Daf Yomi Avodah Zarah Daf 5 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] Good morning, Ra Boyai. This is the very first Ra Boyai, the very very first MDY nursing home edition. Zoom out. Show Show the what we have here. you have to be at least 60 years old and older. So because of the the new regulations and we go with the regulations, yeah, you can only have 10 people. So we said, you know what, we want to go with the with the elders, the ones who actually come first into the Bish in the morning. And uh most of you guys are here. I saw I'm watching you guys. You guys come in early in the morning. I didn't say you ding in another. You dates usually, but they asked me to come. Yes. We have three kohan today. Khan, three kohan. So, we're still on the lockdown and we have we have the windows open and we have Simon and Oh, look at that. The outside. It's like literally like Corona. It can't be yaldic. Unbelievable. So yesterday in middle of Shir it's first time ever that uh in middle Shir I went into the MMA actually we were in sort of not a real MMA but like a safe location the Hebrew Shir I don't know if we have video of that but there was a time when we all came and they kept in learning over there as well. I received a bunch of emails. Wow. Unbelievable. In the middle of a share this crazy red alert very loud. You can't and you don't have the option to make it quieter. It just goes. It's just sitting here on a very historic day. The nuclear threat from Iran is no longer the threat that it used to be that if everybody again I don't know you touch something or no just by here on a very historic day. The nuclear threat from Iran is no longer the threat that it used to be. And if everybody if this is it. We're talking about this in here. I want to show you what it means. Was that that was a boom. I don't know if the camera picked it up. It was a boom. Wow. The bombs are still going off. We hear the explosions in the air. It's unbelievable. I came to you. She means over here. Yeah. Re say go. Keep safe. Re say keep safe. It's the first time ever I'm giving she from in the bomb shelter. We're going to learn a little from the mad says the gim. Let me know when we could go out. Oh, let me know. Not yet. You say maybe you guys could take a picture of us. I think we could go out now. No, [Music] somebody just wrote to me that took out his anger on him. The buildings fell, but no one got killed. [Music] Right. Oh, this was the this is the during the Hebrew Shere once, but we went into the um stairwell. [Music] Got a lot of nice emails today, but I'm probably not going to be able to read all of them for Michael Levy. Ley Levi. Hi, Rabbi. I hope all is well. Your class has helped change my life. I hadn't touched the gar since high school and now I just had my sixth summ yesterday. Unbelievable. Six seal. My 5-year-old daughter also loves watching your shirum attach is a recap of the first day of the other day. Thought you'd enjoy all the best, Michael. So, basically, she's saying like uh the guy they built bridges and marketplaces. Very cute. Um not this one. Thank you for making and following the and setting examp as as much as I would like to come in person. I know there are others who needed to be there more than I do. Don't miss out MDY London taking place in Stanford Hill this Thursday at Boyai in Stanford Hill. Very first time Stanford Hill mdycm.com flap mishabis beautiful Miami. Look at this. And they even have the props in the background from what is that nurim whatever the props those big yeah it's a very nice amount of people Miami has always been Stark Antar Belgium this one guy Eisen what's his name Eisenthal something like that you know I'm very bad with names but Yetsy he's a he's a powerhouse he gets the into it he this also very very nice over there Maz of Klein on the engagement of daughter Klein is famous in MDY. He traveled from uh Crown Heights all the way to Lakewood Gordon when when the young kid the 8-year-old was nif. So he tells he says, "You don't know me. You don't you don't." He says, "Of course I know you. I see you every day on Zoom." And they had a whole two-hour conversation. He thought it was going to go in a 4-minute. It ended up being two hours labavich guy with the lit guy from from Lakewood that that was the um epitome of of MDY in the aus. Why is this here again? I don't know. This was a very moving uh email. I translated it to English from Hebrew. So I hope it's uh okay. I'm intending to share with you since B and thank thank you I haven't missed a single day. Okay, with Hashem's help and your wonderful team support, I hope to continue to succeed this past PES. I was meant to become a grandfather for the first time, but Hashem arranges everything. And a few months before the birth, the fetus, the daughter experiences still birth with Shay. About two weeks ago, she and her husband came to us excitedly and said that we'll have a surprise for the for the first grandchild. Since then, we felt the joy and been dab. But this past Friday, Hashem called the baby soul back to him. So, within a half a year, my daughter lost a daughter and a son. Returned home from the hospital Friday afternoon. As soon as we got home, I saw comfort in and sat for about two hours before Shabas listening to you in the gim. We learned that one thing Hashem does is learn what and according to Rash as you explained first the young children who passed away. I don't know whether Rashi meant children and not fetuses. We also said that with Agata we don't ask questions. And when I heard this, I could only imagine how on Friday a shabas came in a new and very small chair was placed in the heavenly yeshiva right next