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[Music] good [Music] morning sh sh I love this an Israeli bus driver here we [Music] go for [Music] don't take that Michael Yuda de belly just wanted to let you know that in certain Spa communities the average gift that is expected is $5 to $600 a couple if you give anything less the host loses your number rebelli thank you for the team thank you and the team for the wonderful sh would you consider adding this sh to K phone system we're on this there no we are on there so how come what causes problems it's what later comes a few days later why does it come a few days later Gary he says it does you get isn't live but it doesn't maybe the system is not so but it should be there this would open up this year to countless folks that don't have internet or smartphones didn't you listen to on call on the phone Zoom without naming it one of the PLS currently offered does inde inde have a phone system however that phone system does not allow the user to select the by and this call sh our system you could you could select theary he says yes okay so we have to figure out why some people don't see it the benefit of the benefits of this feature are obvious it's likely a massive project but may we it okay M rendler this umaran sent me from status I didn't asking to put the son this is what he did if you are on the ropes about this says Rari join join rebell family for the shabas of a lifetime book your rooms now is by far the best to give your teenage son sing rejoice in entire accomplishments for an entire Shabbat and then M Shabbat is next level last year we danced until 2:30 a.m. which is not an exaggeration till 2:30 and Shabbat ended early it was Unstoppable Sim Toyo and Y from all walks of life and this is a sample of the dancing last last year till 3:30 in the [Music] morning we brought in a Dickman from ER and yes it did not cost more than an American B both this year we have yeah [Music] please give a massive shout out to Yosi dahari this is from Bernard David from Manchester kabura for arranging are you gonna see your father as I read it put on Zoom Gary now you do the zoom so that liby could say hello to his father while I read his email original live she watching in a and specifically arranging the share to take place downstairs ofes so that it would be possible for me to attend the Shar as I finally to climb stairs this shows of's besides is organizing the whole set up tonight thanks to you reell for being our inspiration for going V and out of our comfort zone you're ever grateful first Zoom talmid whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa is the first Zoom talid first okay maybe this is the first time I see this this is z he's being as time goes on I got to put a stop to this I'm not going to let people just take Bernard you the first Zoom t or the first outside that's right that's what I thought not zoom zoom both both now you want listen it's six years later we don't know now you can say whatever you want you ever gr first Zoom for the liby ever heard him call himself this yeah it changes once in yeah Bernard David it's my job to make him a we have to make him in case he wants to go on a special special cruise for the first Zoom down that who knows the leading up we have checked that to get to it and participate in it will cost us from Belgium $3,000 Plus for a couple so it's quite difficult to join that's nothing compared to the tickets that I'm yesterday sent me quotes of $8,000 a person not for business would there be a possibility to make a shabbaton in Europe in the near future best regards Y eisenthal and the rest of the ndy Belgium Group no of course there's a possibility to make a shatone in Europe how about Israel oh very good very good so Y and Ari Ari Rosen Stein Rosen rosener I'll call you Rosen our just cuz our daughters were best friends back then all right Rosenstein is offering to put together the shaton here is going to speak toi and is putting together in Europe boy say what's your what's your email Ari for put the Life share life live share but don't get excited when you see all these things coming in for Life share there just inquiries about the shat it's going to be a beautiful event so what are you gonna do what's your budget let's see here as well I'm not talking to you you're talking to yourself I'm not I got I got one thing on my head I need people to step up to the plate and do it for stepping up to the plate Ari Rosenstein Round of Applause beautiful beautiful shabat here it's going be the same wherever you want thank you very much for your wonderful share every day regards to your comment on da 144 of shabas saf would not have worked only for himself because he was busy working the idea you said is explicit where Left Behind the just a c of some vegetables and he applied himself the into and they leave the wealth for others which implies regretted waiting his life his life on something he didn't need for himself thiser also believed in but I said I'm not going all the way just to to open people's minds a little bit to the other side in page page 77 where he says quote but people who give away the the time that they should be devoting for their own betterment they give that time towards saving for their children then it's 100% waste 100% waste wow because your first job in this world you hear this oh your first job in this world is to make something out of yourself to achieve once again thank you for the most amazing she may be blessed bon bon balloon theed return of all the hostages thank you up husband for the F with from his grateful family for the art for Rebellion the whole MD staff to continue to make for so many when I was a kid my parents made their first alah when