Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 98 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] [Laughter] [Music] it's today I will be delivering for sh just like I did yesterday um there's going to be another here in English at 5:00 for da um yeser I gave Al don't ask different orders different things but before y we should have all the D of Y out and edited in time Bas um what posted in order posted in order that's even less of a issue I'm going to say this a number of times so forgive me because it needs to we need the kar most of you are familiar but I think the biggest trick that I know of in the is not to fall be not to try to catch up literally that's the the biggest trick you hear it over and over and over over the years I had multiple arguments with people people that knew better it's not that I'm smarter I just have more experience every single time that somebody argue with me and said no I'm different and I I can't have a hole and I'm going to make it up I'll be with the da soon I'm going to catch up I think almost every single time the person came over to me after a few months said you know what I should have listened to you it's a shame so the trick is it's one very simple trick if you fall behind because there is a 3day and it's very difficult to follow the D and there's daving and this Tash and this sudas and this guest so some people they fall behind and rather than trying to make it up it's K to Jump Ahead let's say we're holding gim wherever going to be holding then you just jump to that D pretend nothing happened write it down and B one day you'll make it up maybe even that day but try to do that day da and on R itself I highly recommend to learn the da even if you're just going to read it on a on a very basic shot but just read it at least that so you get you keep consistent on here in the the she is the hour before 4:30 um all days so I think also shabas we're going to have a Shear at 4:30 as well I mean the emails I wasn't it wasn't a joke it just came out certain things are going to just come out today not a lot of sleep speaking of snakes this fellow was noticed one morning M outside the door here in the reason I'm reading it is because San Jose Costa Rica thank you for bringing more to the worldd to do the your Costa Rican contingency okay here's a bunch of is how mdy is this I like if it's says it's 417 if Amica it's a so is 422 [Music] also sh oh you know what I I do have to mention as we all heard that our the forces are going into Lebanon I have two nephews that are going in and um we all know someone and somewhere and young Jewish boys are going in and we have to learn and hope that this thing ends very very quickly and we have the G it's R coming up and that's when it was nigar this whole this this year of missiles and and wars and and tragedy and death in in from people in our always are in rash so hopefully we have a better year next year hi again don't worry I won't write in every day but I messaged this on WhatsApp and was told to send an email I'm currently sitting on a plane waiting to take off it's Spirit Airlines so there's no Wi-fi um he was going to pay for the Wi-Fi on Spirit anyways I was trying to download today's share but since there's no Wi-fi let me and then the WhatsApp group I'm reading this because WhatsApp is a very viable option it might be better than YouTube at least you get just a share and nothing else and in his case he got it on his phone so he didn't have to download something from another website they posted today share I was able to download from WhatsApp and can now watch it during the flight great time thank you attaches a picture of me about to start to his da look he brought a real gamar with him this guy's for real drar so uh am I allowed to read this Rabbi can I read this I should no not what you wrote the other guy yeah but he'll doesn't he watch this year it's a very long one it was it was a little moving towards the end I will it's a long one I never thought this would happen but it did things all the last two years work has been just let's say unusual people said why don't you join the da I got a message from a friend remind me they starting a new book of talmud she joined the D I would be remiss not to include that my friend had sent multiple times during the year should Jo but it never I never took it seriously when I got married moved to Calgary started learning the D right after the at a great website Source sheets i' read two to three pages and I would be done of course miss a page here and there and after a few times that I missed a chunk of pages convinced myself that this wasn't for me that I should stick to something simpler after to receive message from my friend scared but I know something I knew I needed some learning in my life about a year ago I stumbl P weekly Torah RAB epim Goldberg he just blew me away he loved it ker but it's only once a week back to three months ago the M said in 3 weeks okay I'm just skipping ahead oh and then I'm just going to dive in and join the shear at the end of specific tal at least I would get a feel for the learning style better