to the other small chair and the brother and sister rejoiced together in the radiance of the I want to thank you for showing me and my family that daft touches every moment of life and immediately brings light to the world. Thank you for you to you and your precious team with blessings. Your student shin. Wow. Okay. Yeah. No, I cried last night. I cried when I read it the first time. Thank you for enlighting so many thousand. I have a suggestion I think you brought up in the past an MDY fast track. Some of you this I'm just reading to get you guys excited. Being that many people have limited time to listen to shear. Is it possible to have the option to listen to the shar only without the jokes and the songs? Y shar Lakewood New Jersey good friend of sir. This is going to be very very difficult for a lot of you here in the room to stay awake and vibrant. You got to show the young guys what it means rais you got to show them what it is that it's really you guys. Those guys are all I'm counting on you. What an MDY guy does during Iranian ballistic missile missile barrage ABD always been daffing. He's in his mad learning Tyra. Um oh so kit sir this is Aaron Misik the following has been presented to me by my wife for finishing I would like to take this thank you and the whole team behind the scenes to make this possible looking forward to finishing all since what since again here we go look at that unbelievable and here they are the live right now outside in I see Shamshi and Ari and Akiva and okay who where is he shine hard back in the right I don't see him standing up okay you see him screen screen oh on the screen I'm looking at this picture I'm looking at the live picture Look, look at what I'm looking at. I'm looking at that. And then then you guys are looking at this. Okay, I got it. You're looking at the live. One more. Hi, my name is I. I just turned 40 days. Recently, I really enjoyed listening to the amazing g such a guy while driving in realm to listen and watch. I want to share with you that I was to finish as I started seven and a half years ago with a to say that we never miss the daf on the day not even once in my no matter what we can be at 2 a.m. 5:00 a.m. living in days who just had to commit to not to go to sleep before we learn. You hear this? He never missed a daff in 7 and a half years even if it was 2:00 and 5 in the morning. I just saw I was reading through some of my notes of the beginning of MDY and I wrote there about my my Rebi my Kramer and it says there at a certain day that I asked him to come to my house at 3:30 in the morning to learn and I wrote there like he has without asking questions he came 3:30 and we learned sometimes you have to go all out doesn't matter 2:00 a.m. 5:00 a.m. difficult days we just had to commit not to go to sleep before we learn and before that I never like to learn was not connected to or I'm a I got low marks and tests I got all the nasty makus because I was a boy in learning skills but now I love the d this makes you want to be a better yid in all other ways this changed my life I'm grateful I started again thank you for your amazing I managed to listen and make and even added a few new to learn every twice at least. Dash. Unbelievable. Maz. Okay, fine. There's another nice one, but you know what? I'll just say real quickly. I'm not going to read the whole It's a very long one here if anybody wants to read. Basically, he's saying put on your status. I've done today's d. Don't try to get people all through the done, done, done. So, people that read your status, they go crazy. They they say it's again and again and again and they want this Barashem. It came out and it's supposed to be a tremendous success. If you want to see this in Hebrew, people have said that this is even better than the English one. Came out yesterday and it has 5,000 hits already. What a day in Hebrew. Anonymous. Oh, we're not doing so bad. Okay, fine. Anonymous. May our learning be a shield of protection and source of unity and blessing. Joel Gadalius my father Jackalas TCS Israel power by talking save yikma measel fra pessel max wallik in honor of the marriage of Mayor Yseph and Russ Yasmin on 237 to begin a life filled with anonymous bin keeping daily sponsors anonymous an engagement of daughter of MDY super participant Schlommy Klein Ra Klein Tazami Kowitz dedicated by someone who cannot use his name due to HIPPA reasons. But you know who I am. He's laughing outside. I hear I hear you're the fletcher in honor of Rifka's birthday Wilner. My father Yeshua. Wow. Come on. We got to shorten it up a little bit. Yeah. ambassador. She was she was an example of what MDY is. She loved every type of Jew. May have an ali may she be all of Q gardens, queens and all of Israel. David Joseph Leish 27th of Son anonymous dear son from the head group. Oh the head group for the sem. We are proud of you. Danny and Pinky Sanger, in honor of our 14-year-old son, Ai Sanger, who learned Makus and with Rebelli and now Zara, very proud of you. Jacob Yagen, in honor of Rebelli. Thank you for caring about every single Yid besides all those that are not in the Now I only care about you guys. That's what they think. Not true. Care about everybody. Don't worry. We're not serious. Don't worry. Don't worry. Libabas Ruven Halevi. Miss Libby, listen. I have an option. If I don't like what you're saying, I'll just close those windows. Miss Libby Low Bell on her third yard site was personified by her and was beloved by all who knew her by her nephews of the day HYK ventures in this course of helping our MDY member find an American remote job in Israel. Ny kids monthly innovations official Mr. Art of the staff to continue to