Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 138 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning [Music] R last night we had the of having uh RAB Leer's son-in-law is he was here for the English year as well first time ever so the a was like triple the the sound because he's here he's before the shear telling everybody how it has to be done so it's all about one guy leading it so I'm not even no I always say a little bit of a update on the shabbaton so here's the here's the one for AI kamansi in honor in honor of AI schneer naan kamanski LP we appreciate your business and friendship Anonymous you know what it is is already ah you do know it's not Anonymous anymore and the home stone over there on the bronze that's rski so that's the name of his place home in stone beyond the wildest expectations we out of 440 rooms we only have 150 remaining available which I think is very very good for at this point where we're a weekend so it's very very nice barem go your room go some recharging of the batteries the whole thing it's going to be unbelievable this is M bman at Niagara doing the da oh we got with us ril ril is a pilot that's time for uh private jets and here he is it's calleda Mala right over here dear belly I first of all wanted to express my deepest for all the work and effort you put into the incredible home of toy has really made a huge difference in my life so far I really enjoy the T the guys in the atmosphere and to continue learning together for many more years to come I'm often called up to shim he's called up to shim and I wanted to share with you the good news I found out last week that they learned T in that they oh they learned your Torah in yes and I even took a picture here it is here he is in the cockpit with the she this picture was taken last Sunday where I had the most unexpected flight I got to got scheduled to fly to Deon Hungary thinking nothing of it as it turns out four from guys from as showed up for the flight and told me they rented the jet in order to go to ch's Cav and D for 30 minutes in out once I heard this I decided to join them rather than go to the hotel for The 8 Hour mandatory rest I was scheduled for so what minute they were also going to wait for8 hours 30 minutes of diving 7 and half hours of of of messing around over there and then coming back so even if you rent the jet you can't even go for 30 minutes for the crew unless you get another crew in there and then okay does he also fly helicopters no you're already planning you're already planning and nice nice how did go it's great are you getting used to it is it going faster it's getting not faster but I'm getting used to it good last night I was going to have someone leave some straw some hay on your desk what's this for hey what hasem added to ab's [Laughter] name well why didn't you show up last night I was waiting for you he I don't want to scold you in public say you know you know how it works every said we have to always celebrate every opportunity you said but not on the account of Torah Torah comes first I think the Jewish you've done the D enough with me to know you go to the B afterwards you go before the hey the this you know these are important things for cl okay listen next time I don't want you to slip like that in fact I even got the C was not observed look at this say got the the captain who's a non-observant Israeli to come with us here he is the captain and oh I had a big shil on this it's a good thing Gill is here because yday he came with us we all went to the Mikvah and the K to go Davin the captain also no the captain went to the Mikvah wow he loved the Mikvah that's odd where amongst other things I D for you he ding for me at the Cav and continue and uh ding for you and the continued success of MD as a token of my appreciation it's great to have a real pilot in this year oh we got Michael three of us with propellers he's a real experienced propeller I'm not jet galic okay cool um Renard you of mentioned that is like a ferris wheel and there's no need to start with bras and try to cram years worth of learning into a relatively short time in order to catch up to the world see you said that if you start for example years later is when you make your with the upside that no one realizes that you're learning thei and you can get so much more covered I said that when you make your own like you made your own c one day was separate than all was your own usually when you do with all same was a month later no no you came over was was making oh okay no no no okay my mistake had idea for those who joined in the last in the last while and then get inspired to learn additional D to shorten the time it would take finish as still won't help them to be invited on the cruise many people pick BR as their additional da and then burn out when they realize they won't catch up my is that after you learn the that day's da if you want to learn more learn the that's right before the that you joined meaning if you joined for Basra and want to shorten the Gap don't start bras rather learn which would be easier to finish because you know when you finish it you already did the next R oh rabai you keep your mouth shut now I'm asking you yes listen because I know that you're about to jump yeah you're right you know what I mean in a nice way rebell respectfully not all from American agree that Trump will be better for clly Isel hate crimes began to rise at the onset of the Trump era many believe that this rhetoric made it more acceptable to openly hate and this hate as it has many times in our history made its way to Jews yes there's a very loud minority in the de Democratic party that has become increasingly more anti-semitic more anti-semitic but they are a minority and many of us don't believe that the current Administration including Harris is associated with that Trend okay regardless of that Trump won fear and square and American people spoke and many American yids have spoken as a proud American Patriot Jew I