Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 60 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] live from Ax aard Los no Los California aard the California um it doesn't seem like I'm going to make it to Los Angeles just going to stay here in oard then on Sunday bem go down to Chicago yesterday I read two beautiful things there weren't even emails they were both text messages um one was sent directly to Mandy and he sent it to me and uh biter what happened was I was reading them in the Hebrew share and had a complete meltdown one of the worst meltdown like it just hit me I'm I'm hoping B to keep together I'm going to read it you you're probably not going to understand why I had a meltdown but I did it just touched me in a very soft spot it was [Music] um uh by the way we're having a lot of uh Internet technical issues so M hopefully everything goes well well I see that Mark is trying to get on the computer off keeps getting thrown off that's going to be a problem so I'm going to read these emails and B hope the entire sheare I was so emotional the entire share that all I burst out crying go at end the sh I think it's a combination of first of all the emotion of this very very strong um email for me and the fact that we're finishing today is the final final day of and that itself was very emotional why I'm getting emotional thinking about it because I think a lot of people had this Trauma from what are we going to do with it's it's so difficult when was hard and and it was M the whole 60 into it's just easy it's flowing it's and I think we were able to remove a lot of the traa that some of the people had and I'm going to miss I'm going to miss the smaller the easier that being said let me just read these emails and hope to keep it together let's try it one more time I didn't even read it and I'm ready tearing up here's the emotional one to my brother in the do you were caught in middle of doing something crazy on your flight to the Holy Land a few years ago and since then there has cooked up a storm in the for the landed email and since he read it out for the world to hear see it started to become like a challenge amongst us mdy buddies how much can we learn on a trip is it five da 10 da or is it the length of time we can do the stretch of learning two straight hours or three even four or five without any personal distractions like whatsapps Etc well I thought it' be easy with no disturbances but the Bal D works not only on the world but even at an altitude of 38,000 ft and he keeps up with the speed of our plane at 660 miles hour the guy next to me was watching the whole flight 6 hours straight and what's worse is the woman in the row in front of me was watching a Despicable non this movie wow was that a battle but the whole time I thought to myself if M did it so could I I'm thanking you from the bom of thank you thank you thank you three times thank you for encouraging me to do on 11 of of my transatlantic flight oh so I held it together 11 my trans Atlantic Flight I wish I knew who this person was I'm sure I'll find out eventually yal okay did it gal and and I explained the reason why I was emotional I think is because I know like so many all of us we all struggle with the same things we're all human beings we all struggle and we want to watch gak movie and we want the time to fly by and we have the things with the Yater and the Tas and the this and the that and to turn something that's so easy so we do another two movies and to do 11 11 ah oh so what's the P the p is like this that a guy and I said this 10 times and I want to say it again Mandy he did it not to get cover not to impress anybody he did it as a challenge for himself and he had no idea that somebody took a picture of him and sent it to me I spoke about it but the that he has without even knowing without even trying just because he was doing the right thing at at the right time and somebody else was encouraged and since then many people encouraged other people you encourage other people by setting an example by learning by learning on a bus by the right way showing your M showing your children you don't even understand the the the implications that it has and the farfetch that this y he did on his way to it changed this's life you didn't watch a Despicable movie because you learned three years ago on a different flight unbelievable Bo here's a non this is more of a story also rebelli this is a real myus from mdy nine months later my name is Yan gross g r oos Z from kot St Luke Montreal Canada in my pizza store was the first mdy pre- charity meeting he was m and gave pizza and everything to the to get together for the charity event we were waiting for 8 years to have more children Orem we have twin boys and the MD why shabbaton was the middle of our fertility fertility treatment until the last minute we didn't know if we'll be able to make it we came for shabas and we got a good BR from you nine months later this is the result please see attached and here as you can see the H but did not work oh now it should be working a little bit of a lagger Bo side I don't see it on my screen oh here it is he had a baby boy Mark told me I forgot the guy's name schulam was it schul bwarts somebody who didn't have children a very long time who Goldstein shul gold his first name schul Goldstein schul Goldstein I got one name right schul Goldstein how long was he waiting for a child I think n years n years nine years came to so it's not