make so many for all the work they do. Amazing D again. So here's the question. You guys were with me. A lot of you were with me for many years. So you should know this one. I used to ask this question to trip people up if they said they don't want to do that. Let's say okay how many carbonas does one need to bring to the B mikdash let's say a kid goes with his father to the to the B mikdash for pes they go they make the trip all the way from Bamesh to how many carbonas should they bring with them how many animals do they have to bring with them all of you guys could could chime in there what do you think obviously they have to bring a carbon pes that's one carbon two of you. Carvin Rio, he says one minute. You don't count. Were you here last night? Maybe. Maybe. I know that you were here last night. Next. What else? Anybody? No. That you don't bring the card into the base. Somebody has to bring three or four just for the first day. Shabas. Well, how many animals do you have to bring with you? So this would trip everybody up including those who were in the Shir and heard this question many many times. I'm going to remind you the guy and the reason I stopped asking this question it's much easier to ask what hap what's what does mean because I know the answer this I I always used to get mixed up with the answer. So here it is there's actually five animals you have to bring five because there's two. So that's something just uh be with theor on for the corbin pes you don't have to bring it correct you could be part of a kabura exactly good point another question is who are the people that are considered like they are dead you all could chip in this one besides you of course blind blind tas blind oh he scream out from outside very Good. What did you say? Suma. Suma. He said you heard that. I don't know if the microphone was able to pick him up. Suma. So with the outside guys, helping the elderlys. Can we discuss this? Can we I'm a little nervous. If the siren goes off, could you let me run ahead of you guys? Look at the way. I've seen how you guys go down those stairs, holding on to both bars. Come on, let me go first. Come on. Okay, they're enjoying themselves outside over there. Very good. So, now I have a question. If somebody has some money, he wants to donate money. Unbelievable thing. I'm not kidding. A guy a guy texts me yesterday. I He says, "I got your phone number from your son. I want to give a donation to MDY. So, I'm not going to call him up. You know, in the middle of learning this that at a quarter to 1 in the morning, I call him up. Guess how much he wants to give. You know, I I was sure $25. What What could it be already? $1,000. $120,000. He doesn't even do the shear. I love what you do. I love what you do. Wow. Yeah. Whoa. So, if a guy has $120,000 and he wants to give it to uh he wants to give either to the blind center or the fertility center, where should he give it to? It's a real question that came through money. I don't know 100 10ou five $1,000. What's more important? Who are they? Who's more considered in desperation? The blind or the fertility? Fertility. fertility. Why do you say blind? Why? Cuz they're alive. They're alive. They're alive. Blind are already dead. But they're dead. They're dead. But you want to wake them up from their death. So very interesting. We'll get there says that when you have a list, what comes on the list first is more is higher up on the list. You find that by mr. That's why romaine lettuce is the number one m not not the bitter stuff that the the Europeans eat or it's radished the root the root the romaine lettuce is considered the the most so in this list also what comes first the blind come before the fertility just throw throw it out there so let's see the gimmar we got some agadada I promise you four full days of ag so here we go we're holding by It's a bunch of saints from five lines from the bottom of this idea that idea that what happened with the ego that Israel made this this golden calf which was one of the worst aors of Isisro. This is a n from Hashem which gives the ability for our generation to do chuva for all generations to do chuva. These are big big people as we saw Rashi yesterday. I'm just doing a little we learned this yesterday. Rashi explains that these are tremendous that could completely control the Sahara. Just Hashem removed that protection from them and allow them not to control the Sahara so that they do chuva and then people in later generations don't say listen I spoke to a few people already who told me I cannot do chuva you don't know what I did I said I don't care what you did no matter what you did and how many times you did it you could do chuva this chuva is open for every single Jew even and that that's what we learn for all generations Doesn't make sense that he should sin with What about Yeah. What about him? Why not? Too late. He could do cha when he's alive. It's too late. Once he's dead, he's dead. It's game over. and the the people that they did not it wasn't it wasn't befitting them to do that says about himself is dead he's a dead man he he has zero control over me we had the story in the I think it was I should have looked it up but he he also claim look I don't understand these people and then Hashem made it in a way that he started chasing a a woman up a tree a whole thing in other words as is you're right you have a certain protection but once Hashem removes that then you become vulnerable there were big so why is it that sinned that if individual s learn from David. We all could relate to David. He was the underdog. He was the the the laughing stock of his brothers. When the Ni came to to anoint the king, they didn't