Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 165 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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regards from Mar Roo Switzerland is gorgeous to go skiing snowboarding right now learning still the do but it did not change my life I'm the same person like before baloney balone sh's baloney 100% he's a okay we'll take that L on keep keep on sending the pictures I think this is beautiful because a guy took things into his own hands he made a video a beautiful I think it was great video and he says it's worth all the work and effort they put into the video if he gets one guy to join shopi you got to make this into some sort of clip that we could put this on video take a look at this I think it's great I think this is [Music] it hold on do you guys see the line you didn't see did you I think we have to see the line he's live He's a live line [Music] got to put the volume up a little bit [Music] [Applause] [Music] it's that easy some days you don't feel well many days were're tired at night when you learn that D when you're tired and you really want to go to sleep that's when you become the real deal thousands of letters that rebell gu of life changing stories stress relief though it's totally a stress to be this is the place to be toyra is fun to is Gish it's accessible and you could do it we can finish us together so again I don't know this [Applause] is I I guess I know who he is if I saw him by face but I don't he's just uh this is the link in YouTube but we're going to get a link for we got to put this on status jph you look like you're out of breath you had a good basketball game that's fine I do want to remind and you can take this to your friends over there you have a lot of friends that are in the Army if they join San hedin even if they've done in the past you could get 2,000 she from F if you finish the M you go on the WhatsApp group and you check in every single day that you finished if for whatever reason it's not just it's anybody that works for the police or what and because what you're not the army so if you're I guess American you could get ,000 from fishal if you've never done D before if you are a in Israel you get 2,000 she then you don't get anything you don't get anything I'm leaving up there for Gil to take a picture and then we're going to move on I have a what I have a signing really okay beautiful who has a brother was a cop Ah that's right that's right he told me a brother was a cop yeah yeah yeah yeah okay beautiful um here we go for the save and Speedy return of all the hostages there are six of them [Music] for fast and complete oh there's a seventh one that's the son of Robert who comes to this year every single day here in the was on Friday what Manchester another guy who the D has not changed his life he's the only guy but you're [Laughter] wrong he's doing oh I got to say look we got Lum everywhere we have your uncle the lets from Arosa we have this we have that guy this is these are the rocks from the paraa and Uncle Lewis what does Uncle Lewis say about this I know can't read I don't understand it yet it's still an arama I don't even think Google Translate has an [Music] AR look I have a I have a great from this is how I do MRA my Unos has Hebrew translation right under the words anytime there's a hard word it's very very good and this is Jasmine you said this says Yasmin in AR Aramaic so unbelievable beautiful let's use this put this in the back over there yeah I'm not going to take this home you can you want no no I want to donate it yeah um chocolate Rock the whole [Music] thing medical test show health and mayem make that in should Amen in the art of the month for for belly and the whole staff to to make enjoyable for so many it's interesting seven three and zero it's a typical here we go a little bit of a here and we have a easier B repeats itself kind of and we're going to go we're going to try to get to the mishna only and that'll be it for tonight I have a great this is going to really make you dance if uh witness sees that shopi borrowed a hundred bucks from Aon G he sees it on Sunday he you see here you see that he took $100 from him B that was on Sunday on Monday he saw the same thing happen again Shi borrowed 100 bucks another another 100 between the two of them they could testify about 100 he a borrow is 100% he said could I borrow he took out 100 it's a story that's what happened but they saw it on two different days anybody in this room think that the two of them together could actually make shopi pay a hundred bucks back you don't think so anybody thinks so anybody think that yes I want to see a yes here anybody no one what do you say you say first of all if you don't sit over here you don't have the right to say that that's ph's job listen what there is opinion in Bak is babama I didn't see it in bakama if we learned to such an opinion I think everybody in this room would remember it I mean besides me Elvis sent me a joke today I guess I could have used it now he's I don't know where I was going to use this I just kept on going he's like my memory is so bad that I could actually plan myself a surprise birthday party and be surprised when I show up something like that that's me basically okay so where what really I don't remember such there you might be right people like shami somebody remember no the where's h a lot of anyways the answer is he's right it is there is that says it's a good good because between the two of them there's 100 bucks here let's see we're going to get there before we get there we have a lot of