Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 18 by R’ Eli Stefansky

foree [Music] know same know [Music] this [Music] welcome all the guests what's your name again H Ed from nice for coming who else do we have there it you're like not so new what's your name Sherman Sherman you've been here for a month oh that's what it is okay we got the doctor from Toronto what's your name you look hbur hburg okay I'll get there eventually what's your name over there here you the guy on the phone what's your name oh who's the guy next to you what's your name t Ros from ah okay also K say everybody's old here okay fine de belly listen to this one I like this one because I think this could give us all I just joined you really appreciate it stay up late to keep up but it's worth it I wanted to chime in in regard learning y andas that came up today I agree that you don't knock people learning only those people won't learn B because they only learn but in the end don't learn beon either you mentioned today that you aged learning be is probably better but for not likely possible for most people I wanted to mention though that even regular B like myself have the potential to increase the level of their learning higher than they think that's the point of the email I want to mention though that even regular B like myself have the potential to increase the level of the learning higher than they think as with past 16 years after leaving K and working as a full-time professional I've gone back and forth about learning the D for the past 15 years I've been part of a night that learns with and I felt I couldn't do both and I don't want to give up on the so besides a six Monon 10 years ago I didn't join the da almost a year ago we just finishing and a guest speaker at the scene challenged us to 10 times I'm not sure if was serious but it took him seriously and made a schedule to 10 times as well as 10 times then the war broke out the next week and I took this on as for my family CL soldiers fighting has literally transformed my learning in life n months later it's part of that's the name of my book nine months later and besides stay on schedule him nine times already and most of this five to eight times a whole day is different and it's amazing how much time I found that I wouldn't have thought is possible some people might think I'm crazy but I'm telling you learning 4 to 6 hours with a real CER to learning with a full-time job and young kids is very possible four to six hours is very possible it just takes the a plan desire to try your best and an honest look at how you're using your time and Technology helps to something like that having a regimen plan for stylist and learning is so helpful for this reason I decided to try to add another other lunch time say that to maximize that time and learn the da I found you sh really appreciate your style it makes it easy to maintain and commit the commitment there are other great out there that go more but for what I'm looking for your sh is perfect I'm not ping but for working B if you could only do one I could very much hear that it might be better to have with than be without a Gish I don't think you need to PK in that everything you do has to be with has to be but I want to say don't sell yourself short he says don't sell yourself short I wanted to encourage people to push yourself as and yourself at at this time and try to stretch yourself more than what you think is possible I think we're looking at a room full of people that stretched themselves they came here at 10:00 at night knowing that the mag is not going to show up on time he came anyway and it's late and and the wife wants to do things and the kids does and you come here that's why okay also wanted to say then wife there are some people that I know their wives are not watching that I can tell you from your remark it's not going to get back to your wife the other people that the wife watch they know what they're saying doing the wi family truly any wife family is truly unique it's a very rear template nowadays of using tet to bond CL together through as it should be in a real G energizing way I think every year and school should steal the template again it's it's uh something that uh I become used to and I think a lot of people become used to but it's a beautiful thing to see and modern Orthodox Andi and litx and and and people are off the on the D all together in the same room the same Zoom the same Shear it's unbelievable and we shouldn't take it for granted but it's people that that otherwise would never speak to another group or whatever become best friends and and it's going to bring for all you do and please don't share my name with appreciation Elan hello reell t z just a short while after I I listened to about a snake venom we welcome our new son may we always learn the da and all our and all of the pel from Hong Kong they had a kid in Hong Kong galic huh they they use they use that's what they do in Hong Kong they don't have regular edals they use the snakes as state um the our raal from the K had a baby girl and he told me based on the gamar he didn't know to cry no he gave me a whole rush I didn't I didn't have time to listen to that no he's very excited very excited in the in the message RAB this is a beautiful picture I did I show this already I think I did show this I did and this I showed or maybe I didn't this is meni the one who did the chart he put together the chart you could see that he did a z chart and I sent that chart to Yoshi and uh do you know what I'm talking about the chart I'll show you here this chart um where's the chart this chart this this chart really helped Yoshi after 10 11 hours of working I asked him if he could do