even consider him. They brought all the other brothers here. Not this one. You says, "Not this one." So who don't you have another kid? Nah, I don't have it. Oh, you mean that loser? Oh, I don't know if he said like that. You know that one over there? We shipped him away. He's uh he's just a shepherd. They couldn't believe it. They were shocked him. And then and then he goes and he and he sins. We could all relate to it. Some sometimes in life you have a weak a weak spot. You have a you you your your guard is down. So if a whole congregation s together look you know what it's not end the world you could do like like why I need two cases why I need I would say the individual that sins nobody knows about it's not a big that happened the worst thing a person could do is that's the the number one problem but when a whole congregation gets together and does like and it's tremendous in the world I don't think they can't do chuva so they could do chuva so just say bigish that even a tremendous they did such a big they could do so certainly individual no so many people they have more more love more individual he's on his own maybe he cannot do that's why I need both cases What does it mean? The son of he is the one that brought to the to light the the the beauty of chuva that anybody could do chuva. Thear always says whoever says sinned is is making a mistake. the whole the whole sug we're not going to get into it but he held that she wasn't as at the time because her husband gave a get a retroactive get. So he was right. Wasn't the right thing to do. If you say whatever you do one in this world as if it would work the water, not really. You do one mitzvah. The says the the meaning over here is when one person picks his mitzvah. He has his mitzvah. You guys have a mitzvah? Anybody here have a mitzvah? Yeah. What's your mitzvah? Tell us. Come to Davin on time. Oh, come to Davin on time. On time. Valdic. No matter what. No matter what. No exceptions. No exceptions. See those people? There's the people that that the minion is the number one thing. They'll go on a trip. They they'll pay people in Disneyland to come in and you know so they have a minion that's what we're talking about a guy that that's his thing his thing that's your thing that no matter what I was getting seriously I was thinking to myself wait a minute what's my what's my thing like oh you're for you tell people the whole name okay it took me some time to anyway some people are very what's his mitzvah Right. I mean there's this tremendous masid in going he's known for so that's says that's the mid we're not talking about one mitzvah the mitzvah that you took upon yourself is going to go in front of you and say look at this guy he he never he always came on time to always go the will go in front of you and Hashem will gather you [Music] if you have one sense. I wonder if that's the same thing over here like the one should be according to but anyways it wraps him and envelops him. So Yoshi did a beautiful thing here to explain the picture real quickly. Uh it starts moving in a second but you are inside that cage. The person is inside the cage. The ver envelops him and you have ganim on the right. You have ganed on the on the left and and and that takes you to the here. He's going to open up. The doors are going to open and there's going to be a judgment. You decide do you go to the right, do you go to the left? That's listen to this. This is you have to imagine this and picture this. You come up to you're doing good. Everything is good. You're going to but you have like a dog attached to you when it's talking about he didn't listen to her to lay by her. So what's the double lion here? He didn't listen to her to be with her in this world says we have a tremendous if a person is with a woman. That woman is stuck to him like a dog. Here's a picture. It's like a picture. She's tied to him. See, you have a a sadic. You have a a good guy. He's pretty he's pretty, you know, he learned some good Tyra. He's everything is that. But he has a dog attached to him. All the sadikim are welcoming to Ganedan and they all see I mean a dog might be a mushel. It might be the actual woman stuck his back. He's walking around the ganed wherever he goes he has this gisha lady with him and everybody knows what happened. It's a little embarrassing. She deserves she deserved to get to be there. You know what? He just reminded me of Maravar. I kind of said it, but I I heard it from a few different people that ganed and ganim is basically the same thing. It's a it's aender with a with a cup of water and a gumar. If you know how to learn and you learned, it's ganed. If you don't know how to learn, you never learned, it's gimm. Imagine taking and for a million years he's saying go out of his mind. He doesn't know what you're talking about. It's French. That could be ganim also. No, he's just asking the guy how get for her it's gimm. Anyway, um the the villain says here it says in the word doesn't belong here. It should say she said what's lay means to tell somebody else to say back to you. So the villain says all she wanted is that he should say that should say those words. She was smart. She didn't say I want action. All I want is you should say a couple words. Say say the word. Then she understood that once he says those words that's the beginning of the end. Tell me those words. It's a I'm saying it because a lot of times and I heard this from a few people. A lot of times it starts with one text, one it doesn't start with action. Nobody jumps into a starts with one line, one thing you shouldn't have said, one one text message, one whatever. is a tremendous tremendous. Basically, what he's