fun stuff the btom says there are three that people cannot say El from every single day people do these three a they think about what is so theam says means that a person and I've heard this from a lot of people unfortunately people have told me this line you know this line you've heard it I don't understand I D so well I D with such kavana and ASM didn't listen to me what's going on here I'm angry I'm upset at hasem you never heard this I understand I've done I Diamond so many times how come he's not listening that's that means if she said it I don't know if you think that and you think that you're deserving of hem to answer your that's that's a bad thing the problem is who in this room thought that today if any did anybody here think that of course you're going to be embarrassed to say yes but if if you did just shake your head a little bit don't tell anybody so I don't think that many people in this room did that today so why do the say that everybody does this every single day not allow for something oh but on Sunday you would but tomorrow yeah yeah some you get upset at like that n not my J well the thing is that you know like nak waxman's mother and we keep on saying it sometimes hasem says no in other words sometimes you feel is not answered but you don't know that it's not answered hasm answers it in another way in a better way better than you thought you down for a million dollars at the end hasm got you a for your daughter that that's better than anything else more than a million dollars whatever you don't know you'll never know but says just means that unfortunately we this week we relate to middle and you start traveling to someplace else you start thinking about something else that's so look at the last line here and say it's unbelievable he says and this is unbelievable this is says this this is not ay somebody from our generation this is an he says when I get to it's unbelievable my head when I get to M my head does this I start bowing I have no idea where I am I'm unconscious my brain is somewhere else but I'm like what just whoa did I just what did I say I have no idea I have no clue but when I get to my body automatically goes like this that means that people just ding from rut they have no idea what they're doing they they're it's a habit and they do the same thing every day you you'll hear people how does y say it in daving every day how's it go he has no idea what he's doing it just comes out every day the same place the same right you talk to somebody middle benching like he has no just continues from whatever he just grabs the place keep that's how it is if you have ad I don't know if it's a not a said a attention you're you're exempt from everything you do all the various a guy told me I'm not I'm not exaggerating a guy told me because I I I spoke to him about he talks a lot during Kadesh he says I have ADD I don't talk during Kadesh I said you do I have ADD and if I did I had no idea was kage I have no idea stop using me as an excuse dude an excuse It's not excuse asking hypthetically if I had ad would I be exemp if you had ad if you had ad and you were in a in a in a in a meeting with the executives from Apple and Sony and whatever and you're trying to push your Schock rock video would you all of a sudden because of add hey what's up or You' be like like this like laser focused okay so if you can do it with the Sony guys you got to do it with Hashem man that's you got okay anyways let's go I don't use don't use add as an excuse hypothetic right I wish I could use that as an excuse for everything I do be good great so one minute there's more they say that there are three things in this world that you lose the flavor of it it loses the gach of it hot Coca-Cola cold CH and without the names these are terrible three Terrible Things yeah so every single day people talkar the people actually talkar well I don't understand the cash so well everybody else here understands the people I hang around yes they talk a lot of we're talking about just the dust ofar meaning like the brings the famous case when you say uh this is this uh family has a fire in their house so you could it could either mean a derogatory thing it could mean a nice thing and you might have meant that not so nice you mean like they're a bunch of partyers they they party all night they constantly they have a they have the fire going they're always barbecuing because they're always you know you look or you could say no I meant something else the the maral was once uh looking out the window with his wife and they saw the the wealthy guy from the community walking by this guy made all his money unfortunately I know a lot of people the people have a lot of money they lend money and they make more money they make they know they lend for for interest so the M didn't like it because you know he's taking advantage of people and doing with interest whatever had to risk not to risk so the guy as he was walking by he went like this to his his jacket and a bunch of dust came out so he told his wife oh you saw that was aak ribus that's the dust of ribus so she told him what you just said is AAR anyway so that's the mar so people are not the real thing but almost so this is I know every time we get there I got to do the same speech I'm sorry and you could all add in like the Israelis they kept on throwing things you could add the gamar says the most of us are over and GLE all the time every day maybe what does that mean it means so I'll throw some examples here in it's very common for people to jump on a bus and not pay the fear they have all sorts of Mo it's