CHAZARAH - Menachos Daf 44 | "Nothing but the Daf" with R' Eli Stefansky

[music] Good morning. Tanya, we're holding five lines from the bottom of these are things we're familiar with. that comes from these garas to make 100 a day of mayor of 100 that's one. So here are the 100 you say that's one in the morning it's three already and then the 16 the is I don't know if people realize why do we say these 16 because we have to give no because we want to get to 100 they they were macking these 16 so we could easily get to 100 three bas since it's in fill and there's another three unless you're or so it's only two the brick is and they include for everybody it's here in you're missing one even though it's called is really 19 times three and then you have different not mentioned here anything about I don't know Okay. >> More times >> more times during the day. >> Okay. >> And now we have a problem. What are you doing? You're missing almost 40. The answers are shorter. There's no fill in. You're missing 39 based on the on the So you would fill it up with making like we do like on on a lot of people do to wake themselves up but also for extraas and eating like nash madim cakes fruit corn shim like the rush there's other ways to to be mimitzvah the the the braas on chabas What other brahas could you do in chabas? When you when you say amen to all the you get another eight. Some say these are these areas of >> no also [snorts] the creator. >> Okay. It's like as if you're saying it if you it's as if you're saying as if you're saying you say I agree to this. Great. >> You say 38 every day also. >> Yeah. >> Right. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But it's a cool. It's like it's like sort of you're not making it yourself. Another one. You have to make these three every day. Either way, so the reason why it says is because of the the sensor. You can't write when they're checking your garis and very very racist. So they wrote here is but they change it right away. Another reason is so why isn't it? Thank you Hashem for making me a Jew. The answer is because we're not happy that we were made at all. The famous it's better that we weren't created. So, okay. Still maybe that next one is we have more mis than a woman. So, we're not a woman. [snorts] You didn't make me ash. I don't know. He heard his son making a what kind of is that B is also you talking about who's not so man is more than a woman. You make a message says so what should you say make a you didn't make me a slave asked him so what'su is means if we're talking about mitzvah a woman and a slave have the same amount of mitzvah [clears throat] so what do you gain why you can't say the same braha twice You already said why you saying there's a it's a different level and that's why when we say the we go in we go in a level we go from the lower to the higher. So we say and then finally now if you're going to go with his body is like similar to the ocean. If you're gonna go with the the and all these other people that that claim that this is the you're gonna have a hard time explaining this gimm they they they they don't like you know they come up with all sorts of different explanations. It's similar to the yah. So the meaning would be maybe the the the blood that comes out of him is similar to the ocean has like a blue a blue dye. His body is is in the shape of a fish. How to explain that exactly? So I once did a whole thing to try to explain. They try to explain it. This is this is this is head. This is a tail kind of a fish also goes in such a shape. They have all sorts of explanations or that it lives in the ocean. It's a it's a aquatic creature. It's hard to get it. Even the Gumar Chavez says that they they used to put out nets to catch it. It maybe dust surface on the it comes out of the water once every 70 years. Meaning it's very rare to see it. It's hard to get to it. [clears throat] And with its blood you make that's why it's super expensive. Again, even a light mitzvah like easy to look at. If you're looking at it, you're talking about to look at it. That mitzvah even to purchase it. It's simple. Today, you go online, you punch in a code, it comes to your house, you go to the store. It's easy to to [clears throat] a lot easier than getting an SR, let's say. You have to go. You don't have to log it. Check. It just comes. It goes. You even get in this world. It's you can't fathom how much you get in the world to come. Again, I could buy citizens in this world for a few, but you can't do it in here comes one of the most famous stories in shas and I to me it was one it's one of the most powerful stories in look look here's a story from the mitzvah there's a story with a person he was super careful What sits he heard about a famous that lived very very far away very high demand tell us when says usually it's an exaggeration a crazy amount of money sends her the money wires her the money they call she could get an appointment she Mano came he came to the door I didn't I don't know why all the he came to the door knocked on the door they brought him in there must be something here I don't know what wants to point out that she was super wealthy she had a slave that worked for her that guy seems like it was uh not everybody maybe he fell for it I don't know he was desperate he p he overpaid. That guy that sent you the money, he's here. Let him come in. He comes in. This is important to the story. She had seven beds, like bunk beds, one on top of the other. Six were made out of silver. Super expensive. A bed made out of gold. And in between each level, there was a a ladder. And the ladder, the upper ladder was made out of gold. This is not like a a real asar is going to say later. She went to the top one. She was undressed. He also went up there with her. Says nigla happened. B