Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 49 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning this is for msh right now is er Tish it's 1100 a.m. in Chicago 12 p.m. in New York right before trying to copyrighting toyra before we can't learn just want to share with you I'm not going to do the typical emails just whatever is n to Tish and the mat there's a picture of the Hebrew she uh without a MAG you can see my seat is empty I didn't even notice that until now and uh the is watching this year on the screen Morty tiffer says I don't have time to listen to I didn't have time to listen to the D this morning so now I have to immed learn both today and tomorrow's after and every once in my life thought I'd be sad or disappointed about not being able to learn after not standing but now I am so thanks for giving me something new to be S about onsh give together very important announcement following Tish the morning so right msh she right over here tomorrow night m in America like M shabas schedule 10:30 English 11:30 Hebrew people might be weak tired but that's what the beauty of The Da is no matter what every single day there a da um and then we are moving um Wednesday morning I'll have we'll have Shear here I forgot already the the times exactly I have a flight to catch early afternoon flying to Los Angeles so the next in Los Angeles here it is live in Los Angeles Thursday at 7:30 p.m. in the link car and M sh Bond congregation in the valley Friday to be determined a smaller kind of Shear because it's Friday afternoon we don't want to disturb the peace and Harmony in Los Angeles um one of the big points of the Los Angeles is Los Angeles we have a bunch of people that are doing the share there a lot of people doing the share but they're not United theas is a little weak coming there to make a mat of rebuild the over there get more people to join the shear and hopefully somebody takes Los Angeles by the horns and runs with it because there's so much potential in Los Angeles it could be the biggest city if uh people put their minds to it what do we have over here oh another email 82 years ago on the eth of of we'll just leave it like this Mark it's easy for me to read off the screet the Nazi began the deportations from the wars so ghetto my grandmother was on was one of the first transports to trinka in a matter of 5 months my mother at 10 age of 17 was in the ghetto with no family left they commemorate the yard TSH and consider sponsoring the shear in their memory however I've heard you frequently tell us the impact of frear can have on an individual so instead of sponsoring a day in their memory I chose to sponsor gamar in their memory and the memory of my father's first wife and three children who left well who also left this world during the same period he goes on to give the names may hasem continue to give you and give to deliver the da and bring more Jews closer to best regards Ted Fishman participant since Chicago in the summer Jacksonville Florida the rest of the year so where is he does anybody ever see who's Ted Ted Fishman we know him so come here to live share know he wasn't okay fine I met somebody I forgot his name now he's probably got it no maybe um yeah again once again I want to be they should come if they can Sim was here finally came last night Simi mandle bam I met somebody in the ice cream store who said that he also does the she and he even proved to me set things over from the she said I know you're going to Los Angeles so she said I'll come when possible but I know there's a lot of people out there that are watching now live and they're not uh at the shear so sponsored for the save and speed return of all the Hostages renewed incarcerated B in Ireland and you're Midwest cousins in honor of the wedding of yob to should to build of the month and the whole staff to continue to make to so enjoyable for so many the art of the month I think is I believe is $55,000 a month and this person sponsored three months so tremendous to you and that's one artist there's still two more sponsor sponsorships available if anybody wants to see and available on YouTube the Su regarding the're holding today's test we're going to start we'll just take it back a few lines we did it yesterday so we can run through it today when somebody is hung literally hung and forced to sell something according to hun it works tells us toi like eight 10 lines from the bottom was a tough guy he's a mafia guy he hung a person by the name of papy on a tree according to one of the in and so went ahead and signed the document stating that poy is not interested in selling he's being forced to sell and therefore to reneg the whole sale shouldn't exist and he also at the same time right afterwards he signed he signed on the sale document saying that he is that that poy did sell so the two contradicting documents one explains the other one is a where you explain that I don't want to do a sale as we saw yesterday I'm not going to show the cartoon again signed the document he did the right thing he's trying to save poy from a for sale and the one RAB again who signed the ash document which is the S it's a good it's a good arum so says works then the doesn't work if the works then the doesn't work says we're trying to tell you like V we just passing that if you hang somebody by his feet and you beat him up and he signs over it works so therefore you should know that if you sign an ashkal what's ashal they're going to ask you in the test what's an ashkal ashal is a document of sale okay now we know maybe one of the first times in sh that it appears ashkal if you sign ashkal document it works why does it work you think it doesn't work you ask anybody before you learn Basra somebody puts a gun to your head and says sell me your car and you sell it say no it doesn't work it works if you say sign a doc it works but if you sign the do beforehand then you could undo the not undo afterwards undo if you do the M first second the is a joke now this is where we're holding so we're going to see a bunch of a little bit of maybe some of to some people mus number one is old one but a good