respect the results of the election and I hope Trump 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they're going to kick him out of the country blah blah blah five years anyways dedicated the day that he's he's doing three years straight I did five years straight and it's all because of shami who got to join the she that's how it works and Speedy return of all the Hostages renewed the lock family l in Jersey because to is the bestul I found out that that nice Tesla I showed yesterday with all them it said mdy mdy on the license plate and all the stickers you know whose carard that is Pressman [Music] re we have three of them from his grateful family for and by the one and only G Miller for May in England which was a tremendous success and to Makey many and the Coffee corner the week y broke she had a large liver issue she was two years she's two years old she should a so we are holding all the way in the bottom three lines from the bottom listen this somebody decides he wants to give his stuff to someone else $1 million I don't want your $10 million too bad so the understands for this moment we're going to explain okay I know everybody's going to have questions in one second we're going to explain K too bad he he's the proud new owner of all these new belongings even if he's standing there and screaming what's a good example of somebody who wants to give his friend a piece of real estate and that friend doesn't want the real estate don't want it I don't want it he screams I don't want it I don't want it why would a person not want a piece of real estate the bad neighborhood okay it's in a great neighborhood it's in a great neighborhood it's in Middle Manhattan huh his income bracket goes up in the his income bracket goes up what by owning a piece of real estate nah that doesn't so the one answer could be that if let's say somebody owes $10 million but he doesn't ow own any real estate and then comes what's he's he doesn't he doesn't own any he doesn't owe any money because so what do you do if somebody owes you money and Sh comes you go and you make apprisal but approval only works if that person owns a piece of real estate so what do you do you try to get him to get a piece of real estate say yeah take this apartment it's good for you it's good for you he's like what do you think I'm stupid give it to me after then we'll talk right now I don't want an apartment because if I get an apartment I'm going to owe $10 million so that could be a way but anyway whatever it is the guy does not like gifts okay gifts are not good by the way here here's a question if you know the answer to this raise your hand don't scream it out if you know anything about this don't scream it out because you can ruin it who's the author of the famous saying you hate gifts you'll live who's the author anybody you know time out time out time out you know I might pick on you you sure you know okay who said it correct a lot of people think it's a g very good so there's a I don't want a gift gifts are no good so says no if you scream you don't you can't for for somebody to acquire something so the goes to explain it immediately at all when a guy screams and screams I don't want it don't even give it to me there's no way in the world I'll take it so he doesn't get it there's no sh you don't get it when a person is quiet in the beginning says here I have a beautiful piece of property for you here take it he gives it to him he gives him the documents here take it you don't say anything you're quiet still and then five minutes later you realize whoa what a mistake he fooled me he just gave me a piece of real estate now I owe him $10 million and then he starts screaming it's too late I have a question for the if I want to give you a gift I say here take this box of cash here there's a million dollars in here I want to give you the gift and you say no no no no no I don't want the gift who owns this box of cash the original guy if he doesn't want to take it so he take it back everybody agree with reps he doesn't say he he says take it so let's see what the says says over there once I give it to you then I release it from myself from from my domain I give it to you now you don't want it so now it goes in in a middle ground and anybody could go ahead and grab it es escrow like an escrow no escrow you can't take it this is like anybody could go pick up the ownerless ownerless the opposite the opposite of ESC they going to be a bunch of things that today is the opposite what you thought you thought you go to bar mitah today you learned you don't there's a a mea new mea the he was in Europe and there was somewhat of a debate there was a meeting between the reform and the Orthodox and the reformed Rabbi said told the Orthodox president president of Orthodox synagogue says stand up so the guy stands up he says do you keep shabas so the guy starts um I have a lot of kids and he says I ask you a question answer yes or no do you keep shabas you show me shabas say like I said I struggle sometimes I have a I have a whole family just answer the question yes or no this ISS no okay I arrest my case sit down so ra was there and he says could I say a few words yeah he tells the that Rabbi the reformed Rabbi who asked asked the question he says stand up so the rabbi stands up he says are you shabas he says no look the Orthodox president is not even I'm notas he says okay sit down said if you think that the two answers are the same you made a mistake the first guy was embarrassed he was fetching he tried to get out of it after three times he said okay shabas the rabbi he was no problem not this guy he wants to do chuva he's going to be very soon and everything this guy I don't know about say if you how you say it and when you say it when you say right away no so it's no if you start and then that's something else that's different and as we say it we come into say walks in ah I'm sure he's working hard last night on Saturday night when all the offices in the lay are open