I was three years old later on they made another Aliyah when I was 10 years old later on they made another Aliah I was already I think married when I was 3 years old I remember this I remember my father selling everything he sold a car he had a drill the corded drill back then there's no battery the corded that had like this metal piece that came off it's called a Chuck you know you could tighten today it's like by hand tight he sold that also he didn't have the drill garnish nothing he sold every piece of furniture everything he ended up in ER roll and that lasted for three months and he came back to America and he had to start all over he had to buy a drill and and all the furniture and it was it was it was not n so I'm sure meni and you and the some of the other guys here from South Africa might be able to relate to this question is a guy wants to make Aliyah from South Africa you can't bring anything with you they don't allow you to to smuggle anything out you can't transfer any money so what do you do so there's different Asis I guess you got to you got to the right people this guy says okay I'm going to I took whatever I could do I I I swallowed enough diamonds I don't know what they do exactly what do they do bendy what's the trick okay we don't know but he said he tells his neighbor he says you know what Fallen here's the keys to my house here's my car here's my stuff and he goes to AR 3 months later he's back in South Africa he couldn't get his kids into school struggling he thought a lot of people I tell this this is the first thing you have a job no I don't have a job when I get here I'm going to look for a job no no no no no not a good idea K so you saw it's not as p as he thought he's back in South Africa knocks on the guy's door I'm back could I please have my house back gu say are you joking what do you mean sugar I already sold it what do you mean had house back what's the did you make it tonight no you didn't make it n but it's understood everybody that knows everybody has Common Sense knows that he gave you the but he's not your best friend he doesn't owee you he gave you house cuz he has nothing to do with it he thought he's going to be n had he known that he's going to be back in 3 months there's no way he would give you his house his car everything everything no what's the anybody want to take a stab at it excellent that's the word I'm looking for what's the next word so that's a little bit of today's when we get there the the poisin pasin believe it or not that it gets his house back gets his house back he gets his money back everything so we're holding six lines from the bottom of nothing you get it right back I only gave it on one condition without saying the condition we know the condition if we know why you do something let's say the G's case is and we had this case already a person found out that his son was killed overseas and he's about to die and he's no one to give his Zha to so he gives it to his neighbor then his son shows up if he gets his stuff back because he was told that his son died it's the same idea really slightly different because he's dying so maybe dying makes a difference we're holding a little bit of explaining this POS we started explaining yesterday another all the days of a poor person are terrible they're bad what does it mean it could be anybody it could be the wealthiest person I know some of the wealthiest people to live in Chicago for many many years some of the wealthiest people are some of the most miserable people and maybe for this reason one of the guys I I knew got married I don't know how many times four or five times it's it's it's hard could have all the money in the world if you don't have shom means nothing bad wife so his entire life all his days are bad a guy that's always happy like he's drunk one a person who has a good wife I could relate to this a little bit I have a little bit of a IST in me little bit different noises the rappers bother me so you're you're on you're on what wind breathing fingers on the chalkboard silly people that sit next to me and do funny things I'm iness so you don't live uh you know everything bothers you sensories sensory things you know the clothing people have this stuff so that's a person that's he's always he's always upset you see people walking around screaming at people so you should know that something is bothering you don't understand that certain things the way you look bothers they go crazy nothing bothers him you could spit in his food he eats it nothing bothers him a guy that has so much compassion his life is no good he's constantly working and helping others a guy that couldn't care less about somebody else he's always excited sociopath a little bit a person who's easy to get mad he has a terrible he's stingy I was just talking to somebody I said Is it true about you that back in the day you used to take a shower and your whole family would take showers and you would plug the bathtub catch the water and then use that water for the toilet he says yeah yeah but but explain to me the logic behind it so I knew if I ask him this question he'll have answer if I ask you what does it cost to flush a toilet anybody here know he knew on the spot flush I for your time I didn't I didn't get into it so for 10at you're going to go to the bathtub fill up a pot drip your way all the way to the toilet half of it ends up on the floor how much time like your time is not worth He says I grew up since then but theart you should just know there are people like that in different place that's how they do it to me that's a stingy he's he's everything he's constantly thinking oh it's another another I got to turn off the air conditioner I got to do this I got when you live large okay