one if a testified to something so if a person says something a person says um I did this but it's so and so so the same mouth that made it AER he could explain it away and make it m on the flip side we have something called once this testimony by are not permitted to go back and redo their testimony so what do we have over here we have a document been called am it's also mus we're not going to load it up we have enough M today but am is a nice new mus or newer am means it's a document of trust not recommended it's actually user to do this and that is you sign away a document you have a full document that you borrowed a million dollars from so and so and you have it signed now the the loan never occurred never occurred so why are you doing it because you found the right you right you found the cyer so you're going to preo this this what's the problem that says excuse me this is an Ava this is something really bad this could bring to a lot of issues maybe your sons don't know about it maybe this maybe that maybe the Mal will get greedy and he'll pretend that he lend you the money he's going to pull out this document that never happened it was never a loan it's a fake document why are you doing it because you're lazy you don't want to do it tomorrow as you do it today you think you're you're you know you're trying to save time and it's going to cost you a million dollars at the end of the day so if they them say yes we signed on this document but it was an it's not a real document there never a million dollar loan why because basically what they're saying is that they're bad people that they sign on something AER also we have another problem problem number two is or in this case it's problem number one we have the problem they signed in a document they're saying there is a loan for a million dollars the next day they're saying there isn't a loan for a million dollars so they're retracting their testimony okay they're explaining it a little bit but it's it's a it's a retraction if you just go by the document there's a million dollar loan you go by their testimony there's no million dollar loan so that problem number one is problem number two is a person cannot make himself into can't say oh I disregard it as it says I don't care I did it anyway no a if a person says that the Adam say there's a document there but the per it says in the document that so and so sold a piece of property and we're saying no it's a lie he was forced at gunpoint what's the problem with that the problem with that is one problem out of the two have a says did not believe oh so R says by his oven did not [Music] believed when you have AAR against verbal so the verbal cannot undo thear in fact what wins the Star wins here you have you want to see it in visual beats the verbal but what would be the case the verbal is nothing and then comes the that says what that it was so no so in that case what you what are you saying in the verbal you saying that it's so that's that's okay that should be okay you make I'm about to write a and so let's see sorry against another that could undo the other says both and if Adam later on testified that it was that it was a fake not fake we wanted to use it later but we never used it there was never aone not believed the guy told us that that he he didn't want to sell Ares when it comes to it's two problems you have also you have um so there's no why because they're not peling the completely they're explaining the when you explain the that's different than passing the when you say for instance gives an example when you say the ad testified that when they signed the they were youngsters they weren't even mitz so that's saying today we're telling you that thear that we sign yesterday is posle no that's not what happened here we're saying yes the was a but the guy told us beforehand that he was forced a gunpo that's explaining it away it's not passing the actual and the the you shouldn't have written why you writing you have no business writing on a monar to say that there was a loan when there's no loan that's but to to write not only is it okay it's a Mitzvah to write it why is it a Mitzvah to write because he's saving this guy the guy had a gun put his head so you're helping him out helping him out we just had a a situation the other day I I said a certain joke in sheer and uh there was a decision made to to to remove it so remind me over here they forgot to ask me so I told you gota you got to speak to me first okay fine they thought maybe if they ask me I I would say leave it in you know you know be says not everything that you think you should say not everything that you say you should write and not everything that you write you should publish and maybe not not everything that you say in Shear should be put out on on you know all the platforms for thousands of people to see that's what they're were tining I guess certain things that are not to be written certain things are not to be videoed Etc the Mish says seems like the obvious that a husband cannot make a kazaka in his wife's belongings they're living together they have a they have a property together she brings a property in all of a sudden the the husband is GNA claim oh it's my property look I was there for three years he didn't say anything no you can't make on your wife's property she can't make on your property says of course so let's today we're going to talk a little bit about very very simple concept is when a woman comes into into the marriage with property so there two ways we could look at it they could decide to begin with either it's going to be is as follows here she comes in like some of the here in Chicago they give their kids nursing homes there take three nursing homes I have 200 you take three you take three she comes in with the nursing home so what does the husband do the husband gets pay if it's m so Milo it's less his he get they they they split it we're going to have a beautiful sugya and we have to think about it who owns this nursing home she's on the title she has the documentation it serves he gets 100% of the prophets so who is it it's like similar today they do leasing right