understanding this was right from me the video was very high quality the rabbie spoke very well I don't know if he's talking about me because he said okay he had good props pictures videos describe what was going on page of tal mode and to top it off he always had a good story I was hooked short I miss a day after Shabbat or even on short Friday before Shabbat it was difficult to watch just but after a couple weeks I really like could catch up as as the rabbi said just skip it and stay with the page of the day I did do two classes on Sunday fine last week on Wednesday morning I was sitting at my table just finished morning prayers and eat my usual bowl of cereal my friend calls me on the phone without even saying he asked did you finish I replied I was just about to listen to The Shear but I didn't make a big deal out of it he immediately interrupted me what do you mean do you know what you just accomplished it's amazing what are you doing to celebrate are you going to the community are you going doing your own I was kind of taking it back we known each other for such a long time 30 years he knows what level I'm at and I know what it's like to attend a who am I to give a he clapped back right away saying how special moment was I knew it was a dream of mine to complete a book of I told him that for sure oh I come he lives here in oh he came from the see him I'll see if I can put something together in the community I got off the phone of course as Sam walked in that's his wife I just started crying she knew I was on the phone but didn't know who I was speaking to I assured her that it was tears of happiness I said I did it I finally did it but I couldn't stop crying after a minute so I explained to her it's been over three months and I finished the tal of I asked her if I should do see just go to one of the RAB organizing signed to do a small sud our Core group of friends in the park guy was crying an adult man is crying in front of his wife this past Sunday I was able to travel to with my friend the people friendly they introduced themselves the food was great great speakers and some singing dancing I really am looking forward to the next one I hope you can join me too you'll thank me later so post where did he post this on Facebook wow you got him to join you're one of the people that got to join um H belly thanks for the consist of the making the gur so enjoyable regarding the story say 96 about the wine that got water back into wine you had a concern if it was wine why is coming so I know the story is with vka and now with wine there wasn't even a sh thanks Elliot Burger Monroe New York so we go from Calgary to Monroe and the Costa Rica we're all over the place the this is RAB if you need to make a coffee or go to sleep for a little bit we have a few sponsors here a little bit more than usual the K the mon sponsor return of all the hostages Dr daber and ABA Renard for the safe and Speedy return of our especially today they should all come back and for all those who were injured matching rebell donation for the supporting and thank you to my wife father father we have six of them official noov Winkler on my birthday I wish everyone a year both our grandmother on her second yard by Judith Halper jud's father I said that member of the she and success in my new business for for B and the whole have to continue to Makey so many all the sponsors and everybody should have a good remember not to fall off the in the time of the G where did and his usually live in the's father's house or in the kala's father's house huh kala both some people say both he says four options in you're sitting next to the hillo should we let it slide this time Hill your gar is not even open so you can say whatever he wants oh okay okay in the time of the gor it seems like they used to live in the house of the's Father ah his house but what a which Father's House these still you know so holding towards the bottom we're supposed to get to the bottom but because we had to cut it short so let's see what we can do today father-in-law what's to make on white wine is AER oh this is yeah it says like that oh okay good thing that we didn't do this yesterday is the wine good for the right because people use white wine today wine will make you drunk what kind of wine get the better of you but what red wine so red wine for the we saw the yesterday you need it has to be wine that causes and over here it says what wine will make you sh I guess will be maybe right he's checking to see if it's to do did I say yes about putting little red into the white I didn't say that we like a lot of on a lot of women like to use let's say m you know like a white wine but should be red so what if you take I missed you in Flor in Los Angeles you weren't there then I was on the East Coast ah what right do you have to do that your SCH is always off my SCH okay I'm sorry for starting at 7:25 I mean 7:10 I it's just me it's my schedule so okay if you don't have red you can use white so the question was if you take white MC and you pour a couple drops of red K grape juice and makes it red are you is it anything think says