saying is that after no one was supposed to die. That's it. For the rest of the of the generations, nobody dies. And if nobody dies, that means that nobody brings children to this world. There's no point of bringing children if you're not dying. You have you're alive. you live forever in just because they did then they started dying. So we have to appreciate them for sinning because we wouldn't be in this world. We wouldn't be we wouldn't be able to accomplish had they not sinned. We have have we have to have to our forefathers for sinning. If they wouldn't have sinned, we wouldn't be in this world. I said you're all like you're like you're you're children of of of the of the heavens. You don't belong here. However, you ruined your ways. In fact, that's why you're going to die. As a question that many of you are probably thinking to yourselves because we learned the famous everybody agrees. It's better not to be created. So what are you telling me that we owe to to these people? That's why we were created, but it's better not to be created. If they wouldn't have sinned and they would have lived forever and we wouldn't have been born, it's great. We don't want to be born. So he says, "No, it's not true. You're right. A baby doesn't want to be born. But once a person does the right thing in his life, if he goes through life and doing the right thing, then then we do want to be born. We want to accomplish So now the gumar is going to attack this rishlak and in fact at then he's going to have to we're going to have to break him. What? What? Nobody's going to die. How could I'll prove to you five different ways that people were supposed to die? How what are you telling me that people weren't going to die? If they didn't sin, nobody would give birth. It says in the you have to you should have children. No, that's not a great question. I would say that means until but after no children go back to your wives. It says over there then that's after there was a is to be with your wife for three days and it says go back in other words continue with no maybe it means have relations with your wife but not for any purpose which some want to bring a ria from I don't even know why you need a raya because older people who can't have children also have a mitzvah but they want to prove for me oh you're allowed be with your wife no matter what. Okay, fine. By the way, some say some had a question if everybody's in the shama flew out by it says Muslim they died for a momentary like for for a moment. So then uh then they're not really married. They died and then oh so that's why the say you're not divorced. Not cuz one of the ways a woman acquires herself back is by so for 10 seconds and now they have to get remarried. No, that's fine. It says in the it should be good for you and your children after. This is a right after. So you see that they had children. Okay. for that there was fathers and children at Harina. So the children of not the the no more future children after that time this himself we're asking a question from this is this book of did he have a book showed him all the generations the future generations all the or the is the people in charge of the the people you know the the whatever they called he came to the generation he couldn't believe how much is going to bring to this world we know the greatest but he was very very disappointed he's very sad at the way he died at 120 such an old man combs on his flesh. Omar and other said, "I cannot get into your mind. I don't understand your ways. It makes no sense to me. I know you know what you're doing. I just don't get it." Okay. So takas you see that that other marijian had a book and in the book not a book but Hashem showed him ribba all the generations so people did have children this is saying this so what are you telling me they didn't have children after lived after mat right so it's a it's proof from that people had children afterwards that and we knew this from the time of marish hashem said you're always going to have children here. Look at all the generations. Obviously, we we're alive now and they had children. That's not But the question is before the sin. You're saying it's only because of the sin. That's why we're alive today. But the mishian was before the sin of the eagle and there was going to be future generations at his time. Another problem. There's a thing called there's a a compartment a place called gof not our body and there's all namas mashia won't come until hem uses up all the nishamas puts them into bies says the of come from a different place it's not the goof that we're talking about so they can't help us out in that department it doesn't it's not because I'm mad and It's you have to get rid of these have to go down to the world. So it says so finally after all these questions we're going to explain what meant don't say the is that we would never be born. We would be born no matter what. But it's as if we weren't born. What does that mean? means by the way this is a this is Gishmak I really appreciate it it's a once in a-lifetime opportunity for me to enjoy you guys it's great it's special it's a very special hello you have a picture a good picture of this it's not a joke this is zikn hashir banis is a thing for me I'm I'm I'm actually uh emotional about it not a people. Ah, so says you know what's missing here? That guy that sits over there two seats down. What's his name? He sits across from me. He's in hospital. What happened to him? Two operations. His eye on his eye and his son behind his eye. How come nobody tells me these things? I don't deserve to know these things. You did? So send them my regards. Wow. It's good I asked about him. Tell him