it's another 10 I'm not saying if people don't have the money say there I'm just certain things like wow crazy ask not another a question how could you say that a poor person's his entire life every single today is terrible even a poor person sits back has a stickle meat he gets maybe a package from people give him he or saves up for shabas shabas is different says the I think all of us could relate to this what happens after where's basically where they hang out you ate too much you upset your stomach so even on chabas you're it's bad it's bad news I'm telling you I'm slow it took me 50 years to realize that it's not the CH it's not I'm serious it's the bread for me it's the Kal well I it took me all these years I used to cut out the CH cut out the this but I took out the everything is smooth sailing I can eat all the CH nothing so for me everybody check it out I'm saying maybe don't wait until you're 50 some was sensitive to Kal I told you this I thought I was sensitive to to to cheese so I don't eat pizza it's not the cheese it's the it's the dough it could be also the cheese it could be I'm lactose in tal too but it's the dough anyway just thought i' cheer that it's very important [Music] here the famous gim says that hak always had his mind on Chavis he'd buy a nice fish on on Sunday he find a nicer one he wouldd eat the first one the second one so says because he didn't want to have a stomach ache and we all do this why do we eat meat the whole week because we don't have stomach ache on chabas we're preparing P for shabas that's why we have barbecues on Sunday that's why steaks on Tuesday you know we're P we eat we're doing we're doing AEM a favor because we don't we want to be healthy that's what he says that till you don't want to have a you didn't want to just eat bread bread bread bread and then shabas meat that'll kill his stomach so he ate he ate the whole week he's eating fish and meat okay one other thing is does anybody know how to say yish a very poor person or how do you say a really big or anybody if I say you Canna say oh yeah yeah a you never heard this a but g means healthy so what is healthy so over here from this means he's so healthy that he doesn't even eat meat on chavas he just eats bread bread bread seven seven days a week so he never gets a stomach ache so he's a Gaz he's so poor that he's Gaz he's healthy okay whatever now we had this a number of times wasn't so yet we quote from Ben sometimes because he has some stuff actually used it says all the days of a poor person are bad says you know what it's not only the days it's also the nights you think that he sleeps in a bed and he's all comfy no why he lives on the bottom today it's raining as I came here was Mish raining first time well not really the first time I think last the first time was like a month and a half ago but then the Israelis they did something so that it shouldn't rain so that the you know Gaza they have they have machines don't worry about it they know they know what they're doing so this is what happens if you live on the bottom of the hill so all the rooftops they they collect the rain and basically you're on the bottom you get it all and if you have a few holes in the roof which the on has it's not very good so this is a picture I found just a very very steep hill and his Vineyard he was able to purchase the top row so he said you know what take it there's nothing going on over there it's all eroded so what does he do he goes and he and he he drags nice soil up there so he could plant not realizing or realizing but he has no choice that when it rains it's going to eroded again here we have a nice picture erosion of of his thing it's or if you want to see the reverse you could take that place and make it mamish here check this out this is not what the gamar means with the pool it's not such an an place it's in it's in a terrible place called [Music] Lords the best one you see on top it's the best able look at those Graves ah you can see this so at the shabat we're having wine from this place I have no idea what it's called I don't know if it's kosher but it's from there AR's that's AR's deal you speak to Ari about that from now on Ari cheaper than koser we'll get it you have you have connections over there in Los Angeles ar ar flying in wine for the Israeli shabbaton I'm I'm serious we we didn't have time to discuss this but I there's this cheap cruise here in you go 3 4 days to Greece it costs like uh I don't know5 $600 for three days man we should Ari speak to the crews get to tell them you'll guarantee them 200 people we put our meat our H this that it's all kosher everything on the on the ship is kosher just it's not I don't know if everybody's going to eat that heer it's a great idea I'm just throwing out ideas for you you take it and run with it I'll be there you do it I'll come up with the 500 bucks for myself what the Cru no no no no no the cruise is going to be the cruise you take the whole ship not Israeli Cruise take Carnival this used to be a Carnival ship until like 15 years ago and they whatever probably a three star though it doesn't matter it's better than making in the dining rooma that we did last time says the Mish so we send gifts to the kala and that's the only time we send gifts to the kala we send gifts there's two types of gifts there's the usable ones I don't know what a good word is depletable ones usable finishable ones ones that you drink like wine you drink uh flowers not disposable disposable means perishable perishable might be a good word but consumable might be better the kit are there are gifts that are not intended to last very long okay fruit your fruit platter buy a bag of tomatoes whatever each each with the Ed Edibles Edibles