that it's nothing it's okay whatever yeah it's not a but that I think he says look at the end of the day it's white wine so what if the color it's a question of white not the color but what type of wine it is okay [Music] if you buy food and you have to assume the 10% is not going to be good and you can't get your money back so to if you buy kegs from sh 10% they're not going to be good these no good Nicks of the kegs nice but they're still nice and they are sealed in other words you can use them slightly and they're usable just you have to take a loss the buyer takes a loss of up to 10% now here's the question when it comes to food you take a loss of 10% what if it was 11% what if there was more than 10% what do we say he takes it all back he gives it all back to the seller by kegs what would be the you have 11 kegs out of 100 instead of 10 do you give them all back says the r no you don't give them back because the reasoning that we have by food though you don't have by kegs one of the reasons is May the guy's a liar he stuck it in it seems like he's he's not being honest kegs you don't have that issue so you just give back one keg and you keep 10 kegs for yourself as the buyer says you purchase wine and after a while you find out that it's spoiled the seller doesn't have a guarantee on it he sold you wine and now it's not wine so he's Potter but if he's known he's a repeat offender everybody knows buy wife from him it's no good he could assume that that's what he did to you and you bought something that's a huh yeah but this guy has issues with his wine if it went off we'll see in a second we'll see the whole thing will be clear and if he says specifically I want to buy wine that lasts for a long time I in that case he has to give him wine until on it's already the the summer it's a hot season and the heat could ruin the wine I had once I went to America for PES and um something with electric and my uh my fridge for I used to have I don't even have one anymore but my wine cooler went dead and I came back most of my bottles were spoiled and it was hot in the house somebody oh I know what happened one of my good friends has to my house he said probably Ellie doesn't want his air conditioner on what the whole the whole he turned it off to save me a couple bucks so I came back yeah all right so I spoke to him afterwards and explained to him that you know more than friends so it is what it is he wasn't American he doesn't know how these things work you come in you're supposed to have like that smelly house no no keep giving hints there's no hints here no no it's a compliment for him if you tell him and say of course saved money stop it don't put me in a corner here it's just I'm saying heat is not good for the wine trust me it's not good for the wine huh if he makes up a deal with him he's I want I want aged wine what's aged wine it's a year old say I want I has be three years old now when he sells it to you it could be two and a half years to say but you have to make sure guys hear that 16s the f35s over the whole night all night I actually took a video I went out out maybe it was like 2 in the morning and it was it it you look it looked like stars whatever wants to see it's hard to see you just see it was the whole it was very clear sky and you just see flashes everywhere it was just coming and go all different whatever says the Gar so again so it could be that he sold it to you was two and a half years old but it must last three years in other words if he sold it to you when it was two and a half years old it has to last another half a year so that it could get to the Y oh here we have a thank you if you want to see what it looks like I showed it once but it's to see again it's so there's 100 years old and there a 500y old I don't know what they go for something like that it looks good no the wine looks nice the good color look at that color ah 500 year old so one of the Israelis said it's not 500 it's about three years [Laughter] old you know yeah anyway when is there no warrant when you bring your own uh bottle and you say fill it up so then the seller's but if the seller sells it to you in his own battle so why is there no warrantee take it back here's your battle here's your wine what kind of business is this now it's very interesting because if you recall we had RAV who says that when it comes to wine when you buy wine you have a 3-day guarantee after 3 days it's possible that it started becoming vinegar after 3 days over here it seems like you have quite some time it should it should last why should it last why should last if you purchased wine you should drink it who told you to keep it in your seller for for six years or for 6 months whatever the time is I sold you something can't complain to me after a while I so to you I I thought you're going to drink it right away says gar you're right typically speaking I don't have to assume that you're going to keep it for a very long time but if you the buyer says I'm looking for wine for cooking and we said wine for cooking is even on a higher level not like we saw the today you just use garbage wine for cooking