and this whatever doesn't matter what so we're gonna see this is the there is no somewhere else the what oh I got to show you this first of all we're talking about so right so this is the the um we have a little video of here of why sometimes people don't like gifts here you all know about Amazon and porch pirates in America here in our drol it's not so common because Amazon is not so common or people don't steal off the porch but over here there's no porches he's trying to get a Matana for himself what was that little explosion he's a son Matas now this is a real Matana ra Bo say [Laughter] Matana there's another TI in the Matana this is Matana if you get this for your wife she won't she won't appreciate it never ask she'll never ask you here this is Matas for a wife try to get one of these especially a from from wife it works you know on those shows they push that button of the left should helps you get in the so this is it what happened per standing over here he's sitting over here he's watching this whole thing I go to to said you see this beautiful es we're going to keep it till next year I want you to be this for rep that's it that's what happened no no no now what does he do if he screams that's one thing if he doesn't scream it's another thing that's where the says it's not about me and you the whole gamar until that was like here take this take this and you don't say anything n so let's see the gamar says it's another person and he's standing right there he's sitting there now that is a little different than the famous thing that we always say here what do we always say you could be for something not in front of him but he's standing in front of you so what is this called This is called Z you make the k for him he's there you make it for him I write everything to par and one of the things in there is a slave says I don't want your slave why don't why doesn't he want a slave says because it's expensive there's a upkeep you have to feed the guy Insurance everything I need a bed for I don't it's a nice thing to have but I don't want it too bad if a the slave of a eats truma since the second dude is a so this this slave that I forced him to take is his the is gonna explain everything as soon as theis says I don't want the slave so who gets the slave my now that's a little bit different than what we said before before I showed you theb that says that if I give somebody something and he doesn't want it it becomes he not escrow the opposite of escro and you could take it over here says no it stays Remains by The Giver we asked the question how does it make any sense if a guy stands and screams he says I don't want it you you could force a slave into his he doesn't want a slave he's anti-s slaves what are you going to force a slave so explains or explains when a person screams all the way in the beginning so this this this makes a Sader to the here it is RAB here's the synopsis of the Su when a person says I don't want it he doesn't get it when a person is quiet for a moment he does get it so where's when he screams immediately I don't want it he doesn't take you can't force him to to acquire something sh if he was quiet for a moment so during that moment that he was quiet he acquired it and then afterwards he SC 100% he's the whole is in this case I give in that case quiet when he was quiet and then he scream only when there's a third person involved then there if it's one on one there's no if he's quiet in the beginning he got it if he wasn't quiet he doesn't get it if he involve a third person over here then it becomes why says why was he quiet for one second for 10 seconds that's it he acquired it then all a he started screaming too late all of a sudden he made the calculation that it's not good for him his wife is going to be upset that he brought home a slave he start screaming too bad he accepted it accepted it says no the end of the story explains why he was quiet in the beginning the reason why he didn't scream it took him five minutes because he said to himself what purpose is there for me to scream he has it I don't want to make a of myself it's say I'm start screaming he's holding when he tries to deliver it to me then then I'm going to make a fuss hold on if you want if you're getting to a second guy to give you the third guy and the third guy's quiet it could just be because the third guy thinks it's the king innoc and C because he never made the second guy so he's thinking what's this have to do yeah but that's not is you don't have to make a guy or if it's something good everybody wants a million dollars so if he's doing it for you and you're watching it and you didn't say anything automatically becomes you don't have to know the you have to go to Yesa to know this stuff you have to do that mean everybody should know these alas ignorance of the law is not a is not a defense so but there's another there's another logic here the reason why he doesn't want to just scream scream stop to scream he doesn't scream that I'm get it him I'm for him I get it correct he's saying I don't want to it's not too late he's saying there there's a reason why he didn't scream as long as there's a reason why he didn't scream let's say he couldn't scream CU he he can't talk he has something in his mouth he's eating it does help was no you have to have the ability to scream and he's saying that that ability doesn't occur when you're sitting in front of him and he doesn't have yet he thinks you st hacking and the reason why didn't what point is it and sticks in it's an embarrassment to stop scream give you the there a famous we have a lot of and they're like a big part of the sh guys so there's a famous where it's known that carers if you ever go to Kin they scream during ding that's their minut so one one Carin guy comes to somebody else's show some re he starts screaming so the re calls him outside says can I speak to you for a second yeah they go outside and the re starts screaming at him what are you doing I don't understand