you lease the home somebody else so okay so some guy somewhere has he owns it the the big shot with the fancy car the the operator he runs around the Miss he makes a lot of money okay the guy Al make some money say there who's the B that's a different we're gonna get to right now whatever happens to the property happens if the property goes up in value and they get divorced use a back if the property drops in value and they get divorced gives it back to her she takes the law she take whatever she's not lock the husband is not locked into any price he doesn't he doesn't guarantee anything so that's versus so barzel so barel is metal barzel metal so whatever the price is when they get married that's what he has to pay her back so if it's a million dollar nursing home he has to give her a million dollars when they get divorced regardless of the price it might have gone down it might be worth below below zero he has to give her a million dollars here let's just see it he takes all the profits from the nursing home all the P that's called P She has title so if he goes five and the value goes down that's what she gets sh is she says the the guy has peris what does peris mean he's the administrator of the home he goes into the home all day long that's that's where he Liv his office is inside the nursing home so of course so why would I think that he could do why would anybody think it's his he just gets the fruit because he said straight out I have nothing to do with this nursing home I don't want anything to do you think I married you for your money I've nothing to do with the nursing home big shot I don't want to see it I don't want to nothing to do with it oh then he steps into it so she should say something what are you doing I thought you don't want have anything to do with my nursing home nevertheless it's not it's still married it's still normal for him to go in there it's still normal normal for her not to say anything says but technically speaking so what if he wrote to her I have nothing nothing with your nursing home if a person tells his friend I have nothing to do with my field I don't want to do with it I don't want to deal with it and my hands are removed from it what would be a better Lon if you own a field and you want to remove yourself from it a l of hefer but just to say these words he tells his wife I don't want to deal with it have nothing to do with your belongings that's not enough oh so are over we're all very familiar but you might not be familiar with this one so much in the time of thear there was a a is when the gives the a ring and she becomes an nuso she becomes engaged but it's not really engaged what we have today engagement it's a real engagement she becomes a is she becomes a full-fledged married woman to the point that if she if she goes with another man she's K she needs a divorce but they're not married yet they take a break usually for a year then they come back and they do a today we do the ring and the all in one shot under one it's one ceremony a together it works something like this he gives her a ring and that's it she becomes an arusa this was just a different I figured I'll just leave it here why not for some humor keeps on giving her stuff I don't remember why gives her a manira gives her a estr back because of course he's going to need a srig oh this is this is my Suka this was this is a picture based on my Suka in and he also gives lus the bris he gives her okay they took some of the art Yoshi's art and they built the the whole walls art as the B medish and cartoons and all sorts of stuff gal I like the one I'm standing over there gal okay so says the wow the whole building just shook what's some truck drove drove by crazy it's like literally like a earthquake we're talking about when this woman is an arusa she's in the G engaged State engaged but a lot more than engaged and therefore what ra goes to ra ra where's my paper before he pulls out his I don't even know where it is oh here it is that's the one I really H we'll just keep it over here maybe I'll take that one oh this is in pieces already wow okay it's not the first time we used that one and that's what happened oh so it says the maybe is that this is the lowest one put it over here so it doesn't get in the screen think about it if a person inherits real estate because said he should get it because his father died he should get the real estate so if a person uses wording he says I don't want the real estate it doesn't work but if a person is supposed to get something from a like in our case you have an Engaged couple engaged is not the right word they're arus he gave her a ring and he refuses that that he has the right to refuse a person if a person receives some sort of inheritance or some sort of gift from another place person can make a condition he doesn't want it person says I don't want this rule that said just like this we could listen to him in we listen there don't we just turn to sponsor by Sher construction management and supervision and the live share Community protecting families today before tomorrow's unexpected loss and by kidovation in my uncle prman and fishal talking about I just realized he told me he's thinking about coming to Los Angeles a few people are thinking about coming hopefully they come in order again the point of coming to Los Angeles is to be M over there I don't think they're and they're trying to get back before chabas which is you know always difficult from Los Angeles so it's a Thursday night chair they're thinking about grabbing the the midnight flight or whatever the red eyee and coming back to be in Los Angeles to make it aab when's this year in Los Angeles Thursday night in the link col at 7:30 and M shabas at in the valley somewhere atam that's what it Isam okay here it is oh Mish on the screen I'm saying it again because believe it or not there's people in Los Angeles who skipped the emails I didn't know he's coming to Los Angeles did you see the share yeah I saw the sh no you didn't well I don't do the emails okay so here it is do you see the share yes I don't do the Turning of the da that two minutes I skip so I just