but those days for cooking meant quality wine and it's supposed to last for a long time you're not going to use a whole bottle in your food you use a little hair supposed to last so when the buyer spec says specifically specifies he says I want wine to last I want the Mikvah for food so you have to make sure you sell them something that's going to last so in order we have like this there's two ways for a seller to be Potter for selling wine that becomes vinegar either on the right side it's the vessel of the and even if he said in the he said I want it for a long time even if he said that then the seller is Potter why because it's the vessel of the buyer you can do something else you can say you know when the buyer is Potter when he never specified it for for for liik it could be the vessel of the buyer could be the battle of the buyer but if he didn't say straight out I I want please give me why that's going to last for a long time so he could he could assume the seller that he wants something that's going to last for a day so here it's my bottle but you should drink it right away and I'm not taking if you didn't say yeah seems a little confusing you guys are looking at the chart like you never saw a chart before there's two ways that the seller is Potter either it's the vessel of the buyer or even if it's the vessel of the seller but if he didn't specify that he wants long lasting wine then he's not no's no on it why do you have to go to the right and say that's the the buyer's vessel and he said even if he said he go the other route that it's the one on the left it's the vessel of the seller but he didn't since he didn't specify for how long he needs it so the the the seller doesn't have to give him something that lasts long you give him something that lasts for a day so no so so the buyer always loses what's your name fromal from Montreal now that I know your name do you still have to askha okay hold on a second let me here don't don't abass me rather this is Su that yeah what what do you want to know see that buyer loses all the time depends the buyer loses all the time if you have these things here look he loses if he didn't sayik then he loses but if he said mikp if he says specifically I want this wine for long lasting and the guy gives it to him in the the seller's bottle then he doesn't lose cuz he said I want long lasting so he doesn't lose so the asks why did you pick the ones in the right that it's the CLE of the buyer and he even if he because he proves it from the actual wording of the it says if you know for a fact that the wine spoils it's considered a he gets his money back he's done it a few times repeat offender that's pretty much what was saying why you should have drank it right away why do I have to give you a guarantee on wine I sold wine drink it today drink it tomorrow like anything else if I sell you fish you come back to me after 6 months I saw with my own eyes uh in CCO in America guy comes with a few pounds of rotten fruit here there's a full money guarantee here I want I want my money back and they took it from him talk EMS and after he left they cursed him out whatever I'm serious they have a policy a policy got took advantage of the policy comes back with rotten fruit but a normal person says no I sold you an apple eat it I didn't tell you the Apple's going to last for two months oh so why could he say I want my money back because he specified and he said I want this to be long lasting wine this two types of wine for cooking and for drinking and if he said I want the cooking wine that must last for a long time says so there's another chart here if you want to just here we actually learned this a little bit so we're familiar with this wine that spoils whose fault is it says what do you mean it's the seller's fault there's no such thing as masle and as we learned it in the over there you can see the buyer is a sinner he has for whatever reason he speaks lanara his wine spoils I sold you good wine you ruined it it's not my fault you're the buyer you're a bad guy you have a virus it's your fault could you say such a thing when it comes to wine so it's all the fault of whoever owns it the wine is it betrays you what kind of person a man who is a who's arrogant says the beautifully we're talking about mid like the of p over here 56 I don't know what he holding you already this thick I'm sure he has the beautiful when a person Isa he pretends he's something he's not he walks around look at me I'm such a GLE I'm such a great person I have such talents but he it's not him he's really nothing so the wine acts just like him it's not even wine but it acts it pretends it's wine so you have food that you think it's wine it looks like wine but it's really vinegar talking about G so you have to remember the the famous M with the B every sh they read him no no no no so calls him into the office says you know I think you have a problem with G need to work on yourself you need to work to become a non of take some he comes back a few months later says I'm ready I worked on it now I'm a full on of again no every no no no so the calls him in tells