CHAZARAH - Chullin Daf 94 | "Nothing but the Daf" with R' Eli Stefansky

[music] Good morning live from Yellowstone. We're starting a brand new on the bottom of the B. The whole parag is talking about theic nerve that we're not allowed to eat because of what happened with the Malik. The Mishna starts off saying, "You send a thigh that has a Gha because it's obvious the way you sent it that the G is still in there and even if a Jew buys that meat, he's not going to be he's not going to eat says why does the why does the mission say means a whole thigh? Seems like if it's cut up like we we buy today a pound or two pounds of meat that would be awesome to sell to the guy. Now before we start I just have to give you a >> you're talking about a city. Let's say it's Ben. Most of the butchers are Jewish. So even a non-Jew that's selling meat. Let's say you have an Arab selling meat. You're allowed to buy from him. You hear this? Because most of the butchers in the city are Jewish. Where are they getting the meat from? They're getting from a Jew. So the non-Jew is buying from a Jew. So he could buy and he's reselling to the Jew. That's if it's in a place where they announce. What does that mean? If there's a so gets up on the table and says, "Hey, he says a certain that tells us, hey, there's meat that's going to the non-Jew. It's tra and if it's tra people are gonna know not to buy that thing. So there's no concern that you're gonna be buying tra. Why? Because if there is tra in the city there's an announcement made that there's tra and therefore you know not to buy from the non. But if it's a place that they don't announce for whatever reason you don't want to upset the go. So you don't announce now you can't buy from the guy because perhaps he's selling trade. So the says the bottom line what's the case if it's a place where they don't announce and if they don't announce it's aer to buy from the guy because you don't know what kind of meat he has. So it will always be awesome. What's the problem? Why do you have to send the only the whole the whole thigh? You could send them chopped up pieces of meat. Why? There's no concern. A Jew is not going to buy from the guy. This is a city that you don't buy from the guy. So, we have to talk about it's a place that they announce and today they didn't announce. Oh, so if they didn't announce No, look at the how could you send the non-Jew a full thigh who cut it up and sell it and this is it's talking about there's no announcement that day. So there's no announcement. Everybody's going to buy from the guy and you sold the guy the larger piece. So he's going to chop it up into pieces and you're allowed to buy those smaller pieces. But the smaller pieces have a it says three ways to answer this. You could say he's talking about a place that they make announces. If they make announcements to buy from the go is talking about a place that they don't make the announcements also to buy from the go and but we had a question on each one is talking about a place that they announce and therefore you're allowed to buy from the made. So the guy the the Jew cuts it in a certain way and the guy cuts it in a certain way. I'm not concerned that the guy is going to cut it up and and and then sell it to the Jew because then we'll know we'll know that it wasn't it's not it's not good meat. We're talking about a place that they don't announce. So if they don't announce what's the concern, nobody buys from the we are concerned you're going to buy from the guy because a Jew is going to see how a Jew sold to the guy. So you have Ruain just watching. Ruin sees how Shim sold a nice piece of meat to the guy. So Ruven is going to come and buy it from the guy because he doesn't know that there's going to there. It's a place that you don't buy from Gim, but he's going to be my head. He's going to say, "Hey, I saw with my own eyes. There's nothing to be concerned. I saw a Jew selling it to him." Okay. The adds that the Jew heard the Yid telling him, "This is kosher meat, but the Jew didn't say that he removed the Jews, the guy buying it is not going to know in there." Okay. And this brings us into this phenomenal gam with a gad and all sorts of very interesting. It is prohibited to pretend that you worked hard for the go that you worked hard and removed the the go is going to think to himself oh what a great Jew. Why is he giving me this piece? Because he knows He went ahead and he removed the before he gave it to me. And listen to this. I think this is important. [clears throat] might be the most important thing of the home. I don't want to exaggerate but hey if you're going to take away one you saw it from the you live in even in it's to steal the mind of other people. In other words, you're not allowed to make people think certain things when they're not true. We have to repeat this. It's also to do Ram says to add one word that could change a word of a word that will convince the guy to do something. And certainly say certainly not in business. It's hard to to to comprehend in business. Tell somebody, tell the guy that the house you're selling him, the car you're selling him, yada yada, fill in the blank. You know what I'm talking about. It's never been an accident, whatever it is. But he's a guy. Who cares? No, it's also some say it's some say it's the regardless it's for us to say a word. Whatever it is, you know what I'm talking about. We all do business with the So the Gar says, you should know that never said it straight out, but we we're able to learn from what happened was going over the the river on a boat. Go pay. He tells the shamish is mashbak he says please do me a favor go pay the driver say so he went and he paid him and was