Daf Yomi Bava Kama Daf 38 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] morning look who's with us today welcome back first time grandfather Shmo after SCH bramman from Chicago I knew very well spent at least PES little sers with him in Chicago so the kid should they grow up and give to all we have with us also Ben what dentist from the dentist from the five towns y Schwarz and his [Music] son Sons son you coming for shabas eventually okay gal text message I [Music] got and it's written by somebody that his natural language is Hebrew born here in but speaks a good English comes to the she every single day two years ago I tried and got addicted so addicted that I think you can count the number of D him I miss using fingers on one hand my family and I have so much to thank you on this day and I chose to focus on one of them we ended with if I'm going to teach something to my son I'll teach him Tyra and not other uh how do you say them not jobs professions CBS B is there for a person when he's younger and left over when he's older earlier today sat with my 8-year-old son in this week he learned about and I found myself explaining to him the difference between them using the example of carbon I'll show the I found it here this was a way to remember the difference between and a neava means this I'm donating only this carbon if something hav't said I don't have to pay for another one nether is the general I'm going to bring a sheep if this one goes five I have to bring another one so dve is in a zoo a beer is in a zoo okay going back to his thing there a whole generation of Jews men women and when we say YouTube to them they don't necessarily think of a video they think of a DA the generation of children play good morning without this at least some of them would hear from the Father the phone in the living room about Messi and Ronaldo so thank you rebi thank you for all the time whenever you put it to D thank you for the smile you do with it thank you for making it so easy for us but mostly thanks for coming back to us we needed [Music] you that's not a nice he says okay thank you for everything I had a I I have to share with the on Friday I was contemplating once again you know because people asking give a she why don't you do 8 Minute D do M guy flew in from New York to ask me to do M we should add every day the thing another Shear another English Shear because I used to give another Shear which you liked and you were big but one thing that keeps on coming up over and over is that maybe I should give a Shear in Hebrew Now Hebrew is not my first language but I'm pretty decent at it and I was speaking to Benny about it and the first thing that he told me this is Benny Bo he says if you do it I'm going to give you hours of every single day hours every day I want you to do it that's what he said all right think about all the the pros and the cons I know the pros the cons I don't know we have to think about it all right um hey reell thanks for your amazing shum I don't know if someone told you this already but the word ah is the RIS good morning RAB say is good is the RIS of gar so I'm just reading because every month we get a few of these and if you're new to this year yes that's not why we said it but obviously you know runs the world and just happened like that good morning say love to take the credit but no dear belly I want to take a moment to confess my sincere appreciation for your incredible Shear again this is somebody from k m fer Thomas B want to take the moment express my sincer appreciate incredible she been a since subus and over the past few years I've had the privilege of listening to you to your insightful sh I'm grateful for the learning inspiration you have Shear according to Spotify your Shear was my top podcast of 2023 here I'll show you picture and I spent a total of 6,244 minutes engaging isum last year I'm proud to be one of your top three fans your learning Clarity and passion for the she have made a significant impact on my understanding engagement with the thank you and MD for the team for the dedication your dedication spreading to making accessible to listen to listeners like me the sh has become an integral part of my routine and I look forward to each new share every day I wish you contined success in your and may your sh continue to inspire uplift many others War regards the is sponsored for the unity [Music] ofet in memory of moris Denker on his 64th yard sidein intact Le your full potential tremendous success in all my Endeavors Larry jaffy professor at clown College University there is a place like that I know clown College University there's a place like that I know like in Florida every College voice is back better than ever wow this is great great start Benny rudnik in honor of hillo and Sabrina kamansi Who convinced me to join the da and in honor of my wife who pushes me to do the da wait a minute I thought I got you to join no who's the main pusher what happened how did he get into the picture what is this a joke I really my memory is like this you don't even explain to me now I saw Benny in chakas every single day that's where the K was and what is it called over there so every day I tell him you going to do you g to do I don't have time this that and finally I met his wife him and his wife and I said get him to do the da she said okay the next day he was here no became H okay something like that no okay but you weren't there every day were you if you are you're okay anyways I was every day the art of the month fine it's him it's him he takes all his thing all that come from I want to tell you one M before we start this share actually two m listen a guy came over to me after the