r r i don't understand on top of all my greatness and all my milus now I'm also an un of you think I'm going to listen to now so unbelievable a person who about so I was just thinking now out loud maybe I should rethink this but this is a right against then I'm a my wife respects me from here fish anyway if you're this respects you answer I was just I was setting you up I was sending you up for I send you're not falling okay your children won't respect you but my children respect me like crazy your wife again this is the same idea that when again when you act in a way that you don't deserve so even where you deserve in your own house you deserve a little respect they won't even respect you here a person who's what does it mean in his own house nobody's going to respect him in his own house oh one of my favorite Su in ch only I mean you can't blame me my father was was a re in and rled told me if you're Reby here you have to wear Frack so I grew up with Frack trauma my whole life you know this my own my father told me I can't stand it I wish I could this but I did he took it off after now he doesn't wear anything he doesn't wear a regular Jack wears a Talis so all you you you see like people walking in the street sometimes it's I'm not talking about you see people in the street 22 years old you got a st's a a third grade rebi somewhere wears his frock and he walks with his you know like the whole it's okay whatever rubs me the wrong way what should I say so huh I love this gamar I wish I could just pull it out and pull aside what it's a workload yeah that's why you ripped the guys years old right could be could be since then how do you remember that one do listen to this you're going to love the Sugi also when it's over [Music] says if you wear Talis that's reserved they used to have special clothing then you're not and you wear it you don't go into today they push it especially young guys wear wears a lot a lot of young guys are running around the neighborhood with their FRS okay says and over there's house so when I I saw this shil I I I started laughing out loud I guess I was very tired yesterday and I what happens if a person happens to be in a sh and he has to and he doesn't have a hat and jacket but there's a Frack sitting around is he allowed to wear the Frack because it's he's not he's allowed to wear Frack but what he's should wear the Frack what he's gonna D had a jacket on the floor I here hold on hold a second Ma look the answer will blow your mind what's the answer maybe I should read it here with you here we go oh wow look what he did unbelievable Kobe check this out it's unbelievable it's not easy to do you should wear the Frack like thisit that's it like a big clap on the beam I'm picturing this so I was when I saw this I'm like what in the world I have to save people going to go around banging on oners be I'm not so I I invented something yesterday and uh with the help of to Ley we uh we have let me show you let me share with you my unbelievable invention I don't every in is going to have one of these so that we don't have the problem of sh here let me just show you what it looks like I bought this no I'm not this is not a joke this is not a joke hold on a second can't show you the whole invention one shot oh you know hold on a second this is not a here hold on to this hold on hold on this is very very important this is a massive invention B every sh here I'll show you exactly how this works should I stand over here I'll Stand I don't have to stand up here no you know what on the chair because people they have to see the whole length of this thing this is no no go down down down oh it's good no it even comes with the guys you see what's going on here it didn't have the dandruff that we could add later this is it re here it is every sh you don't have to Bing it says what does it say I'd rather stay in amitz than learn the that's it so I'm anit amarit FR one no make make all proceeds all proceeds to mdy I'm not going to keep any of the pr for myself all right I'm going to continue where I imag I always wanted to wear Frack said he's going to give a Shear in B Med a Frack that has that that's in olive color olive color so the whole thank you the whole Yesa came running and he was wearing his black Frack so they asked Hima you said so you never saw a black olive it I was inspired by these B that were wearing the the amarit thing kid this is a new new merch on mdy merch.com B listen it's not you asking to me you don't have to get up and this is not this part what oh that's right I always always wanted to do this right [Music] a person wanted to se he basically gave a barrel of wine on uh contingency on consignment he gave the barrel of wine of Consignment you sell the the wine you'll sell sell you know Cup by cup slowly and the wine went bad when it was halfway down the barrel or third the seller the guy that gave the Barrel in contingency he has to take responsibility for it why because it's still the sellers only in a case where the the seller not the original seller the guy in the store didn't change out the spigot a here this is what it looks