called they have all sorts of who cares they don't get the driving anyway the Medina I don't know whatever you the excuses or my big pet peeve they'll take the wagon from the m and leave it in to their house AER you're hurting other people AER you're making them a call spend money to go right do things with there's all sorts of tricks you could do and and get medicine and sell to give it to your friend I don't know what gazel small things like this there's many many things that we could be in this you have to ask your Rabbi the the law here in the country and this could be a different shil of uh but the law is let's say you go to the store and the guy made a mistake on on the sticker the price on the stick he made a mistake so legally he has to he has to honor that price but might be very problematic small things like that could be gzel oh here's a good one eating from the sh's CH when they don't want you to breaking into the kitchen and taking a little bit of CH could be gazel people have excuses this St G little things like that in Yesa they tell you straight out don't do it anyway so the point is nobody nobody that I know would go into somebody's house and rip off $1,000 out of the guy's drawer but they might take in another way but it's the same gazel it's equally the same just says no nobody will take a pruto from somebody else oh but what is somebody else's prut that I don't know that I I could Clare is it really his did hasem really give it to him is just that's a different child okay you all know what I'm talking about okay or going I saw with my own eyes people uh going in the Turn Style into the Mikvah they're going to do a Mitzvah but they're stealing from the Mikvah and they have different excuses they paid already before may they forgot the card at home is the mik that's literally like that or the big one I just said in California ni guy learns and the whole said hey when you buy a product and with intent to give it back it'sa you can't use it no it's not and then then he came to me but a lot of people I know that's you know I did it when I was with my friend you know TV it's a I'm going to buy a TV oh we going to return it can watch Ben man all okay got it great you have no idea what I'm talking about because you guys have TVs at home and was a problem but the anyway we had a guy in our don't ask okay now we're not going to go there but that was legal P the guy he came deliver refrigerator yeah the thing was this big yeah so very few people are over in AR there's a story with I gota get moving here got do some D says he was in a he was in a place and there's money on the table and the the balabas walked out of the room so he also walked out of the room so Bal said why you walking the room he says I don't want to be left alone with the money the guy looked at him he says it says in the that most people are over and very few are over but is so certainly should with money okay everybody's [Music] like the guy the guy was selling farm from door to door he knock on the guy's door so the guy says no no no over here very we don't need you far but you know what the neighbor right over there he he could he could use it everything goes by the Medina in other words so we're talking about this guy this star that's swn okay we're not going to go into it oh I actually have a picture of it this is based off a book that was written on the bar caves I couldn't find the safe It Was Written 70 something didn't have it but the guy this is this is what he said it looked like it's different than what we said and this actually explains why we don't use uh get makush today but it's beautiful how it's sewn up beautifully the top part is sewn up you can see it's very detailed the signatures if you see are in the middle page and basically they're on the back over here we were said that the signatures are over here you see these are the signatures inside that's why we don't use a get M cusher because if the signatur is supposed to be over here and you put them over here then it's pule and this woman is getting married to somebody else and she's a so they passing don't don't use we don't even know how to do it anymore it's very problematic what we how the rashbam describes it and this is based on the is very different than this guy right over here very different it's similar I mean one thing that might be the same of the stitches but not where they put the and therefore you see the and the to the top and the bottom great so says that it's based on the whatever the is so as what's he saying he's arguing he's not arguing if there's a Medina then of course in Chicago they they they use this so use it in they don't they don't so what's the what's the exactly says the in a place that they use a simple that's just open and he told him I want you to do such a get or such a he didn't listen to him he did a a more a more complicated one so you think it's actually better more complicated he's M if the minute was to do a this kind a sewn one he told him do the one and he didn't listen to him he did the less complicated one he's very upset about it he doesn't want it to work so in a place that you can do both some people do like this some people do like that and he told him I want you to do a simple one and but didn't listen to him and he did a better one this place does it either way sometimes it's simple sometimes it's sewn and he said I want you to do a simple one and he went ahead and he did a more complicated one the cyer takes double the amount of money let's say for this look how much work it is you got to sew it you got to find more and this throws