usables it could be shampoo could be different things a meat platter from ibf yeah from the other one whatever it's called he sent a tremendous amount of of gifts we saw like when we when we're doing um what was it uh right Gary remember so that whole if I if I lend you something and I I don't know that and then you ask me for a cup of water as I'm lending it so then you have to know the you come in with $100,000 worth of gifts and you sit down and you eat a little meal by the by the sh by the future that's a you lose all your gifts by sitting down you have to know that it's a good thing you came today like this you can protect yourself there's uh I said this last night and there was they said yeah um that that chabas you know that Dreadful chabas that you go to the to the for the very first time that uncomfortable shabas they you have to meet all the brother-in-law sister shabas exactly that's I said it so sh for a number of Reason like if you open your mouth you say too many things all a sudden you find yourself no sh anymore you know so that chabas if you sit down and you eat then this type of gift the perishables you lose forever so dinner even if you eat a small amount like a dinner in a nigin like we had yesterday I'll show to you later but if you remember it says that the they come in the minimum they they eat for a dinner and they they they give a dinner the calls it a dinner same thing so you guys know about the shabas G okay salant says that this world is a very very expensive hotel we're here it's very expensive you could eat one bite of a of a of a I don't know what of a watermelon and you lose your your entire oil it's very very expensive super expensive I said this gave me a big trauma I was in a kosher hotel in Switzerland many years ago it's not around anymore so I guess I could say it I hope and uh one of the people that was working there he asked me if I could Lan there a small small I said I I don't I I know how to Lan but I have a terrible memory I have to sit down and prepare for hours to there's nobody else here look look do it do it B I sat down after the Su down preparing preparing midnight he shows up he says you know you look like you're thirsty take take a bottle of water so I drink the water schmack everything I leave the hotel it says bottle of water 12 bucks Friday night 1200 a.m. he charged me for that gift that he gave me that hotel still exists no it doesn't does I hope not but anyway so This World hotel very very expensive you sit down you have a suda you do one a not just eating any AA you can wipe out your whole your whole ganen you come to the sudo you think you're Gra you ate a little CH there that's it finished all your I'll show you a picture soon of unbelievable amount of gifts goes five so where's the picture we're going to get to there in a second when the mentions so you cannot take your gifts back if you didn't eat the then you can go and collect the money back you collect collect the gifts back all the flowers the the the chocolates all that stuff the perishables so over here the key word is if you have a pencil you put in over here it doesn't mean many which it does but that's not the point the point is that he specified he made a t with her I want you to bring whatever is left over to our house where we're going to live together bring it over there so that means he has the right to to take it back from her if they break up the and of course yeah everything is's talking about the is broken here if it's few gifts meaning he said use it wherever you want I don't care it's not that much that I have to worry about use it enjoy it in your father's house before we get married D he cannot come back and collect dinner is only because he ate a full dinner amount a whole this Mish if he went to the's house and he's smart he ate a piece of G filter fish instead of a bowl of CH so no I didn't realize this Gary's telling me we give CH here on chabas after after daving and uh Thursday nights we the Israelis they buy CH here it cost 15 shek a bowl I didn't know that CH it's a 15 she you should just know so if anybody wants to I'll tell you a story I looked at the story a little differently tell me what you think you can look at it two ways I think there's three three guys that were stuck right before shabas in a certain city and they had nowhere to go nowhere to sleep nowhere to go and they they they found the guy in the street they said can we stay by in shabas he said sure but it's going to cost you I charge a lot of money for shabas i c close to a thousand sheel a person shabas sugar they have no choice it's five minutes before okay what are you going to do so yeah you know they're they're all upset but but the guy had a nice spread very very nice wines so even though they're not big drinkers they got to get the Thousand sheele worth so they drank and drink and they ate more than they needed to eat they ate shabas they came and they they came to pay and he says no no no no I don't take money for shabas shabas is free you said a th000 sh no I want you to enjoy I know that if I bring out a nice wine you're not going to drink I wanted you to to fres idea work so I don't know to me it's like it's a great story and everything but the whole the whole Shas they're feeling comfortable so what's the no somebody asks you if they can come that should be your answer bucks I just told you I don't I don't like the story so much it works for other people maybe wow that'll be that'll be yeah I'm sure so says it's only if he paid the full amount says what kind of is it says din says in the Mish it must be a full dinner the simple answer maybe the M was just quoting the typical price and now I'll show you the gamar that we had yesterday here the groomsmen