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this following part people could take ideas from this I started four seconds but haven't made it out of until this time I struggled through and being but I made it through when kov came around the extra time at home made it easy for me to stay consistent and even took on a second for a few months I stayed with the D for a couple of years but I wasn't focused as much on the as I was in just being present for the day she and it started to feel like empty learning long story short shorter I decided to shake things up and added other like when the cycle started almost two years ago and then came the biggest change finally starting to follow your not only has your kept being engag in the also keep me on top of my otherly the next phase thanks in large part to you is that I'm committed to mikra with Rashi four years ago I wouldn't have a dream that I could keep up a fraction of my but why don't you take on a little at a time and say committed to the Y you start to break down the excuses and find that you are capable of so much more than you imagine and yes it has changed my life and the way that my wife and kids think of me oh that's a big one the way his wife and kids think of him that's another huge thing of doing the da it gives your wife something to respect and your kids look up to you in a different way I've used a Google doc a Google doc and C the reminders keep this all straight I'm going to show you the picture is fascinating to give me the satisfaction and encouragement that comes with checking things off every day if anyone wants something like this tailor to their needs I'd be happy to share the problem is he's anonymous how is he going to share I guess you're going to have to call me and I'm gonna or make y crazy thank you for all that you do for B you with the good health and ability to help us grow in learning bench your family with and they deserve for supporting your efforts take a look at this amazing chart this is daily each one of those colors is 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in in his production I forgot to I have a copy with me and I forgot to bring it okay is sponsored for the unity of and the mother of grandmother who um I'm reading down here because okay this is his father's mother his father came with me my father came with me on the sh I guess wanted us to go because he was after shabas and father was a to join the shabat okay um today the par sponsored by K Barman who here in attendance in memory of Marvin Barman sponsorship in honor of shim brought from Bar Park mat there are three sh in the okay whatever that means inside joke I guess we know there's only three if you were at the YY Reb y Jacobson speech on Friday night he did a whole thing about the shell in that week's pish right here the art of the month sponsored from supporting we are holding on the last last line where the gar tells us an amazing I saw some of you like amazed at this that if we say that the carcass the animal that's killed through hezek belongs to the owner not only does it belong to the owner but he's responsible for all the loss that happens to the carcass from the time it dies until Bez passing or whatever it is so aazza comes along damages an animal animal drops dead and the the clock starts ticking and every minute that goes by the animal is worth less and less the one who takes that loss is the owner of the animal big says in the last line here perhaps it's not so simple maybe it's actually the that we had yesterday there's something called here take a look at this chart we're not going to go into all of them but is somebody that watches your object for free he's a sadic he does you a favor he's Potter if it's gets stolen or it's lost but he's if he's yes he's doing you a favor doesn't mean he could walk away from in the middle of the street if he's negligent he's because he receives money he has to do a better job watching it and therefore if it gets stolen or lost he's that's the difference between him and lost and stolen by so the P says if it gets this animal gets um eaten by a by a wolf should bring a witness so top of we're already into we just started right before shabas last week and that's how it goes before you know it boom and today is no different we're going to have many many newas and Concepts very if the could produce a witness that says that it was killed a wolf I couldn't do anything about it I'm not going to go fight wolves Potter yeah wolves like in the Safari the wild dogs and the hyenas they hunt in groups very very good Hunters like the wild dogs happens to be they have the number one kill rate in all of the Safari when they decide to go after an animal that animal is gone 90 something per why because they hunt in a group and the group doesn't get tired and the group is smart come from all different wolves also what human being against a bunch of wolves a pack of wolves it's not a match so if he could prove that there were a bunch of wolves he gets out of it the carcass of this animal seems funny and bring it to bz so just this word reminds me of the story some of you know it but the new guys for sure don't so I'll tell them in anyway lucky for the new guys I could say my mice isaz over listen goraz is over I could over my m at least once a month when I lived in benra my father would wake me up early in the morning once in a while you know my father looks like now with the towels that fill in the whole thing early in the morning 4:00 in the morning we're going to the we're going to get some chickens so okay no no questions asked four o'clock in the morning it's still dark outside we go to this this place cross the street we lived in and there was a factory there where they used to sh the chickens he walks in there he says is it okay if I check some chickens to make sure they're not TR for because if a chicken Falls for amas it could break its bones and he thought that maybe the chickens are thrown off the crates the crates off the trucks I got