CHAZARAH - Chullin Daf 133 | "Nothing but the Daf" with R' Eli Stefansky

[music] Good morning. Where are we starting today? very very easy stuff, especially if you've been doing the DA for a while. If not, it's going to be a lot of fun. We're going to go through a lot of musim that we learned in the past uh quickly cuz we have a list like a list of 24 things and we have to fly through them just there are things that hopefully you're familiar with. It'll be a lot of fun. So, let's talk about this. So we have the thea these are the three parts of the animal that you must give from every animal you must give to a as a gift the forleg the jaw with the tongue and the ca part of the stomach. So can you divide these to different? The answer is yes. But how much and how? So you can give the four leg to one person to one and the stomach to another one. This you could split in half. There's enough tongue enough cheek to give to two different people. gar. So they take this if you ever look at the x-ray somebody breaks a bone. So they have like two bones in the in the for leg. So they you split it bone and bone two and were able to eat right off the you could you could divide the into two and give it to two separate says we're talking about a bull. The idea is that when you give an says you should give it has to be it should be something that's you don't give a guy oh I give you a gift here's a bowl of tuna you give him a nice steak wrapped in a red bow something if you have a four leg of a bull which Benny tells me weighs 10 times the amount of that of a sheep so you have 10 times more meat so you can divide that in two but a little sheep you give the the to one person depends how much meat It is that's all about the amount. We know that if you if you have fruit that don't have that you didn't give the true yet. So here's something similar says you didn't give the gifts that you're supposed to give to the and you started eating. It's a bad thing. You didn't give the gifts. as if you ate food without giving true. [cough] Don't worry about it. It's that's not the only way to eat them. The mat is you have to you have to roast it. You have to grill it on a grill. If you want to put it in your oven or something, no good. You want to you want to cook it, no good. And you must eat them with like something like this picture. You're supposed to eat it with mustard. What's the idea? The idea is that you have to eat it like like kash like malus the best. In other words, the number one way to eat it the best tasting way. So question I don't like grill. I I like I like the cooked in water. That's how I like it. Let's say so for me reminds me of the the mishabur. I once had a whole argument. found it in somebody that cannot stand fish can't all my children tuna it's people that cannot look at they see tuna they run so to eat fish on chabas says no so what if so says right on the spot the way you like it some people cannot stand mustard my mother-in-law included she won't even allow a battle of mustard on the table some people hate ketchup It all depend. I like ketchup. You like this? So you can eat it the way you like the most. So then so he says if you like all three ways of cooking the same exact they're all even then we tell you to eat. This says a very nice thing. Depends how you like it. What's the reason? The word means my anointed ones [clears throat] supposed to eat it like a king. If you don't know the halak, so that's why I asked you yesterday, but everybody could calm down. Really didn't know. I said, "How are what's the best way to eat it?" I was hoping you'd say roasted with mustard. And if you don't know that, you don't you don't get mad. You're not ready for But it's not true, D. It's okay. Even if you don't know it, you could still get says doesn't mean he doesn't know that he's supposed to eat it with mustard. says it's not true. What is true that if you're a kay and you don't believe in one of the 24 matas you say this is not a this is not doesn't care right you speak to some youth sometimes I had a unfortunate opportunity I believe in hashem I believe in just this this that so that means I don't I'm for a little bit in some of these then if you're ker in some of the then you don't deserve the that the one that brings the the on top of them is if you believe in then you get the money get the the gifts maybe it's only the says if you don't believe in but what if you believe in and other things maybe then you should get Midnight coming. So now I just want to remind everybody if you were with the Shir for a while when I read this this is all going to come back and then I was thinking to myself yeah but what what about 3 years ago? Where were you a lot of us where were we three years ago? Do we know what uh if I told you pus? You know what pus is? What's pa petitim? What's bila? What's it? What's it? So, let's go through it real quickly. Let me show you this. It is pouring oil, but the second time, not this. [music] This is this is a ma person's bringing a ma. I got to I got to pause. Person instead of bringing cardboard brings a ma to Hashem. It's made out of flour. It's much cheaper. Leah is mixing it. Kim is taking out a portion and that portion is what he puts on the rest he gets to eat. He puts that in a cliches comes. That's the lev frankincense. This might be this might be this. Yeah, this is the put salt. [music] Oh, hagasha. We all know what corner. Oh, it's an raises it like puts it on the and now he eats the Okay, so now let's see inside two lines from the bottom. He's putting the oil all the way at the end mixing the oil together with the flour. We didn't I didn't