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MBD Weekly Chasidus Shiur #5

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MBD R' Mordechai Ben David Weekly Shiur

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Yeah. Okay. What's with the Why is it not working? [Music] This is for the for the camera holder. A pineapple soda. I got to use not holding the piece up there. See if it comes to like flavor. [Music] Who's she? Thank you. Oh, closing my phone was he was a reb of the sonar. He had many many many many great many many many great holy rebba they say he was a he used to travel with his to many different it's very famous today was the of the left simka the gb one of the gbas oh one of the gbas he was a very he was a son of the of the son of the and he was the father of the present an uncle of alter is parasyam Russia brings this to cannot have a person has to kill himself for you have huh story what what oh missed the story I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry it's it happens to be a good idea to do the story in beginning because this way people will watch from the beginning so hi everybody today's paras as We said before on the story of the so very interesting story there was there's a rabbi in the the five towns actually his name is Simfkitz was one of the first the lake yeshiva sent a minion of yungalite to uh Los Angeles to start a coil there he was one of the 10 and he was actually the assistant head of the coil um he had a son, what was his name? I forgot his name. He was uh Vilda kid. He was under three years old and he was uh standing on the porch on the second floor and he decided to jump. He jumped from the second floor. He fell on his head on the concrete, cracked his head open. They rushed him into the hospital and came running to to the Reb who lived across the street from them actually block away and he was mased the son of his mom is in critical condition. His head was mish cracked open. They came to the hospital and mishen open miracle. Everything just went back to the way it was and the kid is the kid was fine. So we should we should so now we have to open our heads to without cracking it open. can have cannot have cannot be sustained. Somebody has to be he has to kill himself for we know that you have to live not die for explains like this. A person has to be fearful to make sure that he keeps the properly while he's still alive in this world. Never say when I'll have time. Ah, I have time. I'm still young. I have time. Maybe you'll never get to that point. You'll never get old. It has to be very precious in a person's eyes every day. the day, the hour, the moment. As long as he's in this world, he still have the energy to correct all his impurities. Once you close your eyes, if he'll he'll give the the entire world for one day everything that he's did wrong. He wants to correct it and he wants to say he gives he says give me a chance. Let me go back. They're not going to let him go back. It was known that Rishlokish was a he was the head of the Gazlonim. And one day Raban saw him jumping over a river with a river. He was so strong. So he said, "Wow, you're so powerful. You this energy that you have, you should use for a very beautiful person. He said if you're going to do chuva, I have a sister who is more beautiful than me. I'll give you my sister." He married my sister. And that tak happened. He married his sister became his brother-in-law and he did. So the day that passed away says that whole group of Gazlon all the bunch of pirates who were who were his partners. They all died the same day. So they all came up. They they witnessed the greatness and the beautiful things that were being done to him. He was now he was amongst the they got kicked out. But it's they started screaming from pain. Why is he different than us? He was he was he was our partner. They said he was talking together with you, but now he's learning to so therefore he's a different situation. So they asked give us a chance to go back to this world. We're going to go back to this world and learn. No. No, no, no, no, no. It doesn't work that way. It's too late. You missed the boat. You should have done while you were still alive. This is the laws of the person should imagine. You have to think for a moment. What happens if I would die today? He said, "What if a person says himself?" You know what? It's my last day. Today is my last day. Imagine they gave a prison a chance. He went up to and he said, "Okay, you know what? You get one day. Go back one day." So this one day and this one day you have to prove yourself. This one day he would be he do everything in his every moment he would use for Imagine this is the day. Today is the day they gave you a chance to be. They gave you a chance to come back from one day before you die. How precious is this one day? This one day, it's it this is your day. You have a chance to do what you got to do. Tomorrow's too late. Doesn't have a doesn't doesn't have sustenance perish. So person should think I'm dead and he thinks what happens if I die today. Tomorrow is too late. Okay, I can't do anything tomorrow and tomorrow will give him another day. You get up tomorrow morning gave me another day. You trust me for another day. You got another day as a gift. So the person the fact that a person is alive today is only for one purpose. You can learn to and do mitzvah. So the a person has is only for the fact he has to. So the only day that we have is today. Today we're alive. We don't know what's going to be tomorrow. We see every day people disappear like nothing happened. Every day should be like it's brand new. Gives you another day. Gives you another chance. So every day is precious and we have a chance to do as as if it's the last day and if Hashem grants us another day tomorrow. So Hashem When do we say this this every week because the godis They said we should say this when we open because that's the through to create an iss. So when we create when we say when I say to you we say there are certain times there are certain times Hashem longs he wants us to create a that we should create a that's why it's called the Hashem has a that we