Appreciating the Chesed this past year

we read at the end of the year we read these CLW it's always at the end right before why we say that the the year and the curses should be over so somebody came to and told them that my year of the curses should be over so said say thank you you just made two engagements for two of your children this year and you're telling me that curse you we had how many n have this year we had 300 how many missiles came in from Iran this year in one night and nothing hit anything m one one whatever so we shouldn't say we should have a