CHAZARAH - Bechoros Daf 27 | "Nothing but the Daf" with R' Eli Stefansky

[music] the past month. I lost my precious son, my son from the first marriage during his military service. My dear son was killed on the circumstance of valley. Terrible, painful mistake. Nevertheless, as believing Jews, descendants of believers, we know we know that nothing in this world happens outside even when we cannot understand his way. Since then, life has not been the same. These nights blend together. The longing never stops. And his absence accompanies me every moment. There are mornings when it's extremely to get up and begin another day. And it is precisely here that I want to tell the Rebi something he may not know. The Rebi chair gives me another reason to get up in the morning. There's there's there's there's daily commitment to our holy Torah even when things are difficult even when my heart is broken I know there's another d to learn another to understand another day when I can hold on to the refuse to let go and through all this without even knowing it is part of the strength that sustains that is why I wanted to take a moment to say two simple words thank you thank you for the thank you for the joy thank you for the thank you for the dedication and thank you for being able to reach not only the minds of those who learn but also the hearts and souls. The reb may not know me, but I want him to know that here in Cleveland, Ohio, there's one Jew for whom his children are inseparable part of his life is deeply grateful that every day with great respect, commend preaching, heartfelt gratitude, Ravenstein, YP, a simple Jew, it said in Hebrew, Yudash. All right. By the new peric, brand new perk. There's a special that you can't just go and give the you have to take care of it. You have to make sure that it's old enough, it's mature enough, it could take that it's not too much of a burden on the cen. How much? If it's a small animal only 30 days and a larger animal 50 days comes a little earlier and says listen oh no no did I skip and says when it's a smaller animal it's actually 90 days not 30 days comes over and says I want my my animal earlier here has the is going to explain don't give it to him and if the animal has a blemish and the kind is not going to to have an issue here it's not going to be a burden on him I want to eat it right now today give it to him interesting listen to this if you give a ken any gift anyhic gift even an animal he's not allowed to refuse it you knock on his door I have a sheep for you He can't say I don't want a sheep. So what if you have a k that you really love? He does a birusan. You know what I'm saying? Busan times three. So what if you want to like you know enough is enough. You knock on his door. Give sheep. Imagine >> I love you. >> I love and he has to take it today. Here show your sheep. >> What's he going to do? Can't go anywhere. He's tied down to a sheep. So that is awesome to give you and give it to me and I want to be I want to do it today. You say it if you say it in you only have a year. What's the year from his birthday to his birthday? Not our year of el to el. It's the year his year whether he has a blemish doesn't have a blemish is going to explain how we learn from the what if he developed a blemish within his year and again this is we're going to see on this what it means exactly that he's permitted to keep him for a full year from the day he's born >> huh well that's later on yeah we're going to see Does it 30 days? Not 30 days. After after 12 months, let's say you have a happened here in where a person forgot to get a a partner and he had a a firstborn sheep. Now what? It's a big problem. And the the the came and they put a guy designated a person a home that they shouldn't work him, you shouldn't this. It has you have to wait until he has a m it could take years. You only have 30 days if he develops a mum after the 12 months says how do I know these 30 days 50 days 30 days for a sheep 50 days for a a cow you have to keep him and and and bring him up and not give it to the king. So let me show you this. This is talking about your human give to me. Let's say so I I did it in green and green red and red the matches up which is 50 days is 50 days we know that is 30 days so that goes with now the question is why did you skip why do you what's the seder over here so says and oh Yoshi did a little nicer but mine has a little bit of a passes to it. [snorts] We have this is a visual. You have the bikurim, you have the the so 50 days, boom, it goes like that. So this almost makes sense because the first one, the first thing in the P, the goes to the first animal. Second thing, okay, so let's see the So the says goes on that goes on the right without the visual I think it would be very hard to see what's flying here. Maybe it's the opposite. Who said maybe the the 50 days of goes on a sheep? The the first thing with the bikurim goes to the first animal and the last one which is the bkar goes on the second animal the sign and over here you can see it's slightly maybe I don't know the first green goes on the green the second red goes on the the second animal okay says oh this oh no this is the question maybe it should go like says, "You should put the the next to the which is 30 days." Okay, so we're going away from this tass. So again, the word applies to the not to the tass is a whole another doing. Now what's the for the sign? What's the how many days for a sheep? 