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[Music] good morning [Laughter] RAB I got to do it again then do it again that was one of the weakest as of all time today is Thursday the first the first day of the week before Rashana every day is a ton for the whole year with a Z with a z I don't know this is it's messed up we're gonna have to do it again good morning R Bo okay what's your [Music] name St and szer very sty guys dear I want to send a heartful thank you at least that youing cup no wasn't I want to send a heartfelt thank you for your hard work and dedication I like this email only because from where he's from making D so enjoyable for Learners of all backgrounds since I was 11 years old I wanted to finish sh with d but struggled to ever make this goal a reality I haven't missed the D since starting M the Y one year ago at the start of medical residency looking for a way to both stay connected to learning hopefully achieve this goal recognizing the life only gets more busy so why not start today I love how you bring 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tears to his eyes that you know is Dave here I read an email yesterday from David shukran who wants to thank you Dave in Hebrew for doing what you do and uploading to Whatsapp which is also what's his name um Kobe but another interesting location I met with Kanan AR in Dallas D he said that he's one of the watching the year on YouTube this is from the I just got this morning had a surgery today to take out a piece of plate of metal from his hand after he had a you know some broken arm or something so before the surgery he's learnning the da and afterwards he's doing you could see the piece the plate of metal in the picture which they took out of hand oh I see in the plastic bag there's a piece of metal there I got it the staff were very moved by him learning before the so they asked that the rav I don't know who the rav is should the rav of the shear should dve him for them interesting okay um there's a a regard from AIT says that uh um it's for the tales in Hebrew that the this he's saying on his own the says that who if you can't have if you don't have a minion say may Chua a individual is like a minion so heard from that that he brought down the name of Z that the mil of a individual so strong that he could even sayn Ridge New York he says this person says that maybe it's worth mentioning the's explains that if you put if you start showing off to the with nice house cars Etc the outcome will be that they'll take it away from you and here I guess this is a restaurant I don't know if this is an ad for the restaurant but it doesn't really matter if they're showing the shear I don't care where then I'll it's to mention it yes mdy in lakew what it says over here shom bursting okay is eating what are they eating over there looks good Gra the the and speed return of all the hostages myself and Dr and ab Renard who just saw a picture of here let's go back to the picture let me show you what he looks like AB rer is the one on the right he usually doesn't wear that cap 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was but a tremendous favor that you did for me the famous famous case we're talking about this right over here the says that we go with the majority so we have is that across the board in every situation or only when it comes to is when it comes to meat when it comes to other things cas but maybe when it comes to a monetary dispute we don't go with the majority maybe we do says we do not go with the majority and we pass like him and R says we do had a a cow a dead cow and here we even have a a new video of this exact same thing I might have shown the other one [Music] yesterday supposed to be funny that's so the question is did this did this was this um calf born beforehand or after after is it a result of the injury or perhaps the mother gave birth to this calf and it was having a really bad day gave birth to a Nel and then a minute later it died from a different injury nothing to do with the death of the calf we have this P the P says that the first three times an axe Gores causes damage the to cost but you only pay half now you have two two cows there on the mother what do we do he only pays for half pay for half but on the calf we don't know if he has to pay or not it's possible he doesn't have to pay at all it's possible that the calf died before the his axe the owner of the axe came and G a cow for the for the cow that he gour he has to pay 50% that the says we know that he gourd by the way how do we know he gour were the aen there no it was a we wouldn't have a Shiloh so he's the only one around we had a cow that was alive a minute ago K's dead now so it's like a real it's POS that he did it okay that's what it yeah it's the is going to call it aak really so what about the calf the calf it's possible he doesn't owe one dime and it's possible that he does owe but on the side that he owes how much do he have to pay so first typically a Tom the gore only has to pay 50% if it was 100% that he did it but since it's only a 5050 if he did it so he only pays a quarter of the CF of the mother 50% holds that and we said since we don't know if the the the bad guy the bull gored the animal or did not so it's a suff this is a true suff as explained yesterday explains again today this no one knows the real