you the guy says why are you screaming at me you could talk nicely he says that's my point you could dive nicely hasem hears you so K said no no no I'm not screaming that hem should hear me of course Hashem hears me I'm trying to invoke passion within myself I'm trying to be myself that's why I scream says Ah okay so that's the famous that's thata but there's a uh a continuation Shapiro because this is the art side Shapiro he once at a sh and he he walked out of there and he says you know they just came up with this new thing called ice cream and it says on the uh it says on on the side of this ice cream place it says cold ice cream the heck of the rabbi he says that's what I felt in the show a bunch of cold I don't know if they were lit Fox whatever but a bunch a cold people with a rabbi there anyway just thought screaming daving okay but there's a g thing I say this all the time there's a m but it's to say once in a while there was a there was one of these countries that they changed the border and the Border they moved it over and now the the cemetery was outside of the border so anytime they wanted to bury somebody they had to cross the border so they cross the border and one of the guys in the in the procession over there in the in the in the L he realizes that because it's a laa they're they're kind of lenient they let you go so he said oh you know let me let me schle a bottle of booze I'll bring it over the Border I'll make some money so he brings it over and nobody said anything and then the next Lev he starts packing in next to the mace he puts in you know five 10 bottles over there and they let it through and then this genius he says you know why do I need a dead person and put five battles I'm just going to take a coffin fill it up all with liquor and just roll it right through bring 10 friends and we'll roll through so that's what he does he rolls it through and as they're getting through the guy says stop stop stop open up the the coffin he says no no no it's all against our religion we can't it's it's not coming a ma open up the coffin right now K so they open up the coffin they find the boo he okay all you guys we have to put you in jail so the guy starts crying he says had you been crying as you're walking through the Border I would have thought it's a funeral you wen't crying you guys are Jolly hacking around you didn't act like a funeral that's why I call you now the cry is too late and they say sometimes you D in first you cry first then you can be saved from R to the other side R to the other side scream right away that's other that's huh right yeah yeah yeah it's bad for him because said he outstanding loan and he what he talk that still work or not why not saying we don't yeah but we don't I don't know that we check every case individually and this and that otherwise it would be up creek I'm saying in the general case we have certain things that we say no like uh the get the this you know different things we said no but in general cause a pun happens to be a problem for you I don't think it's a I think planing a guy is dying he doesn't leave anything over for himself he says I want to give this friend 200 and within the same sentence he says I want to give 300 to the other guy I want to give 400 to the other guy if he was a healthy guy this wouldn't work this wouldn't be an issue because a healthy guy gives each person individual presence here a gift to so and so here's a he's dying he has you know it's his last breath this guy two three four all in one sentence soar says just because he said this guy 200 first and and the last guy said 400 doesn't mean that the guy that has that got 200 has a better position over there they're all equal in their position so if somebody comes to claim to take money out of the state they all have to pay equally so let's do the calculation here there's 200 plus 300 that's 500 plus 400 is 900 so I I just and this is one of my favorite riddles I've said this a bunch of times so if you remember the answer please don't answer it give somebody a chance but it's there's 10 piles of books and each pile has 10 books and each book weighs one pound okay again there's 10 piles as you see 1 through three through 10 and each pile has 10 books and each book weighs one pound but there's one pile that each book weighs two pounds and you can't see it from looking at it now you have a scale behind and whatever you put on the scale it tells you how much it weighs you could weigh once one time you can weigh on the scale and you can figure out which of the 10 piles is the bad pile that has books that weigh 2B what is the answer how do you weigh it you only have one time can't keep on take you a book one book from pile two and one book from pile three and then put it on the doesn't work like you have to one time so this is the question that my brother-in-law asked me as he's fearing me he took me out my brother Freeman was the when I was we were together in the mirror he says okay you thinking about marrying my sister I have to we have to go out for dinner you he ask me this question and not before not after I could gave me the answer like in a millisecond I never heard the real I told him that he's like wow okay yeah you're serious tried to do that afterwards didn't work ever that was just no what's the answer not that you heard this before no what's the answer tell everybody what's the answer one from the first two from the second three from right very good so very very simple answer pretend the the Riddle's only on three piles one two and three so you do is you take one book from pile one two books from pile two and three books from pile three if they all weighed one pound you'd have how many pounds six PB but if you have seven pounds on the scale that means it came from pile number one if you have eight pounds on the scale that means that the books came the the odd books are from pile two if you have n pounds that means you have okay so that's how yeah let's how you do it one from