Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 13 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good [Music] morning staff learning [Music] beautiful kuss at 4:30 a.m. he gets up get out of bed 500 a.m. the 6:00 a.m. do the Dell at MD 7: a.m. bike forai training message him if you want to train together 4050 mile ride 2 three 2,000 feet of elevation in the M area stingy there's a meeting last week in Stanford Hill with 21 from local meeting with shim Rosell to get a d from him the topic of learning trauma came up and they asked him how do we fight against learning trauma so he said have you heard of Ellie stansky they all said yes and a few of them are members of the shear shim Russell told them that's how you cure learning trauma told to me firstand by shim Russel himself my two cents for everyone who wants to know when you'll be starting to give classes on and your you can confidently tell them they give such a class every morning at 7:10 a.m. Israel time Lastly lastly I not been coming to the multi for a while this is for you guys over here you three been busy putting the kids to bed but I made it in the last couple weeks I can safely say that it's worth coming to the sh just to be part of the opening niggan with great appreciation as [Music] always we got crazy huh which glasses which one M what Straight Ahead okay um here somebody wrote in Hebrew from Budapest like that one uh Niagara ah beer thanks for being at the manchest C I learned from a cousin that he's buried there oh this we're going to see in a second okay we're jumping right in the sponsor of the save and speed return of all the hostages grandson and yes we have to remember for for that little kid he fell down he hit his head brought to the hospital they said he could go home he went home and now he's in serious serious condition par my great grandfather on his yard today thanks to being at the mattress to see him I remember this CU I was there with him he somebody told him like during the S hey by the way your grandparents are buried here he had no idea I learned from a cousin that he's buried there and had this to down C the next morning thank you mdy Mark the first word on the all those of you who were scared Let You Down The Long Long D here we are but don't get used to it we will fall fall behind again but we'll catch up again says what do you do here's the [Music] problem there's a river on on the top and then there's the the water reservoir on the side on the left side and you have a field beha two brothers let's say what do you do who gets what if ruen gets the top part he gets it's unfair he gets the entire River plus half of the nager if you split it this way so again ruven gets everything he gets the whole nager and half of the N I guess each one has some sort of benefit the the Nar never runs out the nagar May might be closer you see there's not even any grass between whatever why should ruin always gain or shim always gain so what you need to do is you divide it like a pizza ruin gets one piece of the noar one piece of the Nal one piece of nothing one piece of nothing and shim also gets equal now over here it just seems like they're being babies about it because I don't know how practical it is to have a pizza shaped field but now they have equal it's better it's better that you shouldn't have and I shouldn't have that you should have and I don't have okay there's a nice this the guy who does these nice cartoons you know I don't know I don't always get it but here a guy is's trying to to divide the pizza with his friend and he says it's not fair you get all the you're getting all the mushrooms and all the olives so let's let's Le let's hold on one second you can't you can't interrupt the middle of a cartoon and then the guy says Okay so let's divide it this way no I I want the little bit of the mushrooms you're getting all the mushrooms and I get only half so you know what they came up with unbelievable ah I have a great idea let's divide it like a pizza I thought it was pretty good okay Bo say here we are what was your question but you're not going to ask me questions in the middle of cartoons again right one one per day no no no one per your life you don't ask questions in the middle of a cartoon okay fine yeah what was the question yeah you want to have the the next the field next to you yeah and here we splitting it up it's the opposite no no no that's Barra means you own it beforehand this is part of Thea that's different you're saying it's impractical to plow such I said that that's what I said that has nothing to do but has not to do with a person remind oh there L and I forgot the guy's name there a guy that's doing all the work maybe Mark could give you the name in Middle he's he's donating the whole thing he's doing in his house he's pushing people huh Aron arov it sounds familiar I hope that's him um even iron H even iron HS is going to be there b is that him you're the one doing the SE in Lakewood it's never too late we're holding gim and we're doing a why not somebody has to do it go for stepping up to the plate track there a person let's say this is a track yeah you have a beautiful giant room what are you going to do split it in half if you split in half you ruin it it has to have a Shem track it has to have a Shem sod whatever you're dividing in half you have to leave the name and the and the function functionality of it what do you do if you