8 Min Daf - Arachin Daf 16 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] you everything after zion due to the lengthy I gathered today we're gonna be very limited with slides and pictures we're continuing with hooker slush and horror that the famous a pay plus other the hobbits highly speak so much about according to Rashi it's a case of rutila's where Ruben speaks about Shimon in front of three people had Rubin believed that what he's saying is true he was he wouldn't have said in front of three people therefore those three people can go ahead and repeat it as long as they know that what they're saying is not causing damage if a person eats a really good meal by somebody it's also for him to go out in public and announce what a great meal he had there's a number of reasons given first of all it can cause other people to come and want to eat there and the person will law will lose everything he has or I'll cause thieves to come and Rob that house or I'll cause the government to come and tax them it's author to talk good about another person because through the good and this is a vaca lotion or through the good eventually you will speak when you will cause other people to speak bad about the person you'll say everything's great but he has this one flaw there are seven things that sir ass comes upon a person the famous one is Lashon Hara it also comes for Shiva's Dominic either I rise for murder and give arise schwa shove false swearing and ghazal haughtiness and sorry saying that is if a person has things to lend out but he doesn't want to lend them he tells people he doesn't have it eventually I'll have her ass in the house and I'll have to remove everything from his house and people see what a liar he was because the big dick who know the garments that the claim wears is very close in proximity to the parish of carbonara says the Gemara the Gotham actually create a cup I refer a person and each bed brings it apart for another a Vera the sinus is for she has dominant like we had by Asaph that the brothers diptych sinus in blood miss ensign which covered the air Bo Derek apart forgive arise the myths NEFAs is on top of the head that's Ferguson Rua from holiness the Avenue is / here I laid the belt the ocean is for denim that's the ocean does it pass scans the a fight is for our desire and the middle is for lotion are going to see in a second that the middle since it has bells and it creates a sound it gives a cap IRA for something that was on a very that was done through sound and it's it's which is on top of the head by the forehead it's for asses for as a poem which the pursuit always says that the mate sock has has to do with as he part now if a person watched in horror created damage then that's when Sir ass is inflicted on the person if it didn't cause damage and it was said in public then the meal is what creates the Caparo and if it was said in private then the Qataris creates it apart now murder if there's no a them to give ha straw so then they go income then you get person gets harassed and if a person has a straw of course you get me so the public also music apart for somebody killing in their midst so if we don't know who their attack is that's when we have that glass roof oh it's normally returned cos that's when the cattiness creates the Caparo healer arise the person that does that aveiro he gets her ass and that Seaboard they have a copper through the Muslim side Lashon Hara but Cena is the clerics as we said before but she has dumb him we know who it is is a glare roof oh no we said as well if why is that a person that speaks Lashon Hara gets her ass he sits in seclusion and the answer is because he throws lotion Hari created a rift between a husband and wife between friends and therefore his punishment is that he sits in seclusion he brings Birds as a carbene for his harass because birds chirp they make noise and his aver was a noisy Aveiro and now we're gonna go into a little bit of holistic haha rebuking a friend there's a mitzvah to rebuke a friend a person that you know you see observed doing something wrong it says effective here now you could not only rebuke him you're allowed to hit him and curse him as long as it's not out of love and out of not out of hate because it says Lisa survived ever you should not rebuke your friend in public please see so olive tight-lipped Arvin said I wonder if there's anybody in our generation that knows how to accept rebuke and replacement as I said I wonder if anybody in our generation knows how to give the rebuke with love as Rebekah Minori would give rebuked herb Akiva and when makeva said that or Minori said I added a lot of love to my rebuke the kumaras talks about a concept called another shil English ma person is acting with with his humble sluggish mom not for the right reason but Rashi explains that it means that he's he doesn't want to get rebuked his friend because he's scared that his friend is gonna hate him for it says a good martyr tremendous finish that is even on a higher madruga then somebody that gets rebuked lachemann for the right reason because I know is such an unbelievable thing anyone gives an example where Rav Hoonah amazing story would hit raffia by Rebbe and Roque by really complaint the shmoo lunch will told her to stop hitting him say stop it sooner peopie ready walked out before i said you know i hit him because he does such and such social said so why don't you say it in front of him scissor would anyone embarrass him the governor says that is wrong that's called an official English boy should have said it in front of his face up until what point are you moving to get rebuked when do you realize that it's enough 3-way my leg is either when the guy hits you back or when he curses you out or when he gets really upset at you there's a concept that when you stay by somebody go to another city stay with some his house you now that I use somebody else for a hospitality have to go back to that person what's together when can you move to somebody else's place when the guy beats you up or when the guy takes your stuff is about to chuck it out the window then here this is one of the most interesting game artists of all time when the guy beats your wife if he hits your wife then according to Rav you have the right to move because you might get into a fight with the guy who Shimano you don't have a right because since he didn't hit you you might not be that upset unbelievable Gemara and needs explanation is a fusion on that and why is it that you can't move to another hospitality spot it's because you will create a Bheema people might talk about the host and say that something's wrong with him and on yourself now there's a hahaha that a person should always do the same trade as his forefathers and finally for today what is considered Eucerin what's the minimum that somebody goes through and we could call it it has the name you saw him and the giver gives a few examples for instance if somebody has a custom garment made and it doesn't fit him well that's assumed according to zero it's if somebody intend to pour hot water and was cold water or if he put on his clothing and he found that that was inside out that's his room which I'm a hyper a virus and according to her over the famous Rover if a person puts his hand in his pocket to pull out a three coins and he pulls out two instead that is used to him and somebody that didn't have you soon for 40 days as the Gemara he gets his world kilo a llama his Manuka is forever and then as Charlie said the opposite if he doesn't have you soon forty days he should know that something bad might happen to him have a wonderful day