so to make a long story short he would go in there and take some chickens out of the box and they were all sleeping these chickens right they like to sleep at night especially when it's dark takes them puts them in the ground and they just fall fall over he says you see these are trus like no Abba they're sleeping anyways once in a while the chicken would get up and start running around the whole place in between the and they're like get out of here we don't need people like you here so oh that's not a Traer anyway so one day this this chicken they shck the chicken and goes through the machine the Feathering machine takes all the feathers and it comes out black and blue so my father doesn't know what to do he has the ho has 10 chickens one of them is black and blue says I don't know is this what's this black and blue what's going on here so he says okay listen take this chicken and go to Carell ask him what what's going on here so I take the chicken he puts it in a bag and the the feet with the yellow legs you know sticking out of the bag I take this chicken I start going down the stairs he runs after me says listen listen if he tells you it's good it's kosher ask him if it's you understand what I'm telling you remember to asking this meaning is this a chicken that made a on if yes he doesn't want to eat it he doesn't want chickens that have a suff ker or not it has to be okay so I'm repeating this thing to myself and I go I look look I my father there's no ways and he doesn't know how to I just asked people where says okay here there's a hole there's a line I wait in line and then these di n the whole thing they see this kid with a chicken in a bag and I could see them like looking and smirking a little bit I I pull out the chicken by then it was probably spoiled I don't know like threw the bit pull it out I said what's what's what's going on here eh it happened from the machine from the feather from the pl after it died it got you know banged up from the machine so I look at instead of asking him is this I said my father want to know if this is a is this a rabbi that the chicken gave a pack on and they liked it they were laughing yeah yeah okay great so that was that so over here it says y should bring the dead body B people have done it before I'm not the first guy that brought a dead chicken to bezin this uh this guy should bring the his his beh to the bz maybe this this exactly hold the what what it diminishes in value is owned by the N so so Rashi goes into to explain over here that AB is holding that this is not there's no way in the world this could be a question ofus why because if it's Aus he's the n as we said before you could pay him whatever you want you know he doesn't have a choice in what he gets so it's talking about a in other words the the sh he was negligent he was negligent and nevertheless AB is of the opinion that the nuk loses the value from the time it dies much like in my case I walked with a chicken in the for over an hour it has less value for sure I don't know if it's edible let's say it's edible it's less less value so here also who takes that loss the and the the tanama holds that the is owned by the mazik okay R just goes this whole thing that if the was he doesn't bring it to bz there okay this is what I said before perhaps this is the that we're discussing we we want to say that is only the No Maybe So no no proof from here maybe everybody holds that the the one that was damaged takes the whole loss that according to the would have to go and retrieve the Navea we actually have a picture today for it uh here is it this is a this is a pit so who has to retrieve the dead animal from within the pit AB holds it's the ma I didn't know it goes with the sound [Music] sorry has mdy uh oh he's still alive okay good mdy Bell F so who has to do that action who has to pull all the the ropes according to that's not a sh who who who incurs the damage according to it's the who has to and according to the tanama it's the owner I'll prove it to you how do you know that the owner has to retrieve the sh so that was this thing over here I should have I just used the old thing but if you look at this it says and they play it with the words a little bit they add the word like I have over here it should have been just the word in red and the rest not in other words that heal that what the the dead body the the mazik also has to retrieve not only does he have to pay has to pay but he also has to take care of the ham and the dead body that's how he learns the p f there was a Misa where a guy had a really old donkey in a really old pit and he decided to kill two birds with one stone so he took the donkey threw the old donkey into the pit want to get rid of both and he started filling up the pit with dirt when he was done suddenly his donkey emerged what happened every time he threw a pale of dirt the donkey stepped on it and the donkey got himself out of the pit I'm not sure what the end of the M was either the donkey became a Riva later or he had a kid after N9 months I don't know something something very like a m has happened the donkey kicked him in the head whatever the story was but the the I think the mus hll of the story is that we all have um unfortunate situations in our life and the trick is we all every single one of us has some sort of SAR and something and ideas to use it as an advantage as a stepping stone and take that disadvantage that we were given and use it to grow to step up you throw uh dirt on some on a donkey he steps on it he goes and he's able to climb out with all the sorus that you want to bury him with instead of being buried and not taking advantage he used it to uplift himself and save his life and that's what we have to do what's going on what's the story that who who has to take care of the carcass sh let's say when it's inside the pit on the bottom it's only worth $1 and when you take it out it's worth four when the ma is very to get it out he gains look now instead of paying the guy was worth 10 before