don't have enough for each one it's not a good Olive press for for two people it's good for I me it's good for two people not good for each one individually this really hit me hard when I was learning it not hit me but this is very NE to me personally there's a concept buy and sell in in all over the world I don't know how you say it here in Hebrew I actually called up a lawyer it wasn't 100% sure in bz it's called G how do they call it on the regular Hebrew he wasn't so short BMI it's real that's real BMI what that means is by Me by you so basically you could tell the other guy offer a price and either buy or I buy from you or I could offer a price and uh but if you're the one that wants to do the deal you're the one you force him he doesn't want to divide he doesn't want to split it so you tell him hey you you say a price name a price and either I buy from you I give you cash and it becomes mine or you give me cash and it becomes yours for me personally I don't know if maybe somebody somebody out there listening some lawyer because I just called up M bsky about this my most successful property that I have I have a partner who doesn't like to sell doesn't like to refinance doesn't want to do anything this is what he does that's his she he's already I don't know 80s he owns 60 70 properties mortgage free he's a billionaire and he doesn't want to sell he doesn't want to refinance I'm younger I'm not a billionaire not a millionaire I need I want my money out of this property he says no just sit there so we're partners for almost 20 years garnished we're 50/50 and unfortunately I don't have a buy sell in the contract so I'm stuck kind of stuck he he doesn't want to buy me he doesn't want to buy me he doesn't want to buy me he doesn't want me to buy him he want it a a is that's how he likes it go go ask cashes that's doing huh I said listen if somebody can come up with a solution believe NE I'll give a half a million dollars to mdy on the spot at least bring a petition to partition a petition to partition and you get rid of this guy I'll handle it K take him to court it'll take 10 years and I can't even ding that something bad should happen to me it'll take a week yeah not be alive by the end yeah that was worth it have a wonderful [Music] day yes okay no matching next year R says I could force now this is great according to R you don't need it in the contract if I want out I can force you I can say listen you name a price either I accept it or you give it to me now you have to be very careful with these things because if you name a very low price I'll take it if you name too high of a price then whatever okay so you got you have to know how to do it this A what you to know what's the real price she give the real price okay but then you're not going to again you have to know if you're you could go like this guy I know he never wants to sell anything so I know that he you know if there was a force something like that I could give him very high what right right in this in this Cas right thear says in this case of but we'll see we'll see it's not so true it's not true saying no we're going to see soon two two slaves two two let's see but that's basically you can't force somebody to buyself say something interesting but they learn in rash like I'm saying I think I hope okay great you say there's no such thing said what if a father leaves over inheritance and what does that mean so if the father leaves over K animal it's very simple you the animal the gets two portions and the gets one but what if the father leaves over a horse what are you going to do you can't you can't kill it so T says why is why do just say Two Brothers Two Brothers Two simple Brothers why and two brothers they inherited a a horse how do you divide it you should say good or good what difference does it make that the guy's a so explains because the guy's a he gets two portions and the other guy gets one two is a lot better than one it's unfair why is a lot better because you could do many more things with two you go further distances you could do different things that the other brother will never be able to do it it reminds me of I have to say even though we said it last month to say it again Kar K that in a way it just reminded me something going to say 12 + 12 does not equal 24a didn't go in to say hello to his wife ra because it would be a break it would be 12 + 12 24 is a big number in other words 24 in one piece is something that 12+ 12 can achieve so if this guy has Sunday and then he gets the animal again on Wednesday because this guy get it's Monday and Tuesday it's not the same thing as two days but they're not consecutive and when when you only have two days one day here one day here it's not the same as two days in a row so what do I do maybe this good I could force you I say hey either you buy the horse off of me or I buy the horse off of you you name a PR you name the [Music] price doesn't really answer that much of but basically saying listen there's no choice this is the way we're going to do it we're going to divide it in this way that you get a day and I get two days end of the story it's not but there's no good very famous you have a slave a that was bought by two Jews let's say and one of the gives his share up he he releases the slave so now what is the slave the slave is a half a slave and he's a half a Jew because once he's released he's like a regular he already has the