the he was already home was already 11:00 at night then I got he said yes no problem to 1:00 in the morning he said simple chart but it really helped the Su a lot so before we jump into this we're not going to go through the chart again we're we're basically past that well we kind of discussed it in passing I just here's the uh the question of the night here in we're all familiar with um the the bakery over there Nama okay Nama I think it was some other store beforehand I for oh it was a farm store before it was Fel dimes right so now the people in the building can they stop a bakery from opening up they say listen the the odor the smell is is too much you're thinking about barus all day I'm going to want to buy barus yeah just what do you do besides brings sh if you enjoy the smell you have to make a on a b smell a bread smell a sh so could I stop let's say the guy wants to put a fish store in there not stop a fish store like the one that I remember growing up with they would clean it once every week or whatever it was terrible can I stop something like that what do you say you say yes make sense you could the Tanners I don't know why because of the I I but I don't know maybe it's real damage not all the way from all right so we're holding six lines from the bottom of B we have a shorter da today a very easy daff oh we got to do sponsors you're right sponsors where are the sponsors they're all the way over here tomorrow's D is also super easy the resp the safe and speed return of all the hostages it's reversed again [Music] a hidden in our generation not a hidden sad anymore he's aad but not hidden byin and Z how do you pronounce that LE and families and by Greenberg in honor of friend and my Rabbi ABA Renard ABA Renard is a rabbi love AB Renard Benjamin calman in honor of my wife Linda on our 32nd wedding anniversary who was it that came over to me on Friday and showed me that his wife sponsored their anniversary or his birthday sponsor he's not here tonight I don't think his wife sponsored and he had in his phone ready was like in two seconds he able to show me where I said where sponsor then he showed me a text message he told his wife how much he appreciated the gift him meant a lot so Benjamin Calin in hon of my wife Linda on our 32nd wedding anniversary huh huh if you don't want it to do it again next year you got do it in a you have to say it in a smart way I don't know okay so today's sug is referring to the case when a person here this is in the Mion not supposed to dig a pit next to another pit and we said it has to be six away are you permitted to do this that was the Shiloh the guy on the other side doesn't have any pits there's no Wells you want to dig a well all the way up to the property line yes or no that was the question says absolutely not says you can so now we're going to bring different RS basically against ra ra says you can not so says the six lines from the bottom in the base basically there's two types of tunnels I discovered there's the ones in Gaza there's good news coming out of Gaza number two is basically he's gone death the is uh the guy that has the problem with the eye I I didn't say his name what do you make me say his name for whatever they they they killed supposedly over 100 people that were around him just to get to him he already survived seven attempts hopefully this eighth one is not there's not another one they put like they they just got a whole supply of those 12 2,000 PB bombs they used them all on him tonight they need another Supply seriously they went they they like they they went again and again they they were sure if they got him so anyways B but over there they dig all these uh tunnels by hand in other words it's it's Hab it's easy it's like dirt it's sand from the beach easy there's another type of tunnel they have up unfortunately in the north over there it's all rock his b also has tunnels but it's much harder for them to dig so the one that's very easy two people dig a well the first one the first guy must distance himself three according to ra what do you do look at the picture there's no distance according I'm sorry according to Abaya there's no distance over here it seems like you have to distance yourself three and this would be a question on why does the first guy why does he have to distance himself three and he he puts a layer of lime in the inside two things he has to do he has to distance three plus he has to put a layer of lime say so that is throughout all nobody argues this is Su could I do whatever I feel like doing in my backyard anything I want guy here a dying in the Hebrew she says look I could smoke in my apartment even though the smoke goes up to the apartment above me and bothers them let them leave the apartment so I said wait a minute are you a smoker yes I said of course of course but one thing is clear you're not permitted to do damage in your property that causes an immediate damage to your neighbor immediate is not is not okay if I plant a tree in my property and 3 months later two years later the roots go and destroy my neighbor property that's says it's not a problem it's my property and and say but says when it's so soft and I go all the way up to the border to the borderline what's going to happen I'm going to weaken my my my my neighbor's property on the spot I'm weakening that's awesome says what was you what was your me even to ask a question from here it says why would the bright even talk about soft dirt obviously because it's very different doesn't say a guy that's digging guy is digging in soft dirt no it says soft dirt that means there is a difference between softt and not softt and it must be our chat that soft dirt causes immediate damage say