Ellie it's the shabbaton come to shaton they got a they got bras too from you so it's uh yeah yeah yeah right it's it's two two down one more to go and then you get RIT status I people is gonna be sending couples like crazy it's going to be hard to get in because n months later two two couples were waiting for children eight years and nine years had children from [Music] of right okay and then talking about children this is one of the most incredible things listen to this mazov let me show the picture mazov David gold from North Miami Beach Florida joined MD four plus years ago during I'm trying to show it it's just not going Mark there's a big lag in my end two daughters listen to this two daughters gave birth to his first grandsons I'm assuming it also means granddaughters maybe even not but his this person had two grandsons from two daughters on the same day means two BR tomorrow two P which on a that talks about bris and P unbelievable kiss from hasem I justed MA times two here two daughters gave birth to their first first child ever on the same same day and they're both males two boys so my male is going to be two brist on the same day two p on the same day hopefully for the grandfather they do it in the same place I see Mark jumping in on and off my computer unbelievable okay a lot of fun today [Music] I believe that's where we're starting from today right yeah no sorry that's why um two lines down says if you purchase that's why I was like what am I supposed to what do I need to put here oh it is here oh so first of all I have to do uh the sponsors the sponsored the of the month by Rosen in business the is sponsored for the safe and Speedy return of all the hostages wow it's late you did please D no I heard that he came out so he was still down verm for I heard he was released on ba or something with grai fer and Michael Savi for their different podcast andily official Renard my favorite ABA Renard happy anniversary you he rabbitson somebody sent us a happy anniversary thank you for being a rebi in consistency art of the month not you me belly and the whole MD staff Contin to make joyable for so many boys here we go so yesterday we were learning about this as you can see right over here let's say Ruan bought one of the apartments let's say the apartment to the right the door on the right all the way in the front and then he decided to go behind the gray wall and buy another apartment also on the right he cannot do this he cannot take off the door or open up a doorway between slide seven Mark you're controlling that slide Oh cannot open up a a pathway why because it's going to increase traffic into the first into the second you don't want people from different walking in just because you own apartments and both Courtyards doesn't mean that you're able to open up a pathway I'm sorry two lines down the explanation doesn't mean he's making the the uh the distance longer it means that there's going to be more people in the courtyard so we have to understand how this fits in with the end part if he wants he could build a room inside his house and he could build an attic on top of his house as is's going to increase people once you build units Apartments you can increase you're going to increase the amount of traffic going in and out of the so says the G when you do it as so slide eight this is what the house looked like beforehand and this this is what he's doing he adds he takes one story and he adds uh okay you didn't go back but say it I go back to seven and then go back to eight real quick no no no no seven I'm sorry 8 to nine yeah he added he just all he did he didn't increase any square footage of the house all he did is increased another floor he he uh reduced the size of the height of the the floor instead of having 12T ceilings now he has two floors with six foot ceilings if the actual floor is half inch thick so didn't add so there's a is here between by not adding square footage the r says he holds like the that the whole iser of that we have over here is to add square footage if you're not adding square footage to your house you're not expanding outwards you're just expanding within your house you're adding a floor here even this house I'm in here right here there's a there's a twostory maybe I'll show why not for the so the could understand here there's a twostory very high ceiling here so if let's say I put a right by the the brown wood I build a a floor I can make this I can make another I can add bedrooms here but I didn't add square footage to the actual house so here I'll just show why not once I'm here here there's some water here and I ceilings give out okay Oxnard that's what axar it's it's a there's water here so according to that's not a it's AER to to add but you're you're L to rent if you if you have have another floor inside there like we we showed on on chart nine then I can rent that extra little level all the way in the top next to the attic but according to it's awesome for me to rent out that part the only thing that's m is to invite more guests that's what we had that was the situation inra situation all over now people that live on the top floor like I do they who owns the the the roof the guy that owns the top floor owns the roof the rest of the building they have rights to put solar systems and stuff like that but in terms of building rights the guy that owns the top floor usually so they add another another few rooms and whatever so to rent it out to other people be very