whole thing's a yid half of his body so to speak is a yid half of his body is a slave so what he do he he works for himself in other words he doesn't have to work for anybody for one day and he works for the master the other day very good so now you helped the leftover Master he gets his day but you didn't help him why he's stuck we even have a little bit of a picture here's a slave yeah he becomes a he becomes has the beard the whole thing so he cannot marry the sh and he can't can't marry the the just anybody that didn't see what's going on here if you're not familiar she has two phones one is kosher one is not Kosher a guy said a guy said to me he's like I've been watching you sh for three years I finally understood that picture I was amaz like everybody they're wearing it it's like the uh the Bluetooth device it holds your phone in place that thing okay huh the what in place the sh yeah sure okay bought what so you shouldn't get married big of the world is I created this world that should be uninhabited created this world that should be people here he's this he's theah he can't get married if he gets married let's he gets married to half of him is is he's now the says we say is the is saying I'm giving you the Mitzvah of but even without the Mitzvah thear himself will cause that my world will be populated he must release the slave the other his half he must release and the slave owes him that half he'll have to pay him back one day says they agree with them but it seems that only because of the slave becomes free what about the concept of again good or Y good buy or sell I'm a slave I need to get married so I go over to the the master said listen I'm buying my sheare off I'll owe you money I'm out can I force a sale here we're talking about good good I can force I don't like this real estate partner I can force myself out of it you name a price name a price master I'm out say David is going to say it why not he he's half free on his on his on his other part I want to buy myself out because I'm stuck what the Ben part is going to tell his the master guy he's half free get me out of this what's the real answer to this very simple sh good that's not fair it's not a good it only works one way it's only the slave could talk to the master the master cannot buy the slave share it's too late he's already a Jew he can't buy a Jew asani once he's free he's free he'll never beani on that part again ever so you're asking why can't the slave go to the master and say hey good good means it could go both directions each one each partner can tell the other partner interesting there a at what age could this demand to be free on the one hand it could Bez that's when he's but could he say I want get married at 13 you I want to wait wait a few years wait till you're 20 so some say yeah it's at 13 you know why cuz the only reason you're allowed to push off marriage from 13 and on till 20 say is because you have a head because you want to learn but he's not learning he's a EV he's not learning anyway so he's the MIT right now today on 13 or no you can push it off fine time I thought it was interesting um as you know because the is very short we're going to have to do this big over here RAB why the could be at 13 what you mean that's what I'm saying 18 to get married because he's supposed to learn before him but he's not learning so this MIT 13 anyway I want to show you a few very interesting questions here in tysus question number one is how could the gamar force the master to release the slave he's being when you release a slave you're says T because he has a it's a Mitzvah to get married and we could force him another question ask [Music] huh it's good thing your wife doesn't listen like my wife whether she listens or not but she finds out all the good stuff now as says let him sell his half he's a Jew he's half Jew half na let his Jewish half sell his one day he he works for himself Sunday Tuesday Thursday whatever let him sell that half as EV and according to is so can Mar [Music] a so he says no it's awesome for him fine so then he says let him marry this I think is a simple one I think everybody will get this let him marry somebody that's in the same predicament as him he find a woman who's a half a slave half what I'm sure there's a out there that does just for that so what's the answer what's the true L the answer it's impossible because your half that's Jewish is going to be marrying the half that's this it doesn't work like that and finally T asks how come he doesn't marry Zer Zer is M to this uh this guy should marrier so says no we don't want to increase okay just thought that's the whole ties basically you just did the big tses next says again so the question is could I force a buy and sell so here we have a similar situation when one person doesn't have enough cash to buy he can only sell is there a good ug good here interesting have two brothers one is wealthy one is not and the father left over some sort of business maybe or just a nice gaka bath house uh Olive press if the father was earning money off of it so it's very simple you just continue the business and they split the prophets 50/50 if he's a get two3 third whatever it is now just want to point we could turn remind me to tell you the little over here if it doesn't earn money it's a private bath house so the guy says listen bring your own slaves there let them heat it up let them take care of