they would bring to they bring one in but they ate it in their stomach so that's the normal it's the normal but if you do less than that you're not the I got to show you you're not the gifts this is uh back in the day Yoshi did this it's a this is a real picture of my porch on sukus not this year last year they they did it says even a thousand shum over there oh it's two years ago then how much we're up to 17 yeah it's two years ago ah maybe the sign was from two years ago okay so anyway here's what he did he gave her and then he gives her this is a little bit reverse oh no no this isar they're only engaged and he gives her gifts obviously you give gifts things that you think that she would want like a Mana is also good a is even better but he's a brisker so he gives AER anyway this is this so some of this some of the stuff is perishable like the srig some of it is not the silver that that doesn't count so says the does this apply also if a guy sits down and has a with he doesn't have a CH he has he has a drink does he also forgive all the gifts he gave to his and I forgot to mention what's the what's the behind forgiving when you sit there you have a big so you release it huh because you're having a big it's not say you realize it's not what about another thing it says he himself showed up himself what if he sent a messenger interesting question in the's dining room what the sent himit sandwich is that enough perhaps bring this is some of the greatest stories on this da so this guy here we have an unbelievable picture let's read it first and see the picture a person sent what did he send his is is this guy puts all of us to shame he sent his sh's house in other words 100 wagons full of stuff these are perishables wine and oil gold and silver and clothing here we go here it is check this out it's unbelievable look it goes all the way down there this by the way is on the 38 if you go on 38 you see this you see The Vineyards you see all that that I'm not joking it's that curvy street the one lane you know what I'm talking about right behind the 375 not the 30 375 yeah you're right never go there because every single time you go there you will be stuck behind the dump truck going on a job and it spins slowly and you cannot you can't I do don't ever do it don't ever seriously a few times we had some close calls you have to be a driver from New York whatever you know what I'm talking about it is why you always get stuck behind the truck 10 miles an hour all the way to and you can't cut him off and they don't they don't pull over to the side they pull over the side excited this guy he came to's house look what I brought a 100 wagons they bring out here we even have a picture they brought out a hot cup of wine I think it was laced with something and he drank it V and he dies on this fat maybe a day later I he dies he's all excited they give him this m like you know love un coming out wow look at all this stuff the best idea is just get rid of him let's get rid we'll start all over tomorrow you got to be careful you could have a bad dream afterwards like you make fun of light's daughters and who knows what they didn't poison it just seems like it anything perishable that's it the doesn't get it back so over here on his on these wagons you have both you have the gold and the silver that's not perishable you have these barrels of wine these are perishable so the perishable came out of this whole for you no this I'm saying how did this guy die why is he macking all the stuff because he ate but he didn't eat he didn't have ch what did he have a half cup of wine see you see been drinking he didn't have a full cup worth of dinner he had a little cup of wine how much is a cup of wine who told you how much that cup of wine is worth who said maybe maybe they took a very expensive pearl or something and they used to do that they used to grind it into the wine and uh and give it to you so uh just this morning on the way here shik vas from he's the one that put together shallots one of the best restaurants ever today he's not there anymore so it's a little different um he owns Romanian that's true but there was something like this but not this this is a joke but in his restaurant he showed me had a bottle it cost like I don't know $1,000 he just sent me the picture of it that literally has pieces of gold in it this bottle believe it or not cost 4050 shek that's it but this has gold if you look closely those are pieces of gold floating around the AR out there the thing if they drink gold so here we have something I didn't see this yet but hold on where is it [Music] here and he's taking fresh pear these are saltwater pearls okay and I guess he's going to grind these [Music] up okay so so he's saying you take one of pearl powder you can eat it right on your finger or traditionally China now you know why they have the China virus it's from these things okay so you make okay you take that you put in your tea it's that's you grind it down you put it into the drink so now the drink is worth a full dinner because it has gold in it it has a MAG so you cannot prove that has to be that even less than a dinner you could also understand from here that look where is the was he inside the's dining room no where was he was outside on a horse so you see even if you send the food he's so says the obvious answer for that it's not a right's a driveway on the horse there's no difference in the dining room and the driveway I'm talking about what if what if the sh sends to another city a sandwich are you then maybe not if it's in the driveway he's this is also a super interesting question for me at least because the said a second ago it has to be a full dinner if it's less than a dinner there's no now the