Pro problematic Hally unless you get permission from everybody because you're increasing traffic in the elevator increasing traffic in the hallway increasing trash increasing everything it's it's people don't want more people in their building if you're adding for yourself so that's something else and then all you're doing then you have between the okay person cannot open up a doorway facing his neighbor's door like we have right over here gak my my neighbor here I have a neighbor that's staring at me let's see if we can see here this guy sitting on his on his patio he's facing me maybe even hears me so these against my is problematic if this if we did not do this to begin with okay this is how it's built so it's pader I cannot open up a window and actually this Windows here and the the neighbor on this side doesn't have any Windows facing this house I guess it was designed like that on purpose if I have a courtyard with Partners I cannot open up a window that faces another window the famous is going to bring if you have a small window you should not make it large if you have one window you cannot make it two maybe you should close the door so I don't know if the all the neighbors here what's going on you want to close the door him and you want to open up a door you want to open up a window so there's so many people in just RAB him anyways you're not going to harm anybody if was a small window you make it larger and if it's one you can make it two says how do I know that you're not to put a window against facing another window saw what did he see what did he notice in C that was so special [Music] says you saw that their uh tents they're opening to the tents are not facing one another he said he announced this nation is Roy to have the so Mark we're going to go to the next thing we'll show this video no I just what happened I didn't before because he sat down so the Earth moved maybe we should see it again let's see if that's the it it took me three times to C okay not that's this P oh there's a little bit of a f no okay that's what happens when you put your tent in front of another person's tent if you had a small window opening do not make it large so I'm going to skip that thing for a second let's go to chart number 12 if you have a door that's foras so you're entitled to fouras in your and you see it in the red dotted line you get four alas in the red line so thought that it means if you have a doorway one one opening that's four don't make it eight why because then you're stealing from the you're taking another four from the Bo but if oh Mark sorry supposed to go to the next slide slide 13 oh see I see it just went from 4 to8 two openings but slide 14 let's say it was two am wide the doorway you're still still entitled to fouras so if you double it to four oh then you didn't take anything from anyone you went from four and you stayed at four what's the problem maybe that should be M even though you had a smaller door now it's larger you didn't do anything you didn't take any additional away from the people in the no that's also no good why when you had a let's go back for a second to chart 15 when you had a small little door I was able to to maneuver myself I would go a little bit to the left a little bit to the right you couldn't see me since you have such a large opening you have a for opening then I can't hide from you next if you had one door you can't make it two let's see if this's a thing not really okay so the beginning thought that if you if you had a a four amama wide door do not make it two doors that are two amas it's the same same width it's four hours but you you're doubling the door why because now you're taking each doorway you receive fouras in a right for unloading you get four to unload your stuff in theer like you see in charge 15 but if you have even a two door you still get four the oh he's not around oops sorry let me get out of here yeah but if you have a two thing you also get four and if you have two doors that are two AMS wide you get four Ams for each one so you get eight Al the same kind of idea we said before but if your doorway was eight wide 16 16 foot door and you you made two doors out of it you made four four you're only getting you're not getting any additional Lama in the you still getting your four plus four still getting eight one door I would hide from you betray but two doorways I can hide from you so the r explains because if I have two doorways I'll I'll shut one and keep one open for ear whatever if you have one you keep it shut like this the guy doesn't know how to protect himself because one is open one is closed you're permitted to open up a door facing another door why can't I open up a door across from your door you have the people walking back and forth all day long you have to be careful from them so what do you care what I do sticks here and he says that people in they they they go really high they they ride High animals tall animals like camels the horses so you have to be careful from that direction so oops did that again like this let's go here so let's just show a bar uh yeah give alic next one is uh round bar next sh next now we go back to chart 16 and we we can play it oh also now to snow homish County where a gaping hole in State Route 529 in Everett is now repaired this morning after wash do had to shut down the Busy Highway for emergency maintenance it turns out someone was digging and tunneling underneath the highway no and luckily