start from the gar part I didn't notice even the Turning of The Da that you're coming to Los Angeles you have no I don't know if it's so we'll say it in middle of okay now think about it why is it really the husband should not be receiving anything from his wife's nursing home why does he get the Paris of the wife's nursing home because that if what's the new Steinberg oh if she's captured she's a he must Redeemer so I guess it was something pretty common it's like today in Mexico so in Le of that he gets and made a deal with him you redeem her when she if she's ever a hostage and you get her might and pay for the funeral okay that also yeah he's the the nursing home at that at that point says so the interesting thing what was the discussion in the what are we talking about is referring to what in the name of said [Music] here's a cute picture if I can get to it basically if this guy's a bum all he does is fish fishes all day fishing all day and um she's a wealthy individual I have a sister one of my sisters is a she's a very brilliant woman she's a lawyer and she was a she was a lawyer in a very big firm New York and she made a lot of money I'm think a person like that she makes good money she tells her husband you think I need your your pizza your your CH what are you GNA what are you giving me I can support you I don't need you so a woman like that says Let's Make a Deal you know what let me keep my check I'll take care of my own food thank you very much end of the day time in the gar when we had a whole suus that they didn't get engaged in time there a whole fight between the on one day of food it was a whole thing food was not simple people didn't have money people would sell their own kids because they couldn't afford to feed them so it was a big deal today we don't really understand this kind of thing but a woman says huh no make a deal no it's a deal I'll redeem myself I'm an independent woman I don't need you to redeem me thank you so in a certain situation a woman could say I don't want the that's exactly what we're saying this for regular women they agree to this kind of arrangement you feed me I don't have any money I don't have a job they didn't really work in those days they didn't go out there and and earn money was more of the the man's thing I don't have money I don't have the food you feed me and if I work I do this I'll do some sewing whatever it is you get to keep it there a husband comes home mom is excited says you're not going to believe it I found work that pays double double than what we're earning now double wife is all excited and everything says no you don't understand comes with a car comes with all these benefits and insurance and this and that everything no no so what's what tell tell what's the what's the downside the pro a little problem it's it's working with the sewer system it's a little smelly it's also a little far no no no who cares who cares it's it's good money it's good money let's go so says yeah exactly that's why I told him you're starting work tomorrow she could say listen I do my own I don't need you T oh so that's it that that's the end of the so this is a very interesting thing very interesting think about it could a woman say that she felt uncomfortable she felt under pressure and she wasn't agreeable really deep down she wasn't agreeable to the sale share with youo with me here in Chicago I had a nice house in Linwood and I wanted to sell the house and my wife didn't want to sell the house I don't blame her it's a pretty decent house at all different I want to move out of Lincolnwood I was thinking this I wasn't really thinking about yet that came like a few months later I was like okay Lin let's go we'll go to West Russ park or something you know so that's she didn't want to sell so I I put the pressure on you know kept on saying listen doesn't make sense we're getting a decent price so she said okay sell the house the next I'm not even going to say the next day the next hour it's like I didn't want to sell the house why' you sell the house till this very day she's upset about me selling the house she refuses even to drive down that block I'm not kidding she won't drive by that house it brings back bad memories for her this is a case of sometimes a woman could say I'm serious it's not a nice thing would happen but you know get older you learn from Stakes she said I wanted to I said yes because I saw you really wanted it I didn't want it I'm sure a lot of you here in the room could uh could associate some sort of story like your wife okay you put enough pressure she said fine but she didn't really mean fine could the wife come back and say listen I never I never agreed to sell it I want out I want I want the deal to come back thear seems to say yes there was a a true story in the where a woman her husband he wanted to take out a loan and as collateral he gave the wife's clothing and then I guess they really need the clothing you know clothing was expensive back in the day and the husband begged the the lender to give him the clothing just for y so he said okay he was agreeable gave him back the clothing for yand and uh the husband died over y so the lender he wanted the clothes back and the wife said I never agreed to give the clothes as collateral to begin with my husband put the pressure on so the talks about the says she's right I don't want to give the clothes he was crazy he he decided to take a loan out I didn't read to the whole loan he put the pressure pressure pressure he said okay now the clothes are here I want my clothes and other said no I know a person in that took out a he took out a big loan and he gave his house as collateral to the lender not a bank private people and he had his wife sign over and then he never ended up paying the loan so they went after the house so she went to court and she said I never agree with the sign but you signed my husband put a lot of pressure on me the court didn't get didn't buy it they they actually they they took the house from them the other people didn't get the house yet but it's already years they just took the house ker but she had such a claim she said I was