us into a tangent in other words means he didn't say I only want this he was giving him an example he told them go make some sort of uh get for me you could do it even simple you want to waste your time and money and do it more complicated good or no maybe sometimes a person is very mockit so gives us two other examples to this where a person tells you something and whether he's being serious exactly like that these are strict instructions or they're approximate you could do whatever you want as long as you get it done we have three men that say the same exact thing in this case that he told him make a simple get and he made a a tight get says it's that's [Music] okay so if imagine this you a woman tells her husband her cin I I went through this a little bit I want this and this diamond now today it's different you know the women they say I want a two carrot they never say give me a half a carrot that never happens but let's say the woman says give me a half a carat diamond and you by mistake you bought her a Two karat diamond is she engaged or not engaged now what's the thing some women don't want to show off they don't like it they they want to low radar like um it reminds me yeah a person who's an actor famous a famous person he can't walk in the street wherever he goes people oh selfie uh could you sign this my baseball cap my shirt Gil told me I'm not going to say who but he just took a famous actor a Hollywood actor just this week from Israel to Germany $4,000 guy doesn't want to go into Ben he goes into the airport he can't make it two feet wherever he goes they're goingon to so it's worth it for him to go on a Plane by himself right you crazy why not because he's a I could understand them this okay also the comfort of this and Gil Gil is flying but there's something about it you can't live these people don't live they can't go to a restaurant without people harassing them right so may this this woman also doesn't want to she's going to wear a ring that you she needs one of her a to hold up her finger you know you know what I'm talking about those people so is she M or not maybe she just told her husband listen don't don't worry about me I'm a simple person but if you want to get me two carot okay I'll do you a favor I'll take it so it could go both ways but says no no K let me ask you a question what if she's dating a guy and the guy says I'm a is and it turns out that he's much more than Israel he's a we love right DAV David when he's going like by he's going to America soon and uh this minion is going to suffer in the morning cuz when he's not here 90% of the time thank you here you can have this one we don't havean we love K are great huh the first yeah the first thing is Jam we're going to have to get so is it is it what if the the guy says you know I lied to you uh after you gets married I lied to you I'm really a I'm not a is engaged or not engaged what do you guys say say not Eng you say not engaged so it says over here I'm just throwing up the rajam you can look inside by yourself he says say smack in the middle a large shoe for my foot I don't want I don't want somebody that's you know up here I want a a normal guy I want so you know some people say hey a if they get divorced they can't remarry there's problems with the also but also like was the bigger that he led her on to be it's also a problem you know now people are going to be knocking the door asking when cash this in the middle of the night I don't want that I want a simple life so he says that that that's not a even Rim would agree that it's not a k if a woman says I want you to get a get in America but he found the husband in middle of and he took the get hle it's not a good thing but she wants to get divorced what's the difference to her where he find where where the guy finds the get it's the same exact get in Chicago so all these things is an idea of is this person being very strict about I want a small ring I want you to accept my my get in Chicago and not in what would be the the the the the logic here what does he care where he accepts it what exactly she's from she doesn't want the whole world to know that she got divorced getting get in Chicago under the radar by the time everybody finds out she's married to somebody else and Isel there such a thing you could you could understand it there's this I'm not going to say I'm not going to say where a woman didn't want to get divorced she was fighting with her husband her husband says that we need to get divorced she says no so she says Okay I want to accept the get but only one place in the hall that we got married in say fine no problem she goes to the hall that they get married and once he walked in there he remembered the and he couldn't divorce n months later they already married and I know the person I know the person but no I don't like this it says in the mishna that if there's a regular that has one witness on it no good what in the world what's the you need a mission for that anybody here in the room knows if there's not you have to have two a how do I know that how do you know that you have to have two says in the close but once you do you're going to get there it's in the it's in the Torah it's in it's in Uncle Lewis it says for everything you need two a one is no good but you're talking like a true Yesa her a lot OFA guys they could they get that from the it says in the to tell us that two on a get like this is no good because this get requires three and if you do two it's no good that's usually two is enough so I think that in this get is also we learned it from you need three in this