truth the owners don't know what happened peasant doesn't know so it's a real suff 5050 but on the 50 he only has to pay 50% because it's a time so it's only a quarter as the according to you who says that when it comes to monetary disputes we go with the majority's over here most how long is a cow pregnant for a boai anybody remember n months n months very good 9 months most cows deliver full term 9 months so how come this cow over here delivered when it was six months pregnant or whatever early don't we have a the tells us most cows deliver on time so let's go with the RO and say that the owner of the bull has to pay a full price or at least 50% says gamar no we have a true suff over here on top of the RO you're right Ro would work but we have a different suff we have a suff if we if we even have a why it's possible that the the the cow saw the bull charging her right before it happened she saw the whole thing happening in front of her eyes she got so scared that she um what's the word miscarry the the calf here we have a gaval video of a cow getting scared a true story here here it is you're going to want to watch it again I think it's gal check out the right corner top right corner here we [Laughter] go you think you think that you think the gar makes the stuff up here it is this is also the based on my story where I brought a a horse into the C Mars bunk to wake up my roommate Remy menis this is also [Music] sh the shaking part is mish crew he shook like that for a minute if you scare your friend like that you Potter Min is different story there's no questions in videos hold on hold on a second you get once a week now once a once a week I got to show this again hold on a second this is very [Music] important a giant cow 2000b cow what's your question question but tomorrow that's it today if he had to for the cow then count second add to the no no no it's one it's one it was only one Goring killed two in one gor okay good question um you know I I forgot to say very very important super important over 350 English speakers joined the she yesterday over 350 and 142 that I know of from last night in Hebrew the problem is and I I feel bad so I got to say this um the 350 uh locked out the group it filled up there's 2,000 people in that WhatsApp group and they I guess more people want to join so if you are if you try to join yesterday please try again there's another link there's another there's another WhatsApp group it's a tremendous time to join the group it's a tremendous time to join the she we need nothing like the biggest it's a lot better than going to any Cav to any wearing any bracelet on your arm toyra is toyra it's biggest Gula the best is Gula below see link below [Music] okay Z maybe she never saw him coming so in the actual miscarriage we don't know how it happened it might have happened from a complete scare and then the owner would be pottered to pay for that miscarriage or perhaps not maybe he was able to get her without her even noticing she was never scared and she miscarried and therefore he's and this is that when we have a true suff not that we don't B doesn't know because there's argument between the no one in the world knows what happened therefore so this we have whether or not we say m by m do we say by a dispute a monetary dispute we say do we go by the majority typically when like wouldn't argue with I don't know that that's what what's bothering the but let's say let's say same exact there was Bull grazing minding his own business eating grass and sure enough we see a dead bull next them there's a dead bull that has a Gore you see how nice blood is coming out of his neck there's a hole in his neck from a horn and this bull that's eating grass we know we know his story this is not the first time it's not the third time he's already been doing this this one got a nice bite on his neck and this one is a famous biter here I have a G video if you didn't see this one this is also something you have to watch at least twice this is uh somebody that probably deserved it he the beginning of he tries to sh this camel he takes a knife sh his neck so the camel got really upset at him check this out he's a something like this ra him by the head okay so if you have a camel that's a or he's known to be a why not oh we don't say he's the one a minute ago we learned a famous he's the guy no he did it says we must say that there's other Bulls all around there's just one bull that's a mood no so now we don't know anymore who it could have been him it could have been him in the first case it's obvious it's only him there's one dead cow there's one bull standing around he's the one that did it over here there's a bunch of them okay now this is very important this thing check this out no not this one what how does that add to the what which part if it was just one if just he was there with the part don't know right now if you add 10 more you still don't know right but now you have 10 other people to deal with what are you going to do the 10 different owners either him or not him why any any bull can do it right any bull can do it he's a m and and then and the other ones are just regular but they're they're there they're grazing they're all grazing over there we have no idea oh it's obvious you want to say oh logic dictates that he's the one he's the culprit he's done this in the past a camel