right maybe that's what it was coming to say that you need even more than three because it's so soft and so damaging so we don't have we don't have pictures tonight you remember the pictures there's a factory that produces fuel from the olive pits you have to distance that manure you don't need the picture this I have a nice picture you have to distance salt from the wall through here's a picture from Chicago the famous Morton Salt Factory this is what happens when you put salt up against it's a wall there is no wall you see what happened to the wall it disappeared this cars down there buried in salt that's not exactly what's going on here I mean we're talking about damage caused by salt so you have the distance place just points out something very interesting what's the big deal why do you have the distance the distance okay yes I get it because will damage let's see in a second damage the wall or over say there's another way out you know have the distance you put a layer of line it's because there's a wall if there's no wall you can put your salt right there now according to ra what's again ra says even if your friend didn't build anything he didn't put a wall he didn't put he didn't dig a a ditch didn't dig a well you're not permitted to dig your well up against the borderline why because maybe tomorrow he will over here you see not like Rob over here you see if there's no wall there's no instant damage you can put it all the way up to your border so no and this T points out what would be the problem to put it up to the Border what damage is going to cause oh he's going to build a wall so when he builds a wall move it take a shovel move it no because it'll it'll create uh a long time damage in the ground they'll do something to the to the dirt on the border where even if you move the salt it'll still be damaging so the reason why the is so easy is because thear asked the same type of question from different things in the mission different thing and the answer is always the same same idea same concept the so we have a we have a freeb basically tonight and I'm B is super short even if there's no wall don't ask me a question even if there's no wall you cannot put anything damaging next to your border what's the why say wall these are things that are damaging to the wall okay so we learned here that salt lime all these things what else we have here GE Z manure they're all damaging to wall why do it say wall to teach us that damages the wall you can't plant seeds and you can't put you're here we this one I'll show you again you can't plow right next to your friend's wall says again once again time it's because there a wall you're allow to put you're allowed to plow you're allow to do all these things all the way up to the borderline i r a hold you're not allowed even if your friend doesn't have a wall even if he doesn't have a a well [Music] has do with the wall say telling us the moisture is damaging to a wall no you see what I'm talking about here we have the picture again as you see in the mill there's two stones on top one is smaller than the other so therefore the larger one you have to distance three from the wall and the the smaller one is four why does it say have to distance from a wall seems like it's a wall but if there's no wall you're allowed to put it there ah Rob says you're not allowed to put it there because maybe one day there'll be a wall there how does the damage before and I don't know how is going to explain this one the vibration is no good for a [Music] wall we'll show you the tner why not it's a beautiful tner actually so you have to distance this the it has a bottom piece as you can see so the bottom is three the actual is for you're not allow to put your oven there because there's a wall if there's no wall you're allow to put your oven there says you're never allowed to put anything next to your neighbor there's no wall you to put it there are things like an oven that the heat ruins the wall I love this it says you not to open up here for the new people we've seen this a hundred times but why not sound without without sound please without sound oh no this is there's a lot you saw you saw the Heat going on in there there's a lot of heat here here you see you can see the the the smoke okay anyway get the idea you're not allow to open one of these things and then you're to open a bakery bakery here we go Bakery now let open up a bakery if the guy uses the second floor as a storage house for his wheed or whatever it is you know open up a bakery why because the smell the the the we'll see what it is we'll go in there and uh and ruin it B this is I thought this is galic um you shouldn't have one of these on the first floor no I'm saying like what's going on here but the p is thear Mas thear say this is normal this is what they used to do these brought a few cows into the house few chickens R bakar not not goats cows so say time go because the guy upstairs has storage house and you're ruining whatever he's storing but if there's no storage house I'm not to bring as many cows I want it to my house what's the Kasha who's the cash against ra ra ra says it doesn't matter what what the neighbor has you can never bring anything close because maybe he will one day bring a a storage house over there it says over here no it's only because it's a storage house galic it's normal this is the way it is people [Music] live it's unbelievable it's a life of I don't know how they live Bas how do they live back then my neighbor downstairs has a bunch of cows my wife just washed my clothing with dog waist and not I'm wash it she left it in there for two days and then she rinsed it out then they put it on top of coals that has a good smell so