and now on the bottom of the pit it's worth one the ma is going to have to pay nine but if he's able to retrieve it now he has to pay six or whatever yeah so it's it's good for him to be why why you making a whole big deal out of it of course you should be very interesting I think we could relate to this terrets in the beginning I was like Wow but then I realized it makes a lot of sense on the bottom of the pit it's worth $1 and when you take it out it's worth $1 in other words the you could go to a store and you buy the gar gives an example you buy wood in the city it costs X and in the desert it costs the same amount you don't gain anything by having it closer or further away from you a lot of times products cost the same amount regardless of where they are does that make sense on the bottom of the pit one on top when you buy a beam in the city for same price in middle of the desert this this that we do with the ma so to speak we say hey this your animal your dog killed the neighbor's goat have to deal with the Dead Goat whatever it's worth we're going to take off the price that works for hezek but it doesn't work for a GH of in other words if somebody stole a goat let's say somebody steals a bike right today people like to steal bikes they steal steals a bike and he had a little bit of an accident he broke the bike so now he wants to do chuva you can't take the broken bike and give it back to the original owner and say listen this broken bike B still has value okay it cost $1,000 now it's worth $500 I'll just pay you $500 in cash that's not how it works you have to go as a GH you have to go and give him a brand new bike you don't have this that we have by hezek that you could give him a broken bike and you just pay the difference says and I want to say that a a also is the same thing now a same thing what that he's like a ghav or he's like a which one is he and agrees to me right away what's going on here which one is it is a somebody that we could compare him to a ghav maybe makes sense not to compare him to aov he's not he's not a bad guy he borrowed something and it broke so maybe she returned the broken object and just pay the difference there somebody that borrowed an ax he broke it so very interesting there's a story about absk and they were on a train and they're talking about the and on the and they're fighting with each other is the word Tav or it that's the had a big fight so as soon as they got off the train they run to the pulls out thear he says Ah I'm right it says tabra and at the same moment pulls out a he says oh it says so what happened was pulled out the same exact in and I looked it up and it says it actually does say that's the story maybe somebody made up the story he saw that was a little different he said but that's how they say the story The a broke broke so they came to R who he called before AB you can't give him a broken Axe and pay him the difference between a broken Axe and a good axe you have to give him a brand go to Home Depot buy a brand act so you see that a someone who borrows we don't do him a favor and he cannot use the broken object as payment he has to pay him in [Music] full says I have why just from the fact that as to rebi Rav two words is that true that he has to buy a brand new a axe the and didn't answer listen this is not a joke what the gar is saying here you hear what's going on here as are you sure that's quiet what does that mean that means he retracted they are right that's not how do I know because in fact the pass like this question says thear it's very interesting the gar brings in the name of rebelar and because the gar brings the name of for this exact thear is gonna bring seven throughout nothing to do with bakama we're going to go on a wild roller coaster ride through Shas and they're all have to do with the first one is wrong he holds that when a ghav breaks the bike he could take the broken bike put it in the backyard of the guy he stole from with a check for the remaining money he doesn't have to buy a brand new bike okay is that aov cannot give a broken bike but if you borrow something you could give back the broken ax how do I know because they asked R and R didn't answer that means he retracted number two from we're going into over here check this out very very simple chart this there's a difference between if a woman gives birth to a boy or a girl but we're going to go with the girl girl is double in everything so it works like this if a woman gives birth to girl she's t for 14 days if she gives birth to a boy she's t for seven days but if she gives birth to a boy and she goes to the mkah after seven days she has 33 free B days in other words it doesn't matter if she sees Dam not D it doesn't matter if she's tall 33 but a girl she has double of everything 14 to begin with she's 14 T days no matter what D not D she's she goes to the Mikvah and then she's to for 66 days and then she has to bring a carbon the whole thing to car so what happened was a unfortunate situation a woman miscarried and you don't see a baby you don't see anything what you see is a sack now in the sack there's a baby it's dissolved so it happened over two- day period and we don't know that most of it come out the first day or the second day so when does she become T the first day or the second day now it could be if she's t on the first day so everything she touches is T the all thing she touches fruit in those days very but it's a big because if she's on the first day the clock starts ticking 14 days again we don't know if it's a boy or girl right it's dissolved I have no idea what it is it's she's in the in the third month whatever it is so we have to assume the worst that's a girl in terms of Toma and then the clock starts ticking I'm gonna I didn't see this I just thought about it now most likely she doesn't get 66 days of tahara because what if it's a boy so it's going to be a big problem she's going to start from 13 and go um you know whatever 7 Days less than 33 okay okay fine we're going to