30. I'm adding another one to the to the so it should be a total of >> 60. But only gets 50. So right away maybe it's 60 according to what you're telling me. You're adding you're adding the word it means another 30. So it's 30 plus 30. This the amount the total amount goes to very rare in chass but it's we've seen it before that we have a general idea but the details have be 30 days decided this one gets 50 and this one gets 30. How much does have to take care of the 3 months, 90 days? We don't want to to be bothered by a little baby sheep. It's it's very difficult to take care of. So therefore, you take care of it, then give it give him something. Give him something that's raw. You give a kind of gift. That's a gift that he could use, not a gift that he has to take care of for three months. Because her teeth are very very thin and if because her teeth are thin she will die if she doesn't have a mother die. All right. If a comes to you and says give it to me early. Don't give it to him. There's even this great trick. We have a great video over it. Back toback videos. If you want to do well with Truman Meiser, you you you get in on the client, you find the kind that has the most grain, the most whatever he has, and you go and you work for him. You help him out, make him a coffee, you become friendly with him, you work in the actual grainery, and then he's going to be obligated. He'll feel a debt of gratitude and will give you all this tr that's so by you taking this animal, taking him taking it off his hands, he doesn't have to take care of this, it's annoying. A little baby if we give a bottle, wake up in the middle of the night, change his diaper, the whole thing for 30 days. You're taking it off his hand. So you're actually helping him. So that's why he gives it to you. Not fear. Here we got we got a beautiful video here. [laughter] The orim or the poor people that work in places to get the gifts that go to the poor. The gifts that go to the aim give them anything in return for their work. >> [snorts] >> They ruined the truma. They were how do you say they were corrupted like oh corrupted denigrated profained oh these are all better words because you did something that's inherently bad. So any if you're going to be you will die don't be you won't die you are yes die in other words every time every time the brings the will always ask why do you need what is enough and if you say that working for for pay to get the you don't says we're we're discussing they have a great way to get out of it. If you give a kayen, you want a ken to work for you for free. You save on the wages. Instead of hiring a guy for $20 an hour today, $20, $50 an hour, you save $120,000 a year for labor cuz you get the kayan for free. They're going to every coin wants to work there. He works for a few hours and he gets all these crazy amount of uh of trumus and misers. So I'm going to I'm going to tell you what to do. I'm going to pretend that everything that you were maf didn't happen. You're going to have to do it again. We're we're debating this. Let's make you didn't gain anything by giving to the kayen. You have to redo it. The problem is so take a look at this. I thought this might help a little bit. Here's our guy, right? Here's our guy on the left. The guy from the that scooter, the four-wheel, whatever it is. He's working on the thing on the left. I'm just going to explain it, then you'll see it in in actually it's animated. He's wearing on the left and what and in return he got in this case, he got the Truma in return. Was there Truma taken from the left pile? Absolutely. Did he take Truma? Yes. Is it potter? Yes. We're going to come along and say no it's not from it's look at the pile on the right it's if you eat from that it's it's you can get mis for that so I have to take some on the pile on the right so [snorts] the guy's going to go ahead and use the pile on the left to take the truma on the pile on the right but the pile on the right on the left is already is pter you cannot use that pile for anything you can't use that pile for trumis for anything Mea they they didn't make this ex here. Take a look real quickly. [music] He did a beautiful job here. Now it's he did the job. Want to say no we [music] should make it zero that he didn't do his job. Devil means that it's you have to he still didn't take from the devil. Say let's switch signs. Let's make it instead of [music] he's going to make a a mistake. He's going to use [music] the pile of kay to fill up truma [music] to give that to the can't do that. Why? It's really says the owner of the grainery. He can decide what kind he wants to give it to. Right? There's a lot hundreds of pounds of trumus and micers every year. He could give it to Alex cats. He give it to Donnie. He can give to Ravi Schoberg. He could decide. Now that decision is worth money. It's worth money, right? If I give it to Ravi Shberg, I get a free Espri maybe on, you know, there's different things. Give it to Donnie, I get a free apartment. Give it to Alex. He'll bring his real every day. I don't know. Each each client has a different benefit. It's worth money. It's worth cash. Now, it's possible that my daughter married a cayenne and the cayenne, my grandson is actually a kay, but I'm Israel. So, I I'm not the owner of this greenery. I want my grandson to benefit from this gazillionaire that has hundreds of acres of of grain. I want all that to go to my grandson. So, what do I do? I go to the owner of the grainery. I know him. We die. He comes to my shear. I say, "Listen, here's $1,000 and I want you to give $100,000 worth of Truma every year to my grandson." Why? He could give it to anybody he wants. So, why not? We're friends anyways. He made a little a little misumin. Yeah, you're allowed to do that. Why? Because anyway, he has a from it. a little so he could get but if if I was a cen and I wanted him to give it to my grandson that I can't do that set aside now I just want to point out the question later is why does it say truma there are other things that is could give like there's other gifts but we're talking about the gift of truma and another is bumps into him here's and give it to my grandson who happens to be that's awesome but one making this deal with another that's awesome I don't have a great picture I have this picture of here's the jaw these are the three things that you give to the kind the jaw the the forleg and the the ka and he's eating it with mustard Truma you can't redeem with money. Truma is Truma. So nobody's going to make a mistake that there's a transaction of money here between the Isl the the the grandfather gave money to the owner of the grainery to give the the Truma to Nobody's going to think that he tried to undo the Truma. But when it comes to the the it only has monetary and you can redeem it. I want to show you this rash. It's very important. People going to make a mistake. They're going to think that the four that he got is what? Yeah. The talks about a small amount of money here. I said $1,000. $1,000 I meant for like a huge amount of of of wheat. But What does the What does your gar say over there? What does um our gar What does mean the word? He's going to defile it like what does it mean? >> Huh? >> He might treat it >> as gifts. >> That's cool. Okay. So, for that we have to see Rashi. It's a good thing I'm showing you the rashi. It's a long