like remember we I showed this video Once changing out the spigot changing a spigot does something to the wine and therefore he must accept full responsibility on it the famous over here it's actually says there's a guy who selling wine out of a barrel and Panos was very weak so he came up with the unbelievable idea he he added another spigot to the barrel and he started selling out of the two spigots and uh after he realize he's not getting anywhere he's not he's not making more money says that if you think that instead of learning Tyra instead of going to minion you're going to go on a you're going to go to a business meeting and and you're going to increase your parosa big mistake when is parosa Nik parosa is that's when Dees decides going to make $100,000 this year you're going to make $100,000 and if you think you're going to add and make 110,000 because you went to that meeting and did this you're wrong there's nothing you can do to change it so you might as well do what you need to do you might as well keep to your come to the when you have to learn when you have to D when you have to and stop trying to add things like that says the so that's there's no Market day if there's a market why didn't you sell the the original owner of the barrel that gave it to you on cons could say listen the reason why you didn't sell out is because you're lazy you had you had full opportunity I'm not paying you now this these two words coming up literally every time I read them I think it says Wall Street theat I don't know just I don't know for some reason so remember we learned this ISA thing Isa means there's a way to get around ribus if I give you merchandise here I give you a a a thing of cell phones you sell them and we split the profets 50/50 50% is a loan 50% is a deposit we had the whole we had it afterwards as well so wrapped around in some cords here say so a guy the owner of the wine he comes you want to make a deal I'll give you the wine you sell it we'll SPL we'll split profits 5050 but I dictate to you where you're going to sell it I only want you to sell it in until the guy traveled all the way to vad where you could get a nice amount on the wine the prices of wine went down is since I dictated to you I the owner of the wine told you where to sell it and it's my fault that you didn't sell it on the way or before you got there I the original owner of the merchandise I'm completely responsible 100 100% now what if it turned into vinegar before he got there now what's the shil do we say uh oh okay do we say that his masle is Goram like on the right says anytime it turns into vinegar whose fault is it the the one that's holding the wine his his Aus did it or no says when it comes to a turning vinegar the guy that is selling it right now it's his responsibility says that there is no concept of ma we hold like that says the reason why the seller is responsible even though he didn't get to v v Street volvat the reason is because it's his problem he has a virus he made it he made it go back let him let him uh participate in the loss and some say no that even if it turns into vinegar the original owner he has to pay for everything says there is no concept of masle and Aus that's not how we look at it since you didn't allow him to sell the wine until he got to it's your problem we learned in the mishna if I say old wine it means a year if I say very old wine it's three years now if it you go all the way to suus that's where the three years stop and up until that point the seller if it goes bad until SU then the seller is responsible sponsored by not yet not the new one yet BYOB one of the last days sit and the six hostages that were brutally murdered says the mishna fascinating stuff I hire a guy I say build me a house no plans no specifications build me a house how much does he have to build I met a guy here Ines my's brother was a a contractor introduced me to another contractor the guy had a client a woman who gave him over $100,000 and said build me a unit that's 35 M and a 10 meter porch in azod okay he built something she didn't like it built another thing five or seven years I wasn't he's not even sure I called him up yesterday to find out how long the guy's holding on to her money for five years every time no I don't like this he he messed up like that it's not 35 was 27 and the POR is not biging off this that that finally after five years they they agreed upon an apartment I'm saying that it's possible what the mission said they never specified what city what it should look like what floor how where what neighborhood nothing here give me a unit here I'm like the mishna and they were both happy at the end he got to keep her money use her money for over five years he made a business you know Israeli guy that doesn't somebody gives him over $100,000 in cash and she was happy because she ended up getting an apartment here in B chesh it wasn't exactly 35 M it was a little less but it was B ches and it's much more inting than and the prices of the units went up a lot so she got they're all happy at the end of the day okay so how much so the M starts talking about