they kind of disguises the the dog poop and there mic unbelievable and then my other neighbor he puts all his garbage in my front yard so that we step on it and then we fight over who's going to own that manure so we could use it for K the smells in those days who knows so people used to walk around with that necklace that that had like like a perfume to like disguise the whole Mass what's going on and kids these days think it's tough tough yeah you only give them three hours on the device and not four kids life life is tough today so it happens to be somebody just told me he's looking at an apartment Mish over here I don't want to give too much away because maybe the guy watches this year so they told him listen don't don't buy one block away from here I want to tell you about this thing there's a wine Factory upstairs and the machines go it's like a whole mat machines are going and not only that once in a while you get a leak but not a leak of water a leak of wine comes in so your block you know what I'm talking about you don't know okay but that's a d d Shin today there's all sorts of things going on in the dasas we have a a sh lady in our building and when she moved in there's a lot of people were very upset and this and that the other it's not a big deal like it's pretty quiet we didn't know like it's going to bring in different traffic coming in and people going to park their cars in funny ways but but people have funny things going on in their their buildings anybody have some good stories here you live in a house you don't know what I'm talking about and it ruined your room it smelled up the room you know what I'm talking about okay what about me I I let my son live in my house and I come up there one night I'm not joking I have beer a beer factory m a beer factory what are you doing just it's going to be great it's a whole process but when you do beer you also need a machine that could close the bottle well so he has bottles and machine that closes the bottle and this get that lasted for a week he's on to his next hobby okay V so here's another question noise did anybody think about noise am I allowed to play basketball in my apartment knowing that my neighbor is going to really annoy him I looked it up here between 2 and 4: in the afternoon still there's still a law you're not make noise between 2 and 4 and after 11:00 okay so let's say 5:00 I'm allowed to bounce a ball in my on my neighbor's head anybody no yes I'm not sure about that one but what comes out over here the place you want to prove from our Su that all we care about really is the heat that damage from heat the bakery causes heat the the cows causes smell but they want to say that this the smell is not a problem smell is not an issue it's only heat that's an issue and no says cows is not this this normal to have these kind of things that's what they they want to prove from smell alone is not it's not it's not something that you can have a TI on although some somebody said that that I forgot who who's telling me this that um he only wanted to show an apartment his apartment at you know 10:00 at night and okay show and the guy bought it then when the guy moves in he couldn't believe it there's a there's a fish store downstairs and he realized the only reason why he showed him the apartment at 10:00 at night is because he didn't want him to see the fish store open so they pass him that because he tried to hide it like that and he show this he had to give him back his money what are you saying sorry real estate business you have to have peaceful enjoy the property so anything that's to cause any loud to be out of what is it called Peaceable that that that that little line is not in there Peaceable enjoyment don't have don't let ten have pets pets can leave a lasting smell even you're telling me you know you know the you know the cost when a when a person has a pet minimum $2,000 you have to change the carpet it's things that don't come out if you have carpet then you know the smarter people they put now the lolium down yeah of course we had a no pet policy in one of our properties I found there was a lady there I saw her walking one or two dogs I we followed her to her apartment she had eight dogs eight pitbulls not dogs eight pitbulls in one apartment apartment yeah of course we went in there big time yeah it's one of the biggest expenses expense when they have pets but you don't have a choice a lot of times you have to accept pets huh no your property would be no you wouldn't have any occy if you can you don't you give you give a pet deposit and they charge little sorry where are we oh I'll prove to you that this is normal for people to bring cows into their house it says it only says talks about the ref the the the cows it talks about the bakery why doesn't talk about the other things in the mishna you know the salt the lime no only these things it was there first before the storage then it's okay meaning cuz this is normal you shouldn't plant a tree next to a field you need a distance four feet four hours eight feet what do you need fouras quick here like this we we just recently had this one you need four amas for the vineyard for the trucks and the whatever Machinery that you bring in you need four arm what has to do with Clay I car w't see in a second time it's only because of you need to work it if it wasn't for for that reason you'd be able to put a tree all the way up to your neighbor's property what about the roots that are going to grow there eventually according to it should be a big problem so we have a picture the ma right over here meaning oops what just happened oh 25 Amo you have to distance why because of the of the of the roots sorry it's a wrong place