very upset so from here we see what's the story why was upset what he gave him was a chicken that had a tra in it you have an he gave it to him the second is instead instead of a the thought that he's giving him a nice chicken. In fact, it was a tram tells his I want you to give him that's a glass like today we have small shot glasses for whiskey, for tequila. Then they used to have a special glass for wine that wasn't diluted with water. So he went ahead told him go give him some non-diluted wine and he went and he gave him diluted wine. That's why he's upset at him. That was the says okay isn't this pretty obvious that held that you shouldn't do to why isar saying well he didn't say he can learn from the story. says, "No, you know why he's upset? Because why do you have a tray of chicken with with uh with you? What you should get rid of a tray of chicken? Somebody might come to eat it. It's a problem." He wasn't upset on the desk. He was upset on the fact that he had a tra chicken with him. And according to the it was that he told him to give him non-diluted wine. He was upset at him that he didn't listen to him. I told you to give him non-diluted wine. You gave him diluted wine. What kind of is that? Perhaps it has something to do with that. We cannot do. Don't ask your friend to come have a meal by you in Shabas when you know he's not going to come. Why is he not going to come? Because that day you found out he's going to be on vacation. That day somebody else invited him. So it's for you to do that. Don't start loading up gifts and you know that he doesn't accept gifts. You have a a giant barrel, 50 L barrel. You know, everybody knows that if you open up a barrel, you open up a bottle of wine today, it starts spoiling immediately. Probably won't even last the next Shabas. You open up a giant barrel, 50 L barrel, it's not going to last the next Shabas. You open it, he comes over to you, he comes to Shabas, you open up a barrel of wine, he thinks, "Wow, he's he's opening up a 50 L bottle barrel for me." But the truth is you already sold it to somebody else on Sunday. You're going to deliver it. So that's you come to him, you know, he's not going to use your shampoo. You come to him with an empty bottle and you tell him, "I got some shampoo for you stuff." And he says, "No, no, no. I I don't need the shampoo." But I was just trying to be nice to him. I didn't have any shampoo. I was trying to be nice. Awesome. So here's an exception to the rule and that is that if you're trying to show other people that you're he's your RV he's your this you tell people look look what I want to give the RV I want to give him these gifts I want to give him shampoo I want to give him wine and now other people are the RV because of that they they see how much you're him and and that gives the RV co it's not the oneonone the one-on-one is also Even though you're giving him at the same time, that's not but if you're doing it in front of other people and giving the to the in front of other people that's okay was once a guest opened up barrels the 50 liter barrels that he already sold to somebody else. How could he do it? says Ravihuda told by the way I sold these barrels and I'm not opening them for you. They're already sold. I'm going to I'm opening I'm opening for you for for the cup. Not I'm not going to Don't worry. I'm not going to have a loss a 49 liter loss here. I'm going to I already sold it says you know what it means when the galador comes to your house. Yeah. He would open up a a 50 liter bottle just just for whether he sold it or not is not important. He would have opened it just for him 100%. I know people that would do it. I was at house time. He was opening up $500 bottles of wine. Why? Because that's what he wanted to do. That's what he wanted to be with it. So regardless of he was able to sell it later or not sell it later which obviously didn't but I'm saying that's the people do that when they have somebody they like whatever it is they open up a nice battle he wanted to be so yes it was sold and he was he wasn't going to lose on it but even if he was even even if it wasn't sold he would still open up that bar that barrel of what he goes into the the devil's house and he knows The guy is not going to drink from the wine. He's a novel. He's not he's not allowed to drink wine. And and and and he has uh this this bottle of wine. It's making a lot of noise. He's going in. He look like he's a he's a nice guy. He knows he's not going to take it. Or fill your bottle with uh instead of bringing vodka, he brings water. And the guy thinks it's it's vodka, but he's not going to drink it anyways. He's fooling him. This is like a lot of people from the from the city the the mayor and his people not in New York and other places because now you're giving to the in front of other people and that we said is you're not allowed to sell a shoe of an animal a leather shoe of an animal that died and pretend that It's uh was it came from an animal that was there's two concerns. First of all, you're tricking the guy. The guy doesn't want a shoe with leather from a dead animal which is inferior, an animal that died from old age or whatever. Not good leather. You have to be careful because the shoe might contain some How did the the animal die? Maybe it was bit by a snake. It has snake venom in it. here. Something like this. Send them now. Oil. Oil will flow to the top. It's heavier. And uh oil is more expensive than wine. So you lie. Now he didn't pay for it. It's a gift. So So okay, I'm allowed to give any gift I want, right? No. He gives his friend. So it's really wine. He gives him oil. So now in those days they used to dip the bread in in oil. See, oh I got oil. Let