a wedding room like this is the place they would live right after the you know like in the I forgot it was I think or live by alzer behind the curtain they had like a little room and they put a curtain for the for the young couple that's how they used to live in those days in Europe M yeah he was somebody okay I don't remember you know what it was your great-grandfather Liv like that everybody so 8 feet by 12 feet the entire house the uh meni told me that the the teachers today say everybody's looking for apartment so they go they they rent the you know little parking spots say minimum 35 M which is 375 feet that's the minimum otherwise less than that is a recipe for divorce says 8 by 12 to the largest she according to it's even less buer he that's not a house that's a barn interesting because Rea actually when he was thrown out of K's house he lived like little like in a barn sort of maybe was telling him hey you think that's normal it's you know regular people don't really live like that here's a one of the pictures that Yoshi did for ref bakar here's another one that the 3D animators did this is like a more of a I'm going to show you what a real cow in a house looks like this guy's kind of he has polite he's wearing a bib hey but RAB said this is what really happens if you have a house that's a ref as bck rash we're going to minimize I decided to show this ashy it's not that fun this is not a house this is a r as buck one minute I I like the sushi part hold on a second then we'll go back there you get the idea he talks to him he tries to reason with it oh here's the sushi okay fine rev How could a person live like that anyway now the M says but if you do want to make a re discuss who's saying this is it all of a sudden fits in there if you if you hired somebody to make you a barn it's 4 by6 8 by 12et I hire a contractor for small house 6 by8 or 12 by 16 a giant I want you a massive house now remember in those days they didn't have bathrooms inside they didn't have kitchens inside so basically it's bedrooms okay so the whole house was a god huge wealthy Guy this is this should you know what just had an idea you should tell the teacher all college teachers should teach this to the women today this is what a house is don't have your M 5,000 square feet 10,000 square 8 by 12 that that's that's more than enough trackin what's a track this is more like a place you hang out so it it it has to look good square is nice 10 by1 this is the first Square in the mishna everything else is rectangle how do I know as a contractor how tall the ceiling is it 8ot ceiling or 10 foot ceiling very simple you take the length of the wall and the width of the wall so let's say you have a wall that's 20 am wide and one is 40 AM long what do we have total 60 20 plus 40 is 60 60 ID two is how much 30 so the the height of the ceiling has to be 30 okay and if you have one that's 10 by 5 total of 15 15 divid 2 is 7 and2 great so that's the height of the ceiling again is discuss who's bringing is it a question is it an answer here's the the it's going to turn red that area so in the first bi the H was 20 by 40 yeah you see the width was 20 the length is 40 so 20 + 40 equal 60 60 ID 2 is 30 that's why the was 30 how tall was that 100 like switching it up after you get married the father builds a room for the for son and if the daughter becomes a widow for his daughter may maybe son became a widower maybe they want to live by the Fig listen mix it up I want to teach you something on the side it's not proper for a son-in-law to live by his mother-in-law's house why first of all I'm asking you now seriously start thinking about the the Mother-in-law jokes if you have a good one let us know it's not good to live by a mother-in-law why first of all she she might be okay in those days there's something called science changed so things have changed since then a lot but in those days the Mother-in-law liked the son-in-law a lot and is a maybe maybe something wrong will happen so you can't live by the Mother-in-law the other thing is G she might use a spend a lot of money on her son-in-law it's not her money she'll take from her husband so whether you even learn the saer there's a shil who he was like he was Jewish but it could be was a little bit of a ker because he doesn't mention anything about but he talks about talks about and that you should learn a lot of but he certainly was a and he and the quotes him for so he says I measured everything on a scale I never found anything that's lighter than brand meaning something that's worse than brand R says that it's referring to theor we just had that if you don't have what to pay you don't have cash you can pay with with Brad says but if you do that you're ter you're a terrible person it's the worst why would you do that guy gave you nice he was nice to you and he gave you a loan you're going to pay him back with a truckload of brand and what's worse than BR somebody who lives in his father-in-law's house terrible you're guest by somebody and all you do is you invite somebody else on top of that terrible you're not a good listener yeah you before the