I asked about it. I didn't even know. Did he sick? supposed to go in for a day and day and a half and they kept finding there eight nine days. Wow. Wow. Wow. Wow. He's supposed to be in and out. It reminds me of what's his name? Another person. Michael. Where's Michael? He was supposed to be here without What happened to him? He was here for He was here for the He's the worst. He left. He has like super duper. He also went in for a knee and all turned into this. Remember that? That's what it was. Yeah. That's hard. He had a heart thing from his knee. He found it from his knee. All right. So upon him, you hear what's going on here. Imagine this. Imagine if that generation lived in our generation would be so intimidating. These people that saw with tremendous amount of we're nothing compared to them. We're a generation of TV of smartphones and this and that. You're talking about people that saw with their own eyes. And I don't know how tall they were even. you know, they there must have been these giants living in Hanov, a whole community, hundreds of thousands of them, and we're like uh like like ants compared to them. So, says if they were still alive, if they didn't die, we would feel like like like nothings, which I have to say the famous of the over here says by the a baker comes to him and says, "Paros is terrible. Nobody's buying my stuff. They they look at a nice donut. It's too expensive. They look at the bread, they put it down, they want another one. And then he meets him a few months later. He says, "New house." He says, "Now there's a war." When there's a war, people come in, they grab everything off the shelves. My wife was telling me there's limits on how much stuff you could order. She's ordering. No, no, no. Only two per customer, you know, cuz people have this thing. They're all they're starting to hoard stuff. So, not in all food, but certain items. So he says everybody's says we're in a generation of war. We're not in that generation where the sadikim and everybody's a this and that and Hashem is picky. Says oh this guy he spaced out during so I'm tossing this guy this. No, we're in a generation a very very weak generation. So whatever we give Hashem he grabs. He grabs. It's like in the war. Ah you spaced out during give. Let me I love that feeler. Here you this. You You don't understand what's flying in the D. You slept after the D. Great. I love it. It's great. Just Just give me something. I need something. It's a war. It's a war. Anything. Give me. Give me. Oh, and then the famous I got to tell you, he says he davened for that he should have your shim like the Rambam and suddenly started feeling such fear that he he was under the table. He's like hiding under the table. Because the Rambam was on such a high level. He could have the fear of the Rambam. I'm a much lower level. I can't have fear of a Rambam. It doesn't. It's a different kind. We're a different generation. We can't absorb that kind of fear. What you telling me that if they didn't sin, they wouldn't have died. This is the whole famous para of a yama. So for all the new people because they're saying we have over 5,000 new people for a desama says you have two people two brothers and one of them dies without first he gets married two brothers one of them gets married and he dies without any children. These are two people we have to ad for avi the one on the right who just married the yama he's stuck in America. We want to we want to make sure that he comes back here safe. Half the day he spends on the phone with travel agents, Dr. Abstein's son-in-law and he's in he told me I'm in on the way to Did he make it on a flight? Not to my awareness. 12 hours ago. He's in the airport looking for a flight. Anyway, so that's that's only applies if people die. How did this dude die over here? How did this guy die? There's no death. So why would it be a parish of also why is there a parish parish why would be a whole parish had to give over inheritance to to your children it was in the in case sin and people would start dying again but there's also a possibility they wouldn't die as the gives condition in yes we had this it should have said what's with a Hey, there's a certain condition he made with the creation. Great. If not, I'm going to return you back to where you came from. So you see that there's a condition. If they accept it, great. If not, not not condition. [Music] So the Tory says, "I'm going to give you great goodness here. I'll make it good for you and your children." We had this before. So the explains to say that they don't won't die. I can't do that. Okay. So let's pause right over here. It says they're not going to die. How are you telling me they're going to die? Here the mur to say that they're not going to die. I can't because they started dying. That's it. there's already forget about it. So that itself is a bomb means that the nations, the Iranians, they won't be able to control us. The other nations of the world won't control us. That's good enough. It's a question. You see that you do die. Not that you don't die. Says, "No, but there's a that says you don't die." Says, There is a that says people won't die. That the word means they won't die. But because you did wrong and you did you are going to die upon him. You see that you're not supposed to die. It seems from the there'll be something good. death there will be. I'll give you something good. No, no, no, no. The good that the is referring to is that you're not going to die. That is good. That's the best thing that could possibly happen. Don't tell me that means no, you're going to die, but you're going to have something good. No, the good is that you're not going to