those situses that he was super careful with. He even went to the zeno with it. He didn't bother to remove it. They looked at him and they patched him upon him. They gave him a smack in the face. He says, "Oh, wow. This is this is serious. This is malid. This is not a normal thing." [snorts] He immediately he realized that he shouldn't be doing what he's doing. So, he got off the bed. He sat down on the ground. So he she went and she got off also and she sat down next to him and she says to him, she made a a name of the Caesar of Rome. I'm not going to leave go of you until you tell me what what flaw did you see me? Everybody tells me I'm perfect top in the world. I'm swearing back to you. I have never seen a more beautiful woman than you. So what's the problem? There's a mitz in the it's called because of it says about now he's giving her over there sitting on the floor. says in the let me tell you he tells the he learned it's not brought in the yet he maybe on the spot twice why because is going to give a punishment though to those who don't obey him and under on the flip side he's going to give a lot of He changes it a little bit. He doesn't say they smacked me in the face. They're like four witnesses. Those situs, this niggler, he tells her niggler happened. They smacked me in the face. Now these four sites that smack me in the face, they're going to be like witnesses. They're they're alive and well. More than double the I can't get away from them. I need all your details. What's your name? What city do you live in? Who's your And what's the name of the yeshiva boy? >> Now this guy, first of all, this guy is yeshiva. This guy's not a a guy. This guy came out of yeshiva and [snorts] he went to Kayam. He took a ship who knows where with his titus with his with his and she wants to know all the details. You're not leaving here until you give me your name and number to me it seemed like when I learned it last night in in sound like a get >> I need to get out of here. She's holding on to me. She's making my life miserable. Here, take all the info. There's my name. There's my number. I'll see you later. Let me go says the crazy thing happened there. She was very wealthy and she divided up all her belongings so that she followed this back to yes. She gave a third to the kingdom, says Rashi, to bribe the king, to bribe the the the local authorities. They're not going to let her out. First of all, they need her there for her profession, but they didn't want to let her go. So, she gave Why is this one of the most powerful stories in Shas right over here? She gave she gave she wanted to be successful. She wanted to work. She knew that she has to do something positive that she could do chuva and give to the poor. You can't be a mug. You can't just give everything away. You got to live. So, she left a third for herself. She also didn't give away all the gold, the bed, the bed, the gold bed, the silver beds. She had the address. She knew who he was. She knew where to go. She comes to to the yeshiva. Omar, she tells the theoras I want to become a convert. I want to be become a guaras. He calls her mamish in an affectionate way. beycome a if if you have if you want to marry somebody >> for yesterday's story about the mayor the elevator is is just a a of the bush over here comes to and says your talid plain almighty with the whole name This is even his handwriting. He came to me. He traveled, you know. He said he was sick for 3 weeks. No, no. He was on a trip to Europe and he came to visit here. This is his name. Seder. If that's the reason, if you're becoming because of the the the nigler that happened over here, you you you realize there's the you [clears throat] can become a I want you to marry him. Unbelievable. those those beds that she offered him to do is she told him to do a says who he got his full reward in this in this world and I want to add now something I didn't say yesterday it's just push it as I'm reading it now what's the matar is that it saved him not the millions of dollars It saved him from that. Rashi says, it's interesting. Rashi says, "What's the beds?" It doesn't say he married her for whatever reason. Maybe it means the same thing. They go into it. But over here, seems like that this actually saved him from a big forget the money, the millions that he made off it. Could you imagine if this is in this world, what happened in the world to come? If you borrow a talent from somebody, a beggar from someone, you don't have to put on if you borrow clothing for more than 30 days. If you live in a hotel in you rent a house in you don't have to put up a muza for 30 days says because you might regret it. You might want to back out of it. So they discuss what if you know for sure you're not. You know you're stuck in a lease. Maybe you are right away more than 30 days. If you rent a house, you should put right away. Sorry. Yeah. So, we learned in Mishna that if you only have one one of the two, you have put it on. >> I skipped. >> No, you should. We want him to stay there. Maybe I missed those words. I want him to stay there. Put put your put your Now you have to switch out the this switching Rashi brings down. That's why I remembered it and you you'll live in if just wear the t of even though you don't have if you have both and you want to wear one. It's like if you have both. So you don't you only wear one out of two. Okay. That's very hard to understand. And the is going to take it back right away. If you don't have if you don't have two, do not wear one. If you only have one, don't wear that one. Why is going to explain later? You said such a thing. No, I'm taking it back. You shouldn't do one. So what was thinking to begin with? If you tell a guy you could only you could only you could get away with one. He won't do it at