me invite 20 people. He invites all these people. When they came during the meal he realizes wait a minute. He he put his ladle inside and he pulls out red a red sub. What's going on here? He smells it. It's wine. O. So now all his guests are sitting there and they don't have anything to dip their bread in. He went and he hung himself. Okay. So do something like this. It could be it could be it could cause somebody to lose his life. So don't don't trick him in the beginning. Say, "Oh, I brought you a whole barrel of oil." But in fact, it's really white. So says the Gar based on this if that guest wanted to give his portion to somebody else it would be very problematic. Why? Because there's no more food in the kitchen. So if the guest decided, oh I want to give my portion to one of the kids and the balabayas will go and get me another piece of chicken in the kitchen. But there is no piece of chicken in the kitchen. Listen what happened over here. There's a terrible story that happened. I'm not sure if it's before this or after, but it's that if a guest wants to give food to the children of the of the host, he has to ask permission. First of all, sometimes it's it's not healthy for the kids. The the host doesn't want his kids to have stuff with dye or whatever it is. So, so don't give them the food. Ask permission. So, listen to the story. Ask permission. There's a person during the famine. He invited three guests and he had nothing to serve them. The some people three eggs or the amount of three eggs. That's all each one got an egg. As you can imagine, it was famine. This kid didn't eat for who knows how long. He's starving. And he goes and he begs the the guests if he can have an egg. [clears throat] Each one gave their own thing to this to the kid. He found this kid. One egg stuffed in his mouth. We have a picture mish like this. One egg stuffed in his mouth. One egg in the right hand. and one in the left hand. The kid is starving. He killed his kid at a busha. What am I going to give the guest now? He killed this kid. Story's not over when the wife saw that her son is dead. Somebody just asked me, I forget it was the loaf. Seems like she fell off. The person fell off by themsel. We just had it a few days ago or a few weeks ago, two weeks ago maybe. Means she jumped off the roof. She committed suicide. He also went up to the rooftop and he jumped off. From this story, three Jewish souls were lost because the guests didn't listen to and they gave the kid food without asking. Why does it say that? He said three people died because yeah, if you know if you read the story three [snorts] people died. So why say oh and three people died because of this because the the forgot to say this saying this. So at the end of the story sticks in name just so you know that the whole story is the whole is there's no need for it. You're right. So if you send a thigh to your friend to another Jewish person, if it's whole, you don't have to take out the because the Jew knows he has to remove it. But if it's cut up, you have to if it's cut up. If it's a non-Jew, so doesn't matter even if it's you don't have to take out the and we're going to see why the guy and you're not allowed to sell a guy. This would be a big problem if you're passing like this because we sell to the guy. All the tra in the go to the guy and one is because one reason is because you're fooling him. The guy if he knew that he wouldn't buy it. We're concerned that the the non-Jew is going to turn around and sell to to Jews. Another we have three here. We have the ratio the safa and the saf of the last is here. Don't tell an nonjew, please go to the store and buy me a piece of meat. Here's $100. Go buy me some meat. Because of two things, because the the guy that you're using as your messenger might steal from the Jew. You don't want to you don't want the guy to not pay him. The guy has your $100. He goes and he flashes $100 to to Jewish butcher. He buys $100 worth of meat. Then he runs out of there without giving the $100 to the Jew. So it's not it's everything. If the non-Jew shows up, it's obvious that he's not a non-Jew. He's wearing a non-Jewish necklace. I don't know what comes to the store. So the Jew selling the meat is going to think, "Oh, he's buying for himself. Let me give him the tra I just I just had today. Let me give him the and then the guy's gonna come back to the Jew and give him the when you send we're just going through the the three that we learned is going to make um going to explain how it all fits together. >> [clears throat] >> If you're sending a tow, even if it's cut up, you don't have to remove Now we're saying even is okay if it's a place that they announce make announcements. In other words, it's a place that you could buy from the non-Jew. What's the reason they allow to give him sell him a cut up piece since that day there's no announcements? The Jew will come to buy from the non-Jew because he allowed to buy from non-Jew. So it must be that we're talking about a place that there's no so let's see the chart the ratio you give the you don't have to remove okay but you see all the way on the right now let's go to the middle case what's the middle case you're not sell first we said because we're just repeating because you're fooling him because he might sell to another Jew if it's talking about like what that's a place that there's no so in other words you're not allowed to buy from from a non-Jew no Jew will buy from him because it's a place that you don't announce if you don't announce you're not allowed to buy from a non-Jew push the button boom the middle case is talking about a case where they announce Yes. And therefore, if you sell this to the guy, he might