here I am it's four yeah 25 somewhere else here this means there's a rock so I'm not concerned about the roots says we're talking about climb now so if there's a fence between the two Fields let's say I don't know this if there's a fence between them then you're allowed to come all the way with your wheat to his grape and there's no problem K so the says what do you see from here now Rashi points out an unbelievable thing I didn't know about this he says not offence even so doesn't have to be real fence but two poles and a pole on top that's enough of a how is a pole like this just a Hecker a Simmon that works for shabas to remind me don't go outside don't carry I don't know what but CL means my weed is going to go into the vineyard and it's going to grow together how does the little thing oh obviously we're talking about is it there must be there must be a massive stone underg ground and they don't grow together I still need to show some sort of he but if so it says in the end if the roots go into the friends field you're allow to cut them down chop them down so that it shouldn't bother your plow in fact there's a big Stone under ground how in the world are there Roots When there's a big Stone say no the safe is not talking about a stone and if there's no stone and there's Roots then he's permitted to chop down the RO shouldn't ruin [Music] his so that we had the 25 Amo thing where was that here here 25o to plant a tree why because of the roots it's only because C there's a pre-existing well you allow to put the tree all the way up to the Border who's that a question on who says you're not permitted to put anything in advance even if there's no allow to put the tree there this is the same kind of that we had up until now to tell you what causes damage here tree causes damage 25 away which is approximately 50 ft away so very far distance a tree could go out there 50 feet and destroy somebody else's well especially when it smells that water it wants to go all the way to the well and Destroy well so so says and if the trees there first you shouldn't trap it down according to ra to put a tree all the way to the Border how in the world you have a tree that's there before a well again what does it say you have a tree that's on the border before the well was there but according to R put a tree even if there is no well you're put it all the way in the Border how did it get to the Border you're not allowed to plant anything you're not to dig anything you're not to put a pile of anything that's damaging on a border how did this tree get to the Border say the easiest answer what do you think the answer should be you know what happened he planted the tree was all his field a giant field he planted a tree middle of the field is he allowed to plant a tree middle of the field yes one day he decided he's selling his field from the Treon so now you have a field a tree on the border of his field and his and his neighbor's field but he owned it originally when he planted a tree both Fields were his later on he divided he subdivided it like we he says this ter we're going to use thiss over here no matter how many times you guys saw it we got to see it again especially for the new guys because the language that this guy speaks is unbel English English ised have no idea that's what you got got to see this again it's English tell you right now it's English it keep it on roughly up to 7 to 11 days more you stick it down and you take it right down and you break it you break it and it breaks you break it you don't either you guys live pretty close to them that's after that take it the green yeah okay the other thing I wanted to tell you guys this is very embarrassing but when I went to high school first time I was in high school I was I was way below bar mitzah and for some reason my mother decided to S me to high school in a onesie no no I went regular but at night instead of PA pajamas she gave me a onesie this reminded me and I had to wear that onesie that had those feet you know the but my feet were bigger so I had like crumbled my toes a little bit I didn't understand why the whole dormatory is laughing at me Mitzvah see kind a onesie walk around the dormatory okay not from the coolest kids in the Yesa put it that way she heard it's very cold in the desert you know what are you laughing you think it's funny as in huh he remembers me from no from the onesie the guy with the onesie maybe you can find the onesie picture throw it in anyways you have to distance this this breaket from the vegetable path why because the Mishra the flax that's in that pool of water it sits there for two days or whatever is dangerous it's bad not dangerous it's really bad for the destroy the vegetable uping and if you plant leak distance it from the onions destroy the onions oh I love this one said this give eving first of all let's see what we have we have a bunch of stuff for this one so not this this here we go this these are bees that are feeding on mustard now Rashi says galic Rashi says that when a bee eats mustard this is what happens let's see first of all this is what Yoshi did so it's kind of it's kind of bitter so in order to like sooth his mouth to be he goes and he drinks his own honey so now the guy that that's trying to collect honey has a loss he doesn't have honey and this is what our other artist they had a they had a they had a little bit of a competition who's going to make a better thing so this is Yoshi okay this is one this is two you ready that's it yo says that the other guy won I don't know I'm not so sure no you vote Yoshi Yoshi wins where's the other I don't understand oh here this [Music] Yoshi this took a whole day to do yeah wait have to start from