pile one two from pile two three from pile three four from pile four nine from pile 9 Etc and then you can figure out just to do a simple math you'll know which pile came from why is that NE here cuz maybe it's not but it says over here like this let's say the first guy received 200 from this dying man the third the second guy got 300 the fourth guy the third guy got 400 total of 900 2 + 3 + 4 nine so says the gar if let's say the guy that's dying O's not n z so you take two Z from the guy that got 200 you take three Z from the guy that got 300 and four Z from the guy that got 400 in other words it's all relative to the amount that you received and the amount that's owed that's how much you pay sorry don't say oh the guy that got 200 so he locks it in and then afterwards he said okay plany gets 300 so that guy locks it in and we take all the money from the last last guy each individual has to pay relatively to how much he receiv but it changes sticks in the word after whoever is first in line he received the first and therefore the guy that received the last he has to pay everything let me ask you a question if I give you $200 $400 and I I have a loan I owe somebody money do you have to pay my loan it's cash the answer is no so what's going on over here says can't be cash it must be talking about real estate he gave 400 worth of real estate 300 worth of real estate or he gave cash it's in a big pile but the people never received it okay another point that the r says even though the last guy got the most money and it would seem from the from that that he loves the last guy the most why did you give the other friend 200 and the last guy 400 nevertheless the last guy is stuck with the bill in this case when he said now what if this the last guy that's 400 cannot pay the loan because the loan is 500 then you take another 100 from the from the second guy to got 300 and if the loan is 800 and the last two guys got 300 and 400 it's only 700 is not enough for them to pay the loan then you go to the one right before you got it it's like seven lines from the bottom a guy this is an interesting We Know by the way what's your name what's the first name Nathan Natan Fisher from mon we love Monro keep on going keep on getting them one by one one by one don't tell me you work in B&H you got the word Nan from B&H n we know what NS is here I know L supposed say nson ah I got it okay so you know that PO and sat they have a lot to do right listen Po and sat are related in in not really because is a and he's the he's guy running the whole Shabbat the charity everything CEO anyway so says the G oh it's very interesting when a person says something a person repeats himself could you like infer from his words is a person like a mishna the M says actual word why is the actual word every word is is me so we infer because said like this and like that what if a human being says stuff that he shouldn't be saying he says extra can we infer from him so that's here that's we had it in the beginning of now we have it again you'll all remember the the case I'll show you in the oh yeah yeah yeah that what a father says to the son I want you to have 200 Z these words are extra because gets extra extra whether you like it or not so why does he say can we infer from his extra words says he gets double he gets his double portion plus he gets an extra gift of 200 I want you to take this 200 as your nothing extra so he doesn't get the plus 200 but he gets to choose the better of the two you could take the 200 if that's more than the what let me ask you a questiona let's see if anybody remembers can you give a less than Hisar portion as ausha as I want to give thear you know what instead of you getting extra portion here take half of extra portion can you do that why not it's a you cannot change around the portion the portion stays salad as the you want to change it as a gift that's something else so now we're going to have three cases that are very very similar besides the but they're all the same case a guy who's dying says give 200 to my wife how much isba typically 200 and he says give 200 to my wife so now he just added in addition to theba he had another 200 she gets those 200 she also gets the he didn't say he just said if he just said the side if if she's asazi she takes that little extra tells if she's and there's $500,000 in that like a lot of do go with theba trust me how much 52,000 there's a lot of money in there turning the bich family and by Glenn esterson dedicated to G Jacob Israel thank you for bringing the D Into My Life Third storyy give him 200 and he added the words the takes the 200 plus he takes the money that was owed on the loan what's my question who said that who else is asking the question rivus I don't know what the answer is well the answer is wi big he's not here today the M Rivers he's not paying off the loan the guy is dying he wants to pay the loan plus he wants to give his friend the gift well you're not give a friend the gift a parting gift because nobody really discusses it so I'm assuming that that's theat thear does discuss in a second we are going to discuss what what's the problem what problem is guy owes somebody money and he's dying so he says listen pay him off plus give him 200 is that rivus it wasn't uh announced before the loan that I'm going to pay back x amount plus that as he pays back the loan he gives him a gift now typically it's a little bit problematic but in this case for some reason it's not such a problem what it's for sure not that's why said it's not C right right if you're giving it has nothing to do with the original person no no you you owe money you a person Ru ow shim money all to give someone else something allow no no it's not somebody else don't don't confus time out case Ru ow shim $200 and as he's dying he says pay back shim $200 plus give him $200 Rivas or not Rivas says over not Riv now what because oh sorry but if he said I want this extra $200 to be for the loan then he doesn't get