pretend it's a boy I don't know that's what I'm assuming upon him the the issue is that how do we know that she gave birth on the first day how do we know she gave birth on the second day maybe she gave birth mostly on the second day so says we start from the first day why are you doing this you want to be a oh that's not a good says why because it comes out that on day 14 you're already telling her to go to the mik she's but what if she only started on day two day two you start 14 days from the second day that she saw most of the sack came out on the second day now you're gonna tell me she's t on day 14 no she's really Tomy until day 15 on the first day she have to she starts counting 14 days from the second day okay so she only becomes t on the 15th day these are very small soas we're going to go through this little finish that go completely different so what do you see from this the you want to tell me that you saw a little bit of the sack on the first day there must have been some sort of baby in there but that we already know you have it goes like this right the I could have made it a B is the idea that if you she a mother and you find a baby inside the mother I was just offered a baby like that I said no thank you but my's brother-in-law one found a baby in there you don't have to do on that baby and in fact every time we learn it I keep on mentioning that in Australia somebody came up with this invention that if you take a baby the baby has life let's say the baby was able to live and you take take two babies that are that the mother's no you could eat the entire baby there's no tra even if you open up the baby's heart and you see that it's full of holes caution so what you do is you take this baby and this baby two Bas you put them together and they have babies and they're all B babies so you don't need a he anymore there's no tra meat this is what a guy invented in Australia he had a whole Farm of Bas as long as the parents are real Bas then their children and generations afterwards are all that's what he held I don't know probably the ra came out against it whatever there a I think was some sort of controversy I'll go B him what happens if a baby sticks his hand out and then you the mother the hand is not edible you can't eat the hand it doesn't get the he from the mother whatever's inside the mother the rest of the body of the baby is good but not the hand what happens if the whole sack comes out not the whole thing you're not allowed to eat any of the sack Simon V when a sack comes out it's a it's a sign for a woman so I already see this that when I see a sack I have to assume that there's a baby in there that's what it mean Sim when I see a sack I say this is a this is a Vlad she's already T the woman if it's a human being she's if it's a then I can't eat it it came out it's already not a is asking why do I need to say twice I already have it here only go based on the I Sayad maybe you need a full a full you need only a full is and a little bit is nothing but but I'm going to make a so people don't get confused they'll see you eating let's say half a sack comes out I'm telling you it's m only a whole sack that comes out is a so people gonna get confused because a half sack a whole sack you say you know what all sacks half whole all are aesome but by a woman says Rashi I don't have to be goer why because people see later on that the whole thing came out and she became tummy then all right new brand new Su if you just arrived now brand new great turnout online 84 online I only see 58 over here Zoom oh very nice so what this is YouTube 58 on YouTube very nice beautiful that's where they all are they want to be here by the way if you're in Miami watching this year I got two emails today from people in Miami what time is she Miami it's always at nine o'clock and also please get on the WhatsApp group so that you'll know two people sent in one guy said he's a doctor or something he's a resident the problem is that those slightly behind that's probably what what's going on okay don't come for pizza that was last night says another in the name of boy I I think this is a beautiful thing my sister sent me my sister who's her husband is uh their son is in the Army his name is so bad with names anyway so but she sent me this video and it was very emotional I said I have to show it in cheer but beautifully it came out Mish in the here's the video I wanted to show I thought it's incredible check this out it's a little blurry my phone it came out great I hope this sound here no in Gaza it's unbelievable without the baby without the mother without the jewel he's doing a I don't know I was very [Applause] much [Applause] unbelievable okay so we're talking about here M has worked out beautifully that is they have to be part to your son if he's 30 days old and if R the baby dies within 30 days so it's a it's not a not to be what if you have a kid that's a viable kid it's gonna live but unfortunately an animal got to it and killed it so I think that maybe you have to do after the baby died so says says you would think that you no matter what regardless even if the kid was n no he has to survive the 30 days another a large animal like a horse donkey cow you obviously are not going to lift it up so you pull it to you and that's how you you acquire it oh hold on a second this is not good I forgot to plug it in and now we got to go back to the thing got go back to RBS got go back to RBS got to go back to RBS okay we're still on okay we didn't go up all the owner has to do is give over the RS and say hey take you don't have to pull it to you he says like a large animal small animal says you lift an animal if you never seen a person lift an animal back please pay attention to this video this is how you do if anybody wants to know what that's a live goat morning all right back little Su I did that for Remy he's never seen it you never seen me lift up the animal what I didn't want it to do things I don't know like it's the middle of a she it wasn't going to be