show you that. So you take the the harder it's a hard one and you you Yeah. You make it into small pieces. Sultting it lifting it up like a little shaking it is putting it on the southwest corner back [cough] taking off a small portion putting on. Let's see Malika here. Here's Malika. Not this sorry this one. Malika is the way they sh the bird. It's with the nail right through the back of the neck. This uh receiving the blood in a in a vessel the music is >> yeah I don't know what's the musical down to receive the blood has spray the blood on the goto so this this is so woman who didn't listen to her husband she's with another man so he brings it to she drinks this water and if she's a ver she will tells her to leave the base so there shouldn't be any tum just in case she does explode very fast here we even have fast speed for those that don't know what it is here we go boom it's fast speed [clears throat] Oh, kaboom. They don't What's this? Maybe it's for later. Here, I'll just show it now. Why not? This is Gishmak. Everybody needs to watch this. Oh, [snorts] on on that Rashi says because usually it's the the he says, "No, we're talking about the they say the or whatever they're involved in the roof. There's a somebody that has he comes to md and they do a whole procedure, but part of it is with oil. So the leftover oil goes to the They do this and any that doesn't admit to any of the he doesn't get. So finally after everything it's because he doesn't admit that this is a a legitimate but if he does admit it's but he doesn't know he doesn't know he's supposed to roast it he still is eligible to get the mat so fine don't worry you can get mas especially now after we did the also something We learned before that since there there are blood vessels with that contain a lot of blood in the jaw. So you got to be very careful of those blood vessels not to eat them. If you don't know how to do in the jaw you don't give him that. So if you roast it, the blood comes out there and if you cook it in a pot, you put in the that's what does made of. So there's another that says it sticks it in, you know, without paying attention, you have to slice it. Usually you take salt, you put on a piece of meat and this blood over here because the the vessels are so large and they contain so much blood. You have to give it a little cut then salted then the blood comes out of tested us. He wanted to see how we understand about our boy showed in the video and it is a minute I've been to many tish there is an idea of grabbing the sh. So is that legitimate? Is not legitimate? I guess they do it, but how does it fit into our is it appropriate to grab and show how much you love it or you wait back and wait until somebody gives it to you. So he he asked he asked this who is by the way. I'll give you a list of people. Tell me who's who's a in this list. Which one of them is a >> you say you say >> and >> and you get kids there almost everybody's a besides it's a sha because it's usually you know sometimes we go rabba rava is the famous gumar the famous what does he say that rava >> rava was he quotes Russian Yeah, Rashi says, but it it depends on how you it seems. Okay, there's a famous Gmorra says that a Bay live to be 40. Rabbi live to be 60. Maybe I reversed the names. I don't even remember anymore. The other way >> was 60, Rabba 40 because they were both from they both they were both descendants of they were and die at 18 or whatever. So then because taught to so he got to live to be how long 40 and or the opposites 60 but also means so he got 60 rabbi only learned was 40 I want to tell you a story they've been holding in and it's very hard for me to hold in a story last year before I asked to d for me for I was going through a hard uh issue banks were this that Oh, my can't make this stuff up. You know, I had this uh Kool-Aid factory thing. I had a Kool-Aid factory and I sat on it from before I moved to try to sell it, try put on the market, this that garnished two days, not not 90 days, not 6 months later, two days after Shana, I received an offer. Finally got an offer that I liked. That was good. those two days and it took many many months but it sold to that person that gave me the offer two days after so I want to thank the a and does work saw with my own eyes two days after I asked to die for a specific thing so I'm going to be I'm going to ask not to die for this year for health not I don't want to scare anybody I don't have any health issues But health I think is very important. Spend a lot of time learning, not exercising. I feel, you know, I'm getting older. I feel like not as strong as I used to be. Not as this. No, I haven't been to the doctor. Maybe that's the problem. I should go. But health is the when he grabs it, he's showing how much he loves the mitzvah. It says in the to give okay so that's it doesn't say by everything doesn't say by it's better that you you're given not you don't take by yourself >> you grab it from a child >> what >> from a child they grab it >> you grab from everything right we'll see yeah even yeah all all these things are because you're taking from somebody else in the beginning I thought it was appropriate to grab I'm showing how much I love a mitzvah. A person of my stature. I'm grabbing food like like a little kid from kids from people. It's the mitzvah. I stop I stop grabbing I would say give me I stopped grabbing I would say give it to me is talking about the sons of that they were they went after they were stealing what does it mean stealing they And they would demand they say give me our portion of the micer. You have to give from your fruit. You