share yesterday he said you know you said that you should have during he said I had during this guy sitting in this area I'm not going to say where he asked me not to say his name right over there and he said and he won tens of thousands of shek so I was reminded with another story that I ate by n fix he said he said yes he offered that I didn't ask he said yes I'm going to give mice we'll see we'll see then we'll find out how much he really won the mice was only 10 she then we know the mice is above M so listen I was at n fixes suda Friday night and he starts and we had a big the Kal KY was there for the very first time and he gets up there and he starts right before he starts making these weird faces his wife is no what's wrong say Ellie said that we should during and he warned me not to make those faces so I'm like geter who's joking around some people are on him and some people will win tens of thousands of shek anyway have today no I have to ask you give it automatic here's the question which organiz ation today takes pure and elevates them to the level of a get into it soon today's so we learned like a controversial almost that a bull of a Jew Gore is the bull of a Kanani poter top of ask now I want to point out as I mentioned yesterday says that if a non-jew asks you what's in this and you try to beat around the bush and you lie to him and you say uh it's not really the this that in other words he says you should give up your if he threatens your life you have to tell him the the way it is even though he doesn't like it and even though it's uncomfortable have to give up your that's what he passing okay so question is how could it be it's we learned in we saw the P yesterday has to be the bull of your friend so when a causes damage to the Jew he should be pottered the non-jew should be why because he's not and if you don't you're not going to go by the letter of the of the so even if the Jew causes damage to the he should be stood and he judged the world raw he saw he gave a het to [Music] the since the at the end of the day you should be but was M their M he said you could have it so we have to understand and this is it doesn't mean that you're permitted to go and take any money not only that not not causing confusion and then say Oh a trick no trickery the only things whatever when yes to be m is awesome yeah right they're if they are M themselves that's not yeah so it's not that all their became in hezek matter I saw the ramom today the ram says the reason is also because if you're if you're not if it's more it's going on we want them to to since they notz they'll be in he'll be M other people so we wanted them to to pay for that okay a came from from from so Rashi says also Rashi brings it that went to all we know went to all the nations said do you want the to they all said for different reasons because of the this one wanted this wanted okay so he didn't get the they didn't get the because of the fact that they rejected the then was he made their their M so we have two two two sources who caused damage to the verse there's no there's no right away straight off the bat that's our first another that's the second source that we brought so the every time the says always asks why do you need a second source per you need one of the two for which is going to say in a second will understand it in a second he learns the differently since he learns the differently I need another source was upset that B didn't keep the mitz here I have actually I wrote it down here what are the shz m i just one of one of two I had to make my own Mish means that they have to have a court system is to insult and these are the seven so since he saw not be m so the yeah yeah I showed it once I couldn't find it where is it what is it so I should have put I should have written it differently huh alive B gim and yeah I got it I once showed it in I just don't know where it is I looked for it I couldn't find it okay maybe we'll fight maybe we'll throw it in to put it in all right so wasn't matter the kick them out of their country how do you see from this what does have to do with them go we have the talking that fly and they have feet that they jump they jump top over land these G jump to another country so I don't have a source to say that their their money or their hez is M for that I need another that's why this Tu that's as when I learned four years ago in what was the name what when I got to know meni every day used to ask this this was his favorite sh every time so you're gonna gonna let them gain because they sin and now became to them get now them so they they sort of gained huh by mean say ra I don't know okay so maybe let's look over here I know but no in the in the not in the thing okay it says like this in rash it says in Rashi that they're not and nevertheless even if the they don't get any but it's still on them it's interesting even though it's a given there certain things the T says okay you're not allowed to do this s but the certain a that without the T it's just the way the world is done you're not steal kill just because doesn't mean that it's not a but there's no took away even if they're they don't get anyways what do you mean you take away from them the chance to do a Mitzvah right and now they have no connection's theah these are now that's it you have nothing anymore I gave you something to do now I'm taking away from you you have nothing no connection to at all you're like a snake your garish you're nothing punishment yeah but they they live in this world there's a way to look at it they live in this world they can do any in the world you don't understand then it's like that if you understand that what's the reason