that's mating and the says of the males kill hit each other they could die from it even though this camel is not a m not a m but this this is how they behave this a that Camel on the ground so here so if we look at this says there no says we're not talking about here talking about does this camel camels are wild there's even a word for it in English rut we I had a video didn't put in like this foam white foam comes out of the mouth sugar they they hit everything they bite everything there you can't control them so what rabbit not rabbit no no no no this is every year Mating Season whatever M so we thought this this chart why here check this out check what out I don't know it's not working okay here do this okay up until now we're talking about Ro RAV says we go with the majority when it comes to M says we don't go with the majority now we introduce the we have a dead camel on the ground there we have a M Camel standing next to him he did it check this out the red goes with the red the green goes with the green they they should line up two concepts in theak this is probably what happened Ro this is probably what happened we have a majority these things line up so let's say that holds like the like class we're not forced to say that why Always means I remember my re in seventh grade he taught this to me says means doesn't mean he said it means he could have said it he wasn't alive if had he been here he could have said it I don't know if anybody went to but he I think his name was he had a thermos with hot water you know those oldtime thermos the green ones with the cap you unscrew you you pour it in it lasted like today you have have these cups that last for four days that lasted for a few hour and he if he didn't behave he would he would pour a hot cup of water through the here it didn't really hit us didn't really burn us you would say what happened he went through the the loger that's how it is the ler ask you're right if you you know he is if you Wen you don't know he is hold on a second I could hold like this oh so let's do this check this out you have to look at this it's very cool the green could hold like the red and the red could hold like the green says ra I could hold like the he says like this is more powerful always than so that's why says no but I say there's a because is stronger than a who says that there's no we don't go by when it comes to monetary things I even like very good when we're talking about a camel we're talking about the B himself here he is he has a kazaka right this crazy camel he has a kazaka we're talking about a general what's our case of Ro think about it I bought a cow I bought a bow did I buy him as a as a tractor or did I buy him to to eat him most of the world buys tractors okay that's the world that's a general uh concept of majority not this particular cow bull not this particular buyer it's a general R of the world that's weak so when I'm looking at the guy himself I say he's a he already killed three animals this this exact animal or this camel when he's in he's going crazy he's aak on him he so that's why says yeah we go with the kazak but it's possible in's case we we're talking about the of the entire world maybe it's a little bit easier this is our mishna finally we got why why do we have this whole because we learned in the mishna the beginning of that if you buy seeds and you planted them and nothing grew do you have a TI on the seller most people buy it for for planting not for eating Evena son it says over there a story where a king wanted to give over his his kingdom his um how do you say King his mea kingship wanted to give over his kingship to one of he didn't have children he wanted to give it over to one of his advisers whatever he said listen each advisory take this Bean whoever can grow this Bean the highest the largest he wins he becomes the king so the day comes they walk in with their pots and the giant stock and oneaz comes with a pot and nothing in it nothing so the king says what's this he says nothing grew I tried I tried it didn't grow so the king says oh you're the king I'm giving it to you why all these guys are liars I gave everybody cooked beans can't grow so what do they they all replaced it you're the only honest guy give it to you what's the mus I have no clue each one put it in it has something to do with the I don't know what don't lie about who you are be real be real and when you're real appreciat it g we I only learn don't lie about who you are learn learn that's that's the I'm gonna learn from this guy without the beard whatever I only learn yeah be [Music] real say oh no sorry is exact opposite of in fact it is even though most people I want to stop here for a second we're going to have this in let's do a little bit of a a thing together here flaxy if you had a guess how many people in the world eat flax seeds very high fiber extremely healthy it's considered magic Food Magic food we have a bunch wife anybody else here want to throw themselves okay no so I want to know like this most of the seeds of the world most of the seeds of the world are they planted or are are they do they go in salads not okay so this is a real question most so Dr AB agrees most of the seeds of the world are planted now most of the people that plant how many people plant versus the people that actually eat them in their salads what's more