it let them even enjoy it but we're not selling this I want this in the family this means a lot to me okay so what do you see you see that there's no good why can't a poor brother tell his brother buy me out buy my what do you mean use it when you could use it bring some slaves here buy me out I demand that you buy me out as a side not says it doesn't mean that the father who cares what the father did if there's an inheritance of a bath house and the father didn't never earned money off of it why can't the two brothers decide we're going to earn money off it why can't the poor brother say let's rent it out so T says a son doesn't refer to the father renting it out son just means it's available for rent it's something that's rentable sometimes you have something that's not rentable it's in bad condition people don't want to go there whatever it is the wrong wrong location Assan means it's available for rental and therefore it's very simple it's 5050 we divide the but if it's such a that I can't rent it out not that the father I we can't rent it out so now what do we do the the wealthy brother tells the the the poor brother too bad on you use it whenever you want to use it but we're not selling why not good are y goodi says thear no good the the poor brother cannot offer to buy it so it's only a one-way deal we have to look at every situation as is the gar says in this situation the poor brother can't afford it turning of the D respons by Life share the First crowdfunding Community where families are protected before a tragic death so is only when there is the ability sides to do it as the Ron the Ron the ability interesting I hello you're sitting in the wrong seat you want to sit over here and talk like that besid her the I know of a uh a couple got divorced and the they went to bin and the husband told the ban that he tried really hard to sell the apartment and he can't sell it there he has one guy that's willing to buy it for like a fraction of what it cost in the market and that's the only offer he nobody wants to do this so the wife's family was very shrewd they said ah really okay great we're offering 10,000 shekele above and the bz gave it gave her the the apartment for the the crazy priz I don't know what happened I'm just assuming that he was doing some sort of shtick like he was getting money behind so they hopped onto it and they said okay it's good good or Y good you know you have that we'll Lo okay so that's your price great you locked it in in front of BZ that's the price and we're offering 10,000 and from the 10,000 we we get five anyway you know it's a like we had in the mishna also the BR says that anything that you divide and the name remains the functionality of it Remains What is this word mean these words you could do good or good so what's the problem because we had two sheas before now we're attacking says now we're attacking that was says you don't do good over here says that if you could divide it if you you can divide it great and if you cannot divide it you could do something called which translates to good you could force a buy sell a bomi what is it called me taking a serious a serious thing what best they came up with bumbi okay but I'm saying the B okay whatever it's just finally four lines down in fact beautiful thing happened there let's say we have a that's seven wide in order to divide a four four we even said eight and eight okay let's just say it's four and four over here we have seven how am I going to divide seven three and a half is not enough you need four I need four but I'm desperate to divide the I need it for whatever reason I need it so I tell you you know what you take your four I'll take three is that okay why not this I'll take three three I'm being the other guy takes four is beautiful no you can't do this simple case you take four I take three my why would he say that and the is gonna say I'll give you a good reason why not but right now the is saying we're missing a few words here that's the case you take four I take three great but says if you have a situation with his seven so what do I do it's where you have something that's not divisable so I you take the whole seven and give me pay me the rest or we'll flip I'll do it no you cannot force good like say says exactly like you learned it what you take four I take three so why in the world say that doesn't work what do you want me to do you're take I'm taking three you're taking four and what about me I only got three I'm missing one armor what are we going to do with that armor two options either you pay me but I don't feel like paying you I don't have the money for that or it's a gift I'm giving you four amas and I take three I'm giving you a gift what's the problem with that I don't want a gift I don't like gifts and I don't want to get a gift here we have a little bit of a picture okay I told him if it blew up would be a little funnier there's a little bomb in there okay fine what's in today I saw for the first time like interesting that like okay interesting says that why do we come to this why give us and all that what's the famous concept doesn't want us to feel bad that he's just giving us gifts or nothing ah but you're taking gifts you're you're you're a gift taker so gift AK her then this whole doesn't work okay the and what hold so this is very interesting you get four I get three I don't say it works but why is it work it's it's a gift I don't