Crews have been able to reopen this Rad but questions still remain Fox 13's AJ Janeville digs into who might be responsible for their own unauthorized digging but instead of a left at Albuquerque whoever dug this tunnel went right into Highway 529 when we first assess and see a hole in the road it's definitely not our thought that someone tunneled underneath it but that's exactly what happened assistant communication manager James polling with Washington's Department of Transportation tells me first Crews found this foot long hole already a safety concern for drivers then they realized the problem went much deeper the fix to 529 took about 7 hours slowing down traffic for a good part of the day and the cost to taxpayers to repair the road is most likely in the thousands theas made it to America the digging tunnels underneath highways you're not permitted to dig under a highway any type any size any shape says it's okay to do Char 20 yeah we got to click and just leave it don't click again it should be okay so that's good if it's strong enough to hold a wagon full of now this is the next M it says that it's not it's not good because sometimes it can crack and the animal can fall in you're not permitted to have little poles or metal objects sticking out of your house inter RAB oh so this I need to show you first of all this is a picture favorite I I take credit for this one a guy on a skateboard learning tyro based on this guy um Yoshi did this this is the next one slide 22 here we go you got to click and it goes oh that's if you have a z sticking out a metal beam sticking out in the middle of could really hurt somebody bad so now let's go to char chart I believe it's yeah chart 25 so you see how the house is stuck on on the sidewalk it's it's butting up onto the sidewalk and there's a beam sticking out of it now if he wants now we click the button and the house is going to go inside you can move the house away do this so now the house is moved back the front yard of the house is his he owns it and therefore his beam could stick forward now what happens is that people start using that as there Sur that whole area the whole green the green is really his but now people are going to be using it if he purchased a house that has existing beam sticking out of it you get to use it as is you don't have to change anything you bought it with a with an existing its grandfathered in this Z was sticking out for 100 years you get to keep like we saw in the in the video I don't know if we have to show it again that is more video uh chart 20 that the animal goes by there and the that mean it's already playing have to click no 20 uhuh yeah that one so the point of the gar I'll just explain and you can watch it while I'm explaining that the the sometimes when heavy objects go over it you know you have trative trailers they go over this they weaken up the the lid and then eventually it's going to cause damage when another animal goes on top of it or some or human being they can fall in and hurt themselves next tells us two stories very similar stories one with and one with rib Ami rib Ami had a beam sticking out into his m a is Let's see we have in chart 23 AI it's where the the front Courtyards of all these houses they dumped into like a private street called a and he had a beam sticking out Char 23 that beam sticking out into the muu not working Mark you don't see 23 or you're not on okay and this other guy had I see it he had a a beam sticking out what are you doing why do you have be sticking out they you got to chop it down why can you talk what are you telling me to do this you yourself have a beam sticking out he says mine is what's the connection I know everybody in the and they all but you on the other hand you have a beam sticking you must get rid of it why because thousands of people go by every day you know that you got from every single person says simil story to remember he had a tree going into let's sorry not this one let's get chart number 26 ready not yet how said what are you doing why do you why do you have a tree [Music] went go away come back tomorrow so at night so that we have picture in slide number oh so show the slide c yeah so he sent this guy to knock down the tree that's growing into the around I don't understand why should I cut down oh so sorry the guy showed up and says chop down the tree you also have a tree sticking over go check it out Down chop down yours mine is not down then you're right you don't have to the Turning of the B sponsored by is sherff construction management supervision and the Life Community protecting families before today for's unexpected L and byov hon my uncle says why did decide to cut down the tree at night understood the reason why nobody told him anything about it because people love the shade and but when he saw that people don't like the shade that much they even go to to bezan to force people to chop down their trees he realized the reason why they're not telling him anything is because he's R who's going to start with the r nobody wants to go to the galad and say hey gadar your Tre is bothering me so M that's why he cut it down so he send somebody to cut it why did he have to cut it at night go cut your tree and don't worry tomorrow I'm going to cut M the famous it says in the that you should remove the cash the straw from yourself and then remove the straw from other people first take care of your problems before you tell other people what to do take care of