all. >> He won't go buy the Yeah, he won't go buy the other one. What did I say? I don't know what I said. I'm in a rush. If you tell a guy you could just wear one, he'll stay with one for the rest of his life. If you don't wear your eight where do you have eight because you have two in the times the four that you wear is eight. If you don't have look at these five what else is there? And you saying so these are the five if you're fine you don't do for us where's David he's not here today we need a what are the three that a get the first minion not good so we need a one These are the three that if you're there, not if you're at home, but if you're in the you don't do these three, if you don't have in your doorway twice, it says call if you wear it fill in all day, not one time. You wear it all the time. So the ising hem means the fillin that are on youm that's on your head will will give you life will will bring you back to life so to speak here we are back to cachim ah A person who brings either an orim it comes together with other things. You bring it with flour with with wine with oil. We're continuing with the theme. How do we get into all the because the theme of the last paric was things that are and things that are not one another. Right? So we said about love and this is we started with because is not of the love and love is not in other words you can do one without the other is not of the and the is not of the excuse me they're independent mitzvah and now we're continuing that theme is independent of the of the of the wine. So you could bring the flour one day and bring the wine the next day you could bring it. You don't need to have everything together. You could bring the wine without the without the it's also on different days. By the way, you could also bring a like by itself without the carbonas. But we're talking about with the with the referring to the blood that's sprinkled on we have we spoke about this extensively. Here's here's a co in the mush putting an it's very narrow over there. So let's say he forgets he he got you know they called him up he said they have a major issue with the computer here in MDY he runs off to after he did one one application that's okay the owner gets a kapar even though in you have to do four applications and all other have to do two which are four one is is not the best thing but if you that's what happened that's what happens here this is the outer so if you put one application here instead of doing all four where you spray it on hits the corner and grabs two walls. That's enough even though you're supposed to do it on this wall as well says. So we have a simple gar here just how do we know what comes first? Does the flower come before the wine or the wine comes before the flower? So the gimar brings a p to show it this way and rebi says no the different pik shows it this way. Then the says okay but then what does each person do with the other person's says it's very very simple first bring the flour then the wine the opposite first you bring the carbon the and then you bring what do you bring immediately afterwards wine you pour the wine over here there's two over there on top of the you pour it okay That comes immediately after the carbon before says before the flower. Now we have to understand what say you bring the flower then comes then comes wine. So it says flour comes first. So what what does each one do with the other person's poss wine? You could bring it also at night. You can bring the next day. He learned something else from it. But what do it seems like immediately after the carbon? You bring wine and then only afterwards step three is to bring the flour. That comes to say another. Everybody in this room would think that when does the wine become when you put it into that special over here? Yoshi did it funny. It has like a see-through because he wants you to see what's in there. It's wine and this one has oil. But obviously that's not the way it is in the mikdash. But this is a clich. It's it's a golden vessel. You put oil in there. Boop. It becomes as you put it in. No, no, no, no, no. It becomes after the carbon. That's it. That's also has to learn from somewhere. It's how it works. How does he know it? And need to know how do you know that I can bring the next day? Oh, so we're taking it back. First you bring a carbon. Then afterwards you bring the flower. Step three is what? Wine. What? What does he do with the we're doing another thing? When they all come all three of them together, everything on this table right here, they have a carbon, flour, and wine. There's everybody agrees. There's one order. How do you do it? The first comes the flour. Wine is number three. That it says in the first comes the the carbon then comes the flower afterwards comes the the wine. If it comes by itself without a carbon what you brought the carbon on Sunday on Monday you want to bring the flour and the wine. Now we have an argument. We already established the order. Flour comes before wine. Doesn't matter when you bring it. on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday. First comes flower, then comes wine. Easy. No. You brought on to the That's called eating. The is eating, so to speak. So therefore, you got to finish up with the food stuff. What's food? If you have two items in front of you, flour and wine, which one of them is food? Flour. So goes flour. But when it comes by itself, wine has more importance than flour. So that's why when they come by themselves, I say do do wine first because you have to say the sing and when they sing that that singing that they do with the and with the wine makes it more of than the flower have a wonderful day. [music] Merit the of spreading Torah throughout the world. Sponsor Ashir today. mdysponsor.com [music] or sponsor atmop.com.