should create throughout he wants like it says he says he looks down at the world he says wow Look at my kind. They're learning to do. They're doing mitzvah. When we say that we say on Friday night, we become a become a partner. How do we become a partner? Imagine a guy created a business and somebody walks off walks walks over to you and says, "You know what? I want to be your partner." How do you want to be my partner? I invested so many hours and so much money and so much into this business. But Hashem know he gives us an opportunity. How? By being made when we witness created the world. We become a partner to this that we create throughout especially that gives us gives us energy for the entire world for the entire week. Shabas when it comes to the end of Shabas that's so person has to connect to that time he has to ask from he shouldn't be disconnected because we go into a whole a whole week of six days of work so the six days of work we ask we shouldn't become disconnected through the work days through the through the just like a person has to be before he does something that I'm doing this when a person does that he connects to the entire kadusha of the of the six days of the week in this week's paria when the came up there was a uh you don't have there's not no nothing left for you huh [Music] I'll give you mine. So this week's this week's para we have the which came up in. So we have two we have the we for the he did by us did for us at at that we said was a preparation for which we got at says What mean put into us? He he he in he he implanted within us the like says in in's grandfather says Omar it says in the that six days of the week everything is closed. What does it mean that Shabasesh has the to open up the six days of the week? it's brought down in that every there are four basically four we spoke about it vaguely we're going to speak about it now vaguely also there there it's called and in every word in every world there are 10 spheres there the the three the three which is and there the seven midas rules this world through the seven and so every of Shabas there's a certain aliyah Friday night everything goes up one and the clippus which are underneath malus they stay on the bottom that's why in Shabas we have a great we feed a greater elevation we d differently we learn differently there's no yetahara not as much as during the And as the shabas goes on, it goes up and up and up. And the highest point is byer. When we say, that's what people scream by. They don't even know why they're screaming. But that's why we feel an urge to scream by because that's the that's when the highest So every Friday night as we say in we spoke about in one of the previous that the shabas is called the sh say is called kala because the kala is only for seven days and the next week that's also the brings that that next week is a brand new kala speaks about it at length. So every every shabas we get a brand new not the one we got last week. It's not the we got last week says he gives us the to speak that shabas we have to speak differently than we speak during the week. That's why Shabas if you speak you can't there was a famous song by by Leapish he sold his car right because you're not supposed to speak you can't speak business the mouth was created for said if I was there I would ask Hashem to create two mouths, one for and one for but then he realized that we'll have two mouths. We speak two mouths. So said leave it leave it at one mouth. Just make sure that you're you're focused on you don't speak like we said now has this mind in his heart which opens up his mouth shabas we have to watch our mouth even more so there's a shabas next piece shabas He brings the from doing your things from doing your business and to speak. You don't walk around dungarees and shabas, not in shorts. Shabas has to be kadusha. You wear shabas clothing. That's why the wear and the wear nice suits and nice hats. Some with a feather, some without. But it's shabasik. He called his clothing because why? Because the clothing is the person. You see a banker walks around with beautiful fancy clothing with a Rolex watch is worth 70 $80,000 or $100,000 and people respect him for that because the clothing that a person wears is certain respect that's but the clothing the person wears that's why some of the the wearers and all kinds of different but that's the what is what is Anything interesting that you're that you shouldn't walk on Shabas the same way you walk during the week. Oh that that in that a person should not run on Shabas. You're not allowed to run on Shabas. You have to walk. [Music] Yeah. So the the walking Shabas should be different than you walk during the week. Except if you're doing a mitzvah, you're going to run to learn to or running. You're allowed to run. But otherwise, you're not allowed to run in Shabas. Your personal agendas are on Shabas. That's why the gaba in the sh is allowed to have a allowed to keep track when people donate. But you're not allowed to who's the hash that he makes. Yeah, he's keeping track. You're not allowed to speak on Shabas the same way you speak in the week days. Says over there Toys rings over there and gimb that shim had an old mother and we know that old mothers bab speak a lot. So she would speak a lot on shabas by the shabas table. So he said to her mama shabasim today shabas and when she heard today's shabas so she said oh I'm sorry I didn't realize it's shabas. So in Shabas the has to be different. That's why many people don't speak on Shabas. It's not it's not it's not it's not it's not it's black and white. You cannot speak is not made for blah blah. Hashem who knows our thoughts and he knows what's going on in our hearts. He will pay punish the person who wastes his time on Shabas because now one day we have a day disconnect from our business. Instead of a person going to learn whatever he knows person or he goes to hear a good Russia to learn and he has so instead of doing that I don't know what is in the old days they have some some kind of game it's like Monopoly or uh what do they call these stupid games that people play? Shabas what? What? Chess whatever it is. Instead of