kind of what is the big that a regular get that has one Aid is no good if you have a combination of one is written inside the get and one is outside just he's uh uh he's saying it Orly no good now if I argue on AB what's going to happen I have a big Kasha my is going to remain what is the in says the is one and one doesn't equal two so the rajam says over here real quickly because we got to move but the is it this one yeah says over here I'll just read it from here explains beautifully when you have two inside there a everybody knows about it everybody finds out about it there's rumors going about the so if you only have one it's no good why then it turns into alone that's done without a and therefore what so if you're with the she a while you're not nervous about these words means movable objects means real estate the say I already paid back was like said so you can't say how come you didn't rip it up okay next so says the but argues and ifar argues he's going to be left with the question why does the M have to say the 18 is no good in the of course eight is no good said that even in the is enough to to get the rumors going by the way I got to tell you uh Benny how many people signed up for the Hebrew through just the local whatsapps over 300 people just because people people are sending whatsapps I don't know where we're holding with the English I know that this s right over here put up a sign in what what's the name of the hospital and people are signing up already ah that goes on to the Hebrew okay we need to get the English speakers just put it on your status aan you put on your status yet I don't use WhatsApp like that I post on my Facebook put on your Facebook put it anywhere done let's go let's get some people to join the D we starting 12 days I don't know how many days 11 days 11 days says a good one good it's great first of all 30 30 30 how much no the entire this is the longest this is 176 175 whatever it is sanedrin is is not as long obviously because it's not the long but it has 30 one month of a got good stories a good story and there a lot a lot of sugus everywhere a lot of stuff so says and what happened to I never heard him when a person says I didn't hear it's like I'm sure like sometimes your wife tells you I didn't hear what you said but you know what she means right she means I don't care what you said she heard heard she heard in other words he I didn't hear means I don't care what you said selective hearing selective hearing oh selective hearing um listen to this I got to read a word for word why did the guy pretend not to hear what his friend said because selective hearing is the key to sound decision making right if you say that one in one eight inside one eight outside two equals good then what is the point of the Mish telling you that is no good turning of The Da is spons by my uncle official a huge thank you to plus all the thank you and D earns of elite Israel realy welcome all the proudly stand with you on your journey to finish and to finishing together says that if you have two a in a get like this it's literally like having one Aid in a regular star one a equals how much zero so two a in this equals zero just like it's zero and I'll prove it to you what does it mean it's first of all she's not divorced you divorce a woman with two a and this guy she's not divorced and if you have AAR that you trying to to get money from somebody you it will work but you only get you could only be from from movable objects not from Real Estate so approximately four months ago we learned in that's how long we learning I think it was like four months ago do the math that asked a question that they weren't happy with it was something like this there's a city and there's a border and there 50 the the Birds Go they can fly 50 but the the the chicks they could only walk 50 I'm sorry the chicks can only walk 50 so you ask a question oh it's 50 what if one when over the line and the other foot was not over the line so they toss him out of the Bas they ask these kind of weird questions AR out so now we continue invit this knowing this question it says over here they asked R they found him somewhere and they asked him here I'll show you also the gar real quickly if you want to know they threw him out so says so now we're going to have uh four possible questions they asked for be we're not sure what they asked but they very similar and his answer is identical every single time so that's why it's easyar it's like almost like kind of so it goes like this they asked him that's our question right now can one witness in the document and one witness not in the document just here he is right in front of us he's saying this is what happened can you combine the two and make them two a so you have to know that inan and basically sometimes we have that that the gar gets us for the next so we're going to have this and that's the question that I asked in the beginning of this year borrow money from m g what's your name again no no saw it on Sunday and you Mor saw on Monday it happened twice can we combine the two of them as a to say that shi owes 100 bucks T they're saying it happened on different days but perhaps no 100 bucks combined between the too you need two a them and each one can only say 100 bucks one on Sunday one on Monday together it's 100 bucks as a it's not 200 two different days that gave you need two a remember it says in the Torah not in the gar it says in the you need two a them for anything right so do we have two two a them on 200 no the most we have is two a them on 100 together they saw two different things together