people that eat in the salad or people that plant eat galic you see what's going on there we have a big problem more people eat the seeds than plant the seeds but more seeds are planted than eaten so do we go by the seeds do we look at the seeds hey these seeds are seeds you you said it not me here Yoshi made a beautiful chart for it in fact here check this out we have majority of people on top right and very few people on the left these are the Planters the farmers of the world so check out what happens very few seeds go for many people and very a lot of seeds most of the seeds go for the few people there's two Roes going on here there's the RO people of the world that eat that eat very little of the seeds but they're the majority of the world you all scream out eat but it's only a small very few seeds goes go goes in the salad but a lot of seeds go for planting flax so which Ro go okay just wanted to see that you're on same page with me says in the M I bought the seeds and it didn't work didn't grow and if I have these cabbage seeds no one in the world puts these in their salad it's 100% for planting so therefore in case you guys are you know we we don't really have time for this do it quick there's a cabbage seed one cabbage seed how many days does it take to grow a full grown cabage look at the top left it's not St okay there's a cabbage the seed 100 days so because it's 100% for planting and it didn't work the guy that sold you the seeds must pay you back I have a question St you bought $100 worth of seeds no no no no one no one needs them not the flag seeds no one needs these seeds question you purchased $0000 worth of seeds you spent $1,000 on employees and Fuel and tractors and equipment to plant those $100 worth of seeds nothing came out you go back to the guy you say it didn't work so he pays you $100 for the seeds does he have to pay you $1,000 for your work you lost time your your you say no I hear it's like if you put take out an oh did he know that they're bad let me it's he's asking a very good question I'll get to it soon he's asking did he know that they're bad it's a big not you say if you take out an ad in a magazine that's coming after of p and the magazine only gets to the country after PES yeah and you lost all of whatever you were planning on on banking on people to see the advertisement yeah so now does magazine you just add or no you a tremendous amount of money because no one knew about it's not aing over here this is a actually work okay but that's a that's it's not a but okay anyway we're talking about flax seeds a lot of people eat fla seeds so therefore the fact that you planted them and it didn't work out for you it's not my responsibility because a lot of people eat them I thought you wanted to eat them I didn't know you want to plant them so what do we see over here in the mishna we don't go by the majority most people plant them and if most people plant them you should be you poter why because I could go with the meat of the people that eat them in their salad says no here let's just keep a cup over here three really let's look at it t says I don't care about the majority therefore I don't have to pay which we just read we go with the majority we go with the who does that line up with the m we just said R and this goes like RAV RAV says we go with the majority and therefore you have to pay you ask me a question R doesn't fit into the mishna you're right he doesn't fit into the mishna he goes very well with has another T called there's a third opinion called we'll call it the AR opinion they say there is a just like just they say there's but you don't have to pay why there's a lot of stuff you can do with fla seeds you can make oil flax seed oil use it for the says use it for medicine so in general will go with the r r works not in this case why because I don't know what you wanted it for you you bought flag you you weren't specific with me I thought you wanted for medicine says we have a here and we have a do we go with the RO or not so let's take a look at the chart for a second who's arguing here I think this chart helps a lot because when you read it let's read it inside see if you know what's flying here if you're going to say they both go don't look at the chart meni they're both going with [Music] must be but if we have a chart it's very very simple we have the T says we don't go with the we have and they both say we go with the does and argue they argue at the outcome in this case if there you have to pay you don't have to pay but in terms of do we go with a ro they both say we go with a green so this cannot be that they arue there's no argument here so where is the argument between red and green it could be the red with the first green it could be red with the second green that's the argument no and yes do we go with the so maybe like or like that's it that's the whole sponsors the B I love this CU I could say about although I don't have the names of those kidnapped hostages huh you don't have a paper I have it somewhere it's a long time ago but I do remember yov sitron sit film and oh which reminds me that yob is probably coming to the shabbaton to remind the that people ask all the time the shabbaton is open right now for those that are sponsoring a bunch of people went in there bought rooms with a sponsorship we are looking for people to give us we'll