die. So, we have a is whether or not people were supposed to die after or not. And they ruined it by sinning with the mus what are you going to do with the mash that now you're going to die but beforehand you weren't supposed to die no no no death you are supposed to die what kind of death being poor the four people I considered dead a poor person suma blind mano who has saras like something like is he has like a a white something on his skin and somebody doesn't have children is considered like he's dead. So it's interesting the famous he says what's the between all these four things what's the common denominator of these four things all four of these people don't have the ability really to give to others a woman who doesn't have children doesn't she doesn't have that ability that a regular woman has to give to give to her children a blind person also he he's missing that matra people they distance to To be alive means to give. That's what being alive means. The more you give, the more alive you are. The less you're considered dead. That's what you see from him. Life is giving. Think about it. You'll see. It says by that they saw killed the mit and hashem says to they all died where in this week's par where number one in our par so what do you see what do you see it says tells they died and they're alive it's a little bit of a problem Oh, you have to say they had no money. They became poor in the darkness. Somebody who's in the darkness. You're like a dead man with the with the there was a guy a blind person. It's true story. He saved the tire for the reba. I don't remember which reb but I looked it up. I couldn't find the story now. a famous mis you'll tell me who it is. So the Reb said because you saved my Tyra and you're blind ask me whatever during during this tish ask me for something I want to give you a bra. So everybody's listening. What? What? What? What could he pass? What is he going to ask for? He's blind. He's He's poor. He doesn't have his children. What is he going to ask for? Children. But he says, "I want to be to see my children eating with golden spoons." It's like that. He got everything in there together. He's going to have children. He's going to see them. They're going to have golden spoons. Cool. Okay. Don't be like a dead man. uh like I'm sorry about uh Miriam don't don't let her be like a like a dead person and somebody that doesn't have children is considered dead she tells him give me children I'm considered dead so you see that's why brings from over here that a blind person is before the woman with children so therefore giving to that is better If you go with my rules, is pleading, please keep my rules. If only they would listen to me. I will destroy all their I'll how do you say I would I would suppress the the the uh subdue the the enemy. Had you listened to you'd have children like the like the dirt in the ground says who would want that uh who needs help over here to the you should listen to all to all my stuff and then have fear and they they should have jumped on it. They should have said we want your help but they didn't ask Hashem for help. So it says a very strong how do you say in English ungrateful the sons of in other words you have bad genes even your forefathers have have bad genes of not being grateful you give us to us you give us the ability to to withstand and and be aim and keep all the how to know how do we know that they're ungrateful. So Rashi brings over here that the man was so light. It didn't have calories. It went right into the body all the nutrients necessary, but it was a lighter kind of food. And they didn't like it that was light. But what was so special about being light? If you if all the nutrients go directly into the bloodstream, whatever, then you don't have to relieve yourself. What's the problem with relieving yourself? There's no toilets. In order to go to the bathroom, you have to walk a few miles out of the out of the the out of the camp says a tremendous grateful was a great thing to go to the bathroom. Okay, they couldn't. Hashem did them such a favor. Gave him special food. You don't have to go to the bathroom. And they're saying, "Oh, this is a problem." I'm just thinking to myself, like astronauts probably have that kind of food, you know? like that little I don't know a certain bar they eat they barely go to the bathroom it's just exact and how do I know these are the sons of somebody that's not grateful that's referring to other started with him your forefather this woman you gave me so this is the I had and it's really for me more for you so I'm going to speaking to myself. No, I'm doing I did this yesterday. I'm doing to myself again. If somebody gives you a a beautiful uh Rolls-Royce car, sir, give you Would you turn to him and say, "Yeah, but uh I I I prefer blue. I prefer the blue." It's not It's not so nice. You gave me a nice car. It's black. You like blue. Okay. What would that be called? I think a lot of people, a lot of people, not me, but a lot of other people, we all want to get married when we're young. What? Sponsors. Oh, sponsors. Yeah. Yeah. But hold on. This is more important. I see. I see you're getting nervous about what I'm about to say over there. You're getting a little nervous. We're younger. We wanted to get married. We're nervous who we're going to find is going to be good. This I know people that are not married. They're older. They're looking still for We had a guy here last night. He was 35 when he got married. This guy came back the day after. So you get the and when you when you find this woman, you think she's the number one thing in the world. There's nothing better that ever happened. But maybe what happens