you're here so let's go that's it oh you hear this this is unbelievable got this a few times even a guy who learns a guy learning is on the level of goes the highest level even a non-jew who learns to is on that level get doesn't say Jew not Jew any human being it gives you life so to answer my riddle I think mdy is a few a know yudis that they watch this year yeah they wrote they wrote in a few times so we brought them up to level they learn now one minute I want to what who told you this where no no no it's also to teach them doesn't say that it's also to learn where does it say this hold on to over here says we'll see in a second you're not allow to teach them doesn't say they're not learn happens to be here look this is what I saw today there's uh in Korea South Korea there's a whole M that they they came to ro yeah if they learn they bring from the rash also they don't hold like these guys learn okay I'm not I'm not saying that they should or shouldn't I'm just saying that in Korea it became like one of the best selling books or they learn they learned tal sells tremendous amount of shots to that part of the world they right they have more they have more they have more sh than than in the Jewish World Kore no so I was getting all excited hold on a second I was getting all excited that maybe we could M we could double our numbers triple our numbers for the she if they found out about the sheer in Korea but then I saw T says you're not all to teach them you're not to deliberately go and teach they want to fire something else okay so based on the rash Bo you're not teach them they're not learn they have to learn about what about but what do you all anything that's to do with that's all of G it's all got to pull those Korean ads all those Korean ads you made pull them right now what's the what's the nomination in Korea it's not a dollar it's what what's the coin called a Yen no that's Japan do a dollar day for them Dollar Day if you're in Korea you're watching this year dollar day you got to pay up all right oh no not even there so here's the sh it says that they get they get like a so what are you telling me that and they don't get any they do get say they get but on the same level it's a lot more difficult to do a when you told to do like the famous told that no you don't remember this famous right the what shim what was y okay whatever with Y right he cursed I think he did it to right and he said do with your don't let him live his life out he because DAV swore that he's not going to kill him so he couldn't kill him you you take care of him so told him you're not allowed to leave and then thei says one day his sheep ran away and he chased his sheep out of and he killed him so what do you mean just don't go out what's a big deal not to leave no human nature is he tell somebody don't do this he does it so when when you're told you have to learn after this it's harder if you don't no you have a t to do all these mitz and all so you don't get the same don't give the Hebrew sh you mean the the this okay no they get a tremendous it's the highest but they would get a lot more if they were maybe I you're saying you're saying how is it possible that he gets more than a and it's the point is that they they get whatever thear is huge even though they're if they were even more that's how I understand I hear anyway wants yeah but no as a to go yeah of course says Story the Romans sent two officers to learn by they want to learn the whole teach us they learned it three times that's simple they learned it three times we sit and we struggle to learn CH once takes seven and half years they came in I don't know they sent the Geniuses in they learned the entire once twice three times great they knew everything cold and then when they were about to leave they said we couldn't find any flaws in your perfect we have one issue this this really disturbs us how is it possible that the bull of okay you want to go both ways we have to pay you a full amount How You Gonna grab the word it can't you can't dance make us pay but you don't have to pay us but don't worry about it we're not going to tell anybody we're not going to snitch on you we're tell them the is perfect besides this one thing we're going to keep it secret between us says all the way on the bottom second to last I don't know exactly okay there different gear here they were forced to teach them so for that to kill yourself they pretended that they were G and they learned the and they ran away fine which reminds me of I don't think I said this in a very long time I have to think how to say it because all you're going to correct me there was um oh it was it was uh the from Weinberg and a guy that learned by him he put in a tremendous tremendous amount of and he told I'm going I'm going back so he said why you going back a so he said hold on I don't want to mess up the story he said he said that because he's a guy he's a he's a priest he's only you wrote it he said he's a priest and okay I'll say you you'll you'll correct me now that you know you know the story so could have been you volume one he was a priest so Weber started screaming at him Russ how could you do this to me you're priest you didn't tell me that you're PRI you wasted my time a whole year put so he said but because of what you did to the guy feel bad do what could I do to help you very quickly what can I do he said one thing one thing you can do CH is that when you go back home and people come to you if you see a Jew comes to you you need a teach in the MS you need him that's be a TR that was that's Theory so no but the story continues then Israeli came to him and he and he started teaching this Israeli everything he