have to give 2% truma 10% to the levy. Knock knock. Could I have your 10%. They asked it. [snorts] That's stealing. Don't ask. Don't put anybody under pressure. If they decide to give it to you, great. They decide to give it another lady. Another lady. I also amino. So now I don't even ask. So, as I was learning with my kuso, he's like, you know, he gets a lot of he has a full freezer usually. So, he says, "You know what? Now I have a problem. I can't really call my sister-in-law or my sister-in-law and say, "Hey, we ran out of out of tongue. I'm ready for new shipment." It says, "It's not it's not appropriate to ask. And if they gave me, I'll take it. come upon him that would refrain from taking theers they would take says I don't want to be called a fressor and I don't want to take from somebody that needs it more than me it's super interesting because the ma you're talking about something that's superv holy has a lot of it's you see that you know you're supposed to maybe should maybe you should But at the end of the day to to show restraint to show that you're not a you're not a this you don't even take from who wouldn't want to eat from the from the he says says but coming up then I would eat I had a reason I want people to know I'm aim there's a lot of meat a lot of we learned there was one of the in they used to so there's a lot going fine I'll take I guess I'm not going to hurt anybody because there's so much me going around says but if you want to prove that you're there's another way to do it let him do everybody know he's a [clears throat] very interesting little nat to me a person who gives shim and there's a there's no there's no way he doesn't go to sh he could get he's not supposed to go to sh at that time he's not supposed to do other people regular people they go go do bigger but I'm assuming I don't know cuz what the tamid also sat there and learned. So I guess there was like different uh you know tam came in tamil came out he was just busy busy giving shim he didn't [clears throat] have time to go to to go do banana oh the second shot is that he had stomach ailment he was likeish but kesh was like him couldn't his whole life suffered from from some stomach issue maybe you know like and he he couldn't like he couldn't go he couldn't go to sh to do because he wouldn't last over there so he had to stay So this is an interesting trick especially you live in every building has some some guy some person that's you know like you have you live you live in a place that your neighbor is a very big usually goes hand in hand he's spends time learning she doesn't have money so I have a trick Here's a good trick. You take out the word. What's going on here? You have a that's a popular. You have the Rabi Shoberg, the Donnie Fines of the world of Remy Cohen. They get a lot of gifts. Why? They're popular. People like them. So, they give them. So this kayen Donnie Fine could say listen I know last year and the year before and the year before you you Avi come ask you give me your matanis you go call Avi Avi listen I have what's the name of your group your WhatsApp group that you get people I just ced now I didn't even plan this what's the name >> mitzvah opportunity >> mitzvah opportunity has a group with hundreds of people how many people >> 1300 >> 1300 people on a group and he says listen my boy we need to get braces for this and this person his teeth just got knocked out and he can't afford it and people just give 30 finish. He goes and he he gives money. Okay, fine. So the guy the guy's busy busy with doing he knows of a of a family that that can use a good tongue for so he calls up a he says listen I know you're going to give it to me don't give it to me go directly go directly drop it off by now is allowed to eat the tongue this is not truma that you're not I'm not allowed to eat truma this is this is I could eat it if first has to go to you but if you make a nice dish you want to give it to me great let's avoid the whole thing instead of you dropping it off. My freezer is stuffed. I don't have any room anymore. Give it directly to the to the it's a great idea. Great. So, let's see. The is going to qualify it. It not so says here here's a story and let's see if it works. A true story went to this individual's house. Now, there's a child what his name was. So, that's good for us. his name is not you think about and the unbelievable he used to do we learned I don't know anybody on that level that would she three animals three $2,000 animals just he could give the most [snorts] the best part of the animal the tongue in those days with a little mustard to each guest each guest gets a whole thing the rest you could toss out or give to the slaves whatever it Here two. He made them the best type of veggil. It's called So there was a there's a waiter. I guess this guy >> was a kite. >> Yeah. Well, hold on. This this bal bus was a pretty wealthy guy. He had waiters. One of the waiters was a kay. This waiter, he used to receive all the gifts, all the mat, the he got from the owner. So tells him straight out, don't do me a favor. You're going to get a a tongue here, right over here. See this plate? I need tongue. The beginning, I want to taste tongue with mustard. The waiter had no problem. Gave it to him. Refused to eat it. Why? Because demanded it. Ra told him what to do. That night had a dream. It's like wearing a coat that's torn on a freezing day. Putting vinegar on washing detergent, ruining the washing detergent. What's singing the songs? What's What song do we know? Is it? Oh, it's you're teaching to a bad heart goes to the rabbi. I dreamt a dream. What should I