scratch draw get a character and like make all the faces and everything okay does say oh does say y on it okay good you have to distance your mustard from the bees it's interesting because bees they don't have like a limit it doesn't like really make a difference is 5et this way five they could go 10 kilometers like what's the difference okay it's only because your flax pool is next to the vegetables who's this a question on side says that you're allowed to put your flags pool next to your neighbor why because it doesn't have a vegetable path to should be even when there's no vegetable you're put oh we're trying to tell you like the whole this FL stuff is bad for vegetables says that you allow to put your bees next to the mustard what next to the why should I distance my musard from the bees you take your bees away from my mustard why're they're eating the flowers of my mustard this interesting sh not for now cuz we have to finish but is honey a liquid or a salad anybody how much you allow to eat oner it goes by it goes by How does it go so they say it depends what you're using it forber says this I don't know yeah but it depends how you use it hold on a second sponsors according to you're not permitted to put one object that's harmful to another object even if that second object is not there even if your neighbor doesn't have anything there how in the world that did the let's say the the the the bees get there first you're not allowed to put it there according to ra they were there later on he subdivided his property and he sold off the other property why according to do you have to take them away so now we could do sponsors because a little long here tur sponsored by Life share Community protecting families before today before tomorrow's unexpected loss why why does to leave your your bees your whatever you want your mustard according to you should be be allowed to leave what is old I'm doing whatever I feel like doing in my property it's my property so why does they only say that when it comes to bee and and mustard you should say it also when it comes to the flax pool and vegetabl you allow to leave it there it's because unold that it's the one that causes we have what Alik who has to distance who who has to distance himself from who the one causing the damage or the one being damaged most people say logically speaking the one that causes the damage to distance self guess what it's the one that's being damaged has the distance self so say the one damaging has to leave and therefore oh so even though you you came there when was M for you to be there you sold off half you subdivide it but today you're a damager so move away move your bees away huh move I know I'm asking to you move your mus away here I'll show for you I'll do this this is I need it for a second so so obviously has to hold opposite so he the guy that's being damaged not the damager what we don't like so much the guy being damaged he has to move himself oh if that's the case yeah so then what's when it comes to vegetables that are next to you put your flx next to my vegetables you're ruining my vegetables so he should hold the guy that has the vegetables he should move his whole vegetable patch why should the guy with the flag have to move it this is just happen don't get excited says oh perhaps the one that holds that the has to dist himself so when it comes to the flag he already has to the ma right has to distance himself why because he the guy with the flax water is damaging the the the vegetables but when it comes to mustard and bees nobody should have it's a wash my bees damage your mustard your mustard is damaging my bees and my honey so it's a wash I don't have to move it away then it's great aren't they both damaging each other because the bees cannot get to the the actual mustard so if we're talking about this this B check it check this out very nice it's almost like a string beam hold on here's the flower that we're talking about that's the T for a second and you look oh these are the the string beings and inside you'll see like little balls you see those how you could see you could tell where the is so the saying is the bee can he can't reach it he can't get to it there's a nice covering be doesn't damage the actual if this is the be can't get to those little guys they're inside a a what a pod very good if we're talking about leaves big deal a little be is GNA eat how much they going to eat a microscopic piece of the the the flower will grow back says say that opin whatever I do my property is my business I don't care if it damages is you even though your well was there before my tree I don't have to take off my tree I don't have I don't have to take down my tree why everybody does whatever they want in their property you want to make a well in your property great I want to plant a tree in my property so you see that what does that mean so what if I'm damaging you you're the one being damaged move your stuff and that's the that the the one being damaged he has to take care of stuff and he's talking to you see there's here that's you are being damaged take care of your stuff you're in your property I'm in my property I can do whatever I want you're right even when it comes to the flax water I don't have to move my flax water you move your vegetables but you that hold that the one damaging has to move it it's the same we said second that's okay when this flax water because the flax water damages the vegetables the vegetables don't damage the flax water when it comes to mus bees they destroy each other and what they answer not true bees don't destroy the actual mustard it's in the we can't get to it and if it's the flower will grow back we'll see you tomorrow [Music]