knew from he made some no I just remember because says over here that he pretended to be a g he pretended he came to over here they made him he made himself like a g then he said oh by the way I'm not a g we're going back to Rome okay it's story but I ruined it sorry I got to tell you the story I have to I'm plotting already there's 12 minutes left I've been telling the story over I told to I told to everyone here but I got to tell to the because the story really moved me on on chabas by the shabbaton a couple walked over to me my wife and the woman came over she's she was like she's she lived in America but I think she was Israeli and she said she had a dream she had a dream that a rabbi told her she has to learn bet so she what's bet she gets up in the morning she had no idea what it was she never heard of it so she got she was confused she went to the rabbi she said somebody in my dream told me I have to learn bet so the rabbi told her this is what the woman told me and if if I'm missing something please whoever you are write into the she because I want to know all the details Clark so the rabbi said there's something called Chas and one of the volumes is called bet and CL made a SE on BET today she was shocked she was she didn't know what to do with herself she says so I I need a study this this uh she went online and she found out was she and she's been learning the da since then and she did chuva she became B chuva and she told me my wife as Mish I'm breaking I'm cracking up now thinking about it she said that she plays loud in her house cuz she wants her husband to become About Cha and he and he's shook shaking his head like this they had wor they they came for shabas came for you met them Benny yeah it's unbelievable huh other story no but we have to go what's the other story which one I love that story I think I said it already I think so he became a about Chua okay yeah no I I think I said it about we say it again time now this one moved me to the core um so we did that you know when you weren't here I Wasing over different things I was skipping lines it's not a day maybe you should stay oh I got it okay's daughter was let's go I don't with you you insult because they say it's not a good to say oh what we do he what can we do it seems like as if you have power like if you could have prevented something you would have pushed a certain button you would have done it you can't so went by himself he didn't have patients with that use the wrong language so he said to the the father of the daughter that was tells don't go to war with says why would just go out to war without H's command because would have made by the whole story they helped um they sent the the the women over there and they were so on the the helpers not the real deal the helpers you should destroy them the ones who went to war no way no I'm going to have young pigeons coming out of these two Nations if you destroy them those pigeons won't exist in future Generations who was wife who had and R we all know we have we wouldn't be we would have to him if M went to war with wiped them out there wouldn't be rul wouldn't be would look completely different so we could finish and we'll say the the thing in second I mean to compare this but okay every time I say biter there's a video out there that says uh I forgot the exact Lo something yes people say during sh what what yes people say during sha and it goes used to be my favorite video of all time basically the guy the guy it just shows a guy being he says all these things somebody that knows what I'm talking about some of the stuff is like what what bus was it ah the 17 oh so you mean it was jaywalking oh okay you know like crazy stuff that people say like who's getting the Lexus what not to say at a Shiva house okay I saw and he has this also in the thing guy I saw this with my own eyes in Chicago gu sitting shiva the RS talking talking all of a sudden hello hello ma ma ma yeah yeah yeah yeah okay yeah I'm just at the sh house yeah yeah yeah I'll be there soon yeah okay people m in the sh I'm not just reminding me of this and we have to explain what's going on over here you think he's telling the father of this girl that was n and he makes don't say this in a house because if you don't understand then is on a level to understand what he meant people that and the and everything don't destroy them why can in future Generations there going to be somebody called R your daughter if she was saw in your daughter something good then that but that's not what he meant what he meant is that saw the potential saw that this girl she she did her ton she fulfilled her ton so don't don't be that person oh I saw your kid fulfilled his and you don't do that sh understood what you're saying you're saying that this person came to the world to to do certain thing and if there was Generations that saw that there's something special a certain thing that then this kid wouldn't go and this was a special whatever the the what okay fine oh sorry with turning the May my holy nephew son of Robert and Jen and all right I need to tell I'm going out of my ga here we're doing Eight Days 12 people signed up for a dollar day you don't have to give a dollar day give $5 but we're making a push to what a shek could be shekele just give a shekele go on B tomorrow I'm going to announce the names of people certain person put in his name twice what one one if you're in Korea give a one with a y w w n really one like oh my gosh okay um a lot of people ask why does mdy need money we have uh over a million dollar budget and we it's just a lot of salaries Shas K us the shabas S but we don't want to talk about the shabas it was K was the show galic