your own problems says when you notice some a flaw in your friend it's very interesting when you notice a flaw in your friend that means that you have that flaw but how did you notice the flaw in somebody else because you have that flaw if you didn't have that flaw you wouldn't notice it in your friend that's what the says you have to do your own avoid on yourself before you tell your friends what to do the r he went he heard a speech fromer his re he came back and he stopped giving speeches and mus to hisil he the Rob of the he wouldn't give them they said what's going on he said I heard from my rebi that first take care of your own flaws before you give mus to other people so they went to complain to said our Rob in the city is not not giving us the the speeches that we're used to so called him in he said Reb you told you told us not to he said no you shouldn't give people M but as a r theil wants to hear your M they want to hear it I'm going to take a head from there to give the even though I have the same flaws the like the other day when I was telling people about you should make anama and at the end I don't think we we have it in our house unfortunately maybe we do I'll come there and it's going to be in front of my face but just to remind what we're talking about this was chart number 25 chart number 25 that the the beam sticking over the and if you want you can pull back your entire house if it's so important to you yeah if you click upwards it goes back to the and then if you click down it goes back no that was you clicking the wrong way no think P these buttons that I do oh so if it's that's the case you're under and the be sticking over so push back your whole entire house you even have companies that come lift up your house and move it to another area pick up your house move it backwards that if it's so important to you this be that you have just like that he hired a company he moved the house back but he didn't put a beam there could he later on put a beam there let me explain to what's going on if you push your house back certainly it's your it's your yard your front yard that green area is yours you can put the beam over there that's not a problem keepy the whole sh over here is what if the guy decides Mark showed that slide 25 one more time what if the guy decides yes I hire the com to do this now now Mark go back can I push the house back to the sidewalk so now [Music] says's the reverse good why can't I return the house leave it over there for a second Mark so I'm sorry Mark push it back to where it was before that whole green area people started using it people were were were putting the strollers there the bikes the kids became part of the part of we have people take even if it's your property they they they use it as I always use Mony as an example they they go through your backyard and they go over and over the whole year and they make you can't tell them not to do it says no yes you're right using it that's because if they create a new a new pathway like in M you can't take it away from them but over here said check this out all the the the brown that whole area they have plenty of room to maneuver so I can move my house back to where it was before oh just like that and people still even if I move my house right back to where it was before like Mark just did I have tremendous amount of room on the have to give again a CSE to remark because today I have to give three sh California doesn't match up to we need to get the English here out before shabas so the people in it's going to be it's already shabas right it's already way into shabas in Ro so by the time it's once chabas in La it's it's too late already for so we have to do three today and Mar is Mas s not only said today it's an annoying day because he has to do all the the charts he has to click all the buttons because I don't have internet even though the internet guy was here today didn't work at so in English it's beautiful so easy to explain I didn't know how to explain it in Hebrew there something called grandfathered in I'm grandfathered in with this beam sticking out of my house go jump in the lake I don't care if people hit their head and every day the stories I don't care this is how my house is I'm not moving it what if my house fell down can I rebuild my house with the beam sticking out yes his grandfather in you rebuild it the way it was M but I have a similar case and you can it's you we don't use grandfather in anymore this brings us the beautiful of that it says you're not allowed to use lime in your house you're not allow to make special beautiful drawings on the walls of your house and you're not all to paint your house after what if you bought something that was already with lime already has pictures I don't have to remove it I bought it like that but here's our case the whole house fell down in then I can't put the beautiful pictures back I can't paint my house I can't put the line why not why is it not like when the house falls down I can put the beam sticking out so when my house falls down I can paint it the way it was before the because you can't you can't do can't create a there's no grandfather in when it comes to is you could leave it but you can't build it but when it comes to of a beam sticking out and knocking people in the head that's not that's that's okay so now we're going to be talking a little bit about you should not use lime in your house and if you add a little bit of sand or straw why is a