do the phone calls we'll if you have major uh corporate sponsors people that you do business with and that could donate they donate anyway it doesn't hurt you why not send in those names tell us about it and we'll go we'll go after them meanwhile we have about $100,000 so far in sponsorships I don't I don't have the the latest when somebody just give 25 and somebody else is giving I think 18 we don't want to lose money that's we don't want to make money seriously we don't want to make money we don't we don't want to lose like we did last year so we're going to doing everything very different than last year we learned a lot and B will be open soon to the public like I said then the the first the first few days it's going to be for the people that were there last year I just threw it out in middle of I was so uh M to all the people that came because it's very difficult to come people a lot of people backed out they said the war this and a lot of them were right but those who came and said okay because you came and we M didn't fall in the whole half a million dollar whatever it was so as they get first right to to the rooms somebody just said that he wants 30 rooms I said we have to let's see what happens 30 is a lot we want to give everybody a chance to come 25 yes that I'm asking to no seriously 25 yes now he upped at to 30 so I'm like no you're going to have to make some phone calls okay sponsored sponsored the six hostages that were killed like two three weeks ago what yeah a guy gives you a check and the check bounces the bank charges you $25 fee who pays for the fee the guy that wrote you the check or you you say R you're GNA say you R not you R you you going to say it's a grandma who pays for it you don't know so this R says and he's saying very good he says depends it really does depend if the guy that wrote the bad check knew he has no money in the account and he wrote the check anyways he to pay but if he didn't know I believe he's I'm not passing again I don't passing him this year I just say what I I read and that's it he caused you but it's a cause and it's it's a grma so let's say over here I don't know yeah and what's the difference between gr and G according to rash there's no difference according to Rashi there's no difference really huh yeah intent he knew it's intent right he knew he's I said if he knew he's if he didn't know a good ch then you have the famous M with uh they say it about a lot of people I think they say about the P somebody let's say gave him you know $100,000 he comes to the bank and there's no money in the account so he asked the teller he says but what does this person have the person has $888,000 in his account said okay here's $122,000 deposit and then he he deposited the check okay I don't know what they say it about now the story makes sense the says $100 for all the seeds but the ,00 you that you paid for all the workers and the equipment no even the expenses you have to pay so now we're going to go a little here easy but just to figure out who's this clue number one it's the problem is we need to figure out now which thear could just go to the and then tell us but that's the we go through step one let's eliminate our mishna now once we know that we'll figure out who you bought seeds they didn't work you don't have to pay for it we're going to skip the parenthesis what about if you you bought cabbage seeds no one in the world eats them for that you have to pay if you if the guy planted it didn't work they're saying the same exact thing what's in the Mna adding the mishna will never repeat itself so obviously they're talking about that's what the is gonna say talks about flax seeds that's why you don't have to pay why because a lot of people do eat flax seeds they don't have to pay if they don't if you planted it didn't work I could infer from this that if it's cabbage seeds you do have to pay that's the same exact thing as we must say since and this is very very this is not simple there's zero mention in our mishna about expenses doesn't mention the word expenses but we have no option here at this point we have a and we don't know what the is so let's perhaps say do you have to pay for expenses says no you don't have to pay for expenses and he says you know you say you don't have to pay for expenses say you do you do have to pay for expenses otherwise what else is the who told you maybe it's first of all the zero mention of the word expense we don't know that they arguing expenses and the zero mention of who says what it doesn't say what holds who told you that is the one that holds they have to pay for expenses T says do you have to pay for expenses says you don't have to pay for expenses says the famous I love the so much I could say this every week one of my favorite all time but didn't hear it yet so you gotta say for him men somebody asked him a and and he says that's such a bad Kasha it's not even not even and then two minutes later another guy asked Mas he says oh that's that's listen you can laugh at it every time says this is not even a Kasha this is not even a Kasha so the rash says all over sh if it says holy Kasha if there's no other question this is not a question and if there's another another question we don't this is garnish nothing don't don't worry about this thing holy why if you know how the always work says the the second is always