pressured by my husband so here's a su could I say I was pressured by by the husband the mishna says that there's no husband cannot do aaka in his wife's property seems like he cannot do a kazaka but could he purchase it why not he only can't do a kazaka but he could purchase it from her what's the problem with purchase she could say I didn't want to sell to you you put the pressure we're married so I was uncomfortable I sold it to you I don't really want to sell it to you yes those three words what there Noak but if I have a there's 50 people on on Youtube shsh Learning T you know one of my spiels you know I always talk about I always say we learn on and we learn oner and we learn on because it's true we learn hardly anyone learns on is the time you go to sleep you eat a lot after the fast you don't feel well after you get a big stomach ache and then you go to sleep so to come to Bish at 11:30 10:30 11:30 wherever you are English Hebrew is a tremendous thing that's the Godless the I'm serious one of the most beautiful things about so says [Music] the how could How could a husband produce and AAR and say I bought this off my wife I was only trying to make my husband happy but I didn't really mean it we have there's two cases the reverse of each other if you go to the husband and you buy his you say you are the administrator of this of this nursing home I would like to purchase the nursing home from when he goes and he sells it it's not his to sell whose is it his wife's but it's not his wife's because she doesn't have any produce she doesn't take the the profits the doand goes ahead and sells it but it's not really his to sell so then after he sells it he goes and he talks to the wife he says you know your husband just sold me all his profets could you please sell me the actual nursing home what's the nothing doesn't work why because a wife could say I sold it to you yes but I saw that he was really into selling it look he sold off his entire Shear so that's why I sold my Shear also but I didn't really want to sell it so also oh now the just points out interesting thing didn't we say by if somebody's forced to sell something they hanging him up by a tree so we said it's it's a good sale right so he says this different this is not such aess like of his oven it's less of aess it's almost counterintuitive if there a real oess you really forced so you sell it but over here she wasn't really forced she just wanted to be nice so it's not a sale okay this is a little in the get to tomorrow but I'll say it over here that there's two cases over here there's a case where the guy buys off the husband's portion his payr and then he goes to the wife if he goes to the wife first and he buys her piece and then goes to the husband and works because then she can't say she sold it then he only had to get permission from the husband if the husband sells his part then she's trying to appease her husband so the says it says when gave the he says here go tell the woman tell the wom about the mitz and then and afterwards tell the men why women first So based on this gar it's understandable because if you go to the husband first so he accepted the T so the women could claim afterwards we didn't really want to accept the T we felt pressured we we saw that you you accepted it see we didn't want to make you feel bad so we also accepted it but if you go to the women first and accept the and they accepted the toy on their own now they can't say we're trying to make our husbands feel good that's why comes first so says so at the end of the day how could a husband buy a property from his wife his wife could always claim that she was just trying to make him feel good says we explained it over there the only time that a woman could tell her husband I didn't really mean it is when it has to do with herba it says in theba we know theba here it is can know with so the husband writes in theba that he's guaranteeing the whatever he owes her he's going to to pay up how either from the land that he owns from the real estate or from the non-real estate from the movable objects means real estate non-real estate it should be guor guarantee to redeem whatever he owes her from theba I received a beautiful email today with a picture of the cartoon remember the the was the guy with the cape so writes please do not show non things in she because it looked like it's like he was wearing underwear or something and certainly not men without shirts cuz it looked like it's a shirt but I he thought it was like see-through I don't know people they have a lot of time on their hands and he said a very do not ever you know there's a lot of that are watching this and I appreciate if you don't they didn't say I appreciate don't he just told me what to do don't ever show this again again it's not s maybe we should show what we're talking about maybe the editor should you know show the nons piece what let go back that that know back that far we can because then we lose all the thousands of views so only in certain cases could does a wife say what three fields that have to do with that are related and she could collect from those fields from that real estate for the field that he wrote specifically in the that goes to her it's the same exact thing but it's not in theba later on he said you know what this is the field that if I ever divorce you or die this is the field you're going to take from so this is we're going to talk about it tomorrow more but might as well get used to the concepts of so barel so barel means metal sheep meaning that the the the deal is solid like metal that the husband says whatever the nursing home is worth the one you brought into the marriage that's how much I'm going to pay you the day we get the vorce the day I die let me see no we don't have that yeah tomorrow it's more it's it's more animated Anda oh and tomorrow we're going to continue from here but oh so since she's dependent on this and she sold it obviously she didn't want to sell it that was but other things you could buy from her she sells it she could sell it to her husband have a meaningful fast we should see Mia have a wonderful old day