m if you add all these materials because now it's not the beautiful white lime it's a little it's a little dirty in color that itself is traid if you add the stuff you're right it's a different color but it actually improves the lime it's called traid and that itself make it the second time people stopped eating meat and wine said don't be too too much not good why what's the reason let's hear the reason we're going to eat meat where there's no more anymore we used to bring meat onto the we can't do it we're going to drink wine we use this wine to pour on the so he's saying your reasoning is flawed then you can't eat bread anymore because there's bread in the [Music] is regular I'm just throwing in I don't see anybody talking about yeah are you allowed to eat fruit I'm sorry you could eat you could eat other fruit can't fruit you know why because this so let's go sorry push the wrong button here let's go just to the shum chart which is chart 27 I like this chart I like to show it all the time because not only does it have but also it shows you that says the word er twice and that shows the importance of bras so the first BR you ever make if you have a bunch of foods on your table you have grapes and and and everything else and pomegranates you should make a bro on on bread first cuz first in the is it goes but whatever is closest to the word so since it says twice in the is number one is the first one of the second so comes before which is baring comes before G and you go through this list which is date is two on the second ER comes before three of the first list so Das on the bottom which is dates you make a br on before G which which is grapes which is third in the list from the top when you have you bring the first fruit that come out you bring it to the Bas of we don't have that so according to your logic says you're not all to you're not all to eat any fruit so they so they told him no you're right those fruit we won't eat we can eat other fruit we won't we'll have apples oranges so he says okay don't drink water we pour water on on Su the seven days of should give us a with rain so according to you your logic you shouldn't be able to drink any water you're quiet Checkmate let me explain to you you cannot ignore the fact that we have to be because was already destroyed too much cannot because we cannot make a on the community cannot make whatever it is if if we know the is not going to be able to withstand you are cursed with a curse and you stole from me the entire nation means has at least 51% able to withand you could use lime in your tire house but you have to leave a little bit over to remember the two feet by two feet so every house should have two foot by twoot area that's not painted and that lme that's should be across from the door across and says from the side of the door a beautiful Shiloh inste what about somebody that rents out an apartment or like this beautiful house in aard which is from a from person is to leave for those who rent it actually don't see here got to talk to the guy but first off fix mine and then I'll call him up afterwards [Music] um so is of the opinion that a guy that does only Airbnb doesn't he's not to do it though what if the guy that rents it is a guy is he to do his own in the house so one thing is clear that if the owner forces you to redo it and then fix it then you're not but if he's also religious and he so whether rent has to do it [Music] says oh told me Lakewood said that this is the same that we had the same Su that we had before when it comes to G how much you have to do in order to acquire a before the shear is a lot better or not a lot better it's just I can use it during Shear after year I can't use it [Music] anymore says that when you this is when you eat a meal you also have to remember the by not eating everything by leaving something over a woman when she gets dressed with jewelry she should leave one thing over what is this exactly the side they used to shave the sides of the head they thought it was nice so should let it grow all the guy would see oh these people are strange they're growing their hair over here everybody shaved over here yes so A beautiful from all four of the boss he wanted [Music] to wanted to show the that he's leaving something over by I think it was a wedding but not serving everything so you can say oh I'm not going to serve dessert and he did it different he paid for the dessert in full and then he didn't serve it so I I had this little argument with my I thought it was a good idea he thought it was a terrible idea so I'll just throw it out there and I look at the side terrible good idea I was thinking about this acrylic box like this size with maybe like a little you know an inch rim around it inside would say mdy and around it would say and you put like a some dish in there you put Aus you put peanut butter I don't know what you put it in there in in the center of the table and that is the we say not that we're not bringing the food because you don't bring the food okay you didn't bring food I had steaks but I left it in the fridge no no no I'm putting the steak out right here on this plate and we're not eating it at this meal that's a he said no that's too much that people are going to get upset that they can't eat it whatever throwing it out there I thought it' be a nice um um merch MD y mer now what's interesting this doesn't apply in so when exactly you going to use it when when your wife makes a delicious dinner