says okay there's no on the entire amount let's say the whole amount was $100,000 if he ate less than a dinner there's no M on $100,000 but what if he ate a half a dinner maybe there's a m on $50,000 relative to what he ate okay not that full amount but maybe a she shall will be a third a half what if the gold the bracelet you gave to kala the diamond you gave her went up in value it could go up in value right it goes up every hour every minute it goes up it's a fluctuating Market give it to her on Sunday a week later doubles in price who gets the profet what's the question if you could see the diamond it's there who who gets the diamond the gets it back because it's not perishable it's considered that it went up in value in his possession you look at a different right now it's by the if it got lost or stolen she would have to pay for it he gives her watermelon as a as a gift here I am I'm with my gift a beautiful thing of flowers and they're still nice and and and they broke the an hour later could he take back the flowers like we said before they said that if it's something perishable doesn't get it back and if it's perishable you can take it back it means even if it's still in existence you can take it back talking about when they were they're gone so you can't you can't collect that it says if you give a little bit of gift and you made a condition that she could use it in her father's house masma even if it's still around over here we don't want to say the answer said before we're talking about the Caps or today we can understand exactly what this means I thought this was funny I I just found this I share with you here a haet the AR says it's a heet how much does a hernet cost 100 of them for $188 shipping 426 I thought that's interesting the actual heret 100 of them 188 so it's about 2 cents of pop but the shipping that's a different story this is one of the most interesting stories write this down you're going to love this there a person who sent his new wine and new oil and new clothing and that is the end of the story unbelievable what just happened there so there new wine so it's possible so until he was able to make Winer that's very very cool my nephew yud was an IM he told me the shabas that IM one of the over there he takes all the B to make wine in him right your brother works there no what's his name danal Galia so yeah of a therapist so they take the B and they make wine they have inh therapist so they make wine make wine three months later and they check it and they check the the I don't know the acidity you know all that and then three months later they went to drink it this is the most awful thing he's ever had in his life imagine B sitting in quing him working hard and going and checking okay well over here is not like that you can make wine super quick up to it's already good great is says hey I sent you a bunch of new wine and they're going to say no you didn't you sent it to there is no wine by no there is you can find wine ready made all the way was this is really unbelievable story I'm not kidding they told him you know your wife is like she has Corona she can't smell anything and uh it's a terrible thing terrible thing to the point where the is they can divorce you your wife if she can't smell well divorce her without by the way I have to say tremendous here last night he was still in the baritz till very late and his son is Bar Mitzvah what's his name again Alisha Alisha and he's here he's here doesn't miss a day since I met him like three months ago it's a joke two and a half years straight doesn't miss a date I met him three months ago that that is true six months I don't know bought him a remon was eating soup with his wife on Friday night and he tells his wife wow this is salty she tastes it she said no it's not he says seriously she tastes it again he says I I can't now what happened was she thought she had Corona cuz she made the soup she poured in but she couldn't taste the salt so she kept on pouring the salt in it turns out that a was just messing with her she didn't have Corona the so was fine he just kept on saying and she is getting nervous she has Corona and kid there a so but people tell you people tell you yeah great you people tell you that the wife can't smell well yeah cuz smell and taste they're one and the same if you put your finger if you close your nose and you bite into an onion it tastes like a an apple check it out I did it once so he wanted to check out what what if she could smell or not now so say I smell a radish he put a radish in his pocket and he want to see if she could smell it she could pick up the smell this AA where this uh this girl had a very hard time in and they checked into it and they they found out that all the guys they said that she smells like an onion so the father didn't know what to do so he went to the sh he says listen if you give me give $10,000 $10,000 says okay thinks thingss puts oh I got this B who a tonus a tiron I don't know what they call it in Z he can't smell it's a perfect they got married and everything was galic and one day the Met how do you like says one he says one every time I go within her doas I start crying I don't know why but I start crying this a sh why why is it that you could divorce a wife if she can't smell it's not one of the M of a a who can't smell he's not a BAL so how come a woman who can't smell so they say maybe a woman is different because she that's her job she cooks and she can't smell she'll ruin all the food I don't know the kids are they go into it ARL he says you smell the radish onay so she played a game on him she's basically says people used to eat radish together with dates today in their they eat dates together with like Walnut you know you mix