do? Maybe because you taught us that's not a problem for the owner to directly give the tongue to saf it. I was too mak something. It shouldn't have been m. Interesting, huh? Thinking that out loud. I don't want to eat it. I want to be super mak. But if the rebi says this is okay, then you do it. You eat it. You don't don't be more mak than your interesting. >> Yeah, I said that. Maybe that's why they they read this puzzle to me in my dream. Says, "No, you didn't do anything wrong. You were right. Ra was wrong. When a individual wants to circumvent the kay and then he knows that is everybody knows him. Fine. You go to 18-year-old waiter. I don't know how old he is. And you're the galador and you tell the waiter, "Listen, I'm the galad. Please put the tongue right over here." The waiter has no choice. He can't say no to rava. The guladar. Who in this room would say no to that's forcing you can't forcefully you can't force a to give to someone and another thing if I spoke about that has no money or has a nice he has nice money I guess is fine my trick doesn't work for that's wealthy that's not wealthy so two reasons no good what >> married >> who's daughter Yeah, >> the second marriage and was wealthy. That's Yeah. Okay. >> I don't remember. So then why did they tell me in my dream this pos the famous you know how many times have you heard the story that two two two sons of are fighting over the and so you have the older one that's supposed to get it. You have the younger one that's a little bit more of a or he thinks he is. So he wants to get it. So So what does he say? He says, "The Reb, the Tata, came to me in dream and told me I should be the Reb." So the other one says, "So why didn't they come to me in my dream? I mean, I'm the Reb. I'm supposed to give it to you. Shouldn't he come to me and tell me to give it to you?" Oh, so here's the terreta. Ah, he couldn't come to Rava. Ra, you weren't out of a dream from the Tat. So he had to come to me. Okay. Why was Ra? Why was he going to fear him? Because he he ded for rain to to to impress the even though there was no need for it. Or says this to you right here. You did the wrong thing in so you got a little punishment. But what's the simple meaning in the when you teach that's not appropriate? You're gonna have fire that you don't even have to blow on. It's so strong. What does like throwing a stone at? Here's the cover. Oh. It's not important. Whatever. You get the idea. Throwing. Fine. says that if you if you have a partner that's a or a guy, you have to make sure that the piece of meat has some sort of on it, some sort of that you took it because you're even with a only if you have a partner that's says, "Oh, there's not not too much over here." He said yesterday means a store when the non-Jew was sitting at the store. So everybody realizes that he's a partner. Says, "Oh, if you s in the store, you realize the partner is also sitting in the store. So why do you have to make the meat? Maybe it's just a client. Maybe the the guy is also a client. Not a client. What's the better?" A customer. When the when the non-Jew is sitting by the register, then you know that he's a partner. That makes a lot of sense. Why would I put a cousin by my register? It doesn't make any sense. So the client's also you should know that he's a partner. So why do I have to make a Sometimes you trust the you should trust. Nobody trusts the idol worshiper. When you have a partner, a non-Jew, and he's screaming across the eyes, don't charge him that, charge him this, why you getting involved? Obviously, you're a partner. When he raises his voice, you know that he's your partner. a broken leg. You have a an animal that you set aside as a carbon. Broke it leg can no longer be a carbon. It's called But nevertheless, you don't give you you redeem it, whatever. But you don't when you can't you don't have to give the gifts. There's no gifts. Why? Now there's there's something there's something called there's um something that uh some have to give covet to an animal the like if it has we'll see in a second some you don't know we're talking about those you sell on you now put on a scale you have to treat with respect So simple of what if a person is a partner only in one part of the animal you have a who's a partner in the head. So, okay. So, there's no there's no you don't have to give the jaw. And if the is a partner in the in the fore leg, you don't have to give the four leg. If he's a partner in the stomach in the you don't have to give the stomach. Okay. Says, "No, if you one, you for all three. They all go together. So if I'm in one out of the three the then he's as if he's a partner in all of it and whatever it is you don't have to give basically the question is I only get the head the says I get the head you get the whole body but I'm only a partner in 1% of the head now we have to see what it means same thing again I'm a partner in the hand I'm a partner in the intestines just says doesn't say in everything says means in that particular item in the head [clears throat] or only in the forg like you because you said if you're if you're in one you're in all but the question is listening why don't you add the one word will be so much simpler to understand why don't you just Say from everything it says not like you our case I get the head you get the whole body what are you from it doesn't help for others says the so let's do this quick should we stop here let's stop here because it's We'll have to start here on tomorrow. Have a wonderful day. >> Merit the of spreading Torah throughout the world. 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