a birthday dinner then uh then you can use it okay okay so Omar so over here since I'm sitting by myself has to sing the song okay we're going to start now on your mark Get Ready Get Set I'm I'm going to drop out and you're going to continue [Music] ah you doing this one [Music] back [Music] oh Kobe did a beautiful job of editing I said in the Hebrew she should sing so he threw in this music it came out very very nice so I think it saves Yosef and Ariel they don't have to go through that hole and I don't have to traumatize with my singing in in the English [Music] song my tongue tidb is lo of get stuck will will glue itself to my [Music] my was that that so it's it's beautiful now I'm cing more and more the's theep of my think about it the happiest day of a man's life should be his wedding day what other day day your child is born but the day you get married the day you buy a brand new suit and TI in shoes and you're spending $100,000 today in America who who knows what people are spending on a 20,000 30,000 100,000 100 is sometimes too little some people are spending a half a million a million Al on the on the Spitz on the epitome of the Sim that's when we put ashes on your head but where where do we put ashes where do you put on the spot of the we know is instead of the ashes you should put a pair ofin so we put the ashes by the so if you think about it's beautiful by the the that the top top of theim where do we put it on top of your body the most important part of your body which is the head the most important part of your head is where you put your fill in when everything is is going unbelievable it's the top it's the best but no just pause for a minute and remember the remember that we miss the but it's not it's not that we sit and we like likeu said that we don't eat the meat and we don't drink the wine and we're completing veos no no no we're going to be but at the same time we have to remember don't ever forget and it's many times in life like that it's it's the balance it's the balance it's not 100% of Kos and we bring the DJ in today's the DJ and the Disco lights and we're going no 9 95% but there that one one thing just remember remember [Music] the and when you do this it's for your good at the end of the day you'll see it's glory says that with this XO that you forget about a mace after a year you forget about a mace more or less fact that is telling it's still alive it's still going to be here says and we have to I have to be more on this at to mention him and mention him because of that what he brought says that when a person is it shows how much we care and how much we want and desire that that's the samp we show when sees it then replace it says they're right they should you should not be able to eat wi eat meat and drink wine because of us that we won't be able to withstand it and we don't want people to be over but once these the Romans that came and the Terrible they take away from us and doesn't allow us to do a bris for our sons and a for our sons so I got to stop and I got to say my favorite Story one of my favorites the russan mother who they didn't allow her to do a to perform a bris meal on her her son after a year she found a mo and she gave her son to the mo and the mo did a bris and after the bris the M takes the baby and gives it to the mother and the mother takes the baby kisses the baby and falls on the floor faints she wakes up faints again what happened this woman said aus she made a nther she said that she's not going to kiss her kid until he has a bris so the day of the bris was the first time she was able to kiss her son so She fainted oh so over the years we had the Romans we have different different different nationalities that try to stop the bris the Russians Stalin the the the Romans they all try to stop but hasem says look we're going to make two bristen on one day two bend on one [Music] day says maybe we shouldn't get married and maybe we shouldn't have children because of the they'll come out that krol will disappear on their own if they can't get married there won't be a krol we have to it's a how do you understand because they made ex xer so that's why we shouldn't exist says to get married and pro have children how can we be that say yeah after you have a son and a daughter then you shouldn't have anymore it doesn't really fit into the so well it says we shouldn't even marry it's better that be if we're make and they don't and not they'll be over which is worse than you have to you have to be the and you'll be amazing not being the and with that RAB before before we say this HRA for me it's very emotional it's this guy I forgot his name he's famous because he made a song with his son who was then not religious and it went viral he was very very supportive of his son wasn't religious and he made a song he sing with him and this and today B his son is religious he got married just recently got married has a kid and it came over to me in SCH oh yeah I forgot his name uh like Grom like came over to me he said listen do me a favor he's he's a big part of the she he's been with us for a long time he said make sure you do it well make sure I have such Trauma from yes this's a person in the 60s have Trauma from Yesa make make sure it's okay so I don't see the trauma B I don't see it and I really hope that the enjoyed it as much as I did 60 into it's as ever the rest of is going to be just have a wonderful day have no idea where I'm crying have a wonderful day