the the salty or the not so sweet with the sweet then then also so she said you think I I don't what you have in your pocket I I should have a little uh date so it's hard to understand the sugya but the story is a crazy story once again it brings up like I'm a little paranoid here because the other story we had the guy gives a lot of gifts what happens he drinks some wine he drops that over here he goes to check out if she could smell what happened they were in some ruins and all so happened to be the ceiling fell down and killed her a Crusher on the spot so amazing says not agree with him according to the since he thought about divorcing her once you think about divorcing her you're not entitled to her inheritance you don't have to wait until divorce just thinking about divorcing the tour the V they they pass in that it's divorce it's you have to just you because you thought about something doesn't but we have to understand over here I mean at the end of the day didn't she pass the test with flying colors she played a game with him so maybe he wasn't sure we have to understand Shad over here why is it that he loses the she does smell it seems like she does she's able to smell if he sent her gifts and he made a condition that she could use it right away three cases she dies he dies or he broke the these are gifts that don't are not perishable and therefore the gold comes back the diamonds come back we discussed it yesterday it happens all the time people say hey I want my diamond back but if it's perishables it doesn't come back however she took it back then she has to return even vegetables what would happen here in if you came back to the store with a bag of rotten apples and he said here I want to I want to return can I have my money back what would happen here so hold on they call the basement and they yeah there's no such thing I saw with my own eyes in Costco guy came with rotten fruit and they gave him a full refund so I looked it up actually serious go on Google it's uh Sam's Club the same thing where is this here this can you return spoiled fruit most stores are happy to replace or refund the price of the item I just thought as I was walking to B marriage today thought it makes a lot of sense you you you give them a refund for $4 for the rotten fruit but now they're in Costco you know what happens when they're in Costco but I used to exactly they they had a a a tire place biggest scam in the world their tires are $100 cheaper than any other place you go there they say I'll be ready in the hour so what are you going to do for the hour they have your car you can't even sit down so you go inside and you just you buy up things you don't never wanted and they make a killing on you on that unbelievable thing what many years ago we bought Pizza it's 804 but okay well listen yeah go ahead yeah yeah we playing the owner the piz drove back to our house to see if piz was burn say burn all the to our house I'm sure you bought more pizza by that guy afterwards of course the guy's a genius in business in Chicago we call it a pizza Nazi that's how it is of Yeshua if nobody heard him he said he once complained that the pizza was burned so the owner drove to the house instead of sending another Pizza drove to the house check the pizza he said no this is not burnt now if you have to if she returns the the fruit the vegetables she gets a discount she gets a third of she gets onethird less she doesn't have to pay the full amount says so I gave this to Yoshi he did I didn't ask him to do this he just did it I gave him like I during while I was learning I wrote this down real quickly and I said make a chart out of this let's see you so he made a chart and like me kind of to show like what what it came from it was this okay so basically my idea was that you put a line on the top and a line on the bottom and the middle one is is a healthy healthy guy so that's the top is a guy that's that's Mish on his death but he's dying is somebody that's sick he thinks he's not going to make it so the is in the middle so look what he did I thought is great this guy M look how healthy he is he's really really healthy in a gift you have to make a Kenyon you can't give a gift without a keny make a Kenyon but the giver can never take it back look at the bottom with the and everything he's dying it's without a Kon but if he's if he wakes up if he comes back to life he gets everything back something in between here if he gives part of his not all of it not he gives 95% of what he has then you make a Kenyon and if he gives 100% of what he has like the guy going to South Africa from South Africa he could take it back because it's if he left himself a little bit why did he leave himself something because he's not convinced he's going to die if he's not convinced he's going to die so why is he giving a gift to somebody therefore if he becomes if he heals he can't get anything back but if he does not leave himself anything so he's convinced he's going to die and he doesn't die then if he becomes healthy he gets it back um let's should we let's just do two minutes here I know it's late we started five minutes late who's the T that says that he doesn't put in you guys can come in and sit down it doesn't say thear oh I put a little car I left the car we are assuming things who who says he could assume this case that a son went got terrible news that his son died so therefore he didn't put a he didn't say anything but that everybody understands that's why he gave away stuff to a random person and then his son shows up why is it a good gift because he didn't say specific his gift is not a know you have to assume that this is what he meant and that's our Miss also we assume that's what he meant have a wonderful day