is right after you say, "But Hashem, if she only had this one good thing, it would be that would be mamish. Then she'd be perfect. And if she didn't have this one minus. So isn't that mamish? Like Hashem gave you a Rolls-Royce and now you're complaining about you don't like the fact that the the radio has this and that. It's it should have been over here, not over there. That that's that's the way to look at it. I'm saying no Muslim to myself. Hashem gave us a gift. We're married. We have children. A lot of us, most of us, there's people that watch the sh that are not married. Those of us that are married, I think it's human nature to always find what could be better and and why did this like we don't have the either like we're perfect and she doesn't think about that. Fine. It's a different story. But that's gave you this and all you could do is look for the sponsors. Oh, that's why he's so nervous about his sponsors. And now we could count on him to remind us of the sponsors. Global making answering questions great again right there. Oh, so oh that's all sayations of our son's for learning with belly. I guess every is just going to get longer and longer and longer. Eventually he's going to six lines anonymous and out of all the holy work so hard to bring us that the day the daff every day with no credit given enough said it took 40 years for that they're ungrateful it took 40 years to to go through the and then he said didn't give you the heart to understand especially you guys I give you a then in 40 years from now you should understand what I'm saying it takes 40 years to remember to what I'm saying you should all to live at least another 40 years very interesting So explains these words when learns they learn that they learn and they do they have control over the doesn't have control over them means to give and Water refers to thirsty should go to the water. What a beautiful picture. She did yesterday with the fish tank which is referring to the when you learn you got to really get into it. You got to be like a a bull plowing and a donkey that carries says the bull sees the field. So he's you're learning the first time the that's like a bull is like because he carries the stuff and he brings it around. So either to teach the to learn it again say here goes even better three days before their holiday you're not allowed to do business with the idol worshipper three days there is a mitzvah in the Tyra we're learning a lot of new stuff some people don't even know about this mitzvah you guys all know this, but there's a lot of new people. There's a the mother and her her calf in one day. So, typically speaking, you don't have to notify people. There's no I looked it up in the today cuz Benny was Benny sitting up there in the booth. He was all concerned. He sells a lot of meat. Does he have to sit there with the sign? Hey, this is the don't worry the mother we shed yesterday. The No, it's not a problem. We're not concerned that it's going to happen on the same day. You don't have to worry about it. But when there's so many going on only four days a year, then you have to notify people. I sold to Ruain the mother. So I I I need you to make sure you don't check the daughter today. I sold the daughter. So don't check the mother today. What are the four days? the last day of sukas where you have to bring in all the carbonas everybody waits till the last minute. So all the coronets they didn't whatever they have going they bring in the last days going on of course with all the all the and everything else I saw the asks here but the talking about okay and we have to bring and this is very important because Mashia is coming any minute. So just remember got to save up some money for those sheep. You need a you need when you go to it's not it's not cheap. Okay, every boy you need some meat for. So everybody, so you have to notify, hey, I saw the mother. We know there's a lot of meat. There's a lot of food going on the ninth day on the see all you need is one day. One day you're not busying three days before. You'reing only one day before. So why would the guy come and try to for his three days before? If he's buying stuff, if he's doing business with you, it's one day before, not three days. Says when it comes to Jew, he's eating them meat. All you need is one day. He's he wants to sacrifice for his you need more. You need three days. Why take some time to find the proper animal for? So you got to be careful. Don't do any business with him 3 days before. Why? He's going to go and say thanks to his his idol. What? Three days is enough. Oh, so says over here. We know that you're supposed to you're supposed to what do you call it? supposed to um have a dr says is a big here. You should know that the reason why there's really 30 days we all know from there that the 30 days before PES meaning started talking about PES the we thought it's about the little things you know no it's for the carbanas to start checking the carbanas and all the that have to do with carbanas. So you see more than three days. It's not enough three days to find the either 30 days or 14 days, but it's more than three. Oh, like what's his name again? The guy that had surgery he went in for for cataract or something similar, whatever. Something on his eye. So cataract makes the be a puzzle. So it's so hard to find a good carbon. So we give 30 days to find it. but them they they don't have cataracts but if they have chopped off leg that's no good for them. So three days is enough for them. Fine. You know what? Let's stop over here. Have a wonderful day. Merit the of spreading Torah throughout the world. Sponsor a share today. mdysponsor.com or sponsor at mdy.com.