wasting every moment Shabas is so precious instead of wasting it instead of learning instead of wasting time with the kite and you learn to every moment is diamonds. Somebody would walk into guy playing some kind of scrabble. Oh, Scrabble is a very popular game that people sit for hours and play Scrabble. If somebody says something to them, I'm trying to sharpen my mind. I'm doing these I played these games because it gives me better better. But the truth of the matter is he's not interested in so he has nothing to do. He's bored. So he plays games. He rather he prefers to play Scrabble than learning to put people to look down at him. You're wasting your time for this nonsense is going to answer. I do it because I want to sharpen my brain. He doesn't realize he says he witnesses upon himself that the precious not important enough. He thinks for a moment, even if he really thinks so, that this this game that he's playing, he's going to sharpen his brain more than learning to say, it sharpens even an idiot, even a fool sharpens his brain. If he really was looking to sharpen his brain, there's nothing nothing that will sharpen your brain more than because Hashem who is the source of Hashem is himself. He's the one that gave us this and every word of is part of it's it's proof. It's obvious that he's doesn't believe that Hashem is the one that gave the if he had really believed that the is so precious and give a gift from dear play in front of he sees you right now. He sees that you're wasting your time with this nonsense. Can you possibly believe if a person is standing in front of the king and he sees the king of if a person would realize that he's standing really standing in front of the king? If a person is standing really in front of a king, would he be busy with nonsense which he knows would anger the king? It's his she is so obvious that he says that he says he's trying to sharpen his brain. We don't see after a good game of nonsense games. We see this. The fact is that a person some people neb they sit on the phone and they're they're playing games for hours. Some people sit in bismet this is the the the the preparation for dinging. Sits and plays games. I said what are you doing? He said just just to clear my mind so I can d better. Yes. his life. He thinks he's fooling. Is that what he's going to answer when it comes up to after 120? I played these games. I only play these games because I want to sharpen my mind to be able to understand you. They're going to throw him down from the highest place in heaven to the lowest place. Please, this is the the throw a a stone into into an aiming place because that a person who wastes his time with nonsense doesn't believe that sees us every moment. Because if a person would believe he'll never do something against his will and a person wast his time considers that worse than every anything else. I gave you life life of this world 120 years and every day is so precious and you can acquire you can acquire the most precious things in the world and you're wasting it for nonsense. any other whatever it is. Okay. as a dog an hour, two, three doesn't remember. You're getting you're getting angry with what you're doing. He's not scared of his of his punishment. It's a love actually. have to have to be careful not to forget. And if you're going to tell me he remembers he's playing games, although he doesn't. He remembers It resembles those people who did nobody when nobody sees they said doesn't see us. They say doesn't see me. There's something that's even worse than all this. Hem gave us one day of the week to connect to him. So how do we connect him through this afternoon towards evening? They don't even come to because it's it takes too much time. They run to the wall blah blah blah. What happens after that? They sit down in the backyard. [Music] They're creating pain to before the before it leaves him with what? And if a righteous person walk by when they they see him look at this guy. And if a woman walks by, they're going to look at her first to look at a woman, especially a married woman. Brings them to bad thoughts. And how many bad things come out of these gatherings besides the fact that they're wasting their time will run away from them. If this is the way they behave says I'm not going back to this guy instead of doing and good drinks the kind they should go back to its source with happy to say to to witness how this this how he kept chabas. So instead of that what did they do? [Music] Wow. It says, "I'm witnessing. I'm witnessing and I'm witnesses every house, every yard, every backyard where people sat and this way the way he described it instead of learning they lose their money and they they become mamish poor. They don't leave anything for their children. says, "I I many times spoke about this in public and people listen and they listen. They listen for a moment but then they forget and every every has a speak about it and people listen to him to repeat it over and over then have double word because people who don't know it's nobody nobody tells them that it's a And in order to avoid this terrible sickness, the people should not sit this way. They have to tell them the terrible things that they're doing to themselves. They created this is but people should know this in general. It's a very very important thing to know. If a woman walks between two men and she's a nid first of all that creates you forget your learning and and not only that but it creates miserid it can kill them. Yeah. It's the end. say should a person should not walk between two. That's why it says that if you walk between two two women you should hold you should hold its cipher they walk around with in my hand. Yeah. to save you. Saves you from what the phone. Yeah, he has a member. It's avah. Yes. But you have to hold on to it. You have to walk around with it in your hand. Should never let let a woman walk between two between two men because it brings us terrible terrible things. Wish everyone. You can Google him. I didn't get a chance to Google them. No, no, few hund years ago. Imagine a few years ago people were playing Scrabble 200 years ago. In any case, you want to connect