the one that's not the first one doesn't make sense makes a lot more sense says you don't have to pay com and he adds and he says you do have to pay you don't reverse it that's not the style of the mishna okay but but I have another problem with this who told you that there's a about expenses perhaps the Miss is talking about says the makes a lot more sense to push and say there a we don't even know the word the word doesn't even exist in the Mish say the whole Mish is talking about that doesn't not even mentioned in the mishna it's a lot better to say we're missing just a few words That's a classic the M was always written very shorthand and we'll figure it out ourselves rather than saying there in the it's not even mentioned we don't even know what each says all it's one man name is and one then our mission doesn't even talk about expenses if our mission doesn't talk about expenses who's the that says that you have to pay for expenses which is you don't even have to pay for flag seeds why continues and he says because he holds that uh cabbage seeds you do have to pay because no one eats it but something that some some people eat you have to pay so we don't have a source for expenses so where's talks about expenses you bring your wheat to the professional grinder that he should make it into flour he didn't do his job he didn't add water beforehand to to soften it up and therefore sub became brand oron or some other type of brand terrible stuff I brought it to for fine flour and he made it something else you bring your flour you already made flour to the Baker and say please bake me some you come home and it just falls apart completely he messed up I give my animal over to the and he ruins it he makes a tray with the knife he's to pay why he took upon himself responsibility by taking money for this job he's fully responsible says the ram if he did not take money for the job like when we went to our neighbor over here no and ABI got me a sheep once for a a gift so after we've done he gave me the gift and he made a whole enormous floor that's there till this day he just went like that it's funny am Mark fun yeah [Laughter] I'm saying this little sheep went like that with its foot it was got nervous can't get it out of the tile so he went to the neighbor and the neighbor in his building Bo he he did the but was free yeah I don't I'm assume he's free maybe not so such a case a guy that doesn't take money for it that I didn't take responsibility it happened happened here we go when you have an embarrassment I hired you to make to to this animal because of you I can't serve me at have have zero nothing to serve nothing with the they there's one of the guests that comes every shabas ask if they could also make the there sure bring all your guests bring that sh problem is they forgot to turn the CH on something with the CH happens zero CH so Mrs says rebit what do they call herit she says oh we have cake so she sends her kid to bring the cake and the kid trips falls into a pile of mud all the cake is gone so what would you do no CH no cake they're just looking at her she was calm somebody said that they became a b because of that just watching her not lose it with all the bushes bushes all these guests 50 to 100 gu I don't know how many they had nothing to eat there's a guy here Al right here who did a a big Sim he served bles and the entire Sim every single person that came to sim had to go to the hospital it was uh like ratten eggs in the in the BL they all went to the hospital every single one so child was does he have to pay the cater so the cater said don't pay me for the blindes no there a sh and the P they had they had to talk about it you talking about 20,000 shek catering do I have to pay at all every single person went to the hospital or just not for that item that was spoiled okay but it's a tremendous bu I sent everybody to the hospital imagine yeah I remember your why do I remember your there's a tremendous if I give the the food to a caterer I hire a caterer and he ruins it he has to pay for his they also have a certain they have no food we don't really passing like this huh yeah I said explain another one it's a big gr is a hard Su to [Music] understand oh oh says we don't passing like that but because of Grandma very good why does he say that like you put a nice tablecloth on your door the brings this says that in in addition to the actual sheet there was drawings on the sheet that would say what kind of food was serve today CH and steaks you know and people would walk by poor people would knock on the door the sheet was there people come in I just want to say a real quick story a thing from real quick it says we say he says there's a a family eating this they have all these salads and Fish and Chicken and meat and everything dessert a knock on the door comes walks in and the the family gives him a piece of meat and you think he's going to have a t up but where's my salads where's my fish where's theil fish he's so happy he gave him a piece of meat says that the the the rambam says it's don't when it comes to Cha you have to do four things you have to you have to leave the a you have to regret it have to say says we tell please act like a if I just give you one of those four things be happy with us we're not we're we're not in we're not holding it all four one I have a wonderful day look