the double he only gets that why because let's say if if he gave him more than his loan then it would be ribus now the is talking about ribb the first time it's not ribus because the guy said an extra word that's why he deserves more than the actual debt the debt was 200 now he gets 400 cuz he said extra word maybe what he meant is what he what what he's deserving in the loan and that's only 200 not 400 the answer is says the Hun he calls him Huna not raun because they were very good friends everybody has to remember rman was the greatest T that had and Runa was the greatest Tal that Rad but they were great friends we saw the other so like two days ago that he said go ask my father your father-in-law what do you pass don't they good friends so he says H told me told me this goes according to they even want a simple human being not a t a simple human being add some funny words like we understand what he means we have to start inferring what he means I'm going to show you the picture you're going to know exactly what I'm talking about remember this picture oh how can you not know this a guy sold a house and he told him the size of the house it's like this and it's like that and if the house has let's say a swimming pool or it has a well inside the inside the house that has a well we said I'll just do this real quickly so you see then the guy keeps for himself the pool why because he didn't sell it he sold him a house the problem is he doesn't have a pathway to get to the pool so he has to use a drone he has to use a diving board whatever he has to do to get in in and out of the pool or this is better let me just show you this he sold him a bar or a do a do means it's a well that has bricks a sister now it's in the house it's not included in the sale of the house I'm selling you a house it does not include a bar so just to remind you of this a guy sells somebody a well inside somebody else's house according to the according he sold him the right of way he does have a passage [Music] way no huh no no don't come just walk walking but are he has the right away okay why that's the famous I don't want to go through the whole thing here but is like counterintuitive according TOA a person sells he's very generous when he sells so when he sells he sells away his whole right of passage he keeps himself the pool he keeps himself a sistern but he doesn't have a passage fine that's not the point that is the point actually a person usually gives away away the the the the the pathway he's generous person he's not generous fine says the will just say that if he adds one word then agrees that he's not generous then he keeps them the pathway why because he added one word so you see the extra words that people say he must buy off the the guy that bought the house from him he has to buy the right of way to get to this pool otherwise he has to jump off a diving board he doesn't have to that if he said the extra words why would a person add two words now you would say the reason why he said I'm selling you the house besides the sistern besides the well he just wants to you know make sure that that's how it goes no no no no don't say extra words Wells are not included why are you saying besides the well oh you say besides the well because you want to tell him that you want the pathway also oh so I'm from your extra words then the pathway is included since he didn't have to say those words and he said them anyway he was adding something he was adding the pathway so also when a guy owes money and he says pay him back why do you have to say what kind of words are those oh he's like a Tana those words come to say give him double give him this plus whatever I owe him guy that's dying says that guy owes me money that guy owes me a million dollars here's the question could two witnesses WR a star that they heard a guy dying say so ows me money what a owes me a million dollars never pay me back 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down unless you know 100% it's right therefore it's so powerful this document that you could collect a million dollars without bringing any proof because that is your proof If there's two witnesses written down it that means that it actually happened and now we have the same exact thing but in Reverse secondo we said says you do write over here it's is the one that says you don't write before say you don't write and now it's the whole point is that we're concerned that bz are going to make a mistake they don't know the that we don't trust other B they're going to say oh you could trust another says so remember this is the one that says we are not concerned about a which makes a mistake says we are concerned you don't do a unless knows for a fact that this is the this is the Y there's a there's a real sh cha in AER that says what if a person commits suicide does he have to do no does his wife have to do so the the answer is obviously yes he writes no you don't have to why because it says says says um says is in do you remove your your shirt the shoes she said she says you don't do so so this is very important what's those of you who are new to the shear let's just show you what me is real quickly you have a mother brother and a small young girl and a father and the father goes bye-bye so now the brother or the mother marry off this youngster to now she since it's only the the father has the right to marry off but not the brother so therefore if she just says then she just says those words in front of the bed then poof it's not a it's not a marriage anymore okay the whole if you do let's say a brother decided to marry off his 10-year-old sister could she just say and they said no you can't do B and the sh is did accept that Min or not and I forgot one of the says what do you mean accept the Min it hardly ever happened happened once or twice to accept a minut you have to do something over and over and over oh accept it okay sh when does she have to say she do 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