go and turn around, sell to the Jew, and a Jew will be eating. Now, let's go to the last last case. You shouldn't use let's say you have a guy working for you. He's an Here, take a 100 bucks, go buy meat from a kosher butcher. Why? Two reasons. ask him because he might steal the money from the butcher see a non Jew showing up a customer a sell the Jew will end up eating asking if it's like the middle case that what the middle case we said it's a place that they announce and if it's the place they announce you're allowed to buy meat from a nonjew wait a minute if there's a that day they would have made announcements but they didn't announce Let's push the button. So the is talking about a place that no from the makes no sense. You tell me three cases. You just said three cases straight. It turns out the first case is a as you see in the chart. The last case is aism. The middle case is so it's a sandwich and that doesn't really go well. Usually everything is consistent. When I was learning this and this is many times I I learned suggest like this and I say to myself, "Wow, it just seems like a always says this." I might be completely off because I have a bad memory, but it just seems like a says, "Yeah, in you have a problem. You know that's the way it is. Yeah. the ra the middle is not middle and then always comes along after I have to ask I have to ask just seems like it's a comes along says no no no no let me explain to you it's not no that's a problem to say everything's so let's just do this says yes it's just like this comes and says no No, no. Everything is consistent. All three are green. It's a place where they announce and if it's a place they announce, you're allowed to buy from the non. So, let's see how it works. In fact, there was in those places here. You can see he put in in the middle box in the first and the last and the middle one in red. It says There's no we're concerned that he's going to steal the money says it's consistent but there's the other way everything is the reason why sell to the guy because we're concerned what was the middle one again. Um the guy, why can't you sell a trade with the guy? Because we're concerned he's going to sell it in front of another Jew. And the second Jew that doesn't know it's flying, he's going to think that he sold him kosher meat and he's not going to hear that it's a says, "What [clears throat] exactly do you say? What exactly do you announce on the table? We saw in the first video they scream meat fell to the non-Jews. Why don't you just say the truth? Why don't you say that a tra went to the non-Jew and then people will be really nervous about it? Says then the nonjew won't buy. If you scream, "Hey, it's a tra they're going to get all nervous by it." says, "But by you not saying that's a tra, you're fooling the nonjew." And we just established you're not a fool. The non-Jew says who the non-Jew is fooling himself. What's the we have to understand doesn't fit with what we said before because before so we'll just repeat usually a piece of meat is kosher if it's kosher the guy is going to think that it's kosher but you selling him a piece of meat that's not kosher you're fooling him in that we said it's awesome over here it's different why is it different Because there was an announcement made. There was an announcement. Oh, the meat fell to the non-Jew. So the non-Jew should have asked, what's going on here? What do you mean it fell? Why did it fall? Why are you making an announcement? And they would have told him it's by him not asking, then he fooled himself that it's enough. If you offer information and you're misleading, that's also if you don't offer any any information at all, that's also misleading. Yeah, if you don't offer information, it's misleading. But if you if there's a certain announcement going around town and the and the go should have known from this announcement that it's tra and he didn't that then you say that's his problem says of listen to the story got this stuff but amazing stuff. was walking from one city to the other walking towards him. They bump into each other who listen to this thought. He thought that and were walking towards him to meet him to greet him. Wow. Oh, it's so nice of you that you came to greet me. You didn't have to. Why do you have to be yourself? He's being blunt with him. We didn't know that you're coming. Sorry, we were not coming for you. We didn't know you're coming. But in order not to bother him too much, he says, "Had we known then we would have gone way out of our way. But I have to tell you the truth. We didn't know. We didn't know you coming. Why do you have to be so honest with him? He thought that he was getting we were honoring him and now he took away his honor. What was the point? We're fooling him. Says, "No, that was his his problem. He fooled himself. So we have to really understand what's enough between all these cases. So in this particular case, they didn't say we're coming to you. They didn't say heyra, we we we came to greet you. They didn't say anything. They were just walking. You want to think that it's you. Let's say here, let's say you open up a bottle of wine in your house. It's a $200 bottle of wine. I have a guest and the guest says, "Wow, thank you so much for opening up the bottle of wine for me." He made his own his own assumption. "You don't have to fix that," says Rob. That you don't have to fix. If he thought on his own that you're opening up the bottle of wine for him, fine. The problem is when you open your mouth and you say, "I'm opening up a bottle of wine for you. Have a wonderful day. Merit the of spreading Torah throughout the world. Sponsor Ashir today. mdysponsor.com [music] or sponsor atmop.com.