guy finishes his statement you jump in and you you have something to say the famous my father used to quote this all the time when I would learn with him so he said rski cu my father learned by a little bit pich by the if you ever went to pich it's a sight to be seen gets up says like two words and the whole starts screaming and yelling and he says can't hear anything so would say ask people screaming so say that's have a little bit of from the question and then answer you didn't even hear the question it's this guy doesn't even the question is not even over he has the answer I have no idea I don't know how to do this if anybody knows but if let's say your wife tells you about her day and now she went down the elevator and then she got into the car and drove off and she made a right turn and a left and she happened to bump in the whole thing and you go I'm not good at it I'm really not good at it if somebody has answer for me but yeah you have to be a listener a good listener is a good husband yeah what are you laughing are you a good listener you are that's why you have such a good marriage it's your du yeah so this is your New Year's resolution to be it says to take something easy small small steps what are you joking here oh I gotta tell you all timeout you say your thing but a guy I just I wrote me an email goes you said to take on a small thing and I'm I'm take on a small thing I'm going for 1.75 speed to one five speed yeah I know what you saying minut he said yeah oh so what you need to do is in this case I'll just take my own advice you're supposed to take small steps in that thing you listen for one minute out of the two hours everything she goes on blah blah blah blah in the first minute you go that's so interesting really downstairs the whole yeah that okay I'll be in ca for one minute [Music] like instead of doing that on the phone okay fine interesting that doesn't bring this that you're not allowed to live by your mother-in-law the ra does bring it it happens to be I personally know of a family member who got divorced they claim it's because they lived by the Ander and they got involved in their business and I have a friend that told me straight out that he got divorced because he lived for a very long time by his by his uh by his in-laws right after they got married mared and the in-laws M they convince the wife to get oh that's what he claims not a great idea usually says simple ref when it talks said that the size is Tiny you tell the contract to build you a house it's 4 by six am and says it's a it's a that's considered a barn and then he says oh how much is said it you're right it's like a barn but still I know people that live like that no people don't live like that however if you hire a contractor to build you specifically not a house but a barn here are the measurements that he has to build a pavilion maybe something like this I have no idea this sa a it's like a place that has roses play the guy contracted to makeer it's even large it's 12 by 12 my maybe something like this it's a some sort of place in front of the Mansion so it's a it's a gathering it's a okay it says the MNA that the height of a ceiling is you take the two measurements of the walls and you divide it in half that's the height who's saying this because the is a little off I'll prove it to you how do you know that's the ceiling half the half the width of the walls you look at the and that's how you can learn it's actually that learns it from the was he wasn't bring actually asking a question you probably learned it from the 30 which is half a 60 we're gonna prove something from that's a that's a unbelievable building the the height of the ceiling is like the the width you know a house has beams that go from side to side the the the width of those beams that's the height of the ceiling as the isn't it simpler to say the width of the room the width of the room is 10 feet the height of the ceiling is 10 feet what do you tell me like the beam that goes from from the width of the room who cares about the beam beautiful picture here look at the house the way it was built like you go to the you see the stones are staggered it's not built straight each stone is built a little in like you could see over here as you get higher and higher the stones are in so the top part of the ceiling is much wider than the bottom the bottom is narrower so I would think that you take a measuring table and you go on this floor and you measure from side to side no that would give you 10et if you go on the top it'll give you let's say 10 and a half fet Soo here this is the height take on the bottom or on the top top is much wider wider on the bottom no no no no fact think about it how would it be the what on the bottom yeah the wall here's take a look at this picture for a second how do you how does the beam stay there's a little notch in the wall so the beams are wider than the widest part of the wall they go into the wall so that's how high the ceiling has to be like the widest part of the beam okay have a wonderful day 5:00 another Shear in English no no no this is R stuff and itself 4:30 [Music]