all yeah if anybody wants to droney a is here a is making a drone that could carry human beings it's going to be I'll be one of the first people to fly it interesting you have brothers that are dividing an inheritance they're taking it easy for the first first few months they don't want to be you know show how much they care about money so they're they're playing at large they take the the father's credit card they spend they buy all this clothing and stuff then they show up to bz their nice suits the famo shoes everything they have to hey you bought $300 of shoes you bought a nice this you watch it's all we're going to take everything into account that comes off the total what the wife spend on her credit card the children that we're not going to SLE them into bz then it's not D to come to B so all right they got away with it they got some free clothes sometimes even what they're wearing or in some cases one of them is wearing you don't do an appraisal the oldest of the brothers you know when you go to court you can't just come in with like a t-shirt that that says something crazy have to come in every every criminal dress them up with a nice suit tie the biggest biggest thugs come in they look like lawyers and you know you know how it goes so over here also the oldest brother we need to dress him up because he's doing business whatever it is he has to look like a mench so that that's not going to come off the bottom line another think about this if you if you had to think about this you'd probably well this actually if I ask you to watch my car yeah I'm paying you $100 a month to watch my nice car are you allowed to just turn without telling me and give it to somebody else and let him watch it and if he does and he and he something happens to it who who's responsible the first guy the second guy he saying no it might not be okay but at the end of the day we'll see if the first guy gives it the second guy he's Potter certainly not here you just want to see the the the um the chart while I'm talking since he doesn't get paid he's not responsible so much so he's not such a great CH so even certainly if he UPS it he he gives it to somebody that charges so now it's going to be watched even better than the owner thought it's going to be watched even go downwards you downgrade the sh you go from a guy I'm the owner I'm paying you $100 you found the guy is going to do for free so now my car is not even being watched that well it's like one of those cars from I don't want to say one of these towers over here A whole like a half a million dollars worth of cars in half hour went fing why because the guy or like officials jet ski the other day what's going on with the Sher by the way that Scher came to me you hear this I came off the jet ski today shom he's here like like yeah can I help you he's like I no that it was missing I said but now it's not missing so it's good right yeah okay good you have to see when it goes missing not when the guy brings it back okay talk to them even you go downwards nowt why as long as you give to somebody that has that's it it's crazy the guy pays you good money to watch his thing you're getting paid now you find some loser kind of guy that's going to do for free so you make all the money you tell you put it on him and your Potter you don't have to do anything great business as long as you give no I don't like this no you give it the second guy you're certainly when you downgrade the of course because he made it worse who goes upwards and makes it even better says in all cases and he says a different reason his reason is because I don't trust the second guy with the he's a loser he's a liar he's a GH of He he'll make a I trust you with that's why I gave it to you if somebody owes somebody money you could go and grab a slave so this is again another in the name of is this also that you could go and grab the slaves of the that they inherited from the father so very very interesting rebelar said a little bit of Nots he was a little scared ofman and said you didn't want to get into a whole fight with him so you know no only said him directly not from the you can't take a slave from so he says really that's what he said without of course you could take a slave you could go and this is a very important if you owe somebody money to pay him back a lot of people I don't have money well wait a minute you have a car you have a house what do you mean you don't have money says over here you owe somebody money you give him your coat you give him your shirt so certainly a slave says and here we have it's called means it's a abbreviation of three words meaning I can tell somebody I owe you money here take it from this cup right over here or take it from this Slave oh so it's a slave if I make my slave I say you know what I'm gonna pay you back and I'll guarantee it you know that guy that slave that's the guy if I don't pay you take him and then he went and he sold him go and grab the slave but if you did the same thing to Bull you cannot go after the bull if it was sold what's the difference between a bull and a Slave people know you heard he sold his slave to so and so nobody cares about a bull being sold and then say top walked away all this there lied so we know that you cannot go after you can only go after the's they inherited real estate then you could go after if the father owed you money you can go after the real estate but a slave the is always Mish a slave to car the question is are we to everything so yes a slave is exactly like go after the slave then he heard later on that that he was tricked that told his I I was just waiting for to leave and now I'm telling you the truth and you heard about it afterwards he says was worried for me because he knows that I hold that has in this case like Matalin so he cannot go after the slaves of and he was worried I'm going to get into whole conversation with him and proved him that he's wrong so he tricked me I hold that you cannot go after slaves when they go to the have a wonderful day