one. I'll read it quickly. Goofy. Everybody knows that it doesn't go. Nobody's going to treat it like like mundane that because the grandfather gave money to the to the owner of the field. They go so is beautiful. If a wants to sell his gifts of the jaw and and the the forleg I can sell it to is that's the right here. That's what our should have said that it doesn't need mustard. When a eats it he doesn't have to eat it with mustard a has to eat it with mustard. He has to do it the in the the top way. How do you eat? How do I eat? How did I eat? What's his name's? Uh it is pastrami like mustard when when you eat without mustard that that you can't do. You hear this? The the mustard is the here. He's not going to roast it and he's not going to have next. So we have a very very simple here. I'll tell you the whole in one second. We have that in but where is anything directly close to so what countries are close >> see what else Egypt and one more called bubble cuz you can actually get there by foot take a week and a half two weeks how long he said about two weeks >> yeah but that that's a steer to what the garra says and you have to wait until people get back to bubble and that's over there okay whatever fine 3 to 5 weeks, but you don't have to cross the Atlantic. You don't have to fly in a plane for 10 hours. Those places you have to do, but they're so it's such a cool that you could do to I could I could go to the guy just straight out. I'm a give me your thing and I'll pay you. You could you could eat it with your tummy. You could the kids are do all the cool. I could be bo on purpose. Truma, regular truma is only bottled one in 100, one and two. I take two pieces of two two oranges. I take the third. Boom. Put it mix it up on purpose. These are one after another. Easy stuff. So there's no problem. I could pay for the actually that he would pay him either pay him it seems like from some or at least give it to him like imagine he didn't get any salary. All you got is you don't need one in 100 one and two is says we know was the descendant of and some every time we talk about it says the whole thing but he would eat when he was and we said you can't be anything on purpose and if you do what happens it's not a verified When he had wine that was he would put two/3 and one/3 of truma and after he had that whole mix of three he would take out one measurement and then he would just put in one and take out one. So that's very easy to say but slightly difficult to understand. And here you have a nice chart. This thing starts off with 23. Maybe I could even start over here. No. 2/3 of is red. Truma is yellow. So what do I do? I add on purpose one/3 truma. I mix it up. Now think about it for a second. If I were to remove one full jug of liquid now, some of it is going to be truma and two somethings of it are going to be if I mix it up nicely in in every measurement now that I take out I took out one/3 2/3. So let's go right there. Now the 2/3 on the bottom that's left over is going to be what? one and a third two two/3 truma in other words the mixture that's left in the >> okay all I'm trying to point out is that when you start out on the bottom you have >> twoins it's pure zero true in it but when I introduce one/3 truma and I mix it up >> and [clears throat] I take out a third so the two/3s that are left have a mixture of trum in it you masking to me >> it has a lot of truma in it 36% pure, >> right? >> Very good. So, 30 34% >> Truma. >> Then I go ahead and I add another jug of pure Truma. Now I have more Truma than the first time because I had a little Truma in the bottom. I'm still allowed to take out one. And then I add another one. Now you have even more. And I'm still allowed to take out one. So let's keep on going here. That's the cooler. Here we go. Check it out. >> Right. It's not a kind of thing because it's large. You get the idea. Another you don't have to take the the before you eat. You can say I'll do it after the meal. It's only us somebody that has a tomb that comes directly out of his body like like but let's say you go to you touch a dead person which is the highest level of it doesn't get any worse than that it's not a problem it's only when you're trying to consume it you got to touch it [clears throat] could separate the from the from the dough and a cayenne that never saw a carry in his life. He never had he's less than 9 years old. So he could eat it like she puts it on the at the end of a long stick and she puts in the back of the of it. In other words, it should burn off like we do for then she removes another piece of so that we shouldn't forget about story say story time went to relieve himself. Why does have to say that? I guess because he wasn't available. The were there and they had a without him. So a woman comes in front of them person who went to he and instead of waiting to instead of waiting till the night time eat right away she says we don't have the sprinkling of the of of the anymore he's in the bathroom. Wait a minute. Maybe he has something to say. This is actually what you said. You don't have to wait until asks. I don't understand what the whole does. You don't wait. But it's interesting. You go to the mikvah. You don't have to wait till night time cuz we don't have any say we don't pass like in other words you have to do same thing again somebody touched a dead rat he goes to the heuma immediately say once again we don't passing like him says the we're not we're not even by an hour yet we'll do two more minutes and that's itar It could be eaten in its year. It doesn't say our year of the calendar. It says his year. We go by his year, by his birthday, not by the world's birthday. We know this a year in a year. What does it mean? A year that goes into another year, his birthday. Let's say he's born on. So when comes he goes into the next year he's in the next year he's born he's born in one in one date and he went into another date and it's interesting they argue you get one day from each year is eaten like you get two days and a night not like you get one day and a night the bay How do how do know it? They learn it from the that's also it goes by the year of the animal and not by the year that we go by the calendar not by how do they know that it's here. Have a wonderful day. >> [music] >> Merit the of spreading Torah throughout the world. Sponsor a shir today. mdysponsor.com [music] or sponsor at mdy.com.