they both admit that he owes you 100 that's the most we can get out of them at least at least not not only at least we use them as so have so it goes like this com that exact case that says forget about it they witnessed something completely different this guy witnessed that you punched him in the face and this guy witnessed that you took 100 bucks you how can you combine two different things one Sunday and Monday it's two different things that's not a question that even you have two witnesses written in AAR or or you have to put the word in or over here or two that are saying it obviously they're not going to combine the over there says that they can't combine on two different witness on two different days they're not combining even if they're in the same star they're in the star they right down we saw that shopi took money from they're writing it down no no so in our case also there's no one is one is doesn't go together explains what the connection is so the question will be who says that these two guys and they are so when if they're both in the document or they just come and testify for us but maybe then the question is what if one is in writing one comes to perhaps they could get together so anyways you see that they had such a question whether or not one Aid in a in a document or one and another Aid testifying could they combine as a perfect of two said something beautiful he says I'm not worthy that's a language of of being it's I'm I'm not worth it why are you asking me but your talid in other words he's referring to himself he's putting himself down he's calling himself a tal they came to ask him a question obviously he's pretty big I'm a but I lean to this side it should be okay an aid in a in a and okay that's one out of the four now we're going to go to three more questions possibly were asked to R me and he he answered the same exact thing we we learned it differently Went to went to we take and put them together and they'll say that this this is what happened now there's another inin not the first one different one the two saw what happened between shapi and at they saw with their own eyes they s they sitting across in the table they saw the 100 bucks going but no went to bzen on Sunday and went to bz on Monday what they witness was the same in the same exact time it's just when did they come to bz so that's another question it's a good it's a good uh good to San will be in another 40 no yeah 40 41 days he said 11 days 41 days and then over there says that's no good you have to testify in the same time can't testify in two separate days so even in one bz if they come on Sunday and Monday no good so certainly in this case where they they testified in two different of course you cannot put them together says that they could testify one on Sunday and Monday two different days that's only because they came to the same could I combine a maybe there's no difference I'm not worthy this is how your student believes I lean to this to say should be good if you go to and the two come together and decide the case the question that they answer is different this is what they asked went to the B together in then they traveled on a bus they went to and they testified in same testimony same everything about chap borrowing 100 bucks from can I grab some of from this some from this put them together now say reverse certainly good if I could combine these two guys who testify in two different days you say it's good you could trust them but according to these who are not good together can I get the best them to come together that's a different question maybe they only said that two witnesses cannot be combined but two have more power they could they're more trustworthy and they're combined hold on let's just finish why would you send me a question I'm nothing but your student myself finally we're just going to say this one our fourth one this is the question and one of the he passed away you heard about this terrible tragedy yesterday in Morocco five people in a car were killed and two of them are brothers and all four of them belong to one family to one grandfather who already lost two children I heard in Miron or two two family members Inon so anyway it's terrible tragedy so there was a there was a and one person passed away so the question is um no do they have to write in their document they say the they have to write we were three but today we're only two one of them one of one of us three is not here anymore do they have to write that I'm noty leans to this way to say you have to write we're three and now we're only down to two says finally after all this or whatever one of these four questions that's why they reinstated me they said you know what you come back to this m I did this again again I have to show you cuz Kobe worked hard on this Wow first of all I did this I didn't show you any of my my sheets today this is Sunday Monday this would have helped a lot and they came on Tuesday and M forgot to show sheets um is that's true um just like one a is posle over there two a in is POS very good one in writing and one b he's testifying that's the's question no we didn't have that question I don't know what that is the two this we just had these two guys went to one B to another bz okay just want to tell you real quickly before we finish how long did it take reia from the time from the day was thrown out to the day they reinstated him how long was it huh anybody know well it depends if he was learning that it was 140 days if he learned in was 140 years and if he learned in the it was one day rabai have a wonderful [Music] day for