want to get I don't want a gift can't you T I don't want a gift oh so here's oh the guy that takes three he's not giving the other guy a gift he's giving himself a gift he wants it the guy's taking three he's the one forcing this deal and he came up with the solution you take more I'll take less I want out I want my own peace I don't want to share with you so it's not for he's not giving the other guy he's giving himself so anytime you give yourself according to that's not a that's not a mat that we have to be worried about and some want to take this a little further what about a guy that collects money goes from door to door is he is he over so they say no why not huh but it's still a gift he's getting gifts from people shekele here five shekele there 100 God gives him $1,000 it's not a gift it's not a gift what is it huh person Oh So based on this when it's good for you even though it's a gift for the other guy we don't view it as a gift so as we just learned these two three of the guy giving the has a greater benefit than the guy receiving the saving his life he's from and all the things that we learn so there's no problem what yeah I don't know I was thinking about it now and I don't know if it fits here but he's causing himself to give it's a little different you're not making somebody else give you yourself G tells what does r say again good good I could force you to buy and sell if you remember just the other day we had the beautiful I love that line yeah what does it mean so T says rash says talking about the wealthy people are going to be on the bottom the poor people be on the top says it could also refer to for instance say is the tal of and sitting above why because gave his once he didn't listen to a woman that was screaming and crying he said you can't you have to whatever the p over there is I don't remember where is it th anyway so here the says I just remember saying that rud the of he always quotes why is pretending that he came up with this concept called it's his rebi he heard it from his rebi right so it makes the question a little bit easier to understand when it comes to you cannot you can't cut the here let's say you have something like this you can't cut this in half you take the I take why it's a a for the to start cutting it this would be okay what we said that you cannot divide a means you can't cut Braes off of you take Braes I take that's a b but to say that you take to and I take Nim that's fine now what's longer the Tyra or Nim has more words than T what's more expensive would be more expensive I don't know if it has more words should be less requests so might be even more expensive I'm saying in terms of words in terms of time to write it the would take longer to write take longer to write what yeah it goes by words it goes by words per hour I'm just throwing it out let's if in fact that the is longer than T which I think it is so n would be more expensive a and then ask the gar isn't this good or good says good is the one that says good what how do you do how do you do with how much theary cost today $50,000 if you're American it's $100,000 you come to the cipher for Torah $100,000 send your Israeli friend so let's say $50,000 how much do Nim cost just throw it out there $60,000 so one brother gets the toy the other brother gets the Nim says do it's not fair I got a $60,000 value you got a $50,000 Val El the brother that got the toyra has to pay the other brother the difference the N sorry the Nim guy has to pay the T 5000 whatever it is the difference so you see holds good good even with two there shouldn't be a you shouldn't be able to divide it if there's no good there is good according to good so why does say this as if he made it up himself his own re talks about it Shon he says it's talking about both brothers agreed it's not a force by and sell they both agreed and the question is could I divide a from like in this picture could I take a scissor and just cut it right down the middle and he says you could but it's not talking about a force it's talking about the disagreement first of all pass could force to by what about who said that you can't I never heard of this what are you talking about which you talking about in other words of course I heard of just I don't agree with him that is not like it what so you have Rob who's Robin's father who's R's father so we have two brothers and they were they got in [Music] two one was a great cook was a great now one of the brothers wanted that that that guy should take one and he should take the other and they'll split the difference what's that called you can't force one brother to take one and you pay the difference so you see that no good say they both wanted both good means that there's a difference in cash you take both I take the cash or I'll take both and you I'll pay you we both want both but if one gets one and one gets the other that's not good in fact if one brother would get both and there would be cash involved that would be good but that's not what happened here that's not what they wanted so that's not good take out but okay we said it wait a minute what about when it comes to they both want it you see there is good in such a situation where both need it both want it oh before I forget to tell you I have to tell you this I thought it's a great M I'm I'm talking about like 20 probably 27 28 years ago I remember buying his cassettes in may they had this store