Maybe we were STUPID?

We didn't talk about future. Maybe we were stupid. >> Was marrying someone who was and aspiring to be a great Tom. In today's day and age, you'd say, you know, you have to make a resume and write a paragraph of what you're looking for. What would the paragraph have looked for of what Rebbiten Shakar who she was looking for? >> There were no lists at that time. I think these lists are ridiculous. And there was no saying, I want somebody that only sits and learns for 5 years, 10 years or something like that. Even when we dated, you didn't even speak about the future. You you mainly worked on yourselves like are you compatible? Are you kind? We didn't talk about future. Maybe we were stupid, but [laughter] we didn't. >> There's a simpler way, a pure way, right? >> You wanted a mench. You wanted a nice person. You want somebody kind. You want somebody good, you know, somebody you could have a life. And we'll figure out what we're going to do.