute how do you say that you don't pay D over here you seem aish you do pay D when it comes to a slave says himself he's going to tell you the answer he asked a good question but he knows the answer was that answer we're not talking about a case says the gar we're talking what are you asking me a question you ask me a question from mishna they're not the same that's all you have to know about the answer the BR is not talking about a person that admits the Mish is talking about a person that admits about himself this is what happened to my bull I'm admitting that my bull cause damage we're not talking about that we're talking about nothing to do with the owner it's a different case don't ask me questions from here when that the Bull killed on purpose deliberately then and the owner because of that has to pay in the same case he would have to pay the 30 when this is still the okay so there is a connection between into a slave that's what we're saying there is in the says there is a connection yeah when there but when there's then there is a huge na between a slave and a non-slave because a slave is a and two different things the is talking about and we're talking about fine fire according to you that if there's noer there is yeah it's unbelievable in a case where you don't pay ker doesn't mean that you're absolved completely you don't have to pay something you have to pay for damages almost the same thing or the same amount when somebody's fire you light a fire you made a barbecue in the forest and goes and you didn't even realize it went it's spread and killed somebody you did it there was that testified as what happened but you had no intent the according to you there's no ker there's no ker when it comes to fire the idea of ker is only said by a bow fire you're not oh not so you should pay for damages but is you don't pay how do I know you don't pay damages when fire kills here we have a little bit of a thing this is not accurate 100% but you have a either the is tied and the slave is not tied or the slave is tied and the is not tied so what's the first case is the the the goat was tied the slave wasn't tied and they both somebody burnt the god the ba of of hay and they both died so what do you on you have to stick in a little take your pencil you only on the godish and the Goat the human being knows how to run away fine here we have it you have the slave that's tied the slave is tied and we can make it a little lower don't worry you're not going to see it looks like the goat is about to eat it's not F okay fine po why if the slave listen to this this is going to be a big Bo think about it for a second if you kill the slave Who tie down your Potter why are you poter on the on the on the wheat huh you're all wrong ah I knew you're going to say that here's the problem we learned that very good then it's killed him but if it's your bull goes ahead and attacks somebody there's no on that not so from that R proves the what you see that you Potter from when a fire kills a human being says here that if the slave dies from your fire you lit a godish and the slave dies you're Potter I asked everybody why you Potter the simple thing is come the r No but there is no come R here because you hold so there's no coming around get there so why is he poter he killed the slave he he didn't kill the slave he lit the goddes and the goddes lit him so the answer is because when your fire goes out and travels and kills somebody your PO here R learns that your PO a human being says gar no you learned wrong what happened over there he didn't light the wheat he lit him and then everybody agrees on that that's not that's literally killing somebody so let's just finish this R so how do you know how does r know that when your fire goes out and kills somebody you po that fire has from a pit a fire is for everything that what if a fire we learned this already Fire Burns Stones whatever and you have to plow again even though it's not so Fire doesn't burn Stones doesn't it just made a little dark here look at this so it says in the what's what's that a bar a bar doesn't pay from like if a a stone Falls or part of the ground Falls and we learn different over there you're not but the fire pays when you how come it doesn't say this case says from the fact doesn't say that when a fire pays you see that a fire does pay that if it's not intentional you don't pay just says over here I show you the when a human being falls in a pit you Potter that we learned already only when a Falls in says just because it didn't mention it doesn't mean that it's not on the list it's just we didn't have room for all the things in the list you're right he doesn't know for a fact he's just asking innocently he was asking Raba what do you think not that he knew for a fact and he learned it from this BR from this BR he's asking him what if the fire went and killed somebody without intent does he have to pay money is it only when it comes to a bull that he had when he has kav he has toay that's when but when you burn somebody deliberately you don't pay on the one hand maybe you shouldn't pay at all it's only or perhaps no we'll just take one part from the sh that what when a bull kills without intent even though there's no we just established something called damages money even though you don't pay and that says what time what time was it last week for real unfortunately we're very behind I got to take 8:00 shabas everybody have a good chabas have a wonderful day we'll say one we could have there's a lot of people Inus a lot of injured kidnapped let's [Music] have for