whatever it cost it cost it was great right Ben 300 I'll be like the guy in yesterday's da you could keep your your Z keep your half of Z no no I want it I want to drink of coffee too late you already gave the Koreans keep your one fine this is beautiful stuff doesn't hold back the of anybody in this world even when a person speaks a little nicer to somebody else there's a famous story of the we don't have time but I'll just say and imals the Go's wife made a deal with her friend they used to collect money it's a famous story that whoever dies first is going to come to the other person in a dream and one of the things she told her she said you don't understand we were one day standing on the street and you waved to to your friend in a certain way that wave gave you a certain tremendous everything has so certainly the older daughter of light she called her son from my father you can't start up with them you can't make a war you can't do a war but you could give them some taxes and and and take from them the younger one who spoke more properly the he's the son of my nation you can't you can't even take from them anything zero now I must say since we're we're here the famous Raa Fein I couldn't find I last time I said the story I brought the actual Raa it's in the safer I know for fact sorry he says I'm going to say quickly because we're late I'm sure we're going to get a bunch of people so fine I just couldn't find this morning so basically a told r that he was about to die he had a ter his tongue swelled up and R said he asked Ros to come in and he said it was par tough tough R pay Bay something like that and it was par and this R got up and and put down the daughters of light he said look at them they they they they they had children with their own father and he went went to sleep another dream the the first dream was the woman with the with B they dreamt he dreamt that two women with these long clothing everything says where're the daughters of L do you think we did it and we called our sons these names so that there shouldn't be another religion that says that they got pregnant because they thought there was nobody in the world so they don't want people to think that they were impregnated by the pass sh so they said it straight out now you understand why it's and because you spoke about us you're going to get punished and the guy died says this is also a very important lesson in life we have a chance to do a Mitzvah you jump on it you give that dollar a day you don't wait until the next day because the younger one had a a kid from her father the following day so it took four generations for the to come out now I love to ask this question Li's not here so I can ask the question who are the four people in CL that shouldn't have died they never sinned ever and the only reason they died is because of the of who are the four people and that's the one that's what nobody knows here it is the father of the Father the Son of so says it took the younger one to come until the wife of in other words have had that's four generations before okay now we're talking about not but a is did they become G because they really want to become G that's G or they become G Aras here we have a couple pictures here or maybe more than a couple there's a there's a whole bunch of them here in and they have their they do and says that they that they they were just scared of the Lions but they weren't real in other words if they're not real then it actually comes with a little bit of thing here's their oh that's my computer that's a if they're not real then that means that they were always in Yi they were always non-jewish but if they're real and they just now do AAR that's different a Jew that does AAR is still a Jew says so if you cause damage to the Potter now this is different than a GU why because by you pay if if the destroys your property then he doesn't have to pay the full amount he only pays exact from the fact says you pay the same amount ASI so you telling me they were never G they were just by the Lions me very goodha I'm GNA answer you later if I don't have an answer so I'm going to pretend I'm going to answer you later gini my when it comes to if you find a garment that has a state on it if it comes from RE says rash most of the people there are doesn't have so it's that they but they went off to so if you're Jewish you went off to D you still have but if it comes from the from a city of you go into whatever it is then it's what about a what's the GE over here okay you tell me that according to Mayor their fakers you see over here that they [Music] have G Ms good G but we don't want people to marry into them so we gave them aass and we said that they owe us money when they damage us and we don't owe them money as a so people see that they're very different than us most here let me just show you this p real quickly the says talking about so there you have to pay and you have to marry the woman if she agrees to marry you have to marry you never allow to divorce her never allow to divorce her but there's there are three girls that if a person is man them you have to pay the fine but you can't marry them because she's why don't you you revoke the you shouldn't have to pay the 50 they yeah this probably where we were learning by the way this is the we were learning back then 7 and half years ago that's what it was that you can't award a Russ who's a girl and you shouldn't pay says but I have idea so so he doesn't you don't you don't give it to the you give it to we should give it but nobody could collect it because every every that comes to will say no it's a different H have a wonderful day we're going to say to together [Music] be [Music] for