on the second floor you could buy the Torah tapes remember the Torah tapes I bought all his tapes it was like Mish these white cassettes and each one was a shek or whatever it was today it's like you get it all for free one WhatsApp goes the had go climb up the thing and wait in line huh you have to go wait they have to wait like literally six minutes until it rewinds remember those tapes these kids today don't even know what we're talking about it's in the museum so anyway so he says he was he was uh teaching some kids that were trouble kids troubled kids and in one of the classes one of the kids got really upset he went to this Farm case and he threw all the on the floor everything on the floor and he's sitting there and he's thinking to himself has like I need to do something like I I I should really punish this kid it's crazy so what would you do if you're the think think for a second if you're shim shim Russ what would he do right now what he do the kid took all thear in front of everybody and knocked him to the ground no just thinking cutting the like that he takes all the kids and he he says listen what happened is actually my fault it's because I never taught you how important it is not to be safer and because such a terrible terrible thing happened I have to fast I'm fasting a whole day reie no this that I have to fast the all day and he fasted the whole day and uh the kids were going crazy no we'll do this or that and of of course nine months later this kid became in charge no seriously he says this kid became in charge of all the and this he never did it again I thought was cute okay to think outside of the box in could you make a take the put them all together in one in in one in one uh scroll in one like we have today not in a book according to chat it's double no double double it doesn't know it doesn't know there's no way it's double em that's what it says that's crazy more than double more than double really it says it says the Torah is 79,000 words ah you know why cuz we don't buy all the we we probably only what we read Ah that's why okay that makes more sense okay this the pris say you don't put them all in one because people going to think that everything is a they're going to call this the T it's not this is this no you can't put and together they're gonna think that it's all no each one is each one is different he did all eight here we even have a picture of the all all the you're right he put all eight in one place based on not true like we have today each one this is yes this is okay is just by the way not including is on the left I'm saying the number is here oh it doesn't even include doesn't includ wow I wonder if this it would be funny if he really knows I guess he does together we said it's okay check this out between B and Sh you need to have four lines that says that we get what's get get means 12 right giml plus Tess is 12 because it's called a safer cus a safer that cuts between there four and each saer between and there four lines between four lines a total of 12 Lines no no no first of all you do the only only 12 there's no 12 there's no four lines after no no no it's four oh that but doesn't count doesn't count huh where who says [Music] okay but there's four lines you have to put four lines there but they don't count in terms of the get cros no no no no this is true there's four lines over here just in terms of this shot of doesn't count huh it's a anyways we got to just finish they're coming in for shakas what ah ah here I did that not Yoshi I threw that in cuz he did something else I don't know yeah you're right okay you're not supposed to read the T part you're supposed to just there the other mistakes there I did look here you want to see this here it's the same thing okay don't be I was hoping nobody's gonna look see you guys the glass is [Music] looking you need four lines here you see between yesh and four lines here here this this is I think correct cuz this Yi did between the 12 the smaller that's three lines which means here here's a great picture if you finish all the way on the bottom you don't have to put three empty rows on the top on the beginning of the saer you can start a new safer right in the top should we stop over here or we can do three more lines if you want to put together great so I have over here AER gave us I don't know who but to got this actually you could see this picture here here you see this is D this is the pole so you need enough cloth over here that goes around the pole once empty without any words you don't want to put words obviously on the pole have to be empty now you need so much parchment that could go around the whole Navi now what's going on here we have two poles where's it going around says Rashi very interesting you're not going to believe this the last doesn't have two of these like a no only has one one thing so if you ever go to B took this Rashi and he told his we're buying with one why because Rashi says it's one it's to take the and bring it home use and you finish like we said before on the bottom could start on top and if you want to cut it like this I don't know what just happened just jump um